Where a woman can derive no benefit, or future benefit, from a man then no association takes place to begin with or the relationship ends. Briffault was right. The odd thing is that men blindly take the bait hook, line, and sinker with something completely different in mind.
Please reverse it back to men. From my experiences, men are the one playing the games not women. A lot of men are using us women for our money. They take and take and lies upon lies so talk about men not women. A lot of relationship coaches are always warning women about men because women are very tired of those narcissistic games men play period. Women are tired too because men are the ones playing games and the silent treatment and ghosting which women don't have time for the nonsense.
If you drive a Ferrari and have an 8 bedroom mansion and earn £1 million a year......a woman will leave you for a guy who drives a Lamborghini and has a 9 bedroom mansion and earns £2 million a year!!!
That’s called “The Bigger Boat Theory.” A woman will always bail on you for the man with a bigger boat. Doesn’t matter how much you love her or how many resources you’ve given to her, she will leave you when she perceives a better option. Loyalty is not a feminine virtue.
My mom cheated on my dad and then she tore the entire family apart, she mistreated me and my sister as well for years. I have suffered greatly thanks to (whom-en). I am good looking and I have an IQ of 126 and I have ZERO interest in dating. I'm going to walk with God instead, in him I find peace and morality.
I knew American women that left a good providing husband, a house and 3 intelligent nice kids to go with a playboy with 5 kids from 2 different wives and professional cheater.
Haha true. Most women are a boatload of work to be around and keep happy. And the things the do for men that they think is important we don't care about. Then they get angry because they are keeping track of those things and expect us to waste our time in similar ways.
I quit trying to Date this yea I was never lucky I was always hurt and mistreated and used by women when all I did was give them my heart they treated me like I was the bad guy.
@aaronnantz2289 It's NOT your fault you tried your BEST but your best just simply wasn't good enough for them and the truth is that it never will be because the world is not enough for them. Take my sound ADVICE and trust me on this one just simply do what's BEST for yourself and do whatever makes you happy because that's all that truly matters in your own life. The BEST life is the single life as a man without the trouble and strife.
@WayneBarton-u2n thanks and yea I know I always try to treat people good but people these days are jsut awful. I do t even understand why women even hate good guys but they like the guys that abuse them and treat them like shit just stupid in my opinion.
I work Security in Pubs and Clubs or the weekend. I often see women rejecting good looking guys, sometimes these guys are even better looking than them.. Lol lol... Another common issue now is women giving out their numbers then ghosting. I have experienced this myself a few times, women will flirt with me, ask me if I am single, give me their number, then not reply when you text or call them.. So childish, and these women are in their 30s, and 40s... Thats like applying for jobs, with no intention of going to any interviews if offered. No wonder a lot guys have given up, then they moan that there are no good men. Very sad how our society declined over the past 20yrs.
This has been going on for at least 15 years back. I used to work as a bouncer way back and these women are scandalous. Cheating all over the place, it was and now is probably even worse. Don't get married man, especially in the year 2024.
My son is 24 and says all women do the same. I, as a good faithful woman, stand by you men. All I want is my one man husband. I can never imagine more than one relationship
This happens more then you could possibly know. If normies and lvm betas knew the truth and had a r pill education, they wouldn't be wasting their time, money, hopes n dreams on such terrible ROI
One of the things I always see in stories is women will do stuff with Chads they won't do with regular boyfriends... That's because they really want the Chads.
I was done about 15 years ago. At worst, I might get a bit bored every now and then but 1. the overall peace is well worth it and 2. I'd rather spend time with my dogs.
I started trying to date 4 years ago after my wife died a couple years previous. I was late 50s, and tried dating in my age range, 5 to 10 years younger. Wow, I quickly realized the job interview comparison. I thought it was just me, but I spoke to other guys of all ages, and I heard the same story. I am not an ATM, and stopped 3 years ago. I did meet a sweet Filipina and have discovered the differences in foreign women.
My wife/best friend passed away 4 years ago after being with her for 20 years and two kids. I am now 55 and I dread the thought of dating as I don't think anyone gives a flying f@ck about me as a person. Its all about what they want. I enjoy my own company at this point and see the benefits of being alone. I see the difference between loneliness and oneness.
Not just a job interview, but by some arrogant, snarky, wrong-headed A-hole with a one-strike-and-you're-out policy and attitude. Women, if men must be in the top 2% to qualify, you don't get to give him 20 questions.
@@jameskowula4904 there is nothing wrong with focusing on yourself. You spent so many years being a husband and father. Now focus on being a good man. Peace to you
As a single man and 55 years of age,women my age have requirements thats no longer based in reality.They refuse to realize their value has gone way down.If i was going to buy a woman it would not be some menopausal woman it would be the younger model.
I am 35 years, believe me, Women in the 30ies are worse. You can Be a tall, handsome, high value, rich guy - you are still Not good enough. You won't be valued, doesnt Matter who you are. They still want someone better. I am 99% convinced IF you find a Woman with good value than an older one.
I liked this video… I’m 72, single, never married, no kids… healthy, fit, retired, pension, fat brokerage account and three international trips a year visiting fun, fit, friendly, feminine women abroad…
I am an adopted kid with other adopted siblings. 33M, 5 foot 5, not of a desirable mixed race. Somewhat autistic. I was already skeptical of marriage and dating as a kid. My foster parents separating when I was 15 and 16 sealed the deal for me. Watching how one parents weaponised the kids against the other for money disgusted me to my core. I lost a lot of interest and dating until my early 20s. Dated an 18 year old when I was 23 and dated an older girl when I was 25-26. I hated both experiences. The sheer gaslighting, toxicity, betrayal, disrespect, you name it caused me to shut down completely. An often overlooked factor for both genders is how both parents were and related to each other and their bonds with their kids. If this is broken, future relationships tend to be as well. Been single since 2016. Its honestly so peaceful.
Line Robin William's said in a movie, “I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.”
Personally, I think it's got way more to do with narcissism and the illusion of choice. Think back to your grandfather's era: every pretty girl he would meet with at most have a field of 20 to 30 guys vying for her affection. It gave him pretty good odds. If he was charming enough and her type he could end up with someone to build a life together with. Girls now have a bazillion choices, and they have no values. They willingly date terrible men if they feel like he is the best looking and with the most status... Morals and good nature have nothing to do with it anymore.
I became single six years ago. Wow, I had no idea how different it is now. Dating today is like playing the lottery and the main jackpot is ten dollars.
@jake90052 same here I have been divorced for about 5 years and ot has changed a lot I have been single for about 5 years now I can't believe how much it has changed in 28 years
That's often true! I've seen it tens of thousands of times in my life so far. Morals, integrity, honesty, faithfulness, accountability, decency... those too.
I as a man have fucked up a lot of times due to relationships. And others have fucked me over. In the long run, I have decided if there is no such thing as any guarantees, I choose to guarantee myself, life of selfishness, video games, and smoking/drinking.
I was the breadwinner, pharmacist x30 years and my now ex husband decimated my finances plus other things that don’t matter. I was never a materialistic person. I only wanted to provide for my spouse and our children. Post divorce dating was, as you said, a job interview. I’m happy being single and just chilling. I lost 25 years of my life to a man who cheated for 18 of those years. Not ALL women fall into your description. I don’t gossip with anyone online or in person. Definitely having good morals and being brought up to appreciate the value of hard work and The necessity for respecting those around you.
He cheated, you stayed. I guess it was him who left you. Women like men other women want to F. Had he been a good man, you would have cheated and left.
It is absolutely the main reason, and it's no secret, wise people have known it for ages. Let me recount for you a passage written by Will Durant, one of America's foremost historians, back in 1935 (!), in the first volume of his landmark _The Story of Civilization_ series: "The primitive male looked upon marriage in terms not of sexual license but of economic cooperation. He expected the woman and the woman expected herself to be not so much gracious and beautiful (though he appreciated these qualities in her) as useful and industrious; she was to be an economic asset rather than a total loss; otherwise the matter-of-fact “savage” would never have thought of marriage at all. Marriage was a profitable partnership, not a private debauch; it was a way whereby a man and a woman, working together, might be more prosperous than if each worked alone. Wherever, in the history of civilization, woman has ceased to be an economic asset in marriage, marriage has decayed; and sometimes civilization has decayed with it." Between their attitudes and the prevailing laws in the West, the overwhelming majority of women are ABSOLUTELY total losses in the economic sense.
Never lead with your wallet. Only go for vvomen choosing you. Don't chase. Don't invest too much as you need to understand that it's probably only temporary.
I with you, brother...my narcissist ex wife depleted me, she cost me my prime years and that's why I can never forgive her. I did see her get her karma though but I want more... fortunately karma is obliging very nicely.
@@bigneiltooa mans prime is like 30.40 and if your blessed you'll even look better then you did at 20. I know I do as long as you stay a good weight. Women are shriveling up when men are getting better looking and more established financially
Yep, I remember going through what you spoke of in my 20s, I’ve had two engagements, I’ve been truly in love once. But at 54 years old, anything available is jaded or has nothing to offer. I don’t try, and I truly don’t care anymore. Society is screwed by narcissism.
I'm 45. My parents were married for 50+ years just like my mates parents. In the days before instagram LGBTQand looks obsession people would date & stay faithful.
I originally walked away because of all the downsides of dating and relationships. Now, I stay away because of all the upsides of not dating and relationships.
If there was a marked shift in the dating scene I would maybe consider dating again but right now the risk to reward ratio is way too far outta whack. Guess the ladies will just have to miss out.😂
Last woman I was getting to know was also entertaining other men, saying they just friends. No thank you. I'm not going to jump over backwards to date a girl that has been ran thru and still wants to have fun
The other part of it is if they went crazy in their twenties it's possible they can never be faithful and it's also highly likely they are still entangled with a few of the better men they couldn't lock down in situationships. I've seen videos of very good looking women talking about this almost acting like it's a flex they are being used in their thirties still.
After 22 years of being single at age 48. My family talked me into dating again...i went on ten dates and none of them were good and these were women of different races, shapes and personalities. All of the dates turned out the same...they had no interest in me as a person. One i thought i had a connection with but she gave up on me after a week. Women want wifey treatment on the first date...chivalry and paying her way on dates to me you gotta earn that. Im not paying for first or second dates, i tell them this from the beginning but for some reason they think I'm still gonna pay their way. They have no patience, they want everything now and handed to them and they care nothing for a man as a person. They dont even put forth any effort either. The man has to do all the work. Its stressful dealing with women so i went back into not dating mode. I rather die alone than deal with these women.
This guy speaks the truth I’m seeing this with my own eyes. I’m a high school teacher and these girls go trough men like if it was candy they don’t care about their feelings, when they get bored after a few days they leave them. No remorse.
I saw someone else write this elsewhere but now it has become my new favourite saying when it comes to women and it goes.... The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
I’m happy I’ve found a good woman as my wife. She’s not perfect, but when I compare her to all of the narcissistic, manipulative and nagging women out there, I know I’ve got it made! They are out there! Just have to let them pursue you like she did me, because I wasn’t looking at the time she found me.
My first wife cheated on me with a friend of mine and it turns out she lied about how much she made and stole money every month. This is something her mother told her to do. I’ve been married to my second wife 22 years and so far everything has been good. I will say this if my wife dies, and I am left alone. There is no way in hell I would ever remarry or have another relationship in this environment.
Got divorced because of money, I'm a Christian, 5 of my Muslim friends are divorced for the exact same reason. Doesn't matter what race or religion there's only one saint these days and that's saint dollar.
I agree Brother. It's not good. We need to leave women alone and focus on God. It's not a loss to be single. Certainly better than being in a relationship that's toxic. This is a broken world and if a woman chooses to be part of it so be it. God bless
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As a Man with 3 daughters all under 6 and a Mrs of 12 years since we we're kids, i cannot start to imagine you single guys trying to date or meet a woman in todays world, women over the last 10 years seem to have completely disreguarded men in daily life, ontop of that you have the constant threat of maybe walking past a woman and brushing back to back as you squeze past and them saying you touched her, before you can say 'what?' Your job, family, income, freedoms and life is taken away without a second thought. Be careful out there boys, always stay with friends, stay in a public place and DO NOT ever go with a woman alone until you know 100% who they really are, it only takes one.
I started working out ten years ago at 60. I put on 40-50 pounds of muscle. I'm not tall at six feet but, everywhere I go, women of ALL ages hit on me aggressively. Of course, I ignore all women who appear to be 30 or over (or who tats, piercings, or ankle-biters). The young girls are thrilled to be taken to a restaurant without a playground.
I’ve been telling men for 20 years to get a passport and go to other countries where women are much nicer and more traditional like Costa Rica Brazil and of course Thailand and phillipines
My brother in-law told me to forget about what has happened in your past and move forward I told him you don't know what ots like out here things have changed he said love will always be the same it never changes he is lucky he is married to my sister and doesn't have to go through what we have been through
First video I've seen where the guy used scenarios and examples that actually happened to me exactly as he stated them. Crazy. Single life for me. Love it.
If they give u mixed signals, they don't like you. If you're Chad and they want you, they'll be sure to leave no doubt. Always understand that. And anything other than a certain "yes" is really a NO. "Gotta mind the neighbours cat"= NO. "Gotta search fo a birthday present for my sisters husbands stepfather"= NO. Learn womanese and stop wasting time and money.
Haven't dated for over 3 years, and this is because i tried online dateing, and they played me every time,breadcrumbed, then ghosted, and hid behind fake accounts,while laughing behind my back,and i have friends who have also gone through this,they take Narstictic ways to another level.
It is funny that I made a comment on your video yesterday about how I was done with dating, and now this is today's video. Now they don't even tell you if they are not interested in you. Now a woman will just give you her number and you will figure out that she is not interested later, when she "ghosts" you. So now getting a woman's number doesn't mean shit. Hell, I even had a girl give me her number, and I didn't even ask for it, but then she didn't talk to me. Not only are they living, breathing negativity in the flesh, but they've also become fucking weird. Pursuing them is total BS and is no longer worth what men put into it. It doesn't give back enough.
Before dating went left, I remember going on a date in a nice restaurant and the women kept looking around rather than talking or looking at me. The next day she called me and said I had a good time, I said I didn’t.
X wife left me almost ten years ago. Im 45 now. I think i went on one date since then. Still have no real desire to go down that road again. An interesting side note is i have a roommate that is a female. Have lived with her for three years and she has muscular distrophy so she is oretty laid up and can’t do much. The relationship i have with her (someone im not physically attracted to) is ten times more rewarding than anyone ive ever dated or married. So this tells me two things. I guess i was a bit shallow in the past, and that most people need to be humbled. Females and males.
Right on...I grew up during the feminine movement...they were in love with corporations/power/and status! I just gave up...never married, no children. I saw a couple of my friends what they went through during the collapse of their families through divorce!!
I used to go out on "dates" frequently. Very rarely did I have fun. I eventually inevitably concluded that it's highly unlikely that I'll meet one that's likeable. I challenge any man to ponder this: Do you really like women, or is it just your biological imperative motivating you?
After so many years, the last time I went to city to visit an office to renew my security license and after I finished with the office work I thought of checking out in a pub to fresh up past memories. To my astonishment, not a man was there, all women in baring-clothing sitting there , looking at me entering the pub, they all cheered me and welcomed me inside, all the more scaring me in utter shock. I stepped back and moved out there and then and then at the back of me I heard them saying ‘oh gosh, oh gosh, he walked out!! Why so ? I think I saved myself.
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It's always been this way, just more overt now
@@marklane61 true
Women don't want a life partner. Women want a lifestyle sponsor.
That's correct, all to finance how she feels, it's just stupid
Spot on
I couldn't have put it better myself.
Where a woman can derive no benefit, or future benefit, from a man then no association takes place to begin with or the relationship ends.
Briffault was right. The odd thing is that men blindly take the bait hook, line, and sinker with something completely different in mind.
What do you think all the TradWifeCrap some of you men want is?
Today's date is a job interview for a job where YOU pay them.
Pretty much
well said
That’s so on point
Excellent absorbation 😂
It’s pretty unbelievable
I'm ugly, I'm old, I'm single, I'm happy
Welcome in the club!!! lol
Im not ugly. Im not old. Still can't date...
Same here no kids there waste of time
I'm handsome I'm young I'm single I'm happy
Based
Long term relationships and marriage are over ……
Sadly😢
Please reverse it back to men. From my experiences, men are the one playing the games not women. A lot of men are using us women for our money. They take and take and lies upon lies so talk about men not women. A lot of relationship coaches are always warning women about men because women are very tired of those narcissistic games men play period. Women are tired too because men are the ones playing games and the silent treatment and ghosting which women don't have time for the nonsense.
Pretty sure about it XD enjoy
What’s sad is that NONE of these women can cite what THEY bring to the table besides sex and men are just better off paying for an escort
@ escorts - no fuss, no muss
If you drive a Ferrari and have an 8 bedroom mansion and earn £1 million a year......a woman will leave you for a guy who drives a Lamborghini and has a 9 bedroom mansion and earns £2 million a year!!!
For sure
If I have all that I'll leave her before she leaves me.# leasing
Yeah that happened to me, 5 million a year just wasn't enough for her.😂
@@spike178 Right, so you're the dude she was with before I got with her!!! 😂
That’s called “The Bigger Boat Theory.” A woman will always bail on you for the man with a bigger boat. Doesn’t matter how much you love her or how many resources you’ve given to her, she will leave you when she perceives a better option. Loyalty is not a feminine virtue.
A wise man said "Never sign a contract that will benefit the other party for breaking it"
My mom cheated on my dad and then she tore the entire family apart, she mistreated me and my sister as well for years. I have suffered greatly thanks to (whom-en).
I am good looking and I have an IQ of 126 and I have ZERO interest in dating. I'm going to walk with God instead, in him I find peace and morality.
❤👍
I knew American women that left a good providing husband, a house and 3 intelligent nice kids to go with a playboy with 5 kids from 2 different wives and professional cheater.
Which God? The one who ordered and participated in genocides? That peace and morality?
You must be a real hoot at parties
Careful.. Be smart and prepared iinstead. I got backstabbed by jesus a lot. Have 4 scars to probe it.
I haven’t dated in 7 years. I don’t feel that I’m missing anything. I have a calm peaceful life. No drama, no trauma & no chaos. No woman, no cry.
Yep!
Peace and tranquility is priceless.
Why would a man want to ruin his life by tethering himself to an obnoxious loser?
Haha true. Most women are a boatload of work to be around and keep happy. And the things the do for men that they think is important we don't care about. Then they get angry because they are keeping track of those things and expect us to waste our time in similar ways.
Yeah I’m done, it’s a nightmare out here. Not fun at all. Liars and cheaters everywhere.
We treated them to well for too long.
And it went to their heads.
Even 2s or 3s think they are 10s and expect you to be billionaires.
too well
I was already DONE even before I discovered the MGTOW manosphere.
Yes, long before
@@michaelvanhorn3271 Well for ME personally it's been far too long and guess what? I'M KEEPING IT THAT WAY.
I quit trying to Date this yea I was never lucky I was always hurt and mistreated and used by women when all I did was give them my heart they treated me like I was the bad guy.
@aaronnantz2289 It's NOT your fault you tried your BEST but your best just simply wasn't good enough for them and the truth is that it never will be because the world is not enough for them. Take my sound ADVICE and trust me on this one just simply do what's BEST for yourself and do whatever makes you happy because that's all that truly matters in your own life. The BEST life is the single life as a man without the trouble and strife.
@WayneBarton-u2n thanks and yea I know I always try to treat people good but people these days are jsut awful. I do t even understand why women even hate good guys but they like the guys that abuse them and treat them like shit just stupid in my opinion.
Society is crying out for a reset
It will come soon. So many things are just wrong.
It's like gambling in a Casino.
It's made for you to loose.
The only way to win is not to gamble.
Best comment I read today.
Good point
Divorced twice, I'll never do it again. I'm happily single and I'll die happily alone.
Never married.
Me too
It's an old saying......we all die alone. Married or single.
I'm done too.
Why did you only realize this the second time, and not the first time?
If i talk to a girl and the first thing she asks what i do for a living,or money talk,or car,do i have a house or apartment ,is a nope for me
Yes and no. You are spared. Consider it a blessing. ❤
That's a bit much. She could just be a bad conversationalist. What you need to know is how she feels about feminism and men and women's roles
I work Security in Pubs and Clubs or the weekend. I often see women rejecting good looking guys, sometimes these guys are even better looking than them.. Lol lol...
Another common issue now is women giving out their numbers then ghosting.
I have experienced this myself a few times, women will flirt with me, ask me if I am single, give me their number, then not reply when you text or call them.. So childish, and these women are in their 30s, and 40s...
Thats like applying for jobs, with no intention of going to any interviews if offered.
No wonder a lot guys have given up, then they moan that there are no good men.
Very sad how our society declined over the past 20yrs.
So sad
I checked out for that very reason. I can't stand that "ghosting" crap.
They won't be so smug when they're bitterly alone for the rest of their lives ... 😂
This has been going on for at least 15 years back. I used to work as a bouncer way back and these women are scandalous. Cheating all over the place, it was and now is probably even worse. Don't get married man, especially in the year 2024.
My son is 24 and says all women do the same. I, as a good faithful woman, stand by you men. All I want is my one man husband. I can never imagine more than one relationship
Hit the gym and never chase. They are only after money and move onto the next guy.
Nope they only after good looking males
That's so true
Very true. It's never enough & tiresome. Even more tiresome than the home gym 😅 which I love. My sanctuary
Men: paying for dinner.
Women: (checking their phone in case Chad who dumped her after a ONS writes back so she can stop by his place after dinner).
Not chad fault..
@@stefandee1970 Who said it was Chad's fault? It's HER fault for being unfaithful, shameless, promiscuous, easy and having unrealistic standards.
This happens more then you could possibly know. If normies and lvm betas knew the truth and had a r pill education, they wouldn't be wasting their time, money, hopes n dreams on such terrible ROI
THAT'S EXACTLY RIGHT
One of the things I always see in stories is women will do stuff with Chads they won't do with regular boyfriends... That's because they really want the Chads.
I was done about 15 years ago. At worst, I might get a bit bored every now and then but 1. the overall peace is well worth it and 2. I'd rather spend time with my dogs.
Yep!
dogs for men
cats for ladies
the human race has NO future
I started trying to date 4 years ago after my wife died a couple years previous. I was late 50s, and tried dating in my age range, 5 to 10 years younger.
Wow, I quickly realized the job interview comparison. I thought it was just me, but I spoke to other guys of all ages, and I heard the same story.
I am not an ATM, and stopped 3 years ago. I did meet a sweet Filipina and have discovered the differences in foreign women.
My condolences 🙏🏻
My wife/best friend passed away 4 years ago after being with her for 20 years and two kids. I am now 55 and I dread the thought of dating as I don't think anyone gives a flying f@ck about me as a person. Its all about what they want. I enjoy my own company at this point and see the benefits of being alone. I see the difference between loneliness and oneness.
Not just a job interview, but by some arrogant, snarky, wrong-headed A-hole with a one-strike-and-you're-out policy and attitude. Women, if men must be in the top 2% to qualify, you don't get to give him 20 questions.
My advice, forget "dating". Get a dog as your loyal partner, and when hormones strikes just pay their half an hour....🎉 Amen
@@jameskowula4904 there is nothing wrong with focusing on yourself. You spent so many years being a husband and father. Now focus on being a good man.
Peace to you
As a single man and 55 years of age,women my age have requirements thats no longer based in reality.They refuse to realize their value has gone way down.If i was going to buy a woman it would not be some menopausal woman it would be the younger model.
Like buying an old car with moon mileage and rough bodywork for new retail price .
I'm 55, and single too, and I hear what you're saying
I am 35 years, believe me, Women in the 30ies are worse. You can Be a tall, handsome, high value, rich guy - you are still Not good enough. You won't be valued, doesnt Matter who you are. They still want someone better. I am 99% convinced IF you find a Woman with good value than an older one.
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Androids are looking better. 😂😂😂
well said: Dating has become so unbelievably absurd. Unfortunately, staying single is the healthiest thing you can do these days
I find my Peace by my Self 💯😌 and enjoy my life 💯
🙏🏻
Yessir!
We have to understand that we are on our own .
100% brother. That’s harshest reality of the human condition and specifically with men. It’s hard to get over. Still trying to accept that myself.
I liked this video… I’m 72, single, never married, no kids… healthy, fit, retired, pension, fat brokerage account and three international trips a year visiting fun, fit, friendly, feminine women abroad…
Brilliant, you're crushing it then
72? You gotta be hitting Thailand then 😂😂👍
Boomer is going to Thailand lol u must’ve been with those ladyboys
I am an adopted kid with other adopted siblings. 33M, 5 foot 5, not of a desirable mixed race. Somewhat autistic. I was already skeptical of marriage and dating as a kid. My foster parents separating when I was 15 and 16 sealed the deal for me. Watching how one parents weaponised the kids against the other for money disgusted me to my core. I lost a lot of interest and dating until my early 20s. Dated an 18 year old when I was 23 and dated an older girl when I was 25-26. I hated both experiences. The sheer gaslighting, toxicity, betrayal, disrespect, you name it caused me to shut down completely.
An often overlooked factor for both genders is how both parents were and related to each other and their bonds with their kids. If this is broken, future relationships tend to be as well.
Been single since 2016. Its honestly so peaceful.
Line Robin William's said in a movie, “I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.”
49 years old and I am better than amazing on my own.
Been through it and it is NOT worth the cost and loss.
Personally, I think it's got way more to do with narcissism and the illusion of choice. Think back to your grandfather's era: every pretty girl he would meet with at most have a field of 20 to 30 guys vying for her affection. It gave him pretty good odds. If he was charming enough and her type he could end up with someone to build a life together with. Girls now have a bazillion choices, and they have no values. They willingly date terrible men if they feel like he is the best looking and with the most status... Morals and good nature have nothing to do with it anymore.
Both so true
Couldn’t have stated it any better, so true
Agreed totally champ!!
That’s why Instagram and dating apps should be banned
I became single six years ago. Wow, I had no idea how different it is now. Dating today is like playing the lottery and the main jackpot is ten dollars.
And the ticket was 9.50
@moralobjection4836 haha exactly!
@jake90052 same here I have been divorced for about 5 years and ot has changed a lot I have been single for about 5 years now I can't believe how much it has changed in 28 years
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And we go through all of this hassle for the privilege of giving them everything we have ever worked for.
While they spit on you.
Im not looking for anyone i feel bad for people that dont like their own company.
Pretty much. People are to interactive
I hate my own company. I floated really nice for 5 years. Sadness and sorrow creep in your life after a while automatically. That may be just me...
@ I’m going on about 6-7 years single. Before this i was single for about 6. I’m used to being invisible
morals and women are like water and oil
Men😭🛐
That's often true! I've seen it tens of thousands of times in my life so far. Morals, integrity, honesty, faithfulness, accountability, decency... those too.
w offer nothing but headaches and reduce themselves to holes
@ equality is here and now
I'm going it alone for the rest of my life. Everything is against the avg man.
People are fed up badly. We have a revolution on our hands
I've been single for almost 18 years . I'd rather be lonely than unhappy
Well said, you hit the nail on the head.
"What weight do you see yourself being in 10 years?"
I wonder how women would feel if you responded with that?
LMFAO great comment bro!
I as a man have fucked up a lot of times due to relationships. And others have fucked me over. In the long run, I have decided if there is no such thing as any guarantees, I choose to guarantee myself, life of selfishness, video games, and smoking/drinking.
Now ur talking 😂
Last time I went out for a date was back in january 2018 almost 7 years ago
I wasted decades chasing women, and I'm still single.. Just wanted to be a loving and caring
Be that to yourself
@@andre1987eph Yes I am that
Chasing women has got to be the dumbest waste of time and money a man can do
I was the breadwinner, pharmacist x30 years and my now ex husband decimated my finances plus other things that don’t matter. I was never a materialistic person. I only wanted to provide for my spouse and our children. Post divorce dating was, as you said, a job interview. I’m happy being single and just chilling. I lost 25 years of my life to a man who cheated for 18 of those years. Not ALL women fall into your description. I don’t gossip with anyone online or in person.
Definitely having good morals and being brought up to appreciate the value of hard work and The necessity for respecting those around you.
He cheated, you stayed. I guess it was him who left you. Women like men other women want to F.
Had he been a good man, you would have cheated and left.
I've never dated in my ENTIRE life and I never will.
@Jhchah2492 It's also a waste of ENERGY and precious time. Why chase someone or something that DOESN'T even want you or even value the real you?
That’s just sad.
I dated w and made some experiences with them, never enjoyed it, just a waste of time and energy
@SolidSL510 It's NOT sad it's just keeping it REAL simply because I've got ethics, morals as well as valuables and principles.
U have no chance
In a way, this is probably one of the leading causes for native population decline when you think about it.
Certainly is
By design
It is absolutely the main reason, and it's no secret, wise people have known it for ages. Let me recount for you a passage written by Will Durant, one of America's foremost historians, back in 1935 (!), in the first volume of his landmark _The Story of Civilization_ series: "The primitive male looked upon marriage in terms not of sexual license but of economic cooperation. He expected the woman and the woman expected herself to be not so much gracious and beautiful (though he appreciated these qualities in her) as useful and industrious; she was to be an economic asset rather than a total loss; otherwise the matter-of-fact “savage” would never have thought of marriage at all. Marriage was a profitable partnership, not a private debauch; it was a way whereby a man and a woman, working together, might be more prosperous than if each worked alone. Wherever, in the history of civilization, woman has ceased to be an economic asset in marriage, marriage has decayed; and sometimes civilization has decayed with it." Between their attitudes and the prevailing laws in the West, the overwhelming majority of women are ABSOLUTELY total losses in the economic sense.
Also explains women in power positions. They are easily programmed or influenced. They make great puppets for billionaire's.
Never lead with your wallet. Only go for vvomen choosing you. Don't chase. Don't invest too much as you need to understand that it's probably only temporary.
Who can afford dating, cohabitation relationships etc?...🤔
Nobody
Trust fund babies can afford it, they barely pay any bills
I with you, brother...my narcissist ex wife depleted me, she cost me my prime years and that's why I can never forgive her.
I did see her get her karma though but I want more... fortunately karma is obliging very nicely.
Did you think your prime was HER prime? A man's prime is 15 years after a woman's prime.
@@bigneiltooa mans prime is like 30.40 and if your blessed you'll even look better then you did at 20. I know I do as long as you stay a good weight. Women are shriveling up when men are getting better looking and more established financially
I’m completely done. I’m out. Just done with the ghosting, rejection and being ignored. I’m just absolutely done
Doesn't matter what you do or don't do, she can still decide she's bored, leave, and take half.
Divorce courts are corrupt as shit.
Dating is done ,relationships are in jeporady
Yep, I remember going through what you spoke of in my 20s, I’ve had two engagements, I’ve been truly in love once. But at 54 years old, anything available is jaded or has nothing to offer. I don’t try, and I truly don’t care anymore. Society is screwed by narcissism.
I'm 45. My parents were married for 50+ years just like my mates parents. In the days before instagram LGBTQand looks obsession people would date & stay faithful.
Looks obsession have always been there but instagram just showed who has those looks
Just think of all the homeless cats that are going to have shelter in the coming years.
But they'll leave all the ugly ones in the shelter, cause they're just as shallow when it comes to pets
I was wondering when someone was going to chat online about this subject?... after my relational experience... I'm done...single and peaceful now.
Preach brother.
What you said about the years of wasted time is so true. Only my kids made it worth it.
Only?
I originally walked away because of all the downsides of dating and relationships. Now, I stay away because of all the upsides of not dating and relationships.
If there was a marked shift in the dating scene I would maybe consider dating again but right now the risk to reward ratio is way too far outta whack. Guess the ladies will just have to miss out.😂
The more of them who end up 40 and alone, the better.
Last woman I was getting to know was also entertaining other men, saying they just friends. No thank you. I'm not going to jump over backwards to date a girl that has been ran thru and still wants to have fun
The other part of it is if they went crazy in their twenties it's possible they can never be faithful and it's also highly likely they are still entangled with a few of the better men they couldn't lock down in situationships. I've seen videos of very good looking women talking about this almost acting like it's a flex they are being used in their thirties still.
Facts
To a sadistic egotic teen, that sort of thing probably is.
After 22 years of being single at age 48. My family talked me into dating again...i went on ten dates and none of them were good and these were women of different races, shapes and personalities. All of the dates turned out the same...they had no interest in me as a person. One i thought i had a connection with but she gave up on me after a week. Women want wifey treatment on the first date...chivalry and paying her way on dates to me you gotta earn that. Im not paying for first or second dates, i tell them this from the beginning but for some reason they think I'm still gonna pay their way. They have no patience, they want everything now and handed to them and they care nothing for a man as a person. They dont even put forth any effort either. The man has to do all the work. Its stressful dealing with women so i went back into not dating mode. I rather die alone than deal with these women.
the saddest thing in this is that theyre prolly going to hell and you get to heaven
Their failing at their number 1 duty of reproducing the next generation. What value will they have doing their other roles?
They all want to bypass the “dating” process and just immediately get the girlfriend experience even on the first date
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr exactly!!!
This guy speaks the truth I’m seeing this with my own eyes. I’m a high school teacher and these girls go trough men like if it was candy they don’t care about their feelings, when they get bored after a few days they leave them. No remorse.
Precisely. It's all a game to them, or like a movie. And they also believe themselves to be invincible to consequence.
Also breakups cause drama which boosts their social status and likes and all the simps come out of the woodwork with a shoulder 😂
@@Kidbako1 That's the most disgusting part about it too. The blokes on the other hand, are told to "Man up" and "Go to the gym".
It's supposed to be the other way around.
I saw someone else write this elsewhere but now it has become my new favourite saying when it comes to women and it goes.... The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
I’m happy I’ve found a good woman as my wife. She’s not perfect, but when I compare her to all of the narcissistic, manipulative and nagging women out there, I know I’ve got it made! They are out there! Just have to let them pursue you like she did me, because I wasn’t looking at the time she found me.
A man can go years without a woman but a woman can't go 5 minutes without a man
My first wife cheated on me with a friend of mine and it turns out she lied about how much she made and stole money every month. This is something her mother told her to do. I’ve been married to my second wife 22 years and so far everything has been good. I will say this if my wife dies, and I am left alone. There is no way in hell I would ever remarry or have another relationship in this environment.
Got divorced because of money, I'm a Christian, 5 of my Muslim friends are divorced for the exact same reason. Doesn't matter what race or religion there's only one saint these days and that's saint dollar.
I'm surprised at Muslim women.
@Soulreactions I'm from. Australia and my Muslim friends divorced up to 20 years ago and some recently. Men have no chance these days.
Because the money is broken. Back then, one person working could support a family.
Gyms should be separated
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They used to be like so many things until feminism ended them.
Bro your platform needs a international recognition. It's the way you deliver it and your topics are deep.
I agree Brother. It's not good. We need to leave women alone and focus on God. It's not a loss to be single. Certainly better than being in a relationship that's toxic. This is a broken world and if a woman chooses to be part of it so be it.
God bless
Even if you find a good one ! Next day can change her mind and chase Chad f this.......🎉all for me now!!!!
Yeah its so true. Totally disrespected, torn to pieces and completely drained in the end. Not worth it.
For the women who read the comments on this site: With the new Japanese Female Robots coming on the market why deal with a real woman any more? Robots are very inexpensive compared to a real woman. Low to no risk as well. Have fun guys!
Low to no risk. John Connor disagrees.
Women are using their dogs for this purpose. It's a well kept secret
As a Man with 3 daughters all under 6 and a Mrs of 12 years since we we're kids, i cannot start to imagine you single guys trying to date or meet a woman in todays world, women over the last 10 years seem to have completely disreguarded men in daily life, ontop of that you have the constant threat of maybe walking past a woman and brushing back to back as you squeze past and them saying you touched her, before you can say 'what?' Your job, family, income, freedoms and life is taken away without a second thought. Be careful out there boys, always stay with friends, stay in a public place and DO NOT ever go with a woman alone until you know 100% who they really are, it only takes one.
The top 10 richest women in the USA got it from ending a marriage
INDIANA JONES GUY GAVE HIS EX WIFE 275 MILLION AT DIVORCE. LET THAT SINK IN
I needed this, sir. Thank you and greetings from Poland
Check out the lyrics to music now. It used to be about love and now its about money
100% correct
I started working out ten years ago at 60. I put on 40-50 pounds of muscle.
I'm not tall at six feet but, everywhere I go, women of ALL ages hit on me aggressively.
Of course, I ignore all women who appear to be 30 or over (or who tats, piercings, or ankle-biters).
The young girls are thrilled to be taken to a restaurant without a playground.
No. You are short at six feet
Winter is Here.
Get your passport bro, it’s that bad!
Just hoe-les everywhere u go
I’ve been telling men for 20 years to get a passport and go to other countries where women are much nicer and more traditional like Costa Rica Brazil and of course Thailand and phillipines
My brother in-law told me to forget about what has happened in your past and move forward I told him you don't know what ots like out here things have changed he said love will always be the same it never changes he is lucky he is married to my sister and doesn't have to go through what we have been through
First video I've seen where the guy used scenarios and examples that actually happened to me exactly as he stated them. Crazy. Single life for me. Love it.
And you know what the saddest part about this is? There are some elites looking at all of this laughing their asses off as our society crumbles.
For example the Rockefeller family who invented and financed "women's lib".
If they give u mixed signals, they don't like you. If you're Chad and they want you, they'll be sure to leave no doubt. Always understand that.
And anything other than a certain "yes" is really a NO.
"Gotta mind the neighbours cat"= NO.
"Gotta search fo a birthday present for my sisters husbands stepfather"= NO.
Learn womanese and stop wasting time and money.
Womanese...🤣and i thought i was the only one using this buzzword.
Haven't dated for over 3 years, and this is because i tried online dateing, and they played me every time,breadcrumbed, then ghosted, and hid behind fake accounts,while laughing behind my back,and i have friends who have also gone through this,they take Narstictic ways to another level.
It is funny that I made a comment on your video yesterday about how I was done with dating, and now this is today's video.
Now they don't even tell you if they are not interested in you. Now a woman will just give you her number and you will figure out that she is not interested later, when she "ghosts" you. So now getting a woman's number doesn't mean shit. Hell, I even had a girl give me her number, and I didn't even ask for it, but then she didn't talk to me. Not only are they living, breathing negativity in the flesh, but they've also become fucking weird. Pursuing them is total BS and is no longer worth what men put into it. It doesn't give back enough.
Before dating went left, I remember going on a date in a nice restaurant and the women kept looking around rather than talking or looking at me. The next day she called me and said I had a good time, I said I didn’t.
X wife left me almost ten years ago. Im 45 now. I think i went on one date since then. Still have no real desire to go down that road again. An interesting side note is i have a roommate that is a female. Have lived with her for three years and she has muscular distrophy so she is oretty laid up and can’t do much. The relationship i have with her (someone im not physically attracted to) is ten times more rewarding than anyone ive ever dated or married. So this tells me two things. I guess i was a bit shallow in the past, and that most people need to be humbled. Females and males.
Until the laws change I not dating or getting married it's too risky and all men do is lose.
I've never been happier since I've decided to completely turn away from dating or relationships.
It's just not worth it.
Stay single stay happy
Appreciate the video mate - very insightful.
Too dangerous! Too many women who say that they love you, but really just want your money…
Right on...I grew up during the feminine movement...they were in love with corporations/power/and status! I just gave up...never married, no children. I saw a couple of my friends what they went through during the collapse of their families through divorce!!
I agree with everything this man says. There are so many channels like this on yt now, I wonder if whoman are actually listening? Nah, probably not…
I used to go out on "dates" frequently. Very rarely did I have fun. I eventually inevitably concluded that it's highly unlikely that I'll meet one that's likeable. I challenge any man to ponder this: Do you really like women, or is it just your biological imperative motivating you?
After so many years, the last time I went to city to visit an office to renew my security license and after I finished with the office work I thought of checking out in a pub to fresh up past memories. To my astonishment, not a man was there, all women in baring-clothing sitting there , looking at me entering the pub, they all cheered me and welcomed me inside, all the more scaring me in utter shock. I stepped back and moved out there and then and then at the back of me I heard them saying ‘oh gosh, oh gosh, he walked out!! Why so ? I think I saved myself.
They’re not worth any of the nonsense they’ll put you through.
All facts were spoken 💯