How do I choose my life partner? | Is it Chemistry or Compatibilty

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @iamwithdhanyavarma
    @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +76

    Hi Everyone...if you like the subject and the video do remember to leave a LIKE..and do share you thoughts here..would love to hear from you.. love and thanks guys❤️

    • @arshadaboobackermuhammed5741
      @arshadaboobackermuhammed5741 3 года назад

      Better human being ❣️

    • @sagarmenon2241
      @sagarmenon2241 3 года назад +2

      Can you kindly share some good books which will improve our intellect and way of thinking.

    • @saltmangotree9450
      @saltmangotree9450 3 года назад

      How can we improve our listening skill... please do a video on that

    • @sagarmenon2241
      @sagarmenon2241 3 года назад +1

      @@saltmangotree9450
      Patience and interest are two basic things one has to generate to become a good listener.

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +1

      @@saltmangotree9450 have already done a video on that..pls check it on my channel home page

  • @chinmaykumaraa5127
    @chinmaykumaraa5127 3 года назад +39

    "Analyze your past" : The point that striked the most for me! Thankyou Dhanya for brining out a beautiful and important topic to us!!

  • @smishaj5292
    @smishaj5292 3 года назад +11

    "Stop looking for a perfect partner." That was awesome... I'm not perfect then how can i get a perfect partner... Nobody is perfect. But I love him as a perfect one..☺

  • @floralradiance8855
    @floralradiance8855 3 года назад +13

    "What you think is happiness"- question that nailed in these years😊😊💯

  • @sajanthomas8504
    @sajanthomas8504 3 года назад +18

    the last point "stop looking for a perfect partner" was really a punch line and i want to add "the imperfections between the two make them perfect"

  • @sivasankar8235
    @sivasankar8235 3 года назад +5

    Every relationship is an opportunity to grow and evolve into a better human being....

  • @Ajmalkhan-cj3dk
    @Ajmalkhan-cj3dk 3 года назад +100

    The BGM is disturbing, couldn't hear your voice properly.

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +21

      Thanks for your feedback...will look it up

    • @reshmirajesh2936
      @reshmirajesh2936 3 года назад

      Yes, it's disturbing.....

    • @johny6086
      @johny6086 3 года назад +2

      Bring the music down to a low level
      Don't take away music

  • @sinchithasivanandan8437
    @sinchithasivanandan8437 3 года назад +5

    when we love someone deeply we actually dont analyse how they are how they will be in future...simply stay with them rest of the life

  • @ammasrekha
    @ammasrekha 3 года назад +8

    Really liked the way you explained about "it is chemistry and it is not love at first sight"

  • @mohammadthousif3869
    @mohammadthousif3869 3 года назад +5

    Chemistry is misunderstood as compatibility is most of the cases. Nice explanation with profound insights. Very well presented. Keep up the gud work.

  • @ayisha_nihala
    @ayisha_nihala 3 года назад +4

    Why is this channel so underrated! Ma'am , I swear this words made me think so deeply. We are conditioned and the images of so called " perfect couple" is imprinted in our mind. As you said life is not bed of roses. Love to hear your words. Thank you ma'am.🥰

  • @sebintomsvarghese
    @sebintomsvarghese 3 года назад +3

    Whenever I watch your video I am falling in love with your charisma and personality. I cannot stop wishing to have someone like you. You are setting my standards high again woman. I love your content. Spread the love, make this a better place to live.

  • @nikis8558
    @nikis8558 3 года назад +4

    The best explanation about Chemistry and Compatibility ever👏😍

  • @nikhil1155
    @nikhil1155 3 года назад +2

    The ebb and flow in your presentation actually makes every topic you discuss much more interesting. Have always been a fan of your language and the different perspective you incorporate into a topic. And as always this was also a talk worth listening to. Much love 🤗

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +1

      Thanks so much..do share with your friends

    • @nikhil1155
      @nikhil1155 3 года назад

      @@iamwithdhanyavarma yes...being in the early 20s..this video does bring light into our visions.

  • @sreekumarkannoor
    @sreekumarkannoor 3 года назад +14

    Well analysed and lucidly explained. Must watch for the young couples waiting to enter the nuptial world.👍🏼

  • @kaattuvaasi4447
    @kaattuvaasi4447 3 года назад +8

    Thank you tons for this!! Well articulated! Beautiful presentation!
    I actually had to write something down coz it's a lot of information 😅
    Love and respect!

  • @shyamlisuneesh8727
    @shyamlisuneesh8727 3 года назад +2

    That was just perfect! Reality! Content and delivery is too good!

  • @himaannammashobhajoy7484
    @himaannammashobhajoy7484 3 года назад +3

    This is what I was looking for this moment... Thanku.... Great talk.. ❤

  • @mohammadthousif3869
    @mohammadthousif3869 3 года назад +5

    It would have been heard very clearly if it had no background music

  • @gishilgeorge6304
    @gishilgeorge6304 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this video ❤

  • @sitharamahindra8701
    @sitharamahindra8701 Год назад

    Unconditional love is only in fictions.A successful married life is beyond all these,it's destiny especially in a world which gives more importance to cash,caste,religion,age&all other material things rather than the identity of minds&soul as well

  • @rutujatandur3449
    @rutujatandur3449 3 года назад +1

    Knock knock..Reality Check! 😊💯

  • @greeshmamohandas5451
    @greeshmamohandas5451 3 года назад +10

    First view . first comment, loved the topic❤️

  • @manjubiji
    @manjubiji 3 года назад +1

    Hi Dhanya,
    You are amazing. I had been watching the happiness project for long time. You are it women. Keep going and it does take a lot to be where you are and inspire people in a different level. You rock ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @manojnair9197
    @manojnair9197 3 года назад +1

    Hi Danya thanx for the content ...very insightful .

  • @CheriachenEapen
    @CheriachenEapen Год назад

    It’s too late for me, for us, but even without any blueprints we worked our way through for 43 years and still holding good. I want to share this in my family groups where youngsters are in different stages of work in progress. By the way, the foreground music was kind of distraction for me, I don’t know how it was for others but I think your presentation will be more presentable and friendly to the listeners who genuinely wish to know what you are saying. Thank you.

  • @sandhyapunnen610
    @sandhyapunnen610 3 года назад +26

    I wish you had eliminated the background music. Couldn't focus on what you were saying 😭

  • @pumpkinpumpkins5117
    @pumpkinpumpkins5117 3 года назад +3

    Thank you mam for sharing, Loved it🥰

  • @riyajacob3798
    @riyajacob3798 3 года назад

    Great video Dhanya, I liked the point you mentioned that we need to change ourselves to create more compatibility, I have experienced it, it’s a constant process of ones self and the partner evolving 🙂

  • @aneetas9484
    @aneetas9484 3 года назад +1

    Amazing.. worth watching .Mam please go ahead with much more videos.fabulous presentation as always!

  • @lakshminair1710
    @lakshminair1710 3 года назад +1

    Love the way you deliver your perspectives...🥰

  • @neosokretes
    @neosokretes 3 года назад +6

    Great speech & tips!
    BGM is a bit annoying, initially I thought your kids are practicing piano 🎹😃

  • @rahulsadasivan5245
    @rahulsadasivan5245 3 года назад

    Dhanya Varma: Thanks

  • @mariattadkappan9441
    @mariattadkappan9441 3 года назад +1

    OMG!!!!!!!! WOW!!! Thank you @DhanyaVarma for this. You're love❤

  • @jijimohan7124
    @jijimohan7124 3 года назад +1

    Is one of the best videos which I have seen ever

  • @rammipunjalkatte5426
    @rammipunjalkatte5426 3 года назад

    Hello dear
    I had to watch this video many times to understand the information you have put out in here.. I am happy that I found out perfect one for me ❤️

  • @lakshmyminnu3253
    @lakshmyminnu3253 3 года назад

    Happy to hear it from u....

  • @rohithkuttinathkalam
    @rohithkuttinathkalam 3 года назад

    Thank you for explanation of love , chemistry and compatibility

  • @sreelekshmy8951
    @sreelekshmy8951 3 года назад

    Madam please avoid background music while you talk..it is disturbing..
    Anyway this is a relevant topic..liked it so much..thank u ma'am...

  • @classic.blossom2664
    @classic.blossom2664 3 года назад

    Compatibility & Chemistry... I am not superstitious but certain things are destined in our life... Let us not be controversial about fate... ONE THING for sure fate line works behind...

  • @shilpaannsaji2101
    @shilpaannsaji2101 3 года назад +2

    Thankyou for this Video!!
    Being someone who is all set to marry someone I chose; this was something I needed to hear. Please do sprinkle out few more drizzles of wisdom regarding this topic. :D

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +1

      Am glad that you liked it..pls do share with your would spouse too :D

    • @shilpaannsaji2101
      @shilpaannsaji2101 3 года назад

      @@iamwithdhanyavarmaThankyou for your reply! ❤️ Already did!☺️
      Keep inspiring. 😊

  • @balakrishnankt5822
    @balakrishnankt5822 3 года назад +1

    Hai dhanya varma.. i have watched the interview in mathrubhumi channel with veena chirakkal...
    Kerala is a progressive society.
    But patriarchy is rooted deeply in family religion media social media.
    Internalised misogyny of women is another problem.
    So plz start a you tube channel exclusively for addresing the patriarchy in kerala society.
    Also publish a book about patriarchy in kerala with background of vast research data.. this is a request..

  • @kafeelaparveen4898
    @kafeelaparveen4898 3 года назад +1

    Your Talks are just amazing as you are❣️ Thank you

  • @vivekmohan40
    @vivekmohan40 3 года назад +1

    Topic of the time ....kudos..👍😍😍

  • @frz1108
    @frz1108 3 года назад +2

    Loved your presentation!❤️

  • @ushajoseph2069
    @ushajoseph2069 3 года назад

    Very deep analysis.thank u Dhanya

  • @aryacpillai2005
    @aryacpillai2005 3 года назад

    You could have avoided the BGM Dhanya..your voice is way more soothing, as always great content

  • @priyakrishna8087
    @priyakrishna8087 3 года назад

    Thankyou so much..for this amazing words..as a girl who is waiting for a man who probably become fiance..this is enlightening 😊😍

  • @melwinjohn1521
    @melwinjohn1521 3 года назад

    Usually I skim through almost all youtube channels that I found in my recommendation list, and watch a few videos.
    But ma'am I've subscribed your channel without any second thought by watching just a single video of yours. Keep the momentum

  • @arshadaboobackermuhammed5741
    @arshadaboobackermuhammed5741 3 года назад +1

    What a experience, you're an angle for share us to what you learn and what's you have, each and every point is very helpful words for us,❣️

  • @sagarmenon2241
    @sagarmenon2241 3 года назад +10

    Your presention is too gud.. pls go ahead with much more good topics

  • @anjuchemmanghat5916
    @anjuchemmanghat5916 3 года назад +1

    Hello Dhanya Chechi why don't you upload videos daily Chechi... I just love to listen to u..... Keep on speaking...... U are just amazing....

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +1

      Just not having the time..will try to upload as frequently as I can

  • @riteshrpillai5657
    @riteshrpillai5657 3 года назад +1

    What about physical compatibility??? Does that exists??? Or its like, everything lies inside.......

  • @ammuvarghese8393
    @ammuvarghese8393 3 года назад

    exactly what I need rn....I love the bgm too ......😍

  • @KiranKdarknightrises
    @KiranKdarknightrises 3 года назад

    It's time to consider more lighting and a plain background for your videos. The content and presentation is really good and should have kept it short 👍😊

  • @aleennayakhim4945
    @aleennayakhim4945 3 года назад +4

    The background music was disturbing chechi..content was good

  • @jarvesejoschandanaparamban2274
    @jarvesejoschandanaparamban2274 3 года назад +1

    Hi Maam.
    Is Chemistry the communication of Emotions and Compatibility the communication of Logicalities? 🤔

  • @ecstaticloner992
    @ecstaticloner992 3 года назад

    It's a new topic for me . Thank you so much for the talks n analysis on such fantastic topic.

  • @ASHJIN-kx9ho
    @ASHJIN-kx9ho 3 года назад

    Thanks Dhanya for this valuable information.🥰

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +1

      Most welcome..do share with friends who might find this useful

  • @neethusibin7565
    @neethusibin7565 3 года назад +1

    You never failed to amaze us 😍Each time, each lesson to be learned.

  • @girigiri2167
    @girigiri2167 3 года назад

    Welcome Ji 🙏❤️

  • @bindubhaskar5199
    @bindubhaskar5199 3 года назад

    Thank you for this video.very good & and useful message .💖

  • @rewalawassociate8582
    @rewalawassociate8582 3 года назад

    Nice presentation Mam. It is good to listen and watch the video which contains useful information and rational views that also enhance the analytical thinking of subscriber & followers. Thanks. 👍💐🙏

  • @sebinsomy9949
    @sebinsomy9949 3 года назад +3

    Loved your happiness project💯👌

  • @kuttumon398
    @kuttumon398 3 года назад

    Wow, you explained very well.

  • @harikrishnansreekumar9951
    @harikrishnansreekumar9951 3 года назад

    Thank you for the wish Dhanya ma'am.

  • @Mittayippothi
    @Mittayippothi 3 года назад +1

    nice topic.....once again impeccable presentation

  • @PM-on2xw
    @PM-on2xw 3 года назад

    The way of your Presentation is Wowwww.....💥.Iam so grateful for you Mam❤️😘

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад

      Thanks..do remember to share with your friends and family

    • @PM-on2xw
      @PM-on2xw 3 года назад

      @@iamwithdhanyavarma Sure❤️😘❤️😘

  • @saphire7693
    @saphire7693 3 года назад

    Veena Jaan online interview cheyyamo..
    Very unique partners aanu

  • @noelxavier7883
    @noelxavier7883 3 года назад

    Bonus POINT😍👍🏻

  • @hareeish
    @hareeish 3 года назад

    I am a regular viewer of your videos... though i liked many of your videos, never felt like commenting... but this i have to mention ... I Loved this video... ❤️

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад

      Thanks so much...do share with your friends

    • @hareeish
      @hareeish 3 года назад

      @@iamwithdhanyavarma done already on facebook!😊

  • @aparnabvas7156
    @aparnabvas7156 3 года назад +1

    Well said😊

  • @jomathew5229
    @jomathew5229 3 года назад +1

    Thanks ☺️

  • @DrVrindaRaghavan
    @DrVrindaRaghavan 3 года назад

    Gud one... expecting more videos 😍🙏

  • @ananhedonic5689
    @ananhedonic5689 3 года назад

    Please upload videos more frequently❤ Its soothing to hear someone talk sense into me ❤

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +1

      Am glad that you liked the vdo..do share with your friends

  • @malayalam1
    @malayalam1 Год назад

    The background music is too loud. Wish you had reduced it while creating the video.
    Its very hard to listen through the music.

  • @neethuanand3871
    @neethuanand3871 3 года назад

    Great talk ma'am!. Nice concepts. BGM is bit disturbing..

  • @sreekanthsreejith6280
    @sreekanthsreejith6280 3 года назад +1

    Odukathe look powli parayathirikkan vayyaaa

  • @SakthiVel-fv4df
    @SakthiVel-fv4df 2 года назад +1

    Love OK

  • @arlenemarisjacob9339
    @arlenemarisjacob9339 3 года назад

    Nys one

  • @1994anandhu
    @1994anandhu 3 года назад

    A significant part of showing respect is simply listening.
    -Rick Warren
    A few moments back i came to see this beautiful quote, suddenly u r way of intervewing came to my mind... U r such a person Mam🖤an interviewer who alwayz Listen to his interviewee.

  • @123miri
    @123miri 3 года назад +4

    New subscriber here! Would like to know your opinion on whether finding love after loss of a lover is wrong or right. Would help a lot of confused people! Best wishes, your presentation skills are so classy.

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +2

      Love is always welcome my dear...anytime after anything..that's out fuel isn't it❤️

  • @jitz2439
    @jitz2439 3 года назад +1

    Are you imitating Palki Sharma??അതുപോലെ തോന്നുന്നു🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @ajithgeorge730
    @ajithgeorge730 3 года назад

    Chechi, BGM sound korach low cheytal better aavum. Total aayi kalayanda.

  • @musicfactory333
    @musicfactory333 3 года назад +1

    Good one .... Loved it 💖❤️

  • @alancyril6608
    @alancyril6608 3 года назад

    Thanks a lot Ma'am 🙂✌️

  • @ironbutterfly93
    @ironbutterfly93 3 года назад

    Mam, plz do videos on current events, ur opinion. It will be helpfull

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад +1

      By the time I get it ready the current will be over..I operate at a snails pace❤️

  • @unnikrishnanvk9531
    @unnikrishnanvk9531 3 года назад

    Nice...

  • @anjalisree4909
    @anjalisree4909 3 года назад

    Good talk❤️👍

  • @rajnitpillai9535
    @rajnitpillai9535 3 года назад

    Good info

  • @ananth_aeternus
    @ananth_aeternus 3 года назад +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @_suki_
    @_suki_ 3 года назад +1

    👌👌

  • @Ytakies
    @Ytakies Год назад

    The music is annoying and unwanted for the content
    The content is fantastic, though 👌

  • @sanijoseph9764
    @sanijoseph9764 3 года назад

    Nice

  • @parizaadmir9996
    @parizaadmir9996 3 года назад +1

    Sorry but there was no need for music in your video

  • @karunkajith
    @karunkajith 3 года назад

    Chechi can you explain about the need for marriage in a video?

  • @binujohn6331
    @binujohn6331 3 года назад

    You look very pretty 🎉

  • @ronnier9245
    @ronnier9245 3 года назад

    can you pls upload this video again without bgm..i really want to listen but not able to due to this music

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад

      Will do that... but will rework on the video and put it out later...

  • @Arjun_Mohan_
    @Arjun_Mohan_ 3 года назад

    Great madam

  • @anilamarysimon2887
    @anilamarysimon2887 3 года назад

    Well arranged video like ur well arranged marriage ❤️