Creating an Internal Validation System

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024

Комментарии • 15

  • @eviemorgs
    @eviemorgs 8 месяцев назад

    This is such an important message thank you, please make more videos on how to work on this

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor  8 месяцев назад +1

      I’m glad you found this helpful and yes, I will be creating more content in relation to self-esteem, validation, and self-worth so please keep an eye out. Thanks for leaving a comment 💕

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor  3 года назад +1

    Please feel free to share your thoughts about the idea of creating an internal validation system so that you don’t have to seek external validation.

  • @peacefulsounds5536
    @peacefulsounds5536 3 года назад +2

    Very good words of wisdom.. I like your channel...

  • @BenjaminJex
    @BenjaminJex 3 года назад +2

    I’ve broken out of that system of looking to others to validate that my feelings are real; how have you seen people heal friendships and relationships where letting that fear get out of control has caused a lot of harm and destroyed trust?

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor  3 года назад

      Yes, it’s really a vicious cycle when someone needs to seek validation and approval from others rather than looking deep within themselves for the answers.

  • @jamiecameron2260
    @jamiecameron2260 2 года назад +2

    Thank you! After attending my first year of university and getting into my first relationship I’ve noticed that I started to second guess a lot of my actions. I would at times put my partner above some of my duties right responsibilities. She understands that I may be busy but I would not. I would start making expectations for my partner and end up disappointed when those thoughts did not come true. I looked to others to bring me up but I look to myself and bring myself up.

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your story Jamie. What you spoke about is quite common in terms of second guessing yourself. It’s so much more empowering to be confident enough to trust your decisions and validate yourself. Once you do that, people around you will reinforce the confidence that they see. I wish you all the best.

  • @lash826
    @lash826 2 года назад

    Great video! Will come back to this as a reminder ;)

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor  2 года назад +1

      Thank you. Appreciate your comments and glad you found it of benefit 😊

  • @HeyItsQuayshawn
    @HeyItsQuayshawn 3 года назад +1

    This is an awesome & very needed concept. Can you please make a part 2? This video focuses on the benefits of having an IVS but I didn't hear a lot about how to practically implement it.

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I really appreciate you taking time to watch the video and leave your comments. Yes, I will certainly make a part 2 to this video with more details. I’m not sure when it will be but I will give myself a reminder to
      do that no problem 👍🏽

  • @SociallyGuide
    @SociallyGuide 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this!!!