I liked smoking because of the nicotine that is all. I always quit because of the STINK. That shiate stinks Its stink your car, your breath, your clothing. Vaping is nicer and more polite
- As a 50yo smoker who started at 28yo, I do not recommend it. You think you'll take the consequences with it, but you have no idea. It will screw you over beyond anything you can even imagine. You're still young and your lungs can handle it for now. Until one day, you find yourself out of breath so much that you can barely get through your day. By that time, your teeth will be suffering, your looks will have degraded considerably, your arteries will be suffering, your eyes will degrade. It affects everything in your body. Even your brain will have changed, so that by then you probably can't quit to save your life (like me). You might need medications by then that could make you fat or other side-effects. Maybe you'll even have had operations to fix the consequences. All these things, horrible as they are, won't make it any easier to quit. You'll realize that if only you hadn't made the worst decision of your life by taking up smoking, your life would have turned out completely different. Even if you succeed in quitting then, you'll have a terrible toll on your health to bear, on top of craving the cigs. You'll probably end up with a smoking husband/boyfriend, if not alone and sick. You'll have spent a lot of money on cigs, that would otherwise have gone to productive activities to steer your life in a better direction. You might find that by smoking, you have been ignoring to fix emotional issues that are probably at the root of why you smoke. But you're 20 years down the line now, and in so much worse shape, you're not going to fix that emotional issue anymore as you'll be too busy dealing with the consequences of smoking (which you never even saw coming). - I wish for your own good that you could realize that now, instead of when it's too late. It's very irresponsible also to justify it on a RUclips channel, possibly taking others down this rabbithole with you. Smoking doesn't bring any benefits to your life, but it comes with a whole lot of problems. The little buzz or relaxing you get from smoking, you should find some other way to accomplish, like doing some sports or something. It will make all the difference 20 years from now!
That's really love that he doesn't want to let you smoke. No smoker likes to hear that they have to stop, even if we know what damage it is doing. That's the addiction. I don't even think I'll make it another 10 years in life. And in that time, I can expect some more surgeries. And still I haven't quit smoking. It's hard. But it's important. It should be my top priority to put all my (little) energy in. But life and other worries get in the way. Smoking is an emotional thing. A crutch to avoid dealing with certain issues I don't know how to fix. Knowing that I should quit is not the problem for me anymore, I am aware of that for a long time now. But actually doing it is difficult. I don't judge people for smoking, since I'm a smoker myself. But it is important to let other smokers know our regrets, especially the younger ones who still have a chance. Never justify smoking in any way. They don't want to hear it. But love is telling the truth, even if it's not what someone wants to hear. @@caniseeyourinsides
@@valleykenRead the book The Easy Way to Quit Smoking, by Alan Carr. Believe me, no matter how addicted and desperate you are, the book will strongly urge you to quit smoking. Read and most importantly, follow the steps and do not postpone quitting.
i never smoked like i was addicted. One pack could last me 3 months, even more. It didnt last long, maybe like 2 years that i was smoking here and there. but man, sometimes i just wanna sit on my balcony on a warm summer night and just have one cigarette. p.s. the first cigarette i smoked was Marlboro Menthol.
Eu tb. Parei de fumar tem 10 meses. Admito que ainda tenho vontade de fumar . Na primeira semana foi foda. Dormia mal, sonolência, suando frio, fissura por um trago etc. Fumar um cigarro de manhã com um copo de café não tem preço,mas eu tive receio de ter alguma doença no futuro . O fator estar gastando muito contou também! Eu fumava 5 maços por semana .
I've never felt the allure of smoking cigarettes, I've tried them but haven't cared for it. My dad started smoking in his early 20's and quit when he was around 26-27. I'm not sure how he started, but I've always remembered the story of how he quit. At around 3 AM in the morning, him and a friend were walking home, casually talking and smoking (His friend didn't smoke). The idea of quitting cigarettes was brought up, and my dad explained to his friend that he's going to quit soon, after he finishes this pack, so likely in a few days or so. His friend said to him "Why don't you just quit now?" My dad thought about it for a few seconds, took the cigarette out of his mouth and threw it and the mostly-full pack on the ground, and kept walking, He never smoked again after that. It's a simple story, but I've just always admired it because of how direct the decision was made. You hear all the time about people struggling to quit addictions and relapsing, or people planning to change at some arbitrary point in the future, setting new years resolutions etc. I think about his story a lot, and feel like that attitude can apply to a lot of things in life. The main point I take from it is; don't wait for the perfect opportunity to do what you want to do.
Personally I find that kind of strange as a cigarette smoker but you do you if u were my friend I’d definitely be happy about it but also save ur money Man U don’t need to do that especially since it’s less of a kind act and more of an enabling thing. Maybe carry around a lighter instead cos lighters have more than one use and can be handy in situations outside of drugs
@@moonpriest8016 Legitimately, I was the non smoker who carried around a lighter. I almost always rode my bike everywhere and you kinda need a lighter to help patch a popped tire, (fire helps fuse the patch and tire together) and I also hung out around the smokers on campus so I could help anyone who needed a light. Personally, I'd rather vape tho. The smell of cigs has always bugged me and I've been around it my whole life. Vaping is so much cleaner. If I'm actually gonna smoke something, I'd rather smoke weed over tobacco.
Good for you! I can't imagine trying to quit something when getting hooked that young. Seen some of my friends start around that age too sadly and I hope they can find some way to kick it like you did.
I personally feel every smoker has had that one person that made them curious, a role model someone they look up too. A (grand)parent a teacher, a coach on a soccer team, an uncle, a neighbour who made it look like it felt so good, seeing the smoke shoot up a woman's nostrils when the French inhale. The time a saw a neighboor do a ghost inhale. The look of pure bliss. How can a thing that stinks so much give them so much pleasure. And born in 70's at some level people all ready knew it wasn't the most healthy thing to do. But it was a smokers inviroment, it was excepted. Like drinking still is. To the point you had to explain why you never smoked like people now question a person who doesnt drink alcohol. Back then at a birthday party as a host you would buy cigarettes brands you knew your guests would be smoking. And as a kid you would play in the mist of smoke aunts and uncles where creating. When a person announced people werent allowed to smoke in their home when visiting they stop coming. Going outside wasn't even an option. When you go to bar the smoke was so thick your clothes would stink for days. But you also didnt smell anything else which i find was in someways a good thing now you can smell the guy with sweating armpits a cross the room. I still enjoy watching a woman smoke a sigaret if she fully enjoys it. And still smoke myself. Only in private, not to bother or influence any kid/person by incident. And if hiding my smoking is a skill, i am very good at it. Over 40 years old never been caught. Not even believed when i told people i smoke. It never got to the point that the handed me a sigaret and asked me to smoke it. If it where a woman to ask me i would have done it no doubt. I am smoking now for 35 year's never exceeded half a pack a day. most of the time it half of that amount. But i do smoke and i dont think i am able to totally quit.
Its worth trying to quit, you get alot of time back. 10 sigs a day * ~ 5 minutes is almost an hour you loose every day in which you could do something else. I smoked for 18 years and im smoke free since March 2022. Its never to late.
@@fufu1405That is truth, not impossible people done it. Tho you need to be strong character to quit addiction of any kind especially if you let it seep in that deep.
there is such a huge difference between people who chain smoke everyday vs people who have the occasional smoke and no one seems to want to talk about or recognize that... i suppose the majority of people progress along that line and ultimately become chain smokers.. but theyre the people you see smoking every hour... you dont notice the people who have a smoke once a week or once a month because really by todays standards theyre not smokers but like anything they can be enjoyed in moderation
Social pressure can be hard to ignore. Once you get hooked, you will likely not stop. I've lost 4 family members to it, one as young as 28. Although dying to smoking is genetic, don't risk your life on it. For less anxiety go to the gym, follow your passion, eat right, and plan everything out and I promise you will feel amazing.❤
I agree with ya but it can be really hard so first lets consider going to a therapist than starting to smoke. Might not really have enough money to go to a therapist, but enough money to buy a pack of cigarettes... these people need SERIOUS help
@@merokittentried everything and i was miserable, started smoking and sometimes snus and life is going good im feeling good ive made alot of connections and im enjoying life, really helped me and has helped others
@@williepiewithdrawal is horrid, thats why people go back to what they’re withdrawing from. Addicts will overcome addiction when they want to, not when someone else thinks they should, just when they personally feel like theyll be able to
@@williepiethat's when u smoke a low amount for a short period of time. Try smoking a pack a day for 10 years and you will see that withdrawals are hell on heart
I smoked for 17 years, it was brutally difficult to quit. Took me 4 years and 20 attempts, and it was extremely uncomfortable, both physically and especially mentally. I'm not the one to moralize, do what you want to do, but I would urge you from the bottom of my heart to consider quitting while you can. The "one cigarette a day" habit doesn't last. It becomes two, three, four, pack a day, two packs a day, and at that point it's harder to quit smoking than it would be to quit heroin or alcohol. Nicotine is insidious and one of the worst substances I've ever quit.
i had my first cigarette when i was at a carneval with a friend (i was so in love with her btw😭) we were already drunk when we went to buy a pack. then we met her classmate and we decided to smoke a ciggy together. i was so silly i tried acting like ive smoked many times before but i didn’t even know how to inhale properly😭 around a month after that i went on a holiday with people who ive never actually met before. i was so anxious at first but then at that night we went down to the beach and talked for a while. they gave me some hits from their vape and we just had such a fun time. after the holiday we became really close so we met again. one of them bought a pack and she gave each of us a cigarette. i don’t remember very well but because i didn’t feel any buzz i think i still didn’t inhale. around a week after that i decided to buy my own pack which was a winston blue. i was taking a walk in the park and thats when i learned how to inhale. the buzz was so awsome i had to sit down for a sec ahah. i had the same experience as Connie. my thoughts just flew away and i felt so mindful all of a sudden. since that i’ve been smoking one ciggy everyday. sometimes at night sometimes in the morning. whenever i feel like i want to clean my head for a while. i know very well it’s not a healthy thing to do and is in fact an addiction but it just feels so nice to calm down my anxious mind every now and then. also for anyone who read this have an amazing day
It won't stay at 1 a day. I bet even now you are having 2 on some days a month on from your comment. I guess you're young and won't take any advice from a stranger on the Internet. On the off chance, nicotine is extremely addictive to 90-odd percent of people. You won't feel the damage to your lungs for 2 years or more by which time you will find it unbelievably hard to quit. You probably never will from that point and if you do you will miss it for the rest of your life. You will start coughing and retching until you feel sick, or actually vomit on cold mornings. Your breath will stink to nonsmokers. I used to have 3-4 colds a year which always turned chesty and often needed antibiotics for opportunistic infections. Now I'm addicted to nicotine gum. Nobody can force you not to smoke. You have to decide now, while you still have a choice, whether to learn from my and others mistake or be a dumb idiot like I was.
I remember playing videos games with my neighbor in their living room as the mom sat next to us smoking and this went on for years. While I always found smoking disgusting, I also had this craving for a cigarette. I still have never smoked and never will but I realize now it's probably an addiction from second hand smoke and I'm sure if I start I probably couldn't stop which is even more motivation to never start. I really hope you stop because it's so bad for your health and you're obviously such a nice, intelligent, and beautiful person.
So random but I remember an interview where someone visited the Philip morris headquarters and one of the CEO’s apparently smokes 1 cigarette a day, but says they won’t touch Oreos because of how addictive sugar/fat can be (I think they own Oreo’s parent company and other fast food chains, etc)
in Europe is very common in my country for example and from my experience in high school although it was a long time ago at least 50% of 15-17 year old kids smoke
I’d say it’s fairly popular,younger people are quickly picking up the habit and it’s not uncommon to go outside and see a fair amount of people smoking as opposed to the US
I think we all started like this, one every other week, then we think we can smoke one cigarrete per day, and soon enough you're gonna be smoking a whole pack a day, i started at 16yo, now i'm 25 and i smoke 1 and a half pack everyday, that calm you feel at the begining will be no longer the same after a couple years, in fact, the anxiety can and will get worst, since you'll need to smoke every 15 minutes, and when u can't smoke, you'll feel like you are in hell, the abstinence is not as bad as other drugs, but it's still bad! I advice you to stop, since u can be 2 days without a cigarrete, it'll be easier for you
Every single person i know above 50 is strongly against smoking and advice to never start it even them being smokers themselves. My gf's grandpa lost his leg due to smoking. I don't think anyone should do it tbh. There are other ways to calm and find peace and relaxation that are less harmful for someones health.
that's because back in the day people smoked insane amounts of cigarettes. Also it's because you only hear about people who didn't quit. You don't hear about people who smoked one cigarette a day for 5 years then quit. They are totally healthy. You only hear about people who smoke 2 packs a day for 40 years.
It's so boring tho I'll be running thru nic gum regular gum and breath mints all day if I try to quit I'll be moving all funny but I move funny anyways
I, as a 45 year old smoker urge against smoking. Regret 25 years down the line is a helluva thing. With 'youth' you'll ride the crest of the wave until you hit your late thirties, early forties. Trust me i wish i could turn the clocks back.
when you said you try to "impress" her by saying yes to smoke a cigarette, i understand what you mean. back in 8th i have a friend that smokes and looking back for some reason i wanted them to think im "cool" so whenever they sneak out to smoke i would join just because. no one pressured me fyi just low-key wanted to try it 😭
I'm an ex smoker, it's been just about 10 years since I smoked a cigarette. I used to smoke half a pack a day, but would smoke more than one pack if I was hanging out with friends. Then they started making me feel sick and I noticed I felt better when I didn't smoke. Eventually I let it go. I went on vacation for a week without my ciggies and when I came back, I no longer needed it. But I still have the very last cigarette from the last pack I smoked 10 years ago! But I cherish my old smokey days. When I first started, I would ask my uncle for a ciggie because he was a smoker. I remember the first ciggie I smoked made me ultra dizzy and nauseas. But the next day, I wanted more and that's how it started. I'm glad I quit though, even the gas station clerks were telling me I shouldn't smoke. My teachers told me I shouldn't smoke too, so I knew at some point I had to quit.
I have been smoking since I was 14 years old (I can't believe it myself), and now at 26, I have made the decision to quit. It's proving to be the toughest challenge I've faced. I have been able to go for months without beer, which is another favorite pastime of mine, but cigarettes have always been the hardest to give up. Perhaps it's because smoking has been my go-to activity whenever I find myself alone reading a book or after, even when I am waiting for someone it has been my companion or when I am stress. It's also been a constant companion when I'm with friends, and especially when I am drinking coffee (I know, it's a bit unusual). In general, smoking has always been my default habit. I used to love it and enjoy it, but now, at 26, I've started to feel that it has made my life less fulfilling. I have noticed that my breathing has become increasingly labored, and activities like working out and jogging have become tiresome. However, the two things that I am truly fed up with as a smoker are the persistent coughing and excessive mucus production every morning and night. As a result, I visited the doctor to complain about these issues, and his conclusion was what I already suspected - it was due to smoking. I grew tired of having to spit regularly and coughing every 2 to 3 minutes. After receiving a warning from the doctor, I made the firm decision to quit. It has only been a month, and it's still incredibly challenging, but I constantly remind myself of the coughing and mucus production whenever I feel the urge to smoke. Sharing this story with you is not meant to discourage you on your smoking journey; rather, I want to make you aware that smoking does not have a positive impact on the body in the long run. The changes I have noticed in just a month are quite significant. I have observed improvements in my skin, and I rarely breathe through my mouth while walking or when I am tired. Additionally, working out no longer holds me back as it used to (although I still struggle with laziness). My advice to you, as you enjoy your journey as a smoker, is to never overlook the effects smoking may have on your health and body. It's crucial to keep a check on yourself; you can't afford to be careless.
I wish weed was held to the same standards as cigarettes tbh. I really don't want to try smoking cigarettes, but I'm always jealous of the cig smokers bc they can smoke pretty much anywhere
I started smoking because I was the last of six girls in my university dormitory to be smoking. I smoked for two weeks, took a seven year break then started again because I am stupid.
i smoked my first cigarette a few days ago when i was on break with my coworkers (construction work) and since i was almost the only non smoker one of the guys offered me a cigarette, which i accepted. it was a Camel blue cigarette, i didnt cough at all and it felt pretty nice after a while. the smell isnt the nicest thing in the world but i understand why people do it.
It was one a day for me at the start, "to keep it in control". I started at 19, I'm 21 now. Then it went to 2, then to 4, then to 10, then to 15. I quit a week ago because I didn't like how I was a slave to this habit and also I could feel my lungs getting more and more damaged by the day. If you ask me, if you're not trying to self "delete" (like I was, hence a desperate last attempt to distract myself from my bad thoughts, and I didn't plan to live anyways), ANY other reason to start is dumb af and easy to avoid. Go for a run, hang out with friends, do anything else. And make no mistake, once you're a smoker, you'll come up with so many excuses. By then the addiction is already talking, it's not you at the helm anymore.
Been an RN for several years now, I've seen how things end for smokers. Its not fun or glorious. Highly recommend you do everything you can to stop while you're still young. Life seems infinite until its not.
You gotta try Marlboro Southern Cut, one of my favorites, if not absolute. I do enjoy the Marboro double fusion/w-burst because I basically get 3 cig profiles in one toke, but it’s hard for me to acquire them. And I really enjoy menthols, but I live in California and menthol is banned here, so companies started using synthetic coolants and although I smoke Newport EXP 100s, I don’t get the hit I’m looking for. I vape as well and I love all sorts of flavors, that’s why I recommend southern cut because, it’s so good tasting, hints of chocolate and bourbon, and very smooth. Hope you try it, God bless you
the goal of eliminating thoughts is only a chase that leads to more chases. it's an illusion and is a state of mind that can not be sustainably achieved. take care
@@P0wderP1nkAndSweet It isn't at peace from your problems and worries though, it's at peace from the nagging need "give me a high give me a high give me a high, there's a schedule high right here in the timetable where is it???" It's a feigned peace and that's the danger of it. It's a faustian deal that ends up stripping much from your life, not just the very literal years stripped from you, but the financial side of things (5 euros here in Portugal per pack, like 20 in some other country, the more you smoke the steeper the cut in your spendable income becomes)
The nonsmokers or social smokers who carry around a pack are the sweetest ppl honestly, I always admire ppl like that . btw I really like how post videos where you smoke & talk, because a lot of your viewers are solitary cig smokers who probably at one time experienced every smoke break as a chance for camaraderie & made friends that way but now have no one to smoke with.
There is nothing better than starting the day in the morning with a coffee and a cigarette. After a hard gym session, I would smoke a cigarette. It's not like I'm addicted to it, I enjoy smoking and thinking about my plans. The best plans and projects were made in five minutes while smoking with my colleagues.
What a fantastic video, love your content as always! And yeah, so many things happened and now you are our favourite smoking content creator on youtube! Life is amazing.
Im 17 and had my first cigarette about two years ago from peer pressure. I had been smoking them on and off and I decided to quit right before the summer of 2023 since I was a lifeguard and wanted healthy lungs. Since then I’ve only relapsed once but let me tell you these urges are really fucking hard to fight off sometimes but I know that mentality of “one more cigarette to relax” will lead me down a path where I won’t be able to see my grandkids grow up. I will do my best to stay strong and anyone else going through this may god be with you.
Your demeanor is very calm and enjoyable. I didn't know what kind of person you were in the story you told, but right now I think you're that calm and cool person that you had a crush on back then.
I smoked on new year 2024 for 3 days it got me and I smoked for a week more within 10days I can feel my body was getting dehydrated no matter how much water I take it won’t help and within 10days I just stopped smoking and my body was tempting and craving for cigarettes within just 10 days now when I stopped I was constantly feeling to smoke but I stopped but this shows within 10days it changed my mindset and trapped . Now I can understand those who are smoking for years and they will not be able to leave it I know it why.
My first one was in the parking lot of my work, my partner and I smoked in secret, it was funny and I didn't know how to inhale either hehe. I like to smoke because I feel in control of the situation and it's my moment to take a step back and think about life without worrying about anything (I feel stylish too 😎). Your videos and Jacob's help a lot with this, we have a great community here I have learned a lot of English here, your way of speaking helps 🙏
Honestly what you have is a super power. Being able to keep it to mostly 1 cigarette a day is incredible. Just be careful if you start needing more cigarettes to ''relax.'' I used to use cigarettes to help with anxiety and stress. It wasn't until i quit that i realised it was the addiction that was causing the anxiety
I just feel like a non smoking-smoker when I quit. Depriving myself of smoking, but not 'over it'. People like me tend to relapse. Has anyone like me managed to quit and be 'over it'? And how long does it take to be over it after quitting?
I started coughing up really gross stuff and I really got tired of smelling like it. I quit once and it lasted 9 months but I went to a music festival and ended up smoking a bunch cigs because of the party favors I did all weekend. Then I quit again a year later because I had reached a point of being so grossed out by them that I couldn't take them anymore. And thank God it stuck. I can't explain it but somehow it was like a switch turned off and now they gross me out so so so much. I've never felt so negatively about cigs before and its a pretty great feeling knowing I'm never going back and it's been so much better for my life.
Not going to say don't start since you've already started. But I'll say it usually takes several attempts to quit even for those best at it. So you might want to consider practice that sooner than later. I've been smoke free for around 7 or 8 years now I think. I smoked "only" for around 15 years. Quitting isn't as hard as they say, the temptation wears off and then all you've gotta do is to not smoke that first cigarette ever again or get a dose of nicotine in any other form. Best of luck
I’m definitely not a fan of smoking or anything nicotine like but I do respect you because you don’t smoke near people you only smoke by yourself or not near people who don’t Becuase you know how it feels to not like the smell of cigarettes. I respect you👍👍 WW
Just started smoking at 22. One or two every day or other day. I enjoy the chill I get from it, vape doesn’t quite hit the same. Something about knowing it’s bad for me also makes it feel better.
The way you explained how your brain is always at 100 miles per hour 300 thoughts per minute is really similar to how ADHD brains feel, and untreated and undiagnosed ADHD (which is very common in girls) is quite prone to making people self medicate with whatever they find, speaking from experience Maybe you could look into ADHD symptoms ans see if you relate to them, and try to find some help or a diagnosis to get the right meds, which is really a life changer Unrelated but I recently found your channel and I love your videos, your voice really calms me down :)
Started at 14 (first tried at 12 though), and quit at 25. Haven't smoked since and I have zero desire for it. SO glad I stopped, its one of the best things I've ever done in my life
Its honestly pretty weird to me that people still smoke. With how many options there are now with vaping. I'm always genuinely surprised when I see someone smoking lol. Its kinda rare these days
Yea, I prefer to be conscious of the consequences so I don’t blame anyone but myself. It’s nice every so often tbh, I’ll usually have one once a week in between my lectures :)
I smoke 1 cig with coffe in the morning 1 cig with tea in the evening and 1 cig with a cup of wine at night. Smoking only 3 cigs a day makes me enjoy each and every cig so much and it makes every cig worth much more money i pay for it. It is like a profitable investment when you earn much more value that what you pay. I remember when i used to smoke a pack a day. The only cig i ever enjoyed is the first cig in the morning
The calmness of the mind was my experience too when I lit up my first (probably Marlboro) at 14. Got hooked on it immediately, much later, I found it was related to inattentive type adhd
You have just demonstrated new smoker to addict in a few minutes. I started smoking in 1980 aged 13. I quit in 2016 aged 48 due to COPD. Connie; you need to quit right now.
Hello! I have also been smoking for almost 3 months, but actually only cigars and cigarillos, because they are not so quick to smoke and therefore you can't light them in every situation. At the weekend I treat myself to a cigar for an hour or if I'm at a party I might smoke a pack of 5 cigarillos but that's about it. Just make sure you don't smoke too much :)
I started smoking when I was 14 But I stopped because I didn't want problems with my parents And I started smoking again at 17 before I turned 18 because i want to forget my life choices i made that brought me here. As of today, I smoke a pack a week, and I'm not planning on buying a pack every day
I'm not even sure why I still smoke but tbh cigarettes just relieves the stress tbh I won't lie. I'm not even depressed anymore but the ciggies never stopped.
Smoked from 18 to 28. Worst decision ever. I am 7 years off them and I still want to smoke. They will change your life forever and not for the best. Avoid smoking at all cost 'cause quitting is insanely hard.
@@abdullah-du4zo Went cold turkey. I have been despising habit itself for a long time. I did try to quit many times before, hardly lasted 1 month on one occasion. -Reducing smoking or taking nicotine supplements did not work for me. -I have been playing badminton everyday from last few months so that's kind of taking away the stress and giving me motivation. -Everytime I feel like smoking I spend that cigarette money on something else like food or some accessory. -Physical activity is probably the best alternative for quitting smoking. -Also try to actually sit and imagine the consequences, I mean really think hard about it. People will make excuses on how everyone will die at the end etc but your day to life also gets worse gradually. Now only trigger for me is when I get drunk. So far I have managed to not smoke on 3-4 occasions when I got drunk. I have a strong determination this time. But the risk is there all the time for relapse.
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I liked smoking because of the nicotine that is all. I always quit because of the STINK. That shiate stinks Its stink your car, your breath, your clothing. Vaping is nicer and more polite
- As a 50yo smoker who started at 28yo, I do not recommend it. You think you'll take the consequences with it, but you have no idea. It will screw you over beyond anything you can even imagine. You're still young and your lungs can handle it for now. Until one day, you find yourself out of breath so much that you can barely get through your day. By that time, your teeth will be suffering, your looks will have degraded considerably, your arteries will be suffering, your eyes will degrade. It affects everything in your body. Even your brain will have changed, so that by then you probably can't quit to save your life (like me). You might need medications by then that could make you fat or other side-effects. Maybe you'll even have had operations to fix the consequences. All these things, horrible as they are, won't make it any easier to quit. You'll realize that if only you hadn't made the worst decision of your life by taking up smoking, your life would have turned out completely different. Even if you succeed in quitting then, you'll have a terrible toll on your health to bear, on top of craving the cigs. You'll probably end up with a smoking husband/boyfriend, if not alone and sick. You'll have spent a lot of money on cigs, that would otherwise have gone to productive activities to steer your life in a better direction. You might find that by smoking, you have been ignoring to fix emotional issues that are probably at the root of why you smoke. But you're 20 years down the line now, and in so much worse shape, you're not going to fix that emotional issue anymore as you'll be too busy dealing with the consequences of smoking (which you never even saw coming).
- I wish for your own good that you could realize that now, instead of when it's too late. It's very irresponsible also to justify it on a RUclips channel, possibly taking others down this rabbithole with you. Smoking doesn't bring any benefits to your life, but it comes with a whole lot of problems. The little buzz or relaxing you get from smoking, you should find some other way to accomplish, like doing some sports or something. It will make all the difference 20 years from now!
Good old smoker giving the hard talk about it before lighting one up and looking cool. I haven't seen that type since 2004.
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That's really love that he doesn't want to let you smoke. No smoker likes to hear that they have to stop, even if we know what damage it is doing. That's the addiction. I don't even think I'll make it another 10 years in life. And in that time, I can expect some more surgeries. And still I haven't quit smoking. It's hard. But it's important. It should be my top priority to put all my (little) energy in. But life and other worries get in the way. Smoking is an emotional thing. A crutch to avoid dealing with certain issues I don't know how to fix. Knowing that I should quit is not the problem for me anymore, I am aware of that for a long time now. But actually doing it is difficult. I don't judge people for smoking, since I'm a smoker myself. But it is important to let other smokers know our regrets, especially the younger ones who still have a chance. Never justify smoking in any way. They don't want to hear it. But love is telling the truth, even if it's not what someone wants to hear. @@caniseeyourinsides
@@valleykenRead the book The Easy Way to Quit Smoking, by Alan Carr. Believe me, no matter how addicted and desperate you are, the book will strongly urge you to quit smoking. Read and most importantly, follow the steps and do not postpone quitting.
@@m19AQTB This is the book that got me to quit. A truly eye opening book!
Be careful with the "one more cigarette" thats how the cycle begins
What's the issue , smoke for fun die with pain
Thanks doc.
Hey I’m doctor phill -👴
@@mahimndashora2020Through Jesus Christ God's beloved Son, you are saved and deeply loved
It is not too late to stop ❤
Too late now.
As soon as she said, “there was this girl,” I really felt that.
i never smoked like i was addicted. One pack could last me 3 months, even more. It didnt last long, maybe like 2 years that i was smoking here and there.
but man, sometimes i just wanna sit on my balcony on a warm summer night and just have one cigarette.
p.s. the first cigarette i smoked was Marlboro Menthol.
Nice first cig ngl
Eu tb. Parei de fumar tem 10 meses.
Admito que ainda tenho vontade de fumar .
Na primeira semana foi foda.
Dormia mal, sonolência, suando frio, fissura por um trago etc.
Fumar um cigarro de manhã com um copo de café não tem preço,mas eu tive receio de ter alguma doença no futuro . O fator estar gastando muito contou também! Eu fumava 5 maços por semana .
why you smoking!!!!!!!!!
i can really relate to you man
I'm exactly the same. I love cigarettes but I can make one pack last 2 weeks or more. I'm thankful for possessing this particular constitution etc.
I've never felt the allure of smoking cigarettes, I've tried them but haven't cared for it. My dad started smoking in his early 20's and quit when he was around 26-27. I'm not sure how he started, but I've always remembered the story of how he quit.
At around 3 AM in the morning, him and a friend were walking home, casually talking and smoking (His friend didn't smoke). The idea of quitting cigarettes was brought up, and my dad explained to his friend that he's going to quit soon, after he finishes this pack, so likely in a few days or so. His friend said to him "Why don't you just quit now?" My dad thought about it for a few seconds, took the cigarette out of his mouth and threw it and the mostly-full pack on the ground, and kept walking, He never smoked again after that.
It's a simple story, but I've just always admired it because of how direct the decision was made. You hear all the time about people struggling to quit addictions and relapsing, or people planning to change at some arbitrary point in the future, setting new years resolutions etc. I think about his story a lot, and feel like that attitude can apply to a lot of things in life.
The main point I take from it is; don't wait for the perfect opportunity to do what you want to do.
You are too damn cool and kind..
Being a non smoker but carrying cigarettes in case a desperate smoker needed one is next level humanity.
you're just making it worse like that
this clown
she's a hot mess. and will have health problems
Personally I find that kind of strange as a cigarette smoker but you do you if u were my friend I’d definitely be happy about it but also save ur money Man U don’t need to do that especially since it’s less of a kind act and more of an enabling thing. Maybe carry around a lighter instead cos lighters have more than one use and can be handy in situations outside of drugs
@@moonpriest8016
Legitimately, I was the non smoker who carried around a lighter. I almost always rode my bike everywhere and you kinda need a lighter to help patch a popped tire, (fire helps fuse the patch and tire together) and I also hung out around the smokers on campus so I could help anyone who needed a light.
Personally, I'd rather vape tho. The smell of cigs has always bugged me and I've been around it my whole life. Vaping is so much cleaner. If I'm actually gonna smoke something, I'd rather smoke weed over tobacco.
I started smoking at 12 and I quit when I was 20. I’m 27 now about to be 28. Everyday I’m so thankful I quit. Best decision I ever made.
Good for you! I can't imagine trying to quit something when getting hooked that young. Seen some of my friends start around that age too sadly and I hope they can find some way to kick it like you did.
i started at 13 and quit when i was 20
why do you care so much about other people kicking something@@JoshLosbian
@@tanura5830 L
We need a colab with Jacob'' you know what im saying kind of thing''
I personally feel every smoker has had that one person that made them curious, a role model someone they look up too. A (grand)parent a teacher, a coach on a soccer team, an uncle, a neighbour who made it look like it felt so good, seeing the smoke shoot up a woman's nostrils when the French inhale. The time a saw a neighboor do a ghost inhale. The look of pure bliss. How can a thing that stinks so much give them so much pleasure. And born in 70's at some level people all ready knew it wasn't the most healthy thing to do. But it was a smokers inviroment, it was excepted. Like drinking still is. To the point you had to explain why you never smoked like people now question a person who doesnt drink alcohol. Back then at a birthday party as a host you would buy cigarettes brands you knew your guests would be smoking. And as a kid you would play in the mist of smoke aunts and uncles where creating. When a person announced people werent allowed to smoke in their home when visiting they stop coming. Going outside wasn't even an option. When you go to bar the smoke was so thick your clothes would stink for days. But you also didnt smell anything else which i find was in someways a good thing now you can smell the guy with sweating armpits a cross the room. I still enjoy watching a woman smoke a sigaret if she fully enjoys it. And still smoke myself. Only in private, not to bother or influence any kid/person by incident. And if hiding my smoking is a skill, i am very good at it. Over 40 years old never been caught. Not even believed when i told people i smoke. It never got to the point that the handed me a sigaret and asked me to smoke it. If it where a woman to ask me i would have done it no doubt. I am smoking now for 35 year's never exceeded half a pack a day. most of the time it half of that amount. But i do smoke and i dont think i am able to totally quit.
Its worth trying to quit, you get alot of time back. 10 sigs a day * ~ 5 minutes is almost an hour you loose every day in which you could do something else. I smoked for 18 years and im smoke free since March 2022. Its never to late.
For me it was pink guy, aka filthy frank, joji nowdays
in 5 years her video will be: "Why I regret starting smoking"
In 10 years her video will be: "Why I quit smoking"
And then in 10 years and 4 days her video will be: "Why I started smoking again"
Good luck quitting once you're 10 years in.
@@fufu1405That is truth, not impossible people done it. Tho you need to be strong character to quit addiction of any kind especially if you let it seep in that deep.
@@ev25zv Seems a successful long term business plan. Well planned ahead, lol. :D
there is such a huge difference between people who chain smoke everyday vs people who have the occasional smoke and no one seems to want to talk about or recognize that... i suppose the majority of people progress along that line and ultimately become chain smokers.. but theyre the people you see smoking every hour... you dont notice the people who have a smoke once a week or once a month because really by todays standards theyre not smokers but like anything they can be enjoyed in moderation
Social pressure can be hard to ignore. Once you get hooked, you will likely not stop. I've lost 4 family members to it, one as young as 28. Although dying to smoking is genetic, don't risk your life on it. For less anxiety go to the gym, follow your passion, eat right, and plan everything out and I promise you will feel amazing.❤
I agree with ya but it can be really hard so first lets consider going to a therapist than starting to smoke. Might not really have enough money to go to a therapist, but enough money to buy a pack of cigarettes... these people need SERIOUS help
@@merokittentried everything and i was miserable, started smoking and sometimes snus and life is going good im feeling good ive made alot of connections and im enjoying life, really helped me and has helped others
it's just a cigarette calm down@@merokitten
You are too damn cool and kind... Being a non smoker but carrying cigarettes in case a desperate smoker needed one is next level humanity.
Indeed😭
If ur desperate for a ciggarette you are already having withdrawals and might as well quit lol
@@williepiewithdrawal is horrid, thats why people go back to what they’re withdrawing from. Addicts will overcome addiction when they want to, not when someone else thinks they should, just when they personally feel like theyll be able to
@@taziztzxic9868 3 days of feeling sluggish with bad sleep. After about a week you feel normal. Its really not bad and totally worth it.
@@williepiethat's when u smoke a low amount for a short period of time.
Try smoking a pack a day for 10 years and you will see that withdrawals are hell on heart
She smokes because she lives in Europe.
What does have europe to do with that?
@@co_si_dame the people there indirectly had her smoking even without forcing.. might as well when u trying to fit in with other people around
True, if she lived in the United States she would be smoking fentanyl.
I smoked for 17 years, it was brutally difficult to quit. Took me 4 years and 20 attempts, and it was extremely uncomfortable, both physically and especially mentally. I'm not the one to moralize, do what you want to do, but I would urge you from the bottom of my heart to consider quitting while you can. The "one cigarette a day" habit doesn't last. It becomes two, three, four, pack a day, two packs a day, and at that point it's harder to quit smoking than it would be to quit heroin or alcohol. Nicotine is insidious and one of the worst substances I've ever quit.
I smoke a ciggarette every single hour and day.
I love how honest you are
i had my first cigarette when i was at a carneval with a friend (i was so in love with her btw😭) we were already drunk when we went to buy a pack. then we met her classmate and we decided to smoke a ciggy together. i was so silly i tried acting like ive smoked many times before but i didn’t even know how to inhale properly😭 around a month after that i went on a holiday with people who ive never actually met before. i was so anxious at first but then at that night we went down to the beach and talked for a while. they gave me some hits from their vape and we just had such a fun time. after the holiday we became really close so we met again. one of them bought a pack and she gave each of us a cigarette. i don’t remember very well but because i didn’t feel any buzz i think i still didn’t inhale. around a week after that i decided to buy my own pack which was a winston blue. i was taking a walk in the park and thats when i learned how to inhale. the buzz was so awsome i had to sit down for a sec ahah. i had the same experience as Connie. my thoughts just flew away and i felt so mindful all of a sudden. since that i’ve been smoking one ciggy everyday. sometimes at night sometimes in the morning. whenever i feel like i want to clean my head for a while. i know very well it’s not a healthy thing to do and is in fact an addiction but it just feels so nice to calm down my anxious mind every now and then.
also for anyone who read this have an amazing day
It won't stay at 1 a day. I bet even now you are having 2 on some days a month on from your comment. I guess you're young and won't take any advice from a stranger on the Internet. On the off chance, nicotine is extremely addictive to 90-odd percent of people. You won't feel the damage to your lungs for 2 years or more by which time you will find it unbelievably hard to quit. You probably never will from that point and if you do you will miss it for the rest of your life. You will start coughing and retching until you feel sick, or actually vomit on cold mornings. Your breath will stink to nonsmokers. I used to have 3-4 colds a year which always turned chesty and often needed antibiotics for opportunistic infections. Now I'm addicted to nicotine gum. Nobody can force you not to smoke. You have to decide now, while you still have a choice, whether to learn from my and others mistake or be a dumb idiot like I was.
U s lesbian?
@@encore4962 hell yes i am
Maybe next time, try to just meditate and imagine that ure such a good smoker as u take a deep breath.
Female smokers are so pathetic.
L+ratio+you gay+i have better lungs than you+youre not a woman+u will look older
I remember playing videos games with my neighbor in their living room as the mom sat next to us smoking and this went on for years. While I always found smoking disgusting, I also had this craving for a cigarette. I still have never smoked and never will but I realize now it's probably an addiction from second hand smoke and I'm sure if I start I probably couldn't stop which is even more motivation to never start. I really hope you stop because it's so bad for your health and you're obviously such a nice, intelligent, and beautiful person.
So random but I remember an interview where someone visited the Philip morris headquarters and one of the CEO’s apparently smokes 1 cigarette a day, but says they won’t touch Oreos because of how addictive sugar/fat can be (I think they own Oreo’s parent company and other fast food chains, etc)
AHAHHAHAHA I have to find that interview
How common is smoking cigarettes in Portugal? In America, it has lost a lot of popularity, and hearing that everyone smoked there really surprised me.
in Europe is very common in my country for example and from my experience in high school although it was a long time ago at least 50% of 15-17 year old kids smoke
I’d say it’s fairly popular,younger people are quickly picking up the habit and it’s not uncommon to go outside and see a fair amount of people smoking as opposed to the US
Idk about the young crowd but at least half of old PTs are daily chain smokers and wine/beer drinkers.
Thanks, I fall asleep 5 min into the video, helped with my insomnia.
I think we all started like this, one every other week, then we think we can smoke one cigarrete per day, and soon enough you're gonna be smoking a whole pack a day, i started at 16yo, now i'm 25 and i smoke 1 and a half pack everyday, that calm you feel at the begining will be no longer the same after a couple years, in fact, the anxiety can and will get worst, since you'll need to smoke every 15 minutes, and when u can't smoke, you'll feel like you are in hell, the abstinence is not as bad as other drugs, but it's still bad! I advice you to stop, since u can be 2 days without a cigarrete, it'll be easier for you
You telling stories is like so calm
Every single person i know above 50 is strongly against smoking and advice to never start it even them being smokers themselves. My gf's grandpa lost his leg due to smoking. I don't think anyone should do it tbh. There are other ways to calm and find peace and relaxation that are less harmful for someones health.
that's because back in the day people smoked insane amounts of cigarettes. Also it's because you only hear about people who didn't quit. You don't hear about people who smoked one cigarette a day for 5 years then quit. They are totally healthy. You only hear about people who smoke 2 packs a day for 40 years.
It's so boring tho I'll be running thru nic gum regular gum and breath mints all day if I try to quit I'll be moving all funny but I move funny anyways
I, as a 45 year old smoker urge against smoking. Regret 25 years down the line is a helluva thing. With 'youth' you'll ride the crest of the wave until you hit your late thirties, early forties. Trust me i wish i could turn the clocks back.
it doesn't hit you in your forties if you don't smoke so much for 20 years. Only people who have smoked heavy amounts regret it
when you said you try to "impress" her by saying yes to smoke a cigarette, i understand what you mean. back in 8th i have a friend that smokes and looking back for some reason i wanted them to think im "cool" so whenever they sneak out to smoke i would join just because. no one pressured me fyi just low-key wanted to try it 😭
I'm an ex smoker, it's been just about 10 years since I smoked a cigarette. I used to smoke half a pack a day, but would smoke more than one pack if I was hanging out with friends. Then they started making me feel sick and I noticed I felt better when I didn't smoke. Eventually I let it go. I went on vacation for a week without my ciggies and when I came back, I no longer needed it. But I still have the very last cigarette from the last pack I smoked 10 years ago! But I cherish my old smokey days. When I first started, I would ask my uncle for a ciggie because he was a smoker. I remember the first ciggie I smoked made me ultra dizzy and nauseas. But the next day, I wanted more and that's how it started. I'm glad I quit though, even the gas station clerks were telling me I shouldn't smoke. My teachers told me I shouldn't smoke too, so I knew at some point I had to quit.
super proud of you bro! cool you still have that pack :P just to get rid of my curiosity, which pack is it?
@@bryandcruz3675 Thank you! It's an L&M
I smoke because I look cool
I have been smoking since I was 14 years old (I can't believe it myself), and now at 26, I have made the decision to quit. It's proving to be the toughest challenge I've faced. I have been able to go for months without beer, which is another favorite pastime of mine, but cigarettes have always been the hardest to give up. Perhaps it's because smoking has been my go-to activity whenever I find myself alone reading a book or after, even when I am waiting for someone it has been my companion or when I am stress. It's also been a constant companion when I'm with friends, and especially when I am drinking coffee (I know, it's a bit unusual). In general, smoking has always been my default habit. I used to love it and enjoy it, but now, at 26, I've started to feel that it has made my life less fulfilling.
I have noticed that my breathing has become increasingly labored, and activities like working out and jogging have become tiresome. However, the two things that I am truly fed up with as a smoker are the persistent coughing and excessive mucus production every morning and night. As a result, I visited the doctor to complain about these issues, and his conclusion was what I already suspected - it was due to smoking. I grew tired of having to spit regularly and coughing every 2 to 3 minutes. After receiving a warning from the doctor, I made the firm decision to quit. It has only been a month, and it's still incredibly challenging, but I constantly remind myself of the coughing and mucus production whenever I feel the urge to smoke.
Sharing this story with you is not meant to discourage you on your smoking journey; rather, I want to make you aware that smoking does not have a positive impact on the body in the long run. The changes I have noticed in just a month are quite significant. I have observed improvements in my skin, and I rarely breathe through my mouth while walking or when I am tired. Additionally, working out no longer holds me back as it used to (although I still struggle with laziness). My advice to you, as you enjoy your journey as a smoker, is to never overlook the effects smoking may have on your health and body. It's crucial to keep a check on yourself; you can't afford to be careless.
I started at 14 and quit at 25 myself. Good luck bud stick with it
hows it going
@@carlwheezer2808 going good so far.
another relaxing video❤ thanks connie
Your "story time" videos are absolutely solid gold. I so look forward to every post.
I wish weed was held to the same standards as cigarettes tbh. I really don't want to try smoking cigarettes, but I'm always jealous of the cig smokers bc they can smoke pretty much anywhere
get a pen with thc in it
Edibles.
I started smoking because I was the last of six girls in my university dormitory to be smoking. I smoked for two weeks, took a seven year break then started again because I am stupid.
i smoked my first cigarette a few days ago when i was on break with my coworkers (construction work) and since i was almost the only non smoker one of the guys offered me a cigarette, which i accepted. it was a Camel blue cigarette, i didnt cough at all and it felt pretty nice after a while. the smell isnt the nicest thing in the world but i understand why people do it.
And the taste?
another one probably wont hurt
@@everythingerina9379 it was alright
Smoking while watching Connie is the best 🚬
ayy that's the best way
Its horrible, nobody in this day and age should be smoking cigs. (and I smoked for over 10 years) You should be smarter.
Loved this video your a great story teller
It was one a day for me at the start, "to keep it in control". I started at 19, I'm 21 now. Then it went to 2, then to 4, then to 10, then to 15. I quit a week ago because I didn't like how I was a slave to this habit and also I could feel my lungs getting more and more damaged by the day. If you ask me, if you're not trying to self "delete" (like I was, hence a desperate last attempt to distract myself from my bad thoughts, and I didn't plan to live anyways), ANY other reason to start is dumb af and easy to avoid. Go for a run, hang out with friends, do anything else.
And make no mistake, once you're a smoker, you'll come up with so many excuses. By then the addiction is already talking, it's not you at the helm anymore.
Been an RN for several years now, I've seen how things end for smokers. Its not fun or glorious. Highly recommend you do everything you can to stop while you're still young. Life seems infinite until its not.
You gotta try Marlboro Southern Cut, one of my favorites, if not absolute. I do enjoy the Marboro double fusion/w-burst because I basically get 3 cig profiles in one toke, but it’s hard for me to acquire them. And I really enjoy menthols, but I live in California and menthol is banned here, so companies started using synthetic coolants and although I smoke Newport EXP 100s, I don’t get the hit I’m looking for. I vape as well and I love all sorts of flavors, that’s why I recommend southern cut because, it’s so good tasting, hints of chocolate and bourbon, and very smooth. Hope you try it, God bless you
the goal of eliminating thoughts is only a chase that leads to more chases. it's an illusion and is a state of mind that can not be sustainably achieved. take care
well said
If you want to be relaxed or at peace. You can meditate, I don’t understand people who think cigarettes is the only way to be at “peace”.
when you're addicted, it really is. and personally i find meditation very stressful.
@@P0wderP1nkAndSweet It isn't at peace from your problems and worries though, it's at peace from the nagging need "give me a high give me a high give me a high, there's a schedule high right here in the timetable where is it???"
It's a feigned peace and that's the danger of it. It's a faustian deal that ends up stripping much from your life, not just the very literal years stripped from you, but the financial side of things (5 euros here in Portugal per pack, like 20 in some other country, the more you smoke the steeper the cut in your spendable income becomes)
You are such a genuine sweet wiman connie love your videos
Will you ever be giving up on cigarettes?
probably!
The nonsmokers or social smokers who carry around a pack are the sweetest ppl honestly, I always admire ppl like that . btw I really like how post videos where you smoke & talk, because a lot of your viewers are solitary cig smokers who probably at one time experienced every smoke break as a chance for camaraderie & made friends that way but now have no one to smoke with.
no nonsmoker just carries around cigarettes. chances are they just hold them for a friend or are lying to you. most likely the latter.
There is nothing better than starting the day in the morning with a coffee and a cigarette. After a hard gym session, I would smoke a cigarette. It's not like I'm addicted to it, I enjoy smoking and thinking about my plans. The best plans and projects were made in five minutes while smoking with my colleagues.
What a fantastic video, love your content as always! And yeah, so many things happened and now you are our favourite smoking content creator on youtube! Life is amazing.
I really enjoy smoking while watching your videos it’s such a vibe 🎉
Keep smoking have fun. Don't listen to other people you will know the right time to quit because you seem intelligent.
Im 17 and had my first cigarette about two years ago from peer pressure. I had been smoking them on and off and I decided to quit right before the summer of 2023 since I was a lifeguard and wanted healthy lungs. Since then I’ve only relapsed once but let me tell you these urges are really fucking hard to fight off sometimes but I know that mentality of “one more cigarette to relax” will lead me down a path where I won’t be able to see my grandkids grow up. I will do my best to stay strong and anyone else going through this may god be with you.
@templeanhedonia The only physcial change was my skin started breaking out more
Your demeanor is very calm and enjoyable. I didn't know what kind of person you were in the story you told, but right now I think you're that calm and cool person that you had a crush on back then.
You should stop immediately. But if you really love, LOVE smoking, so be it. But you will might pay a price in the future.
I smoked on new year 2024 for 3 days it got me and I smoked for a week more within 10days I can feel my body was getting dehydrated no matter how much water I take it won’t help and within 10days I just stopped smoking and my body was tempting and craving for cigarettes within just 10 days now when I stopped I was constantly feeling to smoke but I stopped but this shows within 10days it changed my mindset and trapped . Now I can understand those who are smoking for years and they will not be able to leave it I know it why.
i relate so much with your story and the vibe of the whole video is really chill luv ur vids
Smoking anything kills the body, don't do it, it's not worth it.
as soon as you mentioned jacob jones i had a bright smile in my face knowing whats going on haha
My first one was in the parking lot of my work, my partner and I smoked in secret, it was funny and I didn't know how to inhale either hehe. I like to smoke because I feel in control of the situation and it's my moment to take a step back and think about life without worrying about anything (I feel stylish too 😎). Your videos and Jacob's help a lot with this, we have a great community here
I have learned a lot of English here, your way of speaking helps 🙏
Honestly what you have is a super power. Being able to keep it to mostly 1 cigarette a day is incredible. Just be careful if you start needing more cigarettes to ''relax.'' I used to use cigarettes to help with anxiety and stress. It wasn't until i quit that i realised it was the addiction that was causing the anxiety
I just feel like a non smoking-smoker when I quit. Depriving myself of smoking, but not 'over it'.
People like me tend to relapse. Has anyone like me managed to quit and be 'over it'? And how long does it take to be over it after quitting?
I started coughing up really gross stuff and I really got tired of smelling like it. I quit once and it lasted 9 months but I went to a music festival and ended up smoking a bunch cigs because of the party favors I did all weekend. Then I quit again a year later because I had reached a point of being so grossed out by them that I couldn't take them anymore. And thank God it stuck. I can't explain it but somehow it was like a switch turned off and now they gross me out so so so much. I've never felt so negatively about cigs before and its a pretty great feeling knowing I'm never going back and it's been so much better for my life.
Hey, I am from Europe too, and I studied Portuguese language in college. So it's really coo that you are living there. I envy you tbh
Jacob is my go to when I want to chill.
YOU made a BIG mistake...
@TanviSolanki-jb7wz It IS her life. But that doesn’t change the fact that she made a mistake.
@@matthewstorm5188Couldnt say it better mate
Stop Hating on a girlboss who slays
@@TanviSolanki-jb7wzit's not only her life if she smoke and do a youtube video ..
She did, but that was her choice to make
Not inhaling the cig is a crime man 💀, that's like wasting the buzz.
There is a diff between condoning and encouraging. You ARE technically condoning it, but you deff aren't encouraging it, just giving your perspective.
Not going to say don't start since you've already started. But I'll say it usually takes several attempts to quit even for those best at it. So you might want to consider practice that sooner than later. I've been smoke free for around 7 or 8 years now I think. I smoked "only" for around 15 years. Quitting isn't as hard as they say, the temptation wears off and then all you've gotta do is to not smoke that first cigarette ever again or get a dose of nicotine in any other form.
Best of luck
love that you watch jacob jones too, great youtuber (another great vid from you too ofc)
Some people can enjoy smoking occasional cigarettes, one a day or so. Its not for everyone.
I’m definitely not a fan of smoking or anything nicotine like but I do respect you because you don’t smoke near people you only smoke by yourself or not near people who don’t Becuase you know how it feels to not like the smell of cigarettes. I respect you👍👍 WW
I started smoking at 6 and quit at 75, now still living life
I started smoking at 75 and quit at 6
Just started smoking at 22. One or two every day or other day. I enjoy the chill I get from it, vape doesn’t quite hit the same. Something about knowing it’s bad for me also makes it feel better.
Hi Connie. Your videos has really grown on me, have a good weekend
The way you explained how your brain is always at 100 miles per hour 300 thoughts per minute is really similar to how ADHD brains feel, and untreated and undiagnosed ADHD (which is very common in girls) is quite prone to making people self medicate with whatever they find, speaking from experience
Maybe you could look into ADHD symptoms ans see if you relate to them, and try to find some help or a diagnosis to get the right meds, which is really a life changer
Unrelated but I recently found your channel and I love your videos, your voice really calms me down :)
Much love Connie 💞💞💞
Started at 14 (first tried at 12 though), and quit at 25. Haven't smoked since and I have zero desire for it. SO glad I stopped, its one of the best things I've ever done in my life
Its honestly pretty weird to me that people still smoke. With how many options there are now with vaping. I'm always genuinely surprised when I see someone smoking lol. Its kinda rare these days
"like 0 thoughts in my mind - smoke covered my brain" deep
It's nice that you're so conscious of smoking, and it's not an ignorant decision.
Females who smoked used to be called “Fag Ash Lill’. Call me a mamma bear, but no way do I want a smoker near my babies.
Yea, I prefer to be conscious of the consequences so I don’t blame anyone but myself. It’s nice every so often tbh, I’ll usually have one once a week in between my lectures :)
its exactly ignorant decision
@Billythek Smoking is more safe then experimental vaccines...
I dunno, stopped smoking cigarettes because i figured out i‘m more the crack kinda guy 🤷🏻♂️
I love how honest you are!
I can finally watch your stuff again as i’m back from holiday now. I love your vids connie :)))
I love how you said “let’s name her B” and just never called her that again 😂
JKASDHFKAHSDFJKH dont call me out HJAHSDF
You ever tried cigars? Now that’s relaxing.
I smoke 1 cig with coffe in the morning 1 cig with tea in the evening and 1 cig with a cup of wine at night. Smoking only 3 cigs a day makes me enjoy each and every cig so much and it makes every cig worth much more money i pay for it. It is like a profitable investment when you earn much more value that what you pay. I remember when i used to smoke a pack a day. The only cig i ever enjoyed is the first cig in the morning
You have great stories to tell. And i like listening to Connie because she's awesome ❤❤
Ay what I know.. it's just soo chilling watching your videos today with story? Hell yeah!
tysm :))
Smoking isn't cool it just hurts don't believe me wait 10 years.
The calmness of the mind was my experience too when I lit up my first (probably Marlboro) at 14. Got hooked on it immediately, much later, I found it was related to inattentive type adhd
You have just demonstrated new smoker to addict in a few minutes. I started smoking in 1980 aged 13. I quit in 2016 aged 48 due to COPD. Connie; you need to quit right now.
I just started
Everyone in balkan smokes since 13 years old, not because of anything. Just cause its cool/or brothers/family smoke as well
its getting a routine watching your videos in the evening and smoking with you so chill and calm keep going
enjoy
Hello!
I have also been smoking for almost 3 months, but actually only cigars and cigarillos, because they are not so quick to smoke and therefore you can't light them in every situation.
At the weekend I treat myself to a cigar for an hour or if I'm at a party I might smoke a pack of 5 cigarillos but that's about it.
Just make sure you don't smoke too much :)
Drugs are just a tool to hide your insecurities..
I started smoking when I was 14
But I stopped because I didn't want problems with my parents
And I started smoking again at 17 before I turned 18 because i want to forget my life choices i made that brought me here. As of today, I smoke a pack a week, and I'm not planning on buying a pack every day
I like smoking too. I'm really glad you shared that. Yea, girrrl, lol, you rock. Smokers are some of the chillest people I know and have met. Bless 😊
Good luck with the black lungs 🎀
Another super cool video. I'm very curious and it would be nice if you did a review of the long cigarettes.
Its nice to hearing you, enjoying way learning english☺️
I like the way, why you started smoking 👍🏻
I'm not even sure why I still smoke but tbh cigarettes just relieves the stress tbh I won't lie. I'm not even depressed anymore but the ciggies never stopped.
Smoked from 18 to 28. Worst decision ever. I am 7 years off them and I still want to smoke. They will change your life forever and not for the best. Avoid smoking at all cost 'cause quitting is insanely hard.
After 9 years of regular smoking I finally quit 2 months ago. I don't want to touch a cigarette ever again but God it's hard to resist when I'm drunk.
how did u quit ? i wanna quit vaping so bad but its really hard
@@abdullah-du4zo Went cold turkey. I have been despising habit itself for a long time. I did try to quit many times before, hardly lasted 1 month on one occasion.
-Reducing smoking or taking nicotine supplements did not work for me.
-I have been playing badminton everyday from last few months so that's kind of taking away the stress and giving me motivation. -Everytime I feel like smoking I spend that cigarette money on something else like food or some accessory.
-Physical activity is probably the best alternative for quitting smoking.
-Also try to actually sit and imagine the consequences, I mean really think hard about it. People will make excuses on how everyone will die at the end etc but your day to life also gets worse gradually.
Now only trigger for me is when I get drunk. So far I have managed to not smoke on 3-4 occasions when I got drunk. I have a strong determination this time.
But the risk is there all the time for relapse.
Stop drinking too bro
Bro id say the drinking is worse
@@venomsnake-zb18Smoking is definitely worse than drinking but when it comes to vapes I can understand it being healthiter than drinks