1. Know yourself and other partner 2. External beauty vs internal beauty 3. Good interaction (ask hobbies, bad habits) 4. Check few qualities (anger management, body language, honesty, forget and forgive policy, sense of humor) 5. Respect
This like of all good things have one girl In this world she is my wife I am so so so lucky person I am proved of she is my wife I love my pondattiiiii. Thanks for all good information I find good life partner only
Excellent message Madam. Thank you Madam for Preparing this Useful Video. Every one should Listen this message. Madam one more important Point is Checking the Psychological Mental Condition of Person before Marriage is Very Important Madam. Ok Madam. Thank you Madam.
Ma'am no matter what you say or do marriages are not working today across India. Its a new epidemic prevalently found anywhere. I have seen many real life examples and confirm that no matter how good looking, intelligent, and good going people are they are just not happy in relationships. True indeed
@@devikabhatnagar well in that case if you compare divorce rates between love marriage and arranged marriages you will be surprised to see divorce rates in love marriages are greater than arranged marriages.
Bold enough to raise your voice against the evil things, smoking and drinking. Let all girls beware of this. Knowing this, bòys may also be good enough to get rid of the deadly habits and have a smooth life
Even best selected marriages can fail anytime.Like husband losing job,wife becomes bipolar patient.its all luck madam.Bhagyavantham prasuyetha maa shooram macha Panditham.Very easy to say thank done.
How u can know /check about life partner before engage if u r going to do arrange marriage..b/c in arrange marriage mostly we don't contact with ur soul mate before engage...
Most important quality is God fearing and not having bad habbits also maintaing good & healthy body and mind. Also intelligent or wise. But to find out from the partner is not an easy task?.
Mam long time I haven’t seen ur videos but this one I have seen, well nice one mam, but now a days today generations just needed an intact results, not much time to do all things , just few r Lucky to do so.
Maam, you told it is difficult to get a partner with all the above qualities. Then what should we do. In case of arranged marriage, we do not have sufficient time to asses all these qualities. We rarely meet once or twice
My friend I can tell you a good example on how to know the right person. Few months before I planned to marry a girl and both my parents and her parents agreed and she and I also said yes and as we started to chat every day we chatted little, sometimes we chat one day and the other day we didn't as both of us were working in different shifts and staying in different cities. But as the time went we had only professional conversation. And one I said to her I really like her and appreciate her beauty and character and she also said she liked me. But I showed lot of interest in her but She was behaving like a proud girl because of having high social status and high paying job. But then one day I spoke to hear in very clear way that if she really wants to marry me she will have to listen and respect my parents and relatives be under my authority. And she should not discriminate me in case if I lose my job. But then she became very sad and then after a day I tried to convince her and apologize if in case my way of telling was harsh but then she quit and left the conversation and showed me that I'm nothing. She was telling me that you are nothing. Then I realised that there is no need to fight for true love. If a person really appreciate and respect and love you she or he will come to you and try to understand what you are trying to tell them. As Mam said that in few conversation and few days we can judge if that person is made for us or not because they will show that excitement.
@@liveandletotherslive.5458 we need to have more conversations right. Ok I will try to have more conversations. I don't like your way of taking control of girl completely as you mentioned under my authority. We should respect her thoughts and in return we can expect same from her. No one is incharge of anyone, both couples have equal role in a relationship. So both should express their thoughts & feelings freely without maintaining any secrets and should come to good conclusions. The conclusion should be balanced and it would not arise misunderstandings or inferior feelings like one is superior than other. What we expect from them, in return they also have some expectations from us. Understanding each other feelings definitely plays an important role in maintaining good relationships.
Mam....wonderful....awesome suggestions mam....but I missed it ....dear....😔anyway but I will give this same suggestion to my family members....siblings....😍💐🌹💝🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Very well said mam.Thanks a lot but still need to know few more douts Mam sometimes the person may pretend to be good, may hide their negative points,his past or present relationships,then.how can we identify such persons.
Dear Dr, You have explained good things and the way of explanation is so nice. 5 Qualities are ultimate for long run of smooth life, But I think you are not discussed about anything in financial aspect right? what is your opinion about financial perception?
Thanks for ur good suggestion mam , we have to follow it and most of the girls are boys only attracted external beauty so they are changing the views their life's will be good ...... Thank you so much mam ..
Mam u r teaching us how to choose life partner but in our society just when girls get of 18 , their is turmeric on their hands , we do not get atleast chance of choosing life partner I really feel sad about this Sometimes I feel like why I am a girl
Now a days people just hide facts when it comes to marriage. Past affairs, bad habits etc. everything is just show off and money, it's difficult to get a good understanding partner .
Ma'am could you please help me to control my emotions, I mean how a person can control his or her emotions. I can't control my emotions that's why I am rejected by one by one. But this time I sincerely wish to learn how to control my emotions so that no one can control me and I become able to find a right person in my life.
We don't choose our life partner...God chooses them for us. This is destiny and whatever happens after marriage, good or bad we can't do anything about it but accept things the way they are. Everything happens for a reason.
With all due respect... I disagree . People change all the time. The situation always determines a person's behaviour. For example. What if after marriage a person becomes alcoholic and smoker? It doesn't matter all the other things before marriage. Only thing which does matter is the mutual respect and space. Thank you
Indian thing drinking is always bad Some one like me who drink occasionally will not tell in first meeting that I drink Because no matter how good I am they call me Bevda And Then I loss a good partner as well as she So I will not gonna tell them
1. Know yourself and other partner
2. External beauty vs internal beauty
3. Good interaction (ask hobbies, bad habits)
4. Check few qualities (anger management, body language, honesty, forget and forgive policy, sense of humor)
5. Respect
Madam dimand bhi same honi chahiye n.....
She said people are going to hate this video but there are so many people who liked it.
They are all just like you..
Stay blessed always
This like of all good things have one girl In this world she is my wife I am so so so lucky person I am proved of she is my wife I love my pondattiiiii. Thanks for all good information I find good life partner only
God bless you abundantly.
Stay happy always 👍
Excellent message Madam.
Thank you Madam for Preparing this Useful Video. Every one should Listen this message.
Madam one more important Point is
Checking the Psychological Mental Condition of Person before Marriage is Very Important Madam.
Ok Madam. Thank you Madam.
It is very difficult now a days to find perfect one mam,, because more people's are good actor or actress
True
Number one actorsssssss
Thanks 🙏mam 🙄 for confused future couple...
Ma'am no matter what you say or do marriages are not working today across India. Its a new epidemic prevalently found anywhere. I have seen many real life examples and confirm that no matter how good looking, intelligent, and good going people are they are just not happy in relationships. True indeed
It all depends on our handling the partner but choosing is the turning point in every one's life.
@@devikabhatnagar well in that case if you compare divorce rates between love marriage and arranged marriages you will be surprised to see divorce rates in love marriages are greater than arranged marriages.
@@acturian9570 half of love marriages don't have "love" between partners . It's all about "lust" in majority of love marriages.
One thing I like what you said, forget and forgive both!! Not one, it does not work!!
A genuine Content...👍👏
Tq....Madam.
Bold enough to raise your voice against the evil things, smoking and drinking. Let all girls beware of this. Knowing this, bòys may also be good enough to get rid of the deadly habits and have a smooth life
Mama ur speeches are very clear
Even best selected marriages can fail anytime.Like husband losing job,wife becomes bipolar patient.its all luck madam.Bhagyavantham prasuyetha maa shooram macha Panditham.Very easy to say thank done.
Thank u so much mam ....it made me feel so light and stress free🙏
How u can know /check about life partner before engage if u r going to do arrange marriage..b/c in arrange marriage mostly we don't contact with ur soul mate before engage...
Most important quality is God fearing and not having bad habbits also maintaing good & healthy body and mind. Also intelligent or wise. But to find out from the partner is not an easy task?.
"God fearing" word is not meaningful. The person has to disciple to his/her subconscious mind/Intuition...
Thank you Mam 😊 🙏🏽🌷
Mam it was very much helpful to choose my life partner🙏
Thank you mam. Very nice explanation
Mam
Loved ur content...
Sense of humor gurinchi baa chaparuuu
Thanks a lot ma'am
My pleasure..
Have a wonderful life👍
Thanks mom
Stay happy always 👍
Hi, Thank you for sharing valuable information.
Very nice video and genuine advise
So helpful..Thank you Ma'am!!🙏
Stay happy always 👍
Mam long time I haven’t seen ur videos but this one I have seen, well nice one mam, but now a days today generations just needed an intact results, not much time to do all things , just few r Lucky to do so.
True
Very big thanks for your life partner selection advices
Stay happy always 👍
Thanks for the Video mam. Its really helpful
TQ mam 🙏
Maam, you told it is difficult to get a partner with all the above qualities. Then what should we do.
In case of arranged marriage, we do not have sufficient time to asses all these qualities. We rarely meet once or twice
My friend I can tell you a good example on how to know the right person. Few months before I planned to marry a girl and both my parents and her parents agreed and she and I also said yes and as we started to chat every day we chatted little, sometimes we chat one day and the other day we didn't as both of us were working in different shifts and staying in different cities.
But as the time went we had only professional conversation. And one I said to her I really like her and appreciate her beauty and character and she also said she liked me.
But I showed lot of interest in her but
She was behaving like a proud girl because of having high social status and high paying job.
But then one day I spoke to hear in very clear way that if she really wants to marry me she will have to listen and respect my parents and relatives be under my authority.
And she should not discriminate me in case if I lose my job.
But then she became very sad and then after a day I tried to convince her and apologize if in case my way of telling was harsh but then she quit and left the conversation and showed me that I'm nothing.
She was telling me that you are nothing. Then I realised that there is no need to fight for true love.
If a person really appreciate and respect and love you she or he will come to you and try to understand what you are trying to tell them.
As Mam said that in few conversation and few days we can judge if that person is made for us or not because they will show that excitement.
Paisa property position gadi Bangla dekho maje karo.......ab shadi bhi dhanda ban gaya hai
@@liveandletotherslive.5458 we need to have more conversations right. Ok I will try to have more conversations.
I don't like your way of taking control of girl completely as you mentioned under my authority. We should respect her thoughts and in return we can expect same from her. No one is incharge of anyone, both couples have equal role in a relationship. So both should express their thoughts & feelings freely without maintaining any secrets and should come to good conclusions. The conclusion should be balanced and it would not arise misunderstandings or inferior feelings like one is superior than other.
What we expect from them, in return they also have some expectations from us. Understanding each other feelings definitely plays an important role in maintaining good relationships.
@@vinodhatwar1567 paisa sab kuch nhi hain.
Respected madam I like what you said.
God bless you akka in the name of Jesus.
Mam....wonderful....awesome suggestions mam....but I missed it ....dear....😔anyway but I will give this same suggestion to my family members....siblings....😍💐🌹💝🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thanks a lot mam
Ur vedios are inspiring me like anything tq mam u am always great full to u
Thankyou madam love you
Very well said mam.Thanks a lot but still need to know few more douts Mam sometimes the person may pretend to be good, may hide their negative points,his past or present relationships,then.how can we identify such persons.
Yes ladkiya bhi karti hai....jhuti hoti hai aurate
Thank you so much for the good content.
Good luck Girish.
Have a wonderful life👍
Thank you mam
hii mam, how i can one choose the life partner in the arranged marriage? please make a video on this? how can one trust each other?
Dear Dr, You have explained good things and the way of explanation is so nice. 5 Qualities are ultimate for long run of smooth life, But I think you are not discussed about anything in financial aspect right? what is your opinion about financial perception?
Thank you 😘
Make some more such vedios mam
U gave very nice information..
Tq ma'am ur good speech i liked it
Thank you mam 💐🙏💐
Subscribed ...
Thank you so much maam. Internal factors 😍🙏👏
Thank you mam ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Nic video ..respect very imp
Thank you ma'am ❤
Awesome cool explanation
Veri good mam
Hi mam you r so great
Love you maa
thank you, madam
Tq madam
Is it mandatory to marry someone ...for an indian girl..
Is there need to think about earning mam.if he earns less
Thank you mam..
Thanks mam......
Thanks for ur good suggestion mam , we have to follow it and most of the girls are boys only attracted external beauty so they are changing the views their life's will be good ......
Thank you so much mam ..
Mam, Love is greatest gift also it 's cover multitude .thank you
Please make a video on how to control emotions.
Dear Mam,
I've watched your all videos for learn English, please make one video for how learn English fats and speak with confidence.
Related communication skills please find the link.
Practice well and good luck 👍
ruclips.net/p/PLJethYXgtvJQaZ8VmqpoWlOWXywU4dhRr
@@devikabhatnagar Thank You Mam.
అవును మేడమ్ ఎంపిక జీవితమంతా చాలా ప్రభావవంతంగా ఉంటుంది
Mam u r teaching us how to choose life partner but in our society just when girls get of 18 , their is turmeric on their hands , we do not get atleast chance of choosing life partner
I really feel sad about this
Sometimes I feel like why I am a girl
Mum, parter, habit intn. Character I am not able to find out clear pic. She is my relative? I adjusted. Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰🥰
Very nice
Very good video 👌💗
Thank you #Devikama'am
First like first comment first view😊😊
Hi madam, I want to meet you in person and discuss my issues . Is it possible for you?
Hi Latha Garu how are u
Hi mam,he has all qualities except drinking mam.he is trying to avoid drinks.am I right r not mam
Mam ,I want videos on speaking English more.
👍
arrange marriage मे इतना परखने का मौका ही नही मिलता, Mobile number भी शादी तय होने के बाद ही मिलता है ।
Before engagement try to speak clearly with your views
How we know personality disorders.
It is impossible in arrange marriage
Truth is now a days nice gals r rare to find everyone has become materialistic people believing in family values are extinct 😭😭😭
kapil garg nice guys are also rare sir!
@@mounikasampangi3589 that's also true, I mean no one is perfect but there should be at least some qualities that have been mentioned in the video.
Many boys marry for material gains and other benefits as well.
I have a great boyfriend but i am not sure if he has the qualities of being a good husband! i am confused. how will i know!
Its All Depends on luck..
How to decrease stammering problem please reply mam
Make videos in Kannada also
Please
Now a days people just hide facts when it comes to marriage. Past affairs, bad habits etc. everything is just show off and money, it's difficult to get a good understanding partner .
if someone this many good qualities then he will be saint.
🙏🏽
Ma'am I have chosen my life partner but now I am suffrlering with him
Don't worry...
Handling is in our hands.
Follow the link and take care.
Stay blessed always.
ruclips.net/video/GLiVL1ROYVo/видео.html
Ayyashi nhi karne deta hoga 😀😀😀😀😀
Ipadilam amayarathu romba kastam. No one should be perfect in this world.
Ma'am could you please help me to control my emotions, I mean how a person can control his or her emotions. I can't control my emotions that's why I am rejected by one by one. But this time I sincerely wish to learn how to control my emotions so that no one can control me and I become able to find a right person in my life.
Luck and unlucky matter mainly whatever you said in the last.
Lalachi banogi to sahi life partner nhi dhund paogi......bik jaogi shadi ke nam pe
All the drunkards and smokers disliked the video😂😂😂😂😂
😃
Aisa kuchh bhi nhi hai....unki bhi shadi hoti hai
👏👍🍂
We don't choose our life partner...God chooses them for us. This is destiny and whatever happens after marriage, good or bad we can't do anything about it but accept things the way they are. Everything happens for a reason.
😂
😂😂😂😂😂sahi hai
Ok, if you got to know that the person is abusive you married, what will you do ?
Let the fate decide, it is my destiny ??
With all due respect...
I disagree .
People change all the time.
The situation always determines a person's behaviour.
For example. What if after marriage a person becomes alcoholic and smoker?
It doesn't matter all the other things before marriage. Only thing which does matter is the mutual respect and space.
Thank you
Excellent
After marriage handling, understanding living together by cooperating each depends on the partners.
Indian thing drinking is always bad
Some one like me who drink occasionally will not tell in first meeting that I drink
Because no matter how good I am they call me Bevda
And Then I loss a good partner as well as she
So I will not gonna tell them
Plz tell me mam
A genuine Content...👍👏
Tq....Madam.
Thank you mam
Thank you mam 😊