Dream Wedding Turns Into A Nightmare When My Fiancé's Ex Barges In And Exposes His Secret Affair.
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- Dream Wedding Turns Into A Nightmare When My Fiancé's Ex Barges In And Exposes His Secret Affair.
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Honestly? The ex girlfriend did you a favor. You didn't marry the cheater, so you didn't need to go through a divorce.
You are 100% right
Trash took itself out, 1000%
She could have done so in a quieter way perhaps
@@I-love-mice It’s better then her not doing it at all tho
The ex is still a complete a hole
She hasn’t won. She’s gotten a man who was prepared to marry you anyway despite the fact he was sleeping with her. She’s lost because she’s gotten a disloyal man. You’ve won because you’ve escaped a disloyal man and toxic situation.
Not to mention they got into a fight because the dude only wanted his ex as a side chick. Apparently his plan was to use his ex as a side piece, and nothing else.
@@Olimar92And the fact that the ex flat out rejected her.
"Don't throw away 3 years." Sunk cost fallacy. Don't believe this nonsense. I threw away an 8 year relationship because my ex became incredibly toxic and now I'm with a woman that shows me love in ways my ex never did and I'm happier than ever. Don't be afraid to move on.
Let’s be more clear here. She’s the one who threw it away with disrespect, not the other way around.
@@cafelatte1124 Yes I agree, I was just saying don't let people try to convince you that the amount of time you've put into a relationship should sway your decision to cut off a toxic partner. It was absolutely her fault, but still his decision to leave. Some people stumble on that decision because they get caught up thinking about all the years wasted. It's not wasted. It was a learning experience that makes you a better partner for the next relationship.
@@CrystallizedBlood1 I agree, but I was saying this in the context of all the blameshifters because there are a lot of sociopaths online and offline who actually blame the victim instead of the offender.
They have the audacity to say to the victim "you are going to throw away xx years of marriage/relationship because of a mistake?"
Yes, these sociopaths call "cheating" or some other reprehensible behavior a "mistake".
yo don't throw away the past, you win the future
Same i was married for ten years with kids, then I found out his secret life and I was DONE. I’m single for 5 years now and I’m genuinely happy. I learned a lot and because of that, I see red flags and all that way sooner.i tried dating but i didn’t found that 1 yet for anything more than just a “date”. Also my focus has been really on my own healing and my kids. Got a new home and living life. I was also very young (18) when I got married and i realized I was way to young and way to naive!
The ex-gf actually did OP a huge favor in the end...
Crazies are like broken clocks.
That second story... I think that was really an amazingly mature way to respond to the situation.
I would have lied and told her that her friends told me about the TikTok
Never stay with someone who has the audacity to cheat on you. They’ll simply do it again.
😂😂😂 it was a mistake and he was likely set up. His ex even has pictures of it which shows how much she must have planned it all.
She also knew him since he was a kid so she must know him better than the fiance including how to get him to do certain things in the heat of the moment.
Even D could be a potential rival if she eve meets another guy
@@Business458 I don’t know what on earth made you rationalize such a pointless comment, to think this was some setup is stupid when you can’t even prove it was.
Stop trying to blindly support a cheater lol.
@@Business458how do you accidentally have consensual sexual intercourse with someone? Also it wasn’t “in the heat of the moment” his ex called him over and he agreed to go. They also were in contact for months before the wedding. It’s like you turned your brain off after you heard the first sentence.
"Don't throw away 3 years" getting married huge, 3 years is not a super long relationship. That one sentance makes it sound as if you will never find someone else because of how long this one relationship was. It's going to get better, 3 years is not forever, and you will find someone else and be happy.
Anyone else think that A sounds like his ex? They both would not accept the relationship was over, they both would not stop calling their ex and they both had affairs with people who were in relationships.
This kinda slowly killed my faith in humanity. When she said they spent the night, I thought "oh, when OP told him to deal with her, he had a g rated convo all night." She said there were photos, "oh, maybe he fell asleep and she staged them?"
But no. The ex's craziness put me off my game, but I should have known.
He should just go back to his ex and leave OP alone.
I guess she's too unhinged even for him. That's why she's a side piece.
"Shouldn't throw away three years" that's not her friends' choice to make and it's gross as hell that her friends tried to gang up and bully her back into a relationship. That's horrific.
2nd story: I bet there is a tiktok about him rejecting her and friendzoned her
Dunno why the EX gf is so smug at breaking the marriage up to get the man. She's now the sloppy seconds after OP!
he will 100% get into an abusive and toxic relationship with the ex gf since he has no one left, i cant imagine going from having a great fiance and friends and family to being alone with some unhinged psycho girl
Technology is great. Getting left on read, never to be spoken to again is one of the most fantastic feelings of emptiness.
Story 1: Exactly why i don’t believe in bachelor/bachelorette parties
She stole your PROBLEM not your MAN
im so so happy for OP.. i can't imagine how devastating it is to be betrayed like that 😢 i hope she's happy and well!
Story 2 is exactly why I'm afraid of dating. I don't really do the whole social media thing but knowing that I could just be some girl's tiktok punchline or twitter remark will always make me wary. It's not that pre-tiktok world was any better. I lived with a bunch of women in my third year of uni, and while they were otherwise normal, kind, intelligent people, they would discuss the performance of the guys they slept with in a little council. Like, it just felt dirty, but that's how some women are. I refuse to be some punchline like that.
Cheaters are so stupidly selfish that they can't even realize that their selfishness is the cause of their misery.
They should stop wasting other people's time and their own.
"My best friend said I should share this story with reddit"
lmaoooooo
OP needs to ditch any of those "friends" that think "she let ex win" what is there to win? The shittiest person ever award? Her and ex fiance both deserve it. And he has NO right to be angry. Whether he cheated or not, inviting his ex to the wedding behind OP"s back is more than enough reason to leave him.
In the first five minutes I knew that man never left his ex alone…… you made it hella easy for him by not being a confrontational person……
I love that the ex gf still didnt get A in the end. Lol.
I swear all of these are made by some therapist using an AI, every one ends with the OP singing praises for therapy
Everyone on reddit things therapy is the most amazing thing that a person can do and that every single person on the planet should be going to therapy all the time.
Dude. Thearapy is really helpful for anyone going through a tough time.
this girl was literally cheated on and had her marriage ruined. sure they all praise therapy but therapy actually works for some people! shocking isn’t it!
@@AriaRosettiI'm agree that it's helpful, but I observe that more and more people think therapy is the solution for their problems instead of... IDK, doing better life choices, or counting much more on good relationships instead of ventimg on internet or doing the effort to improve...
I'm not talking about this case in particular, but I cringed when she said "I don't understand why I stopped going to" Like... Yikes, because you were well mentally, and it's not healthy to depend on therapy to live a normal life?
@@genzi78514you talk as if therapy is a drug. It's just engaging in conversation with someone who has studied the human mentality and sociality and can help you make sense of what you went through, make plans that YOU have to stick to for your own betterment. Some people can do this by venting to a friend and getting their thoughts in order. Some just need to vent on the internet to impartial strangers and get some validation. Some need and/or prefer pros. And quitting therapy could mean that you've undergone your path of self betterment, learning your morals and boundaries and how to enforce them while not hurting others, or that just like once we see a medicine is working we stop using it without realising that we're ok because we are continually taking the medicine (how many people go back to the ER with severe infections and go "I don't understand, I took the antibiotic until I felt better" and don't realise the antibiotic was allowing them to live good while doing its job?). Of course some people grow attached to therapy-that means they're not undergoing the right sort of therapy. And while therapy is meant to rehabilitate you as an independent member of society, unfortunately some people will need lifelong help, like survivors of great trauma. Don't just discredit psychological problems and help.
Ex gf took out the trash tbh.. and no she didn't win. He wasn't much of a prize😂..
The best friend of the first story is an mvp. Rare to find these days.
If your partner is still in contact with their ex (if no kids are involved and no other reason) then he/she is definitely cheating. Unfortunately some people really suck!!
Message to the crazy ex, "even after you revealed your affair he tried to chase after ME, he's spent these past few weeks trying to win ME back. You might think you've leashed him, but that dog is never going to be yours."
Story 2, no its not normal for a woman not to want to go out with a man she likes. The only ones who they dont want to go out with are those who they are not attracted to or those that they are settling for. OP isnt a stranger to her and she has known him enough to know whether or not he is her type. A woman only needs to have a single conversation with a man for her emotions to tell her that he is her type .
OP needs to be honest, he was hurt by what she posted and embarrassed by the fact that all his friends in their group know that she was never interested in him. Had she posted how much she had a good time and had he seen that first then he wouldnt be ending things or feeling what he feels. He also isnt wrong for feeling that way and he should be allowed to be upset with her over it.
Her reaching out to him by saying that she had a good time was likely a result of her friends telling him what a Nice Guy he is and she should give him a chance (it never ends well for the Nice Guys who women settle for). More than anything she was likely curious as to why he didnt reach out to her since in her eyes he must be so madly in love with her that he should have contacted her to tell her how amazing his time with her was. She probably thought that her text about how much fun she had would give him sleepless nights.
It is delusion to think that the date some how made her realise how good of a man he is for her. She had more than enough time to figure that out yet she still didnt want to go out with him. When a woman is attracted to a man then even if he doesnt do anything for her she will still want him and if she isnt then even if he gives her a kidney she wont suddenly be attracted to him. She might stay out of obligation, sleep with him or even marry him but he would never be her type and because of this she would only be able to give him the bare minimum in and out of bed. She will also not be considerate with how her actions affect him hence why she didnt think twice of posting that. She will also come up with rules/restrictions that apply only to him since in her emotions are telling her that since he isnt her type he should be happy with whatever she gives him and he shouldnt have to do more.
Mannn u nailed it . Your comment should be pinned for that story .⭐️
I’m good with confrontations with bullies. Thanks sister for giving me practice
Nobody is ever at fault for leaving a cheater
I think the guy in the second story was way too honest. Don't explain yourself like that. You could just have said "I had a good time too, but I don't think we "clicked". Thank you though.".
I really don't understand why people sacrifice their happiness and family just because of s** never marry and have a committed relationship with another person if your still obsessed with casual s**
Good for OOP. Although selling the engagement ring may be a serious issue since it is technically her Ex’s property. Being a pos cheater doesn’t grant ownership of engagement items.
That's actually not true. The engagement ring is a gift before marriage. It's now hers, and she can decide whether or not she wants to give it back.
Story 2: why do people feel the need to post everything? She screwed up a potentially good thing before it even started because she’s the my life is public type. Maybe she was just using him, either way she’s a terrible person.
Woah, I don’t agree with it either but all she said was she didn’t want to go. I feel that way a lot of times when agreeing to go out but sometimes find myself glad that I did. The difference is she put her feelings out on social media, the dude does it on reddit (granted has more anonymity) but it doesn’t necessarily make her a terrible person.
@@ehrlington I think you’ve neglected the ramifications here cause you’ve put yourself in her shoes, she publicly posted this on a non anonymous platform. She embarrassed him publicly and the she said she enjoyed the date but gladly left him on read after he rightfully pointed out what she did, she didn’t even apologize and she isn’t a terrible person? A person with no remorse after embarrassing you to hundreds of people, is that a good person?
Put yourself in his shoes would you like it if someone did that to you, didn’t even apologize or acknowledge that it was wrong or even just takedown the video?
@@thetruesimplegrid If her mistake was to post it publicly, I did say I didn’t agree with it. I just don’t see how it makes her terrible and we don’t know her intentions for the post, a lot of people post stuff online just because it helps them feel better or maybe she was nervous and it helped her mentally prepare. I don’t agree with it, but don’t see how it makes her terrible? As far as I know she didn’t say anything horrible about him either or to their friend group. And true she didn’t apologize, maybe she was embarrassed, but she didn’t get angry or turn the blame on him, maybe not saying anything at all was the better decision. You could say she lacks consideration, and that’s where she lacks maturity. I don’t agree with it and that’d be a dealbreaker for me too, but I also know a lot of people who don’t say thank you when I open the door for them; doesn’t make them terrible they just never learned proper manners. Who knows maybe she learned a little something after reading that text? We don’t know but if she did would she still be “terrible?”
Sure what she did was callous, inconsiderate and hurt someone, you never done anything similar? Does that make you terrible? It was just an unfortunate sequence of events and OP learned that they wouldn’t work out because of it, and handled it maturely.
@@ehrlington look I respect what you’re trying to do and that rationalizing her pov is important to you. I greatly appreciate that you’d do this. Despite that, I explained why it makes her terrible person already, so allow me reiterate myself.
1. She posted it publicly and embarrassed him to hundreds of people. Nothing can justify that. Such things can also have damaging consequences on those around you.
2. She showed zero remorse.
3. The least she could’ve done was to take the video down after the date if she enjoyed it. She instead let it stay up. Does that tell you she enjoyed the date? There’s some cognitive dissonance there.
No, I take accountability for what I do wrong that is the difference between me and her. I’m definitely sure you also do that’s makes you a good person. We’ve all been terrible people at one point but it’s only when we acknowledge that we are and take accountability that we change and aren’t such.
I’d reconsider had she taken the video down and just apologized. She didn’t, that’s the fact. We can go in circles about it but she did a terrible thing and made it even worse by lacking accountability and you know it too.
@@thetruesimplegrid agree to disagree, but imo terrible act =/= terrible person
Story 2: I believe the girl contacted OP and saying she enjoyed the date only because OP never bothered to ask her out on a 2nd date, therefore her ego was bruised. If OP had contacted her earlier, she'd ghost him then and there.
I have to say that the comment on “ let the ex girlfriend win”, win? Win what him? If his cheating ass is the prize then let her win 😒, and you go and find someone worthy to build a foundation with and get old with
I subbed to you this morning. I love these stories
That's what she get... now she feels silly
The 2nd story is reposted
this comment is lost in the others
Nah:) m here
nice try
Call me a treasure hunter then
found it
Thank god you dodged a bullet. At least you don’t have to get a divorce or worst that you don’t have kids
Honestly I’m glad that the guy went back to his EX-GF that woman did technically do OP a favor to a slight extent he truly was happier with his EX GF than with OP
Yeah buddy how could she post things online for the world to see.. You should complain about it online for the world to see.
Ex fiance sounds like a crazy like his ex gf...
the last story saying he's private and doesn't want to put anything out there. Then, he dumps it all out on the table. I mean you could had kept it to your self man.
People really think the ex "won"? LMAO 😂😂😂 bro the ex gets a cheater who now hates her guys deep down haha she will forever be known as a homewrecker she ruined her own life
I don’t know story two I find it ironic how he’s posting it on Reddit
6:00 it was his fault too
Probability this is fiction = 95.9678%
why is it such a specific number? do you like, calculate these stories or something
@@gabrielsfilms2086No, he's just an incel that only believes cheating woman stories.
when OP magically gets a new job ASAP, especially "double the pay," it's sure as hell fake.
yeah so im done with story reposts, and im done with you using the same background gameplay recording you've used already for diff videos, so im gonna stop watching this channel
Last OP should've just ended the convo with "you're a cool person but we didn't click", not "So I saw your post and I don't like it but wish you luck in finding someone who's more into that lifestyle"
Disloyal friends: "don't throw away 3 years"
Me: mf, why did you think A did, when he cheated????
Story 2: so you're comfortable watching tiktoks of other people exposing their lives but you wouldn't want to date anyone who posted such a video? Okay then. That's a good example of NIMBY syndrome: Not In My Backyard. You're the kind of man who'll duck all sorts of girls until you're ready to settle down but expect your gfs to be virgins.
2nd story is a repost.
showing up with mini dress and too much makeup... this HAS to be in britain. XD
Story 2 is a repost?… why is there so much recycled content
Yo lemme help u make a discord server for ur viewers :)
I think you overreacted. You should of asked for proof. I would of married him anyway.
2) I think this is a bit of a over reaction. Im glad he has principals. However, I would give her an opportunity to explain before rejecting her.
If she wants to get a pep talk or goes to tiktok in order to get validation then it's ironic you posted this on redit.
What's there to explain? She didn't want to go on the date, posted about it, he saw it, got his feelings hurt and was uncomfortable with the fact that she liked to publicly post her inner thoughts/feelings to the point that their mutuals saw it, and let her know he didn't like it. He even wished her well. Best outcome for them both. There's no way a relationship would've worked between them.
Edit: And posting to reddit for advice (or to bounce talking points off of non-biased people anonymously) is not the same as going on tiktok with your whole face to talk about how you don't wanna go on a date with someone you accepted going on a date with knowing your mutual friends could likely see it and did.
There is nothing to explain and even if there was she still saw the text but chose not to respond.
She wasn't into him and she didnt care who saw the post because women in general are not considerate of the men that they are not attracted to.
Why she chose to waste his time/money by agreeing to go out with him is anyones guess but it was definately not because she was interested in him
He did the right thing by not having anything to do with her although he was wrong for saying all those nice things about her as if she is an angel. Ghosting her should have been the better option
AI again
yea this is fake. plus openly admitting to tryin to sell an engagement ring that is his not urs can get u in tough sht.
do u really want this guy to have cheated on u, then years later sue u for the ring theft, refusal of information of sell, and the now "emotional stress" of going years without it.
yea take ur L from being cheated on and give back the ring
Is that actually a thing? You learn something new everyday. I would have assumed that once the ring is given it becomes the property of the person it's given to. I guess this is why possession is, what, 3/4ths of the law?
@@Bingotaconot with engagement rings, since it was given to you with the promise of marriage but if you don't go through with the promise you have to give the ring back to the original owner. These laws are mostly there to protect family heirlooms, so that she can't just run off with a really old family ring. And engagement rings are also expensive
Depends on the state. Some states require to always give back the ring, some will argue the one who broke off the engagement forfeited the ring, and others will say that the ring belongs to the reciever no matter the circumstance.
For the 2nd story, from my experience it is unnecessary to have the decency of thinking up a soft landing for woman, most don't care anyway.
"My best day"
"Our dream wedding"
Sure.
Whats so cool about a wedding? It just seems like a narcissist's favorite thing because all the attention is focused, in my experience, usually on the bride.
Wanting some attention for a special day isnt so bad as long as they're not a bridezilla who only wants to show off
First 1
Story 2: the guy is so petty. Should've just confronted her right away and discuss why she was feeling that way, and if she did enjoy it, she could make a new post on how she felt after the date. Like come on.
You liked her, she liked you. Both liked the date and you let it go on something petty
He made it clear. Firstly, he is not comfortable with such exposure into social media, which is his personal choice and should be respected. Further, the lady didn't want to go to the date either in the first place but went anyway. So why should he talk to her for further occasions? Wasn't he humiliated? Didn't he respond respectfully?
@@sushobhanbanerjee9238 yet he posts the story on reddit, a form of social media
@@Stefan-10but reddit is anonymous its not the same 💀🙏
Dudes are so emotional these days. Why even tell her you saw the post and express your insecurities, just tell her you don’t want another date and leave it at that.
God forbid men have emotions I guess?
"He didn't give me reason to think he did anything."
*Proceeds to list a bunch of reasons she refused to take seriously*
Hahaha, if this story is fake, they at least got the female thought process down.
Honestly OP is overreacting, it was just a mistake and he was likley manipulated into it. A man can still love a woman and make such a mistake.
Regardless of who she dates there will be women that will want her man and even D is a potential rival. Is she always going to run away whenever she sees a rival
Wow, you are such a forgiving person.
It's good for any potential fiancé of yours to know that if they were to cheat on you by sleeping with an ex one week before the wedding, you would be willing to forgive them and still get married. Good on you for being so forgiving 👏
Tell me you cheated without telling me you cheated..
@@Amenimun 😂😂😂 Its never a mistake when a woman cheats and in the past they would be stoned for it
A cheating woman knew after the first date that the man that she was with isnt the type of guy who she will be submissive to, who will get stuck in her head even if they broke up or who she will always be loyal to. She just planned on using him from the start
The man on the other hand is just a victim of broke and hungry women. He was tricked into it and he still loves his wife
@@chaitraa2529 I've never cheated and I don't plan to.
When I'm with a girl she has to do it with me once every two days so I won't even have the energy to. The day that she doesnt want to is the day that we go back to being friends so I'm free to find a replacement
@@Business458
Well, that is certainly some twisted, misogynistic, Andrew Tate-like logic. The *grown-ass* man isn't a victim; he's a damn participant.
That's just a lot of incoherent ramblings. All cheaters suck ass, no matter the gender.
Why would you want him back? He was playing you, he was cheating on you. All I want to know is did you sue him n her? Did you make him pay for the whole wedding? He is a parasite.
Nope, the Exe didn’t win; All she was take OP’s unwanted trash back for herself, it’s no doubt that OP’s POS boyfriend will cheat on her too. It’s adorable she thinks that OP was being ‘dramatic’ being distraught over being cheated on. It’s pathetic how despite everything, she keeps babbles on about how she “won” and other bs. Like didn’t she get enough attention as a child or is she that sad and miserable with herself? She needs some friends if she thinks that harassing OP with her “victory” boosts her inflated ego. Honestly, she did OP a favor; She made OP open her eyes and narrowly escape a failed marriage. ATP, OP’s POS exe and his exe deserve each other