So far I think she has the best definition of a high value man out there. If men think you're great but you're not dating the caliber of women that you'd prefer, that's not the lady's fault.
it's a horrible definition. One question. Do Mike Tyson, Donald Trump, Drake, Brad Pitt & George Clooney need a high caliber woman to be deemed high value? Absolutely not. Their high value because of their status, money, what they have achieved & their influence.
@@a.m928 People value them, not women. Women see people value them then they get wet. Proof is that a lot of the time many women prepare to have sex with celebrities before they even actually meet them. Women just instinctively group thinkers without individual critical thinking. They create just like that.
@@michael43567 no they cant be broke, lack status cause then women wont want them. Women want the best they can get. And certain traits are valued by women. If u have many of these in a high amount most women will want u thus make u valuable on the sexual dsting market.
Seriously this Sadie girl is so narcissistic to think that an entire value of a man is based on the woman he can get. Imagine telling Nikola Tesla “hey buddy thanks for all your inventions and hard work but you couldn’t get married to a beautiful woman so you’re not a valuable man to our society. Sorry buddy but Sadie says so.” Lol 🤦🏻♂️😂 You said it perfectly, a mans value is what he brings to this world.
Some say a new theory. "It´s not about finding the "compatible" partner., like finding the "puzzle" piece that matches, your preferences but to become "compatible" partner during the process." I guess Maybe people have to focus on the rhythm of the relationship, - when partner is relaxing, I will focus on my stuff, -when I am relaxing, my partner will do his stuff, - when partner is having free time, we do things together etc Empathy and gratitude is a key as well, because it creates a strong trust, and the trust creates a strong bond. and maybe its about focusing your mind and energy on things that work well, rather then focusing all the energy on weak spots that dont work. and later the weak spots disapear naturally, because couple focuses on things that work for them That is why intelligent people and musicians of classical music, have successful relationships, because they understand the word feeling is a healling, music is feeling, music is healing......they understand the words "physics" "quantum physics" etc , they understand strategic thinking without judging , they understand team work, synergy etc
What like saying that some women are inferior than other and 'low value' because she has decided so? Or that a man who is not interested in connecting with his rapist, alcoholic criminal father is more likely to get cheated on? I thnk you need better role models and guides in your life if you listening to this utter bullsh*t.
Kevin Samuels popularised the term & he already defined the criteria clearly, I'll paraphrase. 1 Consistent high income, 2 Have a network of other high value men, 3 Status, 4 Your influence. Her definition is nonsense. There are 25 year old broke guys out here that look like Harry Styles that could get a top tier woman to submit to him. Women have minimal effect on who's a high value man. Find an unknown Obese guy & surround him with pretty women. No real man would deem him high value because it's clear he's paying for their time. On the contrary, Mike Tyson is deemed as high value even if there are no girls around him & he's single. Because of his STATUS and what he has ACHIEVED
@@steph6109 women's opinion on it doesn't matter. They can only say who they're ATTRACTED to. Them being attracted to a guy doesn't make him high value. Look at prison bae. Women found him attractive because of his mugshot. But in REALITY, he was a prisoner, he was not a high value man.
You dont think rich wealthy men psy for the women surronding them ? Lol Are u familiar with the market ? Consumers dictate the value of the goods. What they are willing to pay or achieve determines ur value. A very attractive man, a succesful man or even a tall man all possess traits women value. Thus a man that has these traits can pick and choose among the best women. In short men dictate womens value and women dictate mens value. Prison bae was considered extremly attractive women who were beautiful and feminine were throwing themselves at him. Hence he is high value. In fact he used his fame to launch a succesful modeling career.
@@michael435671. Women falling for a guy who looks like Harry Styles…so he likes like a Harry Value man…weak argument. 2. Women falling for guys in prison are likely not high value. Therefore they do not increase their value…weak arguement 3. Multiple value women (wife material, adds value to a man’s life, is both beautiful and intelligent) wanting MARRIAGE with a man indicates he is high valur.
I think that defining a man's value based on his ability to acquire something or someone else is arguably the most destructive mindset a man can have. Your value comes from within.
I think this holds true for all people despite whether they grew up in "broken" homes as people who grew up in "intact" homes that were loveless did not model what healthy intimacy looks like either and I struggle to embrace the term "high value" when referring to a person superficial enough to select a partner based on her parents choices. To me, high value is how you treat others; it has nothing to do with how much money you make or the job title you hold because all of those things can be taken away in a second.
What I really love about Sadia is how she pointed out the bullshit of believing that younger women have a lower notch count than older women. Red pill coaches teach men to seek out younger women with the false belief that they haven’t been around as much as older men. Younger women at the age of 22 on average have higher notch counts than the average woman who is around 52. They have Instagram, they have Snapchat, they have Only Fans. Younger women have various platforms that allow them to sell their wares.
What I discovered is we are all recovering from our childhood. Our parents are lacking some things we need so, especially with women, a man needs time to assess the damage, and determine is she mother material? Most men make the mistake of getting involve too quickly or allowing her to pressure him into a commitment to fast. In both cases it is usually a recipe for problems later. I already know I am emotionally damaged, but women are most likely even more damaged than me, so the bigger question is can I tolerate these issues without going crazy?
This girl is like my ex. When she speak it feels like she is very intelligent and knows how the world works but when you compare her statements with her statements at different times and different places you realize that she never ever for a single second believed in what she was saying.
A man's value is *NOT* determined by a woman.....What Fresh N Fit teaches actually goes in line with what she just said { a woman that has family values with feminen qualities }........But I respect her views, she's got some great perspectives.......
She's defining high value in terms of how it is measured, not on its own term. A woman with a wretched personality that is good at saying no doesn't make her high value or make really high value men come after her. Likewise a man having a lot of options is evidence that he IS high value, not a definition of the term.
It's funny how men in red pill community can give their own definition of worth to women and can define the word traditional or high value women but when a respectable woman like Sadia does the same then they get mad and say how dare she gives a definition. Thank you for proving our point.
They don't get mad, he just gave a wrong definition. She didn't even realize what is a high value woman, a 18 virgin woman is higher value than a boss babe rich 25 30 years old woman, if you cannot accept that practically woman almost never accomplished anything important to the society except her body and her egg you are not in the conversation. Proof is looking around you everything that necessary to living and every technology develop and maintain by men. So any accomplishment from a woman not has a value but her body and her egg is.
Red pillers are idiots most of the time, specifically to figure out healthy conclusions.But the premises like success give men more attractiveness and not so much for women is based on pur facts ! Because a girl is MD or PHD doesn't give her any additional dating value! Men with status I can assure you have more options! Nobody decide what's attractive for the other sex... biology and evolution make men and women attracted to different things!
High value men are usually those top 1% men. Now, if she teaches women that you should reject this sort of man and be even pickier, then the situation may reach an insane level. Do the so-called high value men represent 0.001% of the total population? It's like advising men and women to be single forever. Her definition of high value men and women doesn't stack up, because by her definition even if a high value man is rejected by a high value woman he is no longer high value. Her definitions are brilliant on the surface level though.
A very good talk show about what values should we place on ourselves both men and women thanks sadia khan I am watching your show from chennai, India on youtube ..... Great talk show with lot of psychology
We find agreeableness to be an extremely attractive quality in women. From a guys perspective, we exert all this energy in providing for our family...the last thing we want is stress at home. We need rest, comfort, support, companionship
My value is based on what I can do in life, what do I contribute to society, my skillset, my personality my love of and respect for life. I will walk my own road and it will be the right but more difficult road
@@donh1572 Yes it does. Women decide which men are attractive. They do not dictate which men are high value. Things like money & status do, and those things aren't exclusively controlled by women.
@@michael43567 wrong, even when I was fat and broke I was able to date hot women. You just need game. Don’t let the red pill community hold you back from great relationships
@@donh1572 dating hot women didn't make you high value bro. Being a high value man doesn't have much to do with women. It's to do with money, status, what you've achieved & being respected by other men.
So, the value of a woman is determined by the men she can reject? Is that a parameter? Why the value someone has should come from an external individual?
Good point. However, if a woman sleeps around with different men that would greatly lowers her value. Our value greatly depends on the people we allow into our lives.
Do y’all agree on her definition of a high value man? On another podcast, she said a woman rejected a man isn’t always on him and that Sometimes, it can be because she’s having a bad day
What I'm getting is that the value of a human beng is not intrinsic but rather socially determined? If such belief does operate on a large scale and it truly did, you know what could happen? That's how Nazis viewed the world. A high value man is reflected on who he was yesterday compared to who he is today. The same goes with a high value woman. Human beings have intrinsic value. Which means his or her value is not determined by who will submit to him or who she can reject.
This veritable queen , of a young woman , is so needed now . With poise , intelligence , encouragement, and grace , she speaks this poisonous , woman hating incel culture , straight out of relevance , and hopefully soon , with enough young men aiming right , clean out of existence too .
In the comments there are so stupid people. She speaks about a particular aspect which are man/woman relationships. Agree 1000% with you Sadia. Keep up the work.
Yeah, I went a little way with this. The number and/or quality of women you can get to submit to you, that’s what makes a high value man. Well, speaking to the man, don’t feel bad if it doesn’t happen. There is literally no-one on the planet, man or woman, anywhere, that will submit to me the way they used to. Using that I am a 100% alone. Now, you can’t just go and sign up if you think that’s the thing for you. I’m really not sure how much it happens. But I got to tell you, sometimes, the most wonderful thing in the world is to not have to have power over someone else. It feels like freedom. Don’t know what to tell you.
I would have like for the interviewer to ask her if persons who grew up with fathers who don't tell their sons about women. What would happened to them ?
But today most value money, cars, fashion. So the high value women used to define a high value man, is flawed at best. The core of the issue is that value has a twisted meaning nowadays. For example, everyone knows the names of celebs or most politicians or CEOs like Elon. Do you know the name of your local firefighters? The former groups, will crap their pants in the slightest of dangers, the latter literally walk into fire to help others. I know who I class as valueable.
I understand what she’s saying but what she’s missing is high value guys sleep with physically attractive women MOSTLY FOR FUN. If they marry her then I agree with her but he’s JUST having FUN with her then I disagree with her. The clarity here is… what is the high value guy’s INTENTIONS? Sex or marriage? Most pro athletes cheat on their wives with groupie girls on the road but they will never marry them. It’s important to point out the 2 DIFFERENT INTENTIONS.
I think Fresh & Fit have a lot of great ideas that are rational and missing from the vantage point of young people who grew up in single parent households and exposed to too much porn early on. They do have a background in Muslim traditional beliefs, which does affect their views to an extent that they may come off as extreme, so definitely not perfect. I don’t have any real opinion on their own value (high or not), because I realize that most people are hypocrites or have skeletons they don’t let you see, so the value remains on the advice and points they make. I do think young men are clueless as to how the roles benefit society, and reversing them affects their mental health in unforeseen ways.
The first mistake is to listen to advice from a woman. The value of a man is from within him. If he is wise, has integrity, compassion, and brings value to the world, then he's a high value man. Men like Einstein, Edison, Musk, Buddha, Buffett, etc. A woman is a complement to a man, but never his identity.
High value man is someone who is loyal to his single beautiful wife, and can support his wife both emotionally and financially. He will never even think of "women" submitting to him. Simple. I am a psychologist. Believe me she is manipulating her opinions empowering and supporting women. At the same time discouraging men subtly. She definitely has men problems.
Their hating on fresh and fit lmao 😂 they actually opened the eyes of many men . They speak facts . Yes what they say tho is that women now in days are not “trained by fathers bc they are absent y’all should listen to full podcast before trying to talk trash about em. I started listening here bc of fresh and fit ….I’m out lmao 😂
OMG. This woman is Sick. Starting Point. There is no such thing as a "High Value" Man. All humans are of equal value. Define your weirdness. Live it unapologetically. And connect with the one that gets it and loves it unconditionally. You may have PTSD. And she may have a Dad or brother who had it so she understands well. And you can both heal from teaching and learning from eachother. Secondly. You are not defined by the women you pay for. A woman is not worth less because she is a stripper. By that line of thought, a woman who obsesses over money and wears too much make up like this one are of 'low value' in some cultures. Absolute bullshit about absent parents. You are not damaged goods and neither is she/he. Connections heal. And if you cultivate a healthy connection with someone, you can heal eachother. As friends first. Then maybe as more. As for parental alienation syndrome, this woman has not read the studies. The terms "access" and "custody" have been made redundant because of their negative implications, for years. The long term studies show that Children can find their balance in understanding their connection with the absent parent through connections with others - a family member, a mentor, the other parent they reconnect with, or a partner. Ultimately, they find their peace by cultivating their own connection with themselves. Ie. Finding and living a purpose, understanding the absent parent, connecting with the absent parents families and forgiving them .... There are many ways. As for high value women being ones who reject the most high value men... WTF??? This is a sick shallow woman talking about '"high value women" and "high value men" as though some humans are more important than others. She needs to do some volunteer work, live in a remote Community, and work on herself. Life is about Connection, not stratification. Anyone listening to this and living like this is making their lives harder for themselves and missing opportunities to make valuable authentic connections. You can learn so many valuable things from strippers, people with mental health issues, people from lower socio economic backgrounds and impoverished communities. You're making yourself sick defining humans by virtue of their income social stratification or how many women/men they have dated. Everyone has something to teach. When you see life as a learning experience, you begin to enjoy the journey and this is the most valuable thing you can do for yourself. ❤️
Why can't woman accept the man on right time who has done the same mistake which was done by her father when he was youth provided that man had good character in past and present except few mistakes done over the particular period of time. (Oct 2011- April 2013)
@@dn3772 why do you keep bringing up women as if they dictate who high value men are? It's things such as status, money, network & power that dictate whether someone is a high value man.
Such a typical woman's viewpoint on porn, that she can't see any value in it and thinks it's purely detrimental. Porn is like most things in life. It can either be an incredibly useful tool, or it can be something that becomes detrimental. For me it has always been a fantastic tool for sexual exploration, for learning about my own desires and sexuality etc, and gave me a much clearer picture of myself and what I need in life. But of course women can get sex whenever they want, so why would they need to use porn to learn about themselves, when they can just hook up with tons of different dudes to learn about what they do and don't like instead. There's just so much blind ignorance in women when it comes to porn.
What do you learn in porn as a man? There are many men out there that watch a lot of porn and yet, they are not good lovers in bed. Why? Because there is only one way a man can become good in bed, good lover, and that is through INTIMACY with ONE very honest woman that would give him an honest feedback without faking her orgasm.
LISTEN MILADY SAIDA KAHN, THE BEST MAN A WOMAN CAN GET IS A MAN THAT WORSHIP HIS CREATER, WHO HAS A GOOD CHARACTAR, AND HE KNOWS WHERE HE IS GOING, BACK TO HIS CREATER AND THERE HE WILL FIND HIS TRUE VALUE, DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME??? ❤❤
So far I think she has the best definition of a high value man out there. If men think you're great but you're not dating the caliber of women that you'd prefer, that's not the lady's fault.
it's a horrible definition. One question. Do Mike Tyson, Donald Trump, Drake, Brad Pitt & George Clooney need a high caliber woman to be deemed high value?
Absolutely not. Their high value because of their status, money, what they have achieved & their influence.
@@michael43567they are high value because women value them and want them.
@@a.m928 People value them, not women. Women see people value them then they get wet. Proof is that a lot of the time many women prepare to have sex with celebrities before they even actually meet them. Women just instinctively group thinkers without individual critical thinking. They create just like that.
@@a.m928 so they could be broke, have no status, but you'd deem them high value because "women want them"?
@@michael43567 no they cant be broke, lack status cause then women wont want them. Women want the best they can get. And certain traits are valued by women. If u have many of these in a high amount most women will want u thus make u valuable on the sexual dsting market.
A mans value IS NOT determined by the woman he can attain. It is determined by the valley he brings to the world.
This reply will go way over your head. Women ARE the world.
Seriously this Sadie girl is so narcissistic to think that an entire value of a man is based on the woman he can get.
Imagine telling Nikola Tesla “hey buddy thanks for all your inventions and hard work but you couldn’t get married to a beautiful woman so you’re not a valuable man to our society. Sorry buddy but Sadie says so.” Lol 🤦🏻♂️😂
You said it perfectly, a mans value is what he brings to this world.
@@theselfdiscoveryshowso a woman’s value is based on the value of man they get
Some say a new theory.
"It´s not about finding the "compatible" partner., like finding the "puzzle" piece that matches, your preferences
but to become "compatible" partner during the process."
I guess
Maybe people have to focus on the rhythm of the relationship,
- when partner is relaxing, I will focus on my stuff,
-when I am relaxing, my partner will do his stuff,
- when partner is having free time, we do things together etc
Empathy and gratitude is a key as well, because it creates a strong trust, and the trust creates a strong bond.
and maybe its about focusing your mind and energy on things that work well, rather then focusing all the energy on weak spots that dont work.
and later the weak spots disapear naturally, because couple focuses on things that work for them
That is why intelligent people and musicians of classical music, have successful relationships, because they understand the word feeling is a healling, music is feeling, music is healing......they understand the words "physics" "quantum physics" etc , they understand strategic thinking without judging , they understand team work, synergy etc
@@MoLickeyNuu 🤣
Sadia is making me cry in my soul.shes really get at issues I didn't realise I had
What like saying that some women are inferior than other and 'low value' because she has decided so? Or that a man who is not interested in connecting with his rapist, alcoholic criminal father is more likely to get cheated on? I thnk you need better role models and guides in your life if you listening to this utter bullsh*t.
Kevin Samuels popularised the term & he already defined the criteria clearly, I'll paraphrase. 1 Consistent high income, 2 Have a network of other high value men, 3 Status, 4 Your influence. Her definition is nonsense. There are 25 year old broke guys out here that look like Harry Styles that could get a top tier woman to submit to him.
Women have minimal effect on who's a high value man. Find an unknown Obese guy & surround him with pretty women. No real man would deem him high value because it's clear he's paying for their time.
On the contrary, Mike Tyson is deemed as high value even if there are no girls around him & he's single. Because of his STATUS and what he has ACHIEVED
Well that definition covers high value to other men...but not to women.
@@steph6109 women's opinion on it doesn't matter. They can only say who they're ATTRACTED to. Them being attracted to a guy doesn't make him high value.
Look at prison bae. Women found him attractive because of his mugshot. But in REALITY, he was a prisoner, he was not a high value man.
You dont think rich wealthy men psy for the women surronding them ? Lol
Are u familiar with the market ? Consumers dictate the value of the goods. What they are willing to pay or achieve determines ur value. A very attractive man, a succesful man or even a tall man all possess traits women value. Thus a man that has these traits can pick and choose among the best women. In short men dictate womens value and women dictate mens value.
Prison bae was considered extremly attractive women who were beautiful and feminine were throwing themselves at him. Hence he is high value. In fact he used his fame to launch a succesful modeling career.
@@michael435671. Women falling for a guy who looks like Harry Styles…so he likes like a Harry Value man…weak argument.
2. Women falling for guys in prison are likely not high value. Therefore they do not increase their value…weak arguement
3. Multiple value women (wife material, adds value to a man’s life, is both beautiful and intelligent) wanting MARRIAGE with a man indicates he is high valur.
This is the best response here. The GOAT Kevin summed it up perfectly.
She speaks wisely 🙌 I am impressed by her words of wisdom
I think that defining a man's value based on his ability to acquire something or someone else is arguably the most destructive mindset a man can have. Your value comes from within.
You don’t deserve shit. Imagine telling the market you deserve money because my value comes from within.
I think this holds true for all people despite whether they grew up in "broken" homes as people who grew up in "intact" homes that were loveless did not model what healthy intimacy looks like either and I struggle to embrace the term "high value" when referring to a person superficial enough to select a partner based on her parents choices. To me, high value is how you treat others; it has nothing to do with how much money you make or the job title you hold because all of those things can be taken away in a second.
What I really love about Sadia is how she pointed out the bullshit of believing that younger women have a lower notch count than older women. Red pill coaches teach men to seek out younger women with the false belief that they haven’t been around as much as older men. Younger women at the age of 22 on average have higher notch counts than the average woman who is around 52. They have Instagram, they have Snapchat, they have Only Fans. Younger women have various platforms that allow them to sell their wares.
Her personal definition of High value isn't base on anything and don't reflect reality
What I discovered is we are all recovering from our childhood. Our parents are lacking some things we need so, especially with women, a man needs time to assess the damage, and determine is she mother material? Most men make the mistake of getting involve too quickly or allowing her to pressure him into a commitment to fast. In both cases it is usually a recipe for problems later. I already know I am emotionally damaged, but women are most likely even more damaged than me, so the bigger question is can I tolerate these issues without going crazy?
This girl is like my ex. When she speak it feels like she is very intelligent and knows how the world works but when you compare her statements with her statements at different times and different places you realize that she never ever for a single second believed in what she was saying.
A man's value is *NOT* determined by a woman.....What Fresh N Fit teaches actually goes in line with what she just said { a woman that has family values with feminen qualities }........But I respect her views, she's got some great perspectives.......
both were superb for asking the rigth question to get the most authentic answer
They pick wisely... absolute facts
She's defining high value in terms of how it is measured, not on its own term. A woman with a wretched personality that is good at saying no doesn't make her high value or make really high value men come after her. Likewise a man having a lot of options is evidence that he IS high value, not a definition of the term.
This is the truth. So happy Sadia is out there.
Hi gregory, are you that in the profile picture?
It's funny how men in red pill community can give their own definition of worth to women and can define the word traditional or high value women but when a respectable woman like Sadia does the same then they get mad and say how dare she gives a definition. Thank you for proving our point.
Delusional
They don't get mad, he just gave a wrong definition. She didn't even realize what is a high value woman, a 18 virgin woman is higher value than a boss babe rich 25 30 years old woman, if you cannot accept that practically woman almost never accomplished anything important to the society except her body and her egg you are not in the conversation. Proof is looking around you everything that necessary to living and every technology develop and maintain by men. So any accomplishment from a woman not has a value but her body and her egg is.
Sadia is a cloaked feminist. The fact she thought Jonah Hill was in the wrong for enforcing boundaries is evidence enough of this.
Red pillers are idiots most of the time, specifically to figure out healthy conclusions.But the premises like success give men more attractiveness and not so much for women is based on pur facts !
Because a girl is MD or PHD doesn't give her any additional dating value! Men with status I can assure you have more options!
Nobody decide what's attractive for the other sex... biology and evolution make men and women attracted to different things!
High value men are usually those top 1% men. Now, if she teaches women that you should reject this sort of man and be even pickier, then the situation may reach an insane level. Do the so-called high value men represent 0.001% of the total population? It's like advising men and women to be single forever. Her definition of high value men and women doesn't stack up, because by her definition even if a high value man is rejected by a high value woman he is no longer high value. Her definitions are brilliant on the surface level though.
I love her answer to your question. The best answer, How they were raised by the parents
Wow! Sadia Khan is so remarkable and distinct in her concepts and psychological position. Amazing
This video should be A MUST WATCH for both men and women ! Thx for posting
A very good talk show about what values should we place on ourselves both men and women thanks sadia khan I am watching your show from chennai, India on youtube ..... Great talk show with lot of psychology
She explained that very well!
Its not hard to "handle" a woman, its just that men wont spend energy everyday on that stuff
We find agreeableness to be an extremely attractive quality in women. From a guys perspective, we exert all this energy in providing for our family...the last thing we want is stress at home. We need rest, comfort, support, companionship
My value is based on what I can do in life, what do I contribute to society, my skillset, my personality
my love of and respect for life. I will walk my own road and it will be the right but more difficult road
High value men decide who are high value men. Not any women. No disrespect
The marketplace doesn’t work that way
@@donh1572 Yes it does. Women decide which men are attractive. They do not dictate which men are high value. Things like money & status do, and those things aren't exclusively controlled by women.
@@michael43567 wrong, even when I was fat and broke I was able to date hot women. You just need game. Don’t let the red pill community hold you back from great relationships
Women don't have to choose the man other men respect and love. Women determine what men they want.
@@donh1572 dating hot women didn't make you high value bro. Being a high value man doesn't have much to do with women. It's to do with money, status, what you've achieved & being respected by other men.
So, the value of a woman is determined by the men she can reject? Is that a parameter? Why the value someone has should come from an external individual?
Good point. However, if a woman sleeps around with different men that would greatly lowers her value. Our value greatly depends on the people we allow into our lives.
Do y’all agree on her definition of a high value man? On another podcast, she said a woman rejected a man isn’t always on him and that Sometimes, it can be because she’s having a bad day
She also said in a podcast that women don't lie. But in this one she is saying that if you think women don't lie then you are naive.
@@IntellectCorner gooodddd catchhhh
What I'm getting is that the value of a human beng is not intrinsic but rather socially determined?
If such belief does operate on a large scale and it truly did, you know what could happen? That's how Nazis viewed the world.
A high value man is reflected on who he was yesterday compared to who he is today. The same goes with a high value woman. Human beings have intrinsic value. Which means his or her value is not determined by who will submit to him or who she can reject.
This veritable queen , of a young woman , is so needed now . With poise , intelligence , encouragement, and grace , she speaks this poisonous , woman hating incel culture , straight out of relevance , and hopefully soon , with enough young men aiming right , clean out of existence too .
Ive never thought about it like this, this was good stuff here
In the comments there are so stupid people. She speaks about a particular aspect which are man/woman relationships. Agree 1000% with you Sadia. Keep up the work.
Yeah, I went a little way with this. The number and/or quality of women you can get to submit to you, that’s what makes a high value man. Well, speaking to the man, don’t feel bad if it doesn’t happen. There is literally no-one on the planet, man or woman, anywhere, that will submit to me the way they used to. Using that I am a 100% alone. Now, you can’t just go and sign up if you think that’s the thing for you. I’m really not sure how much it happens. But I got to tell you, sometimes, the most wonderful thing in the world is to not have to have power over someone else. It feels like freedom. Don’t know what to tell you.
Oh My God, she's a genius
She also said in a podcast that women don't lie. But in this one she is saying that if you think women don't lie then you are naive.
Which means she is naive.
Wow she's on point
I would have like for the interviewer to ask her if persons who grew up with fathers who don't tell their sons about women. What would happened to them ?
I liked this interaction more!
Valid questions asked.
✍️
Yes who have morals !
Sadia is pretty spot on about high value men.
My counselor friend always told me. Only be with a woman who had a close relationship with her father
She raised some good points but her definition is circular
This is fire 🔥
Interesting point of view
How would it sound if I said a woman’s value is dependent on whether a man stay loyal to her. Laughable. She did just the same
But today most value money, cars, fashion. So the high value women used to define a high value man, is flawed at best. The core of the issue is that value has a twisted meaning nowadays. For example, everyone knows the names of celebs or most politicians or CEOs like Elon. Do you know the name of your local firefighters? The former groups, will crap their pants in the slightest of dangers, the latter literally walk into fire to help others. I know who I class as valueable.
I understand what she’s saying but what she’s missing is high value guys sleep with physically attractive women MOSTLY FOR FUN. If they marry her then I agree with her but he’s JUST having FUN with her then I disagree with her. The clarity here is… what is the high value guy’s INTENTIONS? Sex or marriage? Most pro athletes cheat on their wives with groupie girls on the road but they will never marry them. It’s important to point out the 2 DIFFERENT INTENTIONS.
This high value and low value stuff is based upon your worldview and what each individual esteems
I think Fresh & Fit have a lot of great ideas that are rational and missing from the vantage point of young people who grew up in single parent households and exposed to too much porn early on. They do have a background in Muslim traditional beliefs, which does affect their views to an extent that they may come off as extreme, so definitely not perfect. I don’t have any real opinion on their own value (high or not), because I realize that most people are hypocrites or have skeletons they don’t let you see, so the value remains on the advice and points they make. I do think young men are clueless as to how the roles benefit society, and reversing them affects their mental health in unforeseen ways.
The first mistake is to listen to advice from a woman. The value of a man is from within him. If he is wise, has integrity, compassion, and brings value to the world, then he's a high value man. Men like Einstein, Edison, Musk, Buddha, Buffett, etc. A woman is a complement to a man, but never his identity.
High value man is someone who is loyal to his single beautiful wife, and can support his wife both emotionally and financially. He will never even think of "women" submitting to him. Simple. I am a psychologist. Believe me she is manipulating her opinions empowering and supporting women. At the same time discouraging men subtly. She definitely has men problems.
Their hating on fresh and fit lmao 😂 they actually opened the eyes of many men . They speak facts . Yes what they say tho is that women now in days are not “trained by fathers bc they are absent y’all should listen to full podcast before trying to talk trash about em. I started listening here bc of fresh and fit ….I’m out lmao 😂
Are you sure that children really need both parents? What if a parent passed away at their very young age ?
2:58 ..... 7:51 CFF
Can you make a video on how to become a high value chipmunk?
Is Saida Khan married?
OMG. This woman is Sick.
Starting Point. There is no such thing as a "High Value" Man.
All humans are of equal value. Define your weirdness. Live it unapologetically. And connect with the one that gets it and loves it unconditionally.
You may have PTSD. And she may have a Dad or brother who had it so she understands well. And you can both heal from teaching and learning from eachother.
Secondly. You are not defined by the women you pay for.
A woman is not worth less because she is a stripper.
By that line of thought, a woman who obsesses over money and wears too much make up like this one are of 'low value' in some cultures.
Absolute bullshit about absent parents. You are not damaged goods and neither is she/he.
Connections heal. And if you cultivate a healthy connection with someone, you can heal eachother. As friends first. Then maybe as more.
As for parental alienation syndrome, this woman has not read the studies. The terms "access" and "custody" have been made redundant because of their negative implications, for years.
The long term studies show that
Children can find their balance in understanding their connection with the absent parent through connections with others - a family member, a mentor, the other parent they reconnect with, or a partner.
Ultimately, they find their peace by cultivating their own connection with themselves. Ie. Finding and living a purpose, understanding the absent parent, connecting with the absent parents families and forgiving them .... There are many ways.
As for high value women being ones who reject the most high value men... WTF???
This is a sick shallow woman talking about '"high value women" and "high value men" as though some humans are more important than others. She needs to do some volunteer work, live in a remote Community, and work on herself.
Life is about Connection, not stratification.
Anyone listening to this and living like this is making their lives harder for themselves and missing opportunities to make valuable authentic connections. You can learn so many valuable things from strippers, people with mental health issues, people from lower socio economic backgrounds and impoverished communities.
You're making yourself sick defining humans by virtue of their income social stratification or how many women/men they have dated.
Everyone has something to teach. When you see life as a learning experience, you begin to enjoy the journey and this is the most valuable thing you can do for yourself. ❤️
Yup.she hit it on the head cause they are not high value men
I didn't agree with the definition of HVM.... its soo elite & abstract....
Why can't woman accept the man on right time who has done the same mistake which was done by her father when he was youth provided that man had good character in past and present except few mistakes done over the particular period of time. (Oct 2011- April 2013)
What if a man didn't have both parents? Raised by grandma and no structure?
A woman who have never lived a male experience telling you how to be a hvm .. bruh
"Value"
"High Value Man" is a very attractive guy; none of this bullshit being spouted on this clip.
no ure wrong, is a high value man a good looking guy who beats women and abuses them? no
@@dn3772 morals don't dictate who's high value. Which's why a guy like Epstein was still high value
@@michael43567 that's only if u decide that a high value man is a man who can get lots of women.
@@dn3772 why do you keep bringing up women as if they dictate who high value men are? It's things such as status, money, network & power that dictate whether someone is a high value man.
@@michael43567 cus they're the same thing, alot of women are attracted to those things
You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish.
You don't ask a woman how to 'catch' a woman.
You are assuming that relationship only benifits one side at the expense of other side.
@@IntellectCorner You are assuming wrong by assuming what I am assuming.
There is no such thing as value in this universe. This is just a human concept without any substance.
Guess I'm not valuable at all, who knew!
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Such a typical woman's viewpoint on porn, that she can't see any value in it and thinks it's purely detrimental. Porn is like most things in life. It can either be an incredibly useful tool, or it can be something that becomes detrimental. For me it has always been a fantastic tool for sexual exploration, for learning about my own desires and sexuality etc, and gave me a much clearer picture of myself and what I need in life. But of course women can get sex whenever they want, so why would they need to use porn to learn about themselves, when they can just hook up with tons of different dudes to learn about what they do and don't like instead. There's just so much blind ignorance in women when it comes to porn.
What do you learn in porn as a man?
There are many men out there that watch a lot of porn and yet, they are not good lovers in bed. Why?
Because there is only one way a man can become good in bed, good lover, and that is through INTIMACY with ONE very honest woman that would give him an honest feedback without faking her orgasm.
LISTEN MILADY SAIDA KAHN, THE BEST MAN A WOMAN CAN GET IS A MAN THAT WORSHIP HIS CREATER, WHO HAS A GOOD CHARACTAR, AND HE KNOWS WHERE HE IS GOING, BACK TO HIS CREATER AND THERE HE WILL FIND HIS TRUE VALUE, DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME??? ❤❤
A woman does not define high value man.
Low value man detected
Her takes are very materialistic and quite low resolution
Another fish that wants to teach the fishermen how to catch it......
She wants him for sure.
By not wasting time listening to this BS. Thats how you be a high value man.
SORRY SAIDA KAHN, YOU ARE WITHOUT MAKE-UP MACH AND MACH BEAUTIFULER. YOU DON'T NEED MAKE-UP, PLEASE ❤❤
Literally no guy with any experience thinks she has any credibility.
I'm sure she's freeky