Accomplished Women Who Refuse to Shrink Themselves Down Get Real About Dating
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- Опубликовано: 1 мар 2023
- Tam Fam members Adriana Herrera, Renee Bruner, and Tamar Nisbet sit down for a candid conversation about the imbalance they face as successful women in today’s dating pool. Therapist and author of the popular book “Self-Love in Action”, Zoe Crook, also joins the candid conversation about dating challenges in 2023.
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“Men are intimidated” then proceeds to reject all the men in the Tech industry just to prove a point. This conversation is just pointless coping. Good luck tho.
*TRUE* _!_
Jajajajajaja i didn't even think about it like that, but you are a 100% correct. Then she also wanted nothing to do with men on her rising to the top. Sounds like she has a big EGO.
Right? Like it's fine to be picky, just don't complain and make excuses for your lack of options.
As an educated woman with a global corporate role in a Fortune 100 company, developing a business on the side, driven, but also loving, caring, fit, supportive, understanding and family oriented, and fulfilled in a relationship with an amazing "tall, fit, high earning" man, I can notice how delusional these women are. They're not intimidating in any way. It's more that they have unrealistic standards, and are not taking accountability of their choices and their unwelcoming personalities.
The kind of men they seem to want aren't attracted to these types of "masculine and combative" personalities, women who define who they are by their careers and financial "achievements", and not their emotional intelligence or romance skills. Even more if these men are on a very high income, good looking, and have plethora of options, they wouldn't want to come home to a competitive someone, instead of the peace and the love they deserve. Hopefully these women will understand this some day.
what are you talking about? None of them were masculine nor combative. You're clearly here just to be overcritical and bash others on the internet. If you're bitter, just say that.
So because because you ‘gotta man’ your word is gospel on why these women are single? The audacity and a woman stuck in her own misogyny. For all we know your man could be cheating and beating on you. You would not be the first married woman doing it all and still get disrespected by their spouse.
@@indigogirl5172 Sharing a point of view in a shared public space is having a "gospel word" to you? Glad to hear so. 😇 I wish you to find inner peace, you seem hurt and in pain to be that bitter and aggressive. If you keep on choosing dreadful partners that unfortunately treat you this way, so you can only project your own experiences onto others, you definitely need to heal. Then the rest will follow. 🙏
How do you even have time for a man with that much going on???
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Hehe when you want, you can 😂. But it's a team work, quality time is very important to us.
Also I never engaged in situationships, hookups, blurred lines, and don't get dragged onto dead end "whateverships" that has no potential to grow. So when I was single I was going on much less dates than most people (I even went over a year without a single date lol), but it gave me some time and energy for more meaningful sides.
For women claiming to be so happy being strong, independent and all that y'all sure as hell talk a whole lot about how badly you want a man but can't get one.
HAHA!!!
They just not going to settle for your lame a$$e$! 😂
@Kash Nance at least he won't deal with them not being feminine. 🤷🏿♂️
I know I wouldn’t want these types of modern masculine women.
Society, please stop lying to women. We're already heading towards a bleak future. Maybe we still have time to steer the ship back on course. 😂😂😂
Oh no, women are complaining about being successful.
😂
Oh no… males are intimidated by it. That’s what’s starts it so… that’s more embarrassing.
@Numerologica tarot which men is intimidated?? one thing that will push a man away from these types of women is her attitude, simply because she out her degrees and success as a front to show who she is as a woman, whereas men in general don't care about that.
@@numerologicatarot3333 they aren’t. 💁🏽♂️ you can minimalize how men view this to them being intimidated all you want, it’s not gonna change how men as a whole view it and it’s not gonna help women as a whole find partners while being successful. Keep putting your head in the sand if you want to it’s your life.
It's insane isn't it, they will just keep complaining but all equality goes out of the window when people have to be on the front line
"Men are intimidated" 😂 women and the lies they tell themselves to feel good
EXACTLY!!!! TRUTH!
They lie to themselves like they lie to fat women when they call them healthy and beautiful
SIGN language… it’s the same play
@@datswart7573 shout out to Kevin Samuels!
We women it's he way we carry ourselves... Like this I don't need u vibes 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Ever noticed how when Ladies talk about dating or Men, they never seem to include Men or Men's opinions in these *Panels* ?
Successful Men are not interested in some *Boss-B* who looks well into her 40's that looks ' OK at Best ' .
Men do not care about your success or money. It literally means nothing to us, Men are *NOT* intimidated, we are turned off by you.
You ladies are high as a kite, Good Luck, you need it.
Men settle ALL THE TIME....especially financially
Let's have a 10 year follow up to see how many cats they have
Men are NOT intimidated by a woman’s success. Men just want a woman who can respect them. My current partner makes 4 times more than me but is never disrespectful and still cooks for me even tho I don’t require it. Men want respect. That’s all. You can be as successful as you want but if you can’t respect a man and make him feel like he’s important and needed, you won’t be able to keep him. Just my $0.02.
yes, men need respect and women need to be listened to. So many of us don't learn this growing up.
@@ebbyc1817men are not the problem 💯
It starts with our mothers because we’re the reflection of our mothers
I get so sick of women thinking men are intimidated by their opinion of “success”. Men have made it way too easy for women to “survive”.
This video and the comments are RP gold mine
men an women are DIFFRENT. Here are 4 traits men value overwhelmingly on women: selfLESS, humble, unpromiscuous and YOUNG.
Exact opposite of these women.
Young will be Old too
Most males value those traits for whats needed whn it comes to a good fck..these traits are still not valuable enough for the man to honor the women with marriage....if so we wldnt see so many single women under 25 unmarried
A man gets rich and successful he looks for a woman to take care of. She could be flipping burgers. A woman get rich she don't need no man unless he on her level.
Ahah fr right
Successful men tend to MARRY successful women there are millions of examples. People tend to marry within their tax bracket and race.
@@Rashaadthegr8 no they don't, the man is the one that made that woman successful in the first place
@@Rashaadthegr8 study history of kings and even fiction such as Cinderella. I know that there are a cases of people marring in the same bracket. Especially middle class but there are many cases of men marring women on their beauty and personality. There are be few cases of a woman doing this. It's not female nature. The problem is they get old. They have education and money yes but the rak up bodies and trauma too. Most are close to non child bearing age also.
@@Rashaadthegr8 also if a man gets successful at 40 he has acess to a 25 year old woman. If a woman gets successful at 40 a 40 year old man looking to start a family will avoid such. The examples you talk about are people who build together.
EVERYBODY ON THIS PANEL IS DELUSIONAL. EVEN THE RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST. However I can tell that she is holding back truths to appeal to sensitivities
Common tactic among feminists.
Absolutely
Modern women seem to not understand the difference between Intimidated and turned off.
When she read the stats that showed inequality in home ownership and education in favor of women, the entire crowd applauded. Like what?! Granted it’s a show…
But If this was inequality against women, there would be protests, rallies, and social changes to figure out why that is happening.
Yes that was odd. Like some women just want to take over then complain when they do lol
@@sobeliever1638 I agree, you got your degrees, you got your money, you got your houses, you got your success stop complaining.
“ i can’t find a man who matches my finances , and that’s why we need to smash the patriarchy and close the wage gap”
3:58 "One would think, this would make a woman more desirable".
To whom? The men don't care what the women make. They want a pretty, friendly woman who is a better cook than they are, and who can have kids. An uber successful woman is less likely to have time to have and raise kids and cook for the man, so the men don't want that.
Plus, women earning 120k won't date a man earning 45k, but a man earning 120k will date a woman earning 45k.
It's like, if you're going to play a new non traditional game, don't expect traditional results.
TRUTH!!! Well said!
"if you're going to play a new non traditional game, don't expect traditional results."
*BOOM* _!_
Bars
Exactly 💯
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Cat and dog food company stocks will be at the moon in a few years 🤣🤣. Invest early gentlemen
Intimidated? I have never heard another man say they are afraid of a woman with a degree, career, home or big bank account. IT'S NOT INTIMIDATION, IT'S INDIFFERENCE!!!! MEN DON'T CARE ABOUT ANY OF THAT BECAUSE IT'S NOT WHAT WE LOOK. Men and women are wired completely differently so we look for different things in a partner. Women care about a man having those things but us men we could care less.
I want to know why it's still a man's fault they are single. Can someone answer that for? I'm confused!
@@djserg4346 because no man will submit to their whims in a way that makes them happy.
They want a simp for the home and a Chad in the bedroom.
How many men can be both at the same time? Because they believe they can have both.
But they can't, so they bang the guy that makes them hot and gives them a pump and dump and then endlessly cries about it to the friendzone guy who's been waiting for her to get tired of the merry go round and settle for them.
Holy $hit this show is so mess 😂😂🤣LMAO
Try asking men what they want and doing it!
Ok what do you want
@@ahhrealmonsters8834 Just a fit, friendly, and feminine woman. Traditional. Family values. Kids. Allows her man to lead. Not a ho3.
Note that men, in general, don't really care about a woman's income, career, or success. I mean it's like a "cool story bro" but it benefits a man not. Anyways, women don't "date down" so the men that would actually care don't even get a chance. And the men who are actually "above" a woman in the socioeconomic hierarchy will always prefer to date younger women who are not jaded by the woes of life.
Im really surprised these 3 fine gentlemen are finding it hard to date.
LAWL
Lol
Nice!!!
Yep. They became the men they desired.
I just wish women would like this would be honest. They struggle with dating because they are too picky. Which is fine. Just own it and dont complain about it.
Men are picky too
Women keep your standards up. Don’t settle.
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And die alone
Just a question. A man who is successful marry a poor girl its a Disney movie. A woman see it as settling for a man beneath her.
Lol
We men were stupid for years to marry, these ugly, average looking, no jobs, no careers, makes no money, comes with their debts, with other men's kids, out of shaped, overweight, couldn't even wrote or read, women .. We black men were stupid as hell. we should have been as selfish as them.. We should have married only, educated women, women with great jobs and careers, women who also have houses or properties.. I hope this with teach men a lessons, that women are selfish as hell, never gets with broke, in debts, not educated, no money , no credits women ever..
Women are dating with the 3 Ps too, Tamron literally opened the segment with these women looking to date men at or above their level and wen the therapist tried to explain this she initially pushed back with "shouldn't the onus be on men? ugh! Also, reorienting your mind around the 3-Ps doesn't men you dim your light, it means you adjust your expectations in the men you are willing to bond with. there are men out there that these women are completely blind to, who would make them happy.
Yep. Men in general don't care if they cant protect and provide, women do. A man wont deny a woman if she doesnt need protection or providing for, but a woman will dump a man immediately if he says she needs to deal with the danger or if he says she needs to pick up the check.
@@bamfordblue6853 Considering biology that is real, it's legitimately offensive to expect a woman to defend a man in a dangerous situation unless he's a dwarf or has a physical handicap. As for money, s/he who has more, pays more but anyone TELLING someone they neds to pick up their check should be dismissed on principle.
Like with anything in life, you have to prioritize what it is you want and do the necessary things needed to acquire them in that order. If work, travel, and money is more important to you, then you will likely never find a husband because the type of man most women want is not a fan of a woman with the aggressive traits needed to become an overwhelming success.
Nailed it
The biggest thing is that sometimes these women put up a huge wall, and they make themselves unapproachable
As a woman I'm just scandalized. They pu their material first!!!! Home owner, entrepreneurs... What about their interests, their values?
Not really. Its the attitude. Men aren't looking for partnership, not competition. You can get someone who might have less but complements you. But they don't want that. And don't care about families until life passes them by
Guys just want a nice, easy-going woman who they find physically attractive. They don't care that she's crushing it in her profession. That's a secondary concern.
In a relationship we need to be able to trust and depend on each other. If you choose to be “strong and independent” and not participate in that interdependency, it is going to be difficult to form a successful relationship with somebody else. This goes for both men and women
Mid looking women with some money aren't intimidating but manly. Why would heterosexual men date this mess? Indepndent? Pay half or pay the check yourself? No.
For the "ladies" that are strong and independent. I'm 74 and married to Old What's Her Name for 50 years. She worked with what I brought in and we now have an income 150% of my best year on the job. Most people have jobs and not careers. I'm a professional pilot. The only thing important in life is my woman and daughters. Memory fades of the flights of kotex and eggs to Elmendorf Airbase Alaska. The little woman was hot and interesting for the first 25 years. I've grown to love her in the last 25. Young adults do not know what love is.
We too busy dealing with other shit
@@Wahhhhhhhh-hhh other shit like what? Wokeism and rainbow foolishness?
@@abstraqtphilosophy7357 inflation, not being able to afford a house, not being taught finances in school, not being taught the law in school, and having to follow finances and the laws. Increasing regulation, position in the water, balancing whether to buy cheap food with preservatives or go broke trying to eat well. Trying to figure out how to not be screwed over by health insurance regulations, trying to find out if there really is a corporate conspiracy to buy out houses and rent them out. Trying to figure out what to do about that. Trying to figure out which careers I should get into because there is no company loyalty anymore. We all have to be businesspeople and faux-attorneys now if we want to get ahead in this complicated dissociated regulatory atmosphere. No time for love. Maybe if you want there to be fucking fight for younger generations instead of yapping about politics and voting for wall Street. Do you work for wall street?
Thanks for sharing! You’re absolutely right! Those 3 ladies are liars. Even the lady in red, stated guys in her industry wants to date her, but she refuses them. They all have men they’ve friend-zoned and or rejected who would take care of them and love them, just like you did for your wife and daughters.
They're making all this money, they're accomplished, and they out earn men, but they still don't want the responsibility of being the provider 🤣🤣🤣
No matter the level of independence, a woman WILL need a man at some point. A leader will never be intimated by a woman's success.
Feminist propaganda has convinced so many woman that men are intimidated by their career success, when in reality, they just don't care. If a man is making enough money to provide for a family, why would he pursue a woman who is focussed on her career? A career woman provides 0 values to a high value man, because they are focused on a purpose that is already being fulfilled by the man. However, a woman that is pleasant and focused on raising children provides lots of value because a man can't do that if he is already working.
For what? Taking out the trash?
@Megan Oh, Im ready for this.
The place you live in a MAN built it. The roads you drive on, a MAN laid it. The car you drive MAN created. Skycraping buildings a MAN build it. Planes, a MAN build it. Agriculture, a MAN, put it in place. Men made this place better for you all to flourish. Pushing a pen in an office or non physically invasive occupation, MEN do the jobs women will n e v e r do.
There is and will always be the exception to the rule.
@@darkbrandon9458 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@shednotes3016 Don't men need other men for the same things? So, it's a moot point.
I think the therapist had some good points, and I think Tameron didn't take in all of what she was saying.
I don't think it's terrible for women to be financially successful and have careers. But a lot of those women may not realize how it can almost oppose what attracts them to men. In other words, they can lose attraction to most men because what they're attracted to, they have in themselves. I see the therapist insuiating that those women must change how they are attracted to men and let their success make them lose interest in someone who would be good for them.
Also, they need to heed the therapist because instead of self-reflection, many try to reconcile the contradiction, so to speak, and go for rich man that could give them the lifestyle they want while having a successful career. The problem is that men aren't sexually turned on by success in a woman. In other words, a guy isn't going to turn a woman down because she's doesn't have money if she's nice, kind, beautiful, and affectionate. Women do that, not men. So when these women see the successful men marrying women without money, they are flabbergasted and ask why. It's because we don't care about her money over her being kind, peaceful, affectionate and helping us out.
I would much rather marry a girl who's nice, kind, considerate, affectionate and wants to help me who works at McDonald's, than a woman who is a jerk, brags a lot and inconsiderate, but is financially successful. And I'm sure I'm not the only one.
You are definitely not the only one.
Men value a loving, caring, feminine, youthful, sexy lady who will bring peace, happiness & cooperation into our life.
Clearly none of the Ladies in this video possess such things, nor do they want to. 😆
Literally none of the women did this, but okay. LOL
"Waited for a while trying to find the right person but decided I going to live the life I want NOW" I felt that, pretty much sums it up on my side as well.
Exactly🙄🙄🙄
@@not-even-german4892 not always a bad thing, I'm about to be 30 this month and this past year I've just decided to move forward and not wait on anyone to join the process , always wanted someone around I can trust around my house but unfortunately I've been single for a few years now. It's ok really because every year my income continues to increase, my motives are exact, I don't have to ask for any approval. I literally work 7 days a week with no hassle. Yeah it's lonely and the only people I ever come in contact with are coworkers. But it's all good, I only get one life and I'm going to live it regardless, mitas well go out in a decent level in life🤷🏿♂️
@@dontplay_withme.965 Because as a man, you women are too picky and demanding. As a man, WE DO NOT CARE HOW SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE or what education you have. Seriously, we don't give a crap. These women on this show are the exact opposite of what men desire. You're actually manly boasting about how you own a home, your education, how much you make, etc. It's masculine and doesn't turn us on. Gross. Biologically women do not date down but how about you damn try? I'm not saying date some jobless loser living in mom's house, but you don't need to date some doctor or lawyer or CEO making $200k+ a year. It's really simple.
50yo Black single homeowning career-having graduate degreeS having woman who also wants to know where the men are who aren't ashamed of not having the same kinds of outward achievements...*grabs pen and paper*
oh--childfree too...
Wow, fascinating
I do better by myself. I would prefer to have a man. But I'm not dumbing myself down to have one.
That part!!
what do men need that you possess?
What will you do for a man to be with you?
@Gojo da GOAT it depends. I give what I get. Usually, I am the one giving the most.
@@darkbrandon9458 it depends on the man. I need examples.
I work hard everyday, I simply want a woman that loves me and I can love her. A woman who takes care of herself physically, mentally, and spiritually.
Expectation imbalance is the root and it can be resolved. You can be matched appropriately and it may take longer than expected; that is okay. Stop making excuses for non-contributory and underperforming men and women that have no desire to evolve. Anything that lacks evolution withers away.
This comment! Evolve is the key❤❤❤
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That includes you and your rigid mentality.
Lol. These so called independent women are the ones who will wither away if they don’t find husbands asap. Your advice is dumb.
Delusional and arrogant. Perfect example of a modern woman.
“I don’t date men in tech.”
Translation: “I’m not attracted to these short nerds that I work with 😂”
If you're insecure just move on.
Great video: I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
its always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back
@@MajorCockbern wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@@DarylSimpson58 Her name is Victoria Dora white, and she is a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex.
@@MajorCockbern Thank you for this valuable information,i just looked her up now online. impressive
U still thinking get her back?? I Have wife that left me too now I'm prefer MGTOW rather to get her back or try approach another women i will never trust women again....
What do the men YOU want, WANT?
Lol they still don't get it.
Not scared of any woman. Never have been, never will be.
Won’t have children without marriage.
Would not consider a woman for marriage who does not have a gaping hole in her life for a provider, a protector -aka a husband- and derive her purpose from serving me and our children. Without that she is actually of negative value to me outside of a business relationship or a hook up situation.
Don’t really care to be in love in the way you guys talk about it, don’t really care about “partners” that means next to nothing. Husband and wife producing children who all have the same last name means everything.
Black women in particular are suffering from this viewpoint.
The look on their faces when the therapist was talking…..
I don’t think she was saying what they wanted to hear 😂
Ask them how they got it via divorce
lol don’t forget that there are more women than there are men, very important fact. They seem to always overlook that fact.
And they always overlook the 60% female to male ratio in colleges. Surveys show that college-educated women overwhelmingly prefer men with the same level or number of degrees as they do. Women, depending on the study, prefer a man who makes up to 52% more than they do financially. These HARD filters, driven by a woman's hypergamous nature, are always overlooked.
Honestly if Men only dated women who brought something to the table or who in some how added value to that man..Men would have a hard time dating as well lol..The double standard is...A broke woman with no value or nothing to add..Expects a Successful Man to be interested in her..However that same broke Woman once she becomes Successful..She refuses to date a broke Man who has no value in her eyes lol..The bottom line is Women rather Unsuccessful or Successful no matter what their situation is..They expect to be courted and pursued by someone Successful
Best part about women having good paying jobs and owning their own homes, is they can finally loose half of everything they worked for in a divorce 😂😂
😂 A real man is not intimidated by any women.
I like they are talking about men in no men on the show. I am not Intimidated by women Success.
I dimmed my light once for a guy and it still wasn’t good enough for him. Never again
We men were stupid for years to marry, these ugly, average looking, no jobs, no careers, makes no money, comes with their debts, with other men's kids, out of shaped, overweight, couldn't even wrote or read, women .. We black men were stupid as hell. we should have been as selfish as them.. We should have married only, educated women, women with great jobs and careers, women who also have houses or properties.. I hope this with teach men a lessons, that women are selfish as hell, never gets with broke, in debts, not educated, no money , no credits women ever..
You are a solid 3
@@YungSavage203 Where is your profile pic? I can’t trust anything you say if you don’t show your pic. 🙄🖕🏾
That’s because you dimmed your light which is the exact opposite of what men want you to do.
Just because we recognize that you’re business and financial success doesn’t mean you’ll be a good partner does not equate to you lowering yourself to find a man. It requires you to understand what men want from a males lense and increasing those skills.
Women in general seem unable to put down their lenses in what they want in a partner to be able to view what mean actually want. So they simplify it into something it’s not. We don’t want or need your money. We want a loving partner. Money doesn’t equal love, understanding, companionship. Your house doesn’t equal being able to spend the rest of your life with a person.
You’re personal success is cool and let’s us see into the person you are a little bit it doesn’t tell us how good of a match you are for us.
@@butterflymage5623 That’s all nice but he was abusive. Sooooooo 👀
men attain success and they marry down- women attain success and they end up alone childless and consumed with anxiety, depression and loneliness
It makes you wonder if there was some force that knew the nature of women, and said if we create dynamics where they make so much money and men didn’t have that ability to match her that it would cause problems via resentment. It’s a shame honestly. This was opened by you know who
She's so proud to be an entrepreneur, I looked up her company to see if it's been funder ever... Nothing.... These are companies that get funded so big investors can say they have esg initiatives.
She will stay alone.. ENTREPRENEUR 🙄🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣
10:41 Exactly. Modern women who are self sufficient breadwinners need to take their mindset out of the traditional paradigm of expecting a man who meets them on their level to protect, provide.
That will not happen. These are biological instincts. Not negotiable.
It is also important to recognize that men and women value different things in a relationship. I don't always believe that it is intimidation as much as it is traditional values. As a successful woman, I understand that what I bring to the table may not be what someone wants and vise versa. That lady spoke truth. I would rather be alone. And that is OK. Also men with resources have access to more women who need them the way they want to be needed. Women are changing but most men are not. I hope that makes sense.
Makes perfect sense but most won't want to hear the truth.
We men were stupid for years to marry, these ugly, average looking, no jobs, no careers, makes no money, comes with their debts, with other men's kids, out of shaped, overweight, couldn't even wrote or read, women .. We black men were stupid as hell. we should have been as selfish as them.. We should have married only, educated women, women with great jobs and careers, women who also have houses or properties.. I hope this with teach men a lessons, that women are selfish as hell, never gets with broke, in debts, not educated, no money , no credits women ever..
I don't even think women are changing tbh. What's changed is what they bring to the table but not their desire. They still want a man to provide the same level of security men have provided for thousands of years, except they don't want to have the same responsibilities that women have had for thousands of years.
@@rea9473 - True. Non-traditional Ladies still want traditional Men.
Lots of masculine energy
It's mental for most men that's very true
We men were stupid for years to marry, these ugly, average looking, no jobs, no careers, makes no money, comes with their debts, with other men's kids, out of shaped, overweight, couldn't even wrote or read, women .. We black men were stupid as hell. we should have been as selfish as them.. We should have married only, educated women, women with great jobs and careers, women who also have houses or properties.. I hope this with teach men a lessons, that women are selfish as hell, never gets with broke, in debts, not educated, no money , no credits women ever..
There also are very little tech companies in Latin America. Get the picture?
Do these women even ask what men want? Have you ever seen a seller shaming the buyer for not buying their product when the buyer believes the quality of the product is not good enough. The seller improves the quality or goes bankrupt . These women do not understand the laws of demand and supply and yet they consider themselves successful and intimidating hahahaha
Lol, yeah is simple coz they all want Chad but Chad dont want them Brace for the wall ladies it will hit u hard 🤣🤣
Becoming woman boss and independent it's not the issue for not finding a partner, the reason is you are not looking for a good man but looking for the right man.
All these women BELONG TO THE STREETS
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It's all over the world
This is sooooo good!!
If women are unhappy, it's their fault. Men are always ready and willing to be their mate, and if women want to be picky, it's on them
I'm seeing a lot of cats and boxed wine in the future for these strong independent boss babes
Great segment. This is the exact thing I am experiencing. My friends and I often have conversations around this topic.
It's your attitude.
Apparently, whether men becomes successful or not, we are forced to marry, broke, ugly, average looking, out of shaped, in debts, no jobs , never work a day, women that are not physically or mentally marriageable, women with kids etc.. But , women ones they job, a house they have the right to choose only top tier men ..Ok got it
Yes, because women are selfish with their money that the real reasons , it's has nothing to do with men.. Men when they get in your life they are expected to be able to save and helps everybody.. If your mom needs helps he should say yes, if your dad needs helps he should say yes, even men's have been helping their wives best friends.. But expects these selfish women, to invite you in their home , all of a sudden they are too Queen to do that..
Nobody is intimidated by you lot, your achievements becomes your personality which makes you lot undesirable… you eventually become the men you want..
You don’t wanna settle but want the men you want to settle for you…lol
The Men you Ladies want is dating a 20-something, very feminine, loving, caring, sexy lady. Not some middle-aged Boss-B with an inferiority complex like the ladies in this video.
also dont date if they are not kind and a life learner
Men ain't dating modern women. You're left with the soy boys.
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Kevin Samuels is turning over in his grave! 😂😂😂
We men were stupid for years to marry, these ugly, average looking, no jobs, no careers, makes no money, comes with their debts, with other men's kids, out of shaped, overweight, couldn't even wrote or read, women .. We black men were stupid as hell. we should have been as selfish as them.. We should have married only, educated women, women with great jobs and careers, women who also have houses or properties.. I hope this with teach men a lessons, that women are selfish as hell, never gets with broke, in debts, not educated, no money , no credits women ever..
What a shame. The hatred you have for him. So disrespectful.
@@ThothTheAtlanteanKstarting to think he’s not really dead if he just lives in their heads rent free
@@Shinjikeaza I feel you. It's just a shame this is what it's come to. Women like this HATE Men so much, they will speak ill of the deceased. Women like this are lower than low. You'll never see Black Men talking like this about women they disagree with much less deceased. The jaded hearts of these women are beyond repair.
This psychiatrist said admire all her accomplishments??
NO!! they won't. Men are not interested in a woman who makes more money than them,
in fact, that is a turn off... because men want to be able to do for the woman, they want to give her a nice life,
And let's not forget women date hypergamous... meaning he has to be tall.
he has to make a lot of money. he has to have status...
So don't go around telling men to lose his traditional idea for a mate, but women keep their traditional ideas, in fact, these women have no problem finding men, it's the type of men that they want that they can't find... and they want a man with high status, with high income......... and really really tall!
Men haven't changed or will change but women have, what man wants a strong independent woman who doesn't need a man, that's basically a masculine female dude😂
Yap there's always a consequence for women when u become independent
Good for these successful ladies! I think every woman on this panel is attractive, youthful and feminine. I'm reading a lot of the comments; it's so sad and cruel. This gender war has to end. A successful loving woman would be a great asset to a man. Not a threat. We don't all want to be tradwives. I know some women choose that life. That's okay. But, many of us want to work and build something for ourselves. And, what's with the cat comments? I love cats! They're absolutely amazing, loving creatures. A guy who is a cat person is a huge win for me. The only suggestion I disagree with is a woman asking a man out. Man pursues woman. A woman can be a boss and still be soft, feminine and receiving.
My grandmother used to tell me to never dim my light to be accepted by others. I didn’t understand it but now that I’m older with a masters degree…I do now. If a man can’t accept you at 100% proof, then leave him alone. ✌🏽
I agree. I am there with you. I have always had that problem after my divorce. Even had the same problems with my ex-husband.
That goes for anyone--Friend or romantic relationship.
Your grandmother was probably a single mother
This discourse is the root cause for the severe troubles the black community is facing today.
"I'm a PHD"
It’s not hard ladies. We know y’all will probably not date down. But the men you would be interested in probably are willing to.
Reality????
Why would any Man be intimidated by any Woman, for what? Degrees part they are more Women with degree’s because Men don’t like debt. Makes no sense to accumulate 60-100K of degrees debt to only make 40-60K coming out of College, That’s a bad deal. We chase the money. We go after careers that pay very well. 3 -10K Trade School to make 80-100K salary that’s a good deal. 30K engineering or medical degree to make 100-200K is a good deal. 30K teachers degree to make 40-50K is a bad deal who is paying that off? Not me. Graduating College will not make you a good Wife or good Mother. I’m looking for a help meet not opponent or competition. No one gets there on their own. One day when that brand new car breaks down, needs tires, that new house need a roof. You need police assistance or firefighters no woman want another Woman to show up. She needs masculine testosterone to save the day. Not estrogen. Could it be the one looking for a Wife the buyer just don’t find “them” or you attractive? I mean it can’t just be that? They need strong Men on panels like this to laugh in their face tell them point blank respectfully the truth. We’re designed by God to work together. In the end the one that is the buyer always finds the mate he is looking for. I can have a child in my 50’s. Keep believing the lie ladies. This gets ratings the truth doesn’t. The Man is the head of the house. You must be what he is looking for, share my values.
Zero men are "intimidated." Most men don't care what you do for a living, if you have a degree, or how much money you earn. Putting off this "all men are intimidated" vibe is just unattractive and makes us uninterested. It's not intimidating. It's just unattractive.
The look on the men's faces is priceless.
They know the deal and are there to be dragged and degraded by the women on the panel and the host.
Also gotta love how the only people you talk to are women.
Why are men checking out of the dating pool? Let me talk to my feminist female guests and ask them why.
Why don't men want to date successful ambitious women? Let me talk to this man hater and see what she has to say.
Question: does the man have to match what the woman has? Can he love you, be a gentleman an hardworking but not have all the material things noted?
What are you saying Ms. these women becomes arrogant and selfish as hell.. Men never find any problems, dating women with no jobs, careers, who never ever worked, women in debts, with bad credits, with student loans debts, women out of shaped, overweight, average looking at best, and that barely can even cooked, never heard these women ever starving, or ending up homeless, or walking naked.. Yes, it was not a perfect or luxurious life for the entire family, but nobody were left behind, whether she was broke, educated, in debts whatsoever, because men were not selfish, and didn't saw their finances and resources as their God.. But nowadays women, with their selfishness, no way they could ever do anything closed what men's did for generations..
We men were stupid for years to marry, these ugly, average looking, no jobs, no careers, makes no money, comes with their debts, with other men's kids, out of shaped, overweight, couldn't even wrote or read, women .. We black men were stupid as hell. we should have been as selfish as them.. We should have married only, educated women, women with great jobs and careers, women who also have houses or properties.. I hope this with teach men a lessons, that women are selfish as hell, never gets with broke, in debts, not educated, no money , no credits women ever..
@@openmindchannel1978 That's the side of the story I want published! It's not always dumbing yourself down! Here's what stands the test, Loyalty, honesty, honourable, integrity, love God, Character
you actually asked very interesting questions. What some of these women don't understand is that, most men whether high earning or not (I'm specifically referring to those that are manly and level headed) don't care about a woman is how mich she makes or how many degrees she had. These are just achievement that complements them, and guys will always respect it. It's how those women conduct themselves for the most part. Are they really compassionate, loving, nurturing and trully show affections?? or will they always put their degrees or successful endeavors before themselves as what make them women to be loved?? that's the real issue here.
When a woman just talks only about her financial success and educational achievements as who she is most men will check out. 🤷🏿♂️
this is weird I can't even see your comments.
I can’t believe that these women are successful, Rich, and beautiful, yet there’s still complaining about men. You know I have a shaved everything that you could’ve possibly wanted and you still find a way to say “Men are the worst”.
😂😅😢 poor them
Their point of view was only focusing on what women want. When they talk about men, it was telling them that they need to lower themselves. As men, we were born with these qualities she describes because it's the same all over the world. so, it is not culture, it is biology! The women on the show already said what the problem is, they want men on their level or higher. C. Ronald took a woman from being a cashier and now, she's a supermodel and she makes her own money. Men don't care about your status, it is only important to women.
As a guy, I would say this about career women "Congratulations You have become the man you wanted to meet. Also, HIS money is OUR money.
HER money is HER money.
Why should the men care about a woman's education and career if he doesn't benefit from it? Although, Amazing that with all that education, they are still delusional about reality. However, Feminism is a luxury that only exists when times are good, and bellies are full. In hard times it all goes away and as men, we are not intimidated, we are just tired. Some of us will do well by ourselves without the drama and the nonsense.
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1. Its a little odd how women just recently started being successful and now look down on men, but when men are and were successful that wasn’t the case.
2. When is it going to be enough almost every decade women demand more from men and we give it, when will they start giving some leeway to us?
I tell my clients to invest in cat food and boxed wine. I also tell the gents to get their passport as there's nothing marriable in the West.
She stood on her feet and no man helped her, so she should also go through life on her own feet with no partner helping her as it will satisfy her ego even more oh my God
This sounds like a recipe for dying alone. Why would a man be interested in a woman who doesn’t need them?
Having an education doesnt make you intelligent. It just means you can regurgitate the ideas a professor taught you.
The same previous life experiences just means you both only know the same boring stuff.
We arre meant to compliment each other. Not be the same. We arent intimidated by these women. But the way they talk we know they have no desire to make room for a man in their lives thats why we respond with a metaphorical "alright bro, you do you then"
I feel this way myself when it comes to dating. So many women have 5 or 6-figure student loan debt and black women are #1 in this category. Being in that much debt makes you a financial liability, not an asset, especially for a successful man and or woman to be fair. The term homeowner is misleading because in terms of legality, anybody with their name on the deed is a homeowner but to me, if your house/car is not 100% paid for you down own it the bank or the dealership does. Just like owning shares of the company is different from being the founder/owner of the company. Both are technically owners but those paychecks are different from a founder to an employee. Just facts over feelings. I wish I could have a successful woman that is not weighing down the relationship with her gigantic debt. Any man hating on a woman's success is either unsuccessful, lazy, insecure, immature, lazy or a combination.
They're laughing at the man asking whether she would be home or not, but not listening. A successful man wants a homely wife, so if she doesn't want to be at home and cook etc then she should date down or a less ambitious and financially less stable guy as those are the men who will have no problem staying at home cooking for her instead but women always only want to date up and successful men aren't going to have any of that
These women have done great and amazing things but unfortunately for them the type of men they won’t aren’t attracted by that
Why not?
@@asill.6668high value men got options so most will pick the young pretty submissive feminine girl over theses masculine boss babes