My parents were married on 9/11….. in 1955. For years after the Towers and Pentagon were attacked (and the 4th plane went down in PA) people said things like “ I can’t believe your parents are drinking champagne “ or “I can’t believe your dad got your mom roses”. Sorry friends, it had been their anniversary for 45 years before that attack happened! And they drank champagne on that day every year until my mom died 5 years ago 10 days before their 64th anniversary. I have kept it up with him since then. Daddy will be 94 in December, mentally completely sharp but with physical disabilities, and it will be my honor to share what would have been their 69th anniversary with him. So yes, on 9/11 we will drink champagne and toast my beautiful mother.
Not to mention all the people with their birthday on that day. What, are they supposed to stop celebrating the fact that they've been alive for another year? There have been worse disasters with bigger death tolls on single days, and people still celebrate their birthdays, anniversaries, whatever, because hey. Life goes on!
CHARLOTTTTTE I took someone’s order at work and she was watching one of your videos! Without thinking I said “omg she’s MY FAVORITE INTERNET PERSON.” And we talked about how much we both think you’re just great. Funny, gorgeous, and all around lovely. I also shared with her how you were often my comfort in an isolating and difficult time, and she agreed you’re a great person to lift someone up who really needs it. Love you so much Charlotte 🥹🫶🏻💕
Context for the Uber incident (Im the third friend beside her listening with curls), they had been dating less than a month- he said she could go out but then got mad she didn’t pay attention and text him the whole time instead of enjoying being out- he wanted her to be sad and miserable and she wasn’t so he was picking any fight possible. There’s more context but it genuinely was just him trying to upset her enough to not be out because she’s a baddie and he was insecure that other people would A. Make her happy and feel confident B. Notice how pretty she is C. Tell her how horrible he was
Ugh yeah ew. I honestly hope she seriously humbled him or dumped him because a man that tries to make you feel insecure to stay with him is disgusting 💀
I had an ex like this. My cat died the day before my birthday (sat) and I had my bd get together planned. I felt like poo and really wanted to go out and drink my sorrows. He refused to attend. Then spent the night calling and texting telling me to come home. I would like to say we split after that but it took me another year before I saw sense. Xxxx
And tone for tone, gesture for gesture! That's the part that makes it even worse. It's not even like she can claim the sponsor gene her a script! Cuz the point is make it YOU bestie. Wild!
How many times would you have to watch another person’s videos to learn it that well? She must have watched the other woman’s videos hundreds of times….that would concern me as the original creator, just from a crazy stalker fan POV.
@@Boredchinchilla She probably opened her video in the phone or tablet behind the camera. Played some, recite some, then continued a little more and goes on..
My niece was born on the 10th anniversary of 9-11, my dad had worked at the pentagon on that day in 2001, he said he was so grateful to be able to put something positive on that day
It's a tragedy that happened, but it should not mean people give up celebrating their life. If they were born on that day, then that's something to still celebrate. Your friends survival/ life is also something to celebrate and I think it's good to focus on those positives especially after so many lives were lost. I'm glad you're friend is cancer free and I hope that it never comes back. Wishing you both a full and happy life.
You're not the only one that 'rehearses' conversations. I act out interactions in my head so I can prepare for different scenarios. It helps my anxiety to have a 'plan' ahead of time.
The Uber clip is SO REAL. I went to Vegas with my sister and my 70 year-old mother for her birthday and my boyfriend would NOT stop calling constantly. And we were just going out to eat, gambling, watching the fountains, all wholesome stuff. He called me on the monorail, on the strip, demanding to know why my phone was in airport mode.... Because we were in the audience at a show, dumb.ass! He got upset when I posted pictures from Lake Mead because he said "you never said you were going to Lake Mead!" WTAF I broke up with him and then he died (unrelated).
I was at work on a Friday and my boyfriend went snowboarding that day on his day off. A few of my male coworkers were talking with me and they were like oh what’s your plans and what is your boyfriend up to. I told them he is snowboarding. They said “you let him go snowboarding 😮” No, I didn’t let him go? I asked if they were okay in their relationships. He’s a 30 year old adult and can do what he wants, especially if I’m working and he’s not. We consult with each other and make sure there are no mutual plans. We don’t “let” each other do anything. We respect each other going and doing something.
I hear "you let him..." all too often. Like Girl I got too much shit to do to be monitoring that man's every move. We've been married almost 20 years, if he wants to take a trip IDGAF. Sometimes I drive to my sister's for the weekend on a whim and we wouldn't still be married if he said I couldn't , why should I treat his trips any differently from my own?
this honestly stems from how our parents were... i'm in my early 40s so we're talking parents born in the 50s and hearing their parents (our grands). It was a BIG thing in the 50s and 60s, calling each other "old man" or "old lady" "the ol ball and chain" and saying things such as "oh you let her go" or "you mean the old lady let you out" just stupid jokes. I 100% agree with not "letting" an adult do something, there's respect in a relationship, you talk about plans, if you want to do something with your friends you let your partner know. Like me, ill make plans to go see my girls that live about an hr away, i plan it so that i'm out after my youngest gets off to school and home before she gets home and i simply tell my partner "Hey i have plans to go to xy tomorrow, cant promise when ill be home but text me if you need me" and he just goes "alright, drive safe" cause i wont see or talk to him really before i leave. That's mutual respect. He doesn't "let" me do anything just like i don't "let" him. We talk about it and inform each other.
Same with my hubby. He goes to skiing trip if he has time and I travel to my friend to another country for a weekend if I feel like it. We’ve been together over 30 years, the youngest son of ours still lives at home. But we have never had any trust issues and we have always sorted out everything together. We love each other now as much as we did in the beginning. ❤
I remember an old coworker told me to throw out my then boyfriends PlayStation because he "played too much" according to HER!. i said first why aee you trying to get me to plan my own murder. Second un HELL NAW. That is MY alone time too. His PlayStation is staying there. I dont need ALL of his attention you're weird. Ppl are weird. She was twice my age
I get upset when my boyfriend leaves the day he leaves. Physical touch is very important to us and it hurts when he leaves. It gets better the following days.
I have mass called my partner once, I was going into labour, and he was at work. I called 21 times before he answered. Though, I do think that is probably one of the only times it's reasonable to mass call someone
I have never once in my life approached someone to insult their looks. I have complemented some peoples attire but I never felt the need to tear someone down like that. And if anyone ever does that to me, well, stay tuned!!
I have acted out my arguments with people, and then turned around and had the exact argument go just as I had practiced, so I had my answers at the ready! I love when that happens, it’s like instant gratification! 😂
If she monetized the video and if she is backed by a brand? LAWSUIT! Not only can she be sued for plagiarism, being a word for word copy, and monetizing it, but the brand can be sued for copyright infringement as well.
12:30 That was literally my dad with my mom. He died earlier this year and for the first time in 40 YEARS my mom is able to just go to the gas station without that man calling her non-stop! She actually got anxious the first few weeks of going out of the house because she kept expecting his calls but then realized that she doesn't have to do that anymore 🙌🏻
My former neighbour is an elderly lady who wasn't allowed any freedom from her husband. It took months before she dared to break his rules. His rules were limiting. She wasn't even allowed to go for a walk without a purpose he set, like shopping, for example. It's been two years and she still lives of half the budget he gave her for food and puts a little back each time she's treated to food. Her son tries to involve her but has to do the finances, including making decisions and she still holds firm to rules her husband said. She's not allowed to get a gardener for example, even though she's fallen very badly twice and it'd be better to take that off her hands. There's plenty of generational wealth of which most already went to the children and the grandchildren's home and studies are paid for already.
I was with my BD for 9 years, high school sweet hearts turned disastrous abuse. After we finally ended it took me 2 years to make my own decisions, and I still have problems doing so for fear of repercussions. This shit is hard to get past when it becomes your norm for so long. I'm glad she has the chance to breathe fresh air and live life without the permission of another.
@@esmee6308 My dad was also constantly on my mom about her spending even though she was the sole breadwinner. Since he died she suddenly has so much surplus money left over each month but he was always complaining about how she was wasting money, all while he was making large, frivolous purchases and giving her grief about buying a $5 T-shirt.
@@WhimsicalWorm I'm so glad you're out of that as well! So many people think that abuse means hitting someone but I feel like physical abuse actually happens less than emotional/verbal/financial abuse and coercive control. My mom first stuck around because she didn't want us to grow up without a father like she did but by the time we were adults she was so beaten down that she felt she had no power. In reality she had all the power, she made all their money (over 6 figures) and he was disabled so he couldn't work or even really fend for himself if she left.
My husband proposed on 9/11 (different year)! He didn't realize the date when he did. He got the ring in the mail and it was burning such a hole in his pocket that he couldn't wait! It was so adorable that I said, "Yes!" Even though the date wasn't the best. It's nice to be able to reclaim a horrible date with something beautiful!
@@caffeinatedkatie4696 Too much was taken away. I’m not saying to not honor those lost but to not continue to give the terrorists attention is what I mean.
Dating these days 1) always have money to cover your own dinner, just in case. 2) try to research if the restaurant/bar/cafe/etc if you can split the check 3) If you leave to escape the date, hey the Dude or Gal, could be crazy... Please inform the restaurant. Most a decent amount of the time they'll act as witness, especially if there's suspicion of "date r@pe dr~gs"
You can just say date rape drugs. I know the tik-tok algorithm got people using all kinds of crazy characters and sideways language to describe a lot of shit, but word are powerful. Don't give up that power. Date rape is fucking awful. It should feel like a slap when you read those words, and we should all feel outraged that it happens.
That's a great list 🖤 also make it a point to interact with waitstaff, bouncers, etc... People working in hospitality are more likely to remember you if you interact, tell them you like their makeup, their necklace, their shirt. Create a space for yourself in the memory of those around you.
My daughter was born 9/11/09 she's my miracle. She survived when all doctors said she wouldn't. I fully believe she is one of those beautiful souls that were lost that day. Edit........ because of a rude person IF YOU COME AT ME RUDELY DO NOT EXPECT ME TO BE KIND. Please keep in mind I do not believe the way many do. I'm going to put this here as I have also said before I am a practicing white witch. Please don't try forcing your beliefs on me just because I believe a different way. Thank you.
@@Darkprincess0789so let me get this straight.... Your daughter, born 9/11/2001, is turning fifteen in the year of our Lord *2024*?? And I get it, you probably meant she was born on the day years later, but the way you wrote it doesn't imply that at all, especially trying to say she's the friggin reincarnation of someone who died during that attack. That was a horrific day. Don't clout-chase off it please.
@@Sarah27H listen here you rude woman I have no reason to "clout chase" I'm not a creator. As a matter of fact I'm a practicing witch and have very different beliefs then you. DO NOT IMPOSE or try FORCING your ways on me just because you don't agree with what I say. Yes it was tragic but those beautiful souls have every reason to potentially be reincarnated. She was born 9-11-2009 and was only a 1lb baby and I was told she wouldn't live. She just turned 15 and yes I fully believe one of those lost beautiful souls is her or a part of her. So DO NOT COME AT ME RUDELY. Have a great frigging day and leave me the heck alone. Keep your rudeness to yourself.
@@Sarah27H so here's the context you wanted figured I'd edit so your rude brain could wrap around it. I am not nor will I ever be a clout chaser. Those beautiful souls lost that day deserve a chance to be reborn and have a life they lost. I do not believe the way you do. I am a practicing witch therefore by your comment I already assume you'd burn me at the stake. Please keep rudeness to yourself or expect it in return.
My nephew was born on Sept 12th….When I tell you my sister was trying soooo hard NOT to push until after midnight (she was in labor all day on the 11th.) 👍🏼👶🏻
It's not as current of a "bad date" as 9/11. But I was told I'd be due on Dec 7th, I was delivered on the 6th lol. Mom didn't want a Pearl Harbor baby 😅
No, I will not abandon Isis. She was the goddess of healing and motherhood, and as a retired (now) nurse, Isis was my avatar, because healing and motherhood were the most important things in my life, and I will PROUDLY have her tattoo on my arm for the rest of my life!
I have a dog named Isis. I had a cat named Athena. When I named my dog some idiot said, "you named your dog after a terrorist group?" I said, no, fool, I didn't name my dog I S I S . That's an acronym. Unfortunately, people will always lack intelligence.
Years ago my house was the party house, if you need a place to crash house, too drunk to drive home sleepover house….you get the idea. Having grown up in our town the house was well known. The only rules were you couldn’t come in without permission and if anything disappeared or got damaged you were persona non grata forevermore. After graduating college and my mother passing away I sold the house in order to move back to the mainland to be near my dad. A month after closing I received a phone call from the buyer’s agent. He explained that during the first week of living there they had awoken to people sleeping in the living room. On the weekends they had been awakened by the doorbell or knocking by random people asking if they could crash. After a month of the madness they were reaching out to me to see if I could put the word out that I no longer lived there. This was 1988…no internet. I arranged a “Moving Away” party at the beach, invited everyone I knew and made it know I was leaving the islands. Never heard from the new homeowners again.
For a moment in your life, your home was a safe space that must've saved thousands of lives and that makes me feel so good. I hope you found other ways to keep the good ❤
Haha we had the same in university early 2000s. Except we had rules like you puke we nuke (blacklist), and no drvgs cause most of us were on a scholarholarship. It was fun until someone let my stalker in by accident as they didnt know they were blacklisted. Thankfully my husband- bf of 5ish yrs att- lived with me and he saw the guy eating cold spaghetti-os out of a CAN on 1 of our couches. He kicked him out and we made the blacklist board.
@@LatinaSoldier15 Thank you! It’s funny, my husband and I raised 7 children and our home became the safe place for troubled kids. One of our 7 is actually one that came to us in jr high and we ended up becoming her legal guardians. Over the years we helped many friends of our children. We were also the parents that got called when a night of partying happened. We told all the kids and their friends that if they needed to get out of a situation to call us and ask “how is Sadie?” That was our signal that they needed help and just had to tell us where they were and we would be there to pick them up. The other part of that deal was we would not lie to there parents, and for our children there was still consequences. Three of our seven used the system and several of their friends. Until I read your comment I hadn’t really put together the two things. Thank you for helping me realize I did carry on a tradition started by my mother into my life and hopefully it will continue in our kids’ lives.
I'm gonna be ✨️that person✨️ for a sec on the video at 16:50 - imagine if that had been an ex boyfriend and his buddy breaking into a girl's place. Those girls can giggle about it, but it's not cute and I hope the guy is okay because I would have been terrified if I found an ex hanging out in my pantry. (Also wtf were they doing there in the first place??? What's the plan here???)
If someone's gonna be a sugar baby they know what their responsibility in the transaction is. If they then refuse their part of the transaction, they can't get upset when he says no sugar = we done.
The sugar in sugar dating is the money/gifts the sugar daddy/mommy provides. Intimacy is usually involved in any non-sugar dating relationship, the money/gifts is what makes it sugar dating. And yeah, sugar dating is supposed to be a mutually beneficial arrangement where both parties provide something to the relationship, so yeah, I agree with you.
Right?! lol..she is acting like he can’t get someone quicker than she can. There are girls out there waiting for a sugar daddy to become available lol😅
It wasn't on my bingo card that a rando clip of Brennan Lee Mulligan / the Dimension 20 crew freaking out over a crit would be in one of Charlotte's videos... but I'm glad and recognized the screaming when I had the window minimized. 10/10 Charlotte. Respect.
Also, the demure thing ISNT FROM JOOLS EITHER. She brought it back and made it viral but it was definitely from the show “the nanny” Fran tries to whisper it without her accent saying “dim-youurr” and no one could understand what she was saying until she said it in her accent and said “dem-you-wah.”
I mean, the phrase Jools used is her creation totally. Demure is just a word folks have used forever, Jools just used it in her own funny way, like Fran did in the show. So the demure thing referenced here definitely is from Jools.
Lol ohmygod!!! I remember that- wait- are you sure it wasn't Seinfeld when he was dating the phone sex chick that Kramer was calling??! Lol or maybe that was just a 90s trope😂😂🤷♀️
i have a couple friends, whos wedding was 9/11/2001 talk about a shit anniversary. they went forth with it because they had people from out of state whod FLOWN IN THE DAY BEFORE. i was such a sad day. the ceremony was short out of respect for the occasion and they got everyone out and home as soon as possible but MAN. the family and friends waited about 6 months and threw them a surprise party to show them we loved them so much. we had a moment of silence for those we lost that day and the first responders, and then they got to PARTY. that is the day they chose as thier anniversary going forth. they said they didnt want to take away from those who died that day.
@@ThePuppin yes i thought it was weird too but shrug. it was in a rec center so it was a small inexpensive thing to begin with. none the less, the party was way nicer :)
I just went to the funeral of a friend who was born on September 11, and my grandmother was born on September 11. Had she been alive in 2001, she would have thought the terrorists were coming for her, she was that paranoid.
Family I lived with in college, the dad b day is 9/11 and he used to joke the world is taking a moment for him every year. Had to break the tension, but Sinister.
Girl the fact that you (and/or Vanessa) put this clip 11:50 of Dimension 20 in the video make me like you even more! We love a fellow D&d enthusiast potato! 🥔❤
Dude, I know a girl who’s bf used to FaceTime her and be like “show me the room, let me talk to your friends, I bet there’s guys there” type of shit. I, personally, used to just hang up on him when she pass me phone. 😂😂He did it the day of our best friend’s eldest son’s funeral. Turns out he was cheating on her, and acting crazy as shit bc he assumed she was cheating back.
My name is also Isis!!! It's so good to see someone who knows the fucking STRUGGLE!!! TSA feels me up every time I fly! I can't order food online or from apps without using a fake name, I've had people say to me "that's not a funny joke" and then had to whip out my drivers license. I've been denied from jobs - ITS AN EGYPTIAN GODDESS!!!
Omg I’m so sorry. That is just wrong. I thought jobs legitimately cannot deny your application for any legal names that is put on there. I know I’ve read statements stating that you sign this form, and anything that is written on here is truthful and not fraudulent , if fraudulent your application can be denied and or charges. . I never knew or heard anyone with the name Isis and didn’t know it was a goddess. Such a pretty name.
@@brandiehammond Employment isn't supposed to, but when asked in an interview "So, how do you answer the phone?" Or "Would you be willing to use a nickname?" And then being denied a second interview it becomes pretty obvious. It's a shame because The Egyptian goddess is a goddess of rebirth. My mom said she felt Reborn when she had me. So sad such a beautiful meaning gets lost on people.
This is a well known scam. A guy invites a girl on a date and orders something really expensive, three courses, wine, the lot. He then ditches her and leaves her to pay for the meal. He left an empty wallet on the table so she wouldn’t be suspicious and she would think he was coming back. Sometimes they will also leave an empty phone case on the table as well. Edit: why is it whenever you make a post criticising a guy on the internet there are always a bunch of people in the comments ready with the whole “WOMEN ARE SO MUCH WORSE 😡” spiel. Literally, people are in the comments making up shit about this girl, trying to justify this guys behaviour despite knowing nothing about this girl at all. Why is it so hard to accept that some guys are just dicks. I’m not saying women are perfect but this video was about a guy.
I think most of these guys are just getting their get backs🤷🏼♀️ it's prolly happened to every one of those men, multiple times. As they used to say, Hate the game, not the player🤷🏼♀️
@@redfish2229 Yea because it’s completely acceptable to be shitty to one person because a completely different person was shitty to you. It’s like how it’s ok for parents to beat their kids because their parents beat them, just pass the trauma and hate along.
I also practice conversations before going into them. It's an anxiety thing with me, because I'm always afraid I'm going to say something to upset someone, or that I'm going to breakdown if I think someone is mad at me.
If someone gets offended by something you said then that's a problem for them, not for you If it helps, just keep the conversation light and don't talk about race, religion, politics, disabilities, etc. Talk about music and movies and if someone has an opinion you don't agree with then just say ok and move on and if you do say something to offend someone just say I'm sorry, let's change the topic and you move on 😊
Rehearsing when confrontation or remain is inevitable is normal, but I think I do it more than most, cuz my response is to freeze and people please. So I'm learning how to prep to stand up for myself and stay present with both of us when I do.
@@orielwiggins2225 whether you believe in it or not, even almighty loving God has boundaries and does not please people - it is people trying to please him... you will grow into your confidence once you claim and execute your own boundaries. I was like how you described once and then I learned to claim and execute my boundaries
@@what.the.whatever yeah, I've been in trauma therapy for this. It's beyond just claiming something for me. Lifelong history of cult and similar situations. But given that I've got a lot of. "oh, HELL no! " when I watch stuff now, I'm getting a lot better, just lose my words in the moment and go back to programmed responses which is to "make folks feel less upset so we can have rational convo“. Which I know doesn't work, but it's not a knowing thing, it's a trauma thing. Progress is happening and I'm glad I'm not the only one.
7:01 wtf did she expect ?! THAT arrangement has expectations he knows and she knows.. a pretty face can only go so far.. 9:20 and that dummy wallet was. sooo funny lol
I was scrolling Tik Tok and watched a whole southern family fight,I was invested and I don't even know these people😂😂😂. Tik Tok always has some drama going on😂😂😂😂
4:50 to be fair, Isis is the name of an ancient Egyptian goddess. I will never understand why all these fanatical people will take something that was not inherently bad and turn it to associating with something horrible. Hitler did it to. That famous symbol of his was a symbol for protection, prosperity and other good things in many parts of the world until he got his hands on it. No no culture can ever use it again no matter how much older it was compared to him.
@phoenix. That's not what they said? They said what Isis was originally associated with, a goddess, and that bad people will take innocuous things and associate themselves with it forever ruining the implications of it for other people. Don't use a face palm emoji when you blatantly didn't get the point
@@phoenix. It doesn't matter if it's an acronym or some fluffy little caterpillar in some obscure corner of the world, the name will now always be associated with those fanatics. The same way that the symbol, which was never a bad thing and used in many cultures across the world, will now always be associated with Hitler.
Japan still uses the manji symbol, however, unfortunately when footage is shown overseas it tends to be blurred or censored. There was an anime that used the manji symbol and it became a whole controversy, so the officially licensed anime became censored whenever the symbol was shown, and cosplayers that were wearing the symbol were criticised quite harshly online by ppl that knew nothing. It’s very unfair
I raised hell for years about the sacreligious use of the name Isis! She was/is a beautiful wonderful goddess, and I can't help but think they did it on purpose. They could have used the ISIL, like Obama did, I have to respect him for that. I've had 2 cats I've named Isis. And to beat it all, using that as what to call that group is a western thing. The other people over there who actually had to deal with this group, never called them isis, they had a totally different name for them that should have been used. Can't remember what it was, but I remember it reminded me of the word douch. Hahaha. Yep.
"My suga daddy crashed out cuz I wouldn't give the suga" Hun, that's literally in the name. You think Hugh Hefner's bunnies stayed around if they didn't give him any sugar?
I don't think he'll be back either. If he has no investment since she's never given him sugar, he has no reason to believe she'd change. He'll find another woman who's willing to give him sugar for giving her what she wants.
We got married on 9/11 three yesrs ago. We had a moment of silence before dinner to acknowledge the tragedy and then proceeded to have a wonderful evening. The date was special to us because we went on our first date on 9/11/20 not remembering the significance of the date. If you look into dates something bad has probably happened on every day, some are just more public than others.
11:00 me and my boyfriend recently had a fight like this and I just had to finally just say the truth and everything she's saying is what I was saying to him if you don't trust me for God knows why even though I've never given you a reason to not trust me then we can't be together. Im not going to waste my time with an insecure man❤
dear editor, i love you. the dnd joke and sudden clip of dimension20 may have killed me and revived me. thank you, i love you, sincerely, a nerdy potato
You are not alone, Charlotte. Unfortunately I generally do this after I should’ve said what I wanted to. You always come up with the best stuff after the argument or confrontation.
I was in labour with my oldest son on September 11 2001, I was walking around the hospital hallways and at first thought everyone was watching the same video. My doctor stopped my labour (not sure why) and he was instead born 2 days later on the 13th. He gets Friday the 13th birthdays occassionally,this is his 23rd on Feiday the 13th
Some study came out saying that a sizable percentage of the population has no "inner monologue". If you're rehearsing or rehashing arguments (or otherwise talking to yourself) that means you have one. So congrats, you're not defective :)
Yeah, but can those people with no inner monologs be trusted? 😂😂😂I have full on dialog internally, and got flack for it when my BIL pointed out the study about inner monolog, then I told him it's weird than folks exist who don't have inside voices. He said, you have full on convos don't you? I was like, well, um yeah!?!? And my therapist told me if I'm not taking back to my inner voice thanks when I need to be concerned. 😂😂😂😂
I am not sure I have an inner monologue. I never rehearse conversations but may well go over them again afterwards analysing what has been said. I can be very sensitive like that. I don't need to rehearse conversations. They just come out naturally. Nothing is planned and nothing is fake. I also don't have conversations with myself. I don't think I am defective. That sounds like a very big generalisation. I am fine with how I am. I wouldn't feel that comfortable with people who have to plan out conversations in advance. That is a bit like reading from a script. I know some people who might do this but these are not the kind of people I want to hang out with. This sounds like someone pretending to be your friend but only wants to rope you in to their MLM scam. In fact this sounds like the kind of things crazy Americans tell each other is true. When I meet someone they will say something to me and I will respond and so it goes. At what point do I ignore what they are saying to bring in my rehearsed conversation. I am just not fake enough for that. Conversation flows like liquid. That is how it should be.
I think entire conversations to myself all the time. Now I'm wondering what goes on in those people's heads. Nothing? Radio silence? Memories? I've no idea.
One time, when I did something nice for a young woman, and she offered me spicy time as a “Thank You”. I turned her down. She asked me why I did that, and I replied that it was not my motive for helping her. Her next words broke my heart, "it is what everyone else has expected when they did something nice for me, so I thought it was normal." She then asked me why I helped her, I said, "because you needed help, and I could help." She told me that was one of the nicest things that anyone had ever said to her.
As a writer it is fascinating to see plagiarism in other newer creative worlds. We do use trends from social media to help promote, but seeing word for word copies of videos is so crazy because it happens all the time in writing! Also, as a fantasy/myth/history lover, I always think of the Egyptian deity Isis first. She’s well cool! Focus on that! Also the suga daddy vid is why I could never do that. I don’t like drama in my life 😅 and the dating one makes me scared to date again, no one should do that!
The sugar in sugar dating is the money/gifts that the sugar daddy/mommy provides, not sex or intimacy from the sugar baby, though sugar dating is making a mutually beneficial arrangement where both parties provide to each other.
OMG Charlotte ponytail is soooo gorgeous, she always looks so amazing, her hair is just perfect. And her laugh is adorable, sometimes her laugh alone is enough to make me laugh too😂❤
I liked the sugar daddy one. It showed that they are both using each other and nobody wins. She thought she has the upper hand and could milk him but offer no sugar in return and he showed that without him there is no sugar. They played each other and showed it is not something that should be applauded and there are no winners.
I think it can be a mutually beneficial arrangement, but I don’t support it when it’s an obviously married man. Some people want to be spoiled and some people want to spoil others, without being in a committed relationship. I agree, though. It’s odd to me how people always vilify the sugar baby, when the sugar daddy/mommy is also using the other person…
@stephenbanks5952 The sugar in sugar dating is what the sugar daddy/mommy provides, not the sugar baby. I agree that they were very obviously using each other superficially but disagree that there aren't any winners in sugar dating.
@@lilscenechick1995 It is supposed to be a mutually beneficial arrangement. I agree, I don't support it when it's a married person, I straight-up decline. I wouldn't generalize sugar daddies/mommies as using the sugar baby though, some honestly want genuine companionship.
she looks like she took some high school cheerleader pom-poms and made a jacket out of them. her and her friends looking like they are trying way to hard to be "hip"
Hey! She said that because those girls were yelling at people and physically assaulting people by shoving them! They lied on their video to be a victim. Security had to watch them the entire night after because of what they caused.. this info was passed to me by not one or two but FOUR other people who had been there that night.. just figured I’d spread that info since they wanna be liars
Hey! She said that because those girls were yelling at people and physically shoving people.. They lied on their video to be a victim. Security had to watch them the entire night after because of what they caused.. this info was passed to me by not one or two but FOUR other people who had been there that night.. just figured I’d spread that info since they wanna be lie to everyone
She said that because those girls were yelling at people and shoving people.. They lied on their video to be a victim. Security had to watch them the entire night after because of what they caused.. this info was passed to me by not one or two but FOUR other people who had been there that night.. just figured I’d spread that info since they wanna be lie to everyone
My daughter was born on 9/11 at 8:11. When my doctor told me she was inducing me on 9/10 (she was my first born) I cried and prayed she would come on that day but I just knew she wouldn’t make an appearance until the 11th. My doctor was like it’s ok. Now the 11th can have a better meaning and a way to celebrate something instead of it being an awful/sad day. I was like I hear you but that doesn’t change what everyone associates with that day…. 🤦🏼♀️
I think the problem is that you guys care what other people associate. It's not your fault they're falling for propaganda used as an excuse to exterminate Middle Eastern civilians.
Y'all making it a big deal. Other tragedies have happened all across the world with higher death toll on different days but I see no one complaining. Might be an American thing to be a snowflake.
Charlotte!! You are looking absolutely beautiful ❤❤❤! Your makeup in this video… I mean it’s just giving… PERFECTION. I love you and watch all your videos.
Everytime I click on your videos, the amount of your subscribers just keeps going up and up! You'll be at 2 mill in no time! Congratulations Charlotte!
2:41 and yet, some people try passing off your videos as 'Charlot Dobe' or some other spelling. Even with all that, I (a subscriber before you hit 500k) am cheering you on for now reaching 1.99M subs!
I've seen several videos from "Charlotte Dobre fans" and I'm embarrassed to say it took me a while before I realised it was just pirating Charlotte's videos.
As someone who struggles with complex PTSD... The one thing that I have learned in my many years of therapy is that the only way for me specifically to handle a trigger is to reprogram it. Literally reprogram it. So you take that day and you make it a happy memory. Make it the happiest memory you can because that's the only way you're going to dull the trauma.. I am ashamed to say that this country has perpetuated and glorified victimhood😢 with all respect to those who died on that day, we need to do better. We need to do better for ourselves and we need to do better for them because I doubt this is what they would have wanted
10:10 "Dating apps." Meet people by volunteering. Meet people through friends. Meet people by playing DnD! (I was writing that as she mentioned DnD! Holy moly!) Ditch expensive dates. Don't drink alcohol on a first date. DITCH dating apps!
lol omg my young adult kid just invited a colleague to his gaming night, but she’s never played DnD or anything like that (she’s interested tho). He picked up a couple dark-but-adorable shorter role playing games. I didn’t say anything but I was giggling inside, he’s got a decent strategy going for getting the DnD playing gf of his dreams. Poor kid grew up playing & really didn’t know that it is so niche, so I’m thrilled that it’s getting so popular. He & I also are also working on DnD based curriculum ideas - I’ve never played, it doesn’t sound like my thing, but I get why other people like it & I love curriculum innovation lol
This. Also, conventions for common interests are great for finding a partner. That's how I found my guy. Been together over ten years now. I literally have never been on an actual date in my life and I don't think I'm missing out.
@@standdownrobots_ihaveoldglory That is so cool! Also, there's a wide variety of turn based roleplay games like dnd on top of the wide scope of fan made modules. I'm in a homebrew DnD 5e game myself.
I'm newly single after a very long relationship and have never used dating apps and never will. I saw too many weird and whatnot stories about dating apps and said that's not how I'm going to find a new partner. If at all, I'm going to find someone IRL (volunteering, hobbies etc.) or through some other form online by chance.
My parents were married on 9/11….. in 1955. For years after the Towers and Pentagon were attacked (and the 4th plane went down in PA) people said things like “ I can’t believe your parents are drinking champagne “ or “I can’t believe your dad got your mom roses”. Sorry friends, it had been their anniversary for 45 years before that attack happened! And they drank champagne on that day every year until my mom died 5 years ago 10 days before their 64th anniversary. I have kept it up with him since then. Daddy will be 94 in December, mentally completely sharp but with physical disabilities, and it will be my honor to share what would have been their 69th anniversary with him. So yes, on 9/11 we will drink champagne and toast my beautiful mother.
Not to mention all the people with their birthday on that day. What, are they supposed to stop celebrating the fact that they've been alive for another year? There have been worse disasters with bigger death tolls on single days, and people still celebrate their birthdays, anniversaries, whatever, because hey. Life goes on!
@@gracehowell.my brothers fiancées dad birthday is on that day
This is beautiful.
My husband's uncle has his birthday on 11th September. Luckily he's in the UK, but it still has a weird vibe for some.
That's a beautiful story. Congrats to your dad
CHARLOTTTTTE I took someone’s order at work and she was watching one of your videos! Without thinking I said “omg she’s MY FAVORITE INTERNET PERSON.” And we talked about how much we both think you’re just great. Funny, gorgeous, and all around lovely.
I also shared with her how you were often my comfort in an isolating and difficult time, and she agreed you’re a great person to lift someone up who really needs it. Love you so much Charlotte 🥹🫶🏻💕
stoppp that’s so sweet! it’s such a good feeling connecting with someone over interests 🥰
@@meggiebeesdesigns4207 it really is. She was a wonderful lady!
Omg yes. I always go to charlottes videos for a smile when I’m down
At first I thought you meant that you stole her food😂😂 I watch too many of these videos😂
Okay seriously I don’t know why but I love when people use the word lovely.
Context for the Uber incident
(Im the third friend beside her listening with curls), they had been dating less than a month- he said she could go out but then got mad she didn’t pay attention and text him the whole time instead of enjoying being out- he wanted her to be sad and miserable and she wasn’t so he was picking any fight possible. There’s more context but it genuinely was just him trying to upset her enough to not be out because she’s a baddie and he was insecure that other people would A. Make her happy and feel confident B. Notice how pretty she is C. Tell her how horrible he was
I dated a guy like that when I was 20. Yuck. I hope she has moved on from him!
Ugh yeah ew. I honestly hope she seriously humbled him or dumped him because a man that tries to make you feel insecure to stay with him is disgusting 💀
Good grief. I’d have dumped him so fast… then shut my phone off.
I miss the pre-cell phone days sometimes.
I had an ex like this. My cat died the day before my birthday (sat) and I had my bd get together planned. I felt like poo and really wanted to go out and drink my sorrows. He refused to attend. Then spent the night calling and texting telling me to come home. I would like to say we split after that but it took me another year before I saw sense. Xxxx
I hope you guys told her to ditch himmmm. Poor girl. I hope she finds someone who adds to her life instead of trying to take away.
"Not the boop." 🤣 That first story was wild. I can understand copying trends, but word for word? Yikes.
And tone for tone, gesture for gesture! That's the part that makes it even worse. It's not even like she can claim the sponsor gene her a script! Cuz the point is make it YOU bestie. Wild!
How many times would you have to watch another person’s videos to learn it that well? She must have watched the other woman’s videos hundreds of times….that would concern me as the original creator, just from a crazy stalker fan POV.
She could've literally used the sound and just done the actions so funny to me 😂
I thought it was pretty funny 😅
@@Boredchinchilla She probably opened her video in the phone or tablet behind the camera. Played some, recite some, then continued a little more and goes on..
Isis Snowden probably gets flagged as a fake ID name way too often 😂
Agreed
My ex's name was john Smith he ended up getting arrested one night because the police figured he was being a smart ass! Lmao
Exactly what I was thinking.
Especially if they understandably use a nickname irl.
TSA must know her by sight!
My niece was born on the 10th anniversary of 9-11, my dad had worked at the pentagon on that day in 2001, he said he was so grateful to be able to put something positive on that day
My best friend was told he was cancer free on September 11th. We celebrate every year. I don't care. He's my best friend.
I wouldn’t either, celebrate your bestie!! ❤
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
It's a tragedy that happened, but it should not mean people give up celebrating their life. If they were born on that day, then that's something to still celebrate. Your friends survival/ life is also something to celebrate and I think it's good to focus on those positives especially after so many lives were lost. I'm glad you're friend is cancer free and I hope that it never comes back. Wishing you both a full and happy life.
@storylockett2418 thanks for your sweet message!
What a blessing that your friend got to choose life. I'm sure none of the victims nor their families would begrudge him that
I literally thought there was something wrong with my audio during that first one. THE ECHO!!😂
ME TOO!
Not my name actually being Echo 😂
She even put that twang in there when saying "when u pick up them kids "😂😂😂
@@echovanhorn813 Oh my god, I love that😂
Hahaha saaaame 😂
You're not the only one that 'rehearses' conversations. I act out interactions in my head so I can prepare for different scenarios. It helps my anxiety to have a 'plan' ahead of time.
I do that all the time, I thought I was crazy! Lol
The Uber clip is SO REAL. I went to Vegas with my sister and my 70 year-old mother for her birthday and my boyfriend would NOT stop calling constantly. And we were just going out to eat, gambling, watching the fountains, all wholesome stuff.
He called me on the monorail, on the strip, demanding to know why my phone was in airport mode.... Because we were in the audience at a show, dumb.ass!
He got upset when I posted pictures from Lake Mead because he said "you never said you were going to Lake Mead!" WTAF I broke up with him and then he died (unrelated).
Unrelated 😂🤣
the unrelated took me out... girl i didn't think you did it but now I have follow up questions... what exactly took him off this earth?
Lmao I know that's right, man's stressing over nothing did him in. Better him than you!
Yikes, super stalker psycho vibes. Glad you saw it clearly and didn't get sucked into the crazy making.
@@OneidaGCsame!
I was at work on a Friday and my boyfriend went snowboarding that day on his day off. A few of my male coworkers were talking with me and they were like oh what’s your plans and what is your boyfriend up to. I told them he is snowboarding. They said “you let him go snowboarding 😮” No, I didn’t let him go? I asked if they were okay in their relationships.
He’s a 30 year old adult and can do what he wants, especially if I’m working and he’s not.
We consult with each other and make sure there are no mutual plans. We don’t “let” each other do anything. We respect each other going and doing something.
I hear "you let him..." all too often. Like Girl I got too much shit to do to be monitoring that man's every move. We've been married almost 20 years, if he wants to take a trip IDGAF. Sometimes I drive to my sister's for the weekend on a whim and we wouldn't still be married if he said I couldn't , why should I treat his trips any differently from my own?
this honestly stems from how our parents were... i'm in my early 40s so we're talking parents born in the 50s and hearing their parents (our grands). It was a BIG thing in the 50s and 60s, calling each other "old man" or "old lady" "the ol ball and chain" and saying things such as "oh you let her go" or "you mean the old lady let you out" just stupid jokes. I 100% agree with not "letting" an adult do something, there's respect in a relationship, you talk about plans, if you want to do something with your friends you let your partner know. Like me, ill make plans to go see my girls that live about an hr away, i plan it so that i'm out after my youngest gets off to school and home before she gets home and i simply tell my partner "Hey i have plans to go to xy tomorrow, cant promise when ill be home but text me if you need me" and he just goes "alright, drive safe" cause i wont see or talk to him really before i leave. That's mutual respect. He doesn't "let" me do anything just like i don't "let" him. We talk about it and inform each other.
Same with my hubby. He goes to skiing trip if he has time and I travel to my friend to another country for a weekend if I feel like it. We’ve been together over 30 years, the youngest son of ours still lives at home. But we have never had any trust issues and we have always sorted out everything together. We love each other now as much as we did in the beginning. ❤
I remember an old coworker told me to throw out my then boyfriends PlayStation because he "played too much" according to HER!. i said first why aee you trying to get me to plan my own murder. Second un HELL NAW. That is MY alone time too. His PlayStation is staying there. I dont need ALL of his attention you're weird. Ppl are weird. She was twice my age
I get upset when my boyfriend leaves the day he leaves. Physical touch is very important to us and it hurts when he leaves. It gets better the following days.
Charlotte using D-20 for dnd absolutely made my day
SAME!
Same!!! I got so excited 😆
I have mass called my partner once, I was going into labour, and he was at work. I called 21 times before he answered. Though, I do think that is probably one of the only times it's reasonable to mass call someone
Definitely
I mass called my husband 20 times when I had a flat tire in a blizzard . 🤣
@blizz2795 another time it's very reasonable 😅
Or your child or close family had a bad accident or things along those lines...
@alithedon4996 Basically, any emergency
I have never once in my life approached someone to insult their looks. I have complemented some peoples attire but I never felt the need to tear someone down like that. And if anyone ever does that to me, well, stay tuned!!
You'll be on bodycam files? Code blue cam? I'll be right there with ya, no worries! :)
I bet you'd be one mad duck 😂
@@michellem634 👍🤬🦆
I have acted out my arguments with people, and then turned around and had the exact argument go just as I had practiced, so I had my answers at the ready! I love when that happens, it’s like instant gratification! 😂
Decoy wallet... diabolical 🤣🤣🤣
😮that's evil
If she monetized the video and if she is backed by a brand? LAWSUIT!
Not only can she be sued for plagiarism, being a word for word copy, and monetizing it, but the brand can be sued for copyright infringement as well.
She may have been told to make "something like this, but in your own words" and thought they meant "in your own voice" 😂
@@phaedrapage4217 but if the brand paid her for it, they're still liable.
To me it looked like the brand gave them both a script and then the “drama” just created more buzz for them
12:30 That was literally my dad with my mom. He died earlier this year and for the first time in 40 YEARS my mom is able to just go to the gas station without that man calling her non-stop! She actually got anxious the first few weeks of going out of the house because she kept expecting his calls but then realized that she doesn't have to do that anymore 🙌🏻
Yay for your mom! Sorry she had to wait for that freedom, hope she learns to enjoy the heck out of it! :)
My former neighbour is an elderly lady who wasn't allowed any freedom from her husband. It took months before she dared to break his rules. His rules were limiting. She wasn't even allowed to go for a walk without a purpose he set, like shopping, for example.
It's been two years and she still lives of half the budget he gave her for food and puts a little back each time she's treated to food. Her son tries to involve her but has to do the finances, including making decisions and she still holds firm to rules her husband said. She's not allowed to get a gardener for example, even though she's fallen very badly twice and it'd be better to take that off her hands. There's plenty of generational wealth of which most already went to the children and the grandchildren's home and studies are paid for already.
I was with my BD for 9 years, high school sweet hearts turned disastrous abuse. After we finally ended it took me 2 years to make my own decisions, and I still have problems doing so for fear of repercussions. This shit is hard to get past when it becomes your norm for so long. I'm glad she has the chance to breathe fresh air and live life without the permission of another.
@@esmee6308 My dad was also constantly on my mom about her spending even though she was the sole breadwinner. Since he died she suddenly has so much surplus money left over each month but he was always complaining about how she was wasting money, all while he was making large, frivolous purchases and giving her grief about buying a $5 T-shirt.
@@WhimsicalWorm I'm so glad you're out of that as well! So many people think that abuse means hitting someone but I feel like physical abuse actually happens less than emotional/verbal/financial abuse and coercive control. My mom first stuck around because she didn't want us to grow up without a father like she did but by the time we were adults she was so beaten down that she felt she had no power. In reality she had all the power, she made all their money (over 6 figures) and he was disabled so he couldn't work or even really fend for himself if she left.
My husband proposed on 9/11 (different year)! He didn't realize the date when he did. He got the ring in the mail and it was burning such a hole in his pocket that he couldn't wait! It was so adorable that I said, "Yes!" Even though the date wasn't the best. It's nice to be able to reclaim a horrible date with something beautiful!
I’m glad because that day needs to be taken back by Americans. Too much was taken away.
Yessss! Like how Hitlers birthday is now a day for stoners to blaze up 😂 420🎉
@debbismelser6536 that's kinda like saying we should "take back" Pearl Harbor Day. Like, what?
@@caffeinatedkatie4696 Too much was taken away. I’m not saying to not honor those lost but to not continue to give the terrorists attention is what I mean.
Dating these days
1) always have money to cover your own dinner, just in case.
2) try to research if the restaurant/bar/cafe/etc if you can split the check
3) If you leave to escape the date, hey the Dude or Gal, could be crazy... Please inform the restaurant. Most a decent amount of the time they'll act as witness, especially if there's suspicion of "date r@pe dr~gs"
Wow! It’s so sad that we have to be in such a state when you’re just looking for companionship.
You can just say date rape drugs. I know the tik-tok algorithm got people using all kinds of crazy characters and sideways language to describe a lot of shit, but word are powerful. Don't give up that power. Date rape is fucking awful. It should feel like a slap when you read those words, and we should all feel outraged that it happens.
@@ameranthe_ Sometimes you work around the censors, so it won't be pushed down, and people can actually read it.
@@ameranthe_ comments can be reported for using those words in their proper form.
That's a great list 🖤 also make it a point to interact with waitstaff, bouncers, etc... People working in hospitality are more likely to remember you if you interact, tell them you like their makeup, their necklace, their shirt. Create a space for yourself in the memory of those around you.
My daughter was born 9/11/09 she's my miracle. She survived when all doctors said she wouldn't. I fully believe she is one of those beautiful souls that were lost that day.
Edit........ because of a rude person
IF YOU COME AT ME RUDELY DO NOT EXPECT ME TO BE KIND. Please keep in mind I do not believe the way many do. I'm going to put this here as I have also said before I am a practicing white witch. Please don't try forcing your beliefs on me just because I believe a different way. Thank you.
Stop that's so wholesome 🥹 I'm so happy for you
@@flow3r_grl28 thank you she's turning 15 this year she defied all odds
@@Darkprincess0789so let me get this straight.... Your daughter, born 9/11/2001, is turning fifteen in the year of our Lord *2024*?? And I get it, you probably meant she was born on the day years later, but the way you wrote it doesn't imply that at all, especially trying to say she's the friggin reincarnation of someone who died during that attack. That was a horrific day. Don't clout-chase off it please.
@@Sarah27H listen here you rude woman I have no reason to "clout chase" I'm not a creator. As a matter of fact I'm a practicing witch and have very different beliefs then you. DO NOT IMPOSE or try FORCING your ways on me just because you don't agree with what I say. Yes it was tragic but those beautiful souls have every reason to potentially be reincarnated. She was born 9-11-2009 and was only a 1lb baby and I was told she wouldn't live. She just turned 15 and yes I fully believe one of those lost beautiful souls is her or a part of her. So DO NOT COME AT ME RUDELY. Have a great frigging day and leave me the heck alone. Keep your rudeness to yourself.
@@Sarah27H so here's the context you wanted figured I'd edit so your rude brain could wrap around it. I am not nor will I ever be a clout chaser. Those beautiful souls lost that day deserve a chance to be reborn and have a life they lost. I do not believe the way you do. I am a practicing witch therefore by your comment I already assume you'd burn me at the stake. Please keep rudeness to yourself or expect it in return.
"Just be authentic, just be yourself!"
Yes. In my son's birthday card I wrote, "Always be unapologetically you."
"I'm just practicing my lines" as a drama kid from way back, I felt this in my soul 🤣🤣 13:11
As a woman in my 40's we don't claim the woman who called those girls trash.
Same. Who does that…to children?? 🫣🤦🏻♀️
Right? They are literal children 👀
Oh no, She robbed her Boop! I’m laughing my arse off.
She drank him under the table!
My nephew was born on Sept 12th….When I tell you my sister was trying soooo hard NOT to push until after midnight (she was in labor all day on the 11th.) 👍🏼👶🏻
Lmaaaaaao your sister is a real one, shielding her kid from unwanted bullying / trauma
It's not as current of a "bad date" as 9/11. But I was told I'd be due on Dec 7th, I was delivered on the 6th lol. Mom didn't want a Pearl Harbor baby 😅
I just gave birth 😂😂 that's legit scary to hold it in..
Haha aww I did the same on Christmas Day with my daughter, she came on the 26th so it’s still rough, but not quite as bad 😂
@@nom-nomnami1743 lol never knew thats what we were called but I did hear it a lot lol
16:18 “you have the audacity to cheat with those dutty feet” 😭😭
The dimension 20 cut scene is a crossover I didn’t know I needed, lol
Brennan would be proud 😆
same!
Came here for this!
Was searching the comments for someone that knew. XD
Yesss I was thinking the same
No, I will not abandon Isis. She was the goddess of healing and motherhood, and as a retired (now) nurse, Isis was my avatar, because healing and motherhood were the most important things in my life, and I will PROUDLY have her tattoo on my arm for the rest of my life!
Eeeeewww
Wow Petty Lady nearly 2 million followers 🎉
🫶🏾💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽Mother Goddess Protects! Ashe sister!
I have a dog named Isis. I had a cat named Athena. When I named my dog some idiot said, "you named your dog after a terrorist group?" I said, no, fool, I didn't name my dog I S I S . That's an acronym. Unfortunately, people will always lack intelligence.
@@Min-Hae37_77if anything your ignorance is ew 😅
11:48 But your editor is the real hero for dropping in that Dimension 20 clip. Bravo!👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
Years ago my house was the party house, if you need a place to crash house, too drunk to drive home sleepover house….you get the idea. Having grown up in our town the house was well known. The only rules were you couldn’t come in without permission and if anything disappeared or got damaged you were persona non grata forevermore. After graduating college and my mother passing away I sold the house in order to move back to the mainland to be near my dad. A month after closing I received a phone call from the buyer’s agent. He explained that during the first week of living there they had awoken to people sleeping in the living room. On the weekends they had been awakened by the doorbell or knocking by random people asking if they could crash. After a month of the madness they were reaching out to me to see if I could put the word out that I no longer lived there. This was 1988…no internet. I arranged a “Moving Away” party at the beach, invited everyone I knew and made it know I was leaving the islands. Never heard from the new homeowners again.
For a moment in your life, your home was a safe space that must've saved thousands of lives and that makes me feel so good. I hope you found other ways to keep the good ❤
😂❤
Haha we had the same in university early 2000s.
Except we had rules like you puke we nuke (blacklist), and no drvgs cause most of us were on a scholarholarship.
It was fun until someone let my stalker in by accident as they didnt know they were blacklisted. Thankfully my husband- bf of 5ish yrs att- lived with me and he saw the guy eating cold spaghetti-os out of a CAN on 1 of our couches. He kicked him out and we made the blacklist board.
@@LatinaSoldier15 Thank you! It’s funny, my husband and I raised 7 children and our home became the safe place for troubled kids. One of our 7 is actually one that came to us in jr high and we ended up becoming her legal guardians. Over the years we helped many friends of our children. We were also the parents that got called when a night of partying happened. We told all the kids and their friends that if they needed to get out of a situation to call us and ask “how is Sadie?” That was our signal that they needed help and just had to tell us where they were and we would be there to pick them up. The other part of that deal was we would not lie to there parents, and for our children there was still consequences. Three of our seven used the system and several of their friends.
Until I read your comment I hadn’t really put together the two things. Thank you for helping me realize I did carry on a tradition started by my mother into my life and hopefully it will continue in our kids’ lives.
@@pineapplegirl8078 ohhhhhh this is AMAZING!!!!!! 🤩😍 Such an incredible motive you continued...best thing to wake up to!!!
9:21 leaving a decoy wallet is diabolical
For real 😮 damn
I'm gonna be ✨️that person✨️ for a sec on the video at 16:50 - imagine if that had been an ex boyfriend and his buddy breaking into a girl's place. Those girls can giggle about it, but it's not cute and I hope the guy is okay because I would have been terrified if I found an ex hanging out in my pantry. (Also wtf were they doing there in the first place??? What's the plan here???)
EXACTLY. like im the biggest girls girl but why are you breaking into a man’s home? especially ur exs! this isn’t cute 😬
15:36 🎵Dirty Feet...DONE DIRT CHEAP!
Dirty Feet and they're done dirt cheap!🎵
Yes! I was singing the same.
I don't even know how you would get feet that are that dirty... Hooow? 😳
11:49 I wasn't watching the video, just listening while I made coffee, and I'm so happy our brains went the same place when she said DnD 🤣
If someone's gonna be a sugar baby they know what their responsibility in the transaction is. If they then refuse their part of the transaction, they can't get upset when he says no sugar = we done.
The sugar in sugar dating is the money/gifts the sugar daddy/mommy provides. Intimacy is usually involved in any non-sugar dating relationship, the money/gifts is what makes it sugar dating. And yeah, sugar dating is supposed to be a mutually beneficial arrangement where both parties provide something to the relationship, so yeah, I agree with you.
Right?! lol..she is acting like he can’t get someone quicker than she can. There are girls out there waiting for a sugar daddy to become available lol😅
She didn't look too upset about it. So she was likely done with the arrangement herself.
Happy Birthday Queen! And so close to 2mill! You hadn’t even gotten 1mil when I first saw you!
It wasn't on my bingo card that a rando clip of Brennan Lee Mulligan / the Dimension 20 crew freaking out over a crit would be in one of Charlotte's videos... but I'm glad and recognized the screaming when I had the window minimized. 10/10 Charlotte. Respect.
The practicing of lines is so true. You have to look at it from every angle so that you may have a response.
11:55 the fact that the editor (Vanessa??) knows who Brennan Lee Mulligan and crew are just made me so so happy 😂❤❤❤❤
Editor: Timothy Dunsmore 😀
I completely nerded out on that clip 😂😂
Saaaame!
i was so surprised to see a d20 clip pop up!! editor has good taste
I came to say this😂
Happy Birthday to our Petty Potato Queen!!!🎂🥳🎉🎊😘♥️
Thank you my tater tot!
Happy happy birthday!
**turkey noises** Happy Birthday! 🎉🎉
Happy birthday 🎉🎉🎉
@CharlotteDobre Happy Birthday! It's my birthday also n I'm laid up with a badly sprained ankle. Thanks for the laughs especially today 😊
Also, the demure thing ISNT FROM JOOLS EITHER. She brought it back and made it viral but it was definitely from the show “the nanny” Fran tries to whisper it without her accent saying “dim-youurr” and no one could understand what she was saying until she said it in her accent and said “dem-you-wah.”
I mean, the phrase Jools used is her creation totally. Demure is just a word folks have used forever, Jools just used it in her own funny way, like Fran did in the show. So the demure thing referenced here definitely is from Jools.
That's exactly what I thought 😂
Lol ohmygod!!! I remember that- wait- are you sure it wasn't Seinfeld when he was dating the phone sex chick that Kramer was calling??! Lol or maybe that was just a 90s trope😂😂🤷♀️
Demure is also just a word. Like from the dictionary 😂
so you think the tv show the nanny invented the word demure???? this will really blow your mind then, it DOES NOT MEAN MINDFUL!
i have a couple friends, whos wedding was 9/11/2001 talk about a shit anniversary. they went forth with it because they had people from out of state whod FLOWN IN THE DAY BEFORE. i was such a sad day. the ceremony was short out of respect for the occasion and they got everyone out and home as soon as possible but MAN. the family and friends waited about 6 months and threw them a surprise party to show them we loved them so much. we had a moment of silence for those we lost that day and the first responders, and then they got to PARTY. that is the day they chose as thier anniversary going forth. they said they didnt want to take away from those who died that day.
I remember going to school? Your friends had their wedding on a Tuesday?
@@ThePuppin Some Jewish people prefer to be married on Tuesdays. I'm not Jewish so I can't comment on the reason, I just remember hearing about it.
@@SaltySerial they are jewish, i didnt even think about it as its never a thing we ever discussed :)
@@ThePuppin yes i thought it was weird too but shrug. it was in a rec center so it was a small inexpensive thing to begin with. none the less, the party was way nicer :)
I just went to the funeral of a friend who was born on September 11, and my grandmother was born on September 11. Had she been alive in 2001, she would have thought the terrorists were coming for her, she was that paranoid.
That's a super impressive level of paranoid! 😂🙌
(And I'm so sorry about your friend!)
Family I lived with in college, the dad b day is 9/11 and he used to joke the world is taking a moment for him every year. Had to break the tension, but Sinister.
@@hannahthufvesson thank you. Yeah, my grandmother was out there, lol. She died three weeks before her 90th birthday.
My brother's birthday is 9/12. He was so grateful it wasn't the 11th.
"Terrorists" 😂
Girl the fact that you (and/or Vanessa) put this clip 11:50 of Dimension 20 in the video make me like you even more! We love a fellow D&d enthusiast potato! 🥔❤
Charlotte struggling to explain 'suga' and keep it PC-rated is gold.
Dude, I know a girl who’s bf used to FaceTime her and be like “show me the room, let me talk to your friends, I bet there’s guys there” type of shit. I, personally, used to just hang up on him when she pass me phone. 😂😂He did it the day of our best friend’s eldest son’s funeral. Turns out he was cheating on her, and acting crazy as shit bc he assumed she was cheating back.
That's usually the case. The insecure one is the one in the wrong, projecting out of guilt & insecurity. So gross
My name is also Isis!!! It's so good to see someone who knows the fucking STRUGGLE!!! TSA feels me up every time I fly! I can't order food online or from apps without using a fake name, I've had people say to me "that's not a funny joke" and then had to whip out my drivers license. I've been denied from jobs - ITS AN EGYPTIAN GODDESS!!!
Omg I’m so sorry. That is just wrong. I thought jobs legitimately cannot deny your application for any legal names that is put on there. I know I’ve read statements stating that you sign this form, and anything that is written on here is truthful and not fraudulent , if fraudulent your application can be denied and or charges. . I never knew or heard anyone with the name Isis and didn’t know it was a goddess. Such a pretty name.
It sucks that so many people are so ignorant.
@@brandiehammond Employment isn't supposed to, but when asked in an interview "So, how do you answer the phone?" Or "Would you be willing to use a nickname?" And then being denied a second interview it becomes pretty obvious.
It's a shame because The Egyptian goddess is a goddess of rebirth. My mom said she felt Reborn when she had me. So sad such a beautiful meaning gets lost on people.
This is a well known scam. A guy invites a girl on a date and orders something really expensive, three courses, wine, the lot. He then ditches her and leaves her to pay for the meal. He left an empty wallet on the table so she wouldn’t be suspicious and she would think he was coming back. Sometimes they will also leave an empty phone case on the table as well.
Edit: why is it whenever you make a post criticising a guy on the internet there are always a bunch of people in the comments ready with the whole “WOMEN ARE SO MUCH WORSE 😡” spiel. Literally, people are in the comments making up shit about this girl, trying to justify this guys behaviour despite knowing nothing about this girl at all. Why is it so hard to accept that some guys are just dicks. I’m not saying women are perfect but this video was about a guy.
I think most of these guys are just getting their get backs🤷🏼♀️ it's prolly happened to every one of those men, multiple times. As they used to say, Hate the game, not the player🤷🏼♀️
Wow. I'm glad I'm married. If anything should happen to my husband, I will never get on dating apps. Between the scammers and the shifties, oof!
@@redfish2229 Yea because it’s completely acceptable to be shitty to one person because a completely different person was shitty to you. It’s like how it’s ok for parents to beat their kids because their parents beat them, just pass the trauma and hate along.
“Well known” even though a lot of people have never heard this.
Honestly I've seen way more evidence of women pulling that shit.
I also practice conversations before going into them. It's an anxiety thing with me, because I'm always afraid I'm going to say something to upset someone, or that I'm going to breakdown if I think someone is mad at me.
If someone gets offended by something you said then that's a problem for them, not for you
If it helps, just keep the conversation light and don't talk about race, religion, politics, disabilities, etc. Talk about music and movies and if someone has an opinion you don't agree with then just say ok and move on and if you do say something to offend someone just say I'm sorry, let's change the topic and you move on 😊
Rehearsing when confrontation or remain is inevitable is normal, but I think I do it more than most, cuz my response is to freeze and people please. So I'm learning how to prep to stand up for myself and stay present with both of us when I do.
@@orielwiggins2225 whether you believe in it or not, even almighty loving God has boundaries and does not please people - it is people trying to please him... you will grow into your confidence once you claim and execute your own boundaries. I was like how you described once and then I learned to claim and execute my boundaries
@@what.the.whatever yeah, I've been in trauma therapy for this. It's beyond just claiming something for me. Lifelong history of cult and similar situations. But given that I've got a lot of. "oh, HELL no! " when I watch stuff now, I'm getting a lot better, just lose my words in the moment and go back to programmed responses which is to "make folks feel less upset so we can have rational convo“. Which I know doesn't work, but it's not a knowing thing, it's a trauma thing. Progress is happening and I'm glad I'm not the only one.
Get into some cognitive behavoral therapy for your people pleasing anxiety. Learn to haveva backbone. You deserve better.
7:01 wtf did she expect ?! THAT arrangement has expectations he knows and she knows.. a pretty face can only go so far.. 9:20 and that dummy wallet was. sooo funny lol
I was scrolling Tik Tok and watched a whole southern family fight,I was invested and I don't even know these people😂😂😂. Tik Tok always has some drama going on😂😂😂😂
What was the account
account?
4:50 to be fair, Isis is the name of an ancient Egyptian goddess. I will never understand why all these fanatical people will take something that was not inherently bad and turn it to associating with something horrible. Hitler did it to. That famous symbol of his was a symbol for protection, prosperity and other good things in many parts of the world until he got his hands on it. No no culture can ever use it again no matter how much older it was compared to him.
They did not call themselves after the godess Isis. 🤦🏻♀️
@phoenix. That's not what they said?
They said what Isis was originally associated with, a goddess, and that bad people will take innocuous things and associate themselves with it forever ruining the implications of it for other people.
Don't use a face palm emoji when you blatantly didn't get the point
@@phoenix. It doesn't matter if it's an acronym or some fluffy little caterpillar in some obscure corner of the world, the name will now always be associated with those fanatics. The same way that the symbol, which was never a bad thing and used in many cultures across the world, will now always be associated with Hitler.
@@phoenix.They still stole the name tainted it to the point one can't talk about the goddess without peoole making it about islamists
Japan still uses the manji symbol, however, unfortunately when footage is shown overseas it tends to be blurred or censored. There was an anime that used the manji symbol and it became a whole controversy, so the officially licensed anime became censored whenever the symbol was shown, and cosplayers that were wearing the symbol were criticised quite harshly online by ppl that knew nothing. It’s very unfair
Living as a black woman with the name Isis Snowden who was born on September 11th is the definition of living life on hard mode.
I raised hell for years about the sacreligious use of the name Isis! She was/is a beautiful wonderful goddess, and I can't help but think they did it on purpose. They could have used the ISIL, like Obama did, I have to respect him for that. I've had 2 cats I've named Isis. And to beat it all, using that as what to call that group is a western thing. The other people over there who actually had to deal with this group, never called them isis, they had a totally different name for them that should have been used. Can't remember what it was, but I remember it reminded me of the word douch. Hahaha. Yep.
Daesh
this is the earliest i have EVER been to a video hahahaha also the drama on tik tok is hilarious
"pick a better personality"
Hun, your personality is the best! 😘 Perfect!!😊
A D&D reference in a Charlotte video. My life is complete!
"My suga daddy crashed out cuz I wouldn't give the suga" Hun, that's literally in the name. You think Hugh Hefner's bunnies stayed around if they didn't give him any sugar?
I don't think he'll be back either. If he has no investment since she's never given him sugar, he has no reason to believe she'd change. He'll find another woman who's willing to give him sugar for giving her what she wants.
@@AmyBluesoulso if a man gives you money he’s now entitled to you? So what if he leaves, she doesn’t look broken up about it
@@AmyBluesoul they always come back. At least until they find a fiancé, then they don't call until he's bored.
@@Enriquez2222 I mean.....in my experience with sugar daddies, that's the agreement.
@@a.munroetruth!
We got married on 9/11 three yesrs ago. We had a moment of silence before dinner to acknowledge the tragedy and then proceeded to have a wonderful evening. The date was special to us because we went on our first date on 9/11/20 not remembering the significance of the date. If you look into dates something bad has probably happened on every day, some are just more public than others.
11:00 me and my boyfriend recently had a fight like this and I just had to finally just say the truth and everything she's saying is what I was saying to him if you don't trust me for God knows why even though I've never given you a reason to not trust me then we can't be together. Im not going to waste my time with an insecure man❤
PETTY POTATO ARMY ASSEMBLE
WE RIDE AT DAWN
I’m here!!!!
WE RIDE AT DAWN'S BREAK
Present!!
Petty Potatoes of the world, unite and take over!
The decoy wallet guy😂
He just dined and dashed😂
dear editor, i love you. the dnd joke and sudden clip of dimension20 may have killed me and revived me. thank you, i love you, sincerely, a nerdy potato
CHARLOTTE WE LIKE IT WHEN YOU ARGUE WITH YOURSELF BECAUSE THATS EXACTLY WHAT WE DO!!!!
You are not alone, Charlotte. Unfortunately I generally do this after I should’ve said what I wanted to. You always come up with the best stuff after the argument or confrontation.
I was in labour with my oldest son on September 11 2001, I was walking around the hospital hallways and at first thought everyone was watching the same video. My doctor stopped my labour (not sure why) and he was instead born 2 days later on the 13th. He gets Friday the 13th birthdays occassionally,this is his 23rd on Feiday the 13th
Some study came out saying that a sizable percentage of the population has no "inner monologue". If you're rehearsing or rehashing arguments (or otherwise talking to yourself) that means you have one. So congrats, you're not defective :)
I'm defective in the other direction. My inner monologue never shuts up. Ever.
Yeah, but can those people with no inner monologs be trusted? 😂😂😂I have full on dialog internally, and got flack for it when my BIL pointed out the study about inner monolog, then I told him it's weird than folks exist who don't have inside voices. He said, you have full on convos don't you? I was like, well, um yeah!?!? And my therapist told me if I'm not taking back to my inner voice thanks when I need to be concerned. 😂😂😂😂
I am not sure I have an inner monologue. I never rehearse conversations but may well go over them again afterwards analysing what has been said. I can be very sensitive like that. I don't need to rehearse conversations. They just come out naturally. Nothing is planned and nothing is fake. I also don't have conversations with myself. I don't think I am defective. That sounds like a very big generalisation. I am fine with how I am. I wouldn't feel that comfortable with people who have to plan out conversations in advance. That is a bit like reading from a script. I know some people who might do this but these are not the kind of people I want to hang out with. This sounds like someone pretending to be your friend but only wants to rope you in to their MLM scam. In fact this sounds like the kind of things crazy Americans tell each other is true. When I meet someone they will say something to me and I will respond and so it goes. At what point do I ignore what they are saying to bring in my rehearsed conversation. I am just not fake enough for that. Conversation flows like liquid. That is how it should be.
I think entire conversations to myself all the time. Now I'm wondering what goes on in those people's heads. Nothing? Radio silence? Memories? I've no idea.
@@orielwiggins2225 What a strange thing to be bigoted about.
my bestie just gave birth today 9/11/24 to a healthy little boy, her second. im so happy for her and glad they are both heathy
One time, when I did something nice for a young woman, and she offered me spicy time as a “Thank You”. I turned her down.
She asked me why I did that, and I replied that it was not my motive for helping her.
Her next words broke my heart, "it is what everyone else has expected when they did something nice for me, so I thought it was normal."
She then asked me why I helped her, I said, "because you needed help, and I could help."
She told me that was one of the nicest things that anyone had ever said to her.
what is happening? @cr6661
@@Kiah1995😂😂😂 definitely posted on wrong video
No he was referencing the sugar daddy video
@@justsummers1559 😭 bruh 2024 is wild
@@justsummers1559 I was posting about the sugar daddy video part.
As a writer it is fascinating to see plagiarism in other newer creative worlds. We do use trends from social media to help promote, but seeing word for word copies of videos is so crazy because it happens all the time in writing! Also, as a fantasy/myth/history lover, I always think of the Egyptian deity Isis first. She’s well cool! Focus on that! Also the suga daddy vid is why I could never do that. I don’t like drama in my life 😅 and the dating one makes me scared to date again, no one should do that!
13:14 I react right there with you Charlotte 😂❤ you're my gossip group, we gossip about people we don't know as if they were friends 😂😂
I love acting out future and/or past arguments. It’s therapeutic. Cause I will never have the guts to do the trash talking I do in my own room.
I can tell that Charlotte is the mom friend of the group 🤣And btw HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
7:25 that's actually called a Splenda Daddy... all the love with none of the sugar... 😂😂
The sugar in sugar dating is the money/gifts that the sugar daddy/mommy provides, not sex or intimacy from the sugar baby, though sugar dating is making a mutually beneficial arrangement where both parties provide to each other.
I could tell you'd been watching Nurse John when you started saying "I beg your finest pardon?!" I loved it XD
OMG Charlotte ponytail is soooo gorgeous, she always looks so amazing, her hair is just perfect. And her laugh is adorable, sometimes her laugh alone is enough to make me laugh too😂❤
Nothing but the best for the Potato Queen!
Her hair is gorgeous.
You’re not he only one who goes over argument lines in your head in preparation. Love your videos Charlotte 💜
8:56 the only currency bro had on him was a Dave and Buster’s arcade card 😂
happy birthday charlott!! ❤ we love you 🎉
I liked the sugar daddy one. It showed that they are both using each other and nobody wins. She thought she has the upper hand and could milk him but offer no sugar in return and he showed that without him there is no sugar. They played each other and showed it is not something that should be applauded and there are no winners.
I think it can be a mutually beneficial arrangement, but I don’t support it when it’s an obviously married man. Some people want to be spoiled and some people want to spoil others, without being in a committed relationship. I agree, though. It’s odd to me how people always vilify the sugar baby, when the sugar daddy/mommy is also using the other person…
@stephenbanks5952 The sugar in sugar dating is what the sugar daddy/mommy provides, not the sugar baby. I agree that they were very obviously using each other superficially but disagree that there aren't any winners in sugar dating.
@@lilscenechick1995 It is supposed to be a mutually beneficial arrangement. I agree, I don't support it when it's a married person, I straight-up decline. I wouldn't generalize sugar daddies/mommies as using the sugar baby though, some honestly want genuine companionship.
I really like how you describe what is happening in the video. Sometimes I can only listen and not watch the video. I appreciate the play-by-play!
Not a DECOY WALLET ?!? Oh my goodness 😅😂😂😂😂
14:23 'you look like trash' while she's literally wearing plastic
she looks like she took some high school cheerleader pom-poms and made a jacket out of them. her and her friends looking like they are trying way to hard to be "hip"
the audacity to say someone looks like trash when you look like a cheap pinata lol
Hey! She said that because those girls were yelling at people and physically assaulting people by shoving them! They lied on their video to be a victim. Security had to watch them the entire night after because of what they caused.. this info was passed to me by not one or two but FOUR other people who had been there that night.. just figured I’d spread that info since they wanna be liars
Hey! She said that because those girls were yelling at people and physically shoving people.. They lied on their video to be a victim. Security had to watch them the entire night after because of what they caused.. this info was passed to me by not one or two but FOUR other people who had been there that night.. just figured I’d spread that info since they wanna be lie to everyone
She said that because those girls were yelling at people and shoving people.. They lied on their video to be a victim. Security had to watch them the entire night after because of what they caused.. this info was passed to me by not one or two but FOUR other people who had been there that night.. just figured I’d spread that info since they wanna be lie to everyone
18:52 me staring at the screen with the last of the snack in my mouth
CHARLOTTE HAPPY BIRTHDAAAAY!! I HOPE YOURE HAVING AN AMAZING DAY JUST AS YOU DESERVE IT!🫶🫶🫶🥳🥳🥳
3:05 my school put up pictures that went like, “See how i walk in the hallway, very mindful, very demure” EVERYWHERE
Yeah, in the 90s, our reaction to that crap was grunge and high heeled combat boots with frilly mini skirts. 😅
almost there 1.99 mil Congrats Charlotte!!!!💯👏
Me eating dinner while watching Charlotte has been a tradition for months(it's 6pm when Charlotte posts)
Haha same
Dang I'm eating breakfast watching Charlotte! It's 9 am here! ❤
Its 12 pm for me so always lunch 😊
@@Amber14333 nice
@@desert_holly early bird
Honestly, petty TikTok drama with our Potato Queen moving in the shadows is what gets me going in the morning 🤭❤️🥰
The first girl!! This same thing happened with a makeup artist!! Her reaction was PERFECT!!
My daughter was born on 9/11 at 8:11. When my doctor told me she was inducing me on 9/10 (she was my first born) I cried and prayed she would come on that day but I just knew she wouldn’t make an appearance until the 11th. My doctor was like it’s ok. Now the 11th can have a better meaning and a way to celebrate something instead of it being an awful/sad day. I was like I hear you but that doesn’t change what everyone associates with that day…. 🤦🏼♀️
I think the problem is that you guys care what other people associate. It's not your fault they're falling for propaganda used as an excuse to exterminate Middle Eastern civilians.
Super pregnant right now, honestly worried about this. I feel you! But she's still a blessing no matter the day. ❤
Y'all making it a big deal. Other tragedies have happened all across the world with higher death toll on different days but I see no one complaining. Might be an American thing to be a snowflake.
I have a guy friend who was born on Valentine’s Day and I feel like that is a lot worse lol. Never getting to celebrate your own birthday.
Thank god for time differences! I now have something to watch while my kiddo decides sleep is for the weak.
Charlotte!! You are looking absolutely beautiful ❤❤❤! Your makeup in this video… I mean it’s just giving… PERFECTION. I love you and watch all your videos.
Everytime I click on your videos, the amount of your subscribers just keeps going up and up! You'll be at 2 mill in no time! Congratulations Charlotte!
HABBY BIRTHDAYYYYY!!!
What?! Yes Yes Happy Birthday
🎁🎉🎈🎂
Legend says the girl with the Dave and Busters card is still there today.
1.99 million!!!! You’re almost there, Charlotte!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
2:41 and yet, some people try passing off your videos as 'Charlot Dobe' or some other spelling. Even with all that, I (a subscriber before you hit 500k) am cheering you on for now reaching 1.99M subs!
I've seen several videos from "Charlotte Dobre fans" and I'm embarrassed to say it took me a while before I realised it was just pirating Charlotte's videos.
@carolineben-ari2798 Yeah, those pop up from time to time for me, too. I wonder if she knows about them(?)
As someone who struggles with complex PTSD... The one thing that I have learned in my many years of therapy is that the only way for me specifically to handle a trigger is to reprogram it. Literally reprogram it. So you take that day and you make it a happy memory. Make it the happiest memory you can because that's the only way you're going to dull the trauma.. I am ashamed to say that this country has perpetuated and glorified victimhood😢 with all respect to those who died on that day, we need to do better. We need to do better for ourselves and we need to do better for them because I doubt this is what they would have wanted
10:10 "Dating apps." Meet people by volunteering. Meet people through friends. Meet people by playing DnD! (I was writing that as she mentioned DnD! Holy moly!) Ditch expensive dates. Don't drink alcohol on a first date. DITCH dating apps!
lol omg my young adult kid just invited a colleague to his gaming night, but she’s never played DnD or anything like that (she’s interested tho). He picked up a couple dark-but-adorable shorter role playing games. I didn’t say anything but I was giggling inside, he’s got a decent strategy going for getting the DnD playing gf of his dreams. Poor kid grew up playing & really didn’t know that it is so niche, so I’m thrilled that it’s getting so popular. He & I also are also working on DnD based curriculum ideas - I’ve never played, it doesn’t sound like my thing, but I get why other people like it & I love curriculum innovation lol
This. Also, conventions for common interests are great for finding a partner. That's how I found my guy. Been together over ten years now. I literally have never been on an actual date in my life and I don't think I'm missing out.
@@standdownrobots_ihaveoldglory
That is so cool! Also, there's a wide variety of turn based roleplay games like dnd on top of the wide scope of fan made modules. I'm in a homebrew DnD 5e game myself.
I'm newly single after a very long relationship and have never used dating apps and never will. I saw too many weird and whatnot stories about dating apps and said that's not how I'm going to find a new partner. If at all, I'm going to find someone IRL (volunteering, hobbies etc.) or through some other form online by chance.