The Hardest Video I've Ever Had to Make

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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
  • Update from the river about a tragic accident I was a part of this year. I touch on how I'm coping with the loss and moving forward.
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Комментарии • 401

  • @lysan1445
    @lysan1445 10 месяцев назад +71

    I am so sorry for your loss! When you showed the place in the video, I thought, "How can someone get stuck there? How is it that he couldn't free himself or at least be freed by you?" I paddle around bridge pillars often. I would have hugely underestimated a spot like this. It is so valuable that you share this despite your pain - it is an essential warning to us all and will undoubtedly save lives. Thank you so much, and may the river heal your pain.

    • @GG-ln3ft
      @GG-ln3ft 10 месяцев назад

      I thought the exact same thing. I would not have known that area was unsafe. To be honest I'm still confused as to how they got pinned down. I'm sorry for the loss as well. It's sad to think a nice day on the water with friends could take such a quick turn in such seemingly calm water.

    • @lysan1445
      @lysan1445 10 месяцев назад +2

      I watched the video several times. The key is the water current. A current like this is incredibly strong. From his description, I gathered that his friend couldn't get out of his kayak because, lying sideways, his legs were pinned between the kayak and the pillar and held in place by the strong current pushing against the kayak. I know I will be much more careful around bridge pillars from now on. It's such a terrible situation, being there, trying to help without success and having to watch your friend die. That is burnt into your memory and will not leave you, ever. I had a similar situation 50 years ago when I couldn't save a man from a car accident. I didn't even know him, but I can still see his face in my mind and how it felt when he died despite my efforts. You learn to live with that, but it doesn't leave you. I can recall the memory in a fraction of a second. I also remember the desperate cries of his wife; I can still hear her in my mind. So much more pain if it was your friend.@@GG-ln3ft

    • @GG-ln3ft
      @GG-ln3ft 10 месяцев назад

      @@lysan1445 ok thanks for the reply. It makes sense it the kayak flipped sideways facing the pillar. For some reason I thought the kayak was flipped upside down, which is why I was confused how he was pinned.

    • @juliekoester7776
      @juliekoester7776 7 месяцев назад +1

      I’m so sorry that, that happened to you all. The man who died, his wife and family, and you. That’s a very tragic thing to happen.
      Witnessing a death is a very difficult thing but a tragic death, and a stressful, painful death is seared into your memory and it’s a very traumatic thing to witness. I’m so sorry that you were part of that tragic experience. I’m sorry you had to witness it and I’m sorry for the man who passed so tragically and his wife and family.
      You’re right something like that is with you forever. You learn to build your life around it. You learn live your life again, but it will always be part of you. It will never leave.
      God bless you.

    • @wetwingsinsurf
      @wetwingsinsurf 2 месяца назад +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even believe how you even find the ability to take us through this emotional pain showing us the exact spot where you lost your dear friend. Hugh respect for that. The amount of fear and totally destroyful feelings it must have brought beeing in this situation of this big loss. I’m deeply sorry for this devestating point of your life where you find yourself not beeing able to help your friend out of this. Feeling so powerless. Yet here you are facing this and sharing this with us. I can’t even describe the amount of respect I have for you showing us how you’re dealing with this and sharing it with us. And it absolutely help us to see the invisible danger the river can bring at the wrong spot and the wrong current all together.
      For the people who don’t know about the right gear for this kind of rivers; The right gear is absolutely a must in this cold and current waters, like tow lines, throwing lines, drysuits, and the right kind of kayaks, like straight plastic river kayaks. And you can never underestimate the power we will have when repeating rescue training in this waters with this tools in managable currents and more as long with the skills we develope. There are available courses like Safety courses in rivers, International Sea Kayak Guide Allianse are able to arrange Insident Mangement courses whitch is higly recommended (ISKGA) for this spesific insidents. When situations like this happens there’s nothing more you’d like to have have as your education for upgrading your skills. Learning to read currents, learning about insidents and the power of the rivers and sea.
      I can’t even tell how shame I feel to tell you about this, because I believe for sure you guys did all you possible could to help your friend. So please, believe me when I say that this is more for the readers and future paddlers, and a hugh reminder to myself. Thank you so much for giving us the upportunity to watch and learn about this and to have the currage to share this with us, so we can talk about this hard stuff. All paddlers for sure have a mental health to take care of, and this gives a huge help in that matter aswell. This shows me what a great role model you are for the future paddlers who are eager to learn safety and learn about the dangers out there. Thank you soo much. I hope people see what a humble and generous, strong man as we truly see you are. Bless you and your friends for ever. ❤

  • @timneely946
    @timneely946 10 месяцев назад +4

    Dear Dan, My wife and I are seniors new to kayaking. Having done quite a bit of research and witnessing firsthand a raft being sucked under after going over a river drop structure, I felt confident I understood what we were getting into. Until I viewed your video…. When I learned of your loss while watching your Trinidad Bay video, I appreciated the risks associated with a rocky surf paddle but couldn’t fathom how a trip down the seemingly benign sandy Sacramento River could prove fatal. You have performed a great service in identifying a hazard to an unsuspecting public and offered a wonderful tribute to a friend. Through your retelling of the incident, his death will not have been in vain. Here’s hoping you can take consolation from that and find peace. Best regards, Tim

  • @seeratlasdtyria4584
    @seeratlasdtyria4584 10 месяцев назад +14

    Around where I YAK now, most every one who spends time on one of our rivers has either seen, heard of , or knows someone else who has, experienced a major issue in either a yak or canoe (mostly canoes) where someone has impacted either a piling, a big boulder, or a large upended tree and gotten pinned by the flowing water- resulting in either major injury, or death. For all the people out there who doubt or poo poo the potential danger, try this: swamp/roll a canoe, then try to lift it from the water- then try lifting it with 3 or 4 of your buddies. The suction inside the canoe till air is allowed to get 'inside' the overturned hull is incredible. Now, imagine that situation with a few thousand gallons of flowing water trying to hold it down or crush it against a stationary object , and you get a sense of just how dangerous it can be; and that's not even counting where someone gets caught in between it and is ' held' there by the water. The sad fact is that some people are simply going to get injured or killed in not only this 'sport', but most every other physical one you can think of. Always been that way, is that way now, and most likely will always be that way in the future. Best one can do is what you've done, i.e. "spread the word", be ever mindful, and have fun on/in the water.
    I'm an old man now and have lived a rather full and NOT entirely uneventful life (so far) and over the years , I've found that if you manage to live long enough, you come to realize just how dangerous living a 'life worth living" turns out to be. Sorry for your loss, but in consolation, try to remind yourself that in the end, the reaper comes for us all, So,,, in the meantime, celebrate the good times and adventures you've created/shared with your friends and others you care about. In the end, that's going to be all that you'll consider of any real value.

  • @iowaadventures4701
    @iowaadventures4701 10 месяцев назад +60

    I'm sorry for your loss. Telling your story will probably save lives.

  • @kardwise9714
    @kardwise9714 10 месяцев назад +41

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad you are sharing your story. It’s important to know the dangers of the water and to share stories like this. Hang in there.

  • @DemoYTube
    @DemoYTube 10 месяцев назад +26

    Dear Dan,
    I stumbled on your site a while back, as I was looking for reviews of inexpensive kayaks. I was amazed that you were giving 100% legit and knowledgeable reviews of kayaks that were at a lower price point than your shop even carries! I continued following your posts because you were so genuine, and beyond seeming to be a really nice person, you had a real interest in just getting folks out on the water, at whatever $$ level they had to spend.
    My heart goes out to you for the loss that you have just suffered. This surely made all the more difficult that it happened on the water, which seems so dear to you...that the water could do this, could take a friend in such a way. Hopefully, time will in some way ease your pain...
    The fact that you were able to post this video is I hope the continuing of the healing process. You simply going back on the water, let alone returning to the spot is brave. The pain being so real, yet you also showed the deer near the shore, imagine a child in a kayak seeing that deer, the wonder and excitement, I know as an adult I still feel that way.
    You navigating that eddy over and over, turning this way and that...I can only imagine you trying to feel how your friend could have gone so wrong, a moment of inattention, leaning the wrong way... oftentimes things of great beauty can be dangerous.
    It was brave of you to share this video, I hope that the river will continue to be a healing place for you.
    david

    • @HeadwatersKayak
      @HeadwatersKayak  10 месяцев назад +11

      Thank you for the kind words. 🙏 It’s a sacred place for me now. It was hard to bring the camera along yet somehow I knew I needed to.

  • @migsy0
    @migsy0 10 месяцев назад +13

    Absolutely a wakeup call. No matter how fun and relaxing this hobby is, danger is always present. Thanks, Dan, for the reminder and we wish you and yours the best in your healing process.

  • @Livinglifeat60
    @Livinglifeat60 10 месяцев назад +18

    My condolence. We had this happen a few years ago to a fellow paddler during a New years paddle. He went to photograph a large ship that was docked. When he touched it the current was so strong it flipped him and dragged him under. Till this day I still refuse to paddle in that area. The best is to never touch anything when you are in a kayak and moving water. My heart goes out to you for your lose. Regards from Montreal, Canada.

    • @HeadwatersKayak
      @HeadwatersKayak  10 месяцев назад +2

      I’m so sorry. That sounds incredibly hard. Love to you in your journey as well. ❤️

    • @auntTdesigns
      @auntTdesigns 10 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry for your loss. Tfs - I see you can't take it for granted, a simple, fun day of kayaking has danger lurking, like most of life. We all need to keep safety foremost in our minds. I will remember that.

  • @skull465
    @skull465 10 месяцев назад +7

    I do a lot of solo kayaking trips and if I am being honest I'm often times pretty scared knowing there's nobody else to help me if things go wrong. This story is another reminder of why it's so important to practice self rescue and take precautions

  • @RiverKingsKayak
    @RiverKingsKayak 10 месяцев назад +13

    Praying for you man! That is a side to this sport that I never want to experience. I have lost friends to the river, but was never there and it was never a close friend. When it goes bad, it happens quickly and sometimes there is just nothing you can do about it. Keep your head up and your paddle wet. Love you man!

    • @HeadwatersKayak
      @HeadwatersKayak  10 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks Pete. Appreciate the love from you. Always inspired by your passion.

  • @katiebethhughes7688
    @katiebethhughes7688 10 месяцев назад +28

    Thank you for your vulnerability Dan 😢 it is very productive to invite others along on your process. My prayers are with you and his family for healing and peace. ❤❤❤❤

  • @robbossen
    @robbossen 10 месяцев назад +6

    Dan - your ability to be vulnerable and share this experience will save lives. It has to be hard to return to that spot, but the paddling community thanks you.

  • @audioeeze8396
    @audioeeze8396 10 месяцев назад +13

    At 7:19 I cried with you. I also understood the healing process of what you were trying to do. As a avid kayaker, I have been following your channel for years. You have taught me so much. So very Sorry for the loss of your friend, and for what you had to deal with in that experience. I also have a drag car and I know that every time I strap myself in that thing, that anything can happen. I have learned that once I launch my kayak, anything can happen. But it's what we do. Just keep doing what you do my friend, and be well.

  • @melissaj1881
    @melissaj1881 2 месяца назад +1

    Dan, I am so very sorry for you and your big kayak family. You were the best kayak instructor I have ever learned from, way back in Penguin days. About six years ago I had a bad concussion. A year in bed. A year on a recliner and from there relearning everything. Yesterday I talked with a friend about being ready to kayak again. I told them I would RUclips “How to kayak.” You were the second video to pop up. I remember you. I’ve been watching your videos all afternoon. Then I came to this one. You are the reason I stopped kayaking with my family. You taught us to be smart and safe on the water first. I’m praying for you all and hoping if I get to a place where I can take lessons again, Headwaters will be my go too.

  • @craigmarson6917
    @craigmarson6917 10 месяцев назад +2

    So sorry for your loss. As a beginner your video’s have been a big source of knowledge. Your courage to share this terrible news also helps to inform and remind us to always be aware, you never know what can happen.

  • @shelleymountain-collette7886
    @shelleymountain-collette7886 16 дней назад

    Thank you so much! I wouldn't have known that that could be dangerous. This video could save lives! Thank you so much again for sharing!😢❤

  • @Anonymous-ui5cm
    @Anonymous-ui5cm 6 дней назад

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Thanks for sharing this. Having been through a capsize under an Amtrak bridge I know how easy it is to flip when a couple simple things conspire against you. Keep up the great posts. Hoping that time off & on the water will lead you to a place of Peace. Be safe out there my friend.

  • @jodyfillpot4799
    @jodyfillpot4799 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm sorry for your loss. I wish you strength during this difficult time and hope that with time, peace and the river will heal and comfort your heart.

  • @abellforanimalwelfare
    @abellforanimalwelfare 13 дней назад

    I feel that you sharing this with us was very productive. I would have never known the dangers of a potential situation like this. Thank you, my friend. And I am so sorry for the profound loss of yours. 💔

  • @leemp337
    @leemp337 10 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks Dan. This makes me reconsider my safety protocols and the safety of the people with me and their skills levels. If this accident can happen with you and Gatewood, it can definitely happen to our group. Thank you for sharing.

    • @HeadwatersKayak
      @HeadwatersKayak  10 месяцев назад +3

      For the record Gatewood was not with me. He’s videos inspired the trip.

  • @katinadiep9268
    @katinadiep9268 4 месяца назад +1

    Just discovered this channel. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how painful it must've been not being able to proceed to a rescue. 😢

  • @keithmccann6019
    @keithmccann6019 10 месяцев назад +1

    I was recently with the fishing guide who was part of the incident, Trout Vision, I am sorry for the loss.

    • @HeadwatersKayak
      @HeadwatersKayak  10 месяцев назад +1

      Oh no way. I’ve never been able to connect with them and thank them for the help. I can only
      Imagine how traumatic it was for them as well. Thanks for the name I’ll reach out.

  • @heckster8017
    @heckster8017 10 месяцев назад +5

    Dan I hope that you find comfort whenever you go back out on the river. As time passes the bad memory will fade and a little each day and what will remain is knowing he will always be with your on the water watching over you and helping you to remember all the great times you had together. I have a feeling you will someday find a way to honor his memory in a way that would benefit others who enjoy the hobby. Peace and love to you and all who knew him.

  • @user-ch1th6lw1m
    @user-ch1th6lw1m 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for sharing this honest, tough story. I hope it helps your healing. It may help save someone else's life. Wishing you peace and healing.

  • @rvmanmatt6643
    @rvmanmatt6643 10 месяцев назад +3

    Sorry for your loss. But thank you for sharing. This one video alone will save others. I for one didn’t realize the rule was not to lean away. Keep teaching and healing.

  • @Confoil
    @Confoil 10 месяцев назад +4

    I never know what to say in these situations - the words always fail me.
    I'll just offer my deepest sympathies, tell you to not feel obligated to post videos if that's not where your head is at yet, and tell you to take care of yourself.

  • @dthomas200
    @dthomas200 18 дней назад

    Dan, so sorry. Thanks for sharing even though it was hard for you to get through, it could save a life. Much love

  • @vickierae1994
    @vickierae1994 2 месяца назад

    Saving lives sharing how quickly this can happen to anyone!😢

  • @Junior-jm5tq
    @Junior-jm5tq 27 дней назад

    Sorry for the loss of your friend. Anything can happen, anywhere and anytime! I know this my self as you do now! I have seen people die in the blink of an eye, yes the saying is true! May God keep you safe and watch over you as he has me!

  • @mpmap2129
    @mpmap2129 Месяц назад +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad you decided to post and honor your friend in the best way possible. Doing what you all love to do ❤

  • @LookB4ULeap
    @LookB4ULeap 10 месяцев назад +3

    As a newer paddler I appreciate you sharing, showing me what to look for

  • @saruchey
    @saruchey 3 месяца назад

    So sorry for your loss. Dangers crop up sometimes in the most unforeseen places

  • @grantw6070
    @grantw6070 10 месяцев назад +1

    I am so sorry. This video could likely save lives. I fish rivers a lot and rarely think of this water flow as dangerous, but your video calls my attention to remember that when on the water I need to have respect for its power and danger. Thank you for risking to share.

  • @nickbarnes4429
    @nickbarnes4429 Месяц назад

    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you kind find even an ounce of comfort knowing your friend passed doing what he loved. You can't ask for more than that. Stay strong and thank you for everything.

  • @CoryKent1997
    @CoryKent1997 Месяц назад

    Just seeing this for the first time. Thank you for sharing and instructing. So appreciate your vulnerability to let us in to this.

  • @jpop6064
    @jpop6064 Месяц назад

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this valuable warning.

  • @Infidelio
    @Infidelio 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for making this video. I know it was hard, but recalling the event for us was a real service. It reminds us that we need to understand and respect the dangers of quickly-moving current. It is such a beautiful setting, but, as you pointed out, the water can be deadly.

  • @marydamico9264
    @marydamico9264 2 месяца назад

    So sorry for your loss and the pain and grief you must be suffering. Such a tragedy. God rest your Friend🙌🏽

  • @mdsf01
    @mdsf01 10 месяцев назад +2

    Truly sorry for your loss.
    Really brings in to perspective many things.
    Unpredictability of life, the danger in this sport, and how we always think this kind of stuff happens to someone else; never us.

  • @MrMagnat007
    @MrMagnat007 10 месяцев назад +1

    Dan, These things happen . You did all you could do. Every hobby has its risks.
    I mean the aqua-dynamics of flowing water around a pylon are complex and powerful. You got back out on the water and that is a big step.
    Telling this story is part of your healing process. Just take care of yourself and use this time you need to heal.. The channel can wait.
    Any content you make is always helpful. Just please take care of your mental health and take care of yourself. Thank you for sharing this with us.

  • @mattmeir1246
    @mattmeir1246 10 месяцев назад +3

    First of all, I'm very sorry to hear what had happened to your buddy. Can't thank you enough for being strong and sharing this video. I know it's tough, but people like me enjoy your videos on kayaks and the insight and knowledge you have on kayaking. So we really appreciate this and God bless❤

  • @vryce6322
    @vryce6322 10 месяцев назад

    We all grieve in different ways. I can only hope that by sharing this story it will help you with your grief.

  • @brandonpeavey
    @brandonpeavey 9 месяцев назад

    I am an experienced canoeist and whitewater guide. I recently lucked into an incredibly nice sea kayak and am spending my off season preparing to take on an entirely new sport with a new collection of skills and associated dangers. Since I paddle alone those dangers are amplified and I have worked hard to ensure my safety. Always in the back of my mind is the reminder to stay humble to stay safe. Hearing your story is a painful experience but one that serves to remind us all of the dangers we face every single day in paddlesports. While I truly wish you had never suffered this loss I am grateful you chose to share this experience and I hope it has helped you in your journey towards healing.

  • @elainecrawford6891
    @elainecrawford6891 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers to his family and friends. May he Rest In Peace. 🙏❤🙏

  • @bradralph3317
    @bradralph3317 10 месяцев назад +1

    Very sorry for your loss. Friends leave a lasting imprint on your heart. Keep the good memories alive.

  • @bobcosterton6430
    @bobcosterton6430 10 месяцев назад

    It's good that you made this video. No one wants to, but we should all take the time to think about risk and assess it for ourselves. I worry about the hardest rapids, but it's important to be vigilant in all water. Getting good instruction and paddling with groups that take safety seriously, and share your own risk tolerance, is critical! Thanks!

  • @GS-zv3qn
    @GS-zv3qn 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sorry for your loss. Your video will help people see that even peaceful looking water can have dangerous spots.

  • @johnshannon
    @johnshannon 10 месяцев назад

    I too am sorry for your loss. That would be hard to ever get over. I could not find a news article about the incident.

  • @illuminatedministry
    @illuminatedministry 10 месяцев назад

    Oh Dan, my heart breaks for you. May the healing come.

  • @ohblackwater
    @ohblackwater 10 месяцев назад +2

    Very sorry for your loss. You're a good man. We all take chances when we go out on the water. You have the right attitude about this incident and you're treasuring your friend. Wishing you the best, and again very sorry for your loss.

  • @windsup2day
    @windsup2day 10 месяцев назад +2

    Dan - I am so incredibly saddened to hear of your loss.It's hard to believe that something so tragic could happen so quickly while someone is doing something they love.❤💔❤️

  • @charlieboutin3341
    @charlieboutin3341 10 месяцев назад +3

    God bless your friend, you, and all affected by his passing. I’m sorry for this great loss. Thank you for showing this Dan. I wouldn’t have thought of that as a dangerous area, now I’m fully aware. I’m glad you’re back on your healing waters, I know your friend would have wanted that. Take care and best wishes my friend. 🙏❤️

  • @bradleysonthemove5790
    @bradleysonthemove5790 10 месяцев назад +1

    Our deepest condolences ... we're so, so sorry ... hopefully, your being there when it happened is somehow a source of comfort, instead of being haunted by WHAT IF because you weren't ... be safe ❤‍🩹

  • @just-dl
    @just-dl 10 месяцев назад +2

    Damn, bro. This is hard. I think it’s healing to go back out there. As you said, to remember your friend. Dan, you did all you could do. No one asks more. I’m glad you detailed what happened…hopefully the words you say in this video will keep someone safe. When I was much younger, an old sailor told me the sea is kind to the broken hearted. True of all water, I think. Gulf of Mexico saw me through a painful childhood. The Chesapeake through troubled teen years. I almost jumped in the Potomac when I was 20. (Met Jesus that night.) The gulf of Maine has taken my tears, the Presumscot has brought me peace, and I had the joy of sharing the Mighty Andy with my daughter this summer. I don’t know where my sojourn will lead next. But, I’m guessing there will be water near. thanks for being a blessing to many (me included). Happy Paddling to you as well. Stay safe. Stay strong.

  • @12STONESADVENTURES
    @12STONESADVENTURES 9 месяцев назад

    Brother I am so sorry to hear of this awful tragedy. Sending prayers for peace and comfort your way, God bless!

  • @lonesomejubilee
    @lonesomejubilee 10 месяцев назад +3

    I really appreciate your inspiring videos. My son and I got kayaks last summer, in part to you. Keep up the good work. I'm sure your friend wouldn't want you to stop kayaking. Keep paddling forward. There will be more good days ahead.

  • @user-ls6if8je8x
    @user-ls6if8je8x 5 месяцев назад

    I just wanted to thank you for making this video. I just bought my first kayak yesterday. I started off watching your what not do video and then came across this one. This video made me realize how naive I am when it comes to safety on the water. Like many who are new to this, I assumed that being in a boat and wearing a pdf was enough to keep me safe. I’ve done several kayak tours on rivers and under bridges/interstates and these kind of hazards were never mentioned. Your video has prompted me to do additional research on potential hazards, practice recovery, and be more informed on general safety on the water. I am truly sorry for your loss. By sharing this experience you and your friend are helping so many others.

  • @guyb7005
    @guyb7005 Месяц назад

    appreciate that you were able to share this!

  • @AliexFolgueira
    @AliexFolgueira 10 месяцев назад

    heartbreaking to lose a friend like that, while doing the things that make us happy, I hope you fully heal soon.

  • @TheFishingMommy
    @TheFishingMommy 10 месяцев назад +2

    I am so very sorry for what you and your group went through and of course, for the loss of life of your friend. One of these days I may actually get around to having the courage to try sharing my own story that took place at the end of August this year, and very nearly ended up like your friend. Rivers are to be respected.

  • @markglynn813
    @markglynn813 10 месяцев назад +2

    You’re doing the right thing brother. Sorry for your loss

  • @pinkpackraft
    @pinkpackraft Месяц назад

    Thank you for sharing-- I'm very sorry for your loss.

  • @richardspennicchia1293
    @richardspennicchia1293 10 месяцев назад

    Wow, Sorry for your loss. I could see something like that happen to somany of us.

  • @jimschreiner6482
    @jimschreiner6482 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sorry for your loss man. This is a good video though, to show how easy it can go from having the time or life to the last time of your life and to be prepared for the unexpected things. When I was only 8 and my older cousin was 14 he wanted to float on a couple of inner tubes from a boat ramp on a lake that my aunt and uncle owned property on over to their properties. The property was about 300 yards across from the boat ramp. He slipped off his tube and it got away from him because of the wind. He didn't know how to swim and panicked so he grabbed my inner tube which flipped me off of it and it got away also. So there we were in the middle of the lake, no life jackets both yelling for help. My dad and my cousins older brother heard us yelling for help as they were cutting trees on the property. They ran down to the Shoreline and my dad swam out and was able to get me in but my cousin wasn't found until a week later. I thank God at my age that I had swimming lessons and was able to stay above water until my dad was able to get me. It shows how fast something can go from fun to tragic in seconds. I still fish the lake with another cousin who's about the same age as I am (both in our early 50s now) from are Old Town predators. Just last April him and I were fishing on a cool rainy morning on that lake and I had just caught a 5# bass and as I released it I leaned way too far over and rolled my kayak and was in the water again but also wearing a PFD. I only lost a couple of rods and reels that day that I managed to get back the next day this time. I don't care how good of a swimmer you might be or how confident you might be, always respect the water. Sorry about this long winded reply and thank you for telling your story.

  • @chrispetersen4863
    @chrispetersen4863 Месяц назад

    So very sorry for your loss, Dan. Thank you for educating us on what happened and the dangers that can often be hidden in plain sight. Prayers for comfort and the continued healing of your soul. God Bless!

  • @SSchiltz05
    @SSchiltz05 10 месяцев назад +1

    My heart goes out to you and the loss of your friend. Not that it means anything coming from someone you don't know, but I've used your videos to LEARN! You've helped teach myself and many others what it means to kayak and have fun while being safe. I've used this knowledge and passed it to others I've been kayaking with. Your videos have passed along techniques and etiquette for fun and safety - Just think how many lives you have saved because of the helpful content you've posted for others. 😀 Thank you for all that you do, Dan!

  • @kenestra123
    @kenestra123 10 месяцев назад

    I can completely understand. Sorry for your loss. God Speed!

  • @mikebrady7501
    @mikebrady7501 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sorry for your loss Dan. Really appreciate you sharing. Take care.

  • @richardskip
    @richardskip 10 месяцев назад

    Oh man, I am sorry. We are often kayaking in challeging conditions too. I is the risk you take for the fun and satisfaction. Still very sad if something like this happens. Keep on padding do.
    Greetings from Holland.

  • @outdoorguy3787
    @outdoorguy3787 10 месяцев назад +3

    So sorry for your loss Dan, but thank you for sharing it, we can all use a reminder about what can go wrong , and how quick it happens.

  • @saltwaterdawgoutdoors2190
    @saltwaterdawgoutdoors2190 10 месяцев назад

    I'm sorry for your loss, Hopefully sharing it will help others avoid the same situation.

  • @redhead56
    @redhead56 10 месяцев назад

    So sorry to hear that, thanks for passing this along as caution for others and in memory of your friend. Be well

  • @ellenkroon8444
    @ellenkroon8444 10 месяцев назад +3

    Oh my, I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this. As a more novice paddler , I appreciate your description of what went wrong - even with an experienced paddler. Nature/ water is a healing place. 🙏

  • @kayak_homie
    @kayak_homie 10 месяцев назад +3

    So sorry for your loss.
    I know this is hard for you to share, but thank you for sharing it because it brings to light dangers that we take for granted. This video very well might save someone's life by shaking them out of complacency

  • @rloera601
    @rloera601 10 месяцев назад

    I good that you are trying to heal. It take time. I know . Did 27 years of a Firefighter. I died Covid that I got from pt. And it mess me up bad in which it brought back bad memories of my pass of people pass . The bad ones are always children. All I can say keep living and keep Tight lines and God bless.

  • @user-fe3bp1vd6j
    @user-fe3bp1vd6j 10 месяцев назад +2

    I'm very sorry for your loss Dan. I am new to kayaking and your message has helped me to see how quickly things can go wrong. Tank you for sharing

  • @agentwynnoutdoors
    @agentwynnoutdoors 10 месяцев назад +2

    Man this is hard to hear but folks need to know. Thanks for sharing and so sorry for your loss man.

  • @JELaVallee
    @JELaVallee 10 месяцев назад +2

    Love to you and yours from The James River, man... Thank you for sharing this. You're an inspiration, good times and hard, alike. 🙏☮️

  • @Dakiraun
    @Dakiraun 10 месяцев назад +2

    Awww Dan, my deepest sympathy for the loss and what you must have gone through in dealing with that. The area looks so beautiful, clean and calm too. Water is *so* - and it's easy to forget or not even realize it when out on a trip that's suppose to be a fun start to a multi-day adventure. I think taking the time to do this video and share it is good for both yourself, but definitely for everyone who watches it. We sincerely appreciate this and all you do.

  • @oldguyriders
    @oldguyriders 10 месяцев назад +1

    Prayers for your friend Dan that must have been very tough. God bless.

  • @ryandoll3684
    @ryandoll3684 10 месяцев назад

    The river is my happy healing place too Dan 🙏 When my girlfriend passed away 4 years ago i was at the river every day and still haven’t stopped ! I’m sorry about your dear friend.Thanks for sharing and don’t ever stop doing what you love.

  • @snotpu
    @snotpu 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for undergoing this difficult task. It will help increase the safety of anyone who watches.

  • @johnbates8964
    @johnbates8964 5 месяцев назад

    That was deeply emotional, a reminder how fast things can change, of just how precious our true friends, our brothers are. I am truly sorry for your loss.

  • @mackjenkins7721
    @mackjenkins7721 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hello DAN i am so sorry to hear about the lost of your friend. I know that is not easy trying to talk about it so soon. I do thanks you for taking the time to share this Story with us cuz that is very very hard to talk about. Thanks you for Reminding us the danger and how to read cuz things like this will happen & that not what We want. Again, thank you for taking the time to talk to us to get it off of your chest in your Difficult time. The MACK E family send our prayers 🙏 to your friends family. & be safe out there.

  • @enricakita1
    @enricakita1 9 месяцев назад

    Not a second of your video is wasted. We all need wake up calls and reminders before we get too complacent. Thank you for being so brave and sharing. Your video IS very valuable xxx

  • @jbsanger696
    @jbsanger696 10 месяцев назад +1

    So sad! Thank you for sharing.. may save a life moving forward!

  • @WitchOvTheeWood
    @WitchOvTheeWood 10 месяцев назад

    Deepest condolences, I can’t imagine how that must feel. 🥀

  • @allonsy9808
    @allonsy9808 10 месяцев назад

    Dan, first and foremost, I am profoundly sorry for your loss--made even more tragic by being in the context of an activity that has always brought healing to you. With that said, I am grateful that you've shared this. I've been kayaking for several years, but would still consider myself a novice (watching you play in the eddies illustrated your long-practiced skill--skills that I do not yet have). I KNOW I would have underestimated the water around those pilings, and I thank you for making me call out my own ignorance/arrogance--it will make me a better and more respectful kayaker. I hope that you continue to heal.

  • @anonymous-ir3tf
    @anonymous-ir3tf 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. I think that it's important that you were able to share it with us, even thought it was very painful. Expressing our feelings helps us to move on, while still feeling the loss.

  • @SammysBaits
    @SammysBaits 10 месяцев назад

    Wow! I don't think the footage will ever need to be shared but the story should be shared. It is too easy for people to just buy (or rent) a kayak and go for a paddle. I know guys who I have met on the water who never heard of a strainer. How tragedy doesn't happen more often is remarkable. Thanks for sharing this, I am sorry for the loss of your friend.

  • @jeffdietrich2903
    @jeffdietrich2903 7 месяцев назад

    I can't even imagine. Such an awful tragedy, but thank you for sharing with the paddling community. A sobering reminder that terrible things can happen at any time or place.
    Just watching you paddle in the same eddies was extremely emotional and moving for me. Peace.

  • @brianm4709
    @brianm4709 10 месяцев назад

    When I lost my brother years ago, my hope was that others would learn from the experience. You telling your story will hopefully do the same.

  • @loricollins3163
    @loricollins3163 7 месяцев назад

    Big hugs to you and yours. So sorry for your loss.

  • @garrettschnabel7406
    @garrettschnabel7406 10 месяцев назад

    Sorry to hear buddy. Miss you. Sending our prayers and love.

  • @stupadasol5911
    @stupadasol5911 10 месяцев назад

    Condolences from an "old" pEddler that your family connected me to my passion in retired life. Spending less time on salt and more time on fresh. Thank you for the wake-up call on taking the Sacramento for granted. Bless you and your entire family.

  • @romualdolopez6494
    @romualdolopez6494 10 месяцев назад

    Gracias ,tks for your video and in honor to your friend you are prevé tint futuros accidents.You are a kayak teacher to me and a bleessing.

  • @lorenyoder8696
    @lorenyoder8696 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for all involved.

  • @Chrisamici
    @Chrisamici 10 месяцев назад +2

    Condolences brother, so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing maybe it will teach us all to respect the water, stay strong and don’t lose your passion, you are an inspiration to those that follow, thank u

  • @Devo491
    @Devo491 9 месяцев назад

    It wouldn't be an adventure if it had no danger.
    I escaped a similar situation (just!) about 45 years ago, and the experience has shaped my life to this day.
    I still do exciting stuff, but always in the knowledge it might be my last.
    If you're not living on the edge, you're taking up too much room.

  • @surfandstreamfisher5749
    @surfandstreamfisher5749 10 месяцев назад

    my condolences to you and your friends on the loss of loved buddy.