Signs An Avoidant Partner Loves You

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2024
  • //Signs an avoidant partner loves you// If you’re reading this, you’re probably wondering: Can an emotionally unavailable partner fall in love with me? I am happy to report, yes! Partners with dismissive avoidant attachment can fall in love. But the signs an avoidant partner loves you can be more subtle, though no less meaningful. In this video we discuss the signs that they love you, including verbal examples of their affection. #avoidantattachmentstyle, #attachmentstyles #signstheyloveyou

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  • @brianamacwilliam.attachment
    @brianamacwilliam.attachment  5 месяцев назад +5

    Have you noticed any of these signs? And other signs that I missed? Let me know in the comments!👇

    • @AlehaDarabaka
      @AlehaDarabaka 2 месяца назад +1

      Would this be similar signs in a disorganized type? Or do you have a video made how a disorganized type acts in love?

  • @christalhardy8771
    @christalhardy8771 5 месяцев назад +22

    I tried to cut back on text messages as he said " I'm over bearing " today he actually texted back more and actually asked if my day was good! That's a 1st in a long time.

    • @Braveheart0803
      @Braveheart0803 Месяц назад +1

      I’m in this process too. Sometimes I forget 😅

  • @PatODonnell-gk9sx
    @PatODonnell-gk9sx 3 месяца назад +5

    Thank you so much for this! I dont hear the words, yet he is consistent, vulnerable, and attentive

  • @Shelly-pl2vn
    @Shelly-pl2vn Месяц назад +5

    Thank you! I'm an avoidant but I'm not terrible! That's exactly how I express care for someone! 💞

  • @MellowBellow1
    @MellowBellow1 5 месяцев назад +8

    That sounds like a secure person too. ….

  • @AndreaLikesMusic
    @AndreaLikesMusic 5 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you 🥹 I am more avoidant than my partner but we both do things like this for each other ❤

  • @sisbou
    @sisbou 5 месяцев назад +9

    Yeey ❤ once you read their love language it's so blissful 😍😍😍💖🌞🙏🏾💐💘💘💞

  • @paulbooij7594
    @paulbooij7594 Месяц назад +2

    My wife says, "Here, I made this for you so wouldn't be mad at me." I wish she would say, "Hey, I made this for you because I thought you would like it."

  • @leahhanway3251
    @leahhanway3251 Месяц назад +1

    THANK YOU FOR THIS INFORMATION .☺️

  • @katradiction
    @katradiction 14 дней назад +1

    My boyfriend does all of these things regularly. He is trying really hard. I wish it was easier to show him how much I appreciate his efforts. He seems to dismiss my "thank yous" as cursory most of the time. He isn't used to people meaning it when they praise him.

  • @Sassy387
    @Sassy387 Месяц назад +5

    This is more of a secure than an avoidant. Good luck getting this from the DA.

  • @amele820
    @amele820 2 месяца назад +10

    Yeah they do that to love bomb and then they get triggered and start to pull away. Just don’t bother to start anything with avoidant and run as soon as you realize they are who they are

    • @ItsAsparageese
      @ItsAsparageese Месяц назад +3

      Toxic af attitude, work on yourself instead of blaming an entire diverse group. Many of us have been hurt by DAs without becoming toxic and un-self-aware about it

  • @annapiperal3400
    @annapiperal3400 4 месяца назад +3

    My partner used to put me the toothpaste on mu brush for like 4 years, until we got kids. Now he just repairs everything at home, cleans, makes it cosy all the time

    • @-Clarence-
      @-Clarence- Месяц назад +1

      So he does a lot more and you say “just” to play it down?

  • @sifublack192
    @sifublack192 Месяц назад

    Accurate

  • @mjmoore87
    @mjmoore87 2 месяца назад +11

    Signs? If there's signs your partner is avoidant, just run.

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 2 месяца назад

    It fits

  • @whiggygirl
    @whiggygirl 4 месяца назад +1

    He did all this, and yet still kept ending things, and refused to come off the dating site 😢

    • @lsohweldfab6575
      @lsohweldfab6575 20 дней назад

      Highly Narcissistic type

    • @whiggygirl
      @whiggygirl 20 дней назад

      @lsohweldfab6575 I don't believe he's narcissistic at all. If he was, he'd have tried to lock me down

  • @Fiamma829
    @Fiamma829 Месяц назад +2

    What about the ones who refuse to call you? They only want to contact you thru texts. Doesn’t feel safe to love and commit to someone like that even though said person said they love me when I walked away. Total mind fart!

    • @ItsAsparageese
      @ItsAsparageese Месяц назад

      You're aware there are thousands of reasons someone might be averse to phone calls, right? Like, neurodivergence exists. Not everything is about you

    • @loliipop070409
      @loliipop070409 Месяц назад

      If it doesn’t feel safe, leave them instead of expecting them to change how they process the word

    • @Fiamma829
      @Fiamma829 Месяц назад +2

      @@ItsAsparageese yes, I am one of them. I have to fight everyday to have conversations with those I love but I do break thru. Also, it was more than The phone call thing but that’s what puts it over…especially when I know they break thru for work and for others. I worked with him because I know it’s not all about me, and still I must have my standards for living.

    • @Fiamma829
      @Fiamma829 Месяц назад

      @@loliipop070409 absolutely agree. I have and did walk away. It was not fair for either of us.

    • @ItsAsparageese
      @ItsAsparageese Месяц назад +1

      @@Fiamma829 Fair enough I suppose

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh 15 дней назад +1

    An oxymoron.

  • @user-tz1hl3pf2w
    @user-tz1hl3pf2w 2 месяца назад

    Speak more slowly pls