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  • Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
  • 00:00 1st story:
    AITAH for ruining my 16 year old daughters birthday because she bullied her stepsister (u/Separate_Gold3123 in r/AITAH)
    11:22 2nd story:
    Now I have won my husband back, I am leaving him. (u/WonHimBack-throwaway in r/TrueOffMyChest)
    21:42 3rd story:
    AITA for telling my MIL why I have vaseline next to my bed? (u/aita-vaseline in r/amitheasshole)
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  • @RepellentJeff
    @RepellentJeff Месяц назад +348

    So OP chooses his new stepdaughter over his bio daughter every time, and then decides to just go “Oh yeah, my new wife is pregnant.” and seriously expects her to believe that she’s still a priority.
    What an idiot. 😂

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 Месяц назад +35

      Agreed. Thank God, Emma's mom and stepdad have her back.😒

    • @InTheDemonsWake
      @InTheDemonsWake Месяц назад

      Y'all are just as dumb as Reddit is which I find super impressive ngl

    • @DizzyD1693
      @DizzyD1693 Месяц назад +5

      𝙰𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚍 𝚒𝚍𝚒𝚘𝚝

    • @calico_queen8976
      @calico_queen8976 Месяц назад +8

      Bruh, the fact Emma was cool with her stepmother's pregnancy more than her own daughter says enough. Sarah can't handle the attention not being on her.

    • @DizzyD1693
      @DizzyD1693 Месяц назад

      @@calico_queen8976 𝚃𝚛𝚞𝚎

  • @RandomTrinidadian
    @RandomTrinidadian Месяц назад +460

    Calling it now, OP is gonna be back on redit moaning about how is bio kid cut them off once she turns 18.

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 Месяц назад +19

      I'm thinking the same thing, too; that future is not very far.

    • @greatprofessorbias414
      @greatprofessorbias414 Месяц назад +43

      Better yet, in several years,he'll be on Reddit how he learned that her Stepdad will be walking her down the aisle in her wedding and not him

    • @Queenofthatank
      @Queenofthatank Месяц назад +19

      ​@@greatprofessorbias414n then the fact he's not a grandparent if she chooses to have children 😂

    • @jamestown8398
      @jamestown8398 Месяц назад +24

      “Why didn’t Emma invite me to her wedding? Why did security at the venue stop me from attending the wedding? Why did Emma ask her stepfather to walk her down the aisle? Why did I have to find out about the wedding from a cousin’s Facebook posts? Why won’t Emma or her husband let me meet my grandkids?”

    • @DizzyD1693
      @DizzyD1693 Месяц назад

      𝙸 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚜𝚎𝚎 𝚒𝚝 𝚗𝚘𝚠

  • @MyBlackPumpkinSoup
    @MyBlackPumpkinSoup Месяц назад +171

    Emma: You are a bad dad!
    Ex-wife: You are a bad dad!
    Family: You are a bad dad!
    Neighbors: You are a bad dad!
    Reddit: YOU ARE A BAD DAD
    OP: Nuh-uh

    • @mohamedemad2051
      @mohamedemad2051 Месяц назад +17

      Even his current wife that you went out of your way to kiss her and her daughter's feet said so, like jeezzz dude take a hint 😂😂😂

  • @cyndirankin
    @cyndirankin Месяц назад +187

    It's ok that the step daughter refused to invite his daughter, but when it turned around. Thats a no

  • @amyyaku5022
    @amyyaku5022 Месяц назад +271

    The added detail of Sarah having autism just makes OP worse. Parents sometimes choose the kid with certain conditions over even their biological children. We can either hope OP actually changes from this or OP screws up again and Emma cuts him out.

    • @alexcunningham1647
      @alexcunningham1647 Месяц назад +21

      I have autism its never an excuse excpet in the most extreme cases however in these cases they are not recognizable as "autistic" but possibly far worse and they generally act as such not having the capabilities to act how the Golden Child is acting

    • @Calories_To_Calibers
      @Calories_To_Calibers Месяц назад +9

      It’s probably a lie since he got flamed

    • @stirrednotshaken4837
      @stirrednotshaken4837 Месяц назад +6

      And I said SO? So, what if she is autistic? It's on her parents to help her navigate life situations, not enable them to be reliant on the disability (if that's the correct word to use, sorry if not).

    • @wandahaines7143
      @wandahaines7143 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@Calories_To_Calibersconveniently added I agree

  • @artemisia457
    @artemisia457 Месяц назад +154

    Bruh... As someone with autism, depression and anxiety all i can say is it's no one's responsibility but mine to learn navigating my relationships.

    • @callanightshade8079
      @callanightshade8079 Месяц назад +13

      Exactly!

    • @alexcunningham1647
      @alexcunningham1647 Месяц назад +12

      Thank you as an autistic person with about the same exact issues just throw in some very bad anger issues (and it's exactly the same) I completely understand that and agree that it's on the individual and not society or the family to get with the program and act properly

    • @topazcoyote5482
      @topazcoyote5482 Месяц назад +3

      I'm sure Sarah would have done fine with time and some sage advice. I wonder what the Dad has that causes him to rob and destroy birthday parties. XD

  • @FullMoonOctober
    @FullMoonOctober Месяц назад +70

    1st OP is an ass. He tells his daughter that her new stepsister has trouble making friends, tells her it's up to HER to help transition the stepsister into the new school and introduce her to new friends, and the daughter does it! Emma goes above and beyond to show Sarah support and friendship, trying to make sure she feels welcome and not left out, and Sarah's response is to say that she's not comfortable with Emma pushing the "sister thing". Which in itself isn't terrible--new stepsiblings don't always hit it off both ways at first, and it takes time for them to form a natural relationship.
    BUT, then when Emma backs off (like Sarah was saying she wanted) and doesn't want to hang out with her at school anymore (which means the friends that were close to Emma first would naturally go back to just hanging out with Emma alone), THEN Sarah suddenly feels like she's the victim? Sarah wanted Emma to stop pushing a relationship. Emma stopped. Now Sarah's upset that Emma isn't wanting to spend time with her? And OP thinks his daughter is bullying Sarah?? Emma did exactly what OP told her to do every step of the way--he can't be mad at her that it ended the way it did. Emma's comment about hoping she finally gets a sister out of the stepmother's pregnancy is heartbreaking, considering she seemed to genuinely want that from Sarah, from the beginning.

    • @spheres0082
      @spheres0082 Месяц назад +11

      Hope Emma keeps her boundaries firm with her bozo of a dad that is OP.

  • @cornbread12987
    @cornbread12987 Месяц назад +76

    No wonder this guy is divorced. #2 is on the way.

    • @reneeharper84
      @reneeharper84 Месяц назад +3

      Yep

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 Месяц назад +1

      The loser should’ve just got with someone who didn’t already have a kid, because he just wanted a convenient way to get rid of his bio kid because his stepkid“special” in his eyes (though I highly doubt Sarah has autism since he wanted to villainize Emma).

  • @hopelessromantic3786
    @hopelessromantic3786 Месяц назад +89

    Absolutely insane that he suggested OP had a brain tumor for wanting to leave the kind of guy capable of cheating on his postpartum wife.

    • @AnemoneEnemy
      @AnemoneEnemy Месяц назад +4

      To be fair, he didn't know that she knew he had an affair. All he saw was his wife showered him with love more and more and then BAM!! Idiot gets divorce papers for no reason.
      He probably should have put 2 and 2 together

    • @stirrednotshaken4837
      @stirrednotshaken4837 Месяц назад +4

      @@AnemoneEnemy Yea, he should have put 2 and 2 together to feel guilty for cheating on his wife and her having figured it out! I never understand how a person can cheat and not feel any guilt until it has consequences. They know they are doing something wrong and don't stop to think about what will happen WHEN they get caught.

    • @rubymeaddle
      @rubymeaddle Месяц назад +2

      Narc behavior

  • @kevinj1855
    @kevinj1855 Месяц назад +50

    Story 1: op is a useless little thief. He stole from his daughter, and deserves to be abandoned by everyone

  • @AkA553
    @AkA553 Месяц назад +51

    Emma is such a mature kid. I felt so proud of her that she is going to be such a beautiful strong lady who knows her worth. And people need to stop using mental disorders like autism to justify their mean ass behaviour kids or adults. If one is unable to control their behaviour they better live isolated or in mental asylum. Ps i am not talking about Sarah i don't know whats her problem

  • @billcutting2681
    @billcutting2681 Месяц назад +58

    It’s actually a happy ending and I hope that kid can stay far away from him and his new mess. Kind of feel bad for the new baby They are bringing into that.

    • @stirrednotshaken4837
      @stirrednotshaken4837 Месяц назад +5

      Definitely because Sarah has Main Character syndrome. She's already upset about the new baby. What's she going to do when the baby arrives? Better make sure she is never left alone with it!

    • @NessaEllenesse
      @NessaEllenesse 29 дней назад

      I agree. I am very concerned about the baby's health. OP should probably look into why Sarah's bio dad ditching her. It's possible her bio dad ditched her for a stepsibling and Sarah is taking her anger out on Emma

  • @Queenofthatank
    @Queenofthatank Месяц назад +42

    Lmao so Sarah can exclude Emma but Emma can't exclude Sarah? Lmfao can't wait for OP to b n moan that he lost his bio daughter 😂

  • @audreyyyyyyyyyyt
    @audreyyyyyyyyyyt Месяц назад +72

    Please do more of the delusional op stories, they are super interesting

  • @wickedashley
    @wickedashley Месяц назад +20

    Post partum wife is a petty queen and I love her. I hope she’s thriving now.

  • @kizo_wotw4717
    @kizo_wotw4717 Месяц назад +96

    Story 2:
    Op: I'm not a villain, I'm a super villain.
    Husband: What's the difference?
    Op: The presentation!

    • @wickedashley
      @wickedashley Месяц назад +18

      LITERALLY. She said “hold my beer. Watch this” 🤣🤣

    • @Sameer-es9vs
      @Sameer-es9vs Месяц назад +7

      MEGAMIND!

    • @nick-brothwood
      @nick-brothwood Месяц назад +1

      Guns n Roses starts playing in the background.

  • @rubymeaddle
    @rubymeaddle Месяц назад +7

    Okay so
    The vibe I'm getting is Sarah is understandably traumatized by her father being absent and is clinging to OP because he wants to be a dad to her. OP stepping into that role is also not a bad thing.
    The issue is Sarah doesn't want to share her dad. That's why she's trying to drive Emma away.
    Emma isn't the one who needs to be in therapy: Sarah is. Emma is actually very mature in all of this.

    • @user-ed4ur2yv1e
      @user-ed4ur2yv1e Месяц назад +2

      You're right.
      Sarah should be in therapy because she has some serious issues but Emma should also because of this traumatic experience to prevent any future problems

  • @MissyRose94
    @MissyRose94 Месяц назад +24

    I have an autistic child, and a neurotypical child. While it is nice when my younger child includes his autistic brother, I do not force him to share his friends. You cannot coddle the neurodivergent child at the expense of your other children, or vice versa. Both children deserve their physical and emotional needs met, both children deserve your attention and love, and you need to do whatever it takes to make that happen. With my kids, I realized my younger kid needed a space that was all his own, where his brother had no control over and that he wouldn't need to compromise on. So I gave up my bedroom and slept in the living room for a year and half until we could get into a 3 bedroom. I also have all 3 of in therapy.

  • @jamestown8398
    @jamestown8398 Месяц назад +19

    Story #2
    I’m glad OP told ex MIL the reason for the divorce, and that the news spread. I hope the family drives Karen out, because I don’t want her to be a stepmother to OP’s kid.

    • @stirrednotshaken4837
      @stirrednotshaken4837 Месяц назад

      I find it sus that MIL is all contrite and sorrowful at the end when she was all smug telling OP about her husband seeing someone else! I get the feeling that maybe MIL is one of those women who hates any woman her son gets serious with.

  • @topazcoyote5482
    @topazcoyote5482 Месяц назад +20

    Sarah: I don't want the other sibling to be in my party with my friends, who are probably also her friends, cuz she's too much.
    Dad: Shucks. Ah well
    Emma: okay, I get it. /Gives her space/
    Sarah: I'm such a smol bean. Daddy, why did Emma isolate ME from her party? She doesn't want anything to do with me. Play the violin for me while I cry.
    Dad: /proceeds to steal presents/ tough shit, kiddo. I'm donating your money.
    Mom: what the hell?!
    Emma: 😦

    • @Octavia-sd6tp
      @Octavia-sd6tp Месяц назад

      Me: *Appears from the firey depths of Hell,yeets him in the car and drives to Hell*
      Dad:What? Where-Where am I?
      Me:Welcome to Hell,MOTHER F**KER *Evilly laughs*
      Dad:*CRIES LIKE A LITTLE BABY B!+CH*
      Emma and her mother:...
      Emma's mother:Why did I ever marry that guy?
      Sarah's mom:On second thought,I wanna divorce.
      (This is a joke,don't take this seriously pls 😅)

  • @lazallewillemse3617
    @lazallewillemse3617 Месяц назад +19

    Story 2: He's not sorry for what he did. He's only sorry because he got caught

  • @drifter139
    @drifter139 Месяц назад +5

    OP is an idiot to think Emma wants to be near him. she is 16 which means she can choose if she wants to visit him or not and considering how he treated her, he can forget seeing her for a long time unless he forces his way into wherever she is

  • @smsff7
    @smsff7 Месяц назад +17

    OP is seriously TAH and his own daughter is going to go NC when she can/ OP can only blame himself though with his do-over family he might not care

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 Месяц назад +6

    OP should understand the neurodivergent people can still be manipulative and bullies. Don't assume they can't be

  • @moon7shinev150
    @moon7shinev150 Месяц назад +17

    I have autism and have a hard time making friends and to be honest I choose to be alone but even I know not to use people

  • @shadout
    @shadout Месяц назад +12

    Story 3: MIL made the joke. OP got the laugh.

  • @lynettemacdonald3957
    @lynettemacdonald3957 Месяц назад +6

    Another lousy father, dump your bio kids for stepkid ,then make another kid so your daughter will been more excluded from you.

  • @michellemurry2180
    @michellemurry2180 Месяц назад +30

    I knew the Autism or something akin would be coming because that's excuse and justification. There is no accountability for anything . And the cliche, I showed her the post 🙄

  • @DragonLawyer
    @DragonLawyer Месяц назад +8

    This is such a nitpick but it makes me laugh how he starts out his story “Ok my MIL! Or actually I will start with my wife Tara.” It’s like dude, you can just delete the first sentence instead of correcting yourself lol

    • @DragonLawyer
      @DragonLawyer Месяц назад +1

      It’s like that Elton John song “Your Song” that has a line “if I was a sculptor, but then again, no” it’s like, just use the eraser John 😂

  • @ianmoritzplatapino3684
    @ianmoritzplatapino3684 Месяц назад +13

    Story 2 why did he took him.back. once a cheater always a cheater. Glad she kicked him to the curb and divorced him

    • @HeoBaby24
      @HeoBaby24 Месяц назад +6

      it's called that get back

  • @captaingramcrackergrams5990
    @captaingramcrackergrams5990 Месяц назад +3

    Op really tried to buy his daughter back after being a fucl up of a dad lmao

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +2

    EMMA SHOULD ABSOLUTELY BEEN PAID 4. FREE NANNY !

  • @oz-sixx1622
    @oz-sixx1622 Месяц назад +2

    s2 love how mil tried throwing $hit in op's face but op just turned the fan and made it go right back on her.

  • @theexpertbc1175
    @theexpertbc1175 Месяц назад +6

    Story 1:
    OP: I realize my mistake of choosing my step daughter of 2 years over my bio daughter and will spend my entire life making it up to her
    Also OP: My gf is pregnant and we're moving to her home town. My daughter I wronged isn't coming with us. So I will be spending all my time with my step daughter and new child.
    Also OP in a few years: Dear Reddit why wont my daughter talk to me? SHe wont invite me to her wedding to walk me down the isle. I don't know why.
    Story 2: I will never understand why OP wanted to keep the fact she was divorcing cause her husband cheated to herself. Her deciding to keep it to herself paints her as the bad guy and him as the victim who's being divorced for no reason. Put him on blast!! TELL THE TRUTH!!! Dont keep it a secret cause then you'll be the bad guy to your family, his family, mutual friends etc.

  • @mimiwhite1963
    @mimiwhite1963 Месяц назад +7

    STORY1 You cant make up for being a crap father by buying stuff. THIS Dad is a POS

  • @lisaclark7810
    @lisaclark7810 Месяц назад +4

    S 1. Op, Sarah needs to learn how to behave in public, and family with her disability. Counseling for a start, her mom and you correcting her every time she isn't doing good. She needs to learn this, that's why her new friends don't have anything to do with her she doesn't understand so teach her

  • @MrKy85919
    @MrKy85919 Месяц назад +4

    His next story will be My Bio child no longer speaks to me and won't invite me to her wedding.

  • @user-ed4ur2yv1e
    @user-ed4ur2yv1e Месяц назад +4

    Sarah didn't like how emma "forced a relationship" between them so now she has to understand that sarah comes with a pack and a pack can't be sold separately. If she wants Emma's friends she has to understand she has to be peacful with Emma and she can't hurt her like that, especially since she wasn't mean like most step siblings but actually was really excited. Emma doesn't have to be friends and tolerate seeing her stepsister in school if she didn't consider her a friend and didn't even talk to her before uninviting her.
    If she wants friends she has to either apologise and apriciate her being excited or make friends on her own.
    Also op is the biggest jerk. Why was it ok to uninvite a stepsister because she was too friendly but not the one who did that first.

    • @rubymeaddle
      @rubymeaddle Месяц назад +3

      Sounds like Emma isn't even that bad about it, she accepted Sarah wanted space and Sarah got upset that her actions had consequences

  • @the83rdtrombonist60
    @the83rdtrombonist60 Месяц назад +12

    Story 3: MIL is trash. Bottom line

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 Месяц назад +2

    At 16, nah dude therapy won't fix this

    • @rubymeaddle
      @rubymeaddle Месяц назад +2

      16 isn't too late the problem is he's putting the wrong kid in therapy.
      Sarah needs it, trying to fix Emma isn't going to end up with the outcome he wants

  • @tasiashiraori
    @tasiashiraori Месяц назад +2

    1st Story : Be grateful OP, Emma is a mature girl who realize her Daddy is weak-beta who try to become shiny knight for his new family (even his new wife know you're wrong)

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 Месяц назад +3

    Why do men ask how much they hurt you? That's such a stupid question. Like do you keep a running tab on the women that you e hurt in the past? And what kind of scale would you even use for that. So weird

  • @peshivirginflower7
    @peshivirginflower7 Месяц назад +2

    Just by title op is BIG AH another bio child that will never have contact after 18

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +1

    REALLY ? SO DAMN. WORRIED ABOUT SARA ! SARA HAS OWN FATHER

    • @rubymeaddle
      @rubymeaddle Месяц назад

      Her father isn't in her life, OP isn't wrong for wanting to be a dad to Sarah he's wrong for playing favorites

  • @erichooper2794
    @erichooper2794 Месяц назад +5

    Op1 is a fucking thief

  • @failingartist3524
    @failingartist3524 Месяц назад +11

    Op a garbage parent

  • @MistressOP
    @MistressOP Месяц назад +2

    S2: I always recomend after big life changes to go to couples therapy. always go to couples therapy. Be a freakin grown up before you do weirdo stuff. You did nothing wrong he could have talk to you about it. You have 0 guilt about this. If he offered therapy to work it out and you said no. Then I'm like JFk quote here "Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable." Not saying I agree with cheaters but I'm never sure what people think is going to happen if your wife or husband says lets go to couples and you keep saying no. It's like just end the marriage now. (GET STD TESTED PLZ) I'd never have sex with a cheater.

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +1

    EMMA SHOULD HAVE BEEN PAID 4. BABYSITTER 2. SARA ! BABYSITTING A PUSHY. UNWANTED GIRL ! IS A HARD JOB ! EMMA SHOULD HAVE BEEN PAID 4. EVERY MINUTE ! SHE HAD 2. SPENT WITH SARA

  • @crawdaddy2004
    @crawdaddy2004 Месяц назад +1

    1:03 I’m so confused. OP went to Katie’s to speak with Sarah?
    I’ve listened to this bit several times, and I’m pretty sure OP switched the names around.

  • @jemase7931
    @jemase7931 Месяц назад +1

    Emma is not Sarah's emotional support animal. Give Emma back her money and stop being a jerk.

  • @boneymeroney2674
    @boneymeroney2674 Месяц назад +9

    April Fools! 😂

  • @lillia2479
    @lillia2479 16 дней назад

    So... why do I have to share this video with my fries if I like listening to these kinds of stories? 😂

  • @Mischa21xo
    @Mischa21xo Месяц назад

    Listening to so many of these stories, it truly is unbelievable how many grown-a$$ adults have such a hard time standing up for themselves or dealing with confrontation. So many pathetic people, it really is unreal. Why on Earth would you be afraid to confront somebody?! Especially somebody like family or a co-worker... would you rather continue to deal with their bs? What's the worst that can happen? Grow tf up!

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад

    SARA IST HER SISTER ! UNBELIEVABLE !

  • @namixless9732
    @namixless9732 Месяц назад +1

    1st story: im autistic. i dont try to use people to get freinds and then ruin their life. autism is not an excuse

  • @jadedconversationgrabyourb9918
    @jadedconversationgrabyourb9918 Месяц назад

    At least you came to your senses before you lost your kid

  • @purplebanana6420
    @purplebanana6420 Месяц назад +1

    Second story bro is a cheater through and through cheats on wife now hes cheating on his gf crazy

  • @aleksandarvil5718
    @aleksandarvil5718 Месяц назад +1

    Story #3:
    OP = NTA
    OP’s Monster-in-Law / Tara’s "mother" throws insults & innuendos around, BUT she can't take it !!!

  • @Tekirai
    @Tekirai Месяц назад

    Welp this all happened cause Sarah wanted distance so she got what she wanted. Can’t be mad that Emma gave Sarah what she wanted and honestly Emma is right she doesn’t have control what people choose. Like yeah relationships can’t be forced but Sarah can’t be sad now that Emma gave her her space she wanted and told people what happened 🤷🏽

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад

    KARMA WILL NEVER ! EVER ! STOP 🛑. VISITING FATHER 4. MISTREAT &. STEALING 4. DAUGHTER 4. ANOTHER MANS DAUGHTER

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +1

    YOU MADE DAUGHTER PRETEND 2. LIKE HER ? WHEN NONE OF OF EMMAS FRIENDS WANTS 2. BE HER FRIEND ! CANNOT MAKE DAUGHTER ! BABYSITTING SARA !

  • @edgarallanalejandro641
    @edgarallanalejandro641 Месяц назад

    In the 2nd store her thinking is stupid if she doesn't tell the truth it just makes her look like the bad person in the brake up and when the son grows up the story of how the parents brake up who'd paint her in a horrible light because they can say she must have cited.

  • @johnnyhall9154
    @johnnyhall9154 Месяц назад +1

    Story 2, nah, you just had a kid and we're dealing with ppd. Neglect only occurred due to this and it should have been the husband putting aside his needs to help you get better.

  • @STAYATINYARMYSIN
    @STAYATINYARMYSIN Месяц назад

    Can we talk about Zoey? Usually the stepparents are major a$$es to their partners kid yet she respected Emma’s decision to leave Sarah out of her party , she took her gifts back and told her husband she deserves an apology from him. She didn’t put her child above Emma and wasn’t pushing her husband to either , Emma had a good relationship with her stepdad and stepmom yet OP and Sarah are the only ones with a problem. Zoey needs to tread carefully though , just as OP choose Sarah over his own bio daughter he damn sure will choose Sarah over their own bio child and she/he will feel what Emma felt for the rest of their life if OP doesn’t change.

  • @lenhoukamau1097
    @lenhoukamau1097 Месяц назад

    Team Emma!!

  • @shadowcollins4589
    @shadowcollins4589 9 дней назад

    You know what a mistake is? Or even youthful foolishness?
    Deciding to "water ski" but only on pavement behind a car on a skateboard.
    Cheating is NEVER an accident.
    Like you just fell over and over again, totally on accident.
    A few things to not use as a reason to tolerate bad behavior
    1. Don't say "i was just waiting for them to grow out of it" instead of correcting the problem and nipping it in the bud
    2. Saying you don't want a child to be raised in a broken home/ without a father or mother.
    You will HURT that child.
    I know someone who stayed with their husband because they wanted their daughter to have a dad. The mom grew up without a dad so she decided she wanted the opposite but she didn't want to admit that the husband was abusive. He hit her and he hit the little girl but she stayed with him so the daughter wouldn't grow up in a broken home.
    Pfffft. Now the kid has a lot of trauma. She's 11 years old and Lord knows how many mental illnesses she has.
    3. Ignoring red flags. Like inappropriate behavior with someone.
    4. giving a cheater another chance. Don't do it.
    5. If someone is verbally, mentally or emotionally abusive, leave.
    They're not gonna change.
    Believe me i was married for 15 years to an abusive narcissist. I just never left because i couldn't see it since he never hit me.
    The verbal abuse comes before the physical. Eventually they will hit you.
    Don't "wait and hope they change" never it's not gonna happen
    6. Staying with someone because you've been together for so long.
    Pfffft. If you wanna stay in abusive relationship and waste more time go ahead
    It's ok to start over!
    Would you rather be continued to be abused because you don't wanna waste the miserable years you spent with them already?
    Or would you rather be free and more at peace mentally even if your heart is hurting?
    I've been on both sides. I left. It was hard but i started over at 35.
    My life is better

  • @dsdsd9955
    @dsdsd9955 21 день назад

    So emma his child that he tried to demonize with his wording in both the story and the update. He really tried to make he child seem cold and robotic while Sarah is crying about the new baby yikes

  • @Squirreltasticqueen
    @Squirreltasticqueen Месяц назад

    Story 1: the crux of the issue for me is that one of the friends of the bio kid was mocking the step kid for being poor and bio kid didnt do anything about it. Id want a serious talk with my bio kid after that. (Also with step kid about the bullying and how teens are fickle and its hard to manage relationships at that age)
    But everything else is a yeesh. And Some of yall think a bio kid is worth more. Step kid is his responsibility too. They are married now thats his child and responsibility now. Grow up.
    Also that last comment is so stupid. "Shes got issues beyond autism" yes she does he said that. And even so. If the man i saw as my father was having a bio kid i would feel replaced because she, like all of the youtube comment section, feels like shes a temporary kid and not as important as a bio kid, id feel pretty damn bad. That comment poster needs to eat grass we are beyond touching grass at this point.

  • @moon7shinev150
    @moon7shinev150 Месяц назад +4

    So wait op tried to cancel a party his ex is the one throwing and tried to keep gifts his family sent away from his daughter. What did he think would happen that his ex and family would let it slide

  • @AlekzanderTamayo-ln8bf
    @AlekzanderTamayo-ln8bf Месяц назад

    Gay OP's in TIFU stories: Absolute arseholes
    Gay OP's in AITA stories: Absolute Paladins.

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад

    SARA NOT HAVE PEOPLE THAT LOVE 💕. HER ! ITS ABSOLUTELY NOT EMMAS FAULT ! MAKING OWN DAUGHTER ! PRETEND 2. BE SISTERS ! WITH GIRL ! ABSOLUTELY ! NOBODY LIKES OR LOVES ?? FATHER IS SICKENING ! THAT GIRL ISNT YOUR DAUGHTER !

  • @VetaRoberts-sj7sw
    @VetaRoberts-sj7sw Месяц назад

    Yta.

  • @InTheDemonsWake
    @InTheDemonsWake Месяц назад

    Reddit literally making up their own narrative for story one, funny as fuck. The ending comments are so laughable and absurd. Well, its the dumbest site on the internet for a reason.

  • @ashleyfowler1487
    @ashleyfowler1487 Месяц назад +1

    Unless I'm missing something and there was way more favoritism going on than explained, I simply do not understand everyone's reactions saying the dad is a horrible man. The entire situation is so rotten and OP and Emma's reactions to slights are so far over the top that I've got whiplash.
    From what I understand, Sarah is autistic, was overwhelmed by Emma's desire for a sister and needed time away from her with old friends that she hadn't seen in a long while. Emma had been 'pushy' with the sister talk. Sarah went along with it because she wanted to 'keep the peace.' There are so many stories about kids expressing this exact same sentiment about step siblings and step parents who everyone will tell that its ok to feel this way. That they should take their time to come to terms with the new family and are not obligated to cater to their new families feelings.
    The difference is that they're also not in a position in which the entirety of their new friend group is dependent on not pissing their new stepsibling off either. Nor are they autistic and have a much harder time navigating complicated and uncomfortable social situations. Sarah made a request, and explained her reasoning. It was a request that would hurt feelings. Stepdad took her feelings seriously, but completely fumbled in resolving it. Or maybe he didn't, maybe he explained it exactly like this, that Sarah was overwhelmed and needed distance, I don't know. His mistake is not getting the girls together to talk it out, his mistake is not explaining that feeling would be hurt by this decision. Even then he's a step parent and his job was to manage his own child, while Zoey was meant to manage hers.
    As for Emma she VERY understandably hurt and upset at the exclusion. She very much wanted Sarah as a sister. She cared for Sarah, she made sure Sarah had new friends, she had Sarah's back. Her only fault was caring too much. She had every right to exclude Sarah from her birthday, that is simply a consequence of excluding Emma. However I cannot believe everyone is glossing over the fact that Emma took this to an entirely new level.
    Emma REFUSED to even let Sarah apologize, REFUSED to talk it out, and REFUSED to have anything else to do with her. Emma told all those friends that she introduced Sarah to, to ignore her as well. Then the ones that still stuck with her were told to "make a choice" between the girls to attend a birthday party. Then while Emma and niece were IN FRONT OF SARAH they started to brag about the party, then mocked Sarah for not having as good of a party. I'm not entirely sure what presents has to to do with Sarah being hurt that her paternal side of the family doesn't acknowledge she exists, but even if she was hurt about presents, its just the thing that broke the camels back after from what I can see 3 MONTHS of isolation. All it took was one freaking birthday party for Emma completely flip from "sister" to bully. The minute Sarah asked for space, expressed discomfort at being pushed into a sister role she wasn't ready for, Emma turned nasty. Not getting invited to a fking birthday party is not an excuse to isolate someone and bully them relentlessly.
    I do not buy the crap that Emma just "explained" why she was ignoring Sarah to her friends. You do not explain that sort of thing without wanting sympathy and for that matter getting people especially teenage girls to join in. I do not buy the crap that she didn't make people choose her I do not buy the crap that ALL of the people who had befriended Sarah chose to stop speaking to her over a fking birthday party. Something more was said to them for them to flip so completely like that. There is no way that Sarah could be COMPLETELY isolated without some seriously manipulative BS at play.
    Then Emma completely buried the lead by saying that OP couldn't be mad Sarah wasn't invited to the party, and painting this whole situation as if it was about Sarah being a hypocrite about being invited to a party, and not that Sarah is being bullied.
    The the fking statement of "You win, he's your dad now. But watch your back bitch!" Floors me.
    There is some serious stuff not being said here, and while I do not know what. Something is not right about this whole situation. There is manipulation going on with either Sarah or Emma and I do not believe for even a second that its Sarah. Especially not with that last comment to her, not with the niece taunting Sarah in front of OP, and not with her initial reaction to not being invited being to simply ignore Sarah even when she was trying to apologize.
    If I were to ever be in this situation, were to find out that my child was isolating and bullying another, no matter who they are. I would flip my shit too. I would go completely scorched earth until I knew for absolute certainty that the bullying had stopped. All of this crap over a fking birthday party is unacceptable.

  • @christinebakker3935
    @christinebakker3935 Месяц назад +1

    Loved that last story. It made me chuckle. Funny guy.

  • @Emil_LLscpfan
    @Emil_LLscpfan Месяц назад +3

    Day 191 of commenting to help secretvoices

  • @DizzyD1693
    @DizzyD1693 Месяц назад

    𝙾𝚙 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍𝚗𝚟𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚗 𝚊 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝

  • @wickedashley
    @wickedashley Месяц назад +54

    Post partum wife is a petty queen and I love her. I hope she’s thriving now.

    • @JLN41211
      @JLN41211 Месяц назад +5

      Same, but I feel like she could’ve done more damage by telling him she knew about his infidelity.

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo Месяц назад

      @@JLN41211 I think it's better that MIL is spreading the news.

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад

    YOU MADE DAUGHTER PRETEND 2. LIKE HER ? WHEN NONE OF OF EMMAS FRIENDS WANTS 2. BE HER FRIEND ! CANNOT MAKE DAUGHTER ! BABYSITTING SARA !

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад

    SARA NOT HAVE PEOPLE THAT LOVE 💕. HER ! ITS ABSOLUTELY NOT EMMAS FAULT ! MAKING OWN DAUGHTER ! PRETEND 2. BE SISTERS ! WITH GIRL ! ABSOLUTELY ! NOBODY LIKES OR LOVES ?? FATHER IS SICKENING ! THAT GIRL ISNT YOUR DAUGHTER