maintaining friendships in ur late 20s (adult friendships)
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i’m rly such a yapper sorry for repeating myself so much in this episode HAHAHHAA hope y’all enjoyed watching either way ..
Real... Used to be "why cant this person do the same for me" typa kid but i grew, now I just remove whoever I feel i'm not close with aka the secondary classmates whom I never connected with or coursemates who shared one module and only had two convos with. I used to be so attached to friendships and be "omg i need to know many people" but then when we're adults, no time no energy LMAO
Tough thing is the way I invest in friendships is slightly different than most of my friends esp those who are settling down with partners and often I feel in a way left out because my life goal isn't finding someone to settle with, I want friends to grow old with me and it's, in a way, sad to see that though I respect my decisions and choices and I 1000% want them happy
so so relatable i'm not even in my late 20s but it's so difficult to maintain friendships 😢
very very, relatable!! love this episode!!
professional yapper 😂 liked and subbed ❤
thanks for this vid! i can totally relate. i have a friend who keeps asking to meet up to eat but I always feel stressed :( so I keep postponing the meet up. its like.. we just met few weeks ago, I just cannot... I'm an introvert and my social battery is vv low HAHA but I think she gets it and stopped asking me to meet too frequently. and yes like u said, some friends u can only talk to about certain things and that's why I dread meeting her coz as much as she is comfortable to share abt her personal life with me, I'm not comfortable/ dont want to share so much about my personal life with her 😅
Thank you for sharing. I was trying to make/build good friend/best friend with a introvert i presume. I guess it was what this friend was trying to do as well. But i guess the difference was i prob only checked in once in while when i am less consumed in life. Probably around the same period of mth a year. At first it was ok but i think after i wasnt able to make it for some impromtu meetup when she was nearby n covid hits we r just gone. Missing/pushing meetups n all. She stopped replying to me.i am sad till date, i dont have a closure. Like i dk if i did anything wrong. I have been asking but its just nth comes bck. N i dont want to over bother n stress her out too.
Any advise u may have from your perspective as a introvert w low social energy on mending friendship?
i not even late 20s but relate...but frs i want to meet u someday!!
haha i think u meant "come to fruition"