a weak man prioritizes pleasure over purpose

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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2025

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  • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
    @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +18

    it's purpose over pleasure over here, let's lock in.. double upload
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  • @jakobyjarmuzek6848
    @jakobyjarmuzek6848 3 месяца назад +63

    “Perfection is unrealistic; unattainable. Yet if you reach for perfection, you may catch excellence.”

  • @Zimcautions_a2
    @Zimcautions_a2 3 месяца назад +173

    Iam off porn Addiction and masturbation.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +34

      💪🏽💯 keep it up brother

    • @brunothedreamer2543
      @brunothedreamer2543 3 месяца назад +8

      me too

    • @AnellaSharpes-px3xq
      @AnellaSharpes-px3xq 3 месяца назад +5

      Congratulations keep up the
      good work God goes before you
      thanks for sharing this is powerful.

    • @Zimcautions_a2
      @Zimcautions_a2 3 месяца назад +4

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen yh thank you bro.

    • @Zimcautions_a2
      @Zimcautions_a2 3 месяца назад +4

      @@AnellaSharpes-px3xq yes bro i appreciate it.

  • @Uncommony
    @Uncommony 3 месяца назад +12

    Very true, and no one wants to be weak. It’s hard. I quit 6 bad habits, gaming, alcohol, weed, cigarettes, fast food, and sugar, but most importantly, I quit being a weak man. Stay Uncommon!

  • @humbledev_
    @humbledev_ 3 месяца назад +26

    Lust was my struggle, now it’s smoking weed. There will always be test fellas.
    I try to listen to outwitting the devil every morning. You just reminded me of that

    • @Seditionzz
      @Seditionzz 3 месяца назад +5

      Both go hand to hand , why it’s best to be sober minded

    • @humbledev_
      @humbledev_ 3 месяца назад +3

      @@Seditionzz @ I be trying bro, I didn’t even have a problem with weed until I started doing semen retention and stop watching corn. Shit is wild

    • @Seditionzz
      @Seditionzz 3 месяца назад +3

      @@humbledev_ haha yeah man the closer you try getting righteous more temptation comes! Idk why it’s like that for us who want to do right, a lot of spiritual warfare in the background

    • @brandonrothsman2665
      @brandonrothsman2665 3 месяца назад

      @@humbledev_just know your life will change without a doubt if you continue making the right choices

  • @biblestoriessimplified-t9n
    @biblestoriessimplified-t9n 3 месяца назад +11

    You're blessed brother. And to the guys listening in, please lets take this message seriously. Next year a time like this, you'll look back and be grateful for how great your life will be.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад

      Well said brother! God bless you and thank you! 🙏🏽

  • @nickbergstrom89
    @nickbergstrom89 3 месяца назад +16

    I'm currently reading a book called "Healing The Masculine Soul" by Gordon Dalbey, and it's absolutely necessary for young men or just men in general today. It addresses the lack of masculine purpose and the necessary steps to take and to reclaim our true masculine strength.

  • @KidNamedKuddy
    @KidNamedKuddy 3 месяца назад +11

    Man I’m supposed to be reading & I stopped & went on IG and tapped some thirst trap, swiped one slide and immediately had one of those “looking off into the camera breaking the 4th wall” moments 😂😂😂
    We don’t do that anymore. Weak men prioritize pleasure over purpose. We are not weak men.
    We are purpose driven men. Straight up

  • @lilfluffy9067
    @lilfluffy9067 3 месяца назад +13

    "The spirit is wiling but the flesh is weak..."
    I make sure to log in my journal... to track myself.. now it feels natural... but i know the enemy dont stop thr.. so i kept praying the psalm 91 with me..
    THANKS for reminding us maliq ♡
    NO TO PLEASURE DRIVEN..
    but a PURPOSE DRIVEN ♡

  • @briangarcia8384
    @briangarcia8384 3 месяца назад +6

    Goddamn. Where was this when i was growing up? It isn't enough to just tell people to do this or do that. It has to be a message and not just a sentence, phrase, or demand.

  • @KidNamedKuddy
    @KidNamedKuddy 3 месяца назад +6

    This saved me from making the wrong decisions to start the day lol. Thanks brother. We've all got to quit the bullshit

  • @saint_dreamm
    @saint_dreamm 3 месяца назад +2

    Locked in ! I also used to say that - “it’s no way for me to lose”. I know that with focus I’m limitless. God bless you. The world will know that there are Kings in it, there’s going to be an era of simultaneous coronations for all who have stayed true to purpose. Love.

  • @jeshant10
    @jeshant10 3 месяца назад +3

    thanks mate im a 18 year boy writing my finals NSC this is so insipiring today now a few mins ago i think the devil sent this guy to assault and call me horrible names just over a soccer game but i remained humble and kept quiet

    • @ethaatiempo7281
      @ethaatiempo7281 2 месяца назад

      @@jeshant10 Well done, young man. God loves you and loves this aggressive man. He will teach him the lesson he has to learn. I send you soothing to your heart.

  • @peteo8314
    @peteo8314 2 месяца назад +1

    Hands down the best RUclips channel I’ve come across i watch your videos almost every day keep it up your doing important work!!

  • @tivon85
    @tivon85 3 месяца назад +5

    Needed this video. Tired of chasing women. Really time to focus on myself

  • @god33j
    @god33j 3 месяца назад +8

    Needed this brother 🎉

  • @treysmith6255
    @treysmith6255 3 месяца назад +3

    Outwitting the devil is a book everyone should definitely read‼️

  • @tiiiadore1455
    @tiiiadore1455 3 месяца назад +9

    I used to put pleasure before purpose now it’s purpose before pleasure all day everyday🙌🏾to the point that if we don’t align then I’m not wasting my time and energy on/with you. I’ll pour into myself first before I be with any and everybody just because they want me💯
    “The more immediate pleasure you get from an action, the more you should question whether it aligns with your long term goals”
    “With bad habits, the immediate outcome usually feels good, but the ultimate outcome feels bad. With good habits, the immediate outcome is unenjoyable but the ultimate outcome feels good”

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +1

      everything you said is facts!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽 purpose first!

  • @tiiiadore1455
    @tiiiadore1455 3 месяца назад +18

    I love building a relationship with God, I be talking to him and laughing with him like he’s right next to me🥹

  • @mikefouse7731
    @mikefouse7731 23 дня назад

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you bro. I just need to stay more positive and know that I can be better. I was sober for over a year and threw everything I loved away for a few days of pleasure.

  • @Yhai
    @Yhai 3 месяца назад +1

    You inspiring bro - speaking real life 💐

  • @RBSGAMER11Games
    @RBSGAMER11Games 3 месяца назад

    This was needed thank you 🙏 locking in as in now nobody can stop me amen

  • @ninabiersack5802
    @ninabiersack5802 3 месяца назад +3

    I thank God for putting this video on my life at this exact moment. 30 seconds before 9:17 I was crocheting a blanket that I need to finish for a friend and a coworker came to the office to smoke, looked at me and offered me weed; I said no, thank you. As soon as he left I started crying because I’ve been fighting my cravings this whole week. I’ve been clean for a month, a big win for me. Thank you so much for this video at this exact moment.💖

  • @MrCarlosv68
    @MrCarlosv68 3 месяца назад +1

    This the type of mindset I need around me. Thanks bro keep doing your thing. you win we all win 🏆 that champion mindset

  • @Gstar2012lolo
    @Gstar2012lolo 3 месяца назад

    You speaking facts bro. I wish this message was stronger in society, but they just want us to be of this world. Needed to hear this today 🙏🏾🔥. Going gym after work and committing to my own promises.

  • @aaronhudgins5810
    @aaronhudgins5810 3 месяца назад +1

    Yes sir bro ! Another empowering video for us men

  • @mphomdletshe5258
    @mphomdletshe5258 3 месяца назад +2

    Bro You speaking facts.. im watching from South Africa just wanna let you know you inspire me with your words I recently discovered your videos you recorded 10 months ago but I relate.. big up my brother🎉🎉

  • @Grimmeyy420
    @Grimmeyy420 3 месяца назад +4

    “why you still here, and there’s people that’s not here with us no more” EyeOpening!💯💯 I gotta purpose. N I’m over chasing pleasure. Some temporary ish🤦🏽‍♂️. Thank you Brother Malique. Love u brother your words never fail to touch my heart and inspire me to be a better Man . Thank you for helping me fight through everyday dawg. Real talk💯. This life is not easy.

  • @InTh3Hillz22
    @InTh3Hillz22 3 месяца назад +1

    Definitely needed this just loaded to my new place still going to the gym still trying to be one percent but every day, but working on me balancing out pleasure. Pray for me family as I pray for y’all.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +1

      we praying for you brother, God is our guide! 🙏🏽

  • @MindsetJournaling
    @MindsetJournaling 3 месяца назад +1

    Hey man you’re truly an inspiration. I finally started to go after my dreams and vision by creating content on this channel on how to elevate your mindset. I stopped falling into distractions and locking in on what I need to do. Thank you 🙏

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +1

      you’re more than welcome! i’m proud of you, this is just the beginning 🙏🏽

  • @donavonhardy627
    @donavonhardy627 3 месяца назад +1

    This came at right time. Speaking to me king. I truly respect you brother. I watch your videos like there Netflix series lol but I'm just being real I appreciate you being real. Keep going king my purpose driven brother. 💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад

      appreciate you fam! 🙏🏽 let’s keep being purpose driven

  • @donnellmusakusa4462
    @donnellmusakusa4462 3 месяца назад +1

    Perfect timing. It's been a week since me and my ex broke up. It's been tough to get over her and ignore temptations (women) but I remember God and my purpose, and that's keeping me going. Thank you for this video.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +1

      Amen brother you got this 🙏🏽 it’s time for your purpose to take effect

  • @BrandonAlexanderWalks
    @BrandonAlexanderWalks 3 месяца назад +1

    Whenever I see you pop up on my feed, I just know it's going to be prophetic.

  • @awatkhalid9091
    @awatkhalid9091 3 месяца назад +1

    One of the best in this platform,
    love the message brother
    thank you for the content, much appreciated

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад

      that means more than you know brother thank you 🙏🏽

  • @Acronym-forty-four
    @Acronym-forty-four 3 месяца назад

    Grateful for you brother 🙏🏽

  • @anotidaishekurauvone5563
    @anotidaishekurauvone5563 3 месяца назад

    Much blessings brother 🙌

  • @Real_Otos1
    @Real_Otos1 3 месяца назад

    Thank you bro. I appreciate this a lot ❤️❤️ Bless up 💯

  • @HBossOnline
    @HBossOnline 3 месяца назад

    Honestly, God bless you bro! 🙏🏿

  • @IceWhiteice22
    @IceWhiteice22 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for your videos. I’m struggling now but thanks to your encouragement I’m staying focus to stay strong.

  • @Whatsonourmindss
    @Whatsonourmindss 3 месяца назад +1

    Double upload you on one 💪🏾 blessings brother

  • @andrewwoodell1830
    @andrewwoodell1830 3 месяца назад +1

    When I first heard the term, buy now, pay later, I knew from the get go, “later” was going to come at some point, much sooner often than not.

  • @ChristTrades
    @ChristTrades 3 месяца назад

    Needed that prayer at the end spent the last week slipping up in bad old habits , we fall to get back up

  • @tommykane2400
    @tommykane2400 3 месяца назад

    'm practicing semen retention. This video helped me in real time. I was seriously feeling weak like giving in, but I watch this video and through you Yah spoke to me. Giving me back that strength to continue on this semen retention journey. Todah Yah. HalleluYah Keep doing your thing my brother you're truly inspiring people. Shalom

  • @jcmmmmmm
    @jcmmmmmm 3 месяца назад

    You're the bro we all need. Good thing you created this channel. Thanks a lot my man!

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад

      I appreciate that! so glad i made this channel, but you all made it was it is today. i appreciate this community! 🙏🏽

  • @wynternite
    @wynternite 3 месяца назад

    It’s so refreshing seeing a man who speaks like this! I didn’t think there were any. How are we as women supposed to submit to these low caliber men.

  • @Zimcautions_a2
    @Zimcautions_a2 3 месяца назад +13

    Be Purpose driven.

  • @zachrose8147
    @zachrose8147 3 месяца назад

    Love you brother! Thank you for sharing your light and your wisdom

  • @DAVONTVREACTS
    @DAVONTVREACTS 16 дней назад

    Outwitting The Devil changed my life and mindset

  • @JedidiahChristopherKeleghan
    @JedidiahChristopherKeleghan 3 месяца назад

    Another awesome video brother! I've been on semen retention for a while now thanks for always keeping me locked in and focused brother appreciate you!

  • @AnellaSharpes-px3xq
    @AnellaSharpes-px3xq 3 месяца назад

    You are so right what you are
    saying you are great thank you
    you empowering and encouraging
    and motivating us in everything
    God bless you.

  • @plutobonchii
    @plutobonchii 3 месяца назад

    thank you brother 🙏🏻

  • @TheFierceTiger_1
    @TheFierceTiger_1 3 месяца назад

    ❤ thank you brother.

  • @robsauls5302
    @robsauls5302 Месяц назад

    Damm...bro motivational for real❤

  • @christiankennedy1730
    @christiankennedy1730 3 месяца назад

    2:20 “It just take a couple minutes to slip up” thats some real ish! We got to be on our pq’s all day all night fellas! Stay locked in.

  • @JalenJewelz
    @JalenJewelz 3 месяца назад

    Real Talk 💯

  • @ghostman3012
    @ghostman3012 2 месяца назад

    Great video man, thanks for inspiring motivation and determination!

  • @TalbsXnqqq
    @TalbsXnqqq 3 месяца назад

    1M already here just gotta keep up your grind, trust you can bro. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @OnDaryy
    @OnDaryy 3 месяца назад +2

    Bro I bet you’re book is gonna be haard 🔥

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +1

      that means a lot bro thank you 🙏🏽 working hard on it

  • @therommielee
    @therommielee 3 месяца назад

    Thank you bro, needed to hear this.

  • @kevinu6004
    @kevinu6004 3 месяца назад

    Newly discovered your channel.... dropping game!! Hits to the core.... blessings 🙏🏼🤜

  • @Abé-s6u
    @Abé-s6u 3 месяца назад

    Thank you man its hard to be a Man in this life full of distractions and lust even here 🇨🇮🇨🇮 Thank you from the bottom of my heart to be there for us. Discipline and détermination.

  • @RoSki_24
    @RoSki_24 3 месяца назад +1

    I should have watched/listened to this video when I first saw it and sadly gave into🌽lustful, fleshly desires all over again I hate myself for that decision but I will get right back up and continue never giving up on my purpose in life💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +1

      you got this bro! righteous man falls 7 but gets up 8

    • @RoSki_24
      @RoSki_24 3 месяца назад +1

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen Thank you bro I always appreciate you💯

  • @justinflores1620
    @justinflores1620 3 месяца назад

    Purpose and a plan are important to have, anyone who doesn’t have either one of those doesn’t need to get close to us

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад +1

      facts! 💯💯💯

    • @justinflores1620
      @justinflores1620 3 месяца назад +1

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen I love the content we get blessed with everyday man, please keep it coming

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад

      @@justinflores1620 i got you brother! 🙏🏽

  • @imturmoil2743
    @imturmoil2743 3 месяца назад

    Needed this 🙌🏽

  • @rxvxcs
    @rxvxcs 3 месяца назад

    2 videos in one day? thanks bro 🎉 keep it up

  • @OwenHylton-v4k
    @OwenHylton-v4k 3 месяца назад +1

    Amen brother...i didn't enjoy the video i love it...every word was powerful

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 месяца назад

      so glad you loved it brother truly grateful for your support 🫡🙏🏽

  • @TheFranchize405
    @TheFranchize405 3 месяца назад

    Love the content bro .. keep it going

  • @GelsonAnime
    @GelsonAnime 3 месяца назад

    Thank you bro 💪🏾🔥🥣

  • @enochisrael1623
    @enochisrael1623 3 месяца назад

    Needed this bro

  • @350z-_-
    @350z-_- 3 месяца назад

    BEEN TRYING TO LOCK IN

  • @Technoglyphh
    @Technoglyphh 3 месяца назад

    I started to watch 🌽 at 20.. pretty late. I turned 21 few days ago but from now NO MORE. I will come back here every week to update my progress !

  • @gohardornah
    @gohardornah 3 месяца назад

    Boy that temptation to eat what u don’t even want to eat is wild😂😂😭😂😂 but only the the strong prevails 💯💯😤😌🙏🏾

  • @humbledev_
    @humbledev_ 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for that prayer

  • @philippalejandro
    @philippalejandro 3 месяца назад

    IM LOCKED IN! NO PLEASURE STUFFS

  • @AraNesbitt
    @AraNesbitt 3 месяца назад

    Clutch message 💪🏾

  • @Wawaaaaajazz
    @Wawaaaaajazz 3 месяца назад

    facts my brother real talk every line every spoken words stright facts life is short

  • @thestreetspeaker1
    @thestreetspeaker1 3 месяца назад

    All Highs Come Back Down 💯

  • @malachiczapiewski5786
    @malachiczapiewski5786 2 месяца назад

    ✊🏽thank you

  • @wassupcorb
    @wassupcorb 3 месяца назад

    to lock in means to clock in,
    if we elevate, we should demonstrate
    imma be the best me for me & whoever’s next to me

  • @tiiiadore1455
    @tiiiadore1455 3 месяца назад +7

    In Jesus name, Amen🙏🏾

  • @pinkbubba6452
    @pinkbubba6452 3 месяца назад

    bro looking into my soul about doing weed everyday. Tbh if or once i quit smoking I will NEVER pick that garbage up again!

  • @justinflores1620
    @justinflores1620 3 месяца назад

    Distraction, Traction, Action

  • @davidswearingin2110
    @davidswearingin2110 3 месяца назад

    Everyday is a fight, I have my good and bad days, I haven’t watched 🌽 in a month, I’m trying to find myself in god and continue to have faith in him. The enemy continues to destroy me but everyday I fight and yes I may be tired and yes the world sees easy to go back to and stay there but that’s not my purpose, I chose gods love and his purpose for me

  • @Zorua89
    @Zorua89 3 месяца назад

    I was just balancing certain addictions when this video came like lust. Being drawn to candy after doing so good with not eating much or at all. After doing so good with NoFap I was feeling that urge
    The. This video came. Just like the more recent video of having right people in life that’s positive to you.
    I was just working on rebalancing my social structure to lock in on me and things. Then being around people more that’s also care about same things I do like going to the gym.
    I don’t expect people to be perfect it to at least have something’s in common when it comes to working on life or at least be able to understand where I come from.
    At the least they can talk to me about what they care about to self improvement but they don’t even have goals and self improvement goals on their own to share with me 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @JojoAces
    @JojoAces 3 месяца назад

    Wow… how did I miss the one 🌟🔥🔥

  • @philippalejandro
    @philippalejandro 3 месяца назад

    Ty bro!!!!!!!

  • @Jul1n.21
    @Jul1n.21 3 месяца назад

    Your shirt looks dope bro!

  • @woof6114
    @woof6114 3 месяца назад +1

    Amen 🙏❤🔥

  • @Devilsdan
    @Devilsdan 3 месяца назад +1

    Amen to that

  • @Johnniethedreamer
    @Johnniethedreamer 3 месяца назад +1

    Ik what im say but im gonna document my winter arc and get better in life daily thing

  • @jnix_visuals
    @jnix_visuals 3 месяца назад

    Needed this one…

  • @JojoAces
    @JojoAces 3 месяца назад

    Ultimately, you sacrifice one for the other🗣️⚠️

  • @Jimuhammad
    @Jimuhammad 3 месяца назад

    Bro speak nothing but facts!

  • @OvertIntelligence
    @OvertIntelligence 3 месяца назад +1

    Solid video.

  • @AnellaSharpes-px3xq
    @AnellaSharpes-px3xq 3 месяца назад +2

    I pray when you finish writing
    your book it's becomes
    number one best seller
    everyone will need to
    have it because it
    will be a good investment
    for them and they won't
    regret buying it and reading it
    Congratulations thank you

  • @ReubenDubeZA
    @ReubenDubeZA 3 месяца назад

    Its never worth it to deviate from your purpose.

  • @lynfoster7870
    @lynfoster7870 2 месяца назад

    The Bible says some of us are useless vessels

  • @n2legos
    @n2legos 3 месяца назад

    I recently decided to stop watching porn and attend meetings. At this point in time, I’ve been gratefully sober from porn for a little over 2 months, and I gotta say that I didn’t even realize how bad my addiction was until I actually tried to stop viewing it. I realized I have a lot of emotional problems, mainly with ego. Thankfully though, the more the days go by, the less I feel the urge to view pornography. Yes, the temptations are still there, but I’ve noticed that I can ignore a lot of them.

  • @IsolatedNat
    @IsolatedNat 3 месяца назад

    All love ❤️

  • @Immaburnthekitchendown
    @Immaburnthekitchendown 3 месяца назад

    For the longest time ive been addicted to porn but just recently i realised that 2 weeks of improvement and 1 day of relapsing wont solve my addiction of 4 years which is why i strive to do better brother ❤