Disrespecting someone that's been letting you living with them just because of their "dirty job" is the epitome of ungrateful, cause without people like mechanics & plumbers our world wouldn't work
People like Sandra never think of that. Which is funny because people exactly like Sandra are dumb fxxk confused and lost when it comes to fixing that stuff.
It blows my mind how people look down on others who work these "dirty jobs." It's just crazy to me. I'm grateful for these people bc I sure as hell wouldn't wanna do their job💀 & neither would my husband after he spent 4 years working in a tire shop & a butcher shop for 2 years before that(though not sure if a butch shop is considered a dirty job) anyway~ I always make sure to be thankful to these people, & those who do intense labor jobs, when I require a service.
nah, women like her never accept responsibility. She'll leave loser son, and immediately find some other clown to support her. Seen it happen plenty of times.
Should have called cps on the mom. Say "she left the baby home alone, unattended. My son asked me to come watch it but she refuses to let me in her house so you guys come get it" then when cps comes, and they're running to get the baby back, change the locks and throw their shit out and call cps and report a homeless infant when they get back. Matter of fact lead her to the garage and don't tell her about the cameras and call the cops on DIL.
Ohh yea, that's a good plan tbh. And getting custody after that wouldn't be difficult either bc of the parents' financial instability. Unfortunately, it's too late now. I only hope grandson will not continue his parents' cycle.
@@getleeshyyd nope grandad can still report a homeless infant (living in a car), and can prove that he's watched the baby before(was being used for free childcare) , and therefore may be able to sue for custody (parents are obviously unfit as they can't even rent an apartment)
Imagine banning someone from their own house. That's wild. Why have the party in their house if you don't want them at the party? Sounds like DIL wants to save her money at reserving a place for the party. Very narcissistic
Idk about saving money, because they weren’t paying rent and still borrowed money from OP all the time. Then, when they get thrown out, they don’t even have any money to get a place of their own. Aside from DIL’s nasty attitude and mistreating her FIL, they are either big spenders or at the very least not good at budgeting and saving their money. I mean, how you gonna live in his house rent free, borrow the money from him to pay for the party and gifts, and still not invite the man? That’s so disrespectful and gross.
Actually, I just thought about it, and they weren’t even borrowing money. They were “borrowing” money, but never intended to or actually paid any of it back. The ONE time OP asked when the son was gonna pay him back, the son was incredulous and couldn’t fathom having to actually repay the money.
That woman in the first story was a brat and dumb enough to bite the hand that feeds her. She got what was coming to her, so the did the son for being spinless and letting her get away with it. The poor child is the real victim.
OP brought up a good point as he said how he was "okay with being called grumpy, selfish old man" for what he did. A lot of the cantankerous old people we see aren't always like that because they choose to be. They do it out of self-defense because they get screwed over by spineless, emotionally manipulative children like his son and hateful, unappreciative in-laws like Sandra. I just hope that things will get better for OP, and that his grandson grows up to he a good person despite his horrid parents.
In Spanish we have a saying " la mula no era arisca, la hicieron a palos" which I think fits OP. It means people we see as grumpy, angry or cantankerous weren't bad per se, they turned that way due to bad experiences.
If the fil from wife side is a lawyer, might as well asked him to do some favor by calling CPS on those two for providing unhealthy and unstable environment for a child. Hope they lose custody, if not partial, because the way they treat others is just toxic for a little child.
My favorite part was when DIL wanted to call the cops, but even the Son had to call out the stupidity of calling the cops because someone wouldn’t let you into the house that they own 😂 Edit: This also shows that the son could have stuck up for his dad, but he chose not to, which is just sad
And mechanics tend to make quite good money for such a low menial uneducated work. And also tend to be in high demand among friends because of their skills.
Mechanics are awesome! My sweetie wasn’t officially one, but he knew his way around an engine. Some men say it with flowers, others with car maintenance. 🙂 Men who can fix things and build things are sexy. Also, he calls himself old? A man in his sixties is middle-aged. Mine had decades’ worth of good years left. ❤️
She FAFO. Unfortunately, her hate spilled over to her spineless husband. The OP tried to give them a chance, even really bent over backwards. He finally put his foot down.
It's shocking that your daughter-in-law would ban you from your own grandson's birthday party at your house. Good for you for standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.
I can't imagine leaving my MIL or FIL/ mom and dad out of something so important. My in-laws gave me the greatest gift. My husband. I am really blessed with wonderful in-laws. ❤
My SIL is somewhat of a reserved woman from a complicated family. She and my mom have never really gotten along, but it is far from what I would call a toxic relationship. More just two completely opposite personalities. She and I get along just fine, and she is warm with my father. While I admit she controls a lot in her family and my brother lets her, she also would NEVER pull an act like this! For one, she is proud to have a great job and live in a nice home. At the same time she has never disparaged my dad about his job as a facilities worker at the school and doing small repairs on the side (when his health allowed - he’s fully retired now). If anything, she respected what he had to say on cars. Funny memory I have is when we were discussing how many vehicles we have owned over the years. For reference - I’m about 3 years older than them, single, and currently live at my parents home to assist mom in caring for my father. Anyway, She had gone through about six or seven cars at the time since she started driving and my brother was closer to 10. When I admitted I was in my 4th, she was floored. “Well, I listen to Dad and keep maintenance up, and I don’t trade them in every few years. (Side eye to baby bro 😂)” Her reply- “Yeah, that makes sense!”
@@nehcrum which is funny because rich daddy is very stingy. Lawyer through and through. Disgusting. Don't know why she should idolize someone like that but she definitely got his attitude without the work ethic.
First story: how dare she looks down on OP. She never worked in her life yet she wants to act like a B****. He dad might be rich but that ain’t her money. She gotta get her A** to work. You never bite the hand that’s helping you. Your daughter in law is the worst. OP was awesome at the end. I would call CPS to get your grandson taken away.
The irony of her looking down at his profession; given that his profession has provided the roof over their heads and paying for their needs. Some people are just clueless and rotten
You know, I would agree because some women want to tear down their “friends” when their friends are doing better than them, but OP said the friend showed her the text messages.
@@jadesterbaby She also said she didn’t want to see them so who knows whether those messages were real or not. The friend admitted to being envious of OP’s life so it’s not far-fetched that the friend lied to break up the relationship she’s envious about.
@@bakedandbeaded I had considered that too, but the text message “proof” is what made me think otherwise. But it’s not like that can’t be faked. I’ve had plenty of female “friends” who were only happy with/for me if we were doing the same thing, and I’ve had many of them try to blow up my relationships when theirs were blowing up too. So, I can see that being the case too. Especially since the husband’s behavior hadn’t changed at all - either he’s done it before, or the “friend” is lying so she can ruin OP’s marriage and they can be single together.
I hope son realises how awful his wife is for the sake of his own son. Ngl, I hope the story is not fake just so that woman and that spineless man is screwed up..
a must admit the old man definitely showed his son and daughter-in-law what's what. you don't miss treat the people that are doing you favors. because the moment you do they can pull the Favor back. also if I was a daughter's father I would actually force her to get a job or else I would take her child away because she's clearly incapable of being a good person. also the only person that's now going to give their child a bad life is them. the old man did everything for them even giving up his home! but yet they just took advantage of him and didn't care! well now they're on the street living in a car and have nothing! they're lucky that the old man isn't suing them for the money back that he lent his son. because I think it would be pretty easy to see where the money went. gold maybe shiny and pretty but if you don't do anything useful with it it's worthless. just like the daughter-in-law in this story. yes her father's a lawyer but that does not put her above the working class. and I don't think she realized that the working class are actually the most important people in the world. without them the world would stand still. just because somebody is a mechanic and not a lawyer doesn't mean they're worth less. because I highly doubt a lawyer can fix a car by talking to it about how it should work. the one that has the dirtiest hands works the hardest!
Story 1: OP's DIL has no job yet she has the spine to call him a filthy old man because of his profession and now is angry because she got evictied from a filthy old house wow entitlement level 9/10
I wish my grandfather was still with us, he was a hard working man, taxi driver, raised three daughters and loved his family. If he was still here is visit him and invite him round often as I could.
She’s lucky he didn’t call cps Cause like forreal She thought leaving the baby for an hour alone was okay. He’s not 1 yet and even then. Law says they can’t stay home by themselves til a certain age. Smh
The first story makes me so mad, because my father came to America (1958) after doing an apprenticeship for 7 years to become a master mechanic with my mother by his side. His father was very disappointed he didn’t go to university, but he loved working on cars, but they created a wonderful life for my brother and I in America. Since it’s coming up, regarding my dad, people always asked him if the had the 4th of July in Ireland and my father always responded “why yes we do, we also have the 5th, 6th 7th…” 🤣 he had a wonderful sense of humor and we had some of the best 4th parties. Miss my parents 😢
I would’ve called CPS on them as well, just to add salt to the wound maybe he could’ve gotten custody of the grandson as well, save the grandson from parents like that
Story 2: she didn't even ask her husband if it was true....just believed her "friend" ...the same "friend" in the middle in the divorce. Smh.... OP's husband needs to get away from her
I'm sorry to hear that your daughter-in-law is such a witch my daughter-in-law is wonderful I adore her and she seems to think the world of us our granddaughter is such a sweetheart but saying that I would hate to have to live with my son and daughter-in-law and it's not because I don't love them I want them to be independent from us and us to be independent from them that doesn't mean that I don't love them I just don't want to live with them
Her family 100% wants nothing to do with her. They can paint him as the villain, but the moment the kid talks to his mom's extended family he will learn to hate his parents. She has no fallback plan. Now she is desperate. Betcha her siblings think they're pos as well. Word has already spread to the friend circle as well. Nobody likes them, nobody wants to associate with them.
Are there actually people out there who are rude to others because of what they do for a living? Mechanics are extremely skilled. The same goes for trades people and even those who work as refuse collectors (bin men, in UK) their jobs are essential to society. If not for those people our society would be full of trash, broken down vehicles and a living hell.
14:45 honestly i'd have called cps and said "my son and dil are currently homeless, and i fear for my 1 year old grandson. Here is the license plate(s) of their car(s). I would love to take him in as his grandfather if necessary"
Okay I real talk I don’t have anything against housewives/SAHMS even tho that’s not what I would want in a partner but I feel like if your finances are that bad to the point where you have to live off your FIL’s goodwill to have a house and you can’t even afford to pay him rent, buy your own house, or even rent a apartment, then surely the best choice is for both people to get a job so you don’t end up on the streets like these people if one day they decided to change there mind, I would rather have a house then my house cleaned everyday
No cause the audacity of the DIL in the first story to act all high and mighty because of her father's job, like girl it's all your dad's skills, not yours.
Honestly I would’ve insisted on some sort of rights to the child in exchange for allowing them in. Call me a softie but 1 year olds shouldn’t have to pay for their parents’ mistakes. I know it happens and it sucks but where I have a hand in it, I won’t allow it. Not that they ever would’ve folded for grandparents rights anyway
I really don’t get why she makes fun of the job that pays for her home like if I had someone who let me stay in their home for free as long as it’s not illegal I wouldn’t care what their job is 😂
Story 1: Everyone is quick to yell AI generated story! While I'm over here thinking, yeah, someone is trying to make this sound like it's in a western area, when it's really set in India or the Philippines. Why would the cops be on the father's side in this dispute? Why would they care about how their children are treating them, unless this is in a family-oriented society. Living in a garage? Most municipalities have laws against people doing this, UNLESS they are in a non-western society. So, yet another creative writing story. I'm starting to think people get paid for producing this shit, or maybe the owners of these YT accounts are writing these. Story 2: anyone else get vibes that maybe the best friend is trying to implode her friend's marriage? I'd be hiring a PI to get proof first.
Story 2: Yeah, everyone seems very quick to jump on the "leave him, divorce him" bandwagon, and not to give him a chance to explain because he will only lie and gaslight. And all on the words of the ex-friend, and the only evidence are text messages from said ex-friend. Yes, the husband might be cheating or the ex-bff might want to ruin their marriage for one reason or another.
That first story sounds suspicious. First, as someone said, he used the term "car mortgage" and not "car loan." A house is mortgaged. And look, the way this story is depicted, he's a kind and decent man. I can see him telling his son and DIL he's had enough, but finding out his 1-year-old grandson has been living in a car for a week and not being alarmed or calling the authorities? Nope. I don't buy it. If the baby wasn't involved, then maybe. But this story screamed fake to me, with the DIL literally falling to her knees...nah ah.
Story 1: funny how DIL says how “he smells of gas and oil and his hands are dirty and covered in grease” when that is exactly where the money they borrowed came from, OP has a job, and a home, they had none and basically just freeloading, DIL had the audacity to not only not invite OP to his grandson’s birthday but to also make him stay away from HIS OWN HOUSE where they NEVER even contribute financially…and that son of OP’s got no balls at all and let his wife walk all over him…I can only feel sorry for the baby for having such parents…and like hell, leaving the baby alone in that house and says the baby will be fine alone?! Oh man just call CPS on them, they don’t deserve to be parents of that child, they don’t have income or home and just mooch off of OP and DIL making OP a doormat to his own home
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Disrespecting someone that's been letting you living with them just because of their "dirty job" is the epitome of ungrateful, cause without people like mechanics & plumbers our world wouldn't work
People like Sandra never think of that. Which is funny because people exactly like Sandra are dumb fxxk confused and lost when it comes to fixing that stuff.
And she clearly wasn't in a better financial situation in the first place since she needed the house that he owned lol
It blows my mind how people look down on others who work these "dirty jobs." It's just crazy to me. I'm grateful for these people bc I sure as hell wouldn't wanna do their job💀 & neither would my husband after he spent 4 years working in a tire shop & a butcher shop for 2 years before that(though not sure if a butch shop is considered a dirty job) anyway~ I always make sure to be thankful to these people, & those who do intense labor jobs, when I require a service.
It would have been hilarious if he had her work in his garage to live in the house
@@Baseballcheetah11 that would be amazing
"Then show off your trophy to get bread." Epic line. Bravo!
That's one tough old man. I can't help but respect elders because the experience and hardship they had to endure to lived that long
NEVER bite the hand that feeds you! DIL and Son are gonna get their karma back and it’s gonna hit them like bricks.
It already has.
Does dil stand for Dad in law?
Oooh nevermind I figured it out
@@scoodles2 lol
nah, women like her never accept responsibility. She'll leave loser son, and immediately find some other clown to support her. Seen it happen plenty of times.
Hang on a second.
A kid who isn’t even ONE was _playing on the lawn_ while his mother was inside? Something’s not adding up here.
Yeahhhh AI generated story, I used to love listening to Reddit stories instead of having to read them, but AI has ruined it
That was my hang-up as well.
@@Enter54623this channel is notorious for making up stories.
Idk í know some trashy parents who would do that
Yeah same @@arielleshort2072
Should have called cps on the mom. Say "she left the baby home alone, unattended. My son asked me to come watch it but she refuses to let me in her house so you guys come get it" then when cps comes, and they're running to get the baby back, change the locks and throw their shit out and call cps and report a homeless infant when they get back. Matter of fact lead her to the garage and don't tell her about the cameras and call the cops on DIL.
Ohh yea, that's a good plan tbh. And getting custody after that wouldn't be difficult either bc of the parents' financial instability. Unfortunately, it's too late now. I only hope grandson will not continue his parents' cycle.
@@getleeshyyd nope grandad can still report a homeless infant (living in a car), and can prove that he's watched the baby before(was being used for free childcare) , and therefore may be able to sue for custody (parents are obviously unfit as they can't even rent an apartment)
Imagine banning someone from their own house. That's wild. Why have the party in their house if you don't want them at the party? Sounds like DIL wants to save her money at reserving a place for the party. Very narcissistic
Idk about saving money, because they weren’t paying rent and still borrowed money from OP all the time. Then, when they get thrown out, they don’t even have any money to get a place of their own. Aside from DIL’s nasty attitude and mistreating her FIL, they are either big spenders or at the very least not good at budgeting and saving their money.
I mean, how you gonna live in his house rent free, borrow the money from him to pay for the party and gifts, and still not invite the man? That’s so disrespectful and gross.
Actually, I just thought about it, and they weren’t even borrowing money. They were “borrowing” money, but never intended to or actually paid any of it back. The ONE time OP asked when the son was gonna pay him back, the son was incredulous and couldn’t fathom having to actually repay the money.
That woman in the first story was a brat and dumb enough to bite the hand that feeds her.
She got what was coming to her, so the did the son for being spinless and letting her get away with it.
The poor child is the real victim.
OP brought up a good point as he said how he was "okay with being called grumpy, selfish old man" for what he did. A lot of the cantankerous old people we see aren't always like that because they choose to be.
They do it out of self-defense because they get screwed over by spineless, emotionally manipulative children like his son and hateful, unappreciative in-laws like Sandra. I just hope that things will get better for OP, and that his grandson grows up to he a good person despite his horrid parents.
Not likely since his parents mainly dil will poison him to beliving that grandpa was a selfish evil man that kicked them out for no reason.
In Spanish we have a saying " la mula no era arisca, la hicieron a palos" which I think fits OP. It means people we see as grumpy, angry or cantankerous weren't bad per se, they turned that way due to bad experiences.
If the fil from wife side is a lawyer, might as well asked him to do some favor by calling CPS on those two for providing unhealthy and unstable environment for a child.
Hope they lose custody, if not partial, because the way they treat others is just toxic for a little child.
My favorite part was when DIL wanted to call the cops, but even the Son had to call out the stupidity of calling the cops because someone wouldn’t let you into the house that they own 😂
Edit: This also shows that the son could have stuck up for his dad, but he chose not to, which is just sad
Im a mechanic, my gf finds it very attractive, its okay not to be attracted to them but to be disgusted by mechanics is pretty rude
And stupid.
And mechanics tend to make quite good money for such a low menial uneducated work.
And also tend to be in high demand among friends because of their skills.
Mechanics are awesome! My sweetie wasn’t officially one, but he knew his way around an engine. Some men say it with flowers, others with car maintenance. 🙂 Men who can fix things and build things are sexy. Also, he calls himself old? A man in his sixties is middle-aged. Mine had decades’ worth of good years left. ❤️
She FAFO. Unfortunately, her hate spilled over to her spineless husband. The OP tried to give them a chance, even really bent over backwards. He finally put his foot down.
This dude was living rent free and hadn't saved up money for emergencies like this?! Bro!!! Thats insane, the son was truly a loser 🤦♂️
It's shocking that your daughter-in-law would ban you from your own grandson's birthday party at your house. Good for you for standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.
So he’s good enough to borrow from, but not good enough to attend a kids birthday party?
If i had any grandparents left i would go visit them after that first story, unfortunately i lost em all pretty young.
Story1: nta. Op ended it like a badass and started like an idiot. Never let people disrespect you in your own home.
I can't imagine leaving my MIL or FIL/ mom and dad out of something so important. My in-laws gave me the greatest gift. My husband. I am really blessed with wonderful in-laws. ❤
I feel the same my wonderful husband has a wonderful family whom I love dearly.
Im so happy for you both for wonderful in-laws❤❤
Manual workers like engineers are always underappreciated...
Engineers are NOT manual workers.
Manual workers are tradesmen and people working on an hourly wage which requires skill and physical labor.
I have to hug my grandpa😢
Good! I miss mine. 😢
Give him a hug for me too. I lost my only grandfather in 2007.
Lost both 😞 2017 and 2022
Absolutely. I never knew mine.
I feel so sad how does anyone not feel love for their old parents & the son tf i hope I don't have son like that......
Spineless son is gonna get divorced and end up paying child support + alimony to her. Hes gonna be broke for the rest of his life
Ahhh another one of those "Do it for Dan" stories!
My SIL is somewhat of a reserved woman from a complicated family. She and my mom have never really gotten along, but it is far from what I would call a toxic relationship. More just two completely opposite personalities. She and I get along just fine, and she is warm with my father. While I admit she controls a lot in her family and my brother lets her, she also would NEVER pull an act like this! For one, she is proud to have a great job and live in a nice home. At the same time she has never disparaged my dad about his job as a facilities worker at the school and doing small repairs on the side (when his health allowed - he’s fully retired now). If anything, she respected what he had to say on cars. Funny memory I have is when we were discussing how many vehicles we have owned over the years. For reference - I’m about 3 years older than them, single, and currently live at my parents home to assist mom in caring for my father. Anyway, She had gone through about six or seven cars at the time since she started driving and my brother was closer to 10. When I admitted I was in my 4th, she was floored. “Well, I listen to Dad and keep maintenance up, and I don’t trade them in every few years. (Side eye to baby bro 😂)” Her reply- “Yeah, that makes sense!”
12:25 calling him "my loser son" is justified 😂
It's so hilarious and so depressed when grand realize he was in his house....
I have nothing but LOVE for my mechanic. He keeps my paid off vehicle running well to get me wherever I wanna go.
we got the do it the do it for dan episode!!!!! Confirmed in the pinned comment
Story 1: Moral of the story, don’t bite the hand that feeds you.
Crazy level of disrespect
So she hates him because he works?
While she herself is homeless and jobless
Because he works with his hands.
@@nehcrum I think it's more than that. It might just be because he has a job. Some of these entitled princesses truly don't like it when people work.
@@TOMMY716 Doubtful. She likes her daddy, who works as a lawyer, and goes to to his job wearing a suit and tie.
@@nehcrum which is funny because rich daddy is very stingy. Lawyer through and through. Disgusting. Don't know why she should idolize someone like that but she definitely got his attitude without the work ethic.
First story: how dare she looks down on OP. She never worked in her life yet she wants to act like a B****. He dad might be rich but that ain’t her money. She gotta get her A** to work. You never bite the hand that’s helping you. Your daughter in law is the worst. OP was awesome at the end. I would call CPS to get your grandson taken away.
And her daddy refuses to give her money. How much of a screw up you need to be for your rich lawyer daddy refuse to help you
No good deed goes unpunished
1st story: You did everything right. NTA
The irony of her looking down at his profession; given that his profession has provided the roof over their heads and paying for their needs. Some people are just clueless and rotten
S2. Best friend sounds shady do some thorough research about this supposed affair.
You know, I would agree because some women want to tear down their “friends” when their friends are doing better than them, but OP said the friend showed her the text messages.
@@jadesterbaby She also said she didn’t want to see them so who knows whether those messages were real or not. The friend admitted to being envious of OP’s life so it’s not far-fetched that the friend lied to break up the relationship she’s envious about.
@@bakedandbeaded I had considered that too, but the text message “proof” is what made me think otherwise. But it’s not like that can’t be faked. I’ve had plenty of female “friends” who were only happy with/for me if we were doing the same thing, and I’ve had many of them try to blow up my relationships when theirs were blowing up too. So, I can see that being the case too. Especially since the husband’s behavior hadn’t changed at all - either he’s done it before, or the “friend” is lying so she can ruin OP’s marriage and they can be single together.
Never bite the hand that feeds you. I don't blame the dad.
He should sell everything and spend everything travelling in those groups for 50+ people. May even meet someone. Leave him with NOTHING!
I hope son realises how awful his wife is for the sake of his own son. Ngl, I hope the story is not fake just so that woman and that spineless man is screwed up..
Honestly, if her parents are so upscale, then why can't they either put them up or give them money?
a must admit the old man definitely showed his son and daughter-in-law what's what. you don't miss treat the people that are doing you favors. because the moment you do they can pull the Favor back.
also if I was a daughter's father I would actually force her to get a job or else I would take her child away because she's clearly incapable of being a good person.
also the only person that's now going to give their child a bad life is them. the old man did everything for them even giving up his home! but yet they just took advantage of him and didn't care! well now they're on the street living in a car and have nothing! they're lucky that the old man isn't suing them for the money back that he lent his son. because I think it would be pretty easy to see where the money went.
gold maybe shiny and pretty but if you don't do anything useful with it it's worthless. just like the daughter-in-law in this story. yes her father's a lawyer but that does not put her above the working class. and I don't think she realized that the working class are actually the most important people in the world. without them the world would stand still.
just because somebody is a mechanic and not a lawyer doesn't mean they're worth less. because I highly doubt a lawyer can fix a car by talking to it about how it should work. the one that has the dirtiest hands works the hardest!
Story 1: OP's DIL has no job yet she has the spine to call him a filthy old man because of his profession and now is angry because she got evictied from a filthy old house wow entitlement level 9/10
When Sandra charged at OP, I let out a huge fart that I pretended stopped her in her tracks instead of OP's camera
They can get out of your house.
1st story, the old man did the right thing by kicking them out.
I wish my grandfather was still with us, he was a hard working man, taxi driver, raised three daughters and loved his family. If he was still here is visit him and invite him round often as I could.
“Her house” I would have called her ANYTHING but a woman of god and reminded her it’s my damn house.
If this was my grandpa you bet I would be throwing hands
i hope that OP doesnt leave anything in his will for his son
I NEED TO SEE THE OP OF THE 2ND STORY
Grandpa should call CPS on parents, and take grandson into custody imo
She’s lucky he didn’t call cps
Cause like forreal
She thought leaving the baby for an hour alone was okay. He’s not 1 yet and even then. Law says they can’t stay home by themselves til a certain age. Smh
Last update: "hey, my loser son showed up."
Like grandpa CHILL, you already cooked them hard 😭
The first story makes me so mad, because my father came to America (1958) after doing an apprenticeship for 7 years to become a master mechanic with my mother by his side. His father was very disappointed he didn’t go to university, but he loved working on cars, but they created a wonderful life for my brother and I in America.
Since it’s coming up, regarding my dad, people always asked him if the had the 4th of July in Ireland and my father always responded “why yes we do, we also have the 5th, 6th 7th…” 🤣 he had a wonderful sense of humor and we had some of the best 4th parties. Miss my parents 😢
I would’ve called CPS on them as well, just to add salt to the wound maybe he could’ve gotten custody of the grandson as well, save the grandson from parents like that
Story 2: she didn't even ask her husband if it was true....just believed her "friend" ...the same "friend" in the middle in the divorce. Smh.... OP's husband needs to get away from her
I feel sorry for the grandson... He deserves better parents
story1. refuse any further help unless the DIL gets a job
I'm sorry to hear that your daughter-in-law is such a witch my daughter-in-law is wonderful I adore her and she seems to think the world of us our granddaughter is such a sweetheart but saying that I would hate to have to live with my son and daughter-in-law and it's not because I don't love them I want them to be independent from us and us to be independent from them that doesn't mean that I don't love them I just don't want to live with them
This story hurt me so bad and it's 1 am
DIL: i look down on your job, while i make zero money, but just create drama
Her family 100% wants nothing to do with her. They can paint him as the villain, but the moment the kid talks to his mom's extended family he will learn to hate his parents.
She has no fallback plan. Now she is desperate. Betcha her siblings think they're pos as well. Word has already spread to the friend circle as well. Nobody likes them, nobody wants to associate with them.
You should give the house to your friend
Why she doesnt ask her lawyer dad for help?
The son admits they mis treated him
You did the right thing
I'd honestly have called cps if she's leaving her kid alone in the yard, alone in the damn crib and possibly other things?!
It is at your house. Just go.
Are there actually people out there who are rude to others because of what they do for a living? Mechanics are extremely skilled. The same goes for trades people and even those who work as refuse collectors (bin men, in UK) their jobs are essential to society. If not for those people our society would be full of trash, broken down vehicles and a living hell.
14:45 honestly i'd have called cps and said "my son and dil are currently homeless, and i fear for my 1 year old grandson. Here is the license plate(s) of their car(s). I would love to take him in as his grandfather if necessary"
Okay I real talk I don’t have anything against housewives/SAHMS even tho that’s not what I would want in a partner but I feel like if your finances are that bad to the point where you have to live off your FIL’s goodwill to have a house and you can’t even afford to pay him rent, buy your own house, or even rent a apartment, then surely the best choice is for both people to get a job so you don’t end up on the streets like these people if one day they decided to change there mind, I would rather have a house then my house cleaned everyday
When I become a Grandpa and this becomes my type of daughter-in-law.Oh I have the perfect way to deal with her
I didn’t think landlords could evict during Covid
Story 1: make a will asap, iron clad.
No cause the audacity of the DIL in the first story to act all high and mighty because of her father's job, like girl it's all your dad's skills, not yours.
Honestly I would’ve insisted on some sort of rights to the child in exchange for allowing them in. Call me a softie but 1 year olds shouldn’t have to pay for their parents’ mistakes. I know it happens and it sucks but where I have a hand in it, I won’t allow it. Not that they ever would’ve folded for grandparents rights anyway
Good no one bans me from my house.
Why are they even throwing some big party for a 1 yr old?🤦♀️ Just have a family dinner
I might honestly consider buying or paying the rent on a trailer or camper for the son, just because of the baby grandson.
I'd double check. She might be making a play for your husband
Good for you op for standing up to POS family members.
I really don’t get why she makes fun of the job that pays for her home like if I had someone who let me stay in their home for free as long as it’s not illegal I wouldn’t care what their job is 😂
I hate it for OP, I know that's his son. But he allowed his wife to mistreat him, and now this is the consequences
I’m surprised they didn’t try to be squatters
I would never let no one disrespect my parents like that for no reason F that
Story 1: Everyone is quick to yell AI generated story! While I'm over here thinking, yeah, someone is trying to make this sound like it's in a western area, when it's really set in India or the Philippines.
Why would the cops be on the father's side in this dispute? Why would they care about how their children are treating them, unless this is in a family-oriented society. Living in a garage? Most municipalities have laws against people doing this, UNLESS they are in a non-western society. So, yet another creative writing story. I'm starting to think people get paid for producing this shit, or maybe the owners of these YT accounts are writing these.
Story 2: anyone else get vibes that maybe the best friend is trying to implode her friend's marriage? I'd be hiring a PI to get proof first.
Story 2:
Yeah, everyone seems very quick to jump on the "leave him, divorce him" bandwagon, and not to give him a chance to explain because he will only lie and gaslight.
And all on the words of the ex-friend, and the only evidence are text messages from said ex-friend.
Yes, the husband might be cheating or the ex-bff might want to ruin their marriage for one reason or another.
Does anyone have the source for the second story? Weird for telltales to publish a clearly incomplete story.
i wasnt sure if this was ai until the guy refered to his wife passing as "her demise". like what?
Could just be that youtube algorithm doesn't like words like deceased etc.
Bro got Angy💀
Why are they treating him so badly
That first story sounds suspicious. First, as someone said, he used the term "car mortgage" and not "car loan." A house is mortgaged.
And look, the way this story is depicted, he's a kind and decent man. I can see him telling his son and DIL he's had enough, but finding out his 1-year-old grandson has been living in a car for a week and not being alarmed or calling the authorities? Nope. I don't buy it. If the baby wasn't involved, then maybe. But this story screamed fake to me, with the DIL literally falling to her knees...nah ah.
How tf does the 1yr old know how to use a phone??!!?
😂
You’d be surprised
Well well well
I’ll take “Things That DIdn’t Happen” for $1000 Alex
A 66 year old man knowing gaslight and toxicity is just giving away that its AI
Ouch, I wanna know what else happened to Story 2 😭
Story 1: funny how DIL says how “he smells of gas and oil and his hands are dirty and covered in grease” when that is exactly where the money they borrowed came from, OP has a job, and a home, they had none and basically just freeloading, DIL had the audacity to not only not invite OP to his grandson’s birthday but to also make him stay away from HIS OWN HOUSE where they NEVER even contribute financially…and that son of OP’s got no balls at all and let his wife walk all over him…I can only feel sorry for the baby for having such parents…and like hell, leaving the baby alone in that house and says the baby will be fine alone?! Oh man just call CPS on them, they don’t deserve to be parents of that child, they don’t have income or home and just mooch off of OP and DIL making OP a doormat to his own home
mechanical dad is the dad that i ever wanted to have as a kid. fuck this DIL
I fr forgot what DIL means so was wondering why his dad had his grandson
I wish the child stays w op and son abd dil stay in the streets forever