Not “woman with the issue of blood” 🤣🤣🤣 “Y’all go through to much already. God already prepared you to have strength to walk away from a grown boy” 💯‼️💎
Whew… I cried just realizing how much of a clown I’ve been…. It’s such a hard pill to swallow when you realize you’re the reason why certain treatment happens in your relationships
After watching this, this made me realized that i did in fact show my ex husband grace. It was never the same thing but it was always something disrespectful. I literally felt like i was training a child. I left for a deal breaker after 3 years which is short to others but long for me. 😅
Wow this video came right on time. I left my husband 8 months ago while he was at work. We hadn’t seen each other until Saturday. He’s eating humble pie now and saying he takes full responsibility for everything. Basically saying all the things he should’ve said before I left. He said, I didn’t think you would leave.” I immediately thought of a video where Tony Gaskins said men respect doers and not talkers. Now I’m praying and asking God to reveal to me if he’s sincere, should I give it another try or stay free. Tony your video came right on time. Thank you
Alot of women have been told that theyre supposed to stay and keep the relationship together( especially in marriage ) because of how people will percieve them. Alot of men go into relationships with the same mindset kmowing that women arent " supposed" to leave so they act up. Ive heard men tell their wives the same thing and then they do the worst.
@@tarahbruno3793 lolll yess but let's hear his take and wisdom, the caveats and nuances. He's on a roll and I have not seen him talk on this in a while. Especially as we're on the topic of grace.
Your long videos are the best. I've been listening to you for almost 4 years, now, I have taken your life coaching certification course and I have also had a life coach from your Website (Yvette) she was an absolute jewel in my life and helped me so much. All glory to God. These videos have helped me through my divorce healing after dealing with a chronic cheater. All praise to God. I thank him for you and your beautiful wife and family and your obedience and truth teaching to all of the rest of these beautiful women who watch your teachings.
Younger women have an extreme amount of tolerance, I did as well. As we get older, especially hitting that menopause..we aint got no tolerance anymore. That is why they like them younger women..😉
Older women should not be waiting until they are menopausal to become intolerant of disrespectful or non-committing men. Our standards and what we are willing to shut down from men is driven by how we value ourselves. I broke off a whole engagement at age 23 because I had value and self-worth and was tired of games. Why would I put up with that just to waste my young years? Women have to be able to shut down that behavior early on at the first couple of instance like Tony was saying. I’m 26 now, engaged again but this time to a man of character and respect loving him from a healed place. I don’t care how young I am, nobody has time to deal with certain mess and we have to shut down certain things. We should not have to go through multiple men, giving so many chances to no-good ones, and making the same mistakes, growing super old just to discover our value and self-worth.
Tony, I realize you know there is a pleather of valuable information in your videos, as do I. I’m saying this to Anyone who says your videos are to long. Those people aren’t getting the message. Patience is a virtue, and God gave us the ability to hear not just with our ears, but also with our patience. 🙏🏻 Beyond the topic, you provide real value in your content, and all the information in the videos are ingredients of the topic, & beyond. I listen all the way through every video you post, and listen to them multiple times ❤ thank you for your blessings- Alisa 🙏🏻
Lmaooo the ending so true we go through too much to put up with anything extra!! Great way to put it women put their strength into staying and that’s just not how it should be.
So much we can go through as a women, to have a relationship( especially when Tony mention you can get tried after having kids, kid number 3 wow!) God help us all.
Mr.Gaskins, Can you make a video for people who want to leave when a deal breaker occurs the first time? Like cheating or abuse. We don’t want to give a second chance. I am not talking about petty stuff. Especially, if we are not cheating in anyway or abusing our partner in any way. A dealbreaker is a deal-breaker as in the contract is null and void. Could you make a video for women who have that perspective ?
In this Video He said say upfront what your deal breakers are. Have that conversation at the beginning of the conversation of being exclusive. And then when he happens, leave. So you won't have to say again bc you've already had the conversation before anything happened
Why do men court u, just to turn around and say “I don’t want a relationship right now? I feel they shouldn’t even approach anyone if they are not set in life.
Video topic idea: How to handle a lying spouse who apologizes and continues to lie about “minor” things that aren’t enough to end the relationship/break up a family.
This is tough one. Dealing with a pathological liar is not for the weak especially when the person lies for minor things. I pray your strength. I am dealing with someone like this right now and it’s a clear indication that I need to go no further with this relationship.
Tony can you make a video on your thoughts about people “speed dating” as like how these people have these women standing in line and these men are “smash or passing them”.
How do you know when it’s time to go, in marriage? So - after you’ve done all the “things” (therapy, mediation, separate corners, etc.) and nothing is changing.
Do you think Mrs.gaskins and your self would mind doing a marriage video. On things that help you to keep things new and fresh and things she does as a wife to honor you like GOD like it says in the Bible. I would love to get some marriage advice from you. Married couples need a lot of help as well. I’ve been watching you the past 4 years and I really appreciate you allowing GOD to use you in the best way. A year after watching you say keep your legs closed and then I was married. I know Mrs.gaskins doesn’t like doing videos but maybe just one for us married woman, it’s amazing being able to stay married for 17 years. And I know she has gained amazing wisdom over the years. Thank you for considering the marriage videos. Ive been married 3 years and things were awful in the beginning. Now thing’s are better then I could have ever dreamed of, GOD has definitely been walking with us so I just thought I would ask you for your advice. On things wife’s could do, on things husbands could secretly want. I am a stay at home wife so I love to always grow and take all the advice I can get to better our marriage. I would love to keep my husband happy and happier. Thank you so much for all your consideration.
How do you as a college student get over a guy who was good and consistent then he ghosts you and talks to another woman. How do I pray about that and deal with college men.
The guy I’m with keep speaking in 3rd party when he talking to me like I want to spend time with my woman or I want my woman to cook dinner I’m telling him hey I don’t like when you speak 3rd party it leaves doubts in my mind. It is on going thing. He say you know I’m talking about you. He say sometimes I want you to say I am your woman 🤦🏽♀️
I never cared about toilets ilseat but I used to argue bout dishes overnight now I leave dishes in sink sometimes I’m older n wiser long as not big issues like cheating cursing and belittling Leing not a provider or leader helper I’m ok and pick up after himself sometime and don’t treat me like a maid and respect and help my children as well we good
Good afternoon, 😊 YT Son Tony. Thank you for enlightening us about how to deal with forgiveness through grace when dealing with the man in our life. Yes, this takes strength and understanding. Many times, we have to be grown and realize that we are not perfect. Thank you again, Tony for helping us with our common sense mind.
Idk now Tony, I think asking him to stop dropping his dirty draws on the floor IS something addressable and changeable. If he can’t at least learn to pick up after himself because it drives her nutts, the issue may be disregard for her feelings and sanity….. which isn’t exactly nothing. Not losing your ish after the 25th time asking is a tad bit understandable 😂😂
===> For the grace of G0d has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say “No” to ung0dliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, (Titus 2:11-12) ===> For certain individuals whose condemnation was written about long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are ung0dly people, who pervert the grace of our G0d into a license for immorality... - Jude 1:4
"A Learning Disability , And He Is Special Needs" Took Me Out 😂
Me too 😂😂😂
It's the truth though😂😂😂
😂
@@DivineGuidanceMarshae listen I chocked on my food 😭😂😂
Sammmeee 😂😂😂🫶🏾
A man does not respect a talker, a man respects a doer...
Luv this video message...Amen
Yess
Have an exit plan and your own money at all times.
🎯💯💯💯 FACTS‼️
Whoever asked this question, thank you! I struggle with this!
This was an excellent question!
When you're unequally yoke.. what do you expect? . God, don't bless no mess.. GO before God and wait on the Lord
Exactly
WOWWWW mister Gaskins! You really read our comments and made a video accordingly! Thank you very much!!! God bless you!
He really does! I’m so grateful to be apart of this channel. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It ain't a Tony Gaskins video until I hear "Stay Out The Comment Section". 😂😂
😂😂😂 I’m rolling!!!
His “Shut up!” keeps me rolling😂😂😂
Not “woman with the issue of blood” 🤣🤣🤣 “Y’all go through to much already. God already prepared you to have strength to walk away from a grown boy” 💯‼️💎
Yes…. I will leave u overnight ✌️
Whew… I cried just realizing how much of a clown I’ve been…. It’s such a hard pill to swallow when you realize you’re the reason why certain treatment happens in your relationships
“I came over here involuntarily keep ya head up sista” 😂😂
After watching this, this made me realized that i did in fact show my ex husband grace. It was never the same thing but it was always something disrespectful. I literally felt like i was training a child. I left for a deal breaker after 3 years which is short to others but long for me. 😅
Accident, Choice, Habit…That’s a word Tony! 🙏🏽
“Go on bout your business”😂😂 On a serious note this is exactly right Tony, respect is a 2 way street.
Wow this video came right on time. I left my husband 8 months ago while he was at work. We hadn’t seen each other until Saturday. He’s eating humble pie now and saying he takes full responsibility for everything. Basically saying all the things he should’ve said before I left. He said, I didn’t think you would leave.” I immediately thought of a video where Tony Gaskins said men respect doers and not talkers.
Now I’m praying and asking God to reveal to me if he’s sincere, should I give it another try or stay free.
Tony your video came right on time. Thank you
Forgot to mention, we’ve been separated before for a year for the same reasons. So this is strike #2
Good for you for being strong and leaving the place where you’re disrespected
Promise you saved my marriage with these concepts. Thank you, Tony.
Alot of women have been told that theyre supposed to stay and keep the relationship together( especially in marriage ) because of how people will percieve them. Alot of men go into relationships with the same mindset kmowing that women arent " supposed" to leave so they act up. Ive heard men tell their wives the same thing and then they do the worst.
I havnt heard or seen that being told...
@@KDStyle1 it's true, especially in churches.
Yes, I’ve been told that, but the devil 👿 is a lie….. act a fool n u will get left ✌️ 🏃♀️ 😂
@@mzyotruthnlove8263Yes…. that’s the problem, I left him n that church ✌️
@@mzyotruthnlove8263 ohhh ok...yes in the church n even Jehovah witnesses too. I forgot...
VIDEO TOPIC: Dating a man with kids.
Don’t do it!
DONT
@@tarahbruno3793came to say the same thing 😂
@@DivineGuidanceMarshae😂 0out of 10 do not recommend!
@@tarahbruno3793 lolll yess but let's hear his take and wisdom, the caveats and nuances. He's on a roll and I have not seen him talk on this in a while. Especially as we're on the topic of grace.
31:44 I honestly have no clue how people don’t know that these videos are gold 😂😂😂😂
Your long videos are the best. I've been listening to you for almost 4 years, now, I have taken your life coaching certification course and I have also had a life coach from your Website (Yvette) she was an absolute jewel in my life and helped me so much. All glory to God. These videos have helped me through my divorce healing after dealing with a chronic cheater. All praise to God. I thank him for you and your beautiful wife and family and your obedience and truth teaching to all of the rest of these beautiful women who watch your teachings.
I am happy you are getting the healing you need. ❤
Younger women have an extreme amount of tolerance, I did as well. As we get older, especially hitting that menopause..we aint got no tolerance anymore. That is why they like them younger women..😉
@@mstenacious274Tolerating BS until you're menopausal was much too long. It has ALWAYS BEEN BS that he was dishing out. Please know your worth.
Older women should not be waiting until they are menopausal to become intolerant of disrespectful or non-committing men. Our standards and what we are willing to shut down from men is driven by how we value ourselves. I broke off a whole engagement at age 23 because I had value and self-worth and was tired of games. Why would I put up with that just to waste my young years? Women have to be able to shut down that behavior early on at the first couple of instance like Tony was saying. I’m 26 now, engaged again but this time to a man of character and respect loving him from a healed place. I don’t care how young I am, nobody has time to deal with certain mess and we have to shut down certain things. We should not have to go through multiple men, giving so many chances to no-good ones, and making the same mistakes, growing super old just to discover our value and self-worth.
@@ysmithriley💯💯
@@hannah.4241 I didn't say I tolerated until menopause. I was done in my mid 30s. I said especially when we hit menopause!
Exactly olde n wiser
Wassup Mr. Gaskins! I had a question about the difference between leading a woman vs telling her what to do?
You are exactly right…I’ve been preaching this to my friends for months.
Been wanting to understand this for a long time. Think it applies across the board. Not just with men. Many thanks❤
"A man can pee on your forehead and tell you it's raining" 🤣🤣🤣
@@fionajensen2952 😂🤦🏾♀️ Lord no!!!
I would love to hear you speak on being just a believer in the word vs actually living as his disciple
Tony, I realize you know there is a pleather of valuable information in your videos, as do I. I’m saying this to Anyone who says your videos are to long. Those people aren’t getting the message. Patience is a virtue, and God gave us the ability to hear not just with our ears, but also with our patience. 🙏🏻 Beyond the topic, you provide real value in your content, and all the information in the videos are ingredients of the topic, & beyond. I listen all the way through every video you post, and listen to them multiple times ❤ thank you for your blessings- Alisa 🙏🏻
This is why love you ❤ a man's man who's also smart! The masculinity of it all
Still Preaching & Teaching, still Funny!! Thanks Tony!
These Videos has been priceless thank you Bro Tony they are much needed
This message in this video is right on time!! So very much appreciated 🙏🙌🙏
Lmaooo the ending so true we go through too much to put up with anything extra!! Great way to put it women put their strength into staying and that’s just not how it should be.
Such a great teacher!! I salute the divinity in you 😇
Thank you for answering this question as a man and a man who is following GOD'S principles.
Yea im definitely glad you answered this long winded. And im super glad you addressed the pregnancy/kid issue.
Tonyyyyyy😂😂😂😂😂😂river nile😂😂😂😂. You mentioned all my health scares🫨. I’ve toughened up n have boundaries now. Thank you Tony❤️❤️
Thanks for the video Tony. Have a Marvelous Monday! Blessings to you Sherri and the boys.🙏🏽💓💓🙏🏽
lol this was great and funny. But on a serious note, practical steps everyone need to take seriously
10:46 am PST. God bless you Tony. You have opened my eyes to a lot of important things. Thank you for showing how good life is when walking with God.
A habit....that part so true sir...
Listen this is ON TIME!
Thank you for these videos Tony I’m single and currently working on my three b’s
Oh my goodness I haven’t even watched it yet and I’m commenting because this is one of my biggest concerns. Thank you.
This is a good one, Tony! 🙏🏽
This is definitely love school ❤💯💯💯💯💯 Thank you Mr. Gaskins!
This is beautiful advice much appreciated
Always at the right time. Thanks Tony!
This is a good one!!
I truly enjoy these topics ❤ thank you.
Powerful ❤ we appreciate YOU!
Great advice!
Thank you!!
THANK YOU ❤❤❤❤❤THiS!
Saving to watch later ❤
THANK YOU TONY ❤❤❤
So much we can go through as a women, to have a relationship( especially when Tony mention you can get tried after having kids, kid number 3 wow!) God help us all.
Mr.Gaskins,
Can you make a video for people who want to leave when a deal breaker occurs the first time?
Like cheating or abuse.
We don’t want to give a second chance.
I am not talking about petty stuff.
Especially, if we are not cheating in anyway or abusing our partner in any way.
A dealbreaker is a deal-breaker as in the contract is null and void.
Could you make a video for women who have that perspective ?
In this Video He said say upfront what your deal breakers are. Have that conversation at the beginning of the conversation of being exclusive. And then when he happens, leave. So you won't have to say again bc you've already had the conversation before anything happened
@@MsChristianr thank you for taking the time to type this out. May God Bless You Abundantly 💗🥹
Amazing video thank you 🙏🏾 be blessed
Video topic: How we can binge watch all of Tony Gaskins videos and get most of our answers from there.
Right on time TG! 👏🏾 thank you for another great one
First!! Love tony !
Great advice Tony
Appreciate it.
Tony can you do a video on what being equally yoked in a relationship means
Great topic Tony
This was a good lesson! Thanks!
Tell the truth Tony. Haven't given birth but had all the others. Fibroids was enough now dealing with my Thyroid issues. 😂😂😂
great question. thank you
Awesome message TG 🙏🏾
Speak it Tony on women’s issues and fibroids! You putting EXTRA perspective on it with that. Lol, but seriously. 😂
As 1 who has Been. Through. Thyroid! We are stronger than we know, Ladies!
Why do men court u, just to turn around and say “I don’t want a relationship right now? I feel they shouldn’t even approach anyone if they are not set in life.
💯‼️💯 great question!!!!
Video topic idea: How to handle a lying spouse who apologizes and continues to lie about “minor” things that aren’t enough to end the relationship/break up a family.
This is tough one. Dealing with a pathological liar is not for the weak especially when the person lies for minor things. I pray your strength. I am dealing with someone like this right now and it’s a clear indication that I need to go no further with this relationship.
If you're going to stay with him, you have to know that you can't trust him. So build a separate and honest life for yourself. Hold him accountable.
I've been married for 18 years. He decided to leave and he came back in 2 days
Thank you for this on time message🙏
Great topic
He said “I’m not a blow up doll “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Clickin on Tony Gaskin's is always a bit traumatising because he spits cold facts 😂😂😂
Thanks Tony!
Video Topic: Your opinion on the “Pop the Balloon” RUclips dating show
he hasn't spoken on this specifically, but given his open disdain for podcast bros, i imagine he finds the mere idea of it childish as hell.
QUESTION: Prenups!
Tony can you make a video on your thoughts about people “speed dating” as like how these people have these women standing in line and these men are “smash or passing them”.
FYI ....... increasing the speed in the settings helps the video go faster. 1.5 is comfortable for me and digestible.
Me too - up to 2x the speed
When you said Fibroids I almost fell out lol 😂 what do you know about that lol 😂 I had fibroid surgery in 2015 and it’s definitely no joke ✊
How do you know when it’s time to go, in marriage? So - after you’ve done all the “things” (therapy, mediation, separate corners, etc.) and nothing is changing.
Question:
You spoke about men with special needs, can you discuss relationships with an autistic partner?
Do you think Mrs.gaskins and your self would mind doing a marriage video. On things that help you to keep things new and fresh and things she does as a wife to honor you like GOD like it says in the Bible. I would love to get some marriage advice from you. Married couples need a lot of help as well. I’ve been watching you the past 4 years and I really appreciate you allowing GOD to use you in the best way. A year after watching you say keep your legs closed and then I was married. I know Mrs.gaskins doesn’t like doing videos but maybe just one for us married woman, it’s amazing being able to stay married for 17 years. And I know she has gained amazing wisdom over the years. Thank you for considering the marriage videos. Ive been married 3 years and things were awful in the beginning. Now thing’s are better then I could have ever dreamed of, GOD has definitely been walking with us so I just thought I would ask you for your advice. On things wife’s could do, on things husbands could secretly want. I am a stay at home wife so I love to always grow and take all the advice I can get to better our marriage. I would love to keep my husband happy and happier. Thank you so much for all your consideration.
I would love this! ❤
Yes I love this 💕
How do you as a college student get over a guy who was good and consistent then he ghosts you and talks to another woman. How do I pray about that and deal with college men.
28:00 Tony completely clowned 😂😅😂😭 50 part series...all the words your therapist gave you...🤣😂🤣❤️🏆.... i liked this long winded version lol
The guy I’m with keep speaking in 3rd party when he talking to me like I want to spend time with my woman or I want my woman to cook dinner I’m telling him hey I don’t like when you speak 3rd party it leaves doubts in my mind. It is on going thing. He say you know I’m talking about you. He say sometimes I want you to say I am your woman 🤦🏽♀️
Question: How do you know that you are ready to start dating?
🤞🏾👏🏾
Thanks, Tony great information that women needs to know!
I never cared about toilets ilseat but I used to argue bout dishes overnight now I leave dishes in sink sometimes I’m older n wiser long as not big issues like cheating cursing and belittling Leing not a provider or leader helper I’m ok and pick up after himself sometime and don’t treat me like a maid and respect and help my children as well we good
Good afternoon, 😊 YT Son Tony. Thank you for enlightening us about how to deal with forgiveness through grace when dealing with the man in our life. Yes, this takes strength and understanding. Many times, we have to be grown and realize that we are not perfect. Thank you again, Tony for helping us with our common sense mind.
"Pee on yo forehead" 😅😅😅😅
VIDEO TOPIC: How to gain a man’s respect back?
💯💯💯🤍🤍🤍🤍Thankyou Mr. Gaskins. SO TRUE.🙏🙏🙏😅😃😄😍🥰☺☺
Does not giving more than 2 chances to a man applies if the man has given you over 3 chances?
Idk now Tony, I think asking him to stop dropping his dirty draws on the floor IS something addressable and changeable. If he can’t at least learn to pick up after himself because it drives her nutts, the issue may be disregard for her feelings and sanity….. which isn’t exactly nothing. Not losing your ish after the 25th time asking is a tad bit understandable 😂😂
===> For the grace of G0d has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say “No” to ung0dliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, (Titus 2:11-12)
===> For certain individuals whose condemnation was written about long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are ung0dly people, who pervert the grace of our G0d into a license for immorality... - Jude 1:4
Sounds like too much work to me. I will stay single..Im good..😉