1. Earning / Business - taking care. 2. Health consciousness. 3. Free time - Hobbies/ expressing emotions. 4. Strong faith - that everything will be fine and hold on to each other in adversity.
My husband says the sixth point is : Don't look for all the five things in same person! by and large, if the faith is there to ride over difficulties, rest all will follow. A healthy attitude towards life is important. Thanks for the checklist!
1.Earn well Educated so much to find job Business or some potential thing 2.A health concious person,health is wealth. No addiction,bad habits. 3.what he does in free time. Hobbies 4.He has faith in general in life.
I have all these qualities but I don't have my life partner yet. Update: If anyone is interested to get to know me and marry. Girls can contact for the best husband in the world. 😀
She is absolutely right, it is great to sit with the senior citizen and listen to the memories of their childhood, but we don't like it when they say"what's your job among the elders? go do your work"😖
Hmmm. Nice but there is more interesting to start from zero with each other and go through problems in life and still staying together... This is a real goal in life...
Very correctly said coz if we choose someone out of liking, then later on in life one or the other person feels the same. I heard many people saying "ke jab zimmedari nahin utha sakte the the to shaadi kyu ki" even after love marriage.
I think most important about the person's family, person's personality, he has fixed income or not, his character, lots and lots of things but mam every one hasn't get this type of luck so mainly if you have that luck then you will get otherwise better to stay alone.
Perfect Checklist Ma'am..The person I'm with currently has ticked all the boxes of your checklist. I am hoping 2021 brings in a wonderful year ahead for us & our families. I pray to God that we plan marriage soon. Seeking your Blessings as well 🙏🏻☺
Completely right. I made a bad mate selection and it was tough. He’s dead now at age 61 so we don’t get to grow old together but schizophrenia ran on his side of the family which none of them told me and I only learned about after many years of marriage and our children are grown and yes, are affected by it. He also lost any moral compass and lied constantly. He died in the presence of two prostitutes who didn’t think to call an ambulance when he collapsed. It was very painful, but looking back it had to end. He had type 2 diabetes, heart disease and even did drugs after a heart attack. He always had a rebellious, unteachable spirit and didn’t believe in religion. He didn’t love us any more and no provider instinct. Glad it’s over.
Choose the best possible life partner by spending time in understanding and analysing ur partner before marriage.. Instead of suffering in the entire remaining life.. 🥰🥰
Thanks for your valuable words mam..i just want to add something for both men and women while selecting a life partner and also for their own goodness.. 1. Discipline ( discipline always gives confidence about ourselves ) disciplined person always good at everthing like health, job, habits, character( respecting others, helping other's, being honest, caring, lovable)..so discipline is everthing..
I am very happy to know all those good qualities of a boy or a girl before getting marriage this should be practical and a person should be more confident thereby he may have strong belief for up coming events.Thanks a lot for these guidelines
1. minimum age gap 2. earning -self reliant 3. well educated 3. self control and social intelligence 4. trust and openness 5. life is full of trail and errors 6. health conscious 7. same economic classes
Character must be there and also see how he treats others and what he thinks about a women or for people who is in position lower than him.... Income/property in boys and beauty/skin colour/virginity should not be the main priority.
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What if you are not health conscious ...should you expect that other person should be health conscious....It would be a match like Anjali and Tarak, I think, it is not about what is there in other...the right way is first know yourself and then see what you want from life...
Mam I guess 1 point is values 2 what they think about materialist possession 3 there behaviour must be opposite eg one physio send person must be opposite 4 natural attactraion 5 money sustainable income 6 family is greedy or normal
In short she is guiding girls to be a liability all her life and search for a life partner who is a real asset and dumb enough to willingly accept a liability for life. If girls really want a good partner, learn to share the responsibilities with your man and see, how much he loves you 🙏
I don't agree with the things mentioned in the video fully... Does a person who is earning fine and healthy habits can necessarily be empathetic and understanding? Does he necessarily be a person looking for emotional intimacy with her/his life partner? Hobby, earning and health consciousness would not necessarily result to a right choice of a partner. Well according to my experience, the partner should be empathetic on first place, and must look for mature love with emotional and spiritual intimacy with the other one.
first, point not accept madam but good girl are there, wife earned husband continue his study 10 year finished CA , CS in finance now that boy earning well family is very happy
I totally agree to it and my partner is like that only but I am not so ideal in life . I definitely am trying to be a better person but want to know if it's even alright to FORCE someone to follow all these things in life in order to remain in a relationship with him?? Please answer me this . It would be absolutely life changing for me.
Job Health conscious Hobbies what he does when he is free Strong faith not religious but does he have hold on each other together to go through.. Information about family also.. diabetes etc
Sir how do you judge a prospective groom or bride n parent for their nature. If they have a nature to fight or are peaceful how do we get to know. Pls guide as thus us very important. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
And what should men look for in a partner ? Only kind hearted woman🙄... And if you expect more you are greedy and choosy...There is not even mention of what men need to look into . All the above said should be from both the parties..not just men... you also need to have those qualities first to expect the same from the other..
Dear friend.... Men always had the freedom for choices. That's not the case for most women... How many places we see man of 28 years marrying 45 year old women.... But so many girls in 20s getting married to boodaas....
My partner have all these qualities n I am blessed for that but I don't agree with the last point about if the person is having diabetes or have a family history of such a disease .... How inhumane would it be to leave a man for he is diabetic. I am sorry but this is a part of life , diabetes is a genetic disease , and if we have diabetes do we not deserve to get married to the perfect match ? This is such a stupid thing , I have a family history of diabetes and my if in future I get diabetes and my partner leaves me , that would be the worst thing happening .
@@nidhisingh7011 rules were made by society back then if u want change then start doing from ur side first. Society always resist any kind of new changes.
Advise is ok, but practically,it is not possible to go through. Lady will remain unmarried, if such demands are asked. Life is a passage of compromise.
"Check list to find the right Life Partner" Men ought to be Earning/ business Men ought to be health conscious no addiction Men ought to have hobbies (not boring) But what about choosing a right woman??
I liked the first four important parts, but why this diabetic thing came into picture, agree that the groom has to be healthy, but not necessarily his parents. Thats because pretty much everyone gets diabetes or some other symptoms in their old age these days.
Recently I met a person. Who has everything u said Bt his looks not good and he doesn't have a grt job Bt yaa he is seeking for a better life. I hv to answer him Yes or no Wht to do I dnt understand Instead this I felt tht if I marry him I will alwz argue with him in future for some reason Bcz I hv a tendency if I hurt in starting of any kind of relationship than I will alwz rude with tht person Help me plzz I dnt knw why to do 🙏🙏
1. Earning / Business - taking care.
2. Health consciousness.
3. Free time - Hobbies/ expressing emotions.
4. Strong faith - that everything will be fine and hold on to each other in adversity.
Confidence for Earnings.
Health Conscious.
Hobbies.
Faith.
Before watching it, I was counting the points by passing the videos.
And medication
Family oriented
My husband says the sixth point is : Don't look for all the five things in same person! by and large, if the faith is there to ride over difficulties, rest all will follow. A healthy attitude towards life is important. Thanks for the checklist!
True
1.Earn well
Educated so much to find job
Business or some potential thing
2.A health concious person,health is wealth.
No addiction,bad habits.
3.what he does in free time.
Hobbies
4.He has faith in general in life.
Thanks for sumrize
I have all these qualities but I don't have my life partner yet.
Update: If anyone is interested to get to know me and marry. Girls can contact for the best husband in the world. 😀
@@johnvarghese8947 😂😂 may you get your partner soon bro 👍
@@johnvarghese8947 I am looking for best husband 😃. Even I can be a best wife .
She is absolutely right, it is great to sit with the senior citizen and listen to the memories of their childhood, but we don't like it when they say"what's your job among the elders? go do your work"😖
🤣
Ya ...right Asmi!
don't expect to have perfect partner unless & until u are the one.
that's all what I know regarding choosing partner in life
She tells so perfectly, my marriage is going so well,due to all these
God bless you 😇
Understanding must be good.
@@careerscoop5241 rightly said 👏👏🙏
Hmmm. Nice but there is more interesting to start from zero with each other and go through problems in life and still staying together... This is a real goal in life...
That's a goal and quite a miracle trust me... I've tried everything in this world and till date he has grown so little that I'm feeling exhausted
Very correctly said coz if we choose someone out of liking, then later on in life one or the other person feels the same. I heard many people saying "ke jab zimmedari nahin utha sakte the the to shaadi kyu ki" even after love marriage.
I think most important about the person's family, person's personality, he has fixed income or not, his character, lots and lots of things but mam every one hasn't get this type of luck so mainly if you have that luck then you will get otherwise better to stay alone.
True
I think this video should be renamed. It is focusing on how to find a male partner in arrange marriage.
Exactly!
Correct
whats wrong in this ?
We should take this in general
Yeah becoz girls needs to go to mens house not vice versa
I loved the way you taught these difficult questions in an easy way. Thankyou ma'am😊🙏💐god bless you n all your family members.
Itne sare sab chije ek person mai hona thoda mushkil hai, kahi na Kahi comprise Karna hi padega I think that's rational thinking.
Perfect Checklist Ma'am..The person I'm with currently has ticked all the boxes of your checklist. I am hoping 2021 brings in a wonderful year ahead for us & our families. I pray to God that we plan marriage soon.
Seeking your Blessings as well 🙏🏻☺
So..how are you doing now?
I can see all these points in myself actually 😁
Completely right. I made a bad mate selection and it was tough. He’s dead now at age 61 so we don’t get to grow old together but schizophrenia ran on his side of the family which none of them told me and I only learned about after many years of marriage and our children are grown and yes, are affected by it.
He also lost any moral compass and lied constantly.
He died in the presence of two prostitutes who didn’t think to call an ambulance when he collapsed. It was very painful, but looking back it had to end. He had type 2 diabetes, heart disease and even did drugs after a heart attack. He always had a rebellious, unteachable spirit and didn’t believe in religion. He didn’t love us any more and no provider instinct. Glad it’s over.
Choose the best possible life partner by spending time in understanding and analysing ur partner before marriage.. Instead of suffering in the entire remaining life.. 🥰🥰
Yes I ruined my life
After spending 4 year before marrige knowing each other very well still marriage didnt work
Kon kab palat jaye bulkul nahi jaan payenge or bhut si shadj bina jane pahnche ho gyi sab tkh chal rha to shadi ek jua hai dav lagao khelo
Have ur own checklist ! U know urself much better n what u need better .!
The first point he should be earning well , why not she should be earning well also to have a balance
Thanks for your valuable words mam..i just want to add something for both men and women while selecting a life partner and also for their own goodness..
1. Discipline ( discipline always gives confidence about ourselves ) disciplined person always good at everthing like health, job, habits, character( respecting others, helping other's, being honest, caring, lovable)..so discipline is everthing..
I didn't do much poojas
But I have A Self-believe in God
Everything would be good
our problems God would be Sorted-out
Hrudayamey oka Devaalayaam
Very practical approach Maam. Thankyou 😊💐
Thank you for educating with the beautiful guidelines 🙏
I am very happy to know all those good qualities of a boy or a girl before getting marriage this should be practical and a person should be more confident thereby he may have strong belief for up coming events.Thanks a lot for these guidelines
I love your video I come here after watching your shorts great n straight forward statement 🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍
Shukriya for such guidance ✨🙏😌
1. minimum age gap
2. earning -self reliant
3. well educated
3. self control and social intelligence
4. trust and openness
5. life is full of trail and errors
6. health conscious
7. same economic classes
Namaskar Hansaji 🙏 really eye opener for today’s world. Needed this information for today’s generation. Thanks
And if he or she able to accept mistakes and ready to correct..most important their should proper communication no any mind games
Character must be there and also see how he treats others and what he thinks about a women or for people who is in position lower than him.... Income/property in boys and beauty/skin colour/virginity should not be the main priority.
I totally agree to your point....
@@gyaankabhandaar7061 thank you
Omg man I like u so much..😛😘
Ma'am I will keep these in mind , thank you so much
U did nt married any one
Thank you so much for sharing. I have been watching and listening to your wonderful thoughts😊🙏
Great wisdom..thanks for sharing 🙏
Mam, please also make a video on what a man should look for in a woman to be his life partner.
Hey everyone,
Marriage laws in India are becoming increasingly biased against men. Many Indian men face harassment from women, lawyers, and the police, while courts demand huge payments. Russia offers financial support, family benefits, and free education, making it a better alternative for men. With India becoming a hub for false cases like 498a, moving to Russia is worth considering.
Thank you so much. 🙏… this was quite helpful ❤️
What if you are not health conscious ...should you expect that other person should be health conscious....It would be a match like Anjali and Tarak, I think, it is not about what is there in other...the right way is first know yourself and then see what you want from life...
Lovely mam really wonderful speech
I understand the importance of hobby in life .
Madam most imp is character of d person nd if God loving must go for it.
True.... Without character nothing is possible
You are describing me... And I have still not found someone 😬
Mam I guess
1 point is values
2 what they think about materialist possession
3 there behaviour must be opposite eg one physio send person must be opposite
4 natural attactraion
5 money sustainable income
6 family is greedy or normal
Very practical 👍
Thank you so much madam ...Best wishes and regards to you madam ..stay always blessed ..☺️🌸🌹
Thank you mam for guiding me.
Good guidance
Mighty thanks mom.
Very rightly said Mam. Thanks❤for guiding..
In short she is guiding girls to be a liability all her life and search for a life partner who is a real asset and dumb enough to willingly accept a liability for life. If girls really want a good partner, learn to share the responsibilities with your man and see, how much he loves you 🙏
I don't agree with the things mentioned in the video fully... Does a person who is earning fine and healthy habits can necessarily be empathetic and understanding? Does he necessarily be a person looking for emotional intimacy with her/his life partner? Hobby, earning and health consciousness would not necessarily result to a right choice of a partner.
Well according to my experience, the partner should be empathetic on first place, and must look for mature love with emotional and spiritual intimacy with the other one.
Neha agrawal so what you say is money or work is not a issue.. Instead he should empathetic. Right
Paisa hone wala rude ho aur garib insaan character se achha ho jaruri nahi har case mein
Nice
Hobbies to express your emotions 🙏
mam make details vedios list of all best topics
enquiry
health report & history
find rishte fast & easy
Thank you Mme for your suggestions
Thanks so much for this video
first, point not accept madam but good girl are there, wife earned husband continue his study 10 year finished CA , CS in finance now that boy earning well family is very happy
It is centered around female do you think males also have privilege to choose partner?
ull need house maid .. so wht to choose in tht
Thank you so much mam 😇❤
Really whatever you said is 100 percent true.
Useful video
superb advise
really helpful
In arrange marriage it is impossible to know all these things.
true maam.
Mindblowing speech mam
What if he abuses the woman? Many men lie and show their true colors
after marriage.. Does she stay and take the punches because she is
committed?
Of course not... 🏃💨
This is exactly what is happening in my life.
Thanks a lot mam for giving such practical and beneficial advices for choosing a life partner.💓💖💕
200rupee kamnay baly worker pai apka yeh rule applicable hoga road pai sona road pai khana
With due respect, partner is neutral gender. And why is it so that "he" has to earn more and take care of the family?
Hi Antara , She is giving tips to a girl to choose her partner. So , the common opposite gender is "he"
Being practicle...it is a seroius question
Impressive Query👌🤝🤘
Thanks for helping me 😀
Y should boy marry now a days with all conditions u mentioned
Even boy has right to see girl with u told conditions
Thank you ma'am ❤️ love from West Bengal 🙏
I totally agree to it and my partner is like that only but I am not so ideal in life . I definitely am trying to be a better person but want to know if it's even alright to FORCE someone to follow all these things in life in order to remain in a relationship with him??
Please answer me this . It would be absolutely life changing for me.
I am from the UK, and would like to get married with an Indian girl. Would that be possible for me?
I need a British young lady
Madam u have told only about guys...what abt girls?...pls make a video for that also...
Job
Health conscious
Hobbies what he does when he is free
Strong faith not religious but does he have hold on each other together to go through..
Information about family also.. diabetes etc
Sir how do you judge a prospective groom or bride n parent for their nature. If they have a nature to fight or are peaceful how do we get to know. Pls guide as thus us very important. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
And what should men look for in a partner ? Only kind hearted woman🙄... And if you expect more you are greedy and choosy...There is not even mention of what men need to look into . All the above said should be from both the parties..not just men... you also need to have those qualities first to expect the same from the other..
Absolutely
Dear friend.... Men always had the freedom for choices. That's not the case for most women...
How many places we see man of 28 years marrying 45 year old women....
But so many girls in 20s getting married to boodaas....
@@user-sm4wk6pv4f It's mutual
They're marrying the older one for their money ; not out love ! just like older one is marrying them for beauty
My partner have all these qualities n I am blessed for that but I don't agree with the last point about if the person is having diabetes or have a family history of such a disease .... How inhumane would it be to leave a man for he is diabetic. I am sorry but this is a part of life , diabetes is a genetic disease , and if we have diabetes do we not deserve to get married to the perfect match ? This is such a stupid thing , I have a family history of diabetes and my if in future I get diabetes and my partner leaves me , that would be the worst thing happening .
Wonderful
Income should genarate from both side, why men will always take the responsibility for earning only????
why only girls leave her homez?
@@nidhisingh7011 If u have guts to go against society make ur husband a gharjamai then
@@AshishPanthee62 But in this society there are boys like you so how can I change?
@@AshishPanthee62 And the first thing I said on the matter of his income, otherwise I am not against it.
@@nidhisingh7011 rules were made by society back then if u want change then start doing from ur side first. Society always resist any kind of new changes.
If he is doing a good business how he will sleep n how he will be health cautious.. n without work alholic how he will be a good business
I'm looking for marriage
beautiful
Can you please improve the audio quality..thank you for your kind words hansaji
Advise is ok, but practically,it is not possible to go through. Lady will remain unmarried, if such demands are asked. Life is a passage of compromise.
"Check list to find the right Life Partner"
Men ought to be Earning/ business
Men ought to be health conscious
no addiction
Men ought to have hobbies (not boring)
But what about choosing a right woman??
What about 'she' madam
Very nice video
If he earns less ,how to think
I liked the first four important parts, but why this diabetic thing came into picture, agree that the groom has to be healthy, but not necessarily his parents. Thats because pretty much everyone gets diabetes or some other symptoms in their old age these days.
True
Jo Log aage zaake Baat kiye Bina Reh Letey hain Hfto.
un ko Pyar hi Ni karna chahiye
kisi se
shaadi Bhi Ni karni chahiye
tell about girls also ,,,
🤣🤣🤣
Thanks
Good video about choosing life partner
Thank you!
Money is important but it doesn’t guarantee long lasting relationship
She didn't mention about being rich. 😏
*This is the longest explanation for a nerd..I will see myself out*
I want to meet you ma'am ...just tell me how ?
2:50 is she talking about herself?
I agree with you can be my hubby i am 50.
Thank you ma'am 🙏❤️
Recently I met a person.
Who has everything u said
Bt his looks not good and he doesn't have a grt job
Bt yaa he is seeking for a better life.
I hv to answer him
Yes or no
Wht to do I dnt understand
Instead this I felt tht if I marry him I will alwz argue with him in future for some reason
Bcz I hv a tendency if I hurt in starting of any kind of relationship than I will alwz rude with tht person
Help me plzz
I dnt knw why to do 🙏🙏