Hello, Your words just saved me from destroying myself and marriage, I realised I don't even trully love my son , am going back to my first love God and learn from him how to love. Thank you so much, may Our Father continue blessing you.
GOD IS SO GOOD! You've reminded me that God is a restorer but most of all you've encouraged me to keep going and keep sharing what the Lord has personally dealt with me on in my individual walk. I pray that both you and your family, receive God's love for each and every one of you so that through accepting it, you embrace loving each other but yourselves also.
Nothing but the Holy Spirit spoke to me through you. Every word was the truth, thank you for being obedient and creating this video for your brothers and sisters in Christ❤
GOD IS SO AMAZING! Thank you Lord for making yourself know through the power and work of your Holy Spirit, thank you so much for these encouraging words 🤍
This message is perfect on my journey with God. I feel so unworthy based on my life circumstances. But God is love so I must love myself, and if I truly love Him, I will obey this commandment
Oh yes! You gotta learn to love yourself! Love how your eyes, ears, lips, frontside, backside, legs, feet, nose and teeth look. You are wonderfully and fearfully made by GOD
I’m alive, I give God so much thanks for it. I was a mess, I knew I wasn’t myself. I felt and heard people’s judgement towards me, it hurt so bad. I’ve been living with a “time to get them back” mindset now that i’m ‘myself’ again. It was so much pride and anger and honestly hatred i thought was justified but it was wrong and evil and Lord I am so sorry. You had so much grace for me during that dark time I choose today to forgive anyone I felt judged by and to forgive myself for who I ‘was’ back then
You don’t understand how much I thank God for this comment, so honest, open and transparent to be able to admit that you had so much pride and anger. And listen, it’s beauty attached to confession. I dealt with the same thing BAD, I wanted to “do people how they did me” and it left me resentful towards MYSELF. Praise God for every level of growth that you find yourself in this season 🤍
The crazy thing is that even the things that we may dislike about ourselves now or have disliked in another season of our lives, are the very things that draw others to us. I was drawn to you because of your voice, because of the fact that you look like me, and speak in confidence. Thank you for being you and for being obedient. I thank the Holy Spirit for speaking through you and being a voice that resonates with me, so that I can receive His word. May God continue to bless and protect you🙏🏽
Girl this changed my life. This is so gooooooddddd. Especially when you started breaking down 1 Corinthians 13 kind of love. I forget that we should behave that way towards ourselves. You opened my eyes to so much. Thanks for your obedience.
This lightened my soul because I’m growing to embrace it, slowly. May God bless you and thank you for taking the time out of your day to sit through it and watch it, I’m thankful for you 🤍
I struggle to take care of myself. I am a single mom with a special needs child. Each day is a struggle. I know God is with me and teaching me each day.
Don’t be hard on yourself. If you’re taking accountability that’s the FIRST STEP that you should celebrate, everybody can’t do that-I know three years ago I couldn’t. Now look at you!? Desiring different! Once you establish a deep rooted relationship with The Lord. Your relationship with yourself will be deep rooted and established ❤
Thank you, this video was very helpful and eye opening. I came into this video thinking I met the requirements for loving myself, but I learned more about self-love, and I receive this. As I began to finish this video I began to think about God's word where it says in Hosea 4:6mand He says my people destroyed for lack of knowledge, so thank you so much for posting this video and allowing me to gain more knowledge, God is so good. Ask and you shall receive and that's exactly what happened tonight! God bless you for this video, I hope that you receive more followers but also more of God, don't you give up! Amen.
This video is amazingggggg… the breakdown?? The explanations?? I’ve never heard someone speak & disect this topic like this. See in how much self love connects to Our love for God n others.. so amazing
Hi Kamia, thank you. As tears flow I have come to the realization I really did not love me. I need to go back to my first love immediately because the enemy is attempting to hold me captive. Thank you for being a helping hand. I am officially joining the family.
I have finally gotten to a place where I (almost) love myself. He's brought me a long way, but lately, it's as if I've forgotten how to let God love me and to receive it. It's odd, somewhere along the line, I became so focused on loving others that I forgot I need love, too. Please pray for me that my heart will be open to re-learning how to receive His love. Bless you, family ❤
I was here before sister and I lost literally all I had thinking I was walking out scripture. I loved others more than I loved myself. I thought I was having the mind of Jesus and I was forsaking myself. May God bless your discernment of His truths for your life.
@kiajohnson8726 Thank you, and thank you for sharing. I'm sorry for the losses you faced - if it be God's will, may He restore it back to you in Jesus' name. 🤍
We often get off track, but God's love is ALWAYS pursuing us, even with the step you made to even comment that and acknowledge that about yourself says so much to God. Put your focus back on Him and you'll realize His focus is on you, so to not consider loving yourself is refusing His love for you. It can be so hard, especially when you're use to loving others first (I still struggle with it and being a people pleaser) the more you rely on His love, the more you'll naturally receive it. I'm praying for you family 🤎
I am so sorry for your loss, and I pray that the Lord began to heal your heart to receive His love all over again, I pray that you began to trust Him more and more, in a fresh and new way even in the midst of heartbreak, questions, and grief His love and mercy is enough! @@Nenej293
@KamiaMcWilliams Thank you for your words of encouragement, Kamia, and for the gentle rebuke. I didn't think about it, that not loving myself is also refusing His love; that broke my heart to imagine His heart hurt because I don't accept His gift. After rereading that part, I think it comes from a place of feeling unworthy, honestly. I'll be praying for you, too, bless you!
This is my first time coming across your page and the first video I have ever watched of yours and I am at awe of it. This video spoke so much to me and my partner. I have subscribed and joined the family. Thank you Holy Spirt for talking to me through Kamia. Amen !! ❤️❤️
Let me tell you, this made my entire day, to see how the Lord has connected us but most of all connected you back to Him through this conversation! Welcome to the family lovely 🤍
This is amazing❤️. The point about using 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 on your relationship with yourself is something I’ve never considered, I’ve only seen it as a tool on how to take care of others! God bless you!
Hearing may have very well changed my life. I pray to God daily and been trying to get my life together as my relationship with God is concerned but now I know why I can’t move forward and it’s because I don’t love myself, which I secretly am aware but have not openly admitted to others. I haven’t forgiven myself for the things I have done and how I have hurt others. I carry weight on my shoulders that went on in my child hood and teenage years with not having a great relationship with my dad and not knowing how to communicate over into my adulthood. And now I don’t know how to resolve issues with friends , I don’t know how to forgive when I feel wronged and I don’t know how to forgive myself. Where can I even start now.
Be patient with yourself, knowing that the same suffering is experienced in brotherhood. Start with what's on your mind casting this unto God. I hope this helps.
This is what I needed to hear. Sometimes I become negative towards myself and struggle with low confidence from past events. These still bother me today but your words have touched my heart 🙏🏽🙏🏽God bless you❤❤
I watched the video because my mom was advising me because she saw I looked ragged and did not look so good and she asked me ' do you love yourself as a person' I was stunned to answer because I never thought of that question and I was shocked to realize I did not love myself like I proclaimed and if I do not love God , how do I love myself then? i want to love God first because I get swarmed by my emotions and get concerned not knowing I did not care for his temple my body well. Thank you, it really helped me!!!!!!!!!😘😍🙂
I stumbled upon your video, and it REALLY made me understand how flawed my love is. I just wonder what are the roots of this. Thank you so much for your video. God bless you!
off topic! you are soo beautiful, face card, hair, skin tone! First time on your channel, I had to pause the vid to check if you had a haircare routine. GLORY BE TO GOD for your beauty! okay let me get back to the video haha!
Thank you so much for this beautiful comment! Now I don’t have a hair routine video but, I usually wash once every 2 weeks and then just coil my sides and curl my top with my demibrush and fingers using auntie Jackie’s gel and then donna's recipe (condition, leave in, oil, styling creme and shampoo) 🤍 and over time I’ll just unravel the coils until my two weeks are up
The fact that I noticed I hadn't been taking self-love as serious. I thought to use 1 cor 13:7-9 on myself first. This is confirmation that is exactly what I need to do. Thank you
I struggle with being comfortable around people, like social anxiety...makes me avoid people in general, plus my trust has been betrayed in the past, so when you say love people, I think you need to describe what that means details. What does that look like or feels like? Because love is an emotion that needs to grow from getting to know people more, but we can't be that close to everyone. So what is this love for people? What are the examples of it's expression and how does it feel? @@KamiaMcWilliams
Soooooo thankful for this. I feel the same about the importance of self-love as a christian. I feel I got so worried about what the Christians who think any love for yourself is bad that I wouldn't allow myself to read what was clearly stated in his word. I idolized criticism and opinion and it put God in a box of the angry father love only me and not yourself in any capacity and I think it damaged my personal relationship with him because I allowed others to define that for me.
I really loved n needed this video.❤❤❤ Could I request a video on how to heal or rebuild self love through Christ ? I know it’s kinda self explanatory from the points made in this video yet life is hard so if there is a nice focus point made clear and sounding good makes it easier to be ok with letting things go n change made by GOD especially in a era filled with hurt n pain.
I thank God that something was said in this video, and you received it! I'm going to definitely do that for you because I get it, it can be hard especially hard to unlearn things and toxic behaviors and patterns that don't helps us to love God nor ourselves, I'm going to record it for you soon!
Thank you for this! I needed to hear all of this. You’re spreading the right message and I’m so happy I was led to your video. Thank you!! Have a great day
Thank you Kamia!! Three of the signs spoke to me. I am ready to fully love myself and most importantly love God more. God bless you for blessing others! You have a new subscriber in me!❤🙏🏾
I have a question and i ask this humbly please be gentle lol. This is something i struggle to understand about loving god or else you won't love properly with other people or yourself. My question is what about the people who dont have a relationship with god and are not christian but are kind and loving to their neighbor and do love themselves and find their partners on their own without god and things seem to be going well for them? I had/ have friends who are either agnostic or atheist who are some of the most loving kind hearted friendly people that i know/knew.
I really appreciate this video. As someone who has become very insecure and struggles to forgive themselves for sins ive done in the past, i really do appreciate this video. I pray that God may Bless you.
I lost a holy spirt a while back and realizing I don’t really know how to love God is a big thing for me, and I was wondering if I can get him back. I truely want to love him I just don’t know anymore
Wow this was soo deep. I was just looking to start a self love journey but I just realised it’s more than a self development plan, it’s a spiritual plan of faith. Thank you for this ❤️
I am having a hard time dealing with confusion. I prayed to God to reveal His words and for understanding, since I backslid for 3 years and I have just decided to go back (very hard). I read the verse again when Jesus told His disciples to deny themselves and follow Him then I came across a quote that loving people, and loving life is a reflection of how you love yourself and that is the love the author has been searching for. I told myself I am that kind of person. I love taking care of people, I smile at strangers, I consider my friends' feelings, but then thoughts that I am selfish came up and I felt guilty. I don't know how to align this with God's words as it contradicts what the word of God says. I have so many questions like, how can I biblically love myself and deny myself at the same time? I'm confused and keep praying to God for this clarity and peace. I searched and found your video, and it's clear to me now that I have been doing all that because I was self-seeking in friendships/relationships. I am a people-pleaser. I wasn't considerate because I love people. I wanted them to consider and see me too. I wanted them to validate my feelings when the times comes, so when they wanted advice from me, I was available for them 24/7. I lacked boundaries and my actions were selfish, not self-love. My motivation in "loving" people was to gain something from them such as company, acceptance, validation, their time, and everything made sense. I confused myself with the ability of smiling to strangers with the innate character of being kind. I did that because I feared being negatively perceived. My sense of self started to shake, and I realized that I have been functioning based on my trauma and every action, and Jesus revealed to me now, that in the past, every relationship I had including friendships, failed because I was selfishly loving them. I was self-serving and the illusion is clearing up now. During those times, I didn't love God enough and I wasn't showing them how Christ lived in me. I lost my ability to genuinely love and I let people trample me, became a victim and dwelt in that narrative that I am a victim in every failed relationships and friendships because I wasn’t accountable and responsible of my actions that led to that. God warned me already through my parents, but I took their corrections and advices with aggression and thought that they didn’t know what they were saying. All your points, thank You Lord Jesus, are making sense, because these problems I had with correction, patience, all came from my lack of understanding of how Jesus loves me and so I didn’t love myself enough to take care of the temple, to glorify Him in my peers, my actions, my way of loving, and it hurt people in my life and damaged me threefold. Now, I am unworthy of God’s love and I will never be, and that’s good because that means I recognized that I can only do life with Him beside me. Without Him, I will just keep messing my life and my relationships and I will just go farther away from Hi, which I do not want anymore after living in sin for 3 years, gratifying myself and that is what “deny yourself” meant and it’s all clear now. Praise God for your life, sister. May God bless you more. Thank you for being an instrument of Jesus Christ
I think of others above myself ever since I was 8 years old and others in my life make sure their okay first. I have always thought of others above myself. Am I doing things wrong? Please tell me the truth?
Here are my notes from these video for those who don’t wanna watch the whole thing, this is a very edifying video, God encouraged to watch it and I ended up doing it hours later. Lol😂 Signs you don’t love yourself enough 1. If you don’t love God, because loving God allows you to love yourself since you have the fruit of the Holy Spirit which is love. 2. You don’t love people, including your enemy’s. We’re unable to love others if we don’t love ourselves. How I treat others reveals how I feel about myself. 3. You’re not patient with yourself. Rushing, living in condemnation. Not being patient with God. Because of that you lack the ability to be patient with yourself and with others. 4. You can’t hear the truth, somebody telling the Bible or somebody telling you about you. Let people tell me the truth. Specially about me. Correcting, encouraging to be better. Share the truth of God. If you don’t receive it’s because you don’t love yourself. 5. You keep record of your wrong doings. Refusing to receive the love that God gave you through Jesus Christ. You lack the ability to love yourself because you haven’t receive God’s love for you. He forgives you and washes you away from your sin. Stop living in the past. Lack the ability to let go of the past and not live there anymore. ❤️ forgive, and you will be forgiven. 6. You neglect yourself instead of protecting yourself. ❤️ Protect your mind, peace, allow heaviness from people, to treat you any kind of way, you don’t defend that, abuse you or talk down on you and you don’t speak truth about that, you let people plant different seas in your head instead of what the word of God says. Tips: set healthy boundaries for yourself, for the people that are in your life, God put boundary lines in the ocean, the ocean is needed, but too much of it could harm it, people are needed but need boundaries too. Self love is about going back to your first love, that is God. ❤️❤️it starts with him. Loving him first and then yourself and others.
thanks be to God for this self love correction, you gave me a clear perspective of me loving myself the way I should and loving others and I do feel convicted and I desire to repent to God for not loving myself, my name is Sherell and I am viewing you from Seattle Washington thanks be to God for you speaking out thank the Lord Jesus.
What an anointed message! Bless you for blessing me today with such a reminder that I didn’t deserve forgiveness therefore I definitely should be forgiving others!
Queen Sistar, this was absolutely powerful! I’ve been on this healing journey for a few years now and this message added to my healing. May our Heavenly Father continue to bless you! In Jesus mighty name!❤️❤️❤️
I really love to hear people of God going on their healing journey, I was on mine for two years and God is still healing and delivering but let me tell you, you will never be the same the more you allow God to heal every part of you!!! God bless you my beautiful sister 🤍
Absolutely! I’m going to pray into it and seek the Lord pertaining to forgiveness and forgiving yourself and then share it with you! Thank you for this.
@@daviddorsey7131 you’re welcome! I’m believing with you for that! I also wanted to share this video from a panel conversation we had a few months ago: ruclips.net/video/ZfHHcYO8txM/видео.htmlsi=Q4JlQCpKze90w2H_
that not true. I would give my life for my beloved ones but I hate myself so much you have no idea. I always heard things like you said but that always make me even more confused. Maybe I am just mentally ill.. but I just wanted to be free of this pain
@@sarav.3686 there are parts of the Bible that I don’t understand and makes me a little confused, but it doesn’t mean it’s not the truth-it just means I lack understanding and clarity at the moment. So, I want to encourage you, if you’ve heard this before from several people, and it causes confusion within yourself please stop listening to us and seek The Lord on this. Please. Revelation says that GOD knocks at the door of your heart waiting to speak with YOU. And HE is not the author of confusion. I pray that you find your freedom in Jesus, not in me or anyone else or anything else someone has told you but through HIM and HIS WORD. I pray you also get clarity and no more confusion 💕
God is so good, I pray that God has continued to pour into you during your season of depression. His arm is not to short to pull you up out of it! I've also dealt with depression and suicide attempts and He saved me from those so I have faith that he'll do the same for you! ❤️
Hello, Your words just saved me from destroying myself and marriage, I realised I don't even trully love my son , am going back to my first love God and learn from him how to love. Thank you so much, may Our Father continue blessing you.
GOD IS SO GOOD! You've reminded me that God is a restorer but most of all you've encouraged me to keep going and keep sharing what the Lord has personally dealt with me on in my individual walk. I pray that both you and your family, receive God's love for each and every one of you so that through accepting it, you embrace loving each other but yourselves also.
This is so true because i am so hard on myself and it shows on how i treat others as well i am normally so hard on others too.
Thank you for sharing... if we are the temple of the Holy Spirit, and man is made in God's image thank you God.
I've been so hard on myself too, now learning to love as God has loved me.
Yes! Me too!
Many dont love themselves. God is love. I'm the same. Tell me. Love warns. 1Cor 13 Love does not rejoice in iniquity.
I’m gonna get up and listen to this everyday until it gets better for me.
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Amen
Same!😂❤
Nothing but the Holy Spirit spoke to me through you. Every word was the truth, thank you for being obedient and creating this video for your brothers and sisters in Christ❤
GOD IS SO AMAZING! Thank you Lord for making yourself know through the power and work of your Holy Spirit, thank you so much for these encouraging words 🤍
This message is perfect on my journey with God. I feel so unworthy based on my life circumstances. But God is love so I must love myself, and if I truly love Him, I will obey this commandment
Oh yes! You gotta learn to love yourself! Love how your eyes, ears, lips, frontside, backside, legs, feet, nose and teeth look. You are wonderfully and fearfully made by GOD
Thank you
I’m alive, I give God so much thanks for it. I was a mess, I knew I wasn’t myself. I felt and heard people’s judgement towards me, it hurt so bad. I’ve been living with a “time to get them back” mindset now that i’m ‘myself’ again. It was so much pride and anger and honestly hatred i thought was justified but it was wrong and evil and Lord I am so sorry. You had so much grace for me during that dark time I choose today to forgive anyone I felt judged by and to forgive myself for who I ‘was’ back then
You don’t understand how much I thank God for this comment, so honest, open and transparent to be able to admit that you had so much pride and anger. And listen, it’s beauty attached to confession. I dealt with the same thing BAD, I wanted to “do people how they did me” and it left me resentful towards MYSELF. Praise God for every level of growth that you find yourself in this season 🤍
Please how?!
The crazy thing is that even the things that we may dislike about ourselves now or have disliked in another season of our lives, are the very things that draw others to us. I was drawn to you because of your voice, because of the fact that you look like me, and speak in confidence. Thank you for being you and for being obedient. I thank the Holy Spirit for speaking through you and being a voice that resonates with me, so that I can receive His word. May God continue to bless and protect you🙏🏽
Girl this changed my life. This is so gooooooddddd. Especially when you started breaking down 1 Corinthians 13 kind of love. I forget that we should behave that way towards ourselves. You opened my eyes to so much. Thanks for your obedience.
Your accent is adorbs!!! I really love this breakdown, keep it up sister. =)
This lightened my soul because I’m growing to embrace it, slowly. May God bless you and thank you for taking the time out of your day to sit through it and watch it, I’m thankful for you 🤍
I struggle to take care of myself. I am a single mom with a special needs child. Each day is a struggle. I know God is with me and teaching me each day.
God bless you sis
Same, sis. 🙏🏾
Man I needed this , cause I’ve been so hard on myself bruh. Imma just go ahead and focus on having a better relationship with myself.
Don’t be hard on yourself. If you’re taking accountability that’s the FIRST STEP that you should celebrate, everybody can’t do that-I know three years ago I couldn’t. Now look at you!? Desiring different! Once you establish a deep rooted relationship with The Lord. Your relationship with yourself will be deep rooted and established ❤
it’s so hard not to be hard on yourself it’s so passive too like you don’t even realize you’re doing it. He will restore though He renews our minds 💖🙌
Thank you, this video was very helpful and eye opening. I came into this video thinking I met the requirements for loving myself, but I learned more about self-love, and I receive this. As I began to finish this video I began to think about God's word where it says in Hosea 4:6mand He says my people destroyed for lack of knowledge, so thank you so much for posting this video and allowing me to gain more knowledge, God is so good. Ask and you shall receive and that's exactly what happened tonight! God bless you for this video, I hope that you receive more followers but also more of God, don't you give up! Amen.
This video is amazingggggg… the breakdown?? The explanations?? I’ve never heard someone speak & disect this topic like this. See in how much self love connects to Our love for God n others.. so amazing
God is so good!!! I’ll get to rambling and be all over the place so I’m thankful that you were able to receive it, God bless you 🤍
This was good. Glad to connect. I just subscribed. I found you on threads. Kingdom blessings 🙌🏾❤️
That so crazy because sometimes I would get mad at my husband for no reason because of things I don’t love about myself.
Amen. Thank you for this message. God bless you sister!❤😊
Hi Kamia, thank you. As tears flow I have come to the realization I really did not love me. I need to go back to my first love immediately because the enemy is attempting to hold me captive. Thank you for being a helping hand. I am officially joining the family.
I grew with a lot of self hate when I was younger I still am young though but God is helping me I just have to continue to seek him
I have finally gotten to a place where I (almost) love myself. He's brought me a long way, but lately, it's as if I've forgotten how to let God love me and to receive it. It's odd, somewhere along the line, I became so focused on loving others that I forgot I need love, too. Please pray for me that my heart will be open to re-learning how to receive His love. Bless you, family ❤
I was here before sister and I lost literally all I had thinking I was walking out scripture. I loved others more than I loved myself. I thought I was having the mind of Jesus and I was forsaking myself. May God bless your discernment of His truths for your life.
@kiajohnson8726 Thank you, and thank you for sharing. I'm sorry for the losses you faced - if it be God's will, may He restore it back to you in Jesus' name. 🤍
We often get off track, but God's love is ALWAYS pursuing us, even with the step you made to even comment that and acknowledge that about yourself says so much to God. Put your focus back on Him and you'll realize His focus is on you, so to not consider loving yourself is refusing His love for you. It can be so hard, especially when you're use to loving others first (I still struggle with it and being a people pleaser) the more you rely on His love, the more you'll naturally receive it. I'm praying for you family 🤎
I am so sorry for your loss, and I pray that the Lord began to heal your heart to receive His love all over again, I pray that you began to trust Him more and more, in a fresh and new way even in the midst of heartbreak, questions, and grief His love and mercy is enough! @@Nenej293
@KamiaMcWilliams Thank you for your words of encouragement, Kamia, and for the gentle rebuke. I didn't think about it, that not loving myself is also refusing His love; that broke my heart to imagine His heart hurt because I don't accept His gift. After rereading that part, I think it comes from a place of feeling unworthy, honestly. I'll be praying for you, too, bless you!
This is my first time coming across your page and the first video I have ever watched of yours and I am at awe of it. This video spoke so much to me and my partner. I have subscribed and joined the family. Thank you Holy Spirt for talking to me through Kamia. Amen !! ❤️❤️
Let me tell you, this made my entire day, to see how the Lord has connected us but most of all connected you back to Him through this conversation! Welcome to the family lovely 🤍
Needed all of this 🫶🏽 I struggle a lot with self condemnation and didn't have this perspective on it! God bless you 👏🏽
This was so convicting. Thank you for this word.
This is amazing❤️. The point about using 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 on your relationship with yourself is something I’ve never considered, I’ve only seen it as a tool on how to take care of others! God bless you!
I had to watch this twice. Thank you for your obedience❤
Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to even watch this, may God bless you!
Wow, your face is beautiful
Hearing may have very well changed my life. I pray to God daily and been trying to get my life together as my relationship with God is concerned but now I know why I can’t move forward and it’s because I don’t love myself, which I secretly am aware but have not openly admitted to others. I haven’t forgiven myself for the things I have done and how I have hurt others. I carry weight on my shoulders that went on in my child hood and teenage years with not having a great relationship with my dad and not knowing how to communicate over into my adulthood. And now I don’t know how to resolve issues with friends , I don’t know how to forgive when I feel wronged and I don’t know how to forgive myself. Where can I even start now.
Be patient with yourself, knowing that the same suffering is experienced in brotherhood. Start with what's on your mind casting this unto God. I hope this helps.
This is what I needed to hear. Sometimes I become negative towards myself and struggle with low confidence from past events. These still bother me today but your words have touched my heart 🙏🏽🙏🏽God bless you❤❤
I watched the video because my mom was advising me because she saw I looked ragged and did not look so good and she asked me ' do you love yourself as a person' I was stunned to answer because I never thought of that question and I was shocked to realize I did not love myself like I proclaimed and if I do not love God , how do I love myself then?
i want to love God first because I get swarmed by my emotions and get concerned not knowing I did not care for his temple my body well.
Thank you, it really helped me!!!!!!!!!😘😍🙂
I stumbled upon your video, and it REALLY made me understand how flawed my love is. I just wonder what are the roots of this. Thank you so much for your video. God bless you!
off topic! you are soo beautiful, face card, hair, skin tone! First time on your channel, I had to pause the vid to check if you had a haircare routine. GLORY BE TO GOD for your beauty! okay let me get back to the video haha!
Thank you so much for this beautiful comment! Now I don’t
have a hair routine video but, I usually wash once every 2 weeks and then just coil my sides and curl my top with my demibrush and fingers using auntie Jackie’s gel and then donna's recipe (condition, leave in, oil, styling creme and shampoo) 🤍 and over time I’ll just unravel the coils until my two weeks are up
This was so good and needed for the soul! Thanks and may we all do better at loving ourselves! ❤
This was really good!❤ I enjoyed how you broke it down from a biblical perspective ❤
I'm on a self love journey as we speak. New follower I love your channel you Rock gorgoues ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
God bless you queen! I'm so thankful to have you apart of the family, may God continue to be with you on your self love journey 🤍
First time viewer ! Thank you for this video. New subscriber ❤️
The fact that I noticed I hadn't been taking self-love as serious. I thought to use 1 cor 13:7-9 on myself first. This is confirmation that is exactly what I need to do. Thank you
GOD IS SO GOOD!!!! Thank you for taking the time to comment and also watch 🤍
😢❤ I received every word! Thank you for this video I needed this
Discipline is the highest expression of Self love, thanks for contributing to this topic, I wrote a song titled Self Love for people on this journey.
I am about to go onto your channel and check it out! Thank you for watching and commenting!
I struggle with being comfortable around people, like social anxiety...makes me avoid people in general, plus my trust has been betrayed in the past, so when you say love people, I think you need to describe what that means details. What does that look like or feels like? Because love is an emotion that needs to grow from getting to know people more, but we can't be that close to everyone. So what is this love for people? What are the examples of it's expression and how does it feel?
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@@KamiaMcWilliams Thanks sis...leave a comment please Sonia know you've watched it🙏🏾
I NEEDED THIS WORD MRS.KAMIA !!!!!! 🤌🏽🤌🏽🤌🏽🎯🎯
This was truly a blessing. I definitely needed to hear this message. Thank you, Jesus and Thank you Kamia.
Im so thankful to God for recommending this video to me! This was very helpful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us
Definitely begins with God. Thanks for providing such rich content and encouragement and most importantly, Gods truth!
No, I thank you for your encouragement and for taking the time to watch it! God bless you family!
Girl i listened to this in the shower and i don't know if i should cry or what but this is beautiful ❤️ thanks
Soooooo thankful for this. I feel the same about the importance of self-love as a christian. I feel I got so worried about what the Christians who think any love for yourself is bad that I wouldn't allow myself to read what was clearly stated in his word. I idolized criticism and opinion and it put God in a box of the angry father love only me and not yourself in any capacity and I think it damaged my personal relationship with him because I allowed others to define that for me.
Great video. Thank you.
Wow thank you for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you!! Needed this! 😢❤
I really loved n needed this video.❤❤❤ Could I request a video on how to heal or rebuild self love through Christ ? I know it’s kinda self explanatory from the points made in this video yet life is hard so if there is a nice focus point made clear and sounding good makes it easier to be ok with letting things go n change made by GOD especially in a era filled with hurt n pain.
I thank God that something was said in this video, and you received it! I'm going to definitely do that for you because I get it, it can be hard especially hard to unlearn things and toxic behaviors and patterns that don't helps us to love God nor ourselves, I'm going to record it for you soon!
I like your hair It looks good on you love from uganda 🇺🇬
I absolutely love this video! What a blessing.
Also, what mic and camera do you record with? Your video is so crisp and the audio quality is amazing
Hey, girl, hey! You popped up on my home feed.
Thank you for this! I needed to hear all of this.
You’re spreading the right message and I’m so happy I was led to your video.
Thank you!! Have a great day
Thank you Kamia!! Three of the signs spoke to me. I am ready to fully love myself and most importantly love God more. God bless you for blessing others! You have a new subscriber in me!❤🙏🏾
This is SUCH a revelation for me. Thank you for being obedient and sharing this!! Shifted my whole perspective
I have a question and i ask this humbly please be gentle lol. This is something i struggle to understand about loving god or else you won't love properly with other people or yourself. My question is what about the people who dont have a relationship with god and are not christian but are kind and loving to their neighbor and do love themselves and find their partners on their own without god and things seem to be going well for them? I had/ have friends who are either agnostic or atheist who are some of the most loving kind hearted friendly people that i know/knew.
Thank you this message has helped me today. I have to forgive myself, God has forgave me already
Amen. Thank you!
Thank you so much for this, Queen. It was very necessary, in Jesus name ❤
I really appreciate this video. As someone who has become very insecure and struggles to forgive themselves for sins ive done in the past, i really do appreciate this video. I pray that God may Bless you.
Luke 10:27💕👑
I lost a holy spirt a while back and realizing I don’t really know how to love God is a big thing for me, and I was wondering if I can get him back. I truely want to love him I just don’t know anymore
Great Message! Amen! Made My Evening Feel At Ease! GOD Bless You! 💙💙💙
Wow this was soo deep. I was just looking to start a self love journey but I just realised it’s more than a self development plan, it’s a spiritual plan of faith. Thank you for this ❤️
This video was truly sent by the Lord for me. Thank you so much, God bless you gorgeous💗✝️
I am having a hard time dealing with confusion. I prayed to God to reveal His words and for understanding, since I backslid for 3 years and I have just decided to go back (very hard). I read the verse again when Jesus told His disciples to deny themselves and follow Him then I came across a quote that loving people, and loving life is a reflection of how you love yourself and that is the love the author has been searching for. I told myself I am that kind of person. I love taking care of people, I smile at strangers, I consider my friends' feelings, but then thoughts that I am selfish came up and I felt guilty. I don't know how to align this with God's words as it contradicts what the word of God says. I have so many questions like, how can I biblically love myself and deny myself at the same time? I'm confused and keep praying to God for this clarity and peace. I searched and found your video, and it's clear to me now that I have been doing all that because I was self-seeking in friendships/relationships. I am a people-pleaser. I wasn't considerate because I love people. I wanted them to consider and see me too. I wanted them to validate my feelings when the times comes, so when they wanted advice from me, I was available for them 24/7. I lacked boundaries and my actions were selfish, not self-love. My motivation in "loving" people was to gain something from them such as company, acceptance, validation, their time, and everything made sense. I confused myself with the ability of smiling to strangers with the innate character of being kind. I did that because I feared being negatively perceived. My sense of self started to shake, and I realized that I have been functioning based on my trauma and every action, and Jesus revealed to me now, that in the past, every relationship I had including friendships, failed because I was selfishly loving them. I was self-serving and the illusion is clearing up now. During those times, I didn't love God enough and I wasn't showing them how Christ lived in me. I lost my ability to genuinely love and I let people trample me, became a victim and dwelt in that narrative that I am a victim in every failed relationships and friendships because I wasn’t accountable and responsible of my actions that led to that. God warned me already through my parents, but I took their corrections and advices with aggression and thought that they didn’t know what they were saying. All your points, thank You Lord Jesus, are making sense, because these problems I had with correction, patience, all came from my lack of understanding of how Jesus loves me and so I didn’t love myself enough to take care of the temple, to glorify Him in my peers, my actions, my way of loving, and it hurt people in my life and damaged me threefold. Now, I am unworthy of God’s love and I will never be, and that’s good because that means I recognized that I can only do life with Him beside me. Without Him, I will just keep messing my life and my relationships and I will just go farther away from Hi, which I do not want anymore after living in sin for 3 years, gratifying myself and that is what “deny yourself” meant and it’s all clear now. Praise God for your life, sister. May God bless you more. Thank you for being an instrument of Jesus Christ
Unfortunately, we don't understand what self love means....
Thank you so much for this video, I have been crying so much, this was for me, may God bless you, I feel something has broken in me
This is such a inspirational video! Thank you for talking about this! I am encouraged! ❤
Wooooo! This is great! 41,000 views and only 3,500 likes? Come on man!
I receive this word, thank you , thank you , may God continue to pour into you
I think of others above myself ever since I was 8 years old and others in my life make sure their okay first. I have always thought of others above myself. Am I doing things wrong? Please tell me the truth?
Here are my notes from these video for those who don’t wanna watch the whole thing, this is a very edifying video, God encouraged to watch it and I ended up doing it hours later. Lol😂
Signs you don’t love yourself enough
1. If you don’t love God, because loving God allows you to love yourself since you have the fruit of the Holy Spirit which is love.
2. You don’t love people, including your enemy’s. We’re unable to love others if we don’t love ourselves. How I treat others reveals how I feel about myself.
3. You’re not patient with yourself. Rushing, living in condemnation. Not being patient with God. Because of that you lack the ability to be patient with yourself and with others.
4. You can’t hear the truth, somebody telling the Bible or somebody telling you about you. Let people tell me the truth. Specially about me. Correcting, encouraging to be better. Share the truth of God. If you don’t receive it’s because you don’t love yourself.
5. You keep record of your wrong doings. Refusing to receive the love that God gave you through Jesus Christ. You lack the ability to love yourself because you haven’t receive God’s love for you. He forgives you and washes you away from your sin. Stop living in the past. Lack the ability to let go of the past and not live there anymore. ❤️ forgive, and you will be forgiven.
6. You neglect yourself instead of protecting yourself. ❤️ Protect your mind, peace, allow heaviness from people, to treat you any kind of way, you don’t defend that, abuse you or talk down on you and you don’t speak truth about that, you let people plant different seas in your head instead of what the word of God says.
Tips: set healthy boundaries for yourself, for the people that are in your life, God put boundary lines in the ocean, the ocean is needed, but too much of it could harm it, people are needed but need boundaries too.
Self love is about going back to your first love, that is God. ❤️❤️it starts with him. Loving him first and then yourself and others.
thanks be to God for this self love correction, you gave me a clear perspective of me loving myself the way I should and loving others and I do feel convicted and I desire to repent to God for not loving myself, my name is Sherell and I am viewing you from Seattle Washington thanks be to God for you speaking out thank the Lord Jesus.
thank you so much for those beautiful words, god bless you 🤍
I’m sorry I still don’t understand. Can I you give me the scriptures u read so I can read them
Thank you for your message! I received it in Jesus name!
This sermon is too real. You're gifted
Amen
Such powerful words. Thank you!!
Your words spoke very true to me. Thank you Kamia.
I’m new here, love the message, where are you from? Memphis?
This really blessed me. Thank you for sharing
What an anointed message! Bless you for blessing me today with such a reminder that I didn’t deserve forgiveness therefore I definitely should be forgiving others!
Yes NiV version Amen.
Thank you for sharing. So encouraging! 🙏
This was right on time . Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
Heey do you think attempt to a cacao ceremony is godly ?
Queen Sistar, this was absolutely powerful! I’ve been on this healing journey for a few years now and this message added to my healing. May our Heavenly Father continue to bless you! In Jesus mighty name!❤️❤️❤️
I really love to hear people of God going on their healing journey, I was on mine for two years and God is still healing and delivering but let me tell you, you will never be the same the more you allow God to heal every part of you!!! God bless you my beautiful sister 🤍
Thank you for making this video
Can you or have you made a video about how to forgive yourself and let go of things in the past
Absolutely! I’m going to pray into it and seek the Lord pertaining to forgiveness and forgiving yourself and then share it with you! Thank you for this.
@@KamiaMcWilliams No, thank you! I pray He speaks to you AND me !
@@daviddorsey7131 you’re welcome! I’m believing with you for that! I also wanted to share this video from a panel conversation we had a few months ago: ruclips.net/video/ZfHHcYO8txM/видео.htmlsi=Q4JlQCpKze90w2H_
@@KamiaMcWilliams thank you so much!! That video was such a blessing!! I had to share it with my wife too !
that not true. I would give my life for my beloved ones but I hate myself so much you have no idea.
I always heard things like you said but that always make me even more confused. Maybe I am just mentally ill.. but I just wanted to be free of this pain
@@sarav.3686 there are parts of the Bible that I don’t understand and makes me a little confused, but it doesn’t mean it’s not the truth-it just means I lack understanding and clarity at the moment. So, I want to encourage you, if you’ve heard this before from several people, and it causes confusion within yourself please stop listening to us and seek The Lord on this. Please. Revelation says that GOD knocks at the door of your heart waiting to speak with YOU. And HE is not the author of confusion. I pray that you find your freedom in Jesus, not in me or anyone else or anything else someone has told you but through HIM and HIS WORD. I pray you also get clarity and no more confusion 💕
This is really insightful, thank you🫧💗
I was so depressed until I started listening to you thanks for your encouragement and support.
God is so good, I pray that God has continued to pour into you during your season of depression. His arm is not to short to pull you up out of it! I've also dealt with depression and suicide attempts and He saved me from those so I have faith that he'll do the same for you! ❤️
Thank you sis🤍.
Thank you for sharing!! 🤍
Thank you
I needed to hear this ❤
You're a black beauty, sweety.
God bless you and thank you 🤍
I think Matt 6:33 is Self Love.
KAMIA! Sis the Holy Ghost be using you as a mouthpiece because this was right on time! From your brother in Christ, keep fighting the good fight!
WOW!! This was GOOD! 👍🏽 “if you love me TELL ME THE TRUTH!”