Dad really enabled her behavior, she’s a grown adult and knows right from wrong. She fed you peanuts, something you were allergic to. She tried to kill you because she couldn’t get rid of you earlier.
Yup, this is what can happen when parents spoil and enable their kids too much. This is an extreme example of what can happen, obviously, but spoiling your children too much never ends well. They end up selfish, nasty and entitled and sometimes they even turn into malignant narcissists like Addison in this video. He created that narcissist by bending over backwards for her at every turn since she was seven years old. He was a weak parent. Even after OP asked him if Addison behaved the same with all his previous girlfriends and he confirmed that she did, all he offered was a shrug of the shoulders and said that's just how how it is and that he would always choose Addison because she's family. Spineless.
That is attempted murder. especially when she admitted she told the staff to hide the peanut butter smell. As far as "ruining her life", well, should remind her that if she'd done that in the states it'd be right into cuffs and she'd be getting grilled by police and investigators. And if the hotel people said they were "told to use a lot of stuff to cover peanut butter up" it'd be right into the clink for attempted murder, and she'd never EVER get a decent job because of a felony on her record. She's just LUCKY it happened somewhere out of country.
Her excuse was "feeding her a bad dessert" but the fact that OP apparently ate so much of a "bad dessert" that she needed to be kept overnight proves that the allergic reaction was what the step-daughter wanted. A "bad dessert" prank involves replaces sugar with salt, or putting something gross in, like pickles or fermented fish. It wouldn't taste good. The step-daughter wanted an allergic reaction, she just miscalculated how bad it would be.
@@cocogoat2131 , that was my thought as well. Addison wanted a allergic reaction of skin rash, throwing up, and feeling like dirt. But when OP collapsed and had trouble breathing, Addison knew she had to help OP. Addison intended to hurt OP. But Addison didn't take the level of allergic reaction into account. I know someone with a nut allergy. The person has ended up in the hospital twice. The last time was simply eating a vegetable that had nuts mixed in. Someone had pulled out just the veggies into a bowl, minus the nuts. It was enough to need the EpiPen and an ambulance. And like OP, had to spend the night in the hospital. The person felt terrible about it. They thought it was just eating nuts that would hurt the person, not just contact to nuts.
Bro, it was premeditated murder attempt. The little psycho probably freaked out when she realized there will be consequences for her. She probably thought the blame would fall on the staff and she'd come off with her hands clean.
At the very least it was premeditated GBH in an attempt to put her in the hospital and ruin their honeymoon. Likely in the hopes that it would sour the marriage and cause her to simply want a divorce. That being said, the money thing after daddy cut her off makes me think she was worried about her allowance being cut in the future with him having a wife to consider too, as well as inheritance.
Hubby created that monster. If they believe she is done, they are seriously naive. They need cameras around the house. Facing OP's car. This is the type of gal to mess with the brake line. OP can never be alone with her. OP should park at work where cameras are on her car (if possible). That gal tried to get rid of OP with attitude for years. Then she did try to K OP with peanuts. My guess is that OPs extreme reaction scared her, that's why she called for help. After that confrontation when they got back, she's not afraid anymore. She's not done.
No one who forgets you have a peanut allergy makes instructions to specifically mask the peanuts. THAT is intentional. She was hoping to murder you, but lost her nerve when you started gasping for help. Let's be honest. You're in a foreign country and all she had to do was say you had an allergic reaction and blame the staff. This was premeditated. She's a psychopath.
Balderdash did she forget about the peanut allergy. Why else did she ask for it to be added. There is plenty you could ask be added instead to make it seem spoiled. That's premeditated.
This is why people NEED to put a boundary between their relatio ships and their child!!! The child does effect the relationship, but the child is not Part of the relationship... allowing your child to literally control your life and excusing her shitty behavior over a death at a young age is so wrong!!! This behavior was allowed to develop by dad NEVER putting his foot down with his daughter and how she behaved!!!
i love how the second they called her bluff she backed out. i dont think she ever intended to drop out. i think she thought she could just turn the water works on and manipulate daddy dearest to do what she wanted like shes been doing for years.
Even if the daughter didn't want to murder OP she should have NOT done her “prank”. She can't use the excuse “I didn't know” because she did. She told staff to hide any hint of peanut butter in OP’s food. She probably assumed OP would throw up at the very least. It doesn't look good for her and her whining isn’t helping either.
Listened to the video more and now I believe Addison is seriously messed up. She admitted she could have done worse and not called for help. That is terrifying to hear.
@@Milky-kz8rr personally I don't understand people's hangups on that. It doesn't take a psycho to realize what you could've done to cause more harm in a situation like that, especially with it having been at the forefront of her mind the whole time. To be clear, I definitely think she does have a few screws loose, i just think saying "if I wanted to kill you, I could've just not saved you" isn't a sign of that.
@@Bingotaco frankly speaking, this story is one of those where we could really listen to the daughter's perspective. The OP would definitely would white wash herself and leave out important contexts to protect her own image and make the daughter the villain. I am not saying that is the case, but I feel a lot of this could have been handled much better.
Because she never went this far before. The worst she got was snide ass comments and normal teenage bullshit the dad even basically removed all support minus college which was already paid for.
She committed 2 felonies and got away with it and her punishment is no living expenses but still is going to college… (slow clap..) way to be hard on her dad. Then has the balls to threaten not to go to college as a punishment to her dad? She is just a spoiled brat that needs to wake up.
So her enabling father has finally hit the consequences for his actions and unfortunately those consequences are landing on top of his new wife instead.
Addison doesn‘t Need to grow up! She needs to see a therapist, like yesterday! It sounds to me like she has severe attachment issues to her father. At best, it was an actual mistake and she should’ve apologised ten times over, not gotten mad. At worst, this was attempted premeditated murder Op needs to kick her husband in the ass and convince him that she needs professional help NOW!
She just wants to ruin all her dads relationships. She thought the "prank" would scare you away just like she's been scaring and terrorising all her dad's ex girlfriends. But you stood your ground. Kudos😊 Also; who crashes someone else's honeymoon?????
in what world is peanut butter (when not allergic) and vanilla ice cream a bad dessert?!! she 100% knew what she was doing. she wanted the OP gone for good, failed and now she has to face the consequences. play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
The daughter is a complete psycho. That's not a prank, that's attempted murder. She should be grateful that OP didn't bother to press charges. She should even be more grateful that OP managed to recover because if she didn't... Girl, not even your dear daddy would be able to save you from going to prison
You know what's crazy, OP seems like the type of step-mom to let the attempt on her life go because step-daughter literally learned a lesson and changes her ways/attitude. If she were to accept the punishment, get the part-time, keep good grades, save up some money and not spend it all, properly apologize to OP the right way and in front of her father and mean it, and then just worked on being better to them and in general. She'd then find herself at arms reach and back to getting support from Dad instead of miles away and cut off. Also... a dessert with a lot of peanut butter and vanilla ice cream isn't a "bad dessert". She knew OP had an allergy to peanuts and the only thing I'd say that really shows how little she thinks about stuff, she probably thought it was getting a rash and itchy eyes or something and didn't think about the fact that she has a severe allergy. She didn't forget. She did it on purpose. She tagged along on your HONEYMOON specifically to try and drive you away once and for all. Like she did the others. Except she didn't anticipate you loving her father more than disliking her. And when you guys got married, she realized this was the last chance.
Peanut butter doesn't make a dish bad, this was a deliberate attempt to poison the OP and she got scared when she realized she couldn't just squirm her way out of it given the idiot was the one who ordered the dessert with extreme amounts of peanut butter and added all those extras to cover it up. This was a deliberate attempt to kill someone, not an oopsie poopsies! Sorry, I totally forgot you're deathly allergic to peanuts and I ordered a dish that's absolutely loaded with it! Sowwie, I hope you're not too mad at me, UwU!
She’s so lucky she didn’t end up in an Egyptian prison for attempted murder. Hotel could have easily covered their butts by getting her arrested. No tourist area hotel wants to be seen as dangerous for foreigners.
Geez. I'd just divorce. Seriously. Cut contact, tell everyone what happened and what was said and say "I value my health, safety and life more than my marriage. I can always find a better husband. Cant get another life."
And proving exactly what Addison in the video feels about the women who were with her dad. Also partly OPs fault for ignoring the girl and not actually building a connection with her, every man knows they'll have to potentially play step father if they deal with a single mother, but marrying them means you got to look out for the child, she failed at this and didn't create any real lasting bond. This is my opinion.
Don't bend to this. If her life is ruined, it's on her. She needs to grow up, and a good way to do that is to make her be responsible for herself. She has to accept the consequences of her actions
I wish ppl knew how to discipline while also showing their child grace when experiencing grief and loss. She never been properly disciplined before and she's upset. Which is wild bc she almost killed someone bc of her selfishness and being out of touch
The prank was to make a "bad dessert" because peanut butter, vanilla ice cream, and dates is an awful combination 😒...it was either attempted murder that she backed out of, or she was hoping to get her to the hospital so she could have her dad to herself for the trip, it doesn't sound like she grabbed the epipen like was asked of her, but went straight for the ambulance. Foreign countries don't use 911 so she either already knew that number, or took the time to find it instead of the pen.
It said she called the front desk of the hotel and told them to call an ambulance, she didn't call the ambulance herself. Also "911" is so well known because of American media there are foreign countries who redirect 911 calls to their emergency services, idk if Egypt does of course, but that is a thing.
“Shes just a teenager” no ma’am she is 18 your brain at 18 is mature enough to make sound decisions no ifs and or buts doesn’t matter if it was a “prank” her actions have consequences this is why we end up with entitle people
She's going through puberty so it's natural for her to act like a brat Nah sweetie That's just bad parenting She tried to kill you and you keep feeling sorry for her Her dad coddled her, never punished her. Never let her suffer the consequences of her actions and in this case where she threatened to drop out of college, Let her See what she does. A little brat. You think she's gonna stop with this? If she knows she can manipulate her dad, there's gonna come a point where the "prank" is a distant memory and he will convince himself it's not that bad. She going to try to kill you
Don't let her anywhere near your home. Ever. She is dangerous to you, to pets, to children... She deliberately caused anaphylaxis, nearly killing you in a foreign country. You are very lucky that the local hospital was able to save you. It was NOT a prank.
This story reminded me of another one from r/PettyRevenge... OP's bully, who worked at an ice-cream shop, put dairy and gluten stuff in OP's ice-cream without her consent and also tried to hide them with other stuff, knowing full well OP could have neither gluten nor dairy. However, OP was expecting it: she recorded the bully behind her back, then called the shop owner and showed him the footage, and also pressed charges. It turned out that, where they lived, local laws consider it bodily harm when you feed someone stuff they're allergic to, knowing full well about their allergies. The bully lost her job and was banned from ever working with food again in their area.
It wasn't a prank. She wasn't trying to kill you. Even if she wasn't she knew that you were allergic. Mean, maybe narcissistic, people usually try to test your allergy if they have none because they believe it can't be as bad as you say. Ask me how I know. She wanted to teach you a lesson for marrying her father. At the very least she knew you could be seriously harmed. She's a monster.
I cant get over the fact that she keeps saying over and over that she feels bad for her. She nearly killed you and then put her hands on you and you still feel bad for her.
Sending that email was the best decision ever because they made it very clear where things stand and what the consequences of her actions would be. Glad she's in her path now.
If it was bad enough to send her to the ER right away then another bite or two would've killed her Addison knew what she was doing and probably hoped it killed her She couldn't even acknowledge OP or properly apologize,and not even to OP, her father. only when OP decided to put her foot down is when she decided to acknowledge her He's finally putting his foot down but seeing how addison is, she might somehow get his attention again
Add extra peanut butter use vanilla to mask the taste. It was known she was allergic as she planned it played nice and when her guard was down struck. Only thing that happened is she changed her mind at last minute.
"You forgot about my peanut allergy.? Then why did you make sure to tell them to load it up with vanilla ice cream so i couldnt smell the peanut butter.? And what was the prank then if you "forgot" my allergy.? Its awfully convenient isnt it.?"
U can tell it wasnt a prank because anybody in the same scenario wouldve been apologizing and explaining they had forgotten. She just remained silent. I think she was trying to trigger an allergic reaction but didnt expect it to be as extreme as it was.
The father is a horrible partner, allowing his daughter to ruin relationships for him, and he only changed his mind after she sent someone to the hospital.
She planned all this, tryna feed OP allergic food on purpose, only reason she called medical help coz she got panicked after seeing consequences of action.... Threaten them leave college and chilling at dad's house 😂
I would've pressed charges against my kid IDGAF she tried to kill her father's wife then assaulted her. She's 18 now a legal adult she should've know better but no she's the victim
the ONLY excuse that the stepdaughter has is that she seemed to have underestimated OP's peanut allergy and got help as soon as she did. Other than that... that is a daughter straight from hell, holy jesus
that kid should count her lucky stars that her dad sent her home befor the egyptian police came for a talk not sure about the laws in egypt but dowbt that attempted murder is just a slap on the wrist and a fine
Tbf I think Op's husband should not be expecting to ever have a relationship with his daughter after this. Yes what he did was for her own good but she wont see that, heck even you and I wont see that.
The "gross" dessert was peanutbutter, dates and vanilla ice cream. Certainly an odd combination, but I doubt anyone would really call it gross. Sounds way more like she was trying to hide the peanutbutter so that OP could have an allergic reaction, not expecting it to turn potentially deadly, so she backtracked and called for help, so she wouldn't inadvertently end up a murderer. The daughter for sure needed consequences for her actions and I actually think the father came up with a rather good idea here. Because the punishment is likely to teach her how to stand on her own to feet without wrecking her chances in life. I do think the father should have acted way sooner, preferably with therapy while she was still a kid. I think OP is handling this quite well. Not making decisions when it isn't really affecting her but standing up for herself in areas where it does, ie OP not being willing to live with her, but not pressuring dad one way or the other about the punishment.
People kept saying it was attempted murder, but I think it was attempted manslaughter (she did intend to harm OP but didn't want to kill). If you wanted the attempted murder charge to stick you'd have to prove that she did want to kill OP but changed her mind. I do think the daughter called an ambulance not because she regretted her action but only because she didn't want the murder charge, and that was why after OP was safe, she stopped showing any kind of concern.
I think that deliberately telling the chef to put food you know to be an allergen into someone's food has been considered attempted murder in court (in America at least) several times already. The fact that she also ordered the staff to cover up the smell strongly suggests that she knew that if OP smelled peanuts, she would not eat the food. This action also strongly suggests that she *WANTED* OP to have an allergic reaction. The fact that the brat called for emergency vehicles is more likely her realizing that this is attempted murder and since they were in a foreign country, if she got arrested and tried, she would be in a foreign prison for a long time.
I don't doubt she wanted OP to have an allergic reaction. I'm just pondering over whether it's manslaughter or murder (which, as I understand, is distinguished by the intent to kill). Of course, I'm not a lawyer, and I'm a citizen of neither countries, so I have no expertise whatsoever.
This is as much Jeff’s fault for deliberately enabling her behavior as a child with his previous partners. If you refuse to correct your child’s behavior, you are responsible for the monster she turns into as an adult.
"I tried to kill you, but you need to give me money because life is soooooo hard." Silly little girl, you're fortunate that I decided not to retaliate.
Jeff raised addison badly and made her think she could break any boundaries of his romantic relationships just because she was "the most important girl in his life" and now that she had lost control of her dad, she lashes out at OP. Boundaries shouldve been set long ago.
She said it was a prank, from what I could tell it was peanut butter ice cream and dates maybe chocolate? Why would that be a bad dessert to someone who isn’t allergic? That sounds like something you’d get at a Dairy Queen
I don’t know why, but the longer that story went on the worst both parties started sounding. Maybe it was the reader, but at the end hated the OP, the husband and the daughter.
Let me see if I understand: The daughter is threatening to drop out of college, which is being paid for, if her father doesn't continue to fund her extracurricular activities. He's covering her tuition and housing, but she is pushing back because he won't give her anything extra. Why? Because she tried to delete his new wife, whom she doesn't like for whatever reason. A different father would have contacted the police because, at best, it was first degree assault, and at worst, attempted voluntary manslaughter. Only a woman could twist the logic to blame a man for her choice to commit a crime against another woman she doesn't like. Only a man could continue to fund her education after trying to delete his wife.
That girl is 18 yrs old. She knew exactly what she was doing. She tried to kill you
How’s it a prank if she was telling the staff to hide the smell of peanut butter? That is attempted murder
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Apparently giving someone a gross dessert is a top tier prank now
@@polverdejomarrugat6526 gross and deadly are 2 different things
@@mr.T-tf3bn i know, but thats the excuse that she gave, not me
@@mr.T-tf3bn i know, but thats the excuse that she gave, not me
Dad really enabled her behavior, she’s a grown adult and knows right from wrong. She fed you peanuts, something you were allergic to. She tried to kill you because she couldn’t get rid of you earlier.
Yup, this is what can happen when parents spoil and enable their kids too much. This is an extreme example of what can happen, obviously, but spoiling your children too much never ends well. They end up selfish, nasty and entitled and sometimes they even turn into malignant narcissists like Addison in this video. He created that narcissist by bending over backwards for her at every turn since she was seven years old. He was a weak parent. Even after OP asked him if Addison behaved the same with all his previous girlfriends and he confirmed that she did, all he offered was a shrug of the shoulders and said that's just how how it is and that he would always choose Addison because she's family. Spineless.
I ain’t readin all that
@@BonkGD. Average attention span of this generation:
@@Skyler-yw3odI ain’t reading all that
@@thealmostdeadpatient7767it's a sentence. Just say you can't read
That is attempted murder. especially when she admitted she told the staff to hide the peanut butter smell. As far as "ruining her life", well, should remind her that if she'd done that in the states it'd be right into cuffs and she'd be getting grilled by police and investigators. And if the hotel people said they were "told to use a lot of stuff to cover peanut butter up" it'd be right into the clink for attempted murder, and she'd never EVER get a decent job because of a felony on her record. She's just LUCKY it happened somewhere out of country.
In any other western country she would be in jail as well. Its not like you can go to europe, try to kill someone and then just go back to the US
That's not a prank, that's ATTEMPTED M---ER.
^^^ What he said.
my dude the word is murder.....
Bro, why do you censor yourself? You're not going to get banned for it. RUclipsrs censor themselves because they're afraid they'll get demonetized. 😂
@@ARSENALGeared Because the comments get deleted a lot when words like that are used
@@ARSENALGeared Because I'm sick of my comments being deleted if I don't censor anything that might even SUGGEST vi0lence.
Her excuse was "feeding her a bad dessert" but the fact that OP apparently ate so much of a "bad dessert" that she needed to be kept overnight proves that the allergic reaction was what the step-daughter wanted. A "bad dessert" prank involves replaces sugar with salt, or putting something gross in, like pickles or fermented fish. It wouldn't taste good. The step-daughter wanted an allergic reaction, she just miscalculated how bad it would be.
Yeah, she probably hoped she'd swell up, and get a skin outbreak to humiliate her, not taking her allergy seriously.
@@cocogoat2131 , that was my thought as well. Addison wanted a allergic reaction of skin rash, throwing up, and feeling like dirt. But when OP collapsed and had trouble breathing, Addison knew she had to help OP.
Addison intended to hurt OP. But Addison didn't take the level of allergic reaction into account. I know someone with a nut allergy. The person has ended up in the hospital twice. The last time was simply eating a vegetable that had nuts mixed in. Someone had pulled out just the veggies into a bowl, minus the nuts. It was enough to need the EpiPen and an ambulance. And like OP, had to spend the night in the hospital. The person felt terrible about it. They thought it was just eating nuts that would hurt the person, not just contact to nuts.
Bro, it was premeditated murder attempt. The little psycho probably freaked out when she realized there will be consequences for her. She probably thought the blame would fall on the staff and she'd come off with her hands clean.
At the very least it was premeditated GBH in an attempt to put her in the hospital and ruin their honeymoon.
Likely in the hopes that it would sour the marriage and cause her to simply want a divorce.
That being said, the money thing after daddy cut her off makes me think she was worried about her allowance being cut in the future with him having a wife to consider too, as well as inheritance.
Hubby created that monster. If they believe she is done, they are seriously naive. They need cameras around the house. Facing OP's car. This is the type of gal to mess with the brake line. OP can never be alone with her. OP should park at work where cameras are on her car (if possible). That gal tried to get rid of OP with attitude for years. Then she did try to K OP with peanuts. My guess is that OPs extreme reaction scared her, that's why she called for help. After that confrontation when they got back, she's not afraid anymore.
She's not done.
Yep, she's a sociopath
No one who forgets you have a peanut allergy makes instructions to specifically mask the peanuts. THAT is intentional. She was hoping to murder you, but lost her nerve when you started gasping for help. Let's be honest. You're in a foreign country and all she had to do was say you had an allergic reaction and blame the staff.
This was premeditated. She's a psychopath.
Balderdash did she forget about the peanut allergy. Why else did she ask for it to be added. There is plenty you could ask be added instead to make it seem spoiled. That's premeditated.
Its attempted murder. Addison needs to be put in prison.
That girl should be in jail. Her dad should give her some tough love and call the police.
This is why people NEED to put a boundary between their relatio ships and their child!!! The child does effect the relationship, but the child is not Part of the relationship... allowing your child to literally control your life and excusing her shitty behavior over a death at a young age is so wrong!!! This behavior was allowed to develop by dad NEVER putting his foot down with his daughter and how she behaved!!!
Very true. Your point is proven by the fact that they let her come on their honeymoon.....???? Like????
This child is both dangerous AND greedy! Yikes
If op had died and her stepdaughter had said it was only a prank she would have been jailed and disowned
In Egypt she would probably looking at a good old fashion life in prison or worse
Step Daughter really went "If you cut me off, I'm about to ruin my own future." 😂
i love how the second they called her bluff she backed out. i dont think she ever intended to drop out. i think she thought she could just turn the water works on and manipulate daddy dearest to do what she wanted like shes been doing for years.
Even if the daughter didn't want to murder OP she should have NOT done her “prank”. She can't use the excuse “I didn't know” because she did. She told staff to hide any hint of peanut butter in OP’s food. She probably assumed OP would throw up at the very least. It doesn't look good for her and her whining isn’t helping either.
Listened to the video more and now I believe Addison is seriously messed up. She admitted she could have done worse and not called for help. That is terrifying to hear.
No. Addison knew that it was a deathly bad allergy.
@@Milky-kz8rr personally I don't understand people's hangups on that. It doesn't take a psycho to realize what you could've done to cause more harm in a situation like that, especially with it having been at the forefront of her mind the whole time. To be clear, I definitely think she does have a few screws loose, i just think saying "if I wanted to kill you, I could've just not saved you" isn't a sign of that.
@@Bingotaco frankly speaking, this story is one of those where we could really listen to the daughter's perspective. The OP would definitely would white wash herself and leave out important contexts to protect her own image and make the daughter the villain. I am not saying that is the case, but I feel a lot of this could have been handled much better.
Man why would even get married to someone knowing his daughter always did that to his exes?
Literally the question I asked myself the whole video.
Because she never went this far before. The worst she got was snide ass comments and normal teenage bullshit the dad even basically removed all support minus college which was already paid for.
She committed 2 felonies and got away with it and her punishment is no living expenses but still is going to college… (slow clap..) way to be hard on her dad. Then has the balls to threaten not to go to college as a punishment to her dad? She is just a spoiled brat that needs to wake up.
So her enabling father has finally hit the consequences for his actions and unfortunately those consequences are landing on top of his new wife instead.
How much of a doormat would you have to be to feel bad that someone who tried to murder you isn't getting free money anymore
I would be pressing charges against her and divorcing the dad.
why would you divorce the dad? pressing charges i get but the dad did punish her..
Her father is just enabling her. She needs to be in jail not at school.
What a
psycho!!!! Poisoning someone is obviously crazy but even her obsession and possessiveness of her father is freaking weird.
Her ruining her life is completely on her..
Addison doesn‘t Need to grow up! She needs to see a therapist, like yesterday! It sounds to me like she has severe attachment issues to her father.
At best, it was an actual mistake and she should’ve apologised ten times over, not gotten mad. At worst, this was attempted premeditated murder
Op needs to kick her husband in the ass and convince him that she needs professional help NOW!
Wow so no college cause she almost killed her! Nah she should be in jail!
The daughter should be in jail for attempted murder.
She just wants to ruin all her dads relationships. She thought the "prank" would scare you away just like she's been scaring and terrorising all her dad's ex girlfriends. But you stood your ground. Kudos😊
Also; who crashes someone else's honeymoon?????
She was saying oh it was a prank when she knew you had a penut allergy so she can't say "is a prank" and attempt to murder
That’s not a prank. She almost killed someone. She is a psychopath. She is a danger to everyone
@@goldentriforce29 which is attempted murder cause she knneq
The daughter is the product of that father and constant sympathy from his GFs... she needed boundaries early and hard set ones
in what world is peanut butter (when not allergic) and vanilla ice cream a bad dessert?!! she 100% knew what she was doing. she wanted the OP gone for good, failed and now she has to face the consequences. play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Wow she’s pathological. Let her grow up in prison.
You’re not safe around crazy.
Yay the father-daughter relationship is beyond repair. Even if they forgive her she is not going to "forgive" them.
She definitely wanted to harm her stepmother.At 18 she might of been ignorant of the consequences. I think she is a sociopath.
The daughter is a complete psycho. That's not a prank, that's attempted murder. She should be grateful that OP didn't bother to press charges. She should even be more grateful that OP managed to recover because if she didn't... Girl, not even your dear daddy would be able to save you from going to prison
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You know what's crazy, OP seems like the type of step-mom to let the attempt on her life go because step-daughter literally learned a lesson and changes her ways/attitude. If she were to accept the punishment, get the part-time, keep good grades, save up some money and not spend it all, properly apologize to OP the right way and in front of her father and mean it, and then just worked on being better to them and in general. She'd then find herself at arms reach and back to getting support from Dad instead of miles away and cut off. Also... a dessert with a lot of peanut butter and vanilla ice cream isn't a "bad dessert". She knew OP had an allergy to peanuts and the only thing I'd say that really shows how little she thinks about stuff, she probably thought it was getting a rash and itchy eyes or something and didn't think about the fact that she has a severe allergy. She didn't forget. She did it on purpose. She tagged along on your HONEYMOON specifically to try and drive you away once and for all. Like she did the others. Except she didn't anticipate you loving her father more than disliking her. And when you guys got married, she realized this was the last chance.
She needs to be in prison
Peanut butter doesn't make a dish bad, this was a deliberate attempt to poison the OP and she got scared when she realized she couldn't just squirm her way out of it given the idiot was the one who ordered the dessert with extreme amounts of peanut butter and added all those extras to cover it up.
This was a deliberate attempt to kill someone, not an oopsie poopsies! Sorry, I totally forgot you're deathly allergic to peanuts and I ordered a dish that's absolutely loaded with it! Sowwie, I hope you're not too mad at me, UwU!
He needs to stop enabling her.
Tampering with people’s food isn’t a prank ever. It’s a crime. ESPECIALLY when someone has a deadly allergy
She’s so lucky she didn’t end up in an Egyptian prison for attempted murder. Hotel could have easily covered their butts by getting her arrested. No tourist area hotel wants to be seen as dangerous for foreigners.
Geez. I'd just divorce. Seriously. Cut contact, tell everyone what happened and what was said and say "I value my health, safety and life more than my marriage. I can always find a better husband. Cant get another life."
And proving exactly what Addison in the video feels about the women who were with her dad. Also partly OPs fault for ignoring the girl and not actually building a connection with her, every man knows they'll have to potentially play step father if they deal with a single mother, but marrying them means you got to look out for the child, she failed at this and didn't create any real lasting bond. This is my opinion.
That's literally what the step daughter is trying to achieve. She's trying to scare her away
@Asrajzz64 there's only so much you can do to build a relationship with someone. If they are constantly fighting you, it's next to impossible
Addison is darn lucky the OP didn't press charges in Egypt - she could have ended up in a prison in a country foreign to her.
She ruined her own life, stop making excuses for this ADULT.
Don't bend to this. If her life is ruined, it's on her. She needs to grow up, and a good way to do that is to make her be responsible for herself. She has to accept the consequences of her actions
I wish ppl knew how to discipline while also showing their child grace when experiencing grief and loss. She never been properly disciplined before and she's upset. Which is wild bc she almost killed someone bc of her selfishness and being out of touch
Attempted murder is one hellva prank.
That's not a prank... it's attempted murd*r... file a report!
That is monstrous. Addison needs to go to prison for life. OP needs to press charges against her.
she is studying history? well her future is already ruined...
no it's not. she's totally fine.
@@lunarsensitive1 no it's ruined because she clearly failed to learn that actions have consequences, cause that exists all throughout history.
The prank was to make a "bad dessert" because peanut butter, vanilla ice cream, and dates is an awful combination 😒...it was either attempted murder that she backed out of, or she was hoping to get her to the hospital so she could have her dad to herself for the trip, it doesn't sound like she grabbed the epipen like was asked of her, but went straight for the ambulance. Foreign countries don't use 911 so she either already knew that number, or took the time to find it instead of the pen.
It said she called the front desk of the hotel and told them to call an ambulance, she didn't call the ambulance herself. Also "911" is so well known because of American media there are foreign countries who redirect 911 calls to their emergency services, idk if Egypt does of course, but that is a thing.
@@WillowGirl11 thank you for pointing that out, I forgot that she called the front desk. Thank you though for the fun fact about the 911 redirects
Screw college! Addison needs a stay in the local psych ward.
“Shes just a teenager” no ma’am she is 18 your brain at 18 is mature enough to make sound decisions no ifs and or buts doesn’t matter if it was a “prank” her actions have consequences this is why we end up with entitle people
“We were going to Egypt, because that’s where one of our favorite novels was based.”
Let me guess: Death on the Nile? 🤪
She's going through puberty so it's natural for her to act like a brat
Nah sweetie
That's just bad parenting
She tried to kill you and you keep feeling sorry for her
Her dad coddled her, never punished her. Never let her suffer the consequences of her actions and in this case where she threatened to drop out of college, Let her
See what she does. A little brat.
You think she's gonna stop with this? If she knows she can manipulate her dad, there's gonna come a point where the "prank" is a distant memory and he will convince himself it's not that bad.
She going to try to kill you
Don't let her anywhere near your home. Ever. She is dangerous to you, to pets, to children... She deliberately caused anaphylaxis, nearly killing you in a foreign country. You are very lucky that the local hospital was able to save you. It was NOT a prank.
This story reminded me of another one from r/PettyRevenge... OP's bully, who worked at an ice-cream shop, put dairy and gluten stuff in OP's ice-cream without her consent and also tried to hide them with other stuff, knowing full well OP could have neither gluten nor dairy. However, OP was expecting it: she recorded the bully behind her back, then called the shop owner and showed him the footage, and also pressed charges. It turned out that, where they lived, local laws consider it bodily harm when you feed someone stuff they're allergic to, knowing full well about their allergies.
The bully lost her job and was banned from ever working with food again in their area.
It wasn't a prank. She wasn't trying to kill you. Even if she wasn't she knew that you were allergic. Mean, maybe narcissistic, people usually try to test your allergy if they have none because they believe it can't be as bad as you say. Ask me how I know. She wanted to teach you a lesson for marrying her father. At the very least she knew you could be seriously harmed. She's a monster.
She's 18. Old enough to know
And it's most definitely NOT a prank.
She is lucky OP did not put her in JAIL for what she did. It was no prank; she instructed them to cover up the smell of the PB, so she knew
Lol yah being a history major is so exhausting you cant work 😂
I don't see a scenario where a man finds it reasonable to take his adult daughter on his honeymoon.
I cant get over the fact that she keeps saying over and over that she feels bad for her. She nearly killed you and then put her hands on you and you still feel bad for her.
And to think, all she had to do to keep daddy funding her life was not attempt to unalive someone...
Yeah, no. If it was "just a prank," she wouldn't have told them to try to hide the smell of the peanut butter
She is a legal adult.
I would had just told the brat that she should be thanking me every second of every day I don't have her arrested and/or sued for attempted murder.
she should be happy she isnt in jail lol....
Sending that email was the best decision ever because they made it very clear where things stand and what the consequences of her actions would be. Glad she's in her path now.
If it was bad enough to send her to the ER right away then another bite or two would've killed her
Addison knew what she was doing and probably hoped it killed her
She couldn't even acknowledge OP or properly apologize,and not even to OP, her father. only when OP decided to put her foot down is when she decided to acknowledge her
He's finally putting his foot down but seeing how addison is, she might somehow get his attention again
Why in the world did they bring her step daughter along on a honeymoon trip I thought only the couple go on the trip.
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You NEVER ignore the attitude. 👏 NEVER 👏
Add extra peanut butter use vanilla to mask the taste. It was known she was allergic as she planned it played nice and when her guard was down struck. Only thing that happened is she changed her mind at last minute.
Shout out to OPs husband for standing up for OP and supporting and backing her up you rarely hear about the husband standing up for his wife
Premeditated attempted murder
And OP actually expects this marriage to work? Husband may have put his foot down but it took his daughter trying to kill his new bride to do it.
"You forgot about my peanut allergy.? Then why did you make sure to tell them to load it up with vanilla ice cream so i couldnt smell the peanut butter.? And what was the prank then if you "forgot" my allergy.? Its awfully convenient isnt it.?"
Dad created that murdering narcissist, sorry attempted murdering narcissist.
U can tell it wasnt a prank because anybody in the same scenario wouldve been apologizing and explaining they had forgotten. She just remained silent. I think she was trying to trigger an allergic reaction but didnt expect it to be as extreme as it was.
The father is a horrible partner, allowing his daughter to ruin relationships for him, and he only changed his mind after she sent someone to the hospital.
She planned all this, tryna feed OP allergic food on purpose, only reason she called medical help coz she got panicked after seeing consequences of action.... Threaten them leave college and chilling at dad's house 😂
I would've pressed charges against my kid IDGAF she tried to kill her father's wife then assaulted her. She's 18 now a legal adult she should've know better but no she's the victim
If it was a prank she would have been Remorseful and guilty for what she did. Not angry
the ONLY excuse that the stepdaughter has is that she seemed to have underestimated OP's peanut allergy and got help as soon as she did. Other than that... that is a daughter straight from hell, holy jesus
that kid should count her lucky stars that her dad sent her home befor the egyptian police came for a talk not sure about the laws in egypt but dowbt that attempted murder is just a slap on the wrist and a fine
The proper response to every email should have been "What's not fair is you claiming to be the victim after you tried to murder me."
Tbf I think Op's husband should not be expecting to ever have a relationship with his daughter after this. Yes what he did was for her own good but she wont see that, heck even you and I wont see that.
The "gross" dessert was peanutbutter, dates and vanilla ice cream. Certainly an odd combination, but I doubt anyone would really call it gross. Sounds way more like she was trying to hide the peanutbutter so that OP could have an allergic reaction, not expecting it to turn potentially deadly, so she backtracked and called for help, so she wouldn't inadvertently end up a murderer.
The daughter for sure needed consequences for her actions and I actually think the father came up with a rather good idea here. Because the punishment is likely to teach her how to stand on her own to feet without wrecking her chances in life. I do think the father should have acted way sooner, preferably with therapy while she was still a kid.
I think OP is handling this quite well. Not making decisions when it isn't really affecting her but standing up for herself in areas where it does, ie OP not being willing to live with her, but not pressuring dad one way or the other about the punishment.
People kept saying it was attempted murder, but I think it was attempted manslaughter (she did intend to harm OP but didn't want to kill). If you wanted the attempted murder charge to stick you'd have to prove that she did want to kill OP but changed her mind. I do think the daughter called an ambulance not because she regretted her action but only because she didn't want the murder charge, and that was why after OP was safe, she stopped showing any kind of concern.
I think that deliberately telling the chef to put food you know to be an allergen into someone's food has been considered attempted murder in court (in America at least) several times already. The fact that she also ordered the staff to cover up the smell strongly suggests that she knew that if OP smelled peanuts, she would not eat the food. This action also strongly suggests that she *WANTED* OP to have an allergic reaction. The fact that the brat called for emergency vehicles is more likely her realizing that this is attempted murder and since they were in a foreign country, if she got arrested and tried, she would be in a foreign prison for a long time.
I don't doubt she wanted OP to have an allergic reaction. I'm just pondering over whether it's manslaughter or murder (which, as I understand, is distinguished by the intent to kill). Of course, I'm not a lawyer, and I'm a citizen of neither countries, so I have no expertise whatsoever.
This is as much Jeff’s fault for deliberately enabling her behavior as a child with his previous partners. If you refuse to correct your child’s behavior, you are responsible for the monster she turns into as an adult.
The Dad called the brat's bluff and won.
No she won. She still gets to go to college instead of a jail cell.
"I tried to kill you, but you need to give me money because life is soooooo hard." Silly little girl, you're fortunate that I decided not to retaliate.
Jeff raised addison badly and made her think she could break any boundaries of his romantic relationships just because she was "the most important girl in his life" and now that she had lost control of her dad, she lashes out at OP. Boundaries shouldve been set long ago.
OP pulled revenge UNO card on her by saying if she leaves college they would cuttt off contact.. no free chilling at dad house 😆
Crazy how some people just don’t grow up and accept reality
OP: the comments told me to not read the emails
The actual comments: that's attempted murder
She said it was a prank, from what I could tell it was peanut butter ice cream and dates maybe chocolate? Why would that be a bad dessert to someone who isn’t allergic? That sounds like something you’d get at a Dairy Queen
I don’t know why, but the longer that story went on the worst both parties started sounding. Maybe it was the reader, but at the end hated the OP, the husband and the daughter.
Let me see if I understand: The daughter is threatening to drop out of college, which is being paid for, if her father doesn't continue to fund her extracurricular activities. He's covering her tuition and housing, but she is pushing back because he won't give her anything extra. Why? Because she tried to delete his new wife, whom she doesn't like for whatever reason. A different father would have contacted the police because, at best, it was first degree assault, and at worst, attempted voluntary manslaughter. Only a woman could twist the logic to blame a man for her choice to commit a crime against another woman she doesn't like. Only a man could continue to fund her education after trying to delete his wife.
Divorce him and report her to the police if she had died it wouldnt have made any diffrence to the daughters life thats psychotic behaviour