the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something. Is the definition of value. NOW add the word HIGH. Domestic chores and taking a few things off my plate isn’t HIGH value. “Adding value to him” is a circular definition.
A woman that loves children doesn’t guarantee that she will nurture a man the same way. The expectations from the two are drastically different. If this were true there would be less divorce. It’s not just couples without children getting divorce and it’s not always a man’s fault when those divorces occur.
Thanks for the point on having boundaries, not accepting anything and everything so that the man can become a better version of himself🙏🏻 I needed to hear that!🙌🏻❤️
I agree that just as sticking within God's necessary laws/boundaries make us the best versions of ourselves, a wife's self-respect/ boundaries helps the man. Being a lean muscular man with chiseled face (model type) who attracts women of all ages, 3 things have kept me in line (married 26 years) 1. I would never want to hurt or betray my wife's trust in me. 2 . fear of God and the consequences of adultry which are too many to list. 3. The fear of losing my wife who has stated plainly "if you ever cheat on me I will divorce you" ( 1 of her boundaries) my wife is fine with a natural very Big Brazilian butt, thighs, hamstrings small waist 5"6 136 lbs dress size 6 and does not want to be seen on any social media platforms she only wants my attention and" likes" that's her self imposed boundary, so yes boundaries are absolutely necessary and garner respect from others and self respect. For example my wife won't dance with or hold an unnecessary conversation with other men, her own self imposed boundaries because she's married. Her boundaries make her a gem that I value and never want to lose, If I lost her in death I'll never remarry.
One thing Sadia, I don't want kids but I am still nurturing. A sign of a woman who is high value is knowing herself well. I know what it takes to raise a child, right, and its not in me. If you want kids just because you think it's the feminine thing to do, you're not very sself-aware
Absolutely agree 💯 I don’t think she’s self-aware to that extent. Even I don’t want kids as a conscious choice , and I’m still loving, nurturing and all that. I don’t want to be a parent, that’s all. And it’s ultimately the woman’s choice if she wants to have kids or not. No shaming women who choose not to have kids and indirectly calling them “low value” if they choose this route. Shaming in this way means Sadia isn’t high value herself. High value women don’t judge and shame other women and their choices.
@rachanag4750 I'm nurturing. I'm a teacher. But I've seen how much time it takes to raise a good and productive child. It takes hours of reading to them, you teach turn at home. You need to be able to build trust so they can come to you to be a better person. If you're not in your highest self, they could spend the formative years being destroyed by their parents. I'll bet 65%our more of people really don't have what it takes to be a parent because of their parents. If people would say that they need to be in their highest form of self and ready right, sacrifice their needs. That's what being a parent really means.
@@thebirdclan I agree fully with you. People just have kids coz they are cute or some random dumb reason of the sort which is very selfish. Parenting is another ballgame altogether and not everyone’s thing. For those of us who get this, we make conscious choices to be childfree. Doesn’t make us low value bitches - in fact quite the opposite. We’re conscious souls.
Everybody wants boundaries. I agree. I knew this was said about children. They will never ask you for them, but they do thrive within Safe and predictable boundaries. I haven’t heard it spoken about men, so this makes sense. The high value woman is clear in her chosen direction so it would help the man to know how to engage with her. Less confusion and less of her blaming the man for what she experiences, I imagine.
A high value woman is a woman who is intelligent, skillful, respectful, modest, creative, able to solve problems, and can also manage and make money and raise children with the best effort and care for the family as a partner/ leader. And should be able to manage a household, family, and more! ❤ Being a real woman is the highest calling in life because you have the most responsibility since you are the one who has to give birth to human beings, make sure those human beings are taken care of properly and nurtured well, teach the young ones good values and also be an excellent support to your spouse so he can do his best for the family and society and also be able to make the environment beautiful. It’s a lot! Don’t take this calling lightly! ❤️
When I married my husband and had 3 kids, I was the one who added value to his family’s life. But in return they made my life worse by abusing me. There was no where to go because they would find me and also torment my loved ones as punishment. So my value was stripped down. His mum constantly broke my stuff so I didn’t even have nice clothes to wear or for my kids and the experience made me completely dependent on ppl who wanted the worst for me. It can happen to anyone.
Hello Sadia, thanks a lot. Your advice is amazing and really helpfull. Please keep it up. I am sure lot of people wait for your sessions and bless you . May God give you the most blissful life with your partner.
This reminds me of a reel where they husband tells his wife he’s leaving her because he needs a woman like the one described here and the wife said, wait don’t leave I need that woman too! So they went and tried to find that woman together
What ? That's a weird comment . Why would you marry someone you would look at like a burden ? Being called a burden by your husband is um , disgusting. I know because my abused as a child - ex , called me this . I promptly divorced his alcoholic coke head ass .
@@jenniferbloh-michael8662 Because there, unfortunately, exist some women out there expecting a man to behave like a "caretaker" towards them. There exist many instances of men sharing their stories with abusive female partners, behaving exactly in the same way the woman in the video above described. With some of the most notorious examples constituting of the likes of Amber Heard and Jodi Arias. Similarly to how abusive men behave as well.
Woman that have great relationships with their fathers will ultimately have a great relationship with their male partners. If a woman has a tarnished relationship with her father, this will emulate into all her relationships. A woman must a great relationship with her father to have a great relationship with you
The problem here is that it’s actually not hard to have The traits or behaviours that make a woman “high value”. that means that because high value men are rarer- they hold all the leverage …
This is not about leverage control over another winning, making another submit to you making ladies have feeling they can't manage. It's about over coming your fear of being left, or used. What's the point of all that leverage ,but you still don't like yourself and are afraid of everything. You are jealous of women that's why you want control. Source out the real wound and you won't need leverage. You will have power within and peace to just love freely.
I didn’t uphold my boundaries and he treated me like shit because of it.. no, because he just wasn’t a good man to begin with but I have learned the utter most importance of boundaries
So very true IV always loved kids even tho I never wanted any & I definitely have boundaries & I will let them know in the nicest way the first time if they try to overstep those boundaries then I will be harder to make sure I get the message across
As far as boundaries, that is not true. There are men that will overstep those boundaries because they are who they are. You cannot make a man be a better person. They are who they are. Tell him you’re not happy and if he can not step up to the plate,let him go. I’m not going to stress over a man that won’t put in enough effort. They’re just not datable.
I’d also like to add that ppl think it’s so easy to walk away from abusive situations. It’s not. If you have 3 kids. One of which has special needs. And you haven’t slept at all in 8 yrs just trying to survive each day. And when you’ve tried to walk away but they find you. And the legal system has no power to stop them. How do you walk away? Please tell me. And whenever I put ate boundary in place it was overruled because he and his family had the money to do so. So because I did the very thing you say. I looked after the kids and love the kids, I was financially abused and devalued regularly. I had no say in decisions because I made no money.
Adding value can be subjective and not all value is good value as some can be ego based and self Centred. I do ageee with the aspect of nurturing as it’s an intrinsic trait of a selfless woman by nature and if she ain’t this way then something is off or skewed or indifferent to most women my nature
I love older people, I am drawn to people with disabilities. Just because a woman loves children does not make her a good caretaker of a man. Why else would women with kids get divorced? Personality differences and experience differences make you who you are and if you will care for your man.
High value woman traits which are becoming rare: Low body count (not promiscuous, doesn't hook up every night or do OF, has self-respect for her body), in good shape and not overweight (takes care of herself as being healthy is the most important thing to everyone), not addicted and reliant on social media/alcohol/hard drugs to get through her day, has a positive and happy mindset (doesn't need to complain and talk down on people all the time) and is comfortable being natural in her own skin (she doesn't do piercings, body modifications or plastic surgery).
I don’t know if that’s true. I’ve been told I’m attractive many times over. Plus I was a teacher for many years. I’m also a mother. Yes I have that nurturing side but that didn’t attract good potential partners in the past. Now I’m with someone who is consistent, kind and respectful. It took almost 10 years to find him.
@user-ub7zh1hm4k Absolutely incorrect, nobody has ever once stated that women are the only ones that need to make relationships "work". In fact, many individuals in the comments section(including the woman depicted in the video above), have consistently highlighted that men also need to improve themselves if they ever desire to be successful in the dating department. Have you ever watched any other video of hers where she mentions the exact same things? The problem with your rationale is that it places the responsibility solely on men, while excluding the fact that women also have agency over their own personal decisions as well. If every single man you encounter is a so called "narcissistic loser", that is simply your problem with picking the wrong men instead men's fault as a group. And I would definitely say the exact same logic applies to men that constantly complain that all women are "horrible", "manipulative" and "gold-diggers". But here is the catch, if a man was complaining about all of the above, you would have rightly colled him out. But when some women complain thet all men are "terrible", they are somehow justified and the onus is on the men to improve themselves and obviously not on the women to make better choices in regards to partner selection? The problem with individuals like yourself is that you believe that women literally deserve the best, irrespective of how they behave themselves. They can have all the expectations they want, no matter how unrealistic, but the moment that men also express their own preferences and what they expect from women, they are in the wrong. And finally, how did the woman above eventually found the man of her dreams exactly? If all men are supposedly "narcissistic losers", how is that possible then? Perhaps, it was her fault making the wrong choices, ignoring all the good men available because they were not "attractive" or "exciting" enough or whatever. It is literally impossible for "high quality" individuals to constantly meet "narcissists", "losers" and "manipulators"(regardless of gender that is). Simply put, if every single individual that you meet is an "asshole", or you put the blame solely on them for treating you poorly without any acknowledgement from your part that relationships are a two way street and that you also potentially contributed to their downfall, then you are the "asshole".
Then how is it possible that you encountered a good man eventually, if all men are supposedly "horrible"? You said it yourself, you personally did not attract good partners in the past. How is it men's fault as a group exactly, where you went out of your way to pick the worst ever possible partners while ignoring all the good ones available? Or maybe, you are not as "great" as you think that you are. Do not take it personally, individuals tend to look at themselves through "rose tinted glasses", ignoring the fact they also contributed to the downfall of their own relationships, as relationships are obviously a two way street after all. And that goes for both men and women obviously.
wrong, the dynamics of roles in relationships, emphasizing the importance of balance through polarity, is intriguing. Here’s a revised take on it: In any relationship, the interplay of masculine and feminine energies contributes significantly to balance and harmony. These roles, often termed masculine and feminine, don't necessarily align with gender but rather with the qualities each partner brings to the relationship. While one might typically take on a more nurturing role (traditionally seen as feminine) and the other a more assertive role (traditionally seen as masculine), what's crucial is not who adopts these roles but that their dynamic interaction fosters a balanced relationship. Importantly, these roles are fluid; partners can switch between roles, adapting to circumstances where, for example, the primary earner might become the primary caregiver, and vice versa. This flexibility helps maintain equilibrium and meet the evolving needs of the relationship.
A high value woman is someone who knows their weaknesses and strives to make improvements in their life. A high value woman is someone who knows how to take criticism and make adjustments to their character and habits. A high value woman is someone with a growth mindset.
I dunno, you have to be careful to place what a man’s goals should be onto a woman. Men need to grow physically and mentally, they need stronger, bigger muscles, but when don’t need to grow physically, they’re basically perfect as they are unless they’re at an unhealthy weight. And mentally as long as they’re respectful to their husbands they don’t necessarily need to be too smart. But intelligence can also be attractive on a woman. But if a woman’s growth is to become a doctor well then she might miss out on the opportunity to become a mother. It’s the double standard. And men can have multiple previous sexual partners and receive no judgment whereas women will receive judgment.
@@cd4playa1245 it doesn’t necessarily need to be about intelligence or career growth. A woman can grow to be more empathetic and understanding. A woman can learn how to apologise for their actions instead of being offended at the thought that they need to even apologise in the first place. An emotionally mature woman should be the gold standard. This is the same as asking for a successful and rich husband who won’t sleep around with other women and provides for his family and wife. If such high standards are expected of the average male, then we should begin expecting that women place more emphasis on being high value.
Women: focus on yourselves, you automatically become high value with good education, self esteem, physical and mental fitness, confidence, independence and assertiveness.
She’s kind of correct.. a high value person will always add some value to your life some way or the other… and you will be a better version of yourself due to her/his influence in your life..
I agree with so much of what you/Sadie says but.. I have children and teach children and love the kids. It doesn’t make me love men better than those that do not want kids! That is ridiculous! Some woman love their man and did not want children.
It is true though that those women who don't like kids & never wants them are far more selfish & self-centered than those who do & also certainly not as nurturing as the ones that do want a family. I'm a woman myself btw.
Its already hard trying to find a virgin man my age with the same level of self-control. I would never get over in thinking a guy liked someone more than me. So, 3 years ago, I accepted dying as a virgin. lol Can't get mad at everybody else, just gotta have back up plan. Ah, reality!
People still confuse about what a high value women are??? What is it about that something/someone, that another person would find important and they want to have it? If you can answer that, then the follow up question is how big is the pool of people who would wanted that someone/something that is important? If the pool is large enough then that should be labeled, high value.
The crazy thing is,I'm nurturing and my man says "Im not a kid" I never flirt with other men nor even look and he says. "You should flirt to keep me on my toes" I never go out I just have a coffee with family "your boring and only hang around old people" I dont have social media cause I dont like the attention from strange men he says"its 2023 everyone has socials" For some men its never good enough😔
The Prophet Muhammad said, "O women folk! You should give charity and be diligent in seeking Allah's forgiveness because I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of the Hell are women." A woman amongst them said: "Why is it that the majority of the dwellers of Hell are women?" The Prophet replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands.
This lady is a gem... this should be taught in schools... in fact alot of what she says should be taught in school.
"Takes away your domestic duties", good luck teaching that in public schools lol
She did teach. She was a psychology professor in London 😂😂
the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something. Is the definition of value. NOW add the word HIGH.
Domestic chores and taking a few things off my plate isn’t HIGH value. “Adding value to him” is a circular definition.
Yes
It’s absolute garbage. Adding “something” doesn’t make her high value much less valuable. Stop simping.
I’ve watched a lot of people speak about psychology and human interaction relationships etc. This woman is the best.
For sure ❤
Every relationship therapist speaks this way
😂😂 another one bamboozled by the honey trap
Yes.. ✔️🤗
agreed
She's both beautiful and intelligent.
What a gem
This beautiful lady is like a healing balm. Her voice is needed in a world lost on itself.
That describes my woman,she is absolutely amazing, I love you Patricia
Patricia got some big o tts
A woman that loves children doesn’t guarantee that she will nurture a man the same way. The expectations from the two are drastically different. If this were true there would be less divorce. It’s not just couples without children getting divorce and it’s not always a man’s fault when those divorces occur.
I also immediately picked up same thing....sooooo many missed the distinction...geez!
Your man is Not your child...that could end up very poorly.
Thanks for the point on having boundaries, not accepting anything and everything so that the man can become a better version of himself🙏🏻 I needed to hear that!🙌🏻❤️
Not having boundaries allows for me who don’t care about you to enter your life and use you. Same goes with men.
Men aren't wild beast waiting for women to tame them 😂😂😂 but good luck if you believe this grifter
I agree that just as sticking within God's necessary laws/boundaries make us the best versions of ourselves, a wife's self-respect/ boundaries helps the man. Being a lean muscular man with chiseled face (model type) who attracts women of all ages, 3 things have kept me in line (married 26 years) 1. I would never want to hurt or betray my wife's trust in me. 2 . fear of God and the consequences of adultry which are too many to list. 3. The fear of losing my wife who has stated plainly "if you ever cheat on me I will divorce you" ( 1 of her boundaries) my wife is fine with a natural very Big Brazilian butt, thighs, hamstrings small waist 5"6 136 lbs dress size 6 and does not want to be seen on any social media platforms she only wants my attention and" likes" that's her self imposed boundary, so yes boundaries are absolutely necessary and garner respect from others and self respect. For example my wife won't dance with or hold an unnecessary conversation with other men, her own self imposed boundaries because she's married. Her boundaries make her a gem that I value and never want to lose, If I lost her in death I'll never remarry.
She said it plain and simple, feminine. 🙏🏼🌸
Take a shot every time she says adds value
In short she could've just said.
"A high value woman is me"
Most of her vids are subtle self promotion. The vibes are too obvious.
Yes absolutely agree with you. Value and loving 😊
Yup, nailed it 💯💥💥💥 She knows her stuff for sure!! Luv this message!!!
One thing Sadia, I don't want kids but I am still nurturing. A sign of a woman who is high value is knowing herself well. I know what it takes to raise a child, right, and its not in me. If you want kids just because you think it's the feminine thing to do, you're not very sself-aware
Absolutely agree 💯 I don’t think she’s self-aware to that extent. Even I don’t want kids as a conscious choice , and I’m still loving, nurturing and all that. I don’t want to be a parent, that’s all. And it’s ultimately the woman’s choice if she wants to have kids or not. No shaming women who choose not to have kids and indirectly calling them “low value” if they choose this route. Shaming in this way means Sadia isn’t high value herself. High value women don’t judge and shame other women and their choices.
@rachanag4750 I'm nurturing. I'm a teacher. But I've seen how much time it takes to raise a good and productive child. It takes hours of reading to them, you teach turn at home. You need to be able to build trust so they can come to you to be a better person. If you're not in your highest self, they could spend the formative years being destroyed by their parents. I'll bet 65%our more of people really don't have what it takes to be a parent because of their parents. If people would say that they need to be in their highest form of self and ready right, sacrifice their needs. That's what being a parent really means.
@@thebirdclan I agree fully with you. People just have kids coz they are cute or some random dumb reason of the sort which is very selfish. Parenting is another ballgame altogether and not everyone’s thing. For those of us who get this, we make conscious choices to be childfree. Doesn’t make us low value bitches - in fact quite the opposite. We’re conscious souls.
Everybody wants boundaries. I agree. I knew this was said about children. They will never ask you for them, but they do thrive within Safe and predictable boundaries. I haven’t heard it spoken about men, so this makes sense. The high value woman is clear in her chosen direction so it would help the man to know how to engage with her. Less confusion and less of her blaming the man for what she experiences, I imagine.
A high value woman is a woman who is intelligent, skillful, respectful, modest, creative, able to solve problems, and can also manage and make money and raise children with the best effort and care for the family as a partner/ leader.
And should be able to manage a household, family, and more!
❤
Being a real woman is the highest calling in life because you have the most responsibility since you are the one who has to give birth to human beings, make sure those human beings are taken care of properly and nurtured well, teach the young ones good values and also be an excellent support to your spouse so he can do his best for the family and society and also be able to make the environment beautiful. It’s a lot! Don’t take this calling lightly! ❤️
I agree 💯
This lady is amazingly intelligent & super classy!! Thank you for sharing your intellectual intelligence with us!!!❤💕
When I married my husband and had 3 kids, I was the one who added value to his family’s life. But in return they made my life worse by abusing me. There was no where to go because they would find me and also torment my loved ones as punishment. So my value was stripped down. His mum constantly broke my stuff so I didn’t even have nice clothes to wear or for my kids and the experience made me completely dependent on ppl who wanted the worst for me. It can happen to anyone.
Hello Sadia, thanks a lot. Your advice is amazing and really helpfull. Please keep it up. I am sure lot of people wait for your sessions and bless you . May God give you the most blissful life with your partner.
This reminds me of a reel where they husband tells his wife he’s leaving her because he needs a woman like the one described here and the wife said, wait don’t leave I need that woman too! So they went and tried to find that woman together
That adding value part, and NOT being a burden is priceless. Together we can accomplish a lot, life’s great, and family vacations are awesome.
What ? That's a weird comment . Why would you marry someone you would look at like a burden ? Being called a burden by your husband is um , disgusting. I know because my abused as a child - ex , called me this . I promptly divorced his alcoholic coke head ass .
@@jenniferbloh-michael8662 Because there, unfortunately, exist some women out there expecting a man to behave like a "caretaker" towards them.
There exist many instances of men sharing their stories with abusive female partners, behaving exactly in the same way the woman in the video above described.
With some of the most notorious examples constituting of the likes of Amber Heard and Jodi Arias.
Similarly to how abusive men behave as well.
Loyalty,supportive,let men lead,take care of her health,femenine,not call attention from other mans..
Woman that have great relationships with their fathers will ultimately have a great relationship with their male partners. If a woman has a tarnished relationship with her father, this will emulate into all her relationships. A woman must a great relationship with her father to have a great relationship with you
ope u ar rite!
The problem here is that it’s actually not hard to have The traits or behaviours that make a woman “high value”. that means that because high value men are rarer- they hold all the leverage …
This is not about leverage control over another winning, making another submit to you making ladies have feeling they can't manage. It's about over coming your fear of being left, or used. What's the point of all that leverage ,but you still don't like yourself and are afraid of everything. You are jealous of women that's why you want control. Source out the real wound and you won't need leverage. You will have power within and peace to just love freely.
@@ladyofspa insecure men suck
I didn’t uphold my boundaries and he treated me like shit because of it.. no, because he just wasn’t a good man to begin with but I have learned the utter most importance of boundaries
She leaves out the most important part out in terms of HIGH Value, PURITY and LOYALTY! LOL. Good Luck Searching for those parts of the Package. 🤔
Wise beyond her years
So very true
IV always loved kids even tho I never wanted any
& I definitely have boundaries & I will let them know in the nicest way the first time if they try to overstep those boundaries then I will be harder to make sure I get the message across
High value woman wants to be alone remain , calm
👏👏👏..a real none delusional woman.
As far as boundaries, that is not true. There are men that will overstep those boundaries because they are who they are. You cannot make a man be a better person. They are who they are. Tell him you’re not happy and if he can not step up to the plate,let him go. I’m not going to stress over a man that won’t put in enough effort. They’re just not datable.
I hope to be more like her... I'm trying to get in touch with my feminine side...
I’d also like to add that ppl think it’s so easy to walk away from abusive situations. It’s not. If you have 3 kids. One of which has special needs. And you haven’t slept at all in 8 yrs just trying to survive each day. And when you’ve tried to walk away but they find you. And the legal system has no power to stop them. How do you walk away? Please tell me. And whenever I put ate boundary in place it was overruled because he and his family had the money to do so. So because I did the very thing you say. I looked after the kids and love the kids, I was financially abused and devalued regularly. I had no say in decisions because I made no money.
Adds value...
Is feminine...
In touch with her nurturing side...
Loves children...
Has boundaries...
So true
I had boundaries.
Proof of an amazing high value woman is her husband. Kudos Sadia❤
Adding value can be subjective and not all value is good value as some can be ego based and self Centred. I do ageee with the aspect of nurturing as it’s an intrinsic trait of a selfless woman by nature and if she ain’t this way then something is off or skewed or indifferent to most women my nature
I agree. Nurturing women treat you better
💯 i’ve been saying this for years, but it’s like no one gets it
The worst is I’m a man and a slag, even over men, don’t even dare as well
I love older people, I am drawn to people with disabilities. Just because a woman loves children does not make her a good caretaker of a man. Why else would women with kids get divorced? Personality differences and experience differences make you who you are and if you will care for your man.
I like the bit where she says "adds value" 35 times
High value woman traits which are becoming rare: Low body count (not promiscuous, doesn't hook up every night or do OF, has self-respect for her body), in good shape and not overweight (takes care of herself as being healthy is the most important thing to everyone), not addicted and reliant on social media/alcohol/hard drugs to get through her day, has a positive and happy mindset (doesn't need to complain and talk down on people all the time) and is comfortable being natural in her own skin (she doesn't do piercings, body modifications or plastic surgery).
Sadia mixes Psychology and Islam in a beautiful balance. She is a high value woman, hands down.
Well said sister.
She talks a lotta 💩
Excellent Episode 👍
"I am a strong, independent woman. What can you offer me?"
"My Condolences"
I don’t know if that’s true. I’ve been told I’m attractive many times over. Plus I was a teacher for many years. I’m also a mother. Yes I have that nurturing side but that didn’t attract good potential partners in the past. Now I’m with someone who is consistent, kind and respectful. It took almost 10 years to find him.
Well everyone loves a pretty face and a sexy body 😅
@user-ub7zh1hm4k Absolutely incorrect, nobody has ever once stated that women are the only ones that need to make relationships "work".
In fact, many individuals in the comments section(including the woman depicted in the video above), have consistently highlighted that men also need to improve themselves if they ever desire to be successful in the dating department.
Have you ever watched any other video of hers where she mentions the exact same things?
The problem with your rationale is that it places the responsibility solely on men, while excluding the fact that women also have agency over their own personal decisions as well.
If every single man you encounter is a so called "narcissistic loser", that is simply your problem with picking the wrong men instead men's fault as a group.
And I would definitely say the exact same logic applies to men that constantly complain that all women are "horrible", "manipulative" and "gold-diggers".
But here is the catch, if a man was complaining about all of the above, you would have rightly colled him out.
But when some women complain thet all men are "terrible", they are somehow justified and the onus is on the men to improve themselves and obviously not on the women to make better choices in regards to partner selection?
The problem with individuals like yourself is that you believe that women literally deserve the best, irrespective of how they behave themselves.
They can have all the expectations they want, no matter how unrealistic, but the moment that men also express their own preferences and what they expect from women, they are in the wrong.
And finally, how did the woman above eventually found the man of her dreams exactly?
If all men are supposedly "narcissistic losers", how is that possible then?
Perhaps, it was her fault making the wrong choices, ignoring all the good men available because they were not "attractive" or "exciting" enough or whatever.
It is literally impossible for "high quality" individuals to constantly meet "narcissists", "losers" and "manipulators"(regardless of gender that is).
Simply put, if every single individual that you meet is an "asshole", or you put the blame solely on them for treating you poorly without any acknowledgement from your part that relationships are a two way street and that you also potentially contributed to their downfall, then you are the "asshole".
Then how is it possible that you encountered a good man eventually, if all men are supposedly "horrible"?
You said it yourself, you personally did not attract good partners in the past.
How is it men's fault as a group exactly, where you went out of your way to pick the worst ever possible partners while ignoring all the good ones available?
Or maybe, you are not as "great" as you think that you are.
Do not take it personally, individuals tend to look at themselves through "rose tinted glasses", ignoring the fact they also contributed to the downfall of their own relationships, as relationships are obviously a two way street after all.
And that goes for both men and women obviously.
She's a genius ❤
Absolutely 💯
i single mother will teach us what a high value woman is
How to put clear boundaries?
As a high value woman myself, i concur. ❤
I was with her until her last point.
My woman/ wife is so amazing I just took too long to realize it, Lord Jesus save my marriage I'll be better I've changed
💝 So true!! 💝
every day i learn sumthin fr u which is so important
Your opinion- doesn’t matter
wrong, the dynamics of roles in relationships, emphasizing the importance of balance through polarity, is intriguing. Here’s a revised take on it:
In any relationship, the interplay of masculine and feminine energies contributes significantly to balance and harmony. These roles, often termed masculine and feminine, don't necessarily align with gender but rather with the qualities each partner brings to the relationship. While one might typically take on a more nurturing role (traditionally seen as feminine) and the other a more assertive role (traditionally seen as masculine), what's crucial is not who adopts these roles but that their dynamic interaction fosters a balanced relationship. Importantly, these roles are fluid; partners can switch between roles, adapting to circumstances where, for example, the primary earner might become the primary caregiver, and vice versa. This flexibility helps maintain equilibrium and meet the evolving needs of the relationship.
Very well said.
A high value woman is someone who knows their weaknesses and strives to make improvements in their life.
A high value woman is someone who knows how to take criticism and make adjustments to their character and habits.
A high value woman is someone with a growth mindset.
I dunno, you have to be careful to place what a man’s goals should be onto a woman. Men need to grow physically and mentally, they need stronger, bigger muscles, but when don’t need to grow physically, they’re basically perfect as they are unless they’re at an unhealthy weight. And mentally as long as they’re respectful to their husbands they don’t necessarily need to be too smart. But intelligence can also be attractive on a woman. But if a woman’s growth is to become a doctor well then she might miss out on the opportunity to become a mother. It’s the double standard. And men can have multiple previous sexual partners and receive no judgment whereas women will receive judgment.
@@cd4playa1245 it doesn’t necessarily need to be about intelligence or career growth.
A woman can grow to be more empathetic and understanding. A woman can learn how to apologise for their actions instead of being offended at the thought that they need to even apologise in the first place.
An emotionally mature woman should be the gold standard. This is the same as asking for a successful and rich husband who won’t sleep around with other women and provides for his family and wife.
If such high standards are expected of the average male, then we should begin expecting that women place more emphasis on being high value.
Excellent. Now replace "woman" with "man".
@@DaniloDanny77 replace both with “person”
Men and women should not leave their EGO unchecked. That’s narcissistic behaviour.
Totally agree with you 🤔💖🧘♂️🌹
Elle est adorable mais elle parle beaucoup 🥰
So true!
Women: focus on yourselves, you automatically become high value with good education, self esteem, physical and mental fitness, confidence, independence and assertiveness.
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Of. Course. U. are right.
How do we establish boundaries?
It's soo true
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She’s kind of correct.. a high value person will always add some value to your life some way or the other… and you will be a better version of yourself due to her/his influence in your life..
I agree with so much of what you/Sadie says but.. I have children and teach children and love the kids. It doesn’t make me love men better than those that do not want kids! That is ridiculous! Some woman love their man and did not want children.
It is true though that those women who don't like kids & never wants them are far more selfish & self-centered than those who do & also certainly not as nurturing as the ones that do want a family.
I'm a woman myself btw.
@@mjkingofmusic The more intelligent a woman is, the less children she will have ✅
You can love your family and your work in different ways of course, but, you can do both
Boundaries are soooooooo true!!!!!!!!
Exactly 💯 💯
Good
I enjoy building up a man to lead well
She is wise and beautiful.
She is just another pretty face 🙄
I'm accepting that
Beautiful. Not some superficial shame blame unrealistic bla bla. But common sense
Stay single and happy❤
So true,
I love this. ❤
I don't want kids but I am very feminine and nurturing while still being able to be independent ❤
Its already hard trying to find a virgin man my age with the same level of self-control. I would never get over in thinking a guy liked someone more than me. So, 3 years ago, I accepted dying as a virgin. lol Can't get mad at everybody else, just gotta have back up plan. Ah, reality!
I agree! ❤
Sadia’s floral outfit ideas come from her Kashmiri culture haha . I love it
Most outfits for women are floral all around the world
@@PS-le4mf not true .. western women mostly use solid color
Well said!!!!🎉
Yaassss! 💯 Percent‼️
Exactly 💯
Nicely said
Bah
Solid points.
deeper in the sky o🎶 with your own
Very intelligent woman but too much bottox in top and top lip.
Very observant comment but it's "too" , not "to".
@leighhearne5178 thanks I will edit
@@gk-zb2pn when the irony passes by u and u have no idea, is funny
People still confuse about what a high value women are???
What is it about that something/someone, that another person would find important and they want to have it? If you can answer that, then the follow up question is how big is the pool of people who would wanted that someone/something that is important? If the pool is large enough then that should be labeled, high value.
Beautifullll 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏💓💕
Wow verytrue 👍❤️
Beautiful ❤
I don’t agree about children . Not all children are loveable or desired by woman. I adore animals and pets.
Does that make me a low value woman?
The crazy thing is,I'm nurturing and my man says "Im not a kid"
I never flirt with other men nor even look and he says.
"You should flirt to keep me on my toes"
I never go out I just have a coffee with family "your boring and only hang around old people"
I dont have social media cause I dont like the attention from strange men he says"its 2023 everyone has socials"
For some men its never good enough😔
Perhaps you have poor judgement when it comes to picking a good man. 🤔
The Prophet Muhammad said, "O women folk! You should give charity and be diligent in seeking Allah's forgiveness because I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of the Hell are women." A woman amongst them said: "Why is it that the majority of the dwellers of Hell are women?" The Prophet replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands.