Fat Acceptance is Freaking Out AGAIN
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- Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
- WHAT BIG BACK BEHAVIOR DO YOU DISPLAY?
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This is the problem with fat acceptance. EVERYONE IS SO ANGRY AT EVERYTHING ALL OF THE TIME! It's hard to be empathetic bc of this.
yeah! I don’t care WHAT they are about if belonging to the group means you have to be angry and sad all the time
Sjws were always like this
Its because all of them found a group in which to have a victim complex, and everyone who says otherwise is "an enemy", when being fat has 99% to do with your habits, and the other 1% are people who really have some hormonal, genetic issues, but there is no genetic issue that makes you fat, you are the one who eats! You are the one who choses what to eat, when and how much of it.
These people hate that reminder, that at the end of the day, it is their responsability if they want to change and no one else can do it for them.
"I don't like fat people because they're annoying" just say that, it's less words 😂
And the funny thing is they claim to be confident and positive. Well, something a confident person does is make fun of themselves,
If we can't laugh at ourselves, life is going to be very long!!!
Long, bitter and no damn fun!
I gots the hypertension. So while I laugh, my back is gettin' smaller.
My mom always says "Blessed are those who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused." Words to live by!
My dad always said don't take life so hard 😂🤣
With HAES types, not that long at all.
I love the hypocrisy. They say “anytime a fat person does this or that… blah blah blah” while also being offended by anything a thin person does ever
A skinny person can make fun of themselves and no one bats an eye. But a fat person makes fun of themselves and they lose their minds!
That big back song had Wesley Willis vibes- Rock over TikTok, Rock on RUclips.
Me and my sister lived 45 minutes away from Chipotle. We were craving it so we decided to take a little drive. Well, we stopped to get snacks at the gas station first. Then 15 minutes later we stopped at McDonald's then 15 minutes after that we stopped at Arby's. When we got to Chipotle we were so stuffed but we got our food and ate it at home. We were so disgusted 😂 10 years later we still laugh. Like wtf...was that even necessary. That was our big back activity 😂😂
LMFAOO you guys sound iconic
Be for real. Weed had to be involved.
This is such a perfect example of a great time! I would do this for sure. Lol
Haha oh I love this 🤣👌🏼
Did you miss the part about driving@@_goblin-_-mode_
This is actually the crux of the entire FA movement: EVERYTHING. IS. PERSONAL. Someone "feels fat"? "Fat isn't an emotion, you can't FEEL something that I AM!" Someone wants to lose weight or avoid gaining weight? "Good to know your worst fear is LOOKING LIKE ME!" Someone is talking about dieting or exercise? "You're TRIGGERING ME with your toxic diet culture talk!" Someone posts before and after pictures? "You're saying YOU WERE BAD in your before picture and since I look like that now, you're saying I AM BAD!"
There's absolutely no moment of stepping back and acknowledging the possibility that not everything is about them. The way I feel about my own body is NOT automatically going to extrapolate to how I feel about yours. For example, I have very wavy/fluffy hair, and at certain lengths I absolutely hate what it does. If someone else had that kind of hair, I wouldn't give it a second thought, because I hate it ON ME! I have nothing against wavy/fluffy hair in general, I just don't like MINE. Most people have no issue with that, but the second it's about body weight, suddenly every move has to be analyzed for its wider implications in society at large. I can't make a single comment about my body or my weight loss or flabby belly/loose underarm skin without it being an attack on someone else. It's frustrating as hell.
...Apparently I'm more annoyed by this than I realized lol I didn't intend this to turn into such a rant.
Pure narcissism is what it is
I feel you. Sometimes wild words need speaking. 🤓
It's like the 'single person activities' thing. Like standing over the sink eating crackers and jelly for dinner! We all have our little silly, weird things.
How did you get access to the house cameras and why are you watching me eat dinner?!? 🙂
We are all Carrie Bradshaw. 🤣
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Skinny people doing big back activities is more like a married person making a tiktok about their single person activity like huh.... you're literally married
Sure but are all of the pillows necessary?
"Big Back Big Back...
When I was super fat I doordashed 4 times a week.
And no it wasn't healthy~
it was all covered in cheese~
Big Back Big Back" 🎵🎶
I thought you were going to say 4 times a day. I’ve Grubhubbed 5 times in a week
Gotta pump up those numbers bro.
Ordering food 4 times a week isn’t insane lol a lot of people do that
@@olive872No, that's insane amount of fast food and super expensive. Most people can't do that.
@@katodd2925not everything on doordash is fast food
If the first girl really thinks that some people are just built bigger and their weight has nothing to do with their lifestyle and eating habits, she's delusional and not holding herself accountable for her actions. Which is definitely a mindset that will not serve her well.
You basically just described the entire fat acceptance community
Not to mention “big back” is aave and has been slang for someone who just eats a lot for decades
This is exactly what I was about to say. Anyone can have a "big back"😂...i always called my skinny friends who eat a lot "fat" or "greedy"
But they always claim they want to raise black voices 🤣😂🤣 You did and our community jokes about everything 🤣😂😂
@Jellybane411 literally. We don't take anything too seriously. Especially not eating. Culturally, being "thick" is a good thing so eating isn't frowned upon
@@briolivia exactly 🤣😂🤣 I was called skinny mini most of my life and I was a normal size 😂😂🤣 Food is a big part of our culture so we always have a story around us being greedy with it and then having the realization now do I need this 4th piece of fried chicken 🤣😂🤣
Great video, thanks for the shout out I’m subbed!
Well I’m still watching, but still 😂💪🏽💪🏽 this weight loss journey is no joke, but had to make light of it somehow
That song is gonna be stuck in my head all day :P
You da best! 🤗
@@saramoffatt5987has been stuck in mine for a while now. I remember rushing to campus in the morning and just grabbing a cupcake on my way out, no napkin; just cupcake. I put it on the front zipper of my bag and when I arrived I pulled it out and began eating until I heard "big back, big back!"💃🏿 in my head and put the remaining half back in my bag for later use🤣
@@A_T_E_R_R_Y Amazing 😂
Check your bingo cards, everyone.
Someone used an "It's [current year]" argument.🙄
Every year I hope we’ve gotten rid of that but every year I’m disappointed 😂
FAs seem to be completely joyless.
I don’t know why but when you say big back activities I can’t stop laughing 🤣 it’s the way you say it so professionally.
In all seriousness, it’s just a joke. I do think it’s weird when people stuff pillows in their clothes but to think people are POS who do this trend is reaching.
he's a proper fella 🤣
I’m sitting in my car … with my big back…about to do a big back activity… and watching this video… now second guessing my actions and putting the breadsticks down … thank you. You’ve helped me for today. Impact made … at least today, this moment … this breadstick
I'm 150 lbs. down from my highest weight (I lost 175 lbs. initially), and trying to lose more weight now. My current big back tendency is trying the "latest" promotional item from a restaurant on my way home from the gym! I know I shouldn't go to Crumbl after I just worked my ass off at the gym, but here I go anyway 😅😅😅
what a nice gym reward!
@@Amyjwashere ahahaha truth
As someone with a literal big back (I have a 44 bra size because I just have a large barrel torso) I find this meme hilarious. Not everything has to be taken so literally.
Girl, same. I’m a 48 (down from 50). It’s not that serious.
I have a big back from the same barrel chest. Is funny!
I too have a barrel chest and also kyphosis so it looks like I have a big back as well
They claim to want to project this confidence image. Well, the first thing a confident person does is take a joke and makes fun of themselves
I remember when planning to go pick up food I picked up a meal at KFC, but I also wanted ice cream so I would swing by McDonalds for a McFlurry and then get curly fries and jalapeno sliders at Arby's. That would be one meal, lol. That was my big back activity.
😂😂😂😂
curly fries from arbyssss 🤤🤤🤤
"Big Back" activities and people embracing them is the literal definition of FA. A skinny person saying they have a "big back" is like them saying, "Being thin doesn't make you healthy."..and then the thin person saying I eat "intuitively" so much I don't fear weight gain.
They just want to be outraged by something trendy for attention, knowing "big back" is an aave colloquial term for binge eating, so they'll get stitches. They're exhausting 🙄
Thanks for mentioning it's an aave term. They always want to claim authority on everything. 🙄
Social media has made people really entitled, thinking everything should be about them and it just doesn't work like that! Ah, people don't get humor, that's also why comedy is also falling off, because you don't know who's gonna be offended by any joke, even when it's about yourself😐.
Social media has personalised algorythims these days, and i think thats the number 1 contributor to this "entitled" and narcissitic way of flooding social media. And they are young and their expectations get unreal, they get fed a personalized circle of conffirmation bias again and again. We all have this, but its clear what social media is contributing to. People need to learn to tolerate frustration. Instead of trying to control how things make them feel, they are trying to control all the things surrounding them that make them feel bad.
As someone who is on the thinner side, seeing someone joke or make light of their "big back" habits tends to increase my overall empathy for them. I think levity reduces the stigma more than it increases it. But it's hard to feel empathy for someone who says they want another person to be treated like shit because they don't like how that person deals with their own issues.
Yes! No one hates fat people solely for ‘existing’, as they claim. They hate angry, gaslighting, humorless people with no self-awareness who might also happen to be fat
Why do I LOL every time John says, "big back"? 🤣😂
Every time some one says "I don't care, post whatever you want," they're about to spend 15 minutes demonstrating that they care A LOT.
I'm a fat person and I love the big back stuff. I love knowing that everyone, big and small, has a big back activity lol
Man I used to get bullied for back fat rolls that I have even at my thinnest (Ive learned I need to work on muscle growth and pulling exercises and its a new goal of mine). I hadnt heard of this trend, but seeing the video here, it's hilarious. Its about owning a part of yourself and owning your own behavior and making light of it without bullying others or yourself. Its funny!
Same my rolls were what caused me to gain all my wright back. I got to goal and still had them. I know better now I'm hoing to add more musle toning and building into my workouts. 20from goal.
These people need to chill - its a comedy bit, not directed at anyone personally
Tell me you're insecure without telling me you're insecure. People need to please stop projecting on other people, especially if they're going to be mean about it.
People really need to learn to laugh at themselves again
Joking about yourself is something that keeps your perspective and keeps you humble
honestly, all I see is just bunch of unhappy people bashing on other people who loves themselves enough to joke about themselves
I knew this was coming. From the first "big back" joke (with the Maxwell, Women's work song playing in the background) I saw. I was like "eventually someone will be offended"
Agree with you totally! As a former addict I can laugh or make jokes abut addict behaviour.
I so despise this modern ambition of trying to make anything and everything a triggering traumatic event.
And of course this intersectional stupidity arguments is delivered with the claw hand gesture.
The joke could perhaps be a bit sad if the person is kind of distancing themselves from a frequent bingeeating disorder, but being traumatic and "need to go"!?!?
Yes exactly! Former addict here too and I’m forever making jokes at my own expense lol. Better than being ashamed of it 🤷🏼♀️
@@Alicia-Rene Agree, aside of that I think feelings of shame (or other "bad" feelings) is not bad in itself but rather how we deal with it in evaluation of the feeling and action about it. A lot of people have had their motivation to positive change by a severe moment of shame. I think of it as part of the inner alarm system of sorts, but of course it can be out of tune sometimes.
@@johannas.l.brushane2518 oh of course, I agree. Internalized shame that motivates change is valuable and necessary. Shame that stops you from moving forward and growing from your mistakes or that causes you to hide from your past, not so much.
My best big back moment: Perfect drive thru combo of Cheesy-Gs and crunchy tacos from Taco Bell, Burgers from Carl's Jr, and of coarse those McDonald fries.
Big BACKlash 🤣🤣🤣
I was always able to make fun of myself. I don’t get why people are so extremely sensitive and are such victims of everything these days. Social media has ruined so much of society.
Bc that self pity is a hell of a drug.
@@Poopiepies damn right. I can’t stand the pity of anyone. It’s embarrassing to me.
Most people are not like this, it's just these personality types are also the types to push themselves to the forefront of movements/make everything about them.
@@xtinkerbellax3 thats because theres a huge percentage of people have comorbid BPD and EDs(around 1 in 4 with any ED will also have BPD) The projecting that everything said about a bigger person is about them is textbook BPD delusions.
I see what you did with the thumbnail 😂🤣
If the trend is about things that some larger people actively DO - that is not.. 'they can't help it.' It's... quite literally the opposite.
I love the branch of body positivity that tells me I can’t feel the way I want about my body. Makes me all tingly.
This is interesting to me because I’ve been mainly seeing larger people do this trend. I don’t have TikTok tho only instagram and RUclips and the people I follow are on a weight loss journey or successfully lost weight so that may be why. I can see how it can be perceived as mockery if the person is thin and hasn’t shown in the past their struggle with weight loss but that’s reading too much into it. I don’t think it’s that deep. I thought it was super funny whenever someone said “big back activities” or “unbig my back”.
I feel some “movements” or groups make everything negative. We are human and we need balance. So when are we allowed to laugh??? At my heaviest I could laugh at things sometimes, that’s normal and healthy!
This is what happens when people get so woke that they cant laugh or enjoy silly things.
It's nice to be sensitive to others' needs and potential issues. It's not so nice to get so offended because somebody can laugh at themselves.
He got a big back. That's just the truth.
@@BronzeDragon133 EXACTLY!!!! Like, you can be a sensitive, empathetic, compassionate person and still enjoy comedy. It's okay to understand that things are just jokes, and not to take them too seriously or dissect them to the point of offense. Sometimes something is just funny, and its doesn't make you a bad person for laughing or enjoying the humor. I think sometimes people in fat acceptance are just right fighters who want to put other people down so that they feel better. A lot of the behavior I have noticed from this community represents extreme insecurity and righteousness.
@@Adkale1176 Somebody needs to write a song about high blood pressure. Mine was just 150/95.
I am on a seriously restricted diet and major meds, but it'd still be funny.
@BronzeDragon133 ayyye high blood pressure gang. I was hospitalized for 4 days because mine was so high that my organs were failing. Never met someone else with blood pressure issues similar to mine, so thank you for sharing. I hope you get well soon!
It must feel very devastating to believe that you have no power over your weight, or have no power to enjoy life while losing excess body fat
These people just want to be a victim. God forbid we laugh at ourselves once in a while. I’m 333 currently trying to lose weight (lost 150 but gained it all back sad) and this is funny to me. Yeah if there was hate behind it that’s one thing but damn you gotta learn to just laugh these things off.
My big back activity is eating Pb and Nutella straight out the jar
That's just a tasty snack 😢
It must be exhausting always being angry at the world 24/7
The issue I have with the “big back” trend is that students at the school I work at (middle school) are adding that term to their bullying vocab
People are upset because they are doing the stuff and they feel ashamed.
John, your guns are huge!
If they are so happy being fat then why are they bothered by this type of thing?. There is so much in this movement that makes no sense at all, which is why when they are singing about loving their rolls I know it is all bullshit. I hated being overweight and was over sensitive to anything which reminded me of it, the solution was to work hard at changing myself until I genuinely felt happy with my body (well as happy as any of us ever are!).
Missed hashtag opportunity.
#BigBacktivities
Studies are saying illiteracy is on the rise (which is scary; in 2022, 54% of American adults had a literacy rate below sixth grade, and now it’s getting worse) and this is proof. A huge part of literacy is being able to read a piece of text (or hear it) and be able to extrapolate the intended audience without being explicitly told so. But people en masse cannot seem to do this - I see it all the time online. People tell on themselves without realizing it. The first girl obviously cannot understand an intended audience and reads things as self-referential. Talk about screaming insecurity without saying it. This is an ego and illiteracy issue.
I was fat, lost a lot of weight, then got fat again and got skinny again, now fat again... currently working on it...again...fcking red wine...anyway this whole fat acceptance thing is ridiculous, I'm pretty much an expert by now and I can say being overweight is a mental health issue.
it’s all just pure projection…these people are insecure and miserable with themselves deep inside…so instead of understanding it’s a “joke”, they take it personally and project their insecurities onto others. someone who is truly comfortable with themselves, wouldn’t react this way
Hmmm huh what?
Can people not realise that life is too short and there are lots of really horrible things going on like real people being really bullied - and the worst thing on Tiktok??? Hmmm maybe get out more!
I am extremely open about my past and current issues surrounding food addiction/binge eating/etc because I think it’s SO IMPORTANT to let people know that they are absolutely not alone when it comes to these things. Being able to talk about the things that you’ve been hiding is a big part of healing, in my unprofessional opinion.
Lmao the big back song 😂
My big back behavior was getting caught multiple times by my roommates in college, making and eating a whole box of mac n cheese at 2-4 in the morning 😂 I gained so much weight during that time. Since then I got diagnosed for PCOS+BED and am in treatment, down about 50 lbs! I still have a big back and some bad habits though 😂
Currently trying to lose weight and my big back activity was eating a whole pizza or ordering Door Dash from several places and then eating all of the stuff that I ordered 😅
Great video btw! I’ve cut out pizza and watching this is a great way to distract me from the withdrawals 👍🏻
Big back cheat days baby!
I thought the thumbnail said somwthing of this big back trens thats going on. If so. Clever, very funny.
Oh wow I commented while the ad was still running before the video even started 😂😂
its the hypocrisy for me. love when the haters use camera angles to make themselves look thinner. if you dont like something you see on YT then click off or make a formal complaint to YT. down vote the content. your hate doesnt dictate posting a hate filled response. i'd say post your complaint in comments but many creators just dont read comments. the truth is these haters just want to hate for the sake of hate or out of self-loathing.
tiktok isnt a serious platform. thats not what its for. its for commercial advertising and product selling. if you want serious content tiktok isnt it.
I was doing stretches not paying attention and then I heard the Dora music and started cracking up 😂
I’m not going to accept my fat!
OMG why are they so damn serious?
I’m a size 6, I tell my husband every day “ baby it’s big back all summer long” as I eat out everyday even though my meal prep is in the fridge 😂😂
TRIGGERED tok back at it again 🙄🙄🙄
With the amount of pull-ups I’ve done in the past year, I would love if someone told me I have a big back
when my husband and i were dating, we ate CONSTANTLY. We would hit up the wing stop 5 minutes from us, and get some ice cream for later, and chips and bundt cakes😂 it was very big back of us. Its an action, not an appearance. Every now and then we still have our moments where we get a little greedy lol!!
As a recovering binge eater. I feel that trend could be more therapeutic. Many people with BED, are so ashamed and hide what they do. I found embracing when it happens and pushing the shame away helps lessening the episode and makes it easier to move forward.
I feel if someone gets that angry over a joke style meme showing how ridiculous binging can seem just probably feel called out on their own behaviors. I think it also helps to show that not just overweight people do these types of things.
When she said.....there is nothing they can do about it(kids) That, is a looser mentality. I am in my late 60s I am a sugar addict and have been fighting that battle for years. It is all on me, no one else. Blaming others for your misery and the lack of humor towards yourself its very sad to see. Specially on a beautiful young woman, angry at the world and her body because she cannot control her food addiction.
Hello John. I'm writing now that it's still early on the comment section! I'm a fan of yours and I deeply respect you, though I do not always agree, obviously... You are great in what you are doing, in fact you are doing RUclips a favor, compared to all these tons of nonsense that people upload in the past 4+ years. Love from Greece
LOL I AM a big back and I think all these videos are funny as hell because they are TRUE! It's big back activities. I love saying "time to unbig this back" when I walk in the gym now hahaha
The problem is these fat acceptance folks DO feel personally attacked bc they are BIG BACKS themselves lol
Me just sitting here, having no idea what’s going on on tik tok… 🤷🏼♀️
I completely understand feeling insecure about gaining weight in a specific area and not wanting to make light of that. I get the joke, and not everyone feels insecure about weight gain. Weight gain and weight loss are just a part of life, especially in this society. Temptation is everywhere and its fun to eat good food...but that shit makes your back get big. 😂
I agree with her that we should be careful who we make these jokes around, you dont know what a person might be going through or what a kid is going to remember.
Out of all the terrible things on the Internet in the history of the Internet, if that's the WORST thing on here, your standards are questionable.
It's like dying your hair blue then getting pissed at the blue hair jokes or getting plastic surgery then being pissed at plastic surgery jokes. You did it to yourself and here's the good news: it's 100% within you power to change.
I was painfully thin until my late 30’s. It was just my build. Big people said the most vicious things to me. It was awful.
My big back story is driving to McDonald’s at 2AM in a depressive stupor, buying 40 nuggets and a large fry then eating all of it on my drive back home
I had a big back. I carried a lot of my fat on my back. I also used to eat a lot of dessert so that was my big back activity.
I used to pour chocolate chips into a jar of peanut butter and eat it with a spoon- yum!
I used to do this and add marshmallows😭 I probably still would
If you take everything on social media personally, you need to get off the internet and into a therapists office
Hilariously catchy tune 😂I used to get fast food and then eat a pound of candy lol. Big back! Big back! 🎵🎶🎵🎶
She said that's how ppl are built...
🛑
I actually got down to under 200lb but then I had a health scare (lupus). Lupus is an auto immune disease that can attack organs and joints. I was put on steroids to help with a speedy recovery and reduce pain to a minimum. But, the side effects is water weight gain. It hard to lose the weight when you're on Prednisone. But I still exercise. And I getting back in to resistance training and cycling. Hopefully, I can sweat out.
I think the problem is that "big back" doesn't mean the same as "fat woman".
It's to describe a particular kind of woman who isn't just overweight but also desperate for love to the point of looking the other way about being abused by a partner.
It's one of those turns of phrase that really just needs to go away.
People don't get riled up when a thin person says "im such a fat kid i need my own popcorn because i don't want to share" But "big back" describes women who are traumatized and have no self worth and probably also suffer from an eating disorder or food addiction.
It's not really funny no matter who you are
I go get some Moes Queso and whatever fast food fries im wanting.
I call my channel Diary of a Recovering Fatty! So, I chose something that perfectly summed up what my channel is about (Not just weight loss, but my life and interests.), and having something that's going to catch people's attention. I know some people don't like the word, fatty... But, I thought I'd help take it back. Show that yes, it's a descriptor, but it's not an end all and be all thing. It's really not. I've decided to laugh at where I am in my life, knowing I'm improving myself.
If we can find humor in our imperfections, people will be less successful in hurting us. It's like I said in a video once to potential trolls: There's nothing you can say that I probably haven't said worse to myself. I'm just that level of honest.
So, live your life, and have fun with it along the way. It's the only life we're going to have folks! No regerts! (≧▽≦)
🤔 It's all about introspection. Doing what you think is good for YOU. The problem today is that too many people try to impose their mindset and perspective on others. It's ok to share the opinion, but we should let others absorb all of that info and choose their own path. They need to feel ok with their choices. Unfortunately most of "influencers" have the tendency to label things as "good" or "bad" from the get-go.
It reminds me of parents admitting we eat cold leftover Kraft mac and chz over the sink. Maybe the joke has to come from someone inside the group? It might hurt my feelings to hear people who hate parents talking about the weird stuff we do. It takes trust to let an outsider tease you.
John I would like to point out that when it comes to weight loss being a man is totally different than being a woman its so much harder to loss weight as a women it is not impossible but its really hard because of hormones and stuff
Literally.. as "big back" I don't want anyone thinking I do John's big back activities, I sure as hell dont mooch around fast food chains for free food 💀 PCOS is a STRUGGLE. That's why the joke isn't funny to me, it just reinforces the idea that all fat people are like that.
Fat phobia isn’t real. A phobia is having a fear of something to the point where you actually break down. A good example being the pickle lady that was on Maury. Bad acceptance movement who has picked up on this ridiculous whining about things being fat phobic is ridiculous. And these girls on the video talking about how they’re just built that way. Obese is not a body type. Yes some people are bigger. Some people are skinnier, etc. but being 200 to 300+ pounds overweight it’s not a body type. Fat acceptance is delusional.
Here’s how it goes: a big person starts the trend making fun at themselves and small people who cannot relate continue it, making it offensive and using it as a vehicle for their fat phobic thoughts and feelings. That’s what you’re missing here. There’s nothing wrong with her feeling upset over this.
Yeah, I think he missed a lot here, I'm a fan of O2B but there's a danger in assuming all "fat people sharing their feelings" is toxic fat activism
That 1st woman's dating profile: "He must be 6", rich, and very fit"
If you don't want a big back, stop doing big back activities.
In the social media world, you better learn to turn the channel and get over yourself.
I can understand him opposing the "there is nothing you can do" -attitude. However, in the social media world, nothing is enough. Losing extra weight is possible, but is that enough compared to size 0 instagram influencers? If you are a regular person without great genetics, hours of time and good angles and filters, there really is nothing you can do, because the goalpost is so unrealistic.
If you take anything personal on the internet, maybe it’s time to take a break
That first whiner did herself no favors by how unintelligent she came off while complaining. Even is she'd realized the guy was probably poking fun at himself, she wouldn't want him to even have the right to do that, because it just reminds her of her own refusal to take any sort of self accountability.
Imagine being triggered by somebody else’s self-deprecating humor.
I think we should watch what we say about ourselves when we are with other people. You never know what someone else is going through or doesn't want to be reminded of. I don't think that's the absurd part of this, just that she's equating liking the meme to being a piece of shit and a betrayal to friends.
@@katimcmullen3121 But then we can get to the point where we won't be able to talk at all, because anything can be a trigger or a painful experience for someone. Pregnancy can be a painful reminder for a woman who cannot have children or who has recently had a miscarriage. A wedding can be a trigger for someone who has just broken up or is going through a divorce, etc. And if in the circle of familiar people we know that there is a topic that is better not to be touched at the moment, then what to do in the wider society? Not talking to people at all or just talking about the weather? But even that can be a trigger for someone!
@@hedaheda1609 I think everyone can try to be kinder, softer, gentler, and wiser. We have freedom of speech but that doesn't mean we have to constantly word vomit our opinions at the expense of others. For right now, in this moment, there is no dystopian society where people have to tiptoe around every single trivial little trigger. There is however opportunity to spread positivity and not hate.
That being said I do think everyone is allowed to post what they want on their socials, and if someone doesn't agree then clicking away is the best option versus trying to lecture people or change their minds.
@@katimcmullen3121 That's what it's all about. If something triggers me, offends painful memories or experiences - I avoid it as possible, I click it away instead of demanding that people never talk about it, never mention anything like that, because, well, it's a trigger for me.
This is disturbing 😂😂😂