Checklist To Find the Right Life Partner | By Yoga Guru - Hansaji

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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2025

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  • @abhisheknayak05
    @abhisheknayak05 3 года назад +54

    1. Earning / Business - taking care.
    2. Health consciousness.
    3. Free time - Hobbies/ expressing emotions.
    4. Strong faith - that everything will be fine and hold on to each other in adversity.

  • @jainaman05
    @jainaman05 6 лет назад +112

    Confidence for Earnings.
    Health Conscious.
    Hobbies.
    Faith.

    • @sunday4664
      @sunday4664 4 года назад

      Before watching it, I was counting the points by passing the videos.

    • @pratikpatel3589
      @pratikpatel3589 9 месяцев назад

      And medication

    • @pratikpatel3589
      @pratikpatel3589 9 месяцев назад

      Family oriented

  • @aryasilpaadhikari5970
    @aryasilpaadhikari5970 4 года назад +90

    My husband says the sixth point is : Don't look for all the five things in same person! by and large, if the faith is there to ride over difficulties, rest all will follow. A healthy attitude towards life is important. Thanks for the checklist!

  • @maysha2308
    @maysha2308 4 года назад +156

    1.Earn well
    Educated so much to find job
    Business or some potential thing
    2.A health concious person,health is wealth.
    No addiction,bad habits.
    3.what he does in free time.
    Hobbies
    4.He has faith in general in life.

    • @amarsinghlodhi4484
      @amarsinghlodhi4484 3 года назад

      Thanks for sumrize

    • @johnvarghese8947
      @johnvarghese8947 3 года назад +3

      I have all these qualities but I don't have my life partner yet.
      Update: If anyone is interested to get to know me and marry. Girls can contact for the best husband in the world. 😀

    • @anonymous-fw8ib
      @anonymous-fw8ib 3 года назад +1

      @@johnvarghese8947 😂😂 may you get your partner soon bro 👍

    • @thabassumshaik9802
      @thabassumshaik9802 3 года назад

      @@johnvarghese8947 I am looking for best husband 😃. Even I can be a best wife .

  • @asmigujar7522
    @asmigujar7522 4 года назад +19

    She is absolutely right, it is great to sit with the senior citizen and listen to the memories of their childhood, but we don't like it when they say"what's your job among the elders? go do your work"😖

  • @AshishPanthee62
    @AshishPanthee62 3 года назад +9

    don't expect to have perfect partner unless & until u are the one.
    that's all what I know regarding choosing partner in life

  • @Absoluteartcreations
    @Absoluteartcreations 4 года назад +74

    She tells so perfectly, my marriage is going so well,due to all these

  • @ritabeads752
    @ritabeads752 4 года назад +30

    Hmmm. Nice but there is more interesting to start from zero with each other and go through problems in life and still staying together... This is a real goal in life...

    • @shubhanginath4049
      @shubhanginath4049 6 месяцев назад +1

      That's a goal and quite a miracle trust me... I've tried everything in this world and till date he has grown so little that I'm feeling exhausted

  • @Neerjara1507
    @Neerjara1507 4 года назад +5

    Very correctly said coz if we choose someone out of liking, then later on in life one or the other person feels the same. I heard many people saying "ke jab zimmedari nahin utha sakte the the to shaadi kyu ki" even after love marriage.

  • @gargimukherjee1170
    @gargimukherjee1170 4 года назад +5

    I think most important about the person's family, person's personality, he has fixed income or not, his character, lots and lots of things but mam every one hasn't get this type of luck so mainly if you have that luck then you will get otherwise better to stay alone.

  • @Abhishek-ob9so
    @Abhishek-ob9so 5 лет назад +146

    I think this video should be renamed. It is focusing on how to find a male partner in arrange marriage.

  • @Poornimas_Universe
    @Poornimas_Universe 3 года назад +3

    I loved the way you taught these difficult questions in an easy way. Thankyou ma'am😊🙏💐god bless you n all your family members.

  • @explorelife-dr.gajendrarat2508
    @explorelife-dr.gajendrarat2508 4 года назад +3

    Itne sare sab chije ek person mai hona thoda mushkil hai, kahi na Kahi comprise Karna hi padega I think that's rational thinking.

  • @tanusmitadas6410
    @tanusmitadas6410 4 года назад +8

    Perfect Checklist Ma'am..The person I'm with currently has ticked all the boxes of your checklist. I am hoping 2021 brings in a wonderful year ahead for us & our families. I pray to God that we plan marriage soon.
    Seeking your Blessings as well 🙏🏻☺

  • @triptiagarwal5874
    @triptiagarwal5874 4 года назад +2

    I can see all these points in myself actually 😁

  • @lillieknight
    @lillieknight 3 года назад +3

    Completely right. I made a bad mate selection and it was tough. He’s dead now at age 61 so we don’t get to grow old together but schizophrenia ran on his side of the family which none of them told me and I only learned about after many years of marriage and our children are grown and yes, are affected by it.
    He also lost any moral compass and lied constantly.
    He died in the presence of two prostitutes who didn’t think to call an ambulance when he collapsed. It was very painful, but looking back it had to end. He had type 2 diabetes, heart disease and even did drugs after a heart attack. He always had a rebellious, unteachable spirit and didn’t believe in religion. He didn’t love us any more and no provider instinct. Glad it’s over.

  • @Brsir999
    @Brsir999 4 года назад +21

    Choose the best possible life partner by spending time in understanding and analysing ur partner before marriage.. Instead of suffering in the entire remaining life.. 🥰🥰

    • @antrikshachatterjee368
      @antrikshachatterjee368 4 года назад +1

      Yes I ruined my life

    • @varsharathore3525
      @varsharathore3525 3 года назад

      After spending 4 year before marrige knowing each other very well still marriage didnt work

    • @varsharathore3525
      @varsharathore3525 3 года назад

      Kon kab palat jaye bulkul nahi jaan payenge or bhut si shadj bina jane pahnche ho gyi sab tkh chal rha to shadi ek jua hai dav lagao khelo

  • @janusetti5933
    @janusetti5933 3 года назад

    Have ur own checklist ! U know urself much better n what u need better .!

  • @aarohigupta1361
    @aarohigupta1361 4 года назад +3

    The first point he should be earning well , why not she should be earning well also to have a balance

  • @mohan103
    @mohan103 4 года назад +5

    Thanks for your valuable words mam..i just want to add something for both men and women while selecting a life partner and also for their own goodness..
    1. Discipline ( discipline always gives confidence about ourselves ) disciplined person always good at everthing like health, job, habits, character( respecting others, helping other's, being honest, caring, lovable)..so discipline is everthing..

  • @nikhileshwar2575
    @nikhileshwar2575 3 года назад +1

    I didn't do much poojas
    But I have A Self-believe in God
    Everything would be good
    our problems God would be Sorted-out
    Hrudayamey oka Devaalayaam

  • @tanvisharma8346
    @tanvisharma8346 4 года назад +3

    Very practical approach Maam. Thankyou 😊💐

  • @bandanabagh8936
    @bandanabagh8936 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for educating with the beautiful guidelines 🙏

  • @shermgautam8970
    @shermgautam8970 4 года назад

    I am very happy to know all those good qualities of a boy or a girl before getting marriage this should be practical and a person should be more confident thereby he may have strong belief for up coming events.Thanks a lot for these guidelines

  • @pallavipandey7069
    @pallavipandey7069 2 года назад

    I love your video I come here after watching your shorts great n straight forward statement 🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍

  • @rakshuu92
    @rakshuu92 3 года назад +1

    Shukriya for such guidance ✨🙏😌

  • @rudrasubedi7450
    @rudrasubedi7450 4 месяца назад

    1. minimum age gap
    2. earning -self reliant
    3. well educated
    3. self control and social intelligence
    4. trust and openness
    5. life is full of trail and errors
    6. health conscious
    7. same economic classes

  • @rupalbhagat3864
    @rupalbhagat3864 4 года назад +3

    Namaskar Hansaji 🙏 really eye opener for today’s world. Needed this information for today’s generation. Thanks

  • @wishyouthebest5599
    @wishyouthebest5599 4 года назад +10

    And if he or she able to accept mistakes and ready to correct..most important their should proper communication no any mind games

  • @assamteabyvinay
    @assamteabyvinay 4 года назад +22

    Character must be there and also see how he treats others and what he thinks about a women or for people who is in position lower than him.... Income/property in boys and beauty/skin colour/virginity should not be the main priority.

  • @supritiphani1282
    @supritiphani1282 3 года назад +2

    Ma'am I will keep these in mind , thank you so much

  • @nimul3848
    @nimul3848 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing. I have been watching and listening to your wonderful thoughts😊🙏

  • @koninika10
    @koninika10 4 года назад +1

    Great wisdom..thanks for sharing 🙏

  • @niranjans9952
    @niranjans9952 3 года назад

    Mam, please also make a video on what a man should look for in a woman to be his life partner.

  • @saveindianhusbandfamilyfrom498
    @saveindianhusbandfamilyfrom498 4 месяца назад +1

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  • @geetz26
    @geetz26 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much. 🙏… this was quite helpful ❤️

  • @rajg4512
    @rajg4512 4 года назад +3

    What if you are not health conscious ...should you expect that other person should be health conscious....It would be a match like Anjali and Tarak, I think, it is not about what is there in other...the right way is first know yourself and then see what you want from life...

  • @paradisekitchen6440
    @paradisekitchen6440 4 года назад

    Lovely mam really wonderful speech

  • @Opinion221
    @Opinion221 4 года назад +5

    I understand the importance of hobby in life .

  • @indiranair6091
    @indiranair6091 4 года назад +22

    Madam most imp is character of d person nd if God loving must go for it.

    • @assamteabyvinay
      @assamteabyvinay 4 года назад

      True.... Without character nothing is possible

  • @bivashchakraborty6518
    @bivashchakraborty6518 4 года назад +2

    You are describing me... And I have still not found someone 😬

  • @sachindakhare
    @sachindakhare 3 года назад

    Mam I guess
    1 point is values
    2 what they think about materialist possession
    3 there behaviour must be opposite eg one physio send person must be opposite
    4 natural attactraion
    5 money sustainable income
    6 family is greedy or normal

  • @humerahussain6811
    @humerahussain6811 4 года назад

    Very practical 👍

  • @gayatridarbha5044
    @gayatridarbha5044 4 года назад +7

    Thank you so much madam ...Best wishes and regards to you madam ..stay always blessed ..☺️🌸🌹

  • @preetidas3333
    @preetidas3333 4 года назад +2

    Thank you mam for guiding me.

  • @4priyajadhav
    @4priyajadhav 4 года назад

    Good guidance

  • @kingdomkingson2059
    @kingdomkingson2059 3 года назад

    Mighty thanks mom.

  • @monalisadas4527
    @monalisadas4527 4 года назад +4

    Very rightly said Mam. Thanks❤for guiding..

  • @wordsofwisdom2808
    @wordsofwisdom2808 4 года назад +9

    In short she is guiding girls to be a liability all her life and search for a life partner who is a real asset and dumb enough to willingly accept a liability for life. If girls really want a good partner, learn to share the responsibilities with your man and see, how much he loves you 🙏

  • @nehaagrawal7656
    @nehaagrawal7656 4 года назад +9

    I don't agree with the things mentioned in the video fully... Does a person who is earning fine and healthy habits can necessarily be empathetic and understanding? Does he necessarily be a person looking for emotional intimacy with her/his life partner? Hobby, earning and health consciousness would not necessarily result to a right choice of a partner.
    Well according to my experience, the partner should be empathetic on first place, and must look for mature love with emotional and spiritual intimacy with the other one.

    • @veenakt4627
      @veenakt4627 4 года назад

      Neha agrawal so what you say is money or work is not a issue.. Instead he should empathetic. Right

    • @AshishPanthee62
      @AshishPanthee62 3 года назад

      Paisa hone wala rude ho aur garib insaan character se achha ho jaruri nahi har case mein

    • @harikrishnakhari-wl8jt
      @harikrishnakhari-wl8jt 2 года назад

      Nice

  • @Catherine_Kate
    @Catherine_Kate 4 года назад +11

    Hobbies to express your emotions 🙏

  • @8wonder124
    @8wonder124 3 года назад

    mam make details vedios list of all best topics
    enquiry
    health report & history
    find rishte fast & easy

  • @komalshankaran8458
    @komalshankaran8458 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you Mme for your suggestions

  • @positivitymahi3613
    @positivitymahi3613 4 года назад

    Thanks so much for this video

  • @msgurupraashaath9976
    @msgurupraashaath9976 3 года назад

    first, point not accept madam but good girl are there, wife earned husband continue his study 10 year finished CA , CS in finance now that boy earning well family is very happy

  • @chintanjayswal2480
    @chintanjayswal2480 4 года назад +3

    It is centered around female do you think males also have privilege to choose partner?

    • @sptl-zj7cm
      @sptl-zj7cm 3 месяца назад

      ull need house maid .. so wht to choose in tht

  • @tejashrigharat1773
    @tejashrigharat1773 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much mam 😇❤

  • @Officialankit_raj
    @Officialankit_raj 6 лет назад

    Really whatever you said is 100 percent true.

  • @hihoi3760
    @hihoi3760 4 года назад

    Useful video

  • @biologyclassesbhawna5193
    @biologyclassesbhawna5193 6 лет назад

    superb advise
    really helpful

  • @Kamaniyamramaniyam
    @Kamaniyamramaniyam 4 года назад +3

    In arrange marriage it is impossible to know all these things.

  • @ishitabhavsar1055
    @ishitabhavsar1055 6 лет назад +4

    Mindblowing speech mam

  • @goldengoatee2237
    @goldengoatee2237 5 лет назад +6

    What if he abuses the woman? Many men lie and show their true colors
    after marriage.. Does she stay and take the punches because she is
    committed?

  • @sampatpratap3083
    @sampatpratap3083 4 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot mam for giving such practical and beneficial advices for choosing a life partner.💓💖💕

  • @vijaychauhan4408
    @vijaychauhan4408 4 года назад +1

    200rupee kamnay baly worker pai apka yeh rule applicable hoga road pai sona road pai khana

  • @antarasaha3905
    @antarasaha3905 4 года назад +10

    With due respect, partner is neutral gender. And why is it so that "he" has to earn more and take care of the family?

    • @shootingstar3282
      @shootingstar3282 4 года назад +1

      Hi Antara , She is giving tips to a girl to choose her partner. So , the common opposite gender is "he"

    • @AmitVerma-qy9ge
      @AmitVerma-qy9ge 3 года назад

      Being practicle...it is a seroius question

    • @sudhirs5046
      @sudhirs5046 3 года назад

      Impressive Query👌🤝🤘

  • @SwapnilJainSinger
    @SwapnilJainSinger 6 лет назад +6

    Thanks for helping me 😀

  • @suchidesai9498
    @suchidesai9498 4 года назад +12

    Y should boy marry now a days with all conditions u mentioned
    Even boy has right to see girl with u told conditions

  • @urmiladutta5725
    @urmiladutta5725 4 года назад +2

    Thank you ma'am ❤️ love from West Bengal 🙏

  • @VINNI735
    @VINNI735 4 года назад +1

    I totally agree to it and my partner is like that only but I am not so ideal in life . I definitely am trying to be a better person but want to know if it's even alright to FORCE someone to follow all these things in life in order to remain in a relationship with him??
    Please answer me this . It would be absolutely life changing for me.

  • @CesareVesdani
    @CesareVesdani 3 года назад +1

    I am from the UK, and would like to get married with an Indian girl. Would that be possible for me?

  • @manoharks1883
    @manoharks1883 3 года назад

    Madam u have told only about guys...what abt girls?...pls make a video for that also...

  • @snehayadav8720
    @snehayadav8720 4 года назад

    Job
    Health conscious
    Hobbies what he does when he is free
    Strong faith not religious but does he have hold on each other together to go through..
    Information about family also.. diabetes etc

  • @Emily-bl3qx
    @Emily-bl3qx 2 года назад

    Sir how do you judge a prospective groom or bride n parent for their nature. If they have a nature to fight or are peaceful how do we get to know. Pls guide as thus us very important. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Dineshkumar-mq3iu
    @Dineshkumar-mq3iu 4 года назад +30

    And what should men look for in a partner ? Only kind hearted woman🙄... And if you expect more you are greedy and choosy...There is not even mention of what men need to look into . All the above said should be from both the parties..not just men... you also need to have those qualities first to expect the same from the other..

    • @hemantladhe2020
      @hemantladhe2020 Год назад +2

      Absolutely

    • @user-sm4wk6pv4f
      @user-sm4wk6pv4f 6 месяцев назад +2

      Dear friend.... Men always had the freedom for choices. That's not the case for most women...
      How many places we see man of 28 years marrying 45 year old women....
      But so many girls in 20s getting married to boodaas....

    • @Kartik_Sajwan
      @Kartik_Sajwan 2 месяца назад

      ​@@user-sm4wk6pv4f It's mutual
      They're marrying the older one for their money ; not out love ! just like older one is marrying them for beauty

  • @prubsimrankaur8953
    @prubsimrankaur8953 4 года назад +4

    My partner have all these qualities n I am blessed for that but I don't agree with the last point about if the person is having diabetes or have a family history of such a disease .... How inhumane would it be to leave a man for he is diabetic. I am sorry but this is a part of life , diabetes is a genetic disease , and if we have diabetes do we not deserve to get married to the perfect match ? This is such a stupid thing , I have a family history of diabetes and my if in future I get diabetes and my partner leaves me , that would be the worst thing happening .

  • @bhavishapatel9141
    @bhavishapatel9141 4 года назад

    Wonderful

  • @unkaheinfacts7576
    @unkaheinfacts7576 4 года назад +3

    Income should genarate from both side, why men will always take the responsibility for earning only????

    • @nidhisingh7011
      @nidhisingh7011 4 года назад

      why only girls leave her homez?

    • @AshishPanthee62
      @AshishPanthee62 3 года назад

      @@nidhisingh7011 If u have guts to go against society make ur husband a gharjamai then

    • @nidhisingh7011
      @nidhisingh7011 3 года назад

      @@AshishPanthee62 But in this society there are boys like you so how can I change?

    • @nidhisingh7011
      @nidhisingh7011 3 года назад

      @@AshishPanthee62 And the first thing I said on the matter of his income, otherwise I am not against it.

    • @AshishPanthee62
      @AshishPanthee62 3 года назад

      @@nidhisingh7011 rules were made by society back then if u want change then start doing from ur side first. Society always resist any kind of new changes.

  • @Pet_Food_Supplier
    @Pet_Food_Supplier 3 года назад

    If he is doing a good business how he will sleep n how he will be health cautious.. n without work alholic how he will be a good business

  • @harikrishnakhari-wl8jt
    @harikrishnakhari-wl8jt 2 года назад

    I'm looking for marriage

  • @iaynaushr3166
    @iaynaushr3166 4 года назад

    beautiful

  • @Namrata2907
    @Namrata2907 6 лет назад +3

    Can you please improve the audio quality..thank you for your kind words hansaji

  • @atulshah1959
    @atulshah1959 3 года назад

    Advise is ok, but practically,it is not possible to go through. Lady will remain unmarried, if such demands are asked. Life is a passage of compromise.

  • @pratikpatel3589
    @pratikpatel3589 9 месяцев назад

    "Check list to find the right Life Partner"
    Men ought to be Earning/ business
    Men ought to be health conscious
    no addiction
    Men ought to have hobbies (not boring)
    But what about choosing a right woman??

  • @omarkhan5258
    @omarkhan5258 2 года назад

    What about 'she' madam

  • @satadipanandy5007
    @satadipanandy5007 6 лет назад

    Very nice video

  • @swathiguthi7417
    @swathiguthi7417 4 года назад +1

    If he earns less ,how to think

  • @niranjans9952
    @niranjans9952 3 года назад

    I liked the first four important parts, but why this diabetic thing came into picture, agree that the groom has to be healthy, but not necessarily his parents. Thats because pretty much everyone gets diabetes or some other symptoms in their old age these days.

  • @shreehari2681
    @shreehari2681 6 лет назад +2

    Jo Log aage zaake Baat kiye Bina Reh Letey hain Hfto.
    un ko Pyar hi Ni karna chahiye
    kisi se
    shaadi Bhi Ni karni chahiye

  • @abhi98888
    @abhi98888 5 лет назад +3

    tell about girls also ,,,

  • @girishgaikwad7559
    @girishgaikwad7559 4 года назад +1

    Thanks

  • @bharathi7964
    @bharathi7964 4 года назад +2

    Good video about choosing life partner

  • @yepeypo
    @yepeypo 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @shalgiimurmu7705
    @shalgiimurmu7705 4 года назад +3

    Money is important but it doesn’t guarantee long lasting relationship

    • @M24128
      @M24128 3 года назад

      She didn't mention about being rich. 😏

  • @jin7jin531
    @jin7jin531 3 года назад

    *This is the longest explanation for a nerd..I will see myself out*

  • @dr.gourisinghal2221
    @dr.gourisinghal2221 4 года назад +1

    I want to meet you ma'am ...just tell me how ?

  • @nerf2752
    @nerf2752 3 года назад

    2:50 is she talking about herself?

  • @bharatraj2056
    @bharatraj2056 Год назад

    I agree with you can be my hubby i am 50.

  • @Dr.pujasingh
    @Dr.pujasingh 3 года назад

    Thank you ma'am 🙏❤️

  • @neelamkashyap3948
    @neelamkashyap3948 3 года назад

    Recently I met a person.
    Who has everything u said
    Bt his looks not good and he doesn't have a grt job
    Bt yaa he is seeking for a better life.
    I hv to answer him
    Yes or no
    Wht to do I dnt understand
    Instead this I felt tht if I marry him I will alwz argue with him in future for some reason
    Bcz I hv a tendency if I hurt in starting of any kind of relationship than I will alwz rude with tht person
    Help me plzz
    I dnt knw why to do 🙏🙏