She claims the smell of bleach and chemicals irritate her and that might be true, but soap, cleaning vinegar, lemon, baking soda and hot water are all good alternatives to off-the-shelf bleach and ammonia. She also claimed that she "just gives it a wipe." Nothing in the kitchen suggests she was wiping up anything at all. Lazy.
Kristy & Kay were an amazing pairing. There was no judgement on either side and they truly helped each other realise their ways of coping with grief were not healthy. I hope they stayed in touch.
Then blame the cleaner saying hes judgy, but he was right and kind about it. Her rudeness would make me leave, he doesnt need counseling, she does, poor helpful bloke being gaslighted by the person he is helping
The woman who had the two kids and an absolutely disgusting house had no right to have a go at James like that. She called for HIS help to clean HER OWN house, and as soon as he said the plain truth and risks she had a go at him for her own faults. She has a point that he doesn't know what it's like to have children, but was bang out of order when she said he needed counselling. Bang out of order. On the other hand, James was a little harsh on how he talked to her, but he shouldn't be scolded or told he needs counselling for her mistakes. I feel so sad for Kay and her hoarding situation, and I hope that she's healing or in the process of it as those situations and things that have happened to her are awful. I hope she takes time to heal and to do so in a healthy way.
My mum has 7 children. Even when she had 6 living at home at the same time, 5 with special needs or bad health conditions such as M.E. and epilepsy, the house was immaculate. This mum is the epitome of LAZY and acts like having a 2 year old at home all day means she can't do anything. Having children is not a debilitating disability love!!
first of all the labor your mom did was extremely over board and im sure your mother was super exhausted. i think yall need to stop shaming mothers for not "doing enough" especially the lot of you that go on about how your mothers did it but in an even more stressful environment. having kids is literally life stopping love!!! women can lose their jobs and many of them have to give up their dreams to take care of children, which sounds like your poor mother did ALOT of.
@@cremepuffle Having one 2 year old or 6 kids is no excuse for the state of her house. It was laziness, period. There's no excuse for living in filth to that degree, she is completely able to clean up. Having kids is not life stopping to the point where you can't clean, sorry to break it to you..
@@cremepuffle Unless the mother was forced to have children, they should've known the responsibilities of taking care of one. It's called being an adult.
She is certainly lazy and full of excuses. Part of being a stay at home Mum is keeping the house clean. It does not have to be perfect but clean and organized enough. He was not a people person though, 😂😂 Krissy was touching. 💖💖Proud of her
He is so jugdemental and arrogant. Typically for one with no children and who never will have any. Everyone knows why his now husband didn't want to be seen.
The stay at home mum kinda infuriated me. I work 50 hours a week as a teacher. My house isn’t a show home but it’s cleaned every Saturday from top to bottom, clean the kitchen as I go. Job done!
Yes I was a cleaner but there to take her to and from school house has to be clean it’s worse when a teen clothes everywhere! Can’t decide so it goes on floor and I’d think it needs washing soon got her to put back in wardrobe bed bribary 😂 joys of motherhood
I am 56. A preschool teacher. Work 40 hours a week and my house is cleaned. I raised 9 kids with my husband and are house was always clean. She is just lazy.
Yikes I have mental health issues but I try to clean and keep it tidy and with a toddler running around all the time it can be difficult, but I would NEVER let it get this far!
Kate and Kristy are just sweet and understanding with each other. So wholesome. In comparison, Judy is just a lazy git who blames everyone else and when she runs out of excuses, throws a selfpity party. What an ungrateful, judgemental hypocrit.
Oh my goodness she watches him putting gloves on and THROWS MORE TRASH? Right in front of him, this man is trying to help you and facing his own fears to do it. He's volunteering and your disrespecting that to his face....
My mom raised three kids, worked, made food, had an immaculate home and took us to all our sport practices, dance competitions, you name it. She did it. Blaming your kids is just an excuse for being lazy and living in filth.
And she had no time to herself. Could not attend to her wishes and hobbies. Believe me, I am like that too. You’re mother gave everything up - for you!
i think that might be a mental coping strategy. she got upset over the comment that he found it suprising that rats werent living under the couch and that made her think is it really me or is it him? she then proceeds to conclude that its him and not her because there are no rats. and apparently not being there = not likely to be there in her mind. so she then says that the reason she's upset isnt because she's embarrassed but because she's a ''mirror'' and she reflected back what vibes he was sending out, and that her feeling horrible meant that he has a horrible energy and that he should try counselling. she doesnt have energy to clean because she's clearly spending all her energy on mental gymnastics
when that lady needed to go outside to get fresh air because of the smell of the cleaning products!?lol but not at the smell of filth and garbage rotting all over your house was insane!
I can sympathise with people suffering from depression, or with a disability that prevents them from living like a normal human being. That lady with the two kids is just lazy. I am supremely confident that in a months time, things will be back to normal in terms of dirt and living like a pig. It's one thing to be selfish and lazy that it affects oneself, but she's exposing those kids to all sorts of hazardous material. The pig in my uncles farm live cleaner than she does. As for the husband, what about getting off your ass and doing something about that FILTH??? There are any number of people with kids who DO NOT live in a pigsty. Shameful. She should be hiding under a rock.
She is a stay at home mom… surely she can be more active? The man is active by working outside… should he come home to a dirty house and then be expected to do it all??? I am sure he would help if she can appreciate the essence of cleaning… she does not even care.
Jody might be one of the people I’ve liked least out of any show I’ve ever watched. He was hostile and rude to James because he wouldn’t give into her tantrums. Poor James, he just wanted to go help someone. No good deed goes unpunished.
THE NERVE OF THAT LADY TO TELL HIM HE SHOULD GET COUNSELING! WHEN SHE WAS THE ONE THAT NEEDED HELP HE CAME TO HELP HER FOR FREE AND SHE SAYS THAT TO HIM! WHAT A PIG!
I love how she flicks her hair back when she says she had 2 children and its a busy house😅. Ma'am you are just lazy. I hope her husband had grown a back bone since the show. He said ill step up and help. Buddy youre gonna have to work and clean the whole thing we all know shes not getting off thay couch.
Jodi trying to shift her embarrassment to the person helping her to cleaning up her filth is just laughable. She’s so lazy should be ashamed for blaming her young kids.
Why is there no mention of the husband doing his share to help clean the house. Just because he works outsude the home there are plenty of hours to wipe sown a stove, vacuum, pull out a couch and organize etc. Yes SAHM should do more but he can lead the effort since she is obviously unmotivated.
i was thinking the same. but i was also putting myself in his shoes, he gets up early everyday to go to work all day because he wants to provide for his family, then he comes home tired and there she is surrounded by all that filth and garbage. even if she didnt keep a clean house she could make sure food spilled all over the kitchen gets wiped away once every 6 months?
I was thinking the same thing but honestly, her not working kind of suggests that she shoukd be in charge of keeping house. It's gross that he has been living in that filth along with her and not lifted a finger to get things clean once it got to that horrid state, but I do think it is on her to actually handle the cleanliness of the home. Or at the very least, arrange with him to get someone to deep clean once a week or once a month if it's too much for the both of them.
I am just here thinking...why child services dont get involved with people who live in homes like this with small children? Or do they? I dont know it seems like they dont
Kristy and Kay and her family - ALL such beautiful kind people! The best pairing on this show ever and it's because they really cared and listened to one another. Wish them all the best!
Jodi!! Clean your house. His comment about mice and rats was a truth - you could have had rodents behind the couch. There were slices of bread back there. You needed help and he helped you. Honestly was nasty to try and blame-shift your shame onto James for what? Being clean?!!
I'm a sahm and my house isn't always spotless but THAT? There's no excuse to have your children live like that. What pissed me off is when she said his mood rubbed off on her. Girl what? You've just seen how normal people would react to that filth. The sofa is heavy? Ask your husband to move it every now and then so you can clean behind it. Instead of finding excuses for everything just do it.
This show is the best ever! I lived with OCD cleaners and hoarders when I was a child. My parents hoarded. Some aunts and uncles were OCD cleaners . I always lived with the shame of hoarding, and I don't want to live like that. I keep a laundry basket in a supply closet. I fill it full of donations. Then I take it to a thrift store to donate it. Because I have ADD a cleaning schedule doesn't work. So if I see something that needs deep cleaning I do it. I regularly clean the floors and wash dishes. I hate dusty surfaces so I will clean that. But I can do better. Thanks for this show! I think the people on it are adorable 😍. And it inspired me to clean more despite my arthritis. ❤
Ah, the classic excuse of ‘having kids’ I have 2 kids and I work and my house is still clean and tidy. She’s lazy, pure and simple. You don’t have to live in a show home, but if you keep on top of the cleaning it isn’t hard to keep a house tidy
Well, there are millions of mother who can still clean and take care of their children. Her being a mother is an excuse for her not to maintain cleanliness in their house, disgusting.
Excalty, it will not hurt if she at cleaned every now and then. Noone is perfect but she is frankly blaming her CHILDREN! None is a perfect mother or father but to turn around and use your children as an excuse am sorry but what type of mother does that?. My friend has triplets who are now 6years old and a daughter who is nearly 11years old. Not even once when I've been at her house and her house is big have I ever seen it untidy and she she is a full time worker and her husband. They have a garden and garge The garden is always ok it's not messy, and garge it neat. No dust or anything like that... no dirt in the garge. I work at differet nurseries as a bank nursery assistant now adays since after covid, I have worked with children most of my life over 10 years and EVERY nursery teaches & encourages children to put things away and in boxes. Wash there hands, give plates and cups to a teacher or put it in a basin and so on. If this is done in schools,nurseries and so on there is no excuse for her not to teach her children. Ofcourse staff have to do their part too and children yes don't always like to tidy but you don't stop encouraging them as a teacher or assistant or a parent. Am not being mean at the end of the day she asked for help she should be at least a little grateful towards this man what was she expecting?? Sympathy from him? Cleaning, washing, tidying is being part of parenthood. Part of being a nursery assistant, part of life whoever you are or whatever you do. Her children are watching her and learning from her she is awful.
32:34 No she’s wrong for that. She’s projecting, she needs counseling seriously. He probably needs counseling for his OCD, but she’s just being really rude to the man who literally came here to clean her house, and was being so professional and nice despite the clutter and mess. I mean he obviously knew what he was getting into.
I don't know why jody is laughing at how dirty her house is, she's on national TV and all over the internet showing how lazy and selfish she is towards her family that she says is so important. 😂😂😂
I have a full time job, I drive 2 hours to and from work plus time spend looking for parking in NYC. I cook everyday, my house is clean,there are no excuses to have a dirty home, it was the same when my children were little
People are not allowed to come in my house with their shoes, it s disgusting. They have to wash their hands when coming. And before touching my cats. I m not perfect at all, aging, but I often say to men/friends to bring pants to sit on my couch, it s more clean and relax. But now I need someone to help me because of severe arthritis. I like this show.
I don't know how my parents did it. They had SIX kids, ran a takeaway AND managed to keep the house AND business clean and tidy enough to pass EVERY SINGLE health inspection. They worked hard (6 days a week from morning till 2am) & sacrificed everything to put us ALL through private school AND kept us all fed, clean, clothed. Not only that, but they were immigrants who lived through the second world war, surviving extreme poverty and didn't even have any secondary school education qualifications and only spoke broken English. So tell me, what's that woman's excuse?
I don't think her house is soo bad. A good couple of hours should fix it up. Literally how much time does it take to sort the stuff under the cushions, dusting and mopping, etc. I honestly think her house is better than many houses I have seen. Maybe there is an underlining issues as to why she doesn't want to clean something that takes so little time.
I had three children, worked full time and my home was always cleaned. What an excuse, having children doesn't mean you don't take time to at least do a little of cleaning around the home.
Im a stay at home mom. We have a small "farm" around 75 chickens, 9 turkeys, 9 goats, three working dogs, and four rabbits. I take care of the animals outside feeding them, grooming them, and cleaning their enclosures. I clean around three or four hours each day, and honestly my home isnt spotless. I wash dishes, do clothes, sweep, mop, and keep things picked up. I only have one child and im pregnant now. I have bipolar disorder, so i can relate to people having mental health issues that make upkeep difficult. I try not to judge, but sometimes that is easier said than done.
No excuses lady!your partner is obviously embarrassed. She blames everything from stuff blowing in the front door, the kids, black tiles, chemicals and the stove is too hot to clean…PLEASE!! You’re just plain lazy woman! I had 2 kids of my own and 3 of my partners and a full time job and my house was always clean and tidy.
She’s lazy and keeps making excuses and being a mother isn’t an excuse to allow your home to get that dirty, even mothers have some time to do a little at a time. If the mess bothers him which he says it does then he would clean it but him not doing it either shows it doesn’t actually bother him because if it did then he wouldn’t be able to relax until it’s done.
She’s full of excuses and blaming her kids she only has 2 girls omg under the sofa is disgusting this makes me sick 🤢she’s very lazy simple as. She loves to eat and am sure cooks but hates to clean the cooker give me a break
What a lovely Indian family. Her place looks a little too empty now. She needs a few more things to make it more homey. The cemetery looks so much nicer. I cannot believe how mean Jody was to James. The whole time they cleaned there was no two year-old or four-year-old there. And she cried because she did not want to clean up behind that sofa. That’s her mess. James was so sweet to her what she said about him. He’s a good guy. He had no judgments towards her, but she did to him, and that was quite unfair. And I never heard her thank him. I get a lot out of watching these. Sometimes they make me laugh, and sometimes they make me look inside myself about my habits. James, you just keep on being James. the world loves you for being James.
"We have two small children." My mom has 9 kids and yes our house is never spotless, but our house has never been this messy and we were all homeschooled.
I don’t understand how these people, even the compulsive cleaners, wear their outside shoes inside on the carpet and floors. Goodness knows what they’ve stepped in then track filth and germs inside. If they go barefoot, it goes in their beds at night. Gross🤢🤮
And look at cleaners when they touch their faces with gloves and still talks how horrible it is. real ocd person would never do that, probably just actors
That first mums excuses were never ending! Then when she had a chance to make a difference to the life she created for herself, that she was so "embarrassed and upset" by, she left that poor man to tidy up her disgusting mess, only coming back when he was finished! Then had the bloody audacity to tell him it was his "negativity" about HER mess that got to her and that he needs to go to counselling! The absolute CHEEK of it, I couldn't believe what I was hearing. That man has volunteered his time to help her, he's doing something positive for someone else, and she still managed to make it something negative just because he was being honest about her situation and not sugar coating it to her. That honesty was exactly what she needed to hear. The irony of her saying about him being in denial was the cherry on top. Blames everything on her kids. That man put SO much work in for her.
THE MOM in this this episode is soooo LAZY! She keeps blaming having kids, but she is so lazy! My mom had four kids and always cleaned and made us home cooked fresh meals three times a day AND doing this by also WORKING!!!!! Unbelievable!
Why doesn’t her husband lift a damn finger if it bothers him so much…. “I like order.” Gee, if only there was some way to achieve it? It doesn’t seem to bother her so he could step up or pay for it. Clearly he wants her to serve the house…but then he can’t complain for not lifting a finger since she is the only one who eventually cleans. (He also clearly hates her)
They can all clean the house on a Saturday together and daily touch ups. Use hot water to clean with vinegar. I raised 4 children and my house was never dirty. Teach your children to pick up stuff. Hire someone to come once a week to clean your house. The other one, cleaning twice day from top to bottom? WOW
I’m sorry but Iam a mom of two I go to work and still do houshouldchores I don’t understand it she puts everything on the kids excuses for everything 🙄
i'm messy but not the type of messy that people are on here. how is it even possible to live in that filth?? Also the lady making her kids an excuse for a dirty house, what about the other lady who has an immaculate house with two teenage boys??
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Her partner looked humiliated at the poo being left in the toilet . Blaming the young kids? …….
Total embarrassment.
The first woman’s excuses are unreal😂 “it’s usually hot after I cook” hmmm maybe wait until it’s cooled down abit lol
@Hermaeusmora5042to an extend? What is she getting rid of? Bacteria on raw food or the cooker?😂
She claims the smell of bleach and chemicals irritate her and that might be true, but soap, cleaning vinegar, lemon, baking soda and hot water are all good alternatives to off-the-shelf bleach and ammonia. She also claimed that she "just gives it a wipe." Nothing in the kitchen suggests she was wiping up anything at all. Lazy.
Anyone else binge watch/listen to these while they clean their house or just me? 😂
Haha yess! I put it on to give me the boost 😂
Yep! I just bleached the heck of my bathroom!😅😅
Yes these shows make me want to clean the heck out of my apartment
Same ❤
Actually, I binge watch INSTEAD of cleaning :)
Kristy & Kay were an amazing pairing. There was no judgement on either side and they truly helped each other realise their ways of coping with grief were not healthy. I hope they stayed in touch.
They both have such positive women. They're the kind of people you'd love to have tea with every week (and Ruby, too).
Blaming her kids is LOW!!!!!!!! They're learning from you!! They'll continue your filthy behaviour through their lives. Gross.
EXACTLY! I'm so shocked!
Then blame the cleaner saying hes judgy, but he was right and kind about it. Her rudeness would make me leave, he doesnt need counseling, she does, poor helpful bloke being gaslighted by the person he is helping
She's lazy.
The woman who had the two kids and an absolutely disgusting house had no right to have a go at James like that. She called for HIS help to clean HER OWN house, and as soon as he said the plain truth and risks she had a go at him for her own faults. She has a point that he doesn't know what it's like to have children, but was bang out of order when she said he needed counselling. Bang out of order. On the other hand, James was a little harsh on how he talked to her, but he shouldn't be scolded or told he needs counselling for her mistakes.
I feel so sad for Kay and her hoarding situation, and I hope that she's healing or in the process of it as those situations and things that have happened to her are awful. I hope she takes time to heal and to do so in a healthy way.
My mum has 7 children. Even when she had 6 living at home at the same time, 5 with special needs or bad health conditions such as M.E. and epilepsy, the house was immaculate. This mum is the epitome of LAZY and acts like having a 2 year old at home all day means she can't do anything. Having children is not a debilitating disability love!!
first of all the labor your mom did was extremely over board and im sure your mother was super exhausted. i think yall need to stop shaming mothers for not "doing enough" especially the lot of you that go on about how your mothers did it but in an even more stressful environment. having kids is literally life stopping love!!! women can lose their jobs and many of them have to give up their dreams to take care of children, which sounds like your poor mother did ALOT of.
@@cremepuffle Having one 2 year old or 6 kids is no excuse for the state of her house. It was laziness, period. There's no excuse for living in filth to that degree, she is completely able to clean up. Having kids is not life stopping to the point where you can't clean, sorry to break it to you..
If u can't pick up a hoover once in a while or clean ur toilet which take 15 mins ur a lazy slob
@@cremepuffle Unless the mother was forced to have children, they should've known the responsibilities of taking care of one. It's called being an adult.
Supermum ❤
She is certainly lazy and full of excuses. Part of being a stay at home Mum is keeping the house clean. It does not have to be perfect but clean and organized enough. He was not a people person though, 😂😂 Krissy was touching. 💖💖Proud of her
He is so jugdemental and arrogant. Typically for one with no children and who never will have any. Everyone knows why his now husband didn't want to be seen.
No definitely not a people person 😂😂
@@anti5181 Is he really any more judgemental than the rest of us ?
@@debbiemohekey1509 Yes. Extrem
@@anti5181with someone like Jody, I can understand why he was
The stay at home mum kinda infuriated me. I work 50 hours a week as a teacher. My house isn’t a show home but it’s cleaned every Saturday from top to bottom, clean the kitchen as I go. Job done!
Yes I was a cleaner but there to take her to and from school house has to be clean it’s worse when a teen clothes everywhere! Can’t decide so it goes on floor and I’d think it needs washing soon got her to put back in wardrobe bed bribary 😂 joys of motherhood
They need to thank the cleaners more
Sounds like she just sits around and plays all day. She doesn't use her time wisely. She takes no pride in her home.
Yes, her house is disgusting! I feel sorry for the children, in the US child service would investigate.
I am 56. A preschool teacher. Work 40 hours a week and my house is cleaned. I raised 9 kids with my husband and are house was always clean. She is just lazy.
So he needs counseling because he wants to be clean😂😂😂
This part she totally gaslighted him. She was just saying she felt embarrassed then switched to her picking up on how he felt😂😂😂
Kirsty and Kay are what this show should be about! They were both amazing and kind hearted. So pleased for the boys air of them
Just watch it to motivate myself for cleaning. 😅
Yikes I have mental health issues but I try to clean and keep it tidy and with a toddler running around all the time it can be difficult, but I would NEVER let it get this far!
You don't need chemicals to clean the stove top. Just a wipe down everyday after cooking with plain dishwasher liquid. Takes 5mins
Dishwasher liquid is also…chemicals…your point is probably about bleach, which is WORSE, i agree, but all cleaning solutions have chemicals
I just use vinegar.. does a fine job
No, I buy natural dish soap made out of plants!
@@Trinitheiimakeup just hot water will still be better than not doing itself
Kate and Kristy are just sweet and understanding with each other. So wholesome. In comparison, Judy is just a lazy git who blames everyone else and when she runs out of excuses, throws a selfpity party. What an ungrateful, judgemental hypocrit.
That Jodi is one slovenly beast. And as for the passive aggressive deflection tactics, I'd have walked out and left her to her filth.
Totally agree with you, her home was just disgusting.
Agree 👍
Oh my goodness she watches him putting gloves on and THROWS MORE TRASH? Right in front of him, this man is trying to help you and facing his own fears to do it. He's volunteering and your disrespecting that to his face....
My mom raised three kids, worked, made food, had an immaculate home and took us to all our sport practices, dance competitions, you name it. She did it. Blaming your kids is just an excuse for being lazy and living in filth.
And she had no time to herself. Could not attend to her wishes and hobbies. Believe me, I am like that too. You’re mother gave everything up - for you!
Perhaps a stark reminder why it's not healthy to make excuses for oneself
Why does the stay at home mam feel the guy helping her needs counselling? Isn’t she grateful for his help? I’m totally confused
i think that might be a mental coping strategy. she got upset over the comment that he found it suprising that rats werent living under the couch and that made her think is it really me or is it him? she then proceeds to conclude that its him and not her because there are no rats. and apparently not being there = not likely to be there in her mind. so she then says that the reason she's upset isnt because she's embarrassed but because she's a ''mirror'' and she reflected back what vibes he was sending out, and that her feeling horrible meant that he has a horrible energy and that he should try counselling. she doesnt have energy to clean because she's clearly spending all her energy on mental gymnastics
Jodies husband is just as responsible for not having cleaned anything
at any point in his free time he could’ve wiped that stove down
when that lady needed to go outside to get fresh air because of the smell of the cleaning products!?lol but not at the smell of filth and garbage rotting all over your house was insane!
I can sympathise with people suffering from depression, or with a disability that prevents them from living like a normal human being. That lady with the two kids is just lazy. I am supremely confident that in a months time, things will be back to normal in terms of dirt and living like a pig. It's one thing to be selfish and lazy that it affects oneself, but she's exposing those kids to all sorts of hazardous material. The pig in my uncles farm live cleaner than she does. As for the husband, what about getting off your ass and doing something about that FILTH??? There are any number of people with kids who DO NOT live in a pigsty. Shameful. She should be hiding under a rock.
She is a stay at home mom… surely she can be more active? The man is active by working outside… should he come home to a dirty house and then be expected to do it all???
I am sure he would help if she can appreciate the essence of cleaning… she does not even care.
I think she had some mental issue going on...
Having children is not excuse not to clean. I have
four. It comes down to pure laziness.
Jody might be one of the people I’ve liked least out of any show I’ve ever watched. He was hostile and rude to James because he wouldn’t give into her tantrums. Poor James, he just wanted to go help someone. No good deed goes unpunished.
THE NERVE OF THAT LADY TO TELL HIM HE SHOULD GET COUNSELING! WHEN SHE WAS THE ONE THAT NEEDED HELP HE CAME TO HELP HER FOR FREE AND SHE SAYS THAT TO HIM! WHAT A PIG!
I have to laugh when people say they don't like chemicals is the reason they don't clean...lol.
Ikr? The house smelling like a zoo is sooo much better.😅
Busy doing nothing housewife 😂
She probably blames her weight on her kids too 😂
And on her husband... He is quite handsome and he could have many better, prettier, thiner girls, young and not lazy
James was NO NONSENSE! He was not having it 😊 But she needed to hear it.
The fact that she have children doesent mean she have to live in durt.
I love how she flicks her hair back when she says she had 2 children and its a busy house😅. Ma'am you are just lazy. I hope her husband had grown a back bone since the show. He said ill step up and help. Buddy youre gonna have to work and clean the whole thing we all know shes not getting off thay couch.
I don't understand why she is laughing about not cleaning oven, she cook meal for her kids there..
Once a week enough for me to change bedding!
41:23 - JAMES missed Jodi's shoulder and PATTED HER BOOB GOODBYE 🤣🤣💀
I saw it 😅
32:40
- How much will you be projecting today?
- YES!
Jodi trying to shift her embarrassment to the person helping her to cleaning up her filth is just laughable. She’s so lazy should be ashamed for blaming her young kids.
Why is there no mention of the husband doing his share to help clean the house. Just because he works outsude the home there are plenty of hours to wipe sown a stove, vacuum, pull out a couch and organize etc. Yes SAHM should do more but he can lead the effort since she is obviously unmotivated.
i was thinking the same. but i was also putting myself in his shoes, he gets up early everyday to go to work all day because he wants to provide for his family, then he comes home tired and there she is surrounded by all that filth and garbage. even if she didnt keep a clean house she could make sure food spilled all over the kitchen gets wiped away once every 6 months?
I was thinking the same thing but honestly, her not working kind of suggests that she shoukd be in charge of keeping house. It's gross that he has been living in that filth along with her and not lifted a finger to get things clean once it got to that horrid state, but I do think it is on her to actually handle the cleanliness of the home. Or at the very least, arrange with him to get someone to deep clean once a week or once a month if it's too much for the both of them.
I am just here thinking...why child services dont get involved with people who live in homes like this with small children? Or do they? I dont know it seems like they dont
Kristy and Kay and her family - ALL such beautiful kind people! The best pairing on this show ever and it's because they really cared and listened to one another. Wish them all the best!
Jodi!! Clean your house. His comment about mice and rats was a truth - you could have had rodents behind the couch. There were slices of bread back there. You needed help and he helped you. Honestly was nasty to try and blame-shift your shame onto James for what? Being clean?!!
I'm a sahm and my house isn't always spotless but THAT? There's no excuse to have your children live like that. What pissed me off is when she said his mood rubbed off on her. Girl what? You've just seen how normal people would react to that filth. The sofa is heavy? Ask your husband to move it every now and then so you can clean behind it. Instead of finding excuses for everything just do it.
Blaming the kids for not cleaning your home is really just sad.
I feel like her stopping to cry and talk to the camera was just because she was too lazy to do any of the tidying/cleaning 😮
Yes she get out of room and he did it, he couldnt help himself 😂
This show is the best ever! I lived with OCD cleaners and hoarders when I was a child. My parents hoarded. Some aunts and uncles were OCD cleaners . I always lived with the shame of hoarding, and I don't want to live like that. I keep a laundry basket in a supply closet. I fill it full of donations. Then I take it to a thrift store to donate it. Because I have ADD a cleaning schedule doesn't work. So if I see something that needs deep cleaning I do it. I regularly clean the floors and wash dishes. I hate dusty surfaces so I will clean that. But I can do better. Thanks for this show! I think the people on it are adorable 😍. And it inspired me to clean more despite my arthritis. ❤
I had 6 young children including one with Down syndrome who I home educated and my house was messy but never dirty , unacceptable, we had pets too.
How does a man stay with his kids in this filth? Deal breaker
It was for him in the end
whenever I’m feeling lazy to clean my room I watch this 😭😭
Ah, the classic excuse of ‘having kids’ I have 2 kids and I work and my house is still clean and tidy. She’s lazy, pure and simple. You don’t have to live in a show home, but if you keep on top of the cleaning it isn’t hard to keep a house tidy
Well, there are millions of mother who can still clean and take care of their children. Her being a mother is an excuse for her not to maintain cleanliness in their house, disgusting.
Millions of mothers work and clean their houses and have children also.... she's got no excuse...
I doubt having kids had anything to do with the way she takes care of the house. It’s highly likely this is the way she was, before becoming a mother.
Excalty, it will not hurt if she at cleaned every now and then.
Noone is perfect but she is frankly blaming her CHILDREN!
None is a perfect mother or father but to turn around and use your children as an excuse am sorry but what type of mother does that?.
My friend has triplets who are now 6years old and a daughter who is nearly 11years old.
Not even once when I've been at her house and her house is big have I ever seen it untidy and she she is a full time worker and her husband.
They have a garden and garge
The garden is always ok it's not messy, and garge it neat.
No dust or anything like that... no dirt in the garge.
I work at differet nurseries as a bank nursery assistant now adays since after covid, I have worked with children most of my life over 10 years and EVERY nursery teaches & encourages children to put things away and in boxes.
Wash there hands, give plates and cups to a teacher or put it in a basin and so on.
If this is done in schools,nurseries and so on there is no excuse for her not to teach her children.
Ofcourse staff have to do their part too and children yes don't always like to tidy but you don't stop encouraging them as a teacher or assistant or a parent.
Am not being mean at the end of the day she asked for help she should be at least a little grateful towards this man what was she expecting?? Sympathy from him?
Cleaning, washing, tidying is being part of parenthood.
Part of being a nursery assistant, part of life whoever you are or whatever you do.
Her children are watching her and learning from her she is awful.
6:00 what kids? they're away while the camera crew are there don't lie we know it was your fat log you left in the bog love LOL
32:34 No she’s wrong for that. She’s projecting, she needs counseling seriously. He probably needs counseling for his OCD, but she’s just being really rude to the man who literally came here to clean her house, and was being so professional and nice despite the clutter and mess. I mean he obviously knew what he was getting into.
For real!!!!!
I don't know why jody is laughing at how dirty her house is, she's on national TV and all over the internet showing how lazy and selfish she is towards her family that she says is so important. 😂😂😂
Kay seems so lovely.
They need to bring these series back !!!!! Asap !!!!
I have a full time job, I drive 2 hours to and from work plus time spend looking for parking in NYC. I cook everyday, my house is clean,there are no excuses to have a dirty home, it was the same when my children were little
🤣🤣🤣🤣James' face at 40:09 🤣🤣🤣that are you kidding me look.🤣🤣🤣
James was trying to help her when she cried “it’s just a bit of clutter” knowing it was mortifying!! He’s an angel.
People are not allowed to come in my house with their shoes, it s disgusting. They have to wash their hands when coming. And before touching my cats. I m not perfect at all, aging, but I often say to men/friends to bring pants to sit on my couch, it s more clean and relax. But now I need someone to help me because of severe arthritis. I like this show.
James and Kristy are Fab!
I don't know how my parents did it.
They had SIX kids, ran a takeaway AND managed to keep the house AND business clean and tidy enough to pass EVERY SINGLE health inspection. They worked hard (6 days a week from morning till 2am) & sacrificed everything to put us ALL through private school AND kept us all fed, clean, clothed. Not only that, but they were immigrants who lived through the second world war, surviving extreme poverty and didn't even have any secondary school education qualifications and only spoke broken English. So tell me, what's that woman's excuse?
They should've sent to her house those cleaners with kids and work, and clean at same time lol
I love how good natured Kay is..she faces her obsession with a healthy attitude❣️
I can't believe she got embarrassed at the stuff under the couch but nothing else.😮
When that vacuum bucket exploded to the floor, I would been deceased!
I don't think her house is soo bad. A good couple of hours should fix it up. Literally how much time does it take to sort the stuff under the cushions, dusting and mopping, etc. I honestly think her house is better than many houses I have seen. Maybe there is an underlining issues as to why she doesn't want to clean something that takes so little time.
I had three children, worked full time and my home was always cleaned. What an excuse, having children doesn't mean you don't take time to at least do a little of cleaning around the home.
Its just common scence to clean your home daily. These cleaners are the best.
Why don't these people give the actual cleaners the recognition they deserve? like honestly.
Which people?
They're on a fokking show
Thank you so much for your video.
Im a stay at home mom. We have a small "farm" around 75 chickens, 9 turkeys, 9 goats, three working dogs, and four rabbits. I take care of the animals outside feeding them, grooming them, and cleaning their enclosures. I clean around three or four hours each day, and honestly my home isnt spotless. I wash dishes, do clothes, sweep, mop, and keep things picked up. I only have one child and im pregnant now. I have bipolar disorder, so i can relate to people having mental health issues that make upkeep difficult. I try not to judge, but sometimes that is easier said than done.
No excuses lady!your partner is obviously embarrassed. She blames everything from stuff blowing in the front door, the kids, black tiles, chemicals and the stove is too hot to clean…PLEASE!! You’re just plain lazy woman! I had 2 kids of my own and 3 of my partners and a full time job and my house was always clean and tidy.
She’s lazy and keeps making excuses and being a mother isn’t an excuse to allow your home to get that dirty, even mothers have some time to do a little at a time. If the mess bothers him which he says it does then he would clean it but him not doing it either shows it doesn’t actually bother him because if it did then he wouldn’t be able to relax until it’s done.
House wife is absolutely delusional and lazy. Its everyone else’s problem or issues.
She’s full of excuses and blaming her kids she only has 2 girls omg under the sofa is disgusting this makes me sick 🤢she’s very lazy simple as. She loves to eat and am sure cooks but hates to clean the cooker give me a break
Blaming the little kids??!!😮
Who is raising who right?
😂😂i like both of them omg
Love lil Indian couple bless
What a lovely Indian family. Her place looks a little too empty now. She needs a few more things to make it more homey. The cemetery looks so much nicer. I cannot believe how mean Jody was to James. The whole time they cleaned there was no two year-old or four-year-old there. And she cried because she did not want to clean up behind that sofa. That’s her mess. James was so sweet to her what she said about him. He’s a good guy. He had no judgments towards her, but she did to him, and that was quite unfair. And I never heard her thank him. I get a lot out of watching these. Sometimes they make me laugh, and sometimes they make me look inside myself about my habits. James, you just keep on being James. the world loves you for being James.
The mother has an excuse for everything. She's lazy, entitled, and has a chip on her shoulder.
Is it me or the husband looked embarrassed???
He did. Probably didn’t even wanted to be on tv.
"We have two small children." My mom has 9 kids and yes our house is never spotless, but our house has never been this messy and we were all homeschooled.
Let's blame all sorts of wrongs onto the guy came out to help you. I'm just disgusted. Not at the house, but at that attitude.
I don’t understand how these people, even the compulsive cleaners, wear their outside shoes inside on the carpet and floors. Goodness knows what they’ve stepped in then track filth and germs inside. If they go barefoot, it goes in their beds at night. Gross🤢🤮
And look at cleaners when they touch their faces with gloves and still talks how horrible it is. real ocd person would never do that, probably just actors
Looking at their filthy houses the germs are inside not outside....
That first mums excuses were never ending! Then when she had a chance to make a difference to the life she created for herself, that she was so "embarrassed and upset" by, she left that poor man to tidy up her disgusting mess, only coming back when he was finished! Then had the bloody audacity to tell him it was his "negativity" about HER mess that got to her and that he needs to go to counselling! The absolute CHEEK of it, I couldn't believe what I was hearing. That man has volunteered his time to help her, he's doing something positive for someone else, and she still managed to make it something negative just because he was being honest about her situation and not sugar coating it to her. That honesty was exactly what she needed to hear. The irony of her saying about him being in denial was the cherry on top. Blames everything on her kids. That man put SO much work in for her.
Well I am judging you it’s disgusting and for children to be in this mess.
I noticed the Claremont, NH t-shirt. It is a very beautiful area of New Hampshire. Small world.
THE MOM in this this episode is soooo LAZY! She keeps blaming having kids, but she is so lazy! My mom had four kids and always cleaned and made us home cooked fresh meals three times a day AND doing this by also WORKING!!!!! Unbelievable!
She needs to clean really good once a week and then maintain it everyday.
0:50 carpet In the toilet. I don’t care how clean OCD you are that’s a massive no from me. Carpets are like sponges 🤢
Why do these OCD People wear shoes inside their house 🤡
She justifies herself for not cleaning the cooker right after cooking because it´s hot. That´s funny
I have had flashbacks to having a shared lunch at work. Imagine how many people who bring in food are cooking in kitchens like Jodi’s 😱🤢
Why doesn’t her husband lift a damn finger if it bothers him so much…. “I like order.” Gee, if only there was some way to achieve it? It doesn’t seem to bother her so he could step up or pay for it. Clearly he wants her to serve the house…but then he can’t complain for not lifting a finger since she is the only one who eventually cleans. (He also clearly hates her)
She had rather play with her kids? Du. You can play with your kids and still have time to clean. That's what most do.
I hope Jodi and her family thanked James off camera or I missed it.
They can all clean the house on a Saturday together and daily touch ups. Use hot water to clean with vinegar. I raised 4 children and my house was never dirty. Teach your children to pick up stuff. Hire someone to come once a week to clean your house. The other one, cleaning twice day from top to bottom? WOW
Every single OCD cleaner does a dangerous chemical cocktail ahhh…name a more iconic duo 😵
I’m sorry but Iam a mom of two I go to work and still do houshouldchores I don’t understand it she puts everything on the kids excuses for everything 🙄
i'm messy but not the type of messy that people are on here. how is it even possible to live in that filth?? Also the lady making her kids an excuse for a dirty house, what about the other lady who has an immaculate house with two teenage boys??
For all you people who have a hard time with the chemicals in oven cleaner on the stove top use ammonia cleaner plus dish soap and soak for a long while. Clean up with a scrubber and hot water. It will remove everything. 😊