Fat Activist Calls Ex Fats TOXIC for Losing Weight
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They also hate being fat though. They’re always saying how difficult it is to be fat and how much they struggle. Why is it surprising that people would want to lose weight?
they like to claim there are many benefits to being obese, but the next time you hear them speak they're complaining about how how they can't do this or that, or fit here or there, but they also like to chalk that up to being society's fault for not making their products or services revolved around morbid obesity, and not their problem for being morbidly obese.
According to the extreme left, nature is inherently good. Everything bad connected to obesity is due to human wickedness / culture.
It's basically theodizee all over again.
You don’t have to like being fat to want to be treated like a human being.
I think the thing is that they LOVE being a victim more than they hate being fat, though.
So thats why its never an option to change. Bc in order to change your body and your life you have to give up that victim mentality in a way or another and take accountability for what you can control but are choosing not to.
These people whole personalities are talking on the internet how society hates them, how they are discriminated, how nothing is thought to accommodate them, how people secretly want them to disappear but they keep “resisting” or “dgaf” (yeah, right).
If they admit they have some degree of responsibility for their lives “being tougher than everyone else’s”, than they suddenly loose that card and are faced with the uncomfortable reality that they can indeed do something about it, but are choosing not to. And then the tables turn and they are no longer in the position of power whetr they can critique everything and everyone but can never be criticized back bc they are a “marginalized group”.
@@lalailmthis!! Their extreme need to be victims is so strong that they’d rather go up against the entire commercial flying industry than just eat healthier so they can fit the seats. They know all their requirements are so impossible to reach that it’ll allow them to complain for the rest of their life. If tomorrow all seats in planes, cars, restaurants were transformed to be double the size (and all the other stuff they want), these fat activists would be miserable, because no one would pity them or argue with them, which is what they thrive on. I feel bad for all the chill fat people that this movement claims to speak for
It’s like drunks at the bar getting mad at someone who got sober.
Exactly the same. A lot of my old friends told me I’d gotten “holier than thou” (not to mention being a party pooper) when I got sober. I never said a word about quitting. Never told them they should. Just changed my usual order from jack and coke to club soda. They HATED that. No one likes to see living breathing proof that it can (or worse, should) be done. Eventually I had to find new friends who didn’t base their entire personality on going to the pub.
I’m an alcoholic and I am so proud of people who quit. I am trying.
@@alys_grace This is the crab bucket mentality. They wanna drag you back down to their level. Gratz on getting sober!
You’ve got this!! Good luck and I know you can do it 💕💕
@@granddaddymaddy1031 It took me a lot of tries and eventually some help from my doctor (we used naltrexone), but it was worth it. Keep trying and ask for help when you need it!
The problem is that these people made being fat their whole personality, that's why they think everyone that tries to lose weight is toxic or hates them, because they think being fat is all what they are and that's really sad.
absolutely right
Exactly. They say they support body positivity to have freedom over their body and so they don't have to worry about diets and whatnot but all they think about is being fat and their body
I agree. I think most of these people have internalized the bullying they have gone through for being fat and stepping into the fat acceptance space has only made it worse. Especially with these creators, everything in their lives is about being fat; even their work, so they can NEVER get a break from being reminded that they’re helplessly fat. I know plenty of overweight people who don’t primarily identify as “fat”, but as all kinds of other stuff. Before they even think about that, they’d identify as parent, writer, friend, manager, musician, husband/wife etc.
Health is the most valuable thing we all have. Nothing is worth compromising health. Choosing health is not trolling. Such toxic behavior.
100%. It's only when you lose it, no matter the reason, that you really know how valuable it is. Speaking from experience.
without health, we have nothing
Health is true wealth. Love your comment!
@@dt3802amen and that’s why I’m powerlifting so that way I don’t get hurt in the future
It's funny how body positivity turns to body jealousy so fast when people try to put in work on themselves.
This is the comment!
Quite human I guess 😂
The rhetoric reminds me of super religious folks. In the fundamentalist church, if you deconstruct or divorce or anything of the sort, you're "not a real Christian." And that line of thinking follows here. "If you lose weight, it's because you didn't really know what it means to be a fat person."
because it’s a cult
Bad analogy….religion or relationship to a creator isn’t something you can change if you believe we are created beings as opposed to being fat which is highly demonstrate as being a choice with overwhelming evidence…you absolutely cannot be “real” if you deconstruct in religion (relationship)
@@ThunderKat2012wtf? Being religious is also a choice. It’s actually a great analogy.
@@ThunderKat2012 Thing is, if no one had told you a "creator" might exist, you wouldn't even bother with it. You're only devoted to a god, because someone else said you should.
Of course it is, beliefs can always be changed.@@ThunderKat2012
I was 265 pounds at my heaviest during pregnancy. I ended up having pre-eclampsia at 37 weeks (which can happen to anybody) but that experience alone is what made me want to get healthier. I'm down to 160lbs now and have kept it off for 3 years, I've literally never felt better.
That’s fantastic even though it was driven by something so scary! I was 265 at my highest and only finally feel like I’m on the right track with stuff, down to 240 and hoping slow and steady will win the race
It happened to me at 39 weeks and I was 114 starting and delivered at 170! Scariest experience of my life - both pre and post. An Olympian reservist runner recently passed away from eclampsia
I’m sorry you went through that scary experience, but congratulations and thank you for sharing!! I started at 245 and am only 27 lbs away from my 160 goal. It’s so encouraging to hear success stories from people who have very similar starting/goal weight as me 🩷🎉
Same exact situation here. I gave birth in january and in that 1st week already lost 20lbs (granted i was suuuper swollen due to the preeclampsia). Sary shit that made me grateful for me and my boy's health. And im happy you're doing well too
You can be so proud!!!❤
When I was miserably obese, I would've said the same thing. But, if this person is like I was, its important to remember that the hardline stances are coming from a place of absolute dis-empowerment and hopelessness when it comes to losing the weight. Its much easier to say 'No, I like this.' and lie to yourself than it is to commit to the lifestyle changes necessary to guarantee your health into the future.
This is 1000% right.
Obesity and an auto immune disorder landed me on the transplant list. I ate what I wanted, thinking it was okay, but little did I know, the crap I was eating was killing me. I was 48 trying to figure out how to say goodbye to my son. In 2020, I was lucky enough to have a donor found with days to spare. No one owes you their healthy. No one needs to remain fat to please anyone, and believe me, the freedom to eat crap food isn't worth dying for.
glad you’re better ! (i’m assuming) 🤍
In my opinion, just because you can doesn't mean you should. I'm sorry you went through that!! Hopefully you are on the road to recovery now. The rhetoric they spread is so harmful and they just do not realize how obesity affects you.
They’re not naming names because they don’t want to be specific about what the issue is, because then people will clearly refute it or shut it down.
By over generalizing the issues, they can point to this invisible generalized enemy and ignore any reason.
The term "crab bucket" mentality refers to people trying to pull you back down to their level because they resent you escaping, succeeding, or achieving what they couldn't.
It’s a cult. I’m over hearing their point of view.
It's remarkable how fat activists are so livid about a former fat person losing the weight. They lash out in so many ways and ascribe so much negativity to it. If they were truly body positive they would be encouraging people to do whatever they feel is best for them. But they are not truly body positive. They feel helpless with their weight (and that's a relatable feeling) so they just want it to be "just how they are" instead of what they are eating. They don't like to be reminded that their weight is an issue that can be changed.
Who made her in charge of deciding what everyone else in the world is allowed to talk about? Pfft
I distinctly remember this creater doing clothing try-ons and was constantly ordering smaller sizes than she was. Doesn't sound like someone comfortable in their body
Ya sober people should totally stop saying how much better their life is now that they are sober and try to help current alcoholics. It's "toxic" to the bar community. Also, doctors should also stop bringing up someone's drinking when they see them. They're only there because they have high blood pressure, liver disease, anxiety......
yep. that’s always my argument. as a recovering addict with almost ten years clean, i often speak to NA meetings and at rehabs showing people there is another way of life. by the FA community’s logic, i would be hurting the very people i’m helping. to enable, and hell encourage, people to continue engaging in their harmful behavior is what’s mean and hurtful. it’s nothing but spite and jealousy and holding others back because you yourself can’t succeed. anyone newly thin, like anyone newly clean, is going to shout from the rooftops that they are happy and wish they had changed sooner. it’s getting a lifeline, and there is nothing wrong with celebrating your liberation. you’ve seen the light, and ofc you want to show that to those still in darkness. their arguments are petty and moot.
Like people can’t change their minds about stuff? Look even if someone decides to lose weight, change all their content and be snarky to their former community, why is it FA’s business? They’re not “in the community” anymore, so who cares. It reeks of cultish policing and honestly, PR damage control. Like they don’t want these people talking about Fat Club or whatever
Exactly. They want out of the community. That’s why it’s more of a cult than a community.
I’ve thought it was ironic (or maybe not idk what irony truly is) that many online activists will preach about the importance of having an open and agile mind and being able to change your opinion or thoughts when you have new information or experiences to factor in. But fat acceptance activists cannot fathom that other people can come to different conclusions and opinions about their own health and bodies and fatness
@@3v3rything3 spot on!
@@3v3rything3 you were right, that is ironic. Feels kinda cult-like.
The things that I really love to DO, I was UNABLE to do when I was fat. Horseback riding, hiking, parasailing, ziplining.... at 300+ pounds, these are not activities you can do- whether safely or at all. Now at 130 I can do them without issue. Not to mention just, I dont know, WALKING COMFORTABLY WITHOUT GETTING OUT OF BREATH. craziness.
it's rather condescending to suggest formerly fat people didn't understand what fat acceptance was about. I understood just fine. I didn't lose weight to piss them off, I love being in a smaller body, it's awesome. I hope they find happiness in whatever size body they have.
Ridiculous. Most people don't lose weight because they hate fat people. I doubt any do that. I lost weight because I had ulcers. Please. Most fat people lose weight due to health issues.
No one hates fat people because they're fat. But it's true that no one is as pro weight loss as formerly obese people, because they experienced what it does to you. They're not attacking fat activists, they're attacking the rhethoric. But for these people it's one and the same.
Well admittedly there are people who just hate fat people just for being fat. The fat activists seems hypocritical and love to police others.
That is not true. There are absolutely people that hate fat people simply because they are fat.
Incorrect. There absolutely are people who hate fat people simple because they are fat. Have you been living under a rock your whole life, or have you just never been obese?
a lot of people hate fat people for being fat
You think that all the hateful "reaction" channels are only concerned about fat people's health? Or if they only oppose the rhethoric, why are there so many of them, compared to people opposing, say, flat earthers, or opposing people who use physical punishment on their children?
I'll never get over how much these people think theyre victims. Marginalized and victims. Like... People are dying, Kim. Get off the internet.
When they "advocate" for things like bigger clothes and free airplane sits i just hear 1st World problems they are so entitled and privileged themselves
@lug358 yeah the "white women have so much obvious privilege" comment kind of falls flat coming from someone with the obvious privilege to eat whatever they want whenever they want all their lives.
Exactly! Like, yes, big people get bullied, and it sucks and shouldn't happen. But there are other people getting actual hate crimes committed on them for things they can not change.
@@cniknik9863it’s beyond just being bullied. They experience medical discrimination & that’s a real issue. It’s also assuming that these folx also don’t have other intersectional issues that worsen the discrimination they face - like being a POC, disabled, poor, etc. These are real issues that fat ppl face, especially if there are intersectional issues going on.
@@cniknik9863so, it’s your opinion that its ok to victimize people if it’s something you perceive as within their control? Because you realize that’s exactly the rationale that conservatives use for their treatment of the LGBTQ+ community. Whether YOU agree or not, THEY believe it’s a choice, and so their mistreatment is justifiable. I guess you support it 🤷🏼♀️
Why do fat people always suggest other people hating them?
I‘m not interested in other peoples weight - unless they were part of my family and I worry about them. I would never spend any of my emotional resources on hating someone else, especially when I don‘t know them….
You've never been fat, so you probably don't realize that people do treat you poorly if you're overweight.
More likely to treat you like you're stupid, be rude to you, etc.
@@jesm9776 But it's just "more likely". i was fat for years (BMI 40-45, so not extreme, but still really fat) and this is objectively not really a thing. Of course there are people who don't find you attractive and yes, there are some people who will look down on you openly or behind your back, but that happens for all kinds of reasons, your cloth, your hair, your car, the way you talk - and a lot of that comes from your own confidence (or lack thereof). Even regarding doctors i had no bad experience and believe me, my brain tortures me with overanalysing every human interaction. But some people dive all in into that victim mentality and they start to see enemies everywhere, but the restaurant doesn't have bolted down chairs to make your life bad and the airline is not making seats so small to harm fat people. At a certain weight you are just so off the "norm" that all our society standards are not working anymore and expecting the whole world to adopt the extremes is ridiculous. You can't expect every chair to be able to carry 600 pounds and not every restaurant can be forced to buy 600 pound chairs. Some of those people are outraged and see it as a personal attack, that an elevator in a 100 year old building is too small for a 600 pound person. Nobody will take them seriously anymore if they cry wolf all the time about ridiculous things.
@@vanivari359You just agreed with them in the first sentence. People do treat you poorly if you're fat.
Not me hearing the term ex-fat for the first time. Also - this video brought up this question in my mind; do you think there is anyone who is obese that is truly, 100% happy with that fact?
Personally I believe obesity is a symptom of mental illness so no obese person is happy that they are obese. Please note I strictly mean obese people (not overweight because there is a distinction although even then it depends on circumstances)
any time people criticize you for questioning what they say, continue questioning what they say. there’s a reason they don’t want you to look at things critically, and it’s because their arguments don’t hold up under examination.
I remember when this movement was just supposed to be about hey, stop bullying or shaming people because they’re fat just let them live life their people by the end of the day. Then You give them an inch and they take a mile and now the bully-ee has become the bully-er. How are you shaming people in choosing health. it’s giving crab mentality.
It baffles me that they think they know better than a doctor. So why dont you believe your doctor when they say you need to lose weight to fix your health problems??? Oh you would rather for them to give you a magic pill.
I just imagine someone going into the doctor and the doctor telling them "you need to stop drinking" or "you need to stop smoking" and them being totally deffensive like "i have not come here for you to tell me to stop that" like i gues even some people are like that but the majority of people have the knowledge that those habits are unhealthy. Why are y'all fighting the fact of obesity being unhealthy and the types of ultraprocessed shit that y'all eat is very damaging...
Many activists have "left" care of The Grim Reaper.
I never heard of the term before, but I am proudly an Exfat, worked way too damn hard to be considered anything other than that! I didn’t one day wake up and think that I look gross and hate all fat people, I had medical issues directly caused by my obesity like asthma, that I needed to address, or they were going to turn into larger problems down the line. I have family members with severe health issues, and I see how they suffer, and I have always warned myself that I would not follow those same footsteps if I can help it and if something is in my control. I shocked myself with my resilience and strength when I really put myself to the test of trying to lose weight, I gained so much independence and self-esteem in my journey of weight loss. Anyone that encourages someone to do something against self growth and self-discipline should be ashamed of themselves, those are lifelong skills that you are always trying to improve, they are never perfect
I really hate that when someone is critical of themselves people who share the same traits get offended. Like if you're trying to quit smoking and say 'omg I can't stand that I smoke' that does not mean you hate smokers. I have no idea why people cannot understand this. Or when someone who used to work out a lot says 'I'm out of shape I want to get back in shape because it's bugging me' their couch potato friend will get offended. Why are you getting offended at someone else expressing dissatisfaction with their own choices?
Being fat is not sustainable. The beetus will catch up, death, heart disease. Yes there’s health at different sizes… 6’5” 300lbs is still 100 lbs overweight and prone to serious complications. Prefer losing to staying fat at this stage.
By your logic francis nganou is overweight.
yes!!!!
Do you not understand exceptions to the rule? Pro athletes are outliers.@@masculinityorientation790
If the fat acceptance movement was truly, at large, about wanting to be treated well in the doctor's office and having equality in fashion, I would be in full support. I've lost a lot of weight and gained weight and lost a lot again over my life--right now, I'm nearing my thinnest after having been sick. Only now are my doctors taking my back and joint pain seriously as something other than an effect of my weight. That is awful, especially when I have family history, on both sides, of arthritis and yada yada. And don't get me started on my options in fashion when I was heavier--it was abhorrent. Why were the majority of my options to look like a 70s floral couch?
But when I lost a bunch of weight due to illness. . .those videos that appeared on my TikTok shamed me for losing that weight regardless of why I'd lost it. And when I'd try to bring up *any* point as to why someone would lose, or had to lose, weight--I was told to "check my privilege" or a whole host of other nasty things. I'm told I'm fatphobic because I don't condone fit at any size, knowing how terrible I feel at my heaviest. I'm told I'm privileged to lose weight. . .when I couldn't eat without throwing up for literal months. No one cares WHY you lost weight, they just care that you did and will vilify you for it.
THAT is why the fat acceptance movement, which bogarted the body positivity movement anyway, is so hated or looked down on. Not because fat people are hated for being fat. It's because their self esteem, or lack of it, leads them to be nasty and vile to EVERYBODY that is thin or thin-er than them.
When I was younger, I was in a "body positivity" group, but I left when I found out how toxic they are. If a woman too thin to their taste posted body positive pictures, they´d criticize her (most or a big portion). There was a video of Celeste Barber "imitating" a ballet dancer, and most of comments were so mean towards the dancer, one even talked about her (when I defended her) in terms of "that thing you call human" (the woman who made that comment was extremely obese). They´d keep telling wrong informations such as "Marilyn Monroe was a size 14" or that average French size is a size 12-14 when it´s actually size 8-10. And one fat activist who was in the media crying over fatphobia bullied me about my autism just because I corrected her false narrative (which was that average French size for women is a size 14). She said I was disgusting and just because I´m mentally ill, doesn´t mean she needs to agree with me. That´s my experience with body positivity and it was a pretty bad one. That and that fat admirer who made a miss plump online competition and made a "gallery of ugliness", showing pictures of thin women. Very toxic indeed. Plus the whole "if you don´t date plus size women you´re fatphobic, if you lose weight intentionally, you´re fatphobic" narratives...
Don’t let other people dim your light. Misery loves company.
Being obese is very bad for your health and, unfortunately, will often be an underlying factor in many illnesses and ailments. While i agree that doctors must investigate everyone's complaints fully and not assume it's weight-related, it so often is that it's a bit unreasonable to expect them not to suggest it.
It also goes the other way. I couldn't get diagnosed with gallstones for years because i was "too young and too slim" so they wouldn't give me the scans.
Her hair and makeup are 🔥. Wish she could open up her mind to healthy living.
So we can't talk about our weight loss but they can talk about being fat 24/7. Okay got it. Anyways guys in an effort to make this lady is pissed off as possible I lost like 60 lbs this year. In January 2023 I was a size 22. I am currently a size 14. Mine was because I finally discovered why I've been having anaphylaxis my entire life. I'm allergic to Soy and after cutting out I have just been dropping weight left and right. And before some fat hippopotamus over here has some shit to say I'm going to trauma dump. I get to be happy about my weight loss because my mom knew I had a soy allergy in my entire life and watched me almost die dozens of times but never informed me of the allergy. She also denied allergy test when I was a child and I did not have the money as an adult to do it. But watching a home movie I discovered her betrayal and I am livid but I'm also finally not hyperventilating and dying and breaking out in rashes every day.
I actually used to follow her for her fashion content and unfollowed the more she made her content about FA. She can believe what she wants, but I was looking for outfit inspo
Came here to say the same thing. I used to love the cool outfits she put together, but I had forgotten why I unfollowed her.
She doesnt tag anyone because she is criticising them without justification... Viewing their side would show how unreasonable she is being
Can u do a updated video on Alexandra Rodriguez, it's been over 2yrs since she had gastric bypass...she gained all her weight back already!! She's learned nothing & changed nothing. Please cover it, she's still trolling & lying to her subs. Still editing her pics, but claiming body positivity while using a slimming filter.
Great video, I always enjoy your commentary videos
I'm someone who is in her early 50's and is now suffering all sorts of health issues because of being overweight since I was a teenager. I'm just now losing weight, I wish I could have them understand what 20 years from now will be for them
18 months ago I weighed 290, now I'm 169. What kind of people would regret that or criticise that.
When she said "turn the flip" that really hit me. 😩
😂😂
I don't hate fat people but I do hate being fat,
My back hurts, my knees hurt, my hips hurt.
I am insuline resistant, walking hurts (I have leg length discrepancies and hip dysplasia so it's always hurt but weight makes it worse)
This is the type of stuff that the FA people like to pretend they're not experiencing. It's so trash. I wish you the best. ❤
Previously being obese I don’t have very much empathy in people who make constant excuses or twist reality to prevent themselves from being culpable
LMAO I saw that tiktok on my fyp 😂
It strikes me that when people conflate disagreeing with their ideas with personal hatred, fear or contempt, they are just utilizing a rhetorical trick to avoid having to logically defend their ideas with robust factual evidence.
This gives the same vibe as posting a cryptic Facebook status or Instagram story that’s clearly about a certain person but never actually speaking directly to them.
My god they would. Hate me 40lbs gone since January 13th
I'm most bothered by these people when they talk about fighting for equal treatment in medical care, because half the time they disregard health professionals as simply being fatphobic. You don't even value what providers are trying to do to keep you alive. I am fat and have been dealing with weight issues most of my life. I have never thought I was disgusting just because I'm fat. My husband is in the same boat. We both are tired of not being able to do certain things because of our weight. We're also trying to mitigate some health issues now that we're in our 30s. I've lost 20 pounds in the last six weeks and he's lost over 30. I'm not okay with other fat people making someone else's weight loss about them. I hate when anyone does that for any reason.
So before I even watch this, it's so insane to me how obese people hate formerly obese people (Ex fats lmfao that made me cackle)
If I were obese and knew a formerly obese person I wouldn't take THEIR weight loss personally lol. I'd look up to it and have increased motivation because it shows it's possible and I'd really admire that person because they know what I'm going through and got through it themselves.
Also, if that person is your friend, wouldn't you support them getting healthier?
Ok.... And why should anyone care what she thinks?
2:41 “they get really really heavy into it” hehe 😂
In a room full of jurors waiting to be called onto a case, I sat in a double chair. I wasn’t spilling over onto the other cushion, I wasn’t sweaty, I was dressed nice, I didn’t stink… and people would look at the seat and walk away
Comment for the algorithm, thanks for the video
I was never part of the BPM, but I lost almost 55 pounds over the past 2 years and I feel no guilt for it whatsoever. I feel so much better and I look it too.
Since when was the term exfat a thing 😭 I’ve heard of expat but never exfat
I’ve never been one for fat positivity, even as a fat person. I hate being fat lol. So I’m on a dating app and a bff app and I’m looking for those who I feel can help keep me motivated into becoming who I want to be. I don’t wanna be with those who just wanna watch tv or play video games. Nothing wrong with wanting to better one’s health. I’m happy when people are doing that.
What does being white have anything to do with waking up one day and going “I don’t wanna be fat anymore,”?
All addicts (including drama addicts) will try and pull people back to their unhappiness because they feel alone in their misery. Misery really does love company and will scratch, bite and claw to get it back.
I feel like fat acceptance has just gone insane. Like, I’m all for what I believe it was originally supposed to be. Teaching that we all don’t have to be a size 2, and even if someone is a size 20 they shouldn’t be bullied, mocked or ridiculed.
And somehow it’s turned into let’s just lie to the world and pretend that obesity isn’t unhealthy.
I think people’s bodies shouldn’t be picked apart and yes that we need to show unphotoshopped bodies in magazines to keep beauty standards real. But what is this thing of pretending that not being able to breathe after walking 15 ft is somehow just as healthy as someone who can walk a mile before being winded at all.
When I was at my biggest I had exactly the same bangs as she has. Insignificant correlation but caught my attention
It’s not about losing weight it’s about all the arrogance in that community
For a movement about accepting bodies at every size, they sure love hating on anyone not overweight.
I lost 16% of my body fat, sitting now at 12% and have kept the weight off for the better half of a decade.
I did it for me, not to piss off these people. But … after hearing her speak, as an ex-fat, I’m glad I’m triggering these people by merely existing.
Great perspective given in your video. 👍
I would argue that only seeing white women promoting weight loss has more to do with white people taking up a disproportionate amount of the media, not because they are all fat phobic. …… I almost exclusively only see white women in the body positivity movement too 😂
The fat positivity movement as a whole is a fantastic case study in oppression olympics / logic or lack thereof
John!
She cares because she’s jealous she hasn’t got the Will power. Anybody that can lose weight need encouragement to use their voice and give hope to others.
This woman is crazy jealous.
Still trying to get to a normal weight myself, it bothers me that the bopo ppl try to police when it's ok and when it's not to want to lose weight. And how hypocritical is it to call someone shameless because they want to lose weight when they call their group body positivity. If it was truly positive or neutrality they wouldn't get triggered because someone else decides to change their body or have different experiences in the movement that led them to leave the bopo ideology.
First time I'm this early to a video!
If you're looking for someone who's not white promoting weight loss, I've been following Life With BBT. She just got her sleeve surgery. I'm so happy for her. ❤
This rhetoric reminds me of a certain frugivore cult leader...👀
She looks like me when I was at my heaviest. Damn I've come a looooong way!!
Regardless of whether you think being fat is fine or is not ....How many super obese elderly people do you see? Isn't that proof enough that being huge shortens your life? Maybe some people like life enough they want to try not to die young. How can that be wrong?
I liked her old content and then I saw this clip on my feed and rolled my eyes.
I always thought she seemed nice. I still think she's nowhere near as toxic as some of these folks. I get a sad, jealous feeling from her like she's being left behind.
Bwahahahahaha!😅😂
Former fat people are living proof that you can lose weight and keep it off. Also, people are allowed to change their minds about anything including what they want to look like.
Agree re docs. Its also ironic as so many medical professionals are overweight. If my doc is unhealthy, i think i would get a 2nd opinion
If you look into forums that various health professionals are on, they do post from time to time that they have to give advice (because it is science-backed) that they themselves struggle to follow due to the demands of their own profession and life outside of work.
Who can't make the same claim? Weight is 90% about food. I work 60 hours a week. I pack a lunch/dinner. They're eating fast food/junk.
It's easier to give advice than to actually follow it. We all know this
@yhdessayhtena It's not advice. It is their profession. We all are representatives of our profession. My thinking is, "He is carrying a keg." My cardiac surgeon. Will he be as careless about my heart as he is of his own? And maybe he is an outstanding surgeon. But what makes the outcome a success is the aftercare. I want him/her to represent.
The word of the day ( Disgusting )
I’d forgotten my free will. Huh. Good thing she can find mine for me.
I can't wait until TIKTOK is shut down.
It won’t be. It will just be bought by someone else. We are stuck with TikTox
@@LifeAfterLosing The US government cannot force the sale of a Taiwanese company. Anyone who thinks that this level of control should be possible needs to get a reality check.
@@Mark-dc1suit should be the same rules for our companies in their countries. Facebook can’t be used in China nor can Twitter, so it should be the same respect given in return.
It's a CCP product just like TEMU. The government has known TikTok was a security risk. A phone with this app on it is not allowed in federal buildings. Another TikTok type of platform will be created by Musk or Zuck
The US can't sell a Chinese company, of course. It's crap, a smokescreen, bc the government doesn't want to take the heat
I genuinely wish these people put an ounce of effort into other causes the way they put into fat phobia/fat acceptance.... we would have had 0$ cost insulin and affordable housing centers opened by now if people actually did anything that contributed to society. Body positivity and neutrality is important for mental health but the way these people go on and ON about it.... they're like religious zealots. Anything for a tiktok following and a brand deal.
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I think it would be interesting if you invited the people on your video sometimes because being neutral about this topic I feel like you make a lot of assumptions about what they are saying
They are often really great at couching their thoughts in specific language, so it's pretty difficult not to make assumptions. Maybe these creators should actually articulate their points instead of being vague.
I agree with you 100% fat people always think you’re making fun of them. And that’s not the case.👍😊
My favorite type of person is one who speaks articulately and is levelheaded ❤. You are an excellent orator 🫶🏻
I Ordered the whole menu from McDonald’s to do my Research on fat people
I was fat now I’m skinny and when I see fat people I get angry or disgusted especially when they eat I be thinking that’s why ya ass fat now but I would never say it out loud lol
I guess I’m a poison type then 😂 it’s ok I’ll take the L.
Some ppl r just not worth the kerfluffle