True. My husband isn't a christian, even though he does believe in 'a god' (I came to Christ only a year ago) and it is difficult at times. He doesn't see faith the same as I do and is more into materialism than I am. Money is more important to him than it is to me. He will not go to church and I don't think he will anytime, even though I pray for it. I still love him and hope God will open his heart one day. At least he lets me go to church and doesn't mind I take my daughter to church as well.
@@desireebarhorst-weller1767 Amen!! Many people can relate to this on a personal level, I pray that conviction and salvation would locate your husband. I pray that you and your husband would eventually be on one accord in Jesus name amen! I have a video on my channel that deals with marriage deliverance, I would like for you to watch it.
@@Deliverance_Breakthrough18 There are successful relationships and marriages between people who don't believe in God. They should believe of course but people can be happy.
I totally understand. I am in the same boat. You are correct in saying the end is near, no doubt about that. My friend told me when. I spoke to her about this is be an example of your faith. Most people want to SEE you walk in your faith and your commitment to Christ instead of hearing about it. I pray you have the boldness needed in the last days.
I understand your pain because im in the same situation with my family yet when i try to reach out to them about my religion, they rebuke me. May the Lord help you and bless you
yes that a great idea. i was saying just last week that, are these videos for Christians only or are you trying to reach everyone? reason being is that teens are at the cusp of fully accepting or rejecting God/Jesus as a whole. the angry at God video is great yet, did/does it reach those at the cusp in wanting to follow or just denouncing him. i love this channel, i repeat and binge watch weekly if not daily.
To tag team on #1 I believe it applies to lukewarm Christians as well. How can I allow a man to lead me in marriage if he never heard from God. Or have a relationship with God. He's getting his influence from the world and the world says that it's ok to cheat on your spouse and etc.
How funny I just finished reading Judges yesterday 😇 Awesome video sir...can you please say a prayer for me that I will meet my future Christian wife soon🙇♂️❤🙇♂️
Many factors play into that decision. 1. They do not know that person does not share their faith. A person can want to be with you enough to agree with you on everything until after the Marriage. 2. A Christain can be lonely and a non believer can make them feel compleat. So they would give In to that feeling. 3. A Christain can make a sexual mistake that results in a preganacy. That Christain may feel an oblication to marry that person. 4. Christains are still human. They desire to be in a relationship. They seek for friendships and Romance. Sometimes they are looking for approval from people. This mind set can are often lead the Christain to compromise their faith to gain that approval. And 5. Making desessions with their emotions. It is very easy to love a non believer. God does it all the time. He just has relatioships masterd and we don't.
Bruh you were single until 40?😲🤯 I was really not expecting that. You just seem like someone who's had a successful marriage for many years. So much wisdom and transparency. God bless you and I'm really glad I subscribed.
oh my gosh yes, as for me, im not a constantly exciting person, yet i love to deep think and talk to a significant other / my lady. i enjoy just time together which is what folk do get time together just basking in the presence is very important. QUALITY TIME also moral and emotional support and just vibing with each other.
As he pointed out especially for men, sometimes a woman is just so fine that you're willing to give it a shot. Of course that's the wrong approach but it does happen and happens for women too who have been single long enough. I think most people want someone they're with to be attractive. The key is making sure everything else lines up before moving forward.
Lol there is no perfect relationships, whither you are with are believer or a non believer! Because God will put us to the test by rocking the boat to see what we will do. That is are we going to stand and fight with our spouse or are we going to humble ourselves and raise up in our spirit like Jesus did on the boat and calm the storm by speaking to it. So it is the same in any relationship, it is how are we going to react?
@@avafury4584 lol yes it does says not to be equally unyoked! But can you say that your relationship is prefect today? Because it doesn't happened overnight for a prefect relationship to come about. It needs to be strengthened and built to become a stable relationship.
Wow this message is right on time. Just yesterday me and this guy texted each other and i asked him do he believe in God he said he believe in a higher power not religion and he dont read the bible or go to church. I dont know what to say. Im not knocking down his believes or anyone thats your feelings and opinions. I respect he's opinions and every one. But i believe in God go to church and read the bible. I can't be with a man who is unequally yoke for me. God knows the way and the right man soulmate of me. God is right on time always. This video and reading bible scriptures and praying help answer my questions. Im still learning and growing in Jesus Christ and God bless everyone. Thank you God and allen. 👏👏😊
THIS IS SOOO GOOD! No. 1 caught me right away "Settling for unequally yoked relationships". So many women make the mistake to assume their standards for a godly man are too high and too unique, so they settle for a counterfeit just to find out it can never work. THANKS FOR SHARING!!!!
Great video brother Allen! Too bad most Christians dont really want to listen to the REAL WAY of getting into a marriage... most Christians and epecially the world love to hear FLUFF/FANTASIES when it comes to relationships. The truth is it's best if both the MAN & WOMAN become soldiers for Christ before getting married... because without UNCONDITIONAL CHRIST-TYPE-LOVE in relationships it won't work. How can a husband love his wife like how Christ loved the church if that husband isn't following Christ and how can a woman respect and love her husband if she doesn't first respect and love the Lord? And also another problem with relationships is most people dont marry their bestfriend and they don't marry someone that they are really attracted too... without those 2 spicy ingredients along with serving God; a relationship will eventually crumble.
I am from another country in the Caribbean and what I notice in the US is that people don't get to know each other much. After one month of dating they start having sex. Which is a recipe for disaster.
I just want to say thank you Pastor Allen for mentioning you were single until you were 40... it is so easy to feel discouraged about yourself when everyone else around you is in a relationship and having kids already around thier 20s etc... its just encouraging to hear that you don't have to rush. I put my trust in God that he would help me find my husband when the time is right. I'd rather stay single than keep taking shots in the dark. Amen!
Hey minister Allen I needed this video 12yrs ago because I sure married unequally yoked partner and I divorced him he never changed and now he just recently passed away at the age of 48 sad 😔 situation.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 New International Version (NIV) 12 Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
Im always getting involved with unbelievers, and I don't know why. I keep praying for a good Christian man, but it doesnt happen. It could be one of two reasons. First, God is protecting good men from me; In other words, Im not good enough. Second, it could be where I live, in Seattle, where less than 1% are Christian.
once unequally yoked there is nothing you can do but surrender to christ and give up on whatever dreams you had for a kingdom marriage, keep the unbeliever in prayer and learn to live completely for the lord instead of the Cinderella romance you idolized above the creator
Hello! I am a christian in a muslim country. I am 34 and I have not found a single man with thesame beliefs... I do want to get married and have children. Please pray for me.
@Zap Brannigan ...Just gotta follow-up...You sure about this? That what you say is the unforgivable sin? I've had my moments when I've really lashed out at God, mocking Him. Wonder whether or not this turmoil is the result of Him and the Spirit working inside me.... :(
What about if you’re married to a non believer? In my defense, I was not a Christian when we got married. I am now, and my husband wants absolutely no part in church, or supporting me. He doesn’t necessarily talk me out of or try to hinder my relationship with God, but I’m definitely doing this all alone and feel changes in me that he just doesn’t understand. I’m worried what this will lead to.
YES , BROTHER ALLEN , HOW RIGHT YOU ARE IN EVERYTHING THAT YOU HAVE STATED !! ------ YES , MANY THANKS . JOHN U.K. -------- * CHRIST FOR ALL !! -------
Interesting fact about Samson, it's estimated that he died at 19-20 years old. I only learned that recently. That's kind of interesting because you realize how young he was, so his story makes a lot of sense.
Boy did you hit the nail on the head!!! I did EVERYTHING wrong just like you said!!! It is so clear now what I did that was so stupid!!! I’m not interested in a relationship at all ever again. But this will help me in friendships. Thank you so much!!!
Allen u highlighted my last comment and can u tell me how to convert them because no one is answering and I’m getting worried that one of my grandparents might pass away unexpectedly so pls message me or anyone thank you god bless u all
The holy spirit recommended me to watch this video today.....right when i just got home from work this new episode pops up right before i was about to make a mistake and hit on my new friend who got me this new job recently...😖*sigh*😖 sadly EVERYTHING Allen said in this video is EXACTLY what i needed to hear.......i know this isnt a coincidence alright holy spirit you win.....I'll listen and heed your warning.......*sigh*😔
They are not God's ordained that's why, most men and women are looking for perfectionist. I gained weight through out my depression. I think It was all God's doing here's why, men are looking for Barbie look a like while God's plan is who will love my daughter for who she is not what she can give or what they can get out of her. Marriage is is for better for worse. Hmm. People are miserable looking for Ms and Mr perfectionist. Yikes. Me run. Lol
Can anybody help me? I have autism and im struggling not to commit the unpardonable sin. Today in kroger, i kept having evil thoughts about God and the spirit. I even remembered what a classmate, who is an atheist, said about the holy spirit. And suddenly, i felt like i said something bad about the holy spirit. On our way to get food, i kept crying over it, but my parents didnt notice. Even right now, i feel ashamed. Can God still forgive me?
Most relationships are out of sequence and they don't ask the important questions before getting too deep such as marriage, children, finances, where to live and how to live, and the biggest, are you a Christian.
Why you tell a woman not to have sex with a man when they use sex as a weapon. They not supposed to do that. Doing that destroys relationships. My body is hers, hers is mine.
Wow, thank you so much for making this video on such an important topic. I really needed to hear this. Your video was very clear answer from God. Less than a month ago, non-christian guy expressed an interest in me however, after noticing some red flags I decided I this was not going work out so I walked away. Although sometimes I feel tempted, at the same time, I dont anyone or anything to interfere with my relationship with God or worse take me back to my old self before I got saved. Thank you so much! God bless. 👍
I totally agree... Unfortunately i made a lot of mistakes in my youth before i learned my lessons. I have a masters degree on bad decision making when it comes to relationships.
@THE BEAT by Allen Parr I agree that Samson fumbled several times with relationships and messed up in other areas. I have a question, what are your thoughts on verse 4 of Judges 16 "1 One day when Samson was in Timnah, one of the Philistine women caught his eye. 2 When he returned home, he told his father and mother, “A young Philistine woman in Timnah caught my eye. I want to marry her. Get her for me.” 3 His father and mother objected. “Isn’t there even one woman in our tribe or among all the Israelites you could marry?” they asked. “Why must you go to the pagan Philistines to find a wife?” But Samson told his father, “Get her for me! She looks good to me.” 4 *His father and mother didn’t realize the Lord was at work in this*, creating an opportunity to work against the Philistines, who ruled over Israel at that time."?
It's always an encouragement to hear that a video has helped someone in their walk with Christ! Thanks so much for watching and for your comment, Lacey
I think that a non believer can have a healthy relationship because and they have while keeping their faith. Compromise and understanding is always important in any relationship it’s a matter of respect and understanding what it means to love a person as a whole
Dear brothers and sisters i greet you in our Lord Jesus Christ Three years ago, I began to engage in faith. I started here in Croatia in the catholic church to visit mass and to read The Holy Scriptures. Very early on, I noticed that what is taught and practiced in the catholic church contradicts the Holy Scriptures and what Jesus taught us. In addition, some things in the Holy Bible were unclear to me and raised additional questions and doubts, such as: - If our God is the God of love and justice, why are we punished for the sins of Adam? Doesn't that contradict the principles of love and justice? An earthly father who is full of faults and weaknesses would not do such a thing, then how can we think such a thing about our Perfect Father? - How can a loving father throw his child forever in the hell? That also contradicts these principles. And besides, in 1 Timothy 2; 3 + 4: "For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth." So, if this were really so, that in spite of His will, people will be brought forever to hell and not saved, this would mean that He can not enforce His will and thus He is not the omnipotent God, if we follow these doctrines believe. - Why does it say in some passages that Jesus is the Son of God, in others the Son of Man and in others that He and God are one? Although I kept going to the Catholic Mass, at home I no longer practiced the prayers of the catholic church, but started talking like a child to my Father (Matthew 6: 7 + 8 ). After a short while, I got the answer to everything. He guided me through a friend of my mother to the revelations of Bertha Dudde. Now I know that the Bible does not contradict itself. God can not contradict himself. The truth is not in the word, in the letter, but in the understanding, in the interpretation of it. Now I know that Jesus is God and our Father in heaven, and I understand all the processes and contexts, and through this I have come to know that He is the perfect Love and not the strict, punitive God. As he promised us in John 14; 21: "He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him. " 16; 12 + 13: "I have yet many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now. Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. " 16; 25: "These things have I spoken unto you in proverbs: but the time cometh, when I shall no more speak unto you in proverbs, but I shall shew you plainly of the Father. " In the revelations of Bertha Dudde, His promise was fulfilled, just as every other of His promises was and will be fulfilled, for He never quits (Titus 1: 2) because His word is truth (John 17; 17) and all that will happen is what He said has (Hebrews 10; 23, Ezekiel 12; 25:28, etc.) My loved brothers and sisters, I ask you not to blindly believe me, but as written in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5 verses 19-21: " Quench not the Spirit. Despise not prophesyings. Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. " Before you begin to look, go into prayer and ask our Father Jesus Christ for enlightenment to put you in your heart, whether that's really His word or not. Do not read with your mind or knowledge, but with your heart, for knowledge (knowledge, understanding) puffeth up, love (heart) edifieth (1 Corinthians 8: 1), for the letter killeth, but the spirit giveth life (2 Corinthians 3: 6). ruclips.net/video/RFK2kg6Qs0M/видео.html My dear brothers and sisters, the situation in Christianity is alarming, frightening and very sad and for that very reason the end is near, the time is up. Only in a very small part are the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5; 22) recognizable, and thus only a very few truly belong to Christ, for only those who enjoy the fruits and grow in them are of his (Romans 8: 9). "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge…" Hosea 4; 6 I wish you a blessed day my beloved brothers and sisters, May the Love of our Lord Jesus Christ shine through your heart and lead you into the truth.
as for me, im not a constantly exciting person, yet i love to deep think and talk to a significant other / my lady. i enjoy just time together which is what folk do get time together just basking in the presence is very important. QUALITY TIME also moral and emotional support and just vibing with each other.
Great video......again! Been with my lady for 21yrs. And it’s not because I know what to do but I’ve learned what not to do😆 Still learning! God is good and he has established principles to follow in our relationship. It takes work and dedication. But when your big picture is to first honor God with your relationship, God blesses that union.
Good stuff brother. Came across a video today on church history and it was explained very precise. It help me to subscribe but more important it encourage me to not only read but study the history not what’s placed in front of me. Thanks allot and of course I have allot of catching up to do.
I have been to over 10 churches and have never thought they teach . They read the same books over and over again for holidays that they dont teach thinks people really need to know . When I heard you it was like a breath of fresh air ❤ I could hear your soul screaming with knowledge. How did you learn so much?
This is a very great video - really needed to hear this. Could you possibly make a video about the number 144 000 in the bible because I am confused that are only 144 000 going to be saved.
How relationships last:
Ecclesiastes 4:12
A 3 strand Cord is not easily broken
You + Them + God = ♾️
Wow mind blown
Makes sense
Thank you for that insight. I never understood the meaning of this passage until now. God bless you!
Any relationship without God being the foundation won't work, when both (man and woman) obey God a beautiful connection will be established.
That's very true.
True. My husband isn't a christian, even though he does believe in 'a god' (I came to Christ only a year ago) and it is difficult at times. He doesn't see faith the same as I do and is more into materialism than I am. Money is more important to him than it is to me. He will not go to church and I don't think he will anytime, even though I pray for it.
I still love him and hope God will open his heart one day.
At least he lets me go to church and doesn't mind I take my daughter to church as well.
@@desireebarhorst-weller1767 Amen!! Many people can relate to this on a personal level, I pray that conviction and salvation would locate your husband. I pray that you and your husband would eventually be on one accord in Jesus name amen! I have a video on my channel that deals with marriage deliverance, I would like for you to watch it.
@@Deliverance_Breakthrough18 There are successful relationships and marriages between people who don't believe in God. They should believe of course but people can be happy.
Lies,lies.
Please pray for all my family members, because none of them take Christianity seriously and I feel like the end is near
@Code Man may God bless you
I totally understand. I am in the same boat. You are correct in saying the end is near, no doubt about that. My friend told me when. I spoke to her about this is be an example of your faith. Most people want to SEE you walk in your faith and your commitment to Christ instead of hearing about it. I pray you have the boldness needed in the last days.
Praying for your family members salvation in the powerful name of Jesus. ❤️
Praying
I understand your pain because im in the same situation with my family yet when i try to reach out to them about my religion, they rebuke me. May the Lord help you and bless you
“Lord show me why my relationships keep failing!”
*Looks in mirror
*Realizes that is the answer
*Cries😂
Lol
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Lol! Thank God that He doesn't make it all dependent on us!
Hey Allen, you should do a series for teens or just in general, make more videos for teens but what you doing is fine. You do you Allen.
Great suggestion!
Efrain Miranda III He has a video for teens
yes that a great idea. i was saying just last week that, are these videos for Christians only or are you trying to reach everyone? reason being is that teens are at the cusp of fully accepting or rejecting God/Jesus as a whole. the angry at God video is great yet, did/does it reach those at the cusp in wanting to follow or just denouncing him. i love this channel, i repeat and binge watch weekly if not daily.
@@Sweet_lady1992 I was just saying in general, make more videos for teens or maybe a series like he's doing right now.
YES!
To tag team on #1 I believe it applies to lukewarm Christians as well. How can I allow a man to lead me in marriage if he never heard from God. Or have a relationship with God. He's getting his influence from the world and the world says that it's ok to cheat on your spouse and etc.
Elegant Anne so true sis
How funny I just finished reading Judges yesterday 😇 Awesome video sir...can you please say a prayer for me that I will meet my future Christian wife soon🙇♂️❤🙇♂️
Why would any Christian date someone, who won't join them in Heaven?
that is simply answered: because „heaven“ doesn‘t exist
Many factors play into that decision.
1. They do not know that person does not share their faith.
A person can want to be with you enough to agree with you on everything until after the Marriage.
2. A Christain can be lonely and a non believer can make them feel compleat. So they would give In to that feeling.
3. A Christain can make a sexual mistake that results in a preganacy.
That Christain may feel an oblication to marry that person.
4. Christains are still human. They desire to be in a relationship. They seek for friendships and Romance. Sometimes they are looking for approval from people. This mind set can are often lead the Christain to compromise their faith to gain that approval.
And 5. Making desessions with their emotions.
It is very easy to love a non believer. God does it all the time.
He just has relatioships masterd and we don't.
@@hankbellows So, let me get this right, you're on a Christian video just so you can troll? 🤔
@@f.-j.j.5738 what makes you think that my reply was trolling? I was just stating the facts. This video's topic is interesting nonetheless.
@@hankbellows actually it does. I struggled with unbelief but God revealed himself to me.
Bruh you were single until 40?😲🤯 I was really not expecting that. You just seem like someone who's had a successful marriage for many years. So much wisdom and transparency. God bless you and I'm really glad I subscribed.
Thank you for your kind word and support! God bless, The RaRa85
I did not know that
Lol..I'm 52..and still single...it's works though.
@@lyhmedia5225 you want to be single or have a spouse?
Hey everyone yes I’ll share my full testimony sometime. I’m planning to write a book one day also on singleness.
I personally think why most relationships fail is because most people today have this idea that love is supposed a constant mental orgasm
Agreed
oh my gosh yes, as for me, im not a constantly exciting person, yet i love to deep think and talk to a significant other / my lady. i enjoy just time together which is what folk do get time together just basking in the presence is very important. QUALITY TIME also moral and emotional support and just vibing with each other.
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Exactly.
Why would you as a Christian be with a non Christian? Brings nothing but trouble.
As he pointed out especially for men, sometimes a woman is just so fine that you're willing to give it a shot. Of course that's the wrong approach but it does happen and happens for women too who have been single long enough. I think most people want someone they're with to be attractive. The key is making sure everything else lines up before moving forward.
Lol there is no perfect relationships, whither you are with are believer or a non believer! Because God will put us to the test by rocking the boat to see what we will do. That is are we going to stand and fight with our spouse or are we going to humble ourselves and raise up in our spirit like Jesus did on the boat and calm the storm by speaking to it. So it is the same in any relationship, it is how are we going to react?
@@mereannaranui1205 but a person without the Spirit of God will not have Gods love to help them and guide them.
@@mereannaranui1205 that's why the bible says not to be unequally yoked
@@avafury4584 lol yes it does says not to be equally unyoked! But can you say that your relationship is prefect today? Because it doesn't happened overnight for a prefect relationship to come about. It needs to be strengthened and built to become a stable relationship.
Amen forgiveness, be quick to forgive a love action with God’s help.
Wow this message is right on time. Just yesterday me and this guy texted each other and i asked him do he believe in God he said he believe in a higher power not religion and he dont read the bible or go to church. I dont know what to say. Im not knocking down his believes or anyone thats your feelings and opinions. I respect he's opinions and every one. But i believe in God go to church and read the bible. I can't be with a man who is unequally yoke for me. God knows the way and the right man soulmate of me. God is right on time always. This video and reading bible scriptures and praying help answer my questions. Im still learning and growing in Jesus Christ and God bless everyone. Thank you God and allen. 👏👏😊
The spiritual part is lacking in most marriages.
It’s 12:15 am in the Philippines and I am watching this because (coincidentally) I finished reading Judges today! Yay.
THIS IS SOOO GOOD! No. 1 caught me right away "Settling for unequally yoked relationships". So many women make the mistake to assume their standards for a godly man are too high and too unique, so they settle for a counterfeit just to find out it can never work. THANKS FOR SHARING!!!!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾well said!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I used to be one of those! No more 🙅🏽♀️
Thanks again, i needed this brother Allen!
Great video brother Allen! Too bad most Christians dont really want to listen to the REAL WAY of getting into a marriage... most Christians and epecially the world love to hear FLUFF/FANTASIES when it comes to relationships. The truth is it's best if both the MAN & WOMAN become soldiers for Christ before getting married... because without UNCONDITIONAL CHRIST-TYPE-LOVE in relationships it won't work. How can a husband love his wife like how Christ loved the church if that husband isn't following Christ and how can a woman respect and love her husband if she doesn't first respect and love the Lord?
And also another problem with relationships is most people dont marry their bestfriend and they don't marry someone that they are really attracted too... without those 2 spicy ingredients along with serving God; a relationship will eventually crumble.
You're right! Definitely best for both people to be united to Christ before uniting with each other!
I am from another country in the Caribbean and what I notice in the US is that people don't get to know each other much. After one month of dating they start having sex. Which is a recipe for disaster.
Great subject! I have 2 grandsons in college I am sending this to.
Great message, God bless you my brother in Christ.
I just want to say thank you Pastor Allen for mentioning you were single until you were 40... it is so easy to feel discouraged about yourself when everyone else around you is in a relationship and having kids already around thier 20s etc... its just encouraging to hear that you don't have to rush. I put my trust in God that he would help me find my husband when the time is right. I'd rather stay single than keep taking shots in the dark. Amen!
Hey Allen when you get the chance can you please do a video about if there is missing scriptures in the Bible that would be great Thanks brother 👍
Hey minister Allen I needed this video 12yrs ago because I sure married unequally yoked partner and I divorced him he never changed and now he just recently passed away at the age of 48 sad 😔 situation.
I’m so sorry to hear of this passing.
I just pray that God have mercy on his soul 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I will never ever marry a non-Christian. I just want me. him, and Him.
Spraying I just did laundry yesterday something I threw away not because I don't like them.
Great channel my brother. 👍🏾
Can we get a video on the 3 degrees of glory?
Ecclesiastes 4:12 New International Version (NIV)
12 Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
Amen to that ad bosola! I agree. Thanks for sharing that. God bless!
Hey man absolutely love your videos, they have really helped me grow spiritually recently, God bless
Thank you so much for watching! Your comment means a lot, Hunter Tims.
Can you make a video addressing the current Joshua Harris news?
Im always getting involved with unbelievers, and I don't know why. I keep praying for a good Christian man, but it doesnt happen.
It could be one of two reasons. First, God is protecting good men from me; In other words, Im not good enough.
Second, it could be where I live, in Seattle, where less than 1% are Christian.
Hey Allen, won't it be a good idea to make a video about what if you're in a marriage with someone who doesn't believe in God?
once unequally yoked there is nothing you can do but surrender to christ and give up on whatever dreams you had for a kingdom marriage, keep the unbeliever in prayer and learn to live completely for the lord instead of the Cinderella romance you idolized above the creator
Hello! I am a christian in a muslim country. I am 34 and I have not found a single man with thesame beliefs... I do want to get married and have children. Please pray for me.
Trust the Lord, best of luck to you sister, praying for you. God bless
Plz pray for me. I keep having evil disturbing blasphemous thoughts all of the time and I don't wnat to go to hell
Zap Brannigan
Is the unforgivable sin something that is said?
@Zap Brannigan ...Just gotta follow-up...You sure about this? That what you say is the unforgivable sin? I've had my moments when I've really lashed out at God, mocking Him. Wonder whether or not this turmoil is the result of Him and the Spirit working inside me.... :(
Very sound counseling. What’s your take on dating websites?
What about if you’re married to a non believer? In my defense, I was not a Christian when we got married. I am now, and my husband wants absolutely no part in church, or supporting me. He doesn’t necessarily talk me out of or try to hinder my relationship with God, but I’m definitely doing this all alone and feel changes in me that he just doesn’t understand. I’m worried what this will lead to.
Why date if you are seeking Jesus Christ... why dirty your temple the temple of Jesus Christ
YES , BROTHER ALLEN , HOW RIGHT YOU ARE IN EVERYTHING THAT YOU HAVE STATED !! ------ YES , MANY THANKS . JOHN U.K. -------- * CHRIST FOR ALL !! -------
Interesting fact about Samson, it's estimated that he died at 19-20 years old. I only learned that recently. That's kind of interesting because you realize how young he was, so his story makes a lot of sense.
Hello from Philippines 😌☺️☺️
Boy did you hit the nail on the head!!! I did EVERYTHING wrong just like you said!!! It is so clear now what I did that was so stupid!!! I’m not interested in a relationship at all ever again. But this will help me in friendships. Thank you so much!!!
i love this video! very pure and true
The first one is definitely why I'm not in a relationship rn. Thanks for the video. I will be wise when picking my future husband.
No problem, glad I can help! Thanks so much for your support, Keturah L.!
I have learned the hard way! I will never ever compromise again 🤞🏽
Just did a teaching on this I am on the right track !!!,will borrow some of your points lol . if God allows me to teach it again
MJ Belle yes most definitely!!
Allen u highlighted my last comment and can u tell me how to convert them because no one is answering and I’m getting worried that one of my grandparents might pass away unexpectedly so pls message me or anyone thank you god bless u all
I receive it in the name of Jesus. 🙏❤️
Amen!
You should do a video on whether or not it's okay for a Christian to play Dungeons and Dragons.
The holy spirit recommended me to watch this video today.....right when i just got home from work this new episode pops up right before i was about to make a mistake and hit on my new friend who got me this new job recently...😖*sigh*😖 sadly EVERYTHING Allen said in this video is EXACTLY what i needed to hear.......i know this isnt a coincidence alright holy spirit you win.....I'll listen and heed your warning.......*sigh*😔
I'm so glad this video was right on time for you! Thanks for sharing!
This happens all the time, and many ignore these signs, 'all it is okay' and when it happens then it is too late baby.
I saw a enough to know better.
Please answer me Allen , why NIV has some verses deleted in it . Please respond . 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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@@thebeatagp thank you so much for your help and support sir
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I totally agree. Great video brother Allen. God bless you 🙂💕
Thanks so much for watching and for your comment Mae'Serenity Mykaa! God bless!
Im single lol.
They are not God's ordained that's why, most men and women are looking for perfectionist. I gained weight through out my depression. I think It was all God's doing here's why, men are looking for Barbie look a like while God's plan is who will love my daughter for who she is not what she can give or what they can get out of her. Marriage is is for better for worse. Hmm. People are miserable looking for Ms and Mr perfectionist. Yikes. Me run. Lol
That's why sex get complicated outside of marriage.
Can anybody help me? I have autism and im struggling not to commit the unpardonable sin. Today in kroger, i kept having evil thoughts about God and the spirit. I even remembered what a classmate, who is an atheist, said about the holy spirit. And suddenly, i felt like i said something bad about the holy spirit. On our way to get food, i kept crying over it, but my parents didnt notice. Even right now, i feel ashamed. Can God still forgive me?
This is good!! #convicted 😫😑
This video was made the day I came to know Jesus Christ as lord! My 25th b-day thank God I accepted his grace.
Most relationships are out of sequence and they don't ask the important questions before getting too deep such as marriage, children, finances, where to live and how to live, and the biggest, are you a Christian.
Great video but this guy talks so fast!! LOL please slow down
So true
The quality of your videos have really improved over the years! God bless you thanks for the videos
question, it would be cool if you taught from KJV. do you do NIV NLT for better english understanding?
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We should never ignore the red flags! If we do, it’s a guarantee we will look back and wish we did.
You well says it, I guide blind with kindness and love
I believe there is a sixth. Sometimes, it's just not the appointed time and we are trying to move into marriage and God is saying, not yet.
I cant. im cursed help pray for me im a duck up I dont know how to listen I jump the gun I get jealous fu
Why you tell a woman not to have sex with a man when they use sex as a weapon. They not supposed to do that. Doing that destroys relationships. My body is hers, hers is mine.
Wow, thank you so much for making this video on such an important topic. I really needed to hear this. Your video was very clear answer from God. Less than a month ago, non-christian guy expressed an interest in me however, after noticing some red flags I decided I this was not going work out so I walked away. Although sometimes I feel tempted, at the same time, I dont anyone or anything to interfere with my relationship with God or worse take me back to my old self before I got saved. Thank you so much! God bless. 👍
That is awesome! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and for sharing your perspective Endure P!
I totally agree... Unfortunately i made a lot of mistakes in my youth before i learned my lessons. I have a masters degree on bad decision making when it comes to relationships.
You're not alone in that! But thank God that He teaches us and stays with us even through and after our mistakes!
A friend of mine thinks its ok for his girlfriend to have relations with other women what can I say to help him
Extremely helpful. I'm not dating anyone but definitely helpful
Thanks so much Lady Shenna, I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thanks again for taking the time to watch. God bless Lady Shenna,
because we are a bunch of broken people trying to play house.
Great post, Allen! Keep up the good work!
Excellent teaching Bro Allen, thx for sharing 🌺🙂🏵️
Thanks for watching!
200% on point.
Thank you!
@THE BEAT by Allen Parr I agree that Samson fumbled several times with relationships and messed up in other areas. I have a question, what are your thoughts on verse 4 of Judges 16 "1 One day when Samson was in Timnah, one of the Philistine women caught his eye. 2 When he returned home, he told his father and mother, “A young Philistine woman in Timnah caught my eye. I want to marry her. Get her for me.” 3 His father and mother objected. “Isn’t there even one woman in our tribe or among all the Israelites you could marry?” they asked. “Why must you go to the pagan Philistines to find a wife?” But Samson told his father, “Get her for me! She looks good to me.” 4 *His father and mother didn’t realize the Lord was at work in this*, creating an opportunity to work against the Philistines, who ruled over Israel at that time."?
Praise God for your teachings Brother Allen. God bless you
Thank you so much!
Wow this was something god needed me to see thank you god bless you and everything you do!
You're welcome makayla chavez! Thanks so much!
How do I know if Gods calling me to do his work?
Dang almost 40!? U age very well
I needed this. I didn't want it at all but I desperately needed this.
It's always an encouragement to hear that a video has helped someone in their walk with Christ! Thanks so much for watching and for your comment, Lacey
@@thebeatagp thank you so much for getting on here and preaching Bible and not something that just makes us feel good.
I think that a non believer can have a healthy relationship because and they have while keeping their faith. Compromise and understanding is always important in any relationship it’s a matter of respect and understanding what it means to love a person as a whole
Jesus Rodriguez brother pray about it
Amen. You're speaking the truth👏👏👏
Thank you so much for watching! Your comment means a lot, Ginger Sugar.
They know better stranger don't.
I always why Samson kept playing games with Delilah😂😂😂. #Girlbye✌🏽 but I've done the same thing smh...
Dear brothers and sisters i greet you in our Lord Jesus Christ
Three years ago, I began to engage in faith. I started here in Croatia in the catholic church to visit mass and to read The Holy Scriptures. Very early on, I noticed that what is taught and practiced in the catholic church contradicts the Holy Scriptures and what Jesus taught us. In addition, some things in the Holy Bible were unclear to me and raised additional questions and doubts, such as:
- If our God is the God of love and justice, why are we punished for the sins of Adam? Doesn't that contradict the principles of love and justice? An earthly father who is full of faults and weaknesses would not do such a thing, then how can we think such a thing about our Perfect Father?
- How can a loving father throw his child forever in the hell? That also contradicts these principles. And besides, in 1 Timothy 2; 3 + 4: "For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth."
So, if this were really so, that in spite of His will, people will be brought forever to hell and not saved, this would mean that He can not enforce His will and thus He is not the omnipotent God, if we follow these doctrines believe.
- Why does it say in some passages that Jesus is the Son of God, in others the Son of Man and in others that He and God are one?
Although I kept going to the Catholic Mass, at home I no longer practiced the prayers of the catholic church, but started talking like a child to my Father (Matthew 6: 7 + 8 ). After a short while, I got the answer to everything. He guided me through a friend of my mother to the revelations of Bertha Dudde. Now I know that the Bible does not contradict itself. God can not contradict himself. The truth is not in the word, in the letter, but in the understanding, in the interpretation of it. Now I know that Jesus is God and our Father in heaven, and I understand all the processes and contexts, and through this I have come to know that He is the perfect Love and not the strict, punitive God. As he promised us in John 14; 21: "He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him. "
16; 12 + 13: "I have yet many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now. Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. "
16; 25: "These things have I spoken unto you in proverbs: but the time cometh, when I shall no more speak unto you in proverbs, but I shall shew you plainly of the Father. "
In the revelations of Bertha Dudde, His promise was fulfilled, just as every other of His promises was and will be fulfilled, for He never quits (Titus 1: 2) because His word is truth (John 17; 17) and all that will happen is what He said has (Hebrews 10; 23, Ezekiel 12; 25:28, etc.)
My loved brothers and sisters, I ask you not to blindly believe me, but as written in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5 verses 19-21: " Quench not the Spirit. Despise not prophesyings. Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. "
Before you begin to look, go into prayer and ask our Father Jesus Christ for enlightenment to put you in your heart, whether that's really His word or not. Do not read with your mind or knowledge, but with your heart, for knowledge (knowledge, understanding) puffeth up, love (heart) edifieth (1 Corinthians 8: 1), for the letter killeth, but the spirit giveth life (2 Corinthians 3: 6).
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My dear brothers and sisters, the situation in Christianity is alarming, frightening and very sad and for that very reason the end is near, the time is up. Only in a very small part are the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5; 22) recognizable, and thus only a very few truly belong to Christ, for only those who enjoy the fruits and grow in them are of his (Romans 8: 9).
"My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge…" Hosea 4; 6
I wish you a blessed day my beloved brothers and sisters, May the Love of our Lord Jesus Christ shine through your heart and lead you into the truth.
Do you have a podcast in spotify?
That was wonderful
AMEN!!!! Everything is nothing but the truth! Keep preaching brother! Our Father is looking down on you smiling! Bendiciones hermano, Dios te ama.
I just watched this video. Thank you for the Biblically based teaching and counsel.🙏🏽🙌🏽
as for me, im not a constantly exciting person, yet i love to deep think and talk to a significant other / my lady. i enjoy just time together which is what folk do get time together just basking in the presence is very important. QUALITY TIME also moral and emotional support and just vibing with each other.
Number Six >>>>> is Loneliness >>>>>>>
Wrapped up, tied up, and tangled up....
Great video......again!
Been with my lady for 21yrs. And it’s not because I know what to do but I’ve learned what not to do😆 Still learning!
God is good and he has established principles to follow in our relationship. It takes work and dedication. But when your big picture is to first honor God with your relationship, God blesses that union.
The cat is pissing everywhere around the house on the clothes in the bags who cause that I cleaned the house and the box.
What?
Good stuff brother. Came across a video today on church history and it was explained very precise. It help me to subscribe but more important it encourage me to not only read but study the history not what’s placed in front of me. Thanks allot and of course I have allot of catching up to do.
I have been to over 10 churches and have never thought they teach . They read the same books over and over again for holidays that they dont teach thinks people really need to know . When I heard you it was like a breath of fresh air ❤ I could hear your soul screaming with knowledge. How did you learn so much?
This is a very great video - really needed to hear this. Could you possibly make a video about the number 144 000 in the bible because I am confused that are only 144 000 going to be saved.