Traditional Wife Movement: A Call Back Home
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- Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
- This is a video about the traditional wife and her impact in the world. It compares it to the working mom and how different life is at home.
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Our co-op is full of homeschool moms that have degrees in nursing, art, writing, science, culinary, and there's even a doctor. I think this is so important, if your spouse passes away atleast you have a means to take care of your family. And I think its a testament to how much these moms love their babies and roles as mothers, that they put their family first. I also hope my daughters get this chance to be traditional moms and wives, its the happiest job ive ever had 😊
I absolutely support women going to school! All my girls, God willing will be encouraged towards their Bachelor's degree but when they decide to have children I am teaching them that they now have a new role- which is to raise their family. Their degrees can be used in their home and in entrepreneurship as they raise their families just as the ladies you noted in your homeschool cooperative. Thank you for this example!
@@JadyA I love you Miss Jady A, God bless you always, you're such an amazing inspiration to us all ❤️ Thank you!
I graduated from law school, and always dreamed of being a "high#powered" attorney, but God took me through some trials that led me into SAHMotgerhood. Now, I see why God did what he did, bc I needed to be at home with my children. But, I understand the judgement when people ask what you do, and you say you're a SAHM. Took me a while to be okay with that answer, bc I didn't place value on being a mother.
This and everyone who can afford it sould have a decent life insurance policy on both parents. If the stay at home parent dies you need that money for childcare. If the working parent dies you need that money for survival.
I have been a "trad" wife and mother for 30 years. We have 8 children all but two are adults now. We have also been homeschooling for the past 18 yrs. It makes my heart happy to see young moms making this choice.
This homeschooling scares me. I've seen how big the holes are in the knowledge of some professional teachers. How can you begin to give the high school children the full range of sports and science and literature and mathematics and art and languages?
@@mjowsey in my country they have the circle or community.They not stay at home 24h .they organize a sport and others social programs within the homeschooling community, so they can have it like another student in public school. They also have an online program for art,math and others.It's not all the mother and father teaching them. they did go outside.
As a man, I started to follow your channel as I wanted to be able to teach my son to read, seeing schools using the "global" method instead of the "phonetic" method.
Then I realized watching your videos how educated (reading books) and hard working mother(waking up early doing so many meaningful things for your family and yourself) you are.
You are raising your kids well, you're teaching them a lot of things that society have told us to forget about and that are very useful and will become more useful.
You can be proud of yourself and your kids will be, no doubts.
Thank you, I love seeing the perspective of a Dad who is involved in education!
Amen, I love this video! My mom stayed at home until I was 10, and she was my inspiration to be a sahm for 8 years with my three sons. They are all grown now, and if only I could reverse the years, I’d do it all again and again.
Ladies, cherish your babies. You don’t get that time back, and the years are precious and fleeting.
I am very blessed to be a stay at home mom of 6, 6months - 12yr.
It’s hard but we make it work. My husband has a regular Joe job. But we both do what we can and help each to make it work.
What you said was so important. I think that so much of the reason why so many people mock stay at home moms is because of our modern capitalistic view of success. As a sahm I have to not care at all about what society views as successful and glamorous.
I worked through my first son and daughter’s first few years. It was so bad, I was always stressed, worried who my children were really with and how they were being raised. When I found out I was expecting my third, I decided it was time to be home. My first son was 6 and daughter was 4 when I had my second son. I’ve been home for over a year now. And though it has been the biggest financial struggle, God has provided for us. I would not want to go back to job at all right now!! I LOVE being here with my children, watching them grow and learn, being here to teach them and feed them what they need!! It is indeed a beautiful thing to be here and present. I regret that I missed out on all those things with my other two!
I grew up in a house with my parents and a little brother. I've some memories of my dad arriving late at home and my mothers always complaining. So, I grew up thinking "I don't want to be the person who stays at home, I want to go out and live out my life". Now I am 27 years old and have a 2y son. I got pregnant and found out after I had broken up with his father. I came back home, living just two of us, and I came back to Jesus. This year, in May, God showed me my husband-to-be. We are praying together, talking about our expectations and dreams, and there was a special moment when he said something about serving him, like, cooking and serving him, I felt so bad, like it was humiliating. I'm praying to God to renew my mind and bring the godly married to our lives.
I am trying to look at myself from a different perspective, as a traditional wife, it's hard because even the word ''traditional wife'' sounds bad to me, but I want to be this happy woman who fills the home with love and gratitude.
Yes!!! I have a masters in mental health and have only ever wanted to be a traditional wife. Finally we’ve been able to make it happen, although I do still bring in income tutoring. I’ve been home since 2021 and I love every minute! Homeschooling and running my home has been the best decisions we’ve ever made!
8:40 For me, the positive thing about Covid is that I was able to have my daughter with me. She has never been to daycare.
Here in Canada we have 12-18 MONTHS maternity leave. The U.S. is only country in the developed world that does not offer any paid maternity leave. Most States have laws that prevent puppies from being separated from their mothers before 8 weeks. Dogs are treated better than mothers in America. I think demanding paid maternity leave is the key, so that ALL women have a chance to raise their babies in the "trad" way. I think there needs to be a call to all women to demand better. There is absolutely no reason why America, the #1 richest country on the planet, cannot offer 12-18 months maternity leave.
We ARE here demanding better by voting. But aside from voting for better policies, there’s not much we can do 😔
It is offered depending on were u work and what pay range your in..But as for the minority its not a thought
As a Muslim, I could not have agreed with you more on this. Our values are so similar❤
I glad you spoke on this being a Traditional mom can be loney when not too many women can relate to your journey. I glad for your platform it has help with my mindset as a wife and mother homeschooling and has been confirmation that Im on the right path as a homemaker. ❤
Love this! I have always said I was going to be a sahm and homeschool my baby. I have a 5 year old son now and am a sahm and I am homeschooling him. I love our time together and would never change or give it up.
What no one really talks about is how at the end of the "career age" most women are running to retirement. My mother and mother in-law both hated not being able to stay home for long periods of time to babysit and enjoy their first grandchild and grandchildren. They both had to work jobs that were fun in their younger years but due to becoming older were no longer enjoyable. And because they weren't at the official age for retirement they just had to endure and ended up getting illnesses which caused both of them to finally have time to just be home.
Such a beautiful testimony. I am a SAHM, and went to law school and held one law job before staying home. It was too much for my family…it’s very hard at home sometimes and sometimes I need the inspiration in videos like your video here to keep going. It is rewarding to stay home but sometimes very isolating. So thank you.
I was a software engineer before. It is very stressful job. After my masters program I conceived my first child and never looked back in my career. I read this book on how to homeschool krishna conscious children by Arudha. She is wonderful. I got inspiration and my son is now 5 yrs old and still homeschooling. I really enjoy all the wonderful moments together with him. Thank you Jady for your videos as it helps moms like us to validate what we do also matters. I have a very supportive husband so that really helps. As you said staying at home and taking good care of the house is a privilege. I use my knowledge and skills to help my community and also educate other children.
It is a privilege indeed for those woman who can 😢.
This is such a great video and reminder of the importance stay at home traditional moms/wives are doing! I feel blessed to be a stay at home mom since I had my first baby. He will be 12 this week and I feel so privileged and blessed to be with him ever since he was born. Kids grow up too fast we have to enjoy every moment we have with them. God bless you Jady for this beautiful reminder.
Love your video and sharings. I'm also a sahm.
Maybe only 2/10 of my gfs are sahm,im feeling so odd many days, Praise Lord I have a supportive husband, mom and great channel like yours..
Thank you Judy.
Lots of Love from Malaysia.
I get to be a stay-at-home mom on the weekdays but still have to work overnights on the weekends as a nurse. It's like a knife in the chest every time I have to leave my children.
There is no peace like the peace I gained since becoming a Mother!❤️Watching my Son grow and develop is a blessing! There is soooo much to do as a Mother, it’s fun, it’s demanding, it’s rewarding, it’s all the things, it’s a true blessings👨👩👦
I used to be a teacher. When I got pregnant, I left and have been home ever since! I love being home with my kids and taking care of my home and husband. While I don't homeschooling (I did for pre k) most teacher/staff has told me how well behaved my son is and how well spoken and respectful he is with him being 5. Well I stayed home with him and worked on social emotional skills and taught him how to act in public.
Jady, eres una gran inspiracion para madres y mujeres que hemos despertado a la realidad de la maternidad con proposito. Dios te bendiga!
I went through and deleted a lot of people I was subscribed to,,,,but I love yours,,,I homeschooled ,,I am now 67 and have 8 grandchildren,,,you are a very wise woman of God,,,,thank you for all you share❤️
Yes. Yes. Yes and again yes.
You said it all. This video is packed with truth!
Thank you Jady for this
I am currently a stay at home Mum and down deep inside my heart I can’t ask for anything else.
I am feeling so grateful to be in this position
I wish I could be a trad wife. My ex husband HATED me being a stay at home mother. I did it anyway for 4 years because I knew it was best for our daughter. He is military and is away 75% of the year. I hope my next husband values a proverbs 31 wife like I want to be.
This was such a well worded video, it was a beautiful encouragement, thank you ❤
29 year old SAHM of 4 soon to be 5 kids. Never been more happy and fulfilled ❤
Anyone else striving to be a trad wife while struggling with postpartum depression???
It's hard 😔
I went through that and definitely feel for you. Years later I realized for me it was kind of a mourning period where I was grieving the woman I had thought I would become. I always dreamed I'd be a career woman but suddenly I was a teen mom. I felt like a loser. Oddly enough, my oldest and I now remember it as some of the best moments we experienced with me being home even though I was battling those emotions internally. Prayer and encouragement by a great relative is what brought me through.
Same I felt like a loser as well but God has kept me through it all. It’s alright to be a sahm there’s nothing more important than raising children.
Thank you! This video needed to be made and you give great reasons why the traditional wife is to be valued and why it is such an honor to be a “trad” wife.
I am so glad for the #tradwife movement. I remember at 6 years old thinking I wanted to be a stay at home wife/mom but I never considered that a serious option. As you touched on, I was taught from a young age to never trust a man. While it may not be an option for me now, I am glad there's so much wise information available to young women who desire to be traditional wives.
I’m blessed to be a SAHM and homeschooling mom of 3 beautiful girls. I discovered the same reasons you mentioned in your video 4-5 years ago, left my job and never looked back. I regret only that I didn’t do it earlier. I had to learn (and I’m still learning) home making and it takes time, effort and a lot of patience.
I want to be this. But my husband doesn't want this. But i do . Any advice because we think totally different now and it is frightening. We have 6 children. I need some support on how to deal with this. He wants public schools i don't. He let everything you can think of happen negatively. To the point that i am stressed to complete anything. I am trying to keep my head up. Thank you for your videos 😊😊
I would say to calmly and sweetly let him know how the family would benefit from you being home. Homemade meals, save on daycare, gas etc. That you will be in a much better and calmer place to care for the kids and him as well (kiss on the head). It should help to look cute while you deliver your message. Pray about it girl!
Thank you for the advice 🙏. I think we are past that stage, though.
@bosswigsacademy3465 I hear you, don't throw in the towel. You guys have 6 beautiful children counting on you. I read that us wives have a greater power to influence our marriage as opposed to our husbands. If we are able to make subtle changes they can have a great impact. I would recommend a book by Dr. Laura Schlessinger, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. That book goes in depth about what I mentioned previously. Lastly, it wouldn't hurt to make meals you know HE likes, pull yourself together before he comes home, and be available to him at night. With a kind attitude of course. All of these things will speak nothing but love and appreciation for him, and in turn you will soften his heart and mind on the matters that mean most to you.
@@shakeishadoesitallthat's hard. praying for you
Been following you for years. You’re an amazing inspiration and role model for traditional mothering and schooling!
Here is something I want to see addressed, that keeps a lot of women from choosing the stay-at-home-mom option. There are way too many men out there now who do not value this role in a wife and worse, expect both out of a spouse- breadwinner and keeper of home and tending children.
Wow, such a great message! thanks for sharing your heart. It's what I needed to hear as a stay-at-home mom.
Thank you so much for this beautiful message. I couldn’t agree more with mom not being home to be with their kids. missing so much time and not able to really teach and make that connections.
I wish I can be a full time mom but I’m able to work part time and go home early to pick up my kids and really be there for them.
When I was full time I was tired and saw the difference in my kids and in my marriage.
We are losing this traditions. I do believe this is the reason why we have kids having anxiety and depression.
Man wants a women that can take care of them, the home and the kids. Women don’t want to served their husband which some ends up in divorce.
Life is so short why have kids and family if your not gonna take of them.
Thank you so much, sister! This is so well put together ❤️
Always inspiring, I have become that Mother, who stays in the motherhood which is my season right now, and praising Master Jesus for His amazing grace. Thank you for your videos, I believe God is taking His rightful place in our homes as it was meant to be through this holy movement of being traditional wives. God bless
God bless you Jady! I’m a 26 year old mother with 2-3 year olds I’ve always wanted to stay home and looking at your videos are always educational. I love these talk videos sometimes I loose disbelief in myself, but I get through it with prayer 🙏🏼
I love this message so much, Jady! Yay to trad wife movement :)
I absolutely love being a traditional wife. When people ask, “ So what do you do?” meaning where do I work, I tell them I am a stay-at- home wife. Then, they automatically assume that I have children, so they inquire about them. They are completely shocked when I tell them I have no children--yet!
This is something I have always known that I would be since I was in the 2nd grade. It’s a lot of work ( despite what some may think), but I absolutely love it!
I was a first grade teacher, but when my daughter (now 5) was born my husband and I decided we wanted to raise our children (not a grandparent or daycare). I have been a stay-at-home mom ever since. My career was to make an impact on children, but in ANY job you have, you can be replaced in a few weeks. I will never be replaced at home. And the impact I am making at home will go on for generations. ❤ There is NOTHING like being there for every first. There is nothing like showing my kids the world, and seeing the world through my children’s eyes. It is the greatest blessing.
I love this, thank you so much! I’m 22 mom I stay home with my 2 daughters I homeschool and this video is so motivating and inspiring, thank you Jady
Beautiful! Thank you, Jady.
God bless you and your family Jady! I *love* being a trad wife!!!!
I enjoyed every minute of this video, what a beautiful gift
I could listen to you all day. Thank you for reminding me hoe lucky I am.
I love this video❤thank you for coming out to the public, to speak about a very (needed) unpopular topic
I love your videos and just your wisdom. I could listen to you all day. Thank you for sharing. Xx
Such a sweet and heartfelt video! Love you my friend!
You're just simply amazing, Jady! I'm always looking forward to your videos. Love and God bless you! I pray that our Lord Jesus Christ continues to bless you all In every area of your lives 🙏 ❤️🎉
Bless you sister for the encouragement and speaking up in a world of shaming and demonization of what was ordained from the beginning and sticking to your beliefs and values standing on Christ. And to all moms and soon to be moms and future moms. It's definitely time we come back to being in order not only in our households but with our GOD.
Peace and blessings to all ❤️
I needed this 😢❤
Most families cant afford for one parent to stay at home, they need the two incomes to survive.
Most can but have to adjust their standards of what's necessary to live. Also, as she said, staying at home doesn't mean that you can't bring in an income.
@@U_neeklissagreed.
Beautifully said. Definitely sharing this.
Thank you so much.
Needed this encouragement.
It’s beautiful to be a mom , to be a traditional wife.
Before being born again and accepting Jesus as My Lord and savior I couldn’t understand staying at home. My mom raised me alone, with disabilities & I was the bread winner. Super independent. And in the world that’s all you see is women making their own money and being independent and never dependent on man.
Now I’m a stay at home mom of 2 under 2. Married. And I don’t regret it.
Please make more videos like this. This is new to me only been 2 years it gets hard but I’m learning God is helping me.
I feel like crying because you speak so beautiful may the Lord bless you.
SAHM (muslim) here from Belgium with two kids, 1 and 4 yold. Love your videos.
Thanks Jady thanks a lot. you're always so inspiring❤
Loving this video from Belgium . Going to stop my job very soon to be a sahm. Hoping to make up for the lost time with my children ❤
You've put it so perfectly. Exactly what my feelings are about women choosing to not work outside the house. After all we are the nurturers.
Love this.
In another video I recall you said: “People want to change the world. Start with your own home, own children, they are the next generation.”
That really hit me because I’ve always wanted to make a difference in the world. But never knew my role as a mother was so impactful and meaningful.
Thanks for this. It’s so counter-society right now, but I find it insightful and important to think about.
God bless you. You are 1000% correct.
I started loving and enjoying morey children every day. I thought working and making money for my family is gonna make everyone happy but I was wrong. I'm very grateful for my husband who let me stay home home mom and teaching our kids ♥️I see the difference between homeschooling and non schooling kids. Very big difference. Watching your videos inspired me more to continue what I'm doing for my kids and my husband ❤thank you so much ❤
Love this!
Thank you!
Thanks Jady thanks a lot God bless you
My husband has a mother that worked from sun up to sun down. She was never available, always tired and didnt run the home. When I said that I wanted to be home from my corporate Finance job and only work part time, he agreed so quickly. I haven't looked back!😊
Also I worked at a day care for a few years. Those reports are made up. We were NOT allowed to write milestones on them until the parent stated the child did it at home even if they did it at day care already. 😢
Amen to the sacrifices. Its frustrating to hear "I wish I could be a SAHM". We have 1 car, live in a 675 square foot house, no vacations, no fancy modern clothes, all our furniture is used, etc. So many families COULD make the same choice but their priorities are different.
I would love to be a stay at home mom but finances are tough. I'm busy trying to figure out what I can do to create passive income so I can finally do what I love. But you're right Jade, when I share this dream people often start to look down on me, like I'm stupid or confused.
Loved this video. I’ve always been with my son since day 1. I was blessed to have my mom have a daycare business where I was able to work with my son with me. After I moved I became a full time stay at home mama. I was very insecure with all the negative comments. But the lord help me understand that this is what I always wanted. I did have make sacrifices and downsize but It’s been a blessing regardless of how others see it. I’ve been homeschooling my son for 3 yrs now. It’s nerve wrecking but I trust the lord is helping me and my husband strongly believes in me being home. I’ve learned so many homemade recipes from scratch too.
Proud member of traditional WIFE!😊
I agree 100% with you Jady!
I recently took on a part time role, but I feel called to grow my family and to homeschool. I planned to take my daughter to private school, but that will become unattainable with more kids. You and other homeschooling mamas inspire me 💖
Wow, Jady! I love this video a lot. It hit hard. There were two things I wanted to be Since I was a little girl, and those were to be a mom and a teacher. I am trying to convince my husband that I must stay home. We have a 6 year old and it is hard. I can't do it all. I am ready to put teaching to the side for a bit. Maybe when my youngest is older, I can do it again, but right now, I know in my heart I belong home. Thank you Jady for this video ❤
I love your outlook on this- motherhood is a truly beautiful time in our lives. However, as a physician who has spent so many years in training and practice, it’s hard to just leave that part of myself behind. I have found a great balance where I can work two days each week. I have terrible guilt about the days that my children must spend with another caregiver, but at least now I have a little more time with them. Love your channel!
Amazing video. Thanks for sharing 💚
Amein! Well said... 😊
I love being a SAHM and homeschooling. I just could never understand why we have them and kick them out so quickly. They are gifts on loan from the Lord. I don’t want to miss a thing or relinquish my responsibility to anyone. No one loves them like us
Stay home dad + homeschooling. Thanks for the video.😮
What is it worth to gain the world if you loose your soul?
You are doing brilliant ❤
Inspiring inspiring inspiring
Jady, I love your books and your patience with your children. I also agree children need to create bonds and special moments with their parents. But I believe fathers are just as able to raise children and make wholesome meals. And I know husbands who are super happy to be the stay at home caretaker. We need to encourage men to take on this role too.
Huge valuable video
Great video ❤
God Created Marriage for companionship but civilization and modernalism seems to turn everything.But the word of God stands sure! Marriage is great having nice time with my family and kids!
All praise and thanks to God, we are a Muslim family, and I thank God that I'm already on board and have been a Traditional Wife for 26 years now. I'm privileged, blessed, and happy to have been able to do such for our now four young adult children who were all homeschooled, and although I am presently raising my two youngest grandchildren, unfortunately our second eldest daughter ran into some issues in her life and needed help with her two children, I'm thankful that I already know what to do, it takes a lot and worth it, able to do, and happy to do it; and we are young grandparents by the way 😅. I thank you for sharing this. 🤲🏽
I wish I could create and stick to meal plans and cleaning schedules but I just can’t seem to manage! If I’m cleaning I feel guilty I’m not with the kids! If I’m with the kids I feel guilty I’m not cleaning 🤦♀️
How old are your children? Are they able to help with cleaning? If so, have them help with cleaning. Try to tackle 1 room together than take a break and play a game, read a book, or sing a song together. Guilt is not of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Do your children have bedtimes? You could clean up for an hour after they go to bed or an hour before they get up in the morning….
I love this video. It’s empowering. However I am sure I am the minority here. I just started staying home about 1 year ago. I have a 5 year old that just started kindergarten and my 1 year old. I struggle daily with anxiety and depression. I want nothing more than to thrive and be the mother I wish for my sons. However my mental health really takes a toll on me. I did ok with one child but now that I have both I feel so overwhelmed. I also didn’t grow up with a mother and don’t really have an example. I’m thankful for channels like yours for guidance. Any tips on how to feel less overwhelm would be greatly appreciated
God bless you ❤❤❤
AMEN ❤
Im a traditional sahm and i love it! and my husband provides. I worry that if i loose my husband ( God Forbid) how will i survive financially.
Put money aside for yourself, start an Etsy online business, make sure there's a strong life insurance policy in place, etc.
High value women stay at home.mums ❤
My religion Islam teaches us women to be educated or our Lord and to raise and nurture our children and happily look after our husbands and our homes with joy.
And the man is to provide, protect and lead the family with great strength. Islam teaches the husband and the wife to have high values, morality and to have the best of character.
There is a saying in my religion that when you have a woman who is educated then she can raise a whole nation.
She didn’t start the trad wife movement but she definitely made it more popular and got attention from big names that shared her videos and interviewed her
Thank you from Russia!
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My mom didn’t work. My parents were divorced, but she never worked. When I grew up I wanted to be a stay at home mom. I wanted to be home when my kids got home and be there for them. I got married not thinking this would be possible. I had to work. I am actually getting divorced. Maybe we could have done it had we discussed it. It is important to know what you want and discuss it with the person you are dating. Thankfully I get to work from home so I am here when my kids get home from school.
You know, it's so funny I said this to an older man I used to work with around 2013 or 2014 and he was shocked to hear this form a girl in her 20s
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