The Best First Date
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- Опубликовано: 17 янв 2016
- Would you go to church with someone on a date? That’s the question on the table during this Girl Chat! Check out what “The Real ladies had to say, and share your answer below in the comments.
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Jeannie was too accurate about churches and their inability to dismiss people on time lmao.
ikr! she hit the nail on the head
+Keith P. Black churches particularly. Lol I went to a friend's church once (she's white) and it started at 10am (it started on time!) and it ended two hours later. I didn't know what to do with the rest of the day.
Our "condensed summer services" are just as long as the Sept-June service.
+ohlaaax Lmao! You're not lying about that 👌
+FunkyFuchsia91 😂😭😂
I go to church every weekend, but church is not a date. It's not a time to talk or get to know each other, so no thanks. We can go to church and go out on a date afterwards.
I agree. Take me out somewhere first. Then after 4 dates, then if he says, babe, I really like where this is going and so I want to show you the other environment that I love (which is church). Then I would say of course because I know him enough to want to go to church with him and plus we both know by then we worship the same God. But for a first date, No!
+Bri Brown to each their own. I think it depends on what you plan to do, on that church date. Worshipping God together can be a date, you don't have to talk about each other for it to be one.
+Bri Brown im with u on that
+Bri Brown !!!! Yep. :)
Yeah I don't think church is first date "friendly".
I'm not a religious person, so going on a date at church would be really weird for me. Also, you can't actually talk or get to know a person in that environment.
+StingingwithqueenC yeah plus it's not just meeting the parents it's like meeting the whole community that's kinda rushing it imo
+StingingwithqueenC well you can go out to eat or something afterwards. i'm Catholic so our serves are only an hour long.
+StingingwithqueenC Also people are assuming that the faith of the other person is the same as theirs. I'm not religious either, but that was a big relationship conflict between my parents because they practiced two different faiths even though they were both under the umbrella of Christianity.
+Mela the great why would she do that if she's not religious.
+Elle Plow Plow I'm just commenting the part you can't get to know someone in church. so I said afterwards you can. I think even if you're non religious and your date wants to go. I say why not, it doesn't hurt.
Man, Lonis crotchet braids are on point!👌👌👌👌
yea its gorgeous...she shld do more of it than wigs...she looks fresh n young
Aren't they Senegalese twists?
yesss
+KingBey They're Senegalese twists that are attached with the crochet needle
Oh I see, they look so good!
I love when Adrienne in a red lip.
Anisha Renee thats bot adrienne when she has her red lipstick she is her alter ego Bonnie Besos
We went to breakfast, church, then to lunch. 9 am-8 pm--We stayed out at the lunch table talking until it was dark, so we had more food and kept talking. That was our first date. We're getting married this summer. Yes!
Oh my gosh Congratulations boo boo ! That's beautiful
Long and happy life to both of you be happy and may God bless your union.
+Maisha Souka Thank you so much, love! You are too sweet! God bless you back! I hope this year is filled with hope and happiness for you!
+acesofspades772 You're sweet God bless you sweetheart Kisses from Paris 😀
That is a blessing. Congrats!
acesofspades772 that’s so cool! How is it going?
Going to church would be a great date. Afterwards the couple can go out to lunch. There's nothing wrong with that at all.
I was cracking up at Tamera's story. That's embarrassing lol
he probably really was tired
+Empressive That's exactly what happened on my first date. Instead of dinner and the movies, why not opt for church and dinner lol. The secret is to go to a church where you both are first time visitors. We've been married for 10 yrs.
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Empressive i think that's a great idea. I am not a christian but I would absolutely go to a religious function with my date. Lunh after is even morenperfect because then you can talk avout what you experienced and what you think about religion and so on and so forth. So the conversation is not so forced and you don't have to go throigh all the standard quetions right away. I think an activity for a first date is always a good idea. It takes away the pressure somewhat.
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"I like when a man takes you out of your element"
"that's bowling" LOL LONI
"When a man lifts up his hands in worship" 😭 best thing ever 😊
Church is a great date. A man who has a relationship with God is very attractive.
On a second or third date; yes. Not on the first tho.
+CurlsBy Roro I'm with you
+Sydney D I love church and may God bless it, but there is a lot of hypocrisy there. I don't believe you will ever truly get to know a man or woman in the church setting. Check how they live their life from Monday to Saturday when no brethren are watching them. That's when you get to know the real them.
Oh btw i forgot to add to my comment: a man can also have a relationship with God outside of church. You dont have to go to church to prove yourself. If you as a man or woman go to church on a first date just for the sake of showing that you have a relationship with Him, I suggest that Jesus takes the wheel on that one, cuz that ain't right.
But no one ever said you would and that's not the point. You can go bowling on a first date and STILL have to get to know that person outside of that atmosphere. That could be said about any date. No one said that you could get to know them fully at church. It's common sense that you'd have to get to know hem outside of church in their everyday life. That's what dating is for. As for me, I don't mind going church on a first date. Especially if that's what we both enjoy doing.
Going to church is great! But my perfect first date will be at the carnival lol. I guess it's cliche 😂
+Akirra Raheem Thats a cute idea. Its not cliche. That sounds great
+Micala King thanks😊
+Akirra Raheem That's my perfect first date too or an arcade or something.
+madeyoulook I love arcades also!
+Akirra Raheem yes!!!!!
Jeannie is DEF more talkative when tamar is not there. She would keep all that airplane talk to herself if she was there.
Jeanie was low key talking about black churches, she just didn't want to be too obvious 😂
+Sandra Mutonono i can't hate on her tho
+keinnnaM lol I know, she's lovely! And she's definitely letting that show this season!
Longer than 5 minutes?? Yaaaas 👏🏾
ya 👍❤
My reaction too! lol
you gotta love Loni. All her advice leans on the funny side versus the seriously looking for a husband side. The best first date to me would be a picnic on a sunny day. Then if it goes well, a dinner date.
Eve Yitagesu sammmeeee
Museums are good first dates. They're great for conversation, and if there's a bit of awkwardness, you can hide it by looking at the art/exhibits and also comment and ask questions about them. You still get to know each other, but it's less intimidating and puts less pressure on both of you to have "topics" stocked up just to prevent lulls.
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I love how positively they talk about church, God, and Christianity on this show. :)
I love it too 😁😁😁
ALL of their talk videos should last this long! Aint nobody got time for those 3 minutes half cut scenes!!
Jeannies makeup is on point.
Agreed!
Im really diggin Adrienne's look today. Her makeup is so pretty.
I'm not religious so no.
Thank you! Me either.
Right?! Why is this show always trying to indoctrinate?
I feel like Loni wants to come out as non-religious, but the rest try to act like holy rollers.
+Renita C exactly, I feel like the real are always talking about religion right now, getting sick of it!
+Renita C I don't think Jeannie is religious either but you notice this season she's been preaching a lot. 😒 trying to keep her job I guess. I wish they would stop with the religious stuff but I don't think they will with Tamera there.
+Elle Plow Plow You can't assume on everything(Loni and Jeanine being non-religious). They all decide to discuss on that! I do agree that they need to minimize the topic as they're ppl from different religion watching the show and some cannot relate on that topic (first day in a church). Like myself, I'm Muslim.
Loni it's not about food,money or material things on date. Seriously!!!!
I'm saying!
but she has a point. it is cheap but it is decent. I'm a pk and all but sometimes church is a pressure and like she said if he doesn't give there might be a problem
nothing is cheap about it...u can go to lunch after
+K Marie Why should a guy spend a fortune on the first date? The first date should be more about a whether you are having a connection or not, besides that you can go for lunch after the church service.
+pangzed8448 maybe Loni is not religious
Loni is annoying sometimes, she seems to play this role of I don't care about romance,love etc. I like her but she bugs me with her comments sometimes.
Dying at when Adrienne said "no" to everything Jeanie was saying about airplane dates
Aw Adrienne has told this story before!!! It's Lenny!!!
"And I know how to milk a cow" 😂😌
I am a church girl and I go to church every Saturday and I definitely will love it if my man goes to church with me but IMO going to church on a first date is not really a great first date. You really cannot get to know people and interact with them when you go to church. Museums, Theme Parks, Dinner, and Bowling are great first dates IMO.
I go to church on Saturdays too :) are you an Adventist?
Annleyce Yawingu Yes I am
+MsBrooklyn11232 :)
SDA's reppin' 👋🏾
+MsBrooklyn11232 Ayeee #teamAdventist
As a non religious person the last place I want to go on a date is church. I'm all for hearing about another persons beliefs and learning about it but first date? no thanks.
I'd be glad if they invited me to church; An easy way to eliminate the possibility of a match. I spent 19 years trying to avoid going there!
I DO have a friend who goes every Sunday just to keep his wife happy, but he also had a kid just to keep her happy so.. :/
Awe poor guy settled I hope he finds true happiness in someone one day!! That's just sad. And yes a very easy and good way to eliminate the person I don't think I've ever dated a religious person so I'm glad for that cause I'm sure that can cause issues.
That's your choice and it's honesty
A flight for a first date? No way, but Jeannie is SPOT ON about getting to know people that way, and I'm taking tips for myself for that too!
Going to church for a first is hands down the best first date! Seeing a guy worship our saviour is the best thing to see! 💕
Church isn't a first date tho. You can't really talk and get to know each other. Church is an amazing place to go together and worship and have fun but not a first date.
PS how the hell you gon have a first date on a plane......
Lol! XD
She said before that her husband flew her to the city he grew up in so they can have their first date
she was saying it was a good place to judge character
She probably meant like a first trip 😂
I'm sorry but who says going to church is a cheap date? For some people that's an important part of their life. For others it's not. But I'm just saying that was just a wrong thing to say smh 😁
Even if its really important that doesnt mean it has to be a first date when you dont even know the person. Go on the second or third date
it doesn't take that it is not important it's more so an observation but not a real real date in my opnion. I mean we can go but I would want to go somewhere afterwards, if he behaved well in church
i have seen some people say that they think loni is non religious and just didn't want to come out and say it and that i agree with. i think she just wanted to come up with other reasons why not to
We all have the right to say what me feel but everyone isn't a church going person
Yeeeeeeeeees people! The twists are back ! Bless this day my good people we have been heard! Thank you MLK thank you Lord for guiding her glam squad! Loni you are gorgeous
I agree with Adrienne, church is a great place to meet a person that might have the same morals & values as you.
Tamar should just quit she's never there
She was sick and these episodes were recorded before she came back.
Yea this was recorded when she was sick
+OnlyMeNee Got my vote!
lol fr, like if I went to my job just a few times a month I'd be fired. 😂
Chill out I love Tamar, I watch all her shows but she's felling way better now, it's a talk show it's not dancing with the stars anymore so she should be there. Everybody else is there, Tamara has a baby and she still there everyday and tamera was gone because she as super pregnant. But I'm just saying I watch this to watch all the host .. It's not fair to us viewers
Jeannie's date sounds fun tbh, I hate plain ass 1st dates like restaurants and movies.
4:10- 5:24 Tamera, Loni and Adrienne, I was confused too!!
I would because it would telling me that me and him could have a relationship with god. and also i would get to meet his church family. so it would definitely be nice. anyone else agree? 🙋
Definitely agree.
+Jazaria Thompson disagree church people are hypocrites
You can't judge all church people that
way .
Not for first date! Maybe second or third
+dance4life1208 not all church people are "hypocrites" maybe you just need to go and find out that you need jesus in your life. and you do. shade but no shade 😊
Red is tamera's color.
Jeannie, yes! You learn someone's character when you travel with them fa reeeaall!
Also, blue eyeliner on POINT!
1st date: how does he treat me in public?
2nd date: how does he treat me alone?
3rd date: how does treat me in bed?
This convo was hilarious...the circus date and how he did it was really sweet. My gurl Jeannie always has the best stories. The tall guy snoozing at church that you couldn't miss had me rollinggggg😂
I agree with Loni! Bowling is an amazing first date! I had my first date bowling and we had so much fun!
I agree with Loni! First date at a bowling alley is awesome! I’m still with him, married for 16 years now!
Jeanine is so random... 😂😂😂
Ummm Jeanie's first date was straight of The Bachelor😍surprise flight to the country and horseback riding! CUTTTTTTTTTE!!!!!!
"uhhhhhhh I didn't mind the church" hahahahah Tamera kills me everytime! lol love her
Adrienne, we heard the circus story already girl lol
ikr!
I haven't. And if someone tells a story more than once then u know they aren't lying lol.... Like Loni lmaooo
And there's fans who add up everyday so she's not wrong for telling the story again .... Arrgh people like u and there stupid comments like dude ure not the only one watching dammn
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Sorry she bored you with her repeat story, but I never heard her tell that story before. Not to mention I could relate I too live in NY and have never been to the circus.
jeannie really??? an airplane
Please continue to post long clips like this one. The fans of this show who cannot watch it live want it. Thank you.
"Let lightning strike from above" Adrienne is so funny
I swear Adrienne is like my favorite person on this show
7:55 mins 😳😳😳😳
Love these fantastic four!!!! Yes, I agree church is a good date.
I love the panel in the order of Left Tam, Jeannie, Loni, A, Right. It works best in that format. They all are lovely together overall!!!! That’s just the format I like 😂❤️🥰
The best 1st date I've ever had was a cooking class!
I think that's ideal. Better than those awkward coffee "job interviews".
lol. yeah definitely.
Wow that is actually a fantastic idea
Jeannie was definitely describing CATHOLIC CHURCHES 😂
Tamera talking bout a Pentecostal church had a high spirit. I'm Baptist and my church keep a high spirit. Shouting, clapping, dancing, praising, any and everything you can think of that will praise the Lord.
"That's bowling" 😂😂 I like to go bowling too Loni
Good job girls on the real enjoyed your show sending you a text message really enjoy your show I watch your show everyday on Channel 4 in the morning at 11 o'clock I'm very proud of you because you're doing a very good job and I bless you all with the best #LOL
omg awww adrienne telling the story of her and lenny's first date! so sad that they didn't work out but she's talked about that date before and said it was lenny :(
jeannie cant say anything without getting a side eye lol
Lol Adrienne shaking her said saying " no, no, no"
Jeannie I agree with you that is an interesting way to see how a person conduct themselves... I agree!
I went to a musical as a first date once. It was pretty awesome.
And I would go to church, but not as a full date. As part of a date, when we go eat later, yes, but as a full date...
I think it's fine, my parents met at church and they've been married for 22 years !!
Loved this! like a discussion with my girls 😂
WHO YOU BE????? 😱
😂 Loni is hilarious love her!
My first date was at church actually :)
Jeannie goes off on a tangent too much. It's like girl, what the hell are you getting at? And honestly judging a man on how he behaves on an airplane is doing the most. Not everyone is gonna be cheery and happy on a flight.
+Leah Brown nah she be saying she wants to see how he treats people.
Girl, she does that all the time. Come on now boo, stick to what is being discussed geeeeeezzzzzzz
+Leah Brown I love the girl but she was completely off-topic. Who says "Hey take your passport and prepare your butt, our first date is gonna be a plane trip (a hours long one at that)! Hope you like plane food."
Judging a man on how he treats restaurant employees makes more sense for a first date.
FunkyFuchsia91 that's what her husband did tho. jeannie lives in her head. i love her for that. she's not afraid to live in her fantasies
keinnnaM But the date wasn't the plane trip. It was part of it, but the visit to his ranch was the actual date. And unless her husband's ranch was on the other side of the planet, it wasn't a hours long trip to the point where he would become a jerk either.
Still off topic.
A 7 minute video?! Ooooooooh Thank you, the real for spoiling us!!!
Yesss finally not 2 minutes video 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Bowling is great for bonding
Omg almost 8 minutessss 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Loni your hair like this is gorgeeeeouuusss!!!!!
Yes. I was invited to church as one of our first dates. He was a wonderful man.
A date in church is just weird! Is everyone Christian in the US? You're supposed to learn to know the other person, not judge their religious behaviors.. I don't understand...
As important as my faith is to me church would not be where I would want to go on a first date. It's easy to be disingenuous in church. Some of the most corrupt people lift their hands and "shout" in church every week. I want to get to know the real person first. We can go to church together later.
Looove Jeanie's look and Adrienne's lipstick
Loni kills me! love her!!!
I thought Jeannie's first date with Freddy( don't know if I spelled his name right) was a picnic but I can be wrong.
That's what I thought too.
+Alexzandria Hall That's what she said before. I think she was trying to present some amazing story here and pulled a Loni.
+madeyoulook Exactly.
+Alexzandria Hall sooooo she can't go on a picnic and do all this on a first date???? smh
Yes! She said years ago that her first date with Freddie was a picnic in a rose garden…nothing about a flight to the country at all. I think she took like a 4th or 5th date experience with him and used it as her first date this time lol or it’s all made up who knows
I'm starting to really love Jeannie
Totally with Jeannie on the airplane etiquette. Yeeeeees.
Jeanie and that airplane story...girl bye. That's not a date! That's stress. lol. 😂
Church is a horrible first date. First, church does not a good person make. The devil goes there too. The majority of people are on their absolute best church behavior and it's not a good reflection of who they really are. Bowling is actually leaps and bounds better. It's a low stress thing to do. You get to dress casually and not much can go wrong.
Honestly I like it without Tamar lol
Me too!
i agree
Me too
When Adrienne said "Let lightning strike from above"
Church?! Absolutely!
I was at the club one night drunk and this dude asked me for my number and if I wanted to go to church tomorrow I was like 🤔🤔🤔
😂😂😂 lol
+Sade Mae did you go?
+madeyoulook I went with my bestie they go to the same church he came with his FIANCÉ 😑😑😑😂😂😂😂
Sade Mae lmaoooooooo girllllllllllllllll God spoke to you then and there: "STAY AWAY"
Whatttt? Did ur friend already let you know he had someone or were u completely surprised
Stop asking in EVERY video where's tamar, these episodes were taped when she was sick. Plus it's good she stays away she's not good to the show she's jealous of Jeannie and trashy.
This comment is trashy
Jealous of Jeanie, when, where and how!!!!
You tried it!!!!!
+T.E. V. Exactly
nah tamar is the type that can give out shade but can't take.. Jeannie's just being respectful towards her..
"i'm like "WHO U BE?"" LOLOLOL
"Who you be?!" 😂
Jeannie is always changing her story about her first date first she said that Freddy flew out to where she lived and they went to a rose garden and had a picnic and now she's saying he flew her out to his farm on a first date and he taught her how to milk a cow and make cheese. Which one is it
😂😂😂 ( what the hell Jeannie be talking about) stay on the topic
haha, jeanie with "i know how to milk a cow"
seriously she is becoming my favorite with her personality
"and i know how to milk a cow." LOVE IT x
Demi “boom.... milk” lol
well i was raised jewish but am actually atheist. i aint goin on a date to do the synagogue
Lol Jeannie is totally shading black churches, lbr. And I don't disagree. Black churches never end!
Also Loni was annoyed because that guy was hot, generous and humble? What?
+FunkyFuchsia91 my church starts at 8 and we didn't leave till after 3pm. i aint even gonna tell you about the shut in.
I agree 100% Genie with the plane ride
Jeanie I like to watch people just the way you do on the plane, but I don't just do it on the plane. I do it everywhere especially in social places where I might meet a nice guy. I can tell a lot about their character just by watching them like that