Reaction video: Anna Bey - 10 things elegant ladies NEVER buy | Anesu Sagonda

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  • Опубликовано: 6 ноя 2024

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  • @palexisboyle
    @palexisboyle Год назад +13

    I've watched that video as well... I have a wool-cashmere blend coat that I bought from a mango store in Berlin almost 25 years ago, and I still wear it every year. I also have a client who gifted me a Jimmy Choo clutch that she rarely ever carried. Upon the first time I carried that purse, the tassel that was on the closure fell on the ground before I made it back to the car from the restaurant. I remembered that incident so clearly because I was wearing that Mango coat that same evening and got countless compliments on the coat, but nobody ever noticed my bag. That is proof that elegance is more of a perception of how you carry yourself rather than what you are carrying.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад +1

      Hear, hear! Long may you continue to enjoy your coat.

  • @CocoB22
    @CocoB22 2 года назад +22

    I like this reaction- but I never had any problems understanding what Anna meant. Having said that - I didn’t realize others could misinterpret these things. So I am impressed with your explanations as well. Anna reiterates a lot of things that our great grandparents taught us that so many have let fall away.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +8

      Thank you. There are so many ways to skin a cat and as long as you are open minded you can learn from anywhere and anyone.

  • @lifelovesme
    @lifelovesme 2 года назад +16

    Hallelujah to the point about education. I used to think education is essential. Now I’ve come to learn that success (in all its forms) does not always require formal education. Well said!!👏👏

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Ha! it had to be said 🤷🏾‍♀️👊🏾

    • @casaducos
      @casaducos Год назад +2

      Education is not just a tuition- i paid the neighbor for her to me to teach me to sew .. so i could have a side hustle

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад

      Exactly!

    • @danishpastry6137
      @danishpastry6137 Год назад

      I was rewatching this, and the education side of it really struck home. In Denmark, as with the UK, there is a debate about the pay of professions such as nurses, physiotherapists, radiographers, etc. One of the things I've heard is that academics are often paid similar amounts, despite being (according to themselves) better educated -well, I think they are and they aren't! They do definately have a higher level of education, but it doesn't always prepare them for a specific job - when they do get out into the work place, they often need to start from scratch, whereas healthcare professionals are off and running, with minimal need for baby steps.
      My husband is another case of not needing a higher qualification, he's an electrician with an extra education that lies somewhere between an ordinary electrician and an electrical engineer - he is doing a job that would typically be done by an electrical engineer. He has a wealth of practical job experience that has meant that he is able to do this, and in some cases, he has more theoretical knowledge than an engineer - not bad for someone with dyslexia whose maths teacher wrote off as not being even electrician material (that says more about the teacher, than my husband btw). He has been offered the option of an engineer education by his employer, but feels that it's a lot of work for little or no gain in terms of knowledge.

  • @heavenly894
    @heavenly894 2 года назад +17

    Im so so impressed about how you spoke of us in the diaspora with regards to education...what a great video once again, thank you

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +3

      It has to be done! Thank you for watching Heavenly x

  • @mteresiene
    @mteresiene 2 года назад +14

    Wowww your emphasis on “doing” and “creating something” really got me thinking on balancing my time educating myself and really doing something!! Thanks so much ☺️

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +2

      You are welcome! Life is for the taking. You have to make things happen for yourself x

  • @smaddicomoquiera3493
    @smaddicomoquiera3493 2 года назад +9

    Anesu, even though I am older than you, when I grow up, I want to be just like you. This was such a refreshingly delightful video, skillfully and carefully providing an informed perspective on every day taken for granted assumptions. I thoroughly enjoyed your perspective.
    You have helped to refine my thinking about my purchasing power. I appreciate you. Thanks!

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +3

      Awww that’s what I say when I’m trying to be charming! Thank you… I appreciate you watching my content.

  • @acollectedtable131
    @acollectedtable131 2 года назад +20

    Great reaction video. Your more in-depth conversation regarding education, “quality food” etc.. is what Ana should have expounded on rather than leaving her audience to make assumptions about what she really meant.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +3

      Hey Kelly
      I’ve missed you in my comments section! I hope you are having a good summer.
      I felt the video needed a little more depth and explanation in some parts for you to appreciate the points she was making. An interesting topic that could have gone in a number of directions. Thank you for watching Kelly!

  • @starlightshimmery
    @starlightshimmery 2 года назад +8

    Thank you, I’m learning a lot from you (and Anna too). You asked about how to discern quality from fast fashion items - as a former sales assistant in fashion retail we would know that some of the pieces that came in were really good quality because we handled so many items and often I’d wait for those to come in each year. For example our linen shirts were really lovely, material sourced from France even though they weren’t sewn there. However the finishes were still very good, no loose buttons or unfinished threads. I used to compare ours with the other stores in our mall and more expensive linen shirts in other stores often had badly finished hems and loose threads, I wouldn’t ever buy them. So construction, finish and fabric is a good clue even with a fast fashion store. We also had a guarantee that our items were sewn in ethical factories and workers had good conditions, I felt proud of that and it was an important factor.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +2

      Thank you.
      Interesting points you made I’ll watch out for the details you mentioned.

  • @itstimefortea4582
    @itstimefortea4582 2 года назад +8

    I love how elegant and feminine you are mainly how you speak about luxury. I have learned so much from you when it come to investing into quality items to live a luxurious lifestyle ✨🥂

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +2

      You are too kind - thank you! Thank you to you for watching 🤗

  • @reginaminor2222
    @reginaminor2222 2 года назад +4

    Sis, your content and delivery are impeccable. Wishing you success and sharing your channel with everyone. Thank you

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Thank you! You are too kind.

  • @marisoll1870
    @marisoll1870 2 года назад +5

    It is so true! I watch both of you. From Ana i get all the nuances of navigating the luxury life style. From you i get luxury under the radar 😍

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Hear, hear! That’s what we like to hear.

  • @kristencostello2416
    @kristencostello2416 2 года назад +1

    Another fabulous video, Anesu! I appreciate all of your perspectives and tips. I love your style :)

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Thank you Kristen you are too kind 😁Hope you are well!

  • @princessa123
    @princessa123 2 года назад +2

    Wow. Beautiful content. I so understand your viewpoint on education and food having experienced both luxury and poverty myself. Very well put reaction. 🙌

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Thank you! Thank you for watching x

  • @cristinaxo
    @cristinaxo 2 года назад +1

    Well done!! An excellent, smart and very thorough analysis.

  • @marcusmilford
    @marcusmilford 2 года назад +2

    I love your videos so much that I always favorite them so I can watch it again and again. 😀

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Ha you are too kind! Thank you ☺️

  • @nmernst
    @nmernst 2 года назад +2

    Anna actually does teach about being your own stylist and how to evaluate clothing :). It takes time and research, but even some budget items are good quality. Great video thanks for sharing.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Yes I think she has a styling course. I’m not sure about your budget item comment the jury is still out on that one!
      Thank you for watching.

    • @nmernst
      @nmernst 2 года назад

      @@SoAnesu it's a challenge to find one and not typical but I have occasionally found pieces that lasted years.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Ha you said it “challenge!”

  • @gislenecherime1369
    @gislenecherime1369 Год назад

    I love your feed back in response to Anna video

  • @cat_pb
    @cat_pb 2 года назад

    Anesu ✨ Thank you for the video ~ your calm way of speaking is so soothing!

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Thank you Cat!

  • @unatismajeke
    @unatismajeke 2 года назад

    My two Faves, I can't wait to hear your commentary. You are always on point!!!👌🏾

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Thank you you are too kind!

  • @tmarguerite7541
    @tmarguerite7541 2 года назад +15

    Thank you for the interesting commentary! Your thoughtful perspective on debt and luxury puts me in mind of the Forbes article entitled: How The Psychology Of Income Inequality Benefits Luxury Brands by behavioral scientist/physician, Peter Ubel. He discusses how the social stress of income inequality informs the pursuit of visible signs of wealth, even when cash strapped.
    I feel Anna Bey is trying to be helpful however it is useful to consider the economic realities of the broader audience viewing this sort of content on these platforms. I enjoy her content however, from her comments, it seems she is missing a few preliminary steps. I have to assume she covers them in her programs.
    Although I'm privileged to live a comfortable life in a thriving economy, I appreciate that you consider your privilege on these sort of videos. I do buy organic food, especially meat products. However, the mark-up on organic food in many major cities is difficult to swallow even for those of us who can easily afford it.
    I assume a lot of viewers of this sort of content are aspirational. They want to know how to live well once they are in a position to do so. Anna Bey's titles play into the insecurities of some viewers and therefore garner a lot of views. Controversy = clicks... I suspect it is built into the algorithm. Your videos tend to be more helpful in providing suggestion on how to live a quality life and where to purchase quality products. I always look forward to your content.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Aww you spoil me with your comments! Thank you! I’m going to read your suggested article first and then I’ll finish reading your comment there after.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +3

      Fantastic article! I have tried to research luxury buying behaviour extensively and never come across your recommended article - thank you! It will be quoted in the future. It succinctly states the points I’m trying to make I feel like a broken record as some of my audience don’t get the points. I simply have to try harder but we will get there.
      You hit the nail on the head she has a massive audience that’s largely aspirational and i sometimes feel there is a slight disconnect and as you have said steps in between have been missed. I wonder how she views it or that’s not part of the greater objective of her channel and therefore her modus operandi is to give brief overviews of topics without delving beyond the surface. I wonder.
      Don’t get me started on organic food! Prices can be crazy but I think London is worse than some of the major US cities. There is an organic chain with an outlet on Pavillion Road you can easily spend $8-$10 on one speciality, organic tomato!
      Good old clickbait. Always works. What a joy it would be to have a captive audience that’s engaged and wanting to delve below the surface. One day.
      Thank you for always watching my content and encouragement.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Lol you make me laugh! Here I was thinking I should start, it’s a formula that’s worked and continues to work for others. I’ve been told otherwise!

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Thank you for the super thanks! Much appreciated x

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Ha! You are too kind but I’ve been told I’ll be lynched if I start creating content like that!

  • @violettepetals9931
    @violettepetals9931 9 месяцев назад

    i have unfortunately seen lots of people criticizing Anna and her videos, while i think she is providing value to our degraded society. i haven't seen your channel before and thought this was going to be another "Anna is wrong/ridiculous/over the top" type of video.
    with only five minutes of watching so far, i think it's a lovely reaction video. it's more like you having a conversation with Anna and expanding on the different topics she brings up. you elegantly added your opinions to the conversation and this is what i was actually looking for. there aren't a lot of content creators talking about elegance and i just wanted to find some other perspectives and hear additional input. thank you for such a lovely breath of fresh air! i have subscribed to your channel as well ❤

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you and welcome to the channel.

  • @mindyxm
    @mindyxm 2 года назад

    This is so insightful! I really enjoyed this video, thank you.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      That’s what we like to hear!

  • @noel3434
    @noel3434 2 года назад +4

    What was the brand you mentioned after wolford? Is it spelled molette ?

  • @missv8109
    @missv8109 2 года назад +4

    Great video, everything you say is so on point and presented in such a professional, respectful manner. While the original video is just shallow clickbait IMO.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for watching, much appreciated.

  • @lindamakura6410
    @lindamakura6410 2 года назад

    Great review, thanks Anesu!

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Thank you Lyn and an even bigger thank you for the super thanks you are too kind!

  • @Jasmine-xs2rh
    @Jasmine-xs2rh 2 года назад

    Hi Anesu, I love you Chanel and it is really educational. Your language is beautiful and yet elegant. Please keep doing what you have been doing and I love all of them. :)

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Thank you are too kind 😊🙏🏾

  • @scsophiecowan8634
    @scsophiecowan8634 2 года назад

    First off, you look gorgeous Anesu. I am a fan of Anna Bey so to have you dissect her video is very interesting as I value your advice and opinions tremendously. I totally agree with you on the education part as I myself know self made rich people who can't read a word but with their hard work and networking skills they have build a successful business. Thank you so much for your wisdom as always. I always enjoy your videos. Love from Canada.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      You are too kind - thank you!
      It’s not only important to work hard but to work smart too!
      Thank you for always supporting my channel.

  • @Katy809RD
    @Katy809RD Год назад +1

    I think that what Anna was trying to say when she mentioned about finding quality even on a budget is that's there are different levels of quality on each price point. Another option would be buying second hand, so you would still buy qualify when on you are on a budget. I personally come from a very low income family. When I graduated from college, making 40K a year (that's before paying taxes) I was buying from Forever 21, even bought from Shein. But then I noticed I was buying garbage and some pieces I was not even able to wear once. I started buying from H&M, and for you and Anna, that's probably a huge NO. But I bought clothing from H&M in 2016 that I am still wearing today. I might not look as well dressed like you or Anna (not because the clothes have holes, but because I have noticed that people who wear expensive clothing look different.. there is something about those clothing.. not sure how to explain it), but I don't change my wardrove every season. Now, I am into buying quality clothing, even if it is second hand. I don't make enough money to drop $600 on a dress so I either buy second hand or try to look for good quality at a price point I can afford.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад +1

      You said it there is something different about expensive clothing. With clothes experience is the best teacher. You have the right attitude you will figure it out.

  • @janelacambra-batitis2992
    @janelacambra-batitis2992 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      You are welcome. Thank you for watching.

  • @Gybing
    @Gybing 2 года назад +1

    I subscribed to your channel because I love how classy you are with low profile high quality items such as Loro Piana (and that's how I found your channel as I love Loro Piana). I am also a subscriber of Anna Bey's channel and I like her talking about those lost classic fashion there once was. But here, although that video that you are talking in particular, that I thought Anna did not nail her usual points a 100%, I still think your channel and hers don't mix really. Yes, I agreed with every points you mentioned here, but she's not targeting the exact same audiences you are. So I thought I comment on this as I love your broadcasts and I hope you keep them the way you did, not reacting to some others. Thanks

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +4

      Thank you, good to know.
      Agreed our channels do not mix but my creating a reaction video wasn’t about that. She has an audience that’s also interested in my content by reaching out to her channel I’ve been able to draw in more people who are also interested in my content but didn’t know about my channel up until yesterday.
      My broadcasts will still be the same but from time to time I will create reaction videos to draw in new subscribers and quite a few subscribers have said they enjoy my reaction videos plus the back end analytics have confirmed it!
      To grow my channel reaction videos are something I’ll do from time to time and not as part of my core offering. I hope you understand and hopefully you will enjoy a few along the way.

    • @Gybing
      @Gybing 2 года назад

      @@SoAnesu In that case, very well. Duly noted. Continue what you have to do. I will tag along. Cheers.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Yay that’s the spirit!

  • @samobrien1323
    @samobrien1323 2 года назад

    Love your content; slightly off topic - but you should do a video at the Henry Jacques boutique inside of Harrods - its under the radar, top of the top, in perfume luxury

  • @danishpastry6137
    @danishpastry6137 2 года назад +2

    Quality in general, is something we should be looking for, sometimes more expensive brands have items that aren't good quality and fast fashion can have items that are well made with an attention to detail.
    As far as education goes, I do think it's very important, but (and this is a big but), it doesn't necessarily mean formal education! The school of hard knocks teaches you things, and that could be considered "education". Our parents educate us, just by raising us - they teach us their morals, work ethics etc.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Yes agreed.
      As long as we are open we can learn from so many options and situations.

  • @elhassanfatma2768
    @elhassanfatma2768 Год назад +1

    Hello , I just subscribed to your Chanel ! I love it , can you please make a video about Susan Szatmary ! I discovered it on a video talking about royality choices for bags !i will appreciate a lot to watch a complete video about it please 🙏🏻

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад +1

      Welcome to the channel. I’ll keep an eye for the brand when next I’m in Sweden.

  • @ddbookie
    @ddbookie Год назад +1

    I disagree with people buying luxury for identity. I would not negate that people are lured into buying it for that reason. But a few people that I watch on RUclips and myself included, don’t really care about the brand that much, just the quality and design. If I like it and it’s of good quality I will buy it, from contemporary brands to luxury brands. I believe that’s why I naturally like bags/ shoes that do not advertise the brand in a loud way or at all. I buy luxury for the quality foremost. You can get a nice design at a cheaper form ( faux leather, etc) and it won’t last. You end having to buy another item to replace it and it’s a never ending cycle, and arguably more money.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад +1

      You are right it's a never ending cycle. What's important and are you are doing is buying what you like and quality first and foremost. You are on track, keep going 😊

  • @gislenecherime1369
    @gislenecherime1369 Год назад

    You are awsome so anesthesia love you

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад

      Thank you 😊 it’s So Anesu

  • @hellonomasonto
    @hellonomasonto 2 года назад +1

    Thanks!

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for watching!

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for the super thanks! Much appreciated x

    • @hellonomasonto
      @hellonomasonto 2 года назад

      @@SoAnesu You're welcome 😊. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.

  • @V.E.R.O.
    @V.E.R.O. 2 года назад +1

    Quality on a budget is when you buy items at discount department stores. You can buy brand name clothing and products at a reduced price.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +1

      Like TK Maxx / TJ Maxx and Bicester Village in the UK?

    • @V.E.R.O.
      @V.E.R.O. 2 года назад

      @@SoAnesu Yes

  • @sunshine4439
    @sunshine4439 2 года назад

    Well said

  • @romanochelommmiii1526
    @romanochelommmiii1526 2 года назад

    i wish there was a male version of Anesu !!! guys need this too i always send my gf your videos

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Shhh you will get me into trouble with my mother she has been telling me for months to make content for men and I’ve finally buckled. Please stay tuned!

  • @marleneperez3630
    @marleneperez3630 2 года назад

    Beautiful

  • @casaducos
    @casaducos Год назад

    I like this video but i feel just as she says - elegant woman are sustainably conscience…i guess its under her “laws of being an elegant woman” because i have seen people who have everything and appear one way and act another- Also Education is not just a school room and tuition… you really dont know how she meant it -paying for or investing in an education can be paying someone for their time and investing in yourself your mind learning something in 2 hrs like cooking or sewing that you can turn into a side hustle- these reaction videos get you controversy and comments and they are entertaining- good video

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад

      I think a lot of her points were not very clear and could have been more conclusive. Agreed about education that’s exactly what I was saying it’s not all about books and school, experience is as good a teach of not better! Thank you for watching my content.

  • @tamarfischer283
    @tamarfischer283 Год назад +1

    What I dont understand is why anna has 2 million subscribers and you dont. One thing I can say, if the criteria was elegance, the numbers would be reversed.
    Zara- I dont know how they do it but they have amazing blouses. I have bought some I wore for years and then SOLD.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад +1

      I will do one day. Let’s put it out there. You are too kind. Thank you for watching my content and your support.

  • @jessabeauty917
    @jessabeauty917 2 года назад

    I’m subscribed to both channels. I think many of your points aren’t really counter arguments to Anna’s positions, particularly with education and sustainability. She teaches lifestyle in a coaching format which is different than your more narrow topics. She covers far more than floral arrangements. I think you missed the mark but likely from a lack of familiarity.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад +7

      Great!
      My points are not counter arguments. The majority of the points she made are not elegance specific or relevant but advice for anyone. She could have better tailored the arguments to an elegance context. I think.
      Yes our channels are very different and therefore our perspectives…
      I didn’t suggest she covers floral arrangements. Floral arrangements came up in the context of specific courses relevant to elevating or exposing you to elegance depending on the lifestyle you are trying to achieve. I didn’t think it was enough to suggest investing in education as an alternate use for your money but what type of education. And specifically as I was trying to suggest in the context of an elegant lady. Floral arrangement is relevant in the context if someone who likes entertaining extensively at home for example.
      I don’t think I missed the mark I don’t think you really heard what I was saying without judgment clouding your thoughts.

  • @anastasiaromanov3737
    @anastasiaromanov3737 Год назад

    i always feel she works too hard to achieve elegance

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад

      Elegance is an attitude / vibe and we all arrive at it differently so I can appreciate your point.

  • @tatipetrovna937
    @tatipetrovna937 Год назад

    You’re taking everything Anna says out of context.

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  Год назад

      1/2 things but everything? Shucks! 🤦🏾‍♀️ Thank you for watching my content.

  • @misss9005
    @misss9005 2 года назад

    I don’t like Anna or her videos at all, thanks for the video

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      Ouch, why not? Thank you!

    • @misss9005
      @misss9005 2 года назад +5

      @@SoAnesu i don’t find her transparent with her information ,to join her school you have to pay around 300 dollars, but there are not many reviews about her “School of Affluence” 😅. Some people say they got scammed by her, now that I don’t know for sure, but i don’t identify with her at all, so I prefer not to watch. Maybe because I also prefer to watch people that encourage women to get their own money and not teach women how and where to find a millionaire 😅😅 so is all about preferences 😀 i like your videos a lot tho, i just discovered you today, thanks again. Greetings from Germany 😊keep up the good work 👏🏼

    • @SoAnesu
      @SoAnesu  2 года назад

      I think Anna is like marmite.
      Thank you and good to have you onboard.