Parental Alienation Syndrome: A Deep Dive into the Psychology
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
- Hello, everyone, and welcome to our channel. Today, we're delving into a topic that affects countless families but often goes under the radar - Parental Alienation Syndrome. In this video, we'll explore what Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is, how it can impact children and families, and what can be done to address and prevent it.
[Understanding Parental Alienation Syndrome]
Parental Alienation Syndrome, often abbreviated as PAS, is a term used to describe a set of behaviors in which one parent attempts to turn their child against the other parent. These behaviors can include spreading false information, belittling the other parent, or even denying the child access to the other parent. It's a deeply complex and emotionally charged issue that can have significant consequences.
[How Does Parental Alienation Happen?]
To understand PAS better, it's crucial to recognize how it typically unfolds. It often starts with a contentious divorce or separation, and one parent may use manipulation or emotional tactics to influence the child's perception of the other parent. Over time, this can lead to a strained or even estranged relationship between the child and the targeted parent.
[The Impact on Children]
The most heartbreaking aspect of PAS is the impact it has on children. They may experience confusion, guilt, anger, and long-term emotional scars. We'll delve into the emotional and psychological toll PAS can take on children and discuss why it's essential to address this issue promptly.
[Recognizing the Signs]
It's crucial for both parents and professionals to recognize the signs of Parental Alienation Syndrome. We'll discuss common red flags and behaviors associated with PAS, helping you identify if it might be happening in your family or someone you know.
[Legal and Therapeutic Approaches]
Addressing PAS often requires a multi-faceted approach. Legal remedies may be necessary to protect the child's rights and ensure a healthy relationship with both parents. Additionally, therapy and counseling can play a significant role in helping families heal and rebuild trust.
[Preventing Parental Alienation]
Prevention is always better than cure. We'll provide practical tips and strategies for preventing Parental Alienation Syndrome, emphasizing the importance of open communication and conflict resolution during and after a separation.
[Conclusion]
In conclusion, Parental Alienation Syndrome is a challenging and often heartbreaking issue that can profoundly impact families. By understanding what PAS is, recognizing the signs, and taking proactive steps to prevent it, we can work towards healthier relationships and happier childhoods.
My children and I are victims of Severe Parental Alienation. No child should ever be put through this. It's pure evil. Not just their father alienated us the mastermind is his girlfriend. Narcissist and psychopaths.
Mastermind …
Perfect description! X
It’s typical that they have to “gang up”.
They are weak , dark , negative, empty souls- they need other people’s energy to fullfill their pathetic self.
They arnt even sufficient enough to “alienate” on their own !
It’s an obvious red flag .
These side ‘cults’ they create against the other parent with their little followers is the obvious red flag and should be called out by courts etc immediately.
It’s such an obvious pattern that it bothers me that in the year 2024 authorities and society are still blind to it
I have an update ! ,😭😭😭😭😭
I believe my daughter and I have been unintentional victims of this and only just discovering this as my daughter turned 18 and stuffing with relationships and any suggestion from myself. It’s very sad and I feel zero anger toward anyone rather despair as things all of a sudden make sense yet remains an extremely sensitive topic.
Call THE FBI MAKE A REPORT❤
I have a suspicion that you might be the narcissist and psychopath
Why take action? It's not like anyone ever helps you. That's been my experience. Over and over again. Time and time again. It's like people that should know better are ignorant to it.
Screaming from the roof tops only to be fallen on deaf ears. Even knowing she’s being physically abused.
Went through the same.
My heart goes out to you
Q: I've seem to notice that when it's about parents it's called parental alienation and when it's about children it's called estrangement.
Any comment on this ?
Parental alienation refers to a situation where a child is manipulated by one parent to reject the other, while estrangement describes a child distancing from a parent typically due to genuine issues. ❤️
@@MedicalCentric Hee tnx, it was so obvious I've overlooked it 🤭
Though I can see how one could lead to the other. 🤔
These seem very complex situations for a human psyche to deal with.
Specially for children's brains who are still in development.
You're right, this is a deep dive.
Is there a name for a sibling manipulating everybody apart ?
@@MedicalCentric So, parental alienation has kept my now adult children from having anything to do with me for 13 years?
Does the term "parental alienation" still apply when the child is in their 30s?
It would seem to me that children in their late 20s and early 30s may have graduated to parental estrangement at this point.
If she is a petty spouse, she’s even a more terrible mother
If he's a manipulative spouse, he's an even more manipulative father.
one parent is the woman ,ost of the time.
My ex wife made my daughter hate me, she was on dating sites and met a guy been with him a year and a half,,, signs were there but I didn't see it. My ex spent evenings in her bedroom for 3 years with my daughter, I asked her before she made a fake assault charge to get me out of my house, I asked her why did you lie to gemma, she said because I was mad
I'm sorry to hear about your experience; it’s important to seek professional support to navigate these complex emotional and legal challenges. ❤️
This world is cursed
why do you think that ?
@@MedicalCentric
Because it is full of injustice
I think you have TOTALLY missed the point!! Alienation is a side effect of a messed up individual with a personality disorder! Don’t give hope to people watching this to recognise and come together as parents in order for this NOT to happen!! It ONLY happens when the other parent does NOT see the child as the priority!!!!!!!
It's important to understand that alienation can arise in various contexts, but prioritizing a child's well-being should always remain central to effective co-parenting.
YOU CAN NOT WORK THINGS OUT WITH A NARCISSIST WHO ALIENATES CHILDREN FROM A PARENT! My kids hate everything about me. I had sole legal and physical custody and he messed with them so bad he took them from me by their choice. They call me names, ignore me, yell at me have assaulted me. They’re adults now and say the most disgusting things to me. It hurts like hell. The other parent enjoys it. The other parent has resentment that they are using your kids to abuse you now that they have no access to you. These are manipulative people and usually narcissists. No loving parent would do this. So your not understanding only helps that a user hurt this other person more. You shamed her for her feeling. You don’t know what someone is experiencing. If you can’t be supportive just shut up! Those of us who’ve had this done to us are sick of people like you expecting us to be everyone’s hope when we need some hope!
Don't you know that when one parent demonizes the other to the children it hurts the children? The children are a product of both parents. If one parent demonizes a mentally ill parent, what's to stop the child from killing themselves the first time they experience their own mental issue? After all, they don't want to be like that parent because then they will be rejected because they are bad too. Children need to be taught compassion, not hatred, faultfinding, and vindictiveness.
You're not exactly coming across as the picture of mental health and wellness in your comment. Which parent are you? Living in a black-and-white world where something ONLY happens the way you say it happens. Thank you for the window into your world.
@@missusmac1 I agree.
That person is generally on the cluster b spectrum. They also will stop at nothing to destroy the alienated parent. Don’t ever fo yourself to think years after divorce, that individual will have changed. They don’t . They get worse and alienate grown children causing more and more distress upon the already confused.
Generally the system is very helpful to sociopaths, etc because the system is designed that way.
@@MedicalCentric that is asking for a miracle from the parent that is alienating. The children and their relationships with the parents need to be dealt with separately from the abusive parent that is causing the alienation. They have the ability to destroy the other parent, basically disabling any support system the alienated parent has. They will do absolutely anything to destroy, so the subject is moot point given the alienated parent has most likely lost friends, family, home, their children, their spouse; in a seemingly endless cycle of covert dealings. The kids will endure this. They have a parent that is dedicated to the destruction of their other parent. To make that into “how to coparent” is absurd. I have dealt with it for 15 years after I left my husband and he hasn’t stopped. Now he alienates my children individually. I had no power to change the situation. I had to get super strong and let go of everything I thought love and family was. It is painful, yet validating when he is an ass to his own children. It breaks my heart over and over and over. The upside is that I can see what he is doing and can be helpful to my children. I pray they never endure what I went through.
I will be their number 1 support system under Gods law until the day of my transition.
Keep praying and know things will be ok. Right your wrongs. Love yourself. Talk to God. Know that it’s in the hands of the real law. It takes years to find your map of reality if we don’t get away from these people. We get sucked in to their dramas. But just remember, their drama doesn’t inspire and their pain is not for us to fix. Stay and grow for your kids bottom line.
Let the law do what it wants. It will never win my children (now grown) to the dark side.
The narc videos were only just beginning when my head was twisted and I couldn’t take it anymore.
They have become mainstream and now it’s being recognized. That’s growth. Yet, many of us had to learn on our own that we weren’t constantly at fault for everything and not responsible for everyone’s behavior and failures
Mothers are twice as likely as fathers to be found to have alienated children from the other parent,
but this reflects the fact that mothers are more likely to have custody or primary care of their children.
Not true. It's all about who can afford the best lawyer
Absolutely true. Victim of it PAS myself. My parents divorced when I was 4 or 5 so I had vague memories of what it was like with my dad there in the same house. It's been 36 years now and I still struggle with how someone could feel good about using a kid as a TOOL to hurt the other parent. It's shitty and I hold deep resentment against her nowadays.
When it happens, it always happens to whichever parent is the least selfish, cruel, vindictive, and manipulative.
What decent parent would demonize the other parent in the eyes of their own children?
The children possess the DNA of both parents.