Spiraling Out of Control PART 2!
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- Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024
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Your tshirt message hits home Josh as I am a breast cancer survivor. If anyone has made any comments pretaining to your ways of dealing with things that should really put themselves in your shoes and see what they would feel like. Please just do you and your children and let people think what they want. We all love and respect you Josh.
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Thank you Josh. Even though you don’t know me and you don’t know my situation, I cannot tell you how much I appreciate you lighting the candle for me and all of us who need some love. I hope you find whatever you are needing during this journey that you didn’t want to take.
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Hi Josh…Lighting the candle meant so much…I’ve done that too for many I have lost throughout the years. I will light one in honor of Sarah for you. God bless you!
Stop listening to the assholes. Grief hurts so much. I could not imagine losing a spouse. Heart❤
That is so kind of you, Josh. When you lit the candle, I really felt the peace. Thank you. 🤗
people who haven’t experienced grief just don’t understand grief 😢
Thank you for thinking of us Josh. 🤗❤️
Thanks for lighting the candle for us Josh. You're correct; we are all dealing with something 😢 Ì, fòr one, rèally appreciates the well wishes ❤ Sending hugs to the kids too 🤗
Light for all hearts that are huring all over the world!!
Amen❤😊❤
Thank you for the pep talk and the candle, Josh. It was very thoughtful of you. People who judge others really have no right to do so and should take a walk in someone else’s shoes. Keep your candle burning to light your way. Love from Down Under 😘💕🇳🇿
You are a wonderful dad. Painting your nails with your daughter shows how much you love her and you don’t care what anyone says about you. I totally think it is awesome. Your children could not ask for a better father ❤
Thank you Josh…I needed the candle! Haven’t seen my daughter or grandkids for a year🤷♀️Miss them sooo much!!
I’m going through the same thing too. Infact I’ve had to see a Dr over it. My one son has 2 children and we’ve never seen them and he hasn’t spoken for 14yrs. Our other son’s wife left him and he wanted us to move to NC to help with the children so we sold our brand new home and moved. He ended up getting married a year and a half without letting us know and now we’re not allowed to see the children. It’s been 3yrs now and we’re blocked. There’s a book called…Done With The Crying! It’s help and healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children by Sheri McGregor, MA. That will help you . I usually don’t bring up religion but in the Bible it says towards the latter days this is going to happen and not only to thier mom they turn from thier siblings etc. But I do know and all we can do is read, pray and get all the information you can from other people going through the same thing and there’s so many. God Bless 😊
I admire you so much for your honesty and being brave enough to share your truth ❤
I felt the tears & warmth of your candle 🕯 lighting. Thank you. Much love back at ya ❤
Just listening quietly, Josh. Please know I care and am praying for you and your little family.
Everyone has ways of grieving. When I lost my son from suicide at 16, it was a shock to us, no note, and I was a total basket case. It took me 2 years to grieve over my son. I joined every Parent of Suicide group online I could for support. Currently, I've been watching Kyle Appleford's wife Jenny's cancer journey, and just lost his wife recently in 2023, and he is also struggling with 2 young children, and so down to earth. He lives in L.A and just changed their channel to "The Apples" as Jenny requested after her death. I think he's the same age group as u . Having someone to talk to is important, and moral support , especially when they can relate to your situation. Every time I watch his channel it reminds me of you and your struggles. Both your journeys were unexpected and documented. Never hurts to reach out to someone else going through the same thing. May be beneficial to you both most of all finding a new friend. Prayers
Same for me, I think of Josh when I watch Kyle and vice versa. My heart just aches for both of them. ❤️🩹 God bless you.
Josh and Kyle have been in contact
Thanks for lighting that for all of us… I will light one for you!
What might look like spiralling out of control in your grief situation in my opinion is in reality you just trying to cope and do the best you can. Be so proud of yourself Josh. You don’t have to grieve in a perfect way and do everything “right”, you just need to do the best you can. If you stuff up, you do. Much love, be kind to yourself xo
You are such an inspiration even through your mourning, God bless your sweet heart.
Love the candle and thank you for lighting for us 💕
Thank you for lighting the candle Josh. It means a lot. Keep on keeping on. You are doing well. ❤
Thanks for lighting the candle love you Josh and you’re right we all have our own crap we go through and no one should be judged for how they go through it. As always love and hugs from a friend in Ohio ❤️🩹💕❤️
True words said Josh , hugs of healing thoughts to you and everyone going through a hurting time ...tfs !❤️🙌🏽✨️
Happy to see your looking a little brighter this week xx
My best friend died unexpectedly last week. It's a struggle. Thank you for the candle.
Sarah was so honorable graceful and kind - we can all learn from that - She tried to be positive thru the struggles with her health sharing her favorite things and memories - Life is a gift - find the blessings in each day to help get thru the sadness - Springtime can bring renewed hope - look for that ray of sunshine in the midst of your aching heart.
I lost my 27 year old son and we light “ his” candles every night and will continue for ever. It feels healing. It feels respectful. It hurts but we feel connected. Retail therapy is definitely a thing. Keep up the good you’re doing and don’t let other people tell you how to grieve, it’s purely personal. Thank you for helping me thru this difficult time.
What a beautiful gesture!
My son's first birthday in Heaven is next month!!
Thank you
I hurt and a candle I think would be wonderful!!
Love and prayers!!
I listen to gospel music and have my special Bible verses everyday!!
Sam 🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕
❤️❤️❤️ glad to see your having a better day. Some wise words. Everyone deals with things differently. You do you.
Josh, you are more than ok. You are inspiring! Your humanity shines through! Keep going because you have sooo much life to live still!❤
Thank you, Josh. I really needed to hear, and to see that today. Everyday, is hardship for me. I live with severe, disabling, life affecting, chronic / acute pain. Every minute of everyday, for most of my life. I am struggling to keep on going, physically and mentally. No one understands, what it feels like to have to live this way. Only I do, and that then makes each day, more isolating than it already is. I am trying, my best. Just to get through another day, without going crazy. And keeping alive, is my best achievement of each day. I have permanent spinal injuries, from a horse riding accident (a spinal cord stimulator, is permanently installed in my lower back). Last 4 discs, in my lower back are wrecked. So constant, neuropathic pain in my back (which affects, my ability to walk and move some days). And it involves, all the nerve networks in both of my legs also. Rheumatoid Arthritis / Severe Fibromyalgia. Constant Tendonitis, from the RA. So... my whole body, is in constant pain. I can't, escape from it. I am always, tired or exhausted. And I don't really know, whom I am anymore. I (being, Melinda), have become lost, because of living year's in constant pain. Amongst the constant pain, exhaustion, mental health excasserbated from my physical health, stress, worries. Not well enough, to work anymore. So I also suffer, financially as well. I cannot be, the person that I could have been. Try living a life, where you are not happy, disappointments, frustrated, angry, and alone. But listening to you Josh, helps me somehow. Thank you for lighting a candle, for me today. I just felt like, it was litten for me when I watched it.
Best wishes to you as always, Josh.
From ~ Australia.
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Hello fellow Aussie, it’s ok do ur best is all.
P.S. I have only recognised recently, that I am going through a grieving journey myself. Not from the loss, of someone close to me. But I still, have to learn to accept, what my life is now. So I guess, I am grieving over the loss of my quality of life. And the loss, of achieving my full potential. That's why, I often feel sad, empty, lost, frustrated, angry (not really angry, towards another person). Just angry (about a lot of different things). Guessing, that I am definitely not the only one, grieving for this kind of a reason. Sorry, for maybe oversharing here. I must of really needed, an emotional release tonight.
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@KoalaBeer. Thank you for your kind words tonight, KoalaBeer. You sound like, a caring person.
Thank you. I’m going through a really tough time with my own mental health issues. It’s been really bad for over two years. I’m praying for you as I am myself. This means a lot. 🙏🏻❤️
Well said Josh ❤ Thank you for the candle and bringing awareness to what grief looks like.
It’s amazing how everything you’re saying resonates with me , about where I’m at ....at this time, Josh.
Spiraling… I think of spiraling as a positive thing, and I’ll tell you why… Because I just had a new realization today, because I was spiraling due to certain things that are happening in my life. I’m a lot older than you , and am getting all these physical problems that have really changed me from how I was when I was younger, ,,,I’m not the same person that I was... and it’s a kind of grief. Tonight I was spiraling,,, I actually did some guttural deep crying. You know what.... it was cleansing. When we go through these intense spirals.... I think what happens from them a great deal of the time is that we have come to new realizations in ways of looking at things, we are learning....and coping… we kinda come out on the other side. And we’re processing. ..and a lot of time we grow through very painful things. We all react differently to things that happen to us, according to the person that we are , 😮and what our experiences have been, and how our Personality formed. People that judge us are so off track. It’s such a waste of time. I Think it’s wonderful that you share what you go through , because not only are you growing and learning how to cope, but you help others, I know you help me a lot.
Yep, spiraling is the touch stone for growth and learning ...and expressing emotions, and how to deal with life on life‘s terms and it’s OK to spiral.
If you're crying people automatically think there's something really wrong, but it's just an emotional release to wash out the stress in that moment.
The loss of my son will be with me for rest of my life.. I will have good days and days that I am missing him so much I cry... Im not embarrassed, not worried about what other people think at all ...And as long as I have breath.... I will try and make a difference in this world .....until you have lost a close loved one you wont understand the loss.... But I dont expect you too...its ok..
Josh thank you for lighting the candle ..it made me feel calm and blessed❤
I’m so so sorry for your loss. 🫂
@@Jules-77 thank you so much❤️
I am so sorry. I just lost my son last month and the pain is overwhelming.
@@ClaraODell-tw2lc I understand Clara❤️
Josh, thanks for the sweet idea of lighting a candle, Blessing to you and your family. I would light a candle for you but also for Kyle who appears to be struggling in his grief and doing the best he can to live the new normal as you do. You are both such wonderful husbands and dads and I send love and support. 🕯🕯🕯
Hi Josh, the candle is much appreciated and so thoughtful. Definitely needed this tonight. Much love ❤💕
Thank you Josh for the beautiful, beautiful candle you lit at the end. I love how you explained it being a way to send out love. I honestly think an entire video could just be that candle burning because we all need to take more time to stop and listen to our heart and send our heart out there to those we’ve loved so much.
Hey Josh! You look great! God bless
Thank you Josh the candle lighting it is such a kind considerate thing to do. I light a lot of candles they make me feel better and I find them very healing. Love & light to you and your family ❤
You seem to be doing pretty well to not only healing yourself, you are helping others as well.
I lost my home in January this year. With the cost of living going up the last 2 years I couldn't keep up. I got to far behind. I had to sell fast as I was going into foreclosure. It broke my heart to let it go. I'm now living 2 minute walk from my new rental so I see my old house everyday.
I spent a lot of money doing things after my husband died. I did whatever I could to keep me and the kids busy and finding any joy possible. That is pretty normal after a family endures great tragedy. Those comments about Kyle show people who are completely clueless and just outright ignorant.
I wish people grasped that grief can come in waves. I can be fine for weeks on end and then one reminder of a good time or one reminder of something I miss so much and I can just cry for a entire day and night and not be able to stop at all, it's impossible to stop, just utter sobbing and grief. All that can be done is to let that wave pass and cry for 18 hours straight and then back to the "new normal" again
Hi Josh, I was the one who asked about "spiraling" and I thank you for those explanations. I didn't know what it meant because I am not a native English speaker and I don't even live in USA, probably like a lot of people who watch your channel and comment. You probably are watched and listened to from all around the world. (Here : Québec, near Montréal, speaking French). Thank you for your vlog, I love it. I would like to know how your kids are doing, how losing their mother affects them, how they are coping, etc. 🙂
You have wonderful insight - we are all different in how we handle life. I think you are doing a good thing with the blogs - the candle is a good thought - thank you for the candle. 💛
Thank you Josh, same to you. I like the nails! 😎
YOU LOOK SO MUCH BETTER LOVE YA pgh Pa
🌬❣You do what makes You Happy 😊 I Love and Care about you and your Beautiful families Xo No matter what 😊
Hi Josh. You are a lovely person. A guy who's been through alot in the last few months. Raising children on your own and trying to keep yourself together isn't an easy feat. You are absolutely allowed to " spiral". Grief comes in different stages and can be unpredictable. You have to let these feelings out as you are. You are a typical loving husband and father who's lost the love of their life. Don't give these ignorant trolls any space in your head. It will get easier one day Josh but go through the emotions now. It will strengthen you. I think one of the best thing that you can do is help other people. It will give you a purpose and make you feel good in return. Hugs and ❤️ to you and your beautiful family!
Sending love 💕
Sending loads of love and prayers for comfort to you. ❤️🌻❤️🌻
Agreed that spiralling is totally normal. The majority of us do so in one way or another, especially if grieving or going through hard times. What many might not realise is that retail therapy can be a form of self medication. There enough harshness in the world without adding to it with judgement. Love the candle. Accepting the good wishes (had a biopsy recently) and radiating them to all going through stuff. We love you Josh and PoG fam. 🫂💙💞
Do always what makes you feel better, whitout caring about what certain people say. Sometimes people talk just to give breath to their mouths
You look like a musician. 😊 Keep "hanging in" there... it does get better. 💫
Yes its so normal and the roller-coaster ride is hard to ride ❤
Thanks for being real with us. You are so kind I know you like to be happy and this is strange for you I’m sure
I just want to say your eyes are sparkling a beautiful blue tonite :) People have no right to judge - you are doing the best you know how under the circumstances. Everyone grieves differently. You keep up the good work - it is for sure a long day to day process
You look much more energized! 👍🏻
Grief is hard , be kind to yourself. How are the kids doing ? Love and prayers to all.❤❤
Your message is so REAL and RAW. I appreciate you and thank you for sharing. It will help others. 🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍.
Love and appreciated the candle lighting. Very symbolically important and i think it is just what some people need right now, to be seen and understood but in a quiet and understated way. Thankyou.
I really like your T-shirt ❤ I understand exactly what you are saying. Grief is so hard. I pray for your family. ❤😂
❣Seems the longer my Stepmother has died the More I Miss her So So FREAKING Much 😢
She passed 1.11.21
The hurting is Real 😢 Now I'm dealing with my 95 year old Father Deminta Sucks 😢Love the Candle ❤
Sorry for your loss but it's awesome that you had such a great relationship with your step mother!
Prayers ❤
Awesome thank you!
Just because someone says something does not mean it’s correct or true. We all grieve in our own way. Your money is nobody’s business. It’s my opinion that you are doing what you need to do. Trust yourself.
Thank u for lighting a candle for my shit!!! Xoxo
My husband went to heaven last summer. It’s been a roller coaster ride. Shopping is ok. It gets boring. I haven’t talked about what happened on my channel. It’s just to hard to. But I believe it might help me get through this grief. ❤ thanks for sharing
I’m so so sorry. I’ll pray for you. Losing the love of your life is so horrible.
You’re going through a traumatic experience. Anyone who judges someone going through such a rough time is simply irrelevant.
The candle got me in my feels, thank you 💜🙏🩵 Love the galaxy nails 🪐💫
Thank you 💙🙏
No one can tell you how to ve josh your a great warm soul just great as you are❤
I think it’s okay to spiral. The judging others has to stop. Those who are judging will eventually spiral too it hits us all. Love the candle idea as well. Josh, you are doing an awesome job. Much love
No one gets to judge how someone navigates their grief. We all do it differently. So what? It’s normal to have a rocky journey through grief. My partner John is a hospice Chaplain and is on a mission to help the western world normalize grief because we tend to deny the truth that all who live does die. It’s just a matter of how, when and why. So let’s face it and accept it as a natural part of life give and kindness and understanding and grace. Simple.
🌬🕊Well said ❤ We really live to die 😢 Blessing's your way And to your Husband 😊
Thank you ❤@@purplephoenixartbymicheled9298
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Thanks for the candle. ❤❤❤
I wish you would not let these creepy judgemental jerks bother you. Every channel have these jerks that try to harm rather than help others 😢. Sending 🤗❤️.
I raised my two kids alone and i know it gets fkn hard but we as parents do what we have to just to make sure our kids are happy and healthy. If anyone wants to criticise you tell em to piss off ❤
Thinking of you Josh ❤
Thank you Josh
Morning from County Durham !!
You are the best Josh❤❤
I'm think your doing remarkable we're all grief in alot of different ways its very hard trying to navigate your life after you loss someone you love I know I've been there but life must go on I pray for you and your family and understand the Los you are feeling love and peace be with you and your ❤❤
I'm a cancer survivor
Virtually, I light up a candle for you.🔥💖🙏
Love your videos and your nails are awesome
Spiraling for me is very quiet … staying in bed and withdrawing … today is 3 weeks since my domestic partner died . I’m just spiraling quietly .😢
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🙏 RIP
This is really common, I appreciate you, I appreciate you sharing. Sending you ❤️ and 🫂.
Sorry, and for days like this. When I am feeling like things just are heavy and won’t work out I turn to scripture and right away God shows me His perspective, like this morning;
LORD. YOU ARE MY GOD:
I WILL EXALT YOU AND PRAISE
YOUR NAME, FOR IN PERFECT
FAITHFULNESS YOU HAVE
DONE WONDERFUL THINGS.
THINGS PLANNED LONG AGO
ISAIAH
25:1
@@LivingLighterLovingLifeTy so much .
Each person grieves, and heals, differently, and anyone who criticizes someone else’s process hasn’t moved through one or the other. Or else the critics are just jerks who have no empathy. Either way, we need to ignore the nasty ones. ❤
It makes you realise alot of people are suffering, so many do not open up, you are seeing it when people tell their story to you, they must have a need. People need to talk, be heard and same with you, its the way to healing and learning .❤🕎
Awesome message Josh
I did a lot of retail therapy when I lost my person. And I was just mean for a bit because I had no one to turn because she was my sounding board. Love and miss, my dear sweet sister.
Yesterday I was just inconsolable I woke up crying and went to bed still anxious and crying. I have had my own kinda spiral. But this morning I am better. Its good to see you. I wanted to write the book on making bad decisions 🤦🏼♀️🤗😘🫶
Thank you Josh. Felt the feels! 🙂 you are getting through, and that’s what matters to your loved ones. 💙🫂
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I love your painted nails . I have the saying on your t shirt tattooed on my forearm . My son of 43 years is on his 5 round of chemo for bowel cancer . Take care . Sending you a big hug . ♡
Prayers and many good thoughts for your son!
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Love from Ohio 💞💞💞💞
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You rock Josh
Hiya 👋🏻🙂❤️🧸🙂