This was totally for me. I always cut everyone off... Friends... Relationships... I feel like I'm stuck being alone forever because I have no patience. Whenever I see the slightest sign of something I don't like, I run and I'm DONE! I pray that God changes me, because I don't want to be alone forever. 😕
josjumps4 You've done the first step. You acknowledged the problem, now you know what to pray for. You've got this, beautiful! Our Papa is with you, His Spirit will lead you!
Loyce KG Everyone has to keep this top of mind. At times people can get tired of doing what is necessary to repair the relationship but still want you to fight for them. Very draining to say the least.
Me too. I in the process of cutting someone off right now. I need major help. Funny that whenever I'm going through something a video always pop up with exactly what I'm going through. #Prideful #SelfReflectionTime
God’s protection being behind a failed relationship is actually comforting. I’ve NEVER consulted God before getting in a relationship. And I thought I was in love. I’m excited to experience love His way.
Look at God sending a word right on time! 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Soo true my cut off game is stronger than Thanos, especially when things aren’t going how I perceived them to. I’m currently in a season where God is teaching me how to be patient. I was so down thinking everything in my life is on hold or pause, but God’s been telling me to be patient because he’s simply preparing me for what’s to come. So to anyone who’s going through the same thing, just keep the faith and endurance God’s gonna blow your mind.
I’m always getting myself in the wrong relationships. So that’s why I leave the relationship but I think I’m doing it because I feel lonely. Thank God he has intervened in my life! I’m waiting for the right one now 🙏🏻
Me neither, but they look like a lot of hard work so I'm just waiting on God for him to send me the correct person cuz I'm not about to put blood sweat and tears into a relationship God didn't want me in. No sir
Yes. Cut-off game is on fleek. If I err in this, I err on the side of righteousness. I can't ask God to send one according to His perfect will for my life (even if that means no one), and then just accept whatever comes along because it's new and shiny or because I'm tired of waiting now. If the roster is based on the Word of God, and God sends him, he will be equipped to survive the cut.
I've never been into a relationship because I've been waiting for someone that has the same value and walk with God. Although I've been through failures since I disobey things that aren't right. I hope and pray to have a Godly Man and I will give testimony to God for bringing me that far. 💕
Thank You, God, all my past relationships didn't work out. Yes, I used to have abandonment issues, yes, You are healing me and molding me and protecting me!
I am a very patient person. I will definitely say I work things through past the expiration date. Even when I walk away, I'm obsessing if i was mean. Re evaluating the situation over and over till I find peace. 😥
I ❤️ you both!! lol Ive been watching you guys for approximately 1 year since my Divorce of 10 years!! We went to premarital counseling before we got married and i was told by my pastor of a church I grew up in not to marry him! I got mad at my Pastor because I thought he wanted me to be single forever! Lol I disobeyed God and MARRIED him anyway from a court house Judge!! And we both went through Hell for 10 years! So when God tells you No; Don’t disobey God!! Life time to raise 2 beautiful children with the wrong man! Thank God he has forgiven us and we can raise the kids as best we can! Your ministry has given me such much enlightenment and peace with waiting on God and the importance of being Equally yoked!! God Bless your ministry!!! Thank you!!!
This definitely hit home for me. I have to say it hurts more when you know it’s God bc it’s something you wanted so bad but, it’s absolutely nothing you can do to change it; except continue in pain and dysfunction. I’m just hopeful for the future and I have faith and peace knowing that it only gets better from here.
Ikr.I'm struggling with this now..and it's hard! If God's will for my life means my current relationship is over after 4yrs I'm so struggling to except it ..I want it to work so much..don't know for sure as of right now if my 4yr relationship is over for good or not...
Thank you for this. I know I have issues that I am currently working on. But it does get hard especially when someone really good unexpectedly comes along and you pray about it and it seems like you’re in the right place until you’re not and then you’re forced to let it go.
AMEN!! I had this problem. I know GOD has something better in store for me. I had to learn alot of lessons. I am a empath that is my problem. I put my love life in God's hands.
God has been protecting me and I thank God they didn't work out. I also was the problem. I had a perfect exit plan, fear of commitment, so I leave first. I am pretty sure God woke me up to listen and to evaluate myself before he can place me in the next relationship and family. Thank you!
That's so right Y'all! The protecting part is so true, like I remember having crushes on guys who I thought were the right one for me, but when I look back now and see why those men didn't go out with me, I realized that God was protecting me from them. Now I see why it wouldn't work out. It's better to trust and wait on the Lord and I'm so glad that I didn't get into those relationships! Phew! God is good.
Yes Glory to God. Amen Flowers family! Many women say (including myself) “yeah girl I’m just waiting for the Lord to send my husband.” And God is like “sis your not even dressed.” {Matthew25} so Lord help us women get dressed and stay ready for our husbands so when You do send him we do not have to get ready! Amen🙏🏽
This is so me sadly. I put up that wall quick. I call myself the runaway bride, but before looking for the " husband" i was the exit specialist.. now im both. Sad... Cant seem to get over it. Too scared Sad... Its leading me to be the "older alone" woman. Very very sad😢 God help me
Self reflection is my middle name. Piggybacking on your video, "There are some people you can't help!" Has taught me that there must be a willingness to communicate w/ empathy (I feel). However, you're always sought as being needy, a complainer, etc. Never able to empathise, never able to show compassion. It becomes a 3-ring circus. When you are able to share your concerns and it's being label as another complaint. Some ppl can't / won't see the man/women in their mirror.
Pastor I'm very Namibia I never had Father love. But listening to you and your wife is making me fall in love with me. I'm greatful to get to know you too. I'm greatful to your teaching I'm selfish I'm going to work on myself. thank you
This was specifically for me. I use to be that individual who would cut a person off in the blink of an eye. I’m so happy GOD is changing me & renewing my mind. Thank you for this message. You both are a blessing. ♥️
I keep picking and not heaven and that's why I am in recovery right now with my baby daddy, for the second time, I pick my preferences and that is another problem I got but God is faithful enough to heal me, teach me and pick for me
Speak to my soul! This message was on point going through it and I Need to Trust God and His Word for me! #SoloWaitingOnGodNow❤️🙏 Thank U for the obedience in sharing this topic! God Bless
Yes- this is real talk. Funny thing is, I kept scrolling past this video the past week or so.... finally watched it & it definitely speaks to me, right where I am now.😇
I thank God ! He has showed me things and I just try to wait on him. At times lord knows I have messed up and had to repent I felt so much better. I am going thru something right now I just trust God this guy really pushes me but I trust God. I feel like he is playing me again and again so in so many word I may have to exit this time for good. To old and tired of the bullshit.
i noticed i am not ready and also God is protecting me because he know who i’m supposed to be with but i have to work on self because i always worrying if everyone else ok but often forget about myself
Guys, great video. Just had to pause it for a second to tell you what a lovely couple you are. Just seeing you guys together gives me hope! Btw, my cut off IS strong! You're right.... God forgive me.
Thank God it didn’t work out. Hallelujah Thank you Jesus for protecting me you will have me ready for the right man of God at the right time. Amen. Blessings 🙏👑✝️
Thank God for both of your past failed relationships, lol! Thanking Him for bringing the both of you together to encourage people in relationships and their walk with God🙏🏿 God bless your union
This really blessed me. Just came out of a relationship and it hurts but I think God still has some maintenance to do. Be blessed, my brother and sister in Christ.. 🙏🏾
This is so me. I know my cut off game is pretty strong. Yes ive been hurt and yes i do protect myself from being hurt. Once i sense hes going to act out or lie i will def let it go. I have asked my friends what do they think of me and i was told that im spoiled, lil bossy with a good heart. I just need to open up a lil more. Its just hard to trust someone a man with my heart just for him to break it. Yes i have started fasting and praying. GOD if hes for me let it be if not show me. Trust me GOD reveals all!!!!
That's exactly what God had a prophet tell me concerning my last relationship...that He rejected/ ended it, the man I was in love with didn't nor did I. It was God, because He said that the relationship would hinder me from the destiny He had for me. It was very hard for me to receive this as I've grown accustomed to men rejecting me. I couldn't understand why God would end a relationship where two people loved each other, and I still don't if I am completely honest. But, I guess sometimes love just isn't enough.
This hit right home am in tears 😭 everything you guys said is me please remember me in your prayers married it last for three months 💔 am so afraid to trust again and am good at existing I need help even with my family and children God bless you guys 🙏 keep up the good work
Yall are so stinking cute!!!! I Thank God for your ministry....I have made it my choice to to do the work in my single season thatnks for being available and willing to do the teaching.
Thank God it didn’t work out. I’ve head distractions in my life and have been distraction to others. I’m just sooooo grateful Jesus made it not work. All glory be to God and may HIS will always be done and not might because mine would kill me for sure. I’ve seen where it leads and I don’t want to experience something like that ever again… in Jesus name I pray, AMEN 🙏🏿
Thank the MostHigh God for protecting me it didn't work I tried and I tried and it still didn't work but God is healing me and thank him for protecting me The Best Is Yet To Come Hallelujah!!!!🤗
U 2 ARE HILARIOUS 2Gether....u r right I cut people off, instead of PRAYING & Loving Thruuuu obstacles...HELPME!😔 however, I did not fully, properly ask, pray & consult God b4 ENTERING n2 the past (GOOD) relationships I've had & correct me do u love him & work thru on-line CHEATING🤔🤔🤔
God has been protecting me and molding me, and recently brought a wonderful man into my life that perfectly fits me. Truly his timing is the best ❤
Amen. Im still waiting for God to bring mines!!!
Congratulations!
Yay! Congratulations!
He is a timely God. Congratulations!
Amen. Congratulations
This was totally for me. I always cut everyone off... Friends... Relationships... I feel like I'm stuck being alone forever because I have no patience. Whenever I see the slightest sign of something I don't like, I run and I'm DONE! I pray that God changes me, because I don't want to be alone forever. 😕
josjumps4 You've done the first step. You acknowledged the problem, now you know what to pray for. You've got this, beautiful! Our Papa is with you, His Spirit will lead you!
@@melindafaye2834 Thank you so much!
Practice grace with yourself and then it will make it easier to extend grace to others. God's got you, he'll help you😊
@@clarajulia1955 Thank you. 😊
@josjumps4 Me too 😞 Help us Jesus🙏🏾🙏🏾
"You don't fight against each other-you fight for each other"
Loyce KG Everyone has to keep this top of mind. At times people can get tired of doing what is necessary to repair the relationship but still want you to fight for them. Very draining to say the least.
Abandonment issues are hard to get over when being involved with inconsistent and dismissive people.
“What if God told you, “It wasn’t you it wasn’t them, I have better. I’m not punishing you I’m protecting you”
My exit game is strong! I confess! Help!!!
Me too . I got delivered lol
@@ritamojawk2699 I am in still in the process of being delivered. Congrats on your freedom from the exit game.
Me too. I in the process of cutting someone off right now. I need major help. Funny that whenever I'm going through something a video always pop up with exactly what I'm going through. #Prideful #SelfReflectionTime
@@allib876 I guess our tolerance for "grown boys" and "time wasters" is at zero. At least mine is.
Me too . I am quick to block . Especially if they disturb my peace
Thank God It Didn't work out ...... Thank you Lord for protecting me
Yes Lord!!!
Same way! Alleluia !
Everyone's a counterfeit, but we don't think we are.... wow!!!
AS You have much healing to do grasshopper. That bias statement is evident of that.
Mmmm I’m not a counterfeit, I’m a woman still doing Gods work tho. Never been a wolf in sheep’s clothing
We are chipping away abandonment issues, childhood traumas, selfishness, impatience and we are going to give ourselves a fair chance.
God’s protection being behind a failed relationship is actually comforting. I’ve NEVER consulted God before getting in a relationship. And I thought I was in love. I’m excited to experience love His way.
Look at God sending a word right on time! 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Soo true my cut off game is stronger than Thanos, especially when things aren’t going how I perceived them to. I’m currently in a season where God is teaching me how to be patient. I was so down thinking everything in my life is on hold or pause, but God’s been telling me to be patient because he’s simply preparing me for what’s to come. So to anyone who’s going through the same thing, just keep the faith and endurance God’s gonna blow your mind.
God’s protection is very necessary. Thanks guys
Amen
I’m always getting myself in the wrong relationships. So that’s why I leave the relationship but I think I’m doing it because I feel lonely. Thank God he has intervened in my life! I’m waiting for the right one now 🙏🏻
Same here
I've never had a long-term relationship.
Me neither, but they look like a lot of hard work so I'm just waiting on God for him to send me the correct person cuz I'm not about to put blood sweat and tears into a relationship God didn't want me in. No sir
It’s better to wait long than marry wrong in the words of the Flowers ❤️
Yeah, neither have I.
@@carameldarling2980 yeah, I agree.
If he isnt the one and I usually know deep down, I dont wanna do the work. It's too much.
@@keysham8494 now that will PREACH!
Thank God! For His protection! You had as have better🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿.
Yes. Cut-off game is on fleek. If I err in this, I err on the side of righteousness. I can't ask God to send one according to His perfect will for my life (even if that means no one), and then just accept whatever comes along because it's new and shiny or because I'm tired of waiting now. If the roster is based on the Word of God, and God sends him, he will be equipped to survive the cut.
Yes, My exit game is fierce when I see toxicity, a lack of communication or lopsided effort.
Same issues with different names. That's deep.
I've never been into a relationship because I've been waiting for someone that has the same value and walk with God. Although I've been through failures since I disobey things that aren't right. I hope and pray to have a Godly Man and I will give testimony to God for bringing me that far. 💕
Guess God is protecting me. Thank God, keep working on me and make me ready for what you’re about to do in and through me.
All praises to the most high, I’m so thankful it didn’t work out because he was protecting me.
“I don’t know why we talking like this” lol
God protects his angels. Don't put yourself in situations you know you should not be in.
Y’all have no idea how much this video just helped me. I’ve been finding myself depressed and desperate. Thank you for the insight.
Thank You, God, all my past relationships didn't work out. Yes, I used to have abandonment issues, yes, You are healing me and molding me and protecting me!
Thank God it didn’t work out! God was/is protecting me. My kingdom marriage is on its way! 🙌🏼❤️
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽THANK GOD THAT HE WAS PROTECTING ME!!!!”😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I am a very patient person. I will definitely say I work things through past the expiration date. Even when I walk away, I'm obsessing if i was mean. Re evaluating the situation over and over till I find peace. 😥
Lady Shenna me tooooo! Always asking “what if”
I ❤️ you both!! lol
Ive been watching you guys for approximately 1 year since my Divorce of 10 years!!
We went to premarital counseling before we got married and i was told by my pastor of a church I grew up in not to marry him!
I got mad at my Pastor because I thought he wanted me to be single forever! Lol
I disobeyed God and MARRIED him anyway from a court house Judge!!
And we both went through Hell for 10 years!
So when God tells you No; Don’t disobey God!!
Life time to raise 2 beautiful children with the wrong man! Thank God he has forgiven us and we can raise the kids as best we can!
Your ministry has given me such much enlightenment and peace with waiting on God and the importance of being Equally yoked!!
God Bless your ministry!!!
Thank you!!!
Wow! That is so deep. Thanks for sharing.
Awesome Testimony. Glad you made it through.
This definitely hit home for me. I have to say it hurts more when you know it’s God bc it’s something you wanted so bad but, it’s absolutely nothing you can do to change it; except continue in pain and dysfunction. I’m just hopeful for the future and I have faith and peace knowing that it only gets better from here.
Ikr.I'm struggling with this now..and it's hard! If God's will for my life means my current relationship is over after 4yrs I'm so struggling to except it ..I want it to work so much..don't know for sure as of right now if my 4yr relationship is over for good or not...
Thank you for this. I know I have issues that I am currently working on. But it does get hard especially when someone really good unexpectedly comes along and you pray about it and it seems like you’re in the right place until you’re not and then you’re forced to let it go.
I know this situation very well with me!
Thank God...it didn't work out!!!
I trust you God.
AMEN!! I had this problem. I know GOD has something better in store for me. I had to learn alot of lessons. I am a empath that is my problem. I put my love life in God's hands.
Seek Christ in all relationships.
#Godswill
Ayyyyeeeee!!! God blocked it! I trust him with my future.. thru the pain.
God has been protecting me and I thank God they didn't work out. I also was the problem. I had a perfect exit plan, fear of commitment, so I leave first. I am pretty sure God woke me up to listen and to evaluate myself before he can place me in the next relationship and family. Thank you!
That's so me!
Praise God for your open mindedness
Praise God, THANK YOU for the relationships that didn`t work out. Because I know you have my kingdom man waiting to find me. AMEN
This!!!! I truly believe my past relationships didn't work out because God was protecting me. Light attracts darkness as well.
That's so right Y'all! The protecting part is so true, like I remember having crushes on guys who I thought were the right one for me, but when I look back now and see why those men didn't go out with me, I realized that God was protecting me from them. Now I see why it wouldn't work out. It's better to trust and wait on the Lord and I'm so glad that I didn't get into those relationships! Phew! God is good.
Take a moment to praise for the things that didn’t work out!❤️❤️❤️
Yes Glory to God. Amen Flowers family! Many women say (including myself) “yeah girl I’m just waiting for the Lord to send my husband.” And God is like “sis your not even dressed.” {Matthew25} so Lord help us women get dressed and stay ready for our husbands so when You do send him we do not have to get ready! Amen🙏🏽
"Hello somebody".............so right!
This is so me sadly. I put up that wall quick. I call myself the runaway bride, but before looking for the " husband" i was the exit specialist.. now im both. Sad... Cant seem to get over it. Too scared
Sad... Its leading me to be the "older alone" woman. Very very sad😢
God help me
I am very quick to cut people off and I’m much better at “goodbye” rather than “let’s work this out”
Self reflection is my middle name. Piggybacking on your video, "There are some people you can't help!" Has taught me that there must be a willingness to communicate w/ empathy (I feel). However, you're always sought as being needy, a complainer, etc. Never able to empathise, never able to show compassion. It becomes a 3-ring circus. When you are able to share your concerns and it's being label as another complaint. Some ppl can't / won't see the man/women in their mirror.
HALLELUJAH!
I thank God the distractions Did NOT WORK OUT!
Amen on number 3 , it can't be everyone that comes into your life is the problem
I thank GOD for the close doors.
Thank you Lord, thanks Redefined TV.
God is really working on me, we are digging away at things together :)
I trust Him.
Amen!!! the divine connection based on one's appointment by God on Earth
Ive been learning to wait on God, so I dont have to exit all the time!
YESSSS‼️‼️‼️
Praise God. Thank you Heavenly Father that you protected me from bad relationships. Glory to you forever 😇🙌🏻
You two are heaven sent for sure. God purposed this union for His assignment-defining relationships righteously. God thank you for this channel.
Pastor I'm very Namibia I never had Father love. But listening to you and your wife is making me fall in love with me. I'm greatful to get to know you too. I'm greatful to your teaching I'm selfish I'm going to work on myself. thank you
This was specifically for me. I use to be that individual who would cut a person off in the blink of an eye. I’m so happy GOD is changing me & renewing my mind. Thank you for this message. You both are a blessing. ♥️
I keep picking and not heaven and that's why I am in recovery right now with my baby daddy, for the second time, I pick my preferences and that is another problem I got but God is faithful enough to heal me, teach me and pick for me
I thank God for Protecting me
God has better! Trust in His plan.
Speak to my soul! This message was on point going through it and I Need to Trust God and His Word for me! #SoloWaitingOnGodNow❤️🙏 Thank U for the obedience in sharing this topic! God Bless
Yes- this is real talk. Funny thing is, I kept scrolling past this video the past week or so.... finally watched it & it definitely speaks to me, right where I am now.😇
I think for me, God is protecting me !!!
I have become an extra specialist and for good reason! As a matter-of-fact, I have my doctorate in it!
That should have said I I have become an exit specialist!
I received this message. God is protecting me. Hallelu 🙌jah
Thank you for all this and the last point it's true God was really protecting me from my last relationship
That was definitely me exit expert. I have now decided to sit and be still... And I definitely think it's me, so I am doing some self evaluation..
I thank God ! He has showed me things and I just try to wait on him. At times lord knows I have messed up and had to repent I felt so much better. I am going thru something right now I just trust God this guy really pushes me but I trust God. I feel like he is playing me again and again so in so many word I may have to exit this time for good. To old and tired of the bullshit.
God was protecting me from that bad relationship and i am trust God process
It's failed because God is protecting me for my real assignment "Amen"
i noticed i am not ready and also God is protecting me because he know who i’m supposed to be with but i have to work on self because i always worrying if everyone else ok but often forget about myself
YES GOD!!!!!🙌🏾 *Praise Dance Break* 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Whew lawd.... I need a hug after this😓. The way y’all unpacked that Fatal Attraction this was a MAJOR KEY🔑 Honestly . Thank you ❣️I just love y’all 😊
Guys, great video. Just had to pause it for a second to tell you what a lovely couple you are. Just seeing you guys together gives me hope! Btw, my cut off IS strong! You're right.... God forgive me.
Thank God it didn’t work out. Hallelujah Thank you Jesus for protecting me you will have me ready for the right man of God at the right time. Amen. Blessings 🙏👑✝️
Thank God for both of your past failed relationships, lol! Thanking Him for bringing the both of you together to encourage people in relationships and their walk with God🙏🏿 God bless your union
God protected me. Help me be open to ur will God
This really blessed me. Just came out of a relationship and it hurts but I think God still has some maintenance to do. Be blessed, my brother and sister in Christ.. 🙏🏾
Thank God for the things that didn't happen to me yes amen
My name is Towanda and I'm an 'exit strategist'🤦♀️
Y'all are PREACHIN!!!!!
Amen it’s been me ! Thank you God for protecting me and preparing me
Thank God it didn't work out... God was protecting me... Amen!
Amen, God Thanks for protecting me
I am learning how to love people through 🙏 My cut off game WAS very strong. I am not there yet, it’s a process. but I’m getting out my own way.
This is so me. I know my cut off game is pretty strong. Yes ive been hurt and yes i do protect myself from being hurt. Once i sense hes going to act out or lie i will def let it go. I have asked my friends what do they think of me and i was told that im spoiled, lil bossy with a good heart. I just need to open up a lil more. Its just hard to trust someone a man with my heart just for him to break it. Yes i have started fasting and praying. GOD if hes for me let it be if not show me. Trust me GOD reveals all!!!!
That's exactly what God had a prophet tell me concerning my last relationship...that He rejected/ ended it, the man I was in love with didn't nor did I. It was God, because He said that the relationship would hinder me from the destiny He had for me. It was very hard for me to receive this as I've grown accustomed to men rejecting me. I couldn't understand why God would end a relationship where two people loved each other, and I still don't if I am completely honest. But, I guess sometimes love just isn't enough.
This hit right home am in tears 😭 everything you guys said is me please remember me in your prayers married it last for three months 💔 am so afraid to trust again and am good at existing I need help even with my family and children God bless you guys 🙏 keep up the good work
Praise Jesus for the dysfunctional and wring relationships that didn't work out.
💃💃💃💃Thank God for protecting me
Thank god for protecting me. 🙏🙏🙏
Aman thank God it didn't workout cause I needed these videos in my life thank God for your marriage
Yall are so stinking cute!!!! I Thank God for your ministry....I have made it my choice to to do the work in my single season thatnks for being available and willing to do the teaching.
My cut off game was so strong but !!! Thank God it didn't work cause yall are such an influence to me while im going thru these changes!!
Thank God it didn’t work out. I’ve head distractions in my life and have been distraction to others. I’m just sooooo grateful Jesus made it not work. All glory be to God and may HIS will always be done and not might because mine would kill me for sure. I’ve seen where it leads and I don’t want to experience something like that ever again… in Jesus name I pray, AMEN 🙏🏿
I love this special couple.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾YESSSSSS!!! Thank you God for saving me from those counterfeits!
Thank you Lord it didn't work..
Thank you for protecting me🙏🙏🔥🔥
Thank the MostHigh God for protecting me it didn't work I tried and I tried and it still didn't work but God is healing me and thank him for protecting me The Best Is Yet To Come Hallelujah!!!!🤗
Favor is protection
U 2 ARE HILARIOUS 2Gether....u r right
I cut people off, instead of PRAYING & Loving Thruuuu obstacles...HELPME!😔 however, I did not fully, properly ask, pray & consult God b4 ENTERING n2 the past (GOOD) relationships I've had & correct me do u love him & work thru on-line CHEATING🤔🤔🤔
I am an exit specialist. I block, delete and exit. If people tick me off, I am gone with no explanation.