Inside the World of Thai Bar Girls: Unveiling Truths and Myths

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  • Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
  • Explore the hidden truths and myths surrounding the experiences of foreign men with Thai bar girls. From motivations to financial dynamics, language barriers, and cultural nuances, this video delves into a controversial aspect of Thailand's tourism.
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  • @williamgralton7468
    @williamgralton7468 4 месяца назад +38

    From bitter experience I swore I would never marry again but I used to go to Thailand for the parties. Beer and lots of women. In 1996 I met a cheeky bar girl and we clicked immediately. She has been a wonderful wife.

    • @FINfinFINfinFINfin
      @FINfinFINfinFINfin Месяц назад

      @williamgralton7468 She's playing the long game Billy. Give it another 28 years and the axe will fall. 😛

    • @paulmcfarlane3250
      @paulmcfarlane3250 20 дней назад

      @@williamgralton7468 l like the cheeky girls as well

  • @PattayaTom91
    @PattayaTom91 5 месяцев назад +10

    Loving these videos, genuine and honest. Gotta say you must be a winner with the BGs with that finger action 😂

  • @Nordic_Sky
    @Nordic_Sky 4 месяца назад +22

    There is no reason to date a bar girl. Finding a "regular" girl is not hard, even if you are on vacation. How? Go online 2-3 months before your arrival. You'll be shocked at how much interest you'll get. Be honest about what you are looking for. Most of the "good" girls seek serious relationships. So, if you're looking for a vacation girlfriend only, be upfront. I followed this playbook and got a true stunner. I've been to Thailand 5 times now to see her, and she's been great.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +1

      An excellent comment. Thank you.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 месяца назад +2

      my first trip over I already had a chance for 3 Girl Friends not bars well maybe one whom I befriended playing pool and good banter - but it is not the reason I am there for and to be honest 6 months or 1 year in my case before I would see her again I do not see the point - I just relax and have the time of my life

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +1

      @@marksallai2289 Great attitude.

    • @milkybar6276
      @milkybar6276 3 месяца назад

      Which sites are best?
      Thanks

    • @billhall6128
      @billhall6128 3 месяца назад

      go on line where?

  • @MrEye4get
    @MrEye4get Месяц назад +14

    Anyone thinking they will meet the love of their lives in a bar is seriously deluded.

  • @alistairnewton8898
    @alistairnewton8898 4 месяца назад +87

    First rule with a bar girl you are a customer , second rule you are a customer , third rule you are a customer , NEXT customer ? .

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +8

      Fourth rule, she is a hired performer.

    • @chrisjuricichxl5
      @chrisjuricichxl5 4 месяца назад +4

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand there's the rub, eh. I think men, particularly older ones, appreciate a bargirl who is able to let you believe that they're enjoying themselves with you sexually even if you aren't in your prime (not that it'd be any different with a young man necessarily). A customer will appreciate being 'liked' personally--there's no difference between a flight attendant's friendly attention or a waitress laughing at your jokes...it's just the tip and service fee are different. When I'm laughing with some bargirl in Thailand or even here in the Philippines, I know I'm 'fun' and 'charming' so a couple of hours with me is not an egregious experience...but past the lady drinks and good chatting fun, I am always straightforward with them and give them a nice tip for having spent their time with me. Yeah, I know--it's their job...but there's no payoff for them with me for time spent with a walk to the nearby hotel--so I always leave a tip at the end. It's not as much as for their full services, but it's fair.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +3

      @@chrisjuricichxl5 yes, there's the rub.

    • @BillyTheKid-l5j
      @BillyTheKid-l5j 4 месяца назад +1

      Geez who would want to marry one of them ??

    • @simba6483
      @simba6483 4 месяца назад

      Sounds about right

  • @alastairtopham5939
    @alastairtopham5939 4 месяца назад +9

    Excellent informative video about relationships with bar girls and also generally about Thai women. Thank you!

  • @erikrisdal3974
    @erikrisdal3974 5 месяцев назад +14

    If a guy comes to Thailand without a lady companion he is close to 100% sure to make use of a bar or massage girl. I have seen this after more than 30 years in Asia.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +2

      Yep.

    • @pete531
      @pete531 5 месяцев назад +3

      of course, why else would single man travel all the way there

  • @alexspano6970
    @alexspano6970 4 месяца назад +13

    I've been going to Pattaya for nearly 20 yrs. I have always found Girls / Freelancers on the streets, Beach Rd (Coconut Bar) I have never had a problem. I make sure they have all Id cards, check them in @ your hotel. No Id cards etc then no girl. Never go to a short time room of their choosing unless you have someone with you to hold your phone, money etc. I very rarely get a Girl from a Bar. I rarely go to Walking St or Soi 6. I like the Soi Buakhao, LK Metro, Soi Pothole area's.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +3

      If I were still in the game, I would not choose a freelancer.

    • @alexspano6970
      @alexspano6970 4 месяца назад +7

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand But a lot of (not most) freelancers are girls who are "Freelancing" on their day or days off or after hours. But I can only talk on my own experiences & the people I go to Pattaya with.

    • @jimgoodreau1245
      @jimgoodreau1245 4 месяца назад +1

      My first time in pattaya, i herd beach road at 1.30 am was a great spot to meet! I am 77 years old and a bit nervous. A girl smiled and i knew. Explaining i might need a little help,she exclaimed enthusiastically i guarantee it. Mission accomplished

    • @BillyTheKid-l5j
      @BillyTheKid-l5j 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@jimgoodreau1245
      Was the bar girl 77 ?...
      🤣🤣🤣😅🤣

    • @regnorse
      @regnorse 3 месяца назад +1

      @@jimgoodreau1245 isnt 1.30am like climbing everest at 77??

  • @vickarch
    @vickarch 4 месяца назад +4

    Yours is the Best presentation of working girls in Thailand. Truths only. Thank you.
    I look forward to viewing your videos on their downside, which are very weighty.

  • @MalMilligan
    @MalMilligan 4 месяца назад +6

    Very good report as usual. The "monthly" pay bar girls get is usually a series of 10 day contracts they call "tags". I have no idea where the word "tag" comes from but many use that phrase. SO they might get 8,000 baht for selling 50 drinks in 10 days as a bonus. Plus 50 bat per drink. Some live at the bar if there are rooms upstairs for free during their tag.

  • @bucsimon
    @bucsimon 5 месяцев назад +3

    First time ever to your video. You have a great potential to be great Thailand RUclipsrs.

  • @Truthseeker371
    @Truthseeker371 4 месяца назад +17

    Isn't it the same backhome? Money can buy sex, but not sincere love.

  • @AzerPaul
    @AzerPaul 5 месяцев назад +5

    All good info to know. Thanks.

  • @user-qp6lm9zt3c
    @user-qp6lm9zt3c 3 месяца назад +9

    Every human interaction is transactional.
    Every male-female interaction involves a quid pro quo.

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 месяца назад +1

      i have spent so much money on all of my ex's. Even females that I say, I dont want you, they still ask for money. time, money, chores, women are always trying to extract stuff from men and many times with no intention of any type of repayment.

  • @dirkdiggler164
    @dirkdiggler164 4 месяца назад +6

    Informative + True enough. I would add that you are in the hands of a professional and well,out of your depth. I am a long term resident and seldom indulge now, the conversation is near identical and normally liberally laced with BS. The golden thread that runs through most Bar Girls is this: Greed. Once apparent, get rid asap. Rare as it may be, there are decent Women pushed into bar work through circumstance, and a need to make quick money. They may appear initially aloof, often late 30’s early 40’s. Single parents and do not appear to quite fit. Bar work also changes women quickly, alcohol, cynicism and disrespect uncommon in most mainstream Thai women. Never forget, this is a business, and a Foreigner is all you will ever be. Learning a little Thai is certainly “Very enlightening”

  • @travelwithdebandnick
    @travelwithdebandnick Месяц назад +3

    Wow that was really interesting thank you for sharing

  • @fanyong7883
    @fanyong7883 5 месяцев назад +11

    Not all bar girls are bad, just be careful

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +3

      I am well aware of that and have never said they were all bad.

    • @jonjonmark
      @jonjonmark 4 месяца назад +2

      You have to understand the mindset and why personally I would never start a relationship with a woman that works in the bar because there may be 200 other men lined up for what you want with her

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +4

      @@jonjonmark I personally don't want a woman who's had more pricks than a second hand dartboard.

  • @tonyhamilton6948
    @tonyhamilton6948 4 месяца назад +9

    I agree with you Sir, Bar Girls aren't Bad, they are like you said, either try to look after themselves and/or their family and using what they have. If I was their, Yes I would be one of their customers but I would try my best to be one good terrms with them so when they do tell their friends, it can be within Respect and Kindness, cause my Motto in Life is simply "Be Cool".

  • @mikejenkins2166
    @mikejenkins2166 2 дня назад

    The most direct discussion of sex I’ve watched, thank you. Most videos use innuendo and hint at the subject but don’t come right out and say what’s going on.

  • @chrisjuricichxl5
    @chrisjuricichxl5 4 месяца назад +5

    as ever, simple talk and explanations without judgment. I never worry too much about any attachments to Thai bargirls as 1) I'm married and have a wife to return to 2) dipping my wick into that potential venereal pool of STDs and HIV is offputting...but not enough to NOT enjoy their company and the tiny, illicit thrills of flirting. I always let them know that I'm not taking them back to my hotel room or to a local room. If they enjoy our company and you keep the ladydrinks flowing, fun can be had.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +3

      Sounds like you have the right attitude, keep it up.

    • @gunnaronholiday916
      @gunnaronholiday916 Месяц назад

      YEZZZ I do the same, lots of fun, lots of nice girls/people to meet, only the hard-core girls in the hard-core places walks away after the first drink. I give the nice girls not only lady drinks but a nice tip when I go home. Its only sometimes destroid by hard core mamasans that want me to buy drinks to many girls at same time, if they dont stop I just walk away to next bar. Lots and lots of good fun.

  • @it_is_what_it_is2023
    @it_is_what_it_is2023 10 дней назад +1

    Naughty topic, well spoken and articulated. I felt like in University 😅

  • @vader779
    @vader779 Месяц назад +4

    Not all passport bros are naive to the game. Many are former military and have been to many countries so it’s not their first visit

  • @jimmyzarkis6276
    @jimmyzarkis6276 2 месяца назад +3

    i like how this is simple and easy to follow. Boring side, but no crazy sound and noise and bright lights to distract you. Still find it funny that the girls that hit me up on Thai Fr ly are giving me high prices. 3k short term and 5k long term. Some double that. The ones that do it, I am like why would I pay for you? I can get better for free where I am. I guess some girls have to work harder then others.

  • @invisiblerevolution
    @invisiblerevolution 4 месяца назад +2

    RESPECT the honesty 👏🏾
    Unlike....
    "Sunshine Shoulders" who has 7 children, tellin men to stop thinkin only about WOMEN.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +1

      He seems to have many listeners.

    • @christopherhill7131
      @christopherhill7131 4 месяца назад +1

      What does Sunshine Shoulders have to do with this? He’s in the Philippines.

    • @invisiblerevolution
      @invisiblerevolution 4 месяца назад +1

      @christopherhill7131
      The same game is being played over there in the Philippines too... and you already know this!

  • @UK-Oldboy
    @UK-Oldboy 5 месяцев назад +7

    It’s a business to the girls, simple as that, they have to pay for their education and families,

  • @frazbgy
    @frazbgy 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for sharing,I am planning my first trip to Thailand.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +2

      Good luck, wear a raincoat when it's wet, stay safe and don't leave your big head at the airport

    • @mikehunt5637
      @mikehunt5637 4 месяца назад +2

      Dude. Either go to a soapy massage parlor or Cafe Thermae. An hour for a soapy massage will cost about $74 for a regular room and it is full service. As soon as you decide on the type of room a ton of girls for you to choose will line up for you to chose one of them (or two if you pay for it). Cafe Thermae is good if you want to take a girl back to your room, but she will probably cost just a little bit more at (around $81) for an hour. Don't choose the same girl twice.
      If you go to a soapy massage parlor, you shouldn't have any worries about your money/wallet. If you take a girl back to your hotel room, ALWAYS have your valuables (anything you consider valuable) in the hotel safe and when your girl goes into the shower, go ahead an put your wallet in the safe too and don't take it out until she goes back into the shower to clean up.

  • @les8518
    @les8518 5 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent video. Thank you.

  • @jimgoodreau1245
    @jimgoodreau1245 3 месяца назад +6

    You miss a good point! Many bars have short time rooms available an premises, no need to take out and no bar fines!😊

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 месяца назад +1

      @@philipdupont2308 thats what i heard. bar fine taking them out or keeping them in. kind of think bringing someone to your hotel room or condo is kind of scary. What happens when you fall asleep? are you going to wake up?

    • @davidhartwell4826
      @davidhartwell4826 Месяц назад

      @@jimmyzarkis6276 Fall asleep? Can't you keep going all night?😜

  • @tariqahassan5692
    @tariqahassan5692 Месяц назад +4

    Actually, I learned so many new English words in this video except the word "cobbers" Anyone can explain its meaning pls..

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  Месяц назад +3

      Definitions of cobber. noun. Australian term for a pal. type of: brother, buddy, chum, crony, pal, sidekick.

  • @henkdegroot5872
    @henkdegroot5872 3 дня назад +1

    A friend of mine dubbed Soi6 a Ladies Exhibition Catwalk. After examining this video it's more of a Red Light District.....

  • @DanStratocaster1
    @DanStratocaster1 19 дней назад +3

    Good job.

  • @BlackTiger-p8s
    @BlackTiger-p8s Месяц назад +5

    The land of smiles is much better than the west for men!

  • @alexjackson4558
    @alexjackson4558 Месяц назад +6

    GREAT INFORMATION. IT SOUNDED GREAT UNTIL I THOUGHT ABOUT POSSIBLY CONTRACTING H.I.V. THEN YOU LOST ME!!

  • @user-fv8lm8hs9s
    @user-fv8lm8hs9s 5 месяцев назад +5

    Absolutely 💯 correct

  • @maxmaxwell8200
    @maxmaxwell8200 15 дней назад +1

    very informative ty

  • @allenhill1223
    @allenhill1223 3 месяца назад +5

    I like argentina myself.🎉

  • @AJ_real
    @AJ_real Месяц назад +6

    From looking at the videos on here, I think Pattaya is a sh!thole, I'd never go there.

    • @GenXMusicMan
      @GenXMusicMan 7 дней назад

      @@AJ_real it may look like a shithole only because it’s a high touristy area being trashed by mostly obnoxious American and British tourists 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @KPyoutube24
    @KPyoutube24 4 месяца назад +3

    nice video with a lot of pertinent info....thank you....have you visited many of the bars on Soi 6?....i have recently come across one of the few bars there that still do a Live Stream (Desire on Soi 6), where the girls ask for you to buy them a drink....they basically don't do much but flirt with you, stand around looking pretty, and jive talking with you through a couple of the workers who know some English....i really feel sorry for them that they have to be in this kind of profession, but i understand that life is often hard, so no judgement here....i have grown fond of a few of the ladies at that club, and if i ever become a wealthy person, i would visit Pattaya and Desire on Soi 6, and give the ladies some real cash....maybe enough for her to get out of that profession and do something more rewarding and with less risk of danger....don't want a relationship with these bar girls, but would love to help if i could....

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад

      You are a rare gem.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 месяца назад

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand - thank you....

    • @regnorse
      @regnorse 3 месяца назад

      what danger?

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 2 месяца назад

      @@regnorse - bad treatment from foreign men who are only looking to 'cut another notch under their belt' and just looking to use the ladies for their own selfish purposes....the risk of STD's....etc.

  • @caperboy1169
    @caperboy1169 4 месяца назад +8

    It’s not a very smart thing to do. Imagine the STD ?

  • @FINfinFINfinFINfin
    @FINfinFINfinFINfin Месяц назад +9

    I'm surprised nobody has said it, I pay them to leave. I don't want a GF nor a romance. I want my pipes flushed and then I'll drink a beer with me mates.

  • @sgtzulu2507
    @sgtzulu2507 3 месяца назад +1

    Great information thank you sir.

  • @maydolonghydroponicslettuc7267
    @maydolonghydroponicslettuc7267 5 месяцев назад +8

    My husband is there right now having fun while me depressed.enjoying he’s life without he’s family waiting for him to come back.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +5

      I really don't know how to respond to your situation.

    • @28pbtkh23
      @28pbtkh23 5 месяцев назад +2

      Why do you put up with this?

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 5 месяцев назад +5

      Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
      Troll 🧌 identified.

    • @KoKo-kf4nt
      @KoKo-kf4nt 5 месяцев назад +7

      He’ll come back with renewed energy, don’t be calling him with ur depressive chats FFS l leave him alone for a few weeks❤

    • @user-dz5js7jy9i
      @user-dz5js7jy9i 4 месяца назад +4

      Think you need to look at yourself as to why he wants to go there. I'm guessing the fun has filtered away from the relationship? Can't really blame him

  • @matthewbaker6177
    @matthewbaker6177 Месяц назад +4

    One group of men you did not cover is people like me, who really do not want to get married. I am happy to enjoy short term casual relationships. But there it ends. I get all the tricks played on me and I laugh and walk away.

  • @taalofaa
    @taalofaa 4 месяца назад +8

    I remember my first year in Los Angeles , Ca . USA. Dance halls with Mexican ,Chicana and Latina girls were everywhere. To this day not one hispanic can point out the difference between the three. Anyhow these dance halls were packed full of girls. To dance with them you had to buy tickets which were 50 cents for a minute. Zero desired to slow dance so there you were dancing to a mike jackson songs 50 cents a minute. A typical song cost you 1.50 - 2.50. I know it does not sound like a lot but if you got up and danced an hour with a girl it add up. Drinks were 75 cents even for water.
    Thailand back then a girl would go home wit you for 5 dollars as a comparison

    • @pietromora2297
      @pietromora2297 2 месяца назад

      Yeah even the early 90,s the ladies were going back to your room for 200 or 300 baht, 12 to 15 bucks.
      I think these days it's just to easy for them to make money on their drinks.
      Although that's when you play hardball, see I,ve always had a theory about The typical Thai bar girl, that is the more money she makes the more she can spend on her hair,nails, shopping, gold and let's not forget her family and secret Thai boyfriend. And of course her friends out in the night clubs flashing all your money around fkn Classic game mate 😂

  • @KMOinT
    @KMOinT 4 месяца назад +10

    I am sure there are many bar girls in Thailand that would like to have a real relationship, and a normal job.
    However… due to circumstances beyond their control, such as lack of education, and/or family responsibilities, they must work doing what they can to make money.
    I actually had a relationship with a bar girl when I first arrived in Thailand.
    While we did have sex, I never paid for it. I would however buy her food and coffee in the mornings.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +2

      You are correct, I doubt they graduated high school with the dream of becoming a bar girl (well some may have).

    • @KMOinT
      @KMOinT 4 месяца назад +2

      It is what they have chosen for a job. 7-11 workers probably make 9-10k per month.
      I can see what lures these girls into the bar scene at a young age.
      Once they realize that is not the job they really wanted, it is already too late.
      Just my thoughts on it.

    • @jimlawrence4046
      @jimlawrence4046 4 месяца назад +3

      Unfortunately some realise that with there limited opportunities, the money they can as a prostitute , with other dubious income streams such as sponsorship from several people is better than being in a normal relationship

    • @terrymedlicott3580
      @terrymedlicott3580 4 месяца назад +6

      None of it is beyond their control , it is a lifestyle choice . Most squander the money they get. A little bit is sent to families, do not fall for the hard luck stories.

    • @BillyTheKid-l5j
      @BillyTheKid-l5j 3 месяца назад +1

      We rescued a dog in walking st pattaya back in 1999 poor dog, we brought him back home and named him Noi, only problem was he would "hump" any thing ! Even the cat and chickens on the farm ....

  • @keepitreal1547
    @keepitreal1547 5 месяцев назад +5

    WOW that 80% figure is huge.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +2

      It does seem large but I can only repeat what research shows me.

    • @keepitreal1547
      @keepitreal1547 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand
      Sure Ray & maybe it is correct.

  • @WychardNL
    @WychardNL 5 месяцев назад +4

    The Thai girl want to hold hands while walking to send the message to other Thai girls that her farang is occupied...

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +2

      Thai girl, yes. Thai bar girl, I think it is part of the act to convince you she cares for you.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 месяца назад +2

      and have to watch out for the the loosing face thing

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 месяца назад +1

      @@marksallai2289 - what is 'loosing face' in their country?

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 месяца назад +2

      @@KPyoutube24 in there Head loosing face is you picking up a different girl from her bar or even walking past with another girl - but she can have as many blokes or customers as she wants work that one out - sometimes it depends on the girl or you make it clear from the start you are a Butterfly and will choose other girls

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 месяца назад

      @@marksallai2289 - i understand....but i am not there to be used, either....

  • @mangostickyrice555
    @mangostickyrice555 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thumbs up 👍 Ray

  • @phillippe9458
    @phillippe9458 5 месяцев назад +1

    Right, right and right. Can only agree. If you seriously looking for a Thai relation why not consider another city then the 3 mentioned? A relation with a beer bar "lady" is a great way to spend lots of Baht. And at the end...? I came to Thailand the first time 2006 and worked in a beer bar for two years. One emplyee told me as a joke: tee rak, rak mak,mak (darling I love you very much)..but i LOVE YOUR MONEY MORE. And, frankly, in a beer bar is it all about money. Your money. Don´t send money when you return home. If you finally like to settle down, don´t build a house in her small village. Consult a lawer and speak with expats. Start with this: I don´t have money.

  • @geraldrakers4746
    @geraldrakers4746 2 месяца назад +1

    You my friend are 100%correct😂.

  • @robhythe
    @robhythe 5 месяцев назад +6

    Most of the bargirls are ordinary caring ladies trying to make some money for there families as you say , alot are there for a few years and hope to go back or get other jobs ! They have a salary so most won't go with a fella if they don't want too ! They get better at getting lady drinks !
    I go to Thailand as it's beautiful and visit all over the country seeing all the temples etc , so don't put all men in the same boat ! I do visit Bangkok and Pattaya and enjoy what's on offer and on average pay £1500 for long time ! Some ladies do really want relationships with foreign men !
    Most as I said are caring and want to be loved but obviously need money for there families!
    Please don't stereotype all of them !
    Ive been going for alot of years !

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +3

      I do not judge bar girls and am well aware they have few choices to support themselves and their families. Freelancers, on the other hand are another breed of cattle.

    • @28pbtkh23
      @28pbtkh23 5 месяцев назад +3

      He did not stereotype them. He explicitly said that he does not think that these girls are bad, and that they do this job merely due to circumstances, namely poverty and limited education.

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 5 месяцев назад

      If they don't go with fellas they don't get salary.
      It's more Commission based work.

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@28pbtkh23actually many are BAD.

    • @robhythe
      @robhythe 5 месяцев назад

      Understood ! What I should have put was anyone watching shouldn't judge or stereotype ! As alot of people do !

  • @denegodinho2617
    @denegodinho2617 4 месяца назад +1

    I don't mind taking up a job there and working there in Thailand.

  • @606pretty
    @606pretty 4 месяца назад +3

    I really want to go for my 60th Birthday in June. I've traveled for love or the feeling of in Colombia and The DR. You really do fall for these chics! Yes knowing what they do! In America there is no dating with attractive women @ @n older age!!!!

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 месяца назад +2

      Correct. As an older guy, you have to head to SE Asia.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +2

      As long as you are in good health, finding true love in Thailand is not difficult.

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 месяца назад +5

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand I think it is basically impossible to stay single in Thailand. It is the polar opposite of the west, where so many of the women are bossy, entitled, overweight and bitter.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +3

      @@Nordic_Sky You describe them pretty well. I have been married to my Thai lady for 14 years and if we parted, I would not even consider dating a western woman.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 4 месяца назад +3

      Yes an Older man can live again in Thailand 100% - when you come back from Thailand Western girls will hardly cross your mind any more in fact you tend to avoid them

  • @carlrenner5975
    @carlrenner5975 19 часов назад

    Off to Patong in November, hotel right in the centre. Bangla Road and OTOP a short walk away....yes, wearing a jacket is always wise....plenty of indulgence to be had....no emotional connections to be made.
    Tried a proper relationship once, gorgeous woman from Sisaket.....but she got greedy, wanted the world from me.
    Now its different, ill buy you a few drinks, a plate of food and then do it like they do on the discovery channel.
    If im tired then a massage with a happy ending will suffice.
    And remember guys, some sweets may contain nuts....avoid the choking hazards...😂

  • @johnerdelyi4208
    @johnerdelyi4208 4 месяца назад +2

    It's worth all the risks just do it 😊 !

  • @pete531
    @pete531 5 месяцев назад +1

    Scene game covered very well.

  • @user-tz4zm7fv9d
    @user-tz4zm7fv9d 5 месяцев назад +1

    Same here in the USA, over here more younger and have pimp to correct money sometimes I feel sorry for the girls 😢😢

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад

      I suspect it is somewhat different but I understand your point.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 месяца назад

      with looking at videos and doing some other research, i too am starting to feel sorry for a lot of these young girls and ladies that have to work in this type of industry, and give much of themselves, just to not get much in return from their job....i don't agree with it, and i think anyone that get's scammed in this information technology age is just a foolish person, but i can see why many of these girls result to trying to scam anyone they can that can get them the money they need to take care of themselves and their families....it's often a cruel world out here....

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +1

      @@KPyoutube24 You obviously understand the way it is. I personally have a lot of sympathy for girls with no choice but to screw fat, smelly old me to earn a living.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 месяца назад

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand - yes, i agree, especially for women who may not have any other means to make a living because of the poor conditions of their country....

  • @vinz224
    @vinz224 5 месяцев назад +2

    All thought most of the gals ive run across in the bars demand condoms I wonder are they required to test regularly for HIv and other STD?

  • @jdshemp
    @jdshemp 4 месяца назад +5

    Bar Girls Can't eat Love...

  • @dannyw2313
    @dannyw2313 2 месяца назад +4

    How accurate is it please, that most freelancers have HIV and such like. This is why they don’t work in a bar?

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  2 месяца назад +3

      According to my research, many bars require the girls to be tested regularly for STDs, this is not true for freelancers.

    • @matthewbaker6177
      @matthewbaker6177 Месяц назад

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand actually many bars do not test anymore. They did when it was considered a thing. Only a few actually have the girls tested now. And yes freelancers are a mix of those who can't or shouldn't work in the bars due to their disease carrying status, but also ladies after a bit of extra cash. It really is a lottery and one I am not prepared to play. I avoid all freelancers personally.

    • @tinacollins9213
      @tinacollins9213 Месяц назад

      620,000 have HIV in Thailand 10,060 new cases in Pattaya

  • @606pretty
    @606pretty 4 месяца назад +1

    Whats the date site?

  • @davidforbes6250
    @davidforbes6250 4 месяца назад +2

    Beauty Newc!

  • @2thdriller1
    @2thdriller1 5 месяцев назад +1

    maybe a lavalier microphone needed?

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +1

      Maybe you are correct, but for me this non-monetized channel is a pensioner's unpaid hobby, thus I didn't spend thousands to set up a professional studio. Sorry if it does not meet your standards.

  • @minttrax
    @minttrax 3 месяца назад +1

    nicely done sir love ur work

  • @606pretty
    @606pretty 4 месяца назад

    Thx u kindly👏👏

  • @Dutch-Buddha
    @Dutch-Buddha 5 месяцев назад +3

    on 04.33 u say 6.000 per month bud u mean 60.000 i think

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +5

      Not 60,000 per month. 6,000 -9,000 is the average salary paid by the bar owner.

    • @Dutch-Buddha
      @Dutch-Buddha 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand so she have 500 barfine and then 6,000 Monthly salary paidt by the bar oner and then wat she Negotiates whit the costumur

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Dutch-Buddha yep, 6000. Some bars give some of the fine, but not all. Yep, she keeps all the client pays.

    • @arttynes3558
      @arttynes3558 5 месяцев назад

      60,000 would be the low end
      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +3

      @@arttynes3558 if you are referring to gross income from sex services, you are probably correct but the 6000 - 9000 is on average what the bar owner pays as monthly salary.

  • @user-pz2mj1cu8w
    @user-pz2mj1cu8w 4 месяца назад +3

    If renting girl for night, is there a blood check place to get tested for social deceases and hiv? That's what i'd do or wear a rubber

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +1

      Yes, there are labs, clinics, and hospitals that can check but it is easier to just be sensible and wear a raincoat.

    • @user-pz2mj1cu8w
      @user-pz2mj1cu8w 4 месяца назад

      Thank you I'm suscribed. Like your channel

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад

      @@user-pz2mj1cu8w thanks for your support.

    • @KPyoutube24
      @KPyoutube24 4 месяца назад +2

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand - pretty risky, even if wearing a jimmy....they can sometime come loose or break....sex with loose women, wherever you are, is always a risk....should probably try to just get to know her for several days, and see if you feel comfortable taking the next step to the sack....

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +1

      @@KPyoutube24 How will you ascertain whether someone has an STD by chatting? I doubt they will volunteer this info, and I know they are well versed actresses.

  • @shanehester5317
    @shanehester5317 Месяц назад +4

    i have a question.why go through all that when in a developed country getting an escort is a phone call away.

    • @Kalervo80
      @Kalervo80 Месяц назад +1

      I guess depends on the country, but in some countries its 1 hour of poor service for almost 10x of the price that a full day of good service would cost in Thailand

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  Месяц назад +1

      Are you implying that Thailand is undeveloped?

    • @TheSuperdodgy
      @TheSuperdodgy 16 дней назад

      Have a good long look at the quality of the escort that shows up. A 40+ clapped out old ugly moll.

  • @tyreeballard
    @tyreeballard 19 дней назад +1

    Yeah, ima pass.

  • @jerichojohnson3219
    @jerichojohnson3219 3 месяца назад

    Sir, What's a "cobber" - I'm Filipina

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  3 месяца назад

      An Australian term that basically means a friend(s), or companion(s).

  • @hakkikilic4503
    @hakkikilic4503 5 месяцев назад +1

    I really wonder the bar girl's average monthly salary including everything. I guess it's 20000 baht a month.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +1

      Including everything I would guess closer to 50k plus.

    • @pete531
      @pete531 5 месяцев назад

      dont worry, they make BANK, i've seen it

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 месяца назад +2

      Not even close. More like 30-50K baht.

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  4 месяца назад +1

      @@Nordic_Sky probably a lot more in many cases.

    • @Nordic_Sky
      @Nordic_Sky 4 месяца назад +1

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand No doubt there are a small number who are busy all the time and have several foreign sponsors. They can make much more. However, I think the vast majority of them are in the 30-50K range, which is still attractive compensation for an uneducated girl whose alternative is an 8K factory job in Isaan, or 10-15K in a dead-end job in BKK. But most of these women have a kid at home being raised by grandma, so they need the money.

  • @johnrburr
    @johnrburr 3 месяца назад +3

    Many of the girls are looking for a good husband, and a usual precursor to this has the man return to his country and pay her money monthly to 'reserve' her, as it were. He'll return, perhaps many times, as the relationship progresses.
    Some girls maintain several such men who are unaware of the others, having been convinced that they're the only one. A big giveaway is her unavailability when you expect to be able to have exclusive access, and get your money's worth.
    Although such deceptions can be highly lucrative for a girl, many - most - must support their children after the father has abandoned them, and their entire extended family may be relying on their income. Additionally, it's unlikely they'll ever be able to save money, or even have it occur to them to ferret any away for a rainy day!

    • @sambog2635
      @sambog2635 3 месяца назад

      u mean use commonsense???

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 месяца назад

      this just in, women in the US maintain a roster list of guys that may or may not know about each other that pay all their bills. nothing special there just more open.

    • @giggergigger1
      @giggergigger1 23 дня назад

      Relationship bro really ? rofl 😂

  • @eyermolochis6707
    @eyermolochis6707 Месяц назад +1

    How much is 4000b

  • @denegodinho2617
    @denegodinho2617 4 месяца назад +2

    I am looking for a serious relationship with a bar girl from Thailand. If all goes well I will marry her.
    Now I am living in Bangalore, India. Hoping to make a trip to Thailand after couple of months. Its 10:10pm now in India

  • @davidsmith5239
    @davidsmith5239 5 месяцев назад +2

    Never heard of a bargirl’s getting 50% of the barfine!! Usually only 100 baht 🤨

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +2

      I stressed "sometimes, but not often", the girl gets 1/2.

    • @ChupraCumbra
      @ChupraCumbra 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@AllAboutLifeInThailandhard to believe

    • @pete531
      @pete531 5 месяцев назад +1

      i have seen it, they share barfine sometimes. i mean girls gets a cut of the BF you paid

    • @michaelwolff264
      @michaelwolff264 3 месяца назад

      Actually some girls tip the mamasan on top

  • @SeanBunzick
    @SeanBunzick 2 месяца назад +1

    Great video and TOTALLY True but the airport IS pronounced "Soo-Wanna-Poom", NOT "Soo-Varna-Bhumi"...;-)

  • @stevelaconte8802
    @stevelaconte8802 4 месяца назад +1

    Sad but sounds like fun lol

  • @TheDrakulie
    @TheDrakulie 3 месяца назад +7

    i don't like iusing condoms

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  3 месяца назад +5

      Then take your chances.

    • @TheDrakulie
      @TheDrakulie 3 месяца назад +4

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand Not worried about getting any girl pregnant but more worried about catching HIV

    • @jimmyzarkis6276
      @jimmyzarkis6276 2 месяца назад +1

      thats what every one in the US says to me too. I also take a pill for that as well. Not sure if they have something like that similar in other countries. Still don't trust just using it. But i use condoms and the anti viral pills. and i still dont trust them both.

    • @boixos46
      @boixos46 Месяц назад

      @@TheDrakulie when its raining i take allways a rain jacket for not get sick

    • @davidhartwell4826
      @davidhartwell4826 Месяц назад +1

      Who does but it's necessary when having sex with strangers to prevent spread of STI's. Most working girls will insist they be used. Answer is to have one regular girlfriend but that is like going to Skegness for your holiday every year. You know, been there, done that, know every inch of it and it's often a bit dull.

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 3 месяца назад +6

    Passport bros are incredibly naive. They really are blind to see they are being taken for a ride

    • @PM-lz5gs
      @PM-lz5gs 2 месяца назад

      They obviously still beat western women hands down!

    • @muppet64
      @muppet64 29 дней назад

      At least I'm only losing $100 with a Thai girl. A western Girl will take My kids, house, half my salary and pension. Do the maths @Scorned. Most guys that go to Thailand have been burned already by a western girl, that's why they prefer the arrangement in Thailand.

  • @michaelhume7694
    @michaelhume7694 Месяц назад +2

    Is there any lesbian women in thiland

  • @Crazyhorse71
    @Crazyhorse71 Месяц назад

    omg 180 thb...555

  • @TL-xw6fh
    @TL-xw6fh 27 дней назад +2

    I have always boycott flying to Thailand simply because of this seedy part of the country. It has gained such a bad reputation that no sensible family man will even want to go there.

    • @GeFarr
      @GeFarr 20 дней назад +1

      Too bad for you living your life like that. Tijuana has a bad rep to but geuss what it's also AWESOME. THAILAND ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ you're a 🤡

    • @TheSuperdodgy
      @TheSuperdodgy 16 дней назад

      Sorry to hear that you are denying yourself such a fantastic experience.

    • @donaldshotts4429
      @donaldshotts4429 4 дня назад

      My wife and I love Cosy Beach in Pattaya and I never see the freelancing stuff. Her hometown of Ubon is kind of boring, but we're going south this trip which is beautiful

  • @singas2854
    @singas2854 5 месяцев назад +1

    Dates 😂😂😂

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +1

      A good option.

    • @singas2854
      @singas2854 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand paid visits more like it 😂😂

    • @AllAboutLifeInThailand
      @AllAboutLifeInThailand  5 месяцев назад +2

      @@singas2854 In some cases highly overpaid with poor service.

    • @singas2854
      @singas2854 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@AllAboutLifeInThailand 😂😂😂 upto you

    • @GeeCeeWU
      @GeeCeeWU 5 месяцев назад

      @@singas2854 It's never up to you as they will haggle.

  • @LonglingEriksen
    @LonglingEriksen Месяц назад +3

    she did hurt you?

  • @user-qs8lq7ok9d
    @user-qs8lq7ok9d 4 месяца назад +4

    I love Thai girls.

  • @MrKen-mc4bu
    @MrKen-mc4bu Месяц назад +3

    You are out of touch with the current prices for bar fines in Pattaya. The prices for bar fines have increased dramatically since COVID finished. I've seen bar fines alone of 2,000 Baht - and - even HIGHER on Walking Street and in LK Metro! In addition to that - some girls are asking for 5,000 Baht for SHORT TIME!!

    • @user-on2se7eo1q
      @user-on2se7eo1q Месяц назад +1

      @@MrKen-mc4bu Why would you ever go to Walking Street or an A-Go-Go bar? Ridiculous prices.

    • @muppet64
      @muppet64 29 дней назад +3

      The only reason Girls quote 5,000 Baht for short time is because they really DON'T want to go back to your room. They are saving face, instead of saying no, they quote the high price. So either you are fat, old, boring, smelly or all of the above!!! Believe me, if it was a fit 19 YO they wanted to be with, the price would be a lot lower.

  • @taalofaa
    @taalofaa 4 месяца назад +3

    Good presentation. I have trust isues and since my first stop in thailand was pat pong saw bar girls so old they had cobwebs on their legs and ass prints on the seats.

  • @tomc.2808
    @tomc.2808 Месяц назад +2

    I hope that girls have some oxygen masks for these older customers...🩺🧯