my unpopular opinions of Gilmore Girls

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  • @sophiaizzy
    @sophiaizzy  9 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve just posted a RATING THE GILMORE CHARACTERS FROM WORST TO BEST VIDEO, be sure to check that out too if you enjoyed this video🥰🫶

  • @KaleidoAbridged
    @KaleidoAbridged 10 месяцев назад +188

    I didn't understand why Jess worked so hard to get Rory, only for him to not give any effort once he got her.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +27

      RIGHT?? Probably just liked the chase I guess

    • @happytofu5
      @happytofu5 10 месяцев назад +36

      Did he work hard though? I felt like he liked / sought her attention but then could not handle the responsibility to having a relationship.

    • @KaleidoAbridged
      @KaleidoAbridged 10 месяцев назад +1

      I remember him constantly seeking her out, talk crap about Dean and make Rory doubt her relationship. He got a girlfriend just to make Rory jealous and he went to the 24 H dance just to linger and make Rory notice him.@@happytofu5

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets 10 месяцев назад +16

      @@happytofu5 He put the most effort into annoying Dean.

    • @goldminnie2086
      @goldminnie2086 10 месяцев назад +11

      He viewed her as “the prize”. That what I think anyway.

  • @kawhwishwjwisgwgyayafqywue6288
    @kawhwishwjwisgwgyayafqywue6288 11 месяцев назад +117

    i feel like richard's uninvolvement with lorelei's life when she was growing up (compared to emily's intrusiveness) really badly affected lorelai (like in the reboot when she couldn't name her best memory with richard at the funeral/wake). he was so silent on how emily treated lorelai and he just seems to agree because he's traditional and values his wife's word over his daughter's. his silence pretty much tells lorelei that he takes emily's side

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  11 месяцев назад +7

      Yeah that’s all very true i agree with you !!

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets 10 месяцев назад +4

      He takes her side (mostly) when he's not silent too.

    • @juliatauchhammer9521
      @juliatauchhammer9521 Месяц назад

      I always viewed Richard was an enabler of Emily's manipulation and narsessistic abuse and an overall emotional absent father

  • @fifi3649
    @fifi3649 10 месяцев назад +66

    Here's my unpopular opinion: all of Rory's love interests were awful

    • @yubbadubbadubba
      @yubbadubbadubba 9 месяцев назад +9

      Agreed. And I also think Rory was pretty awful too. All the infidelities the Gilmores participate almost without consequence or reflection were unpleasant too.

  • @cinnymoongirl
    @cinnymoongirl 10 месяцев назад +65

    FINALLY SOMEONE WHO DISLIKES JESS LIKE MEEEEEE. Sorry for the caps but not really sorry. It needed to be said, Jess was a garbage boyfriend, not only in the basics (not putting any effort into the relationship, taking for granted that Rory was a pushover so he knew she would tolerate his shitty behaviour) but for the party scene where he pressured her in bed, she said NO, clearly, and more than once. In my book, he was done, i always disliked him just as much as i dislike Paris for being so rude and people justifying them as them being "brutally honest", but at the party it was cemented that Jess was trash. Wow he wrote a book? cool, don't care. Wow he told her he loved her? don't care. Got a job and wanted to repay his uncle for every dime spent on supporting his rude ass lazy ass trash teen years? cool, DO NOT CARE.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +9

      Couldn’t have said it better myself!! He wasn’t good enough and that’s just the facts😭🫶✌🏻

  • @katieh8186
    @katieh8186 10 месяцев назад +49

    I love dean, I was lucky to have a similar first boyfriend who was sweet to me and was loved by my family and it is a sweet memory!
    It also was so hard for me watching Rory just step on dean’s heart over and over again
    I also hated Jess!!!! Not only was he awful to Rory but he was rude to everyone around him, family/loved ones, acted like a spoiled brat. I wanted someone to put him in his place so badly

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +4

      Completely agree with you!!❤️🫶

  • @eelenaivan
    @eelenaivan 10 месяцев назад +17

    I also didn't like how in the end all Rory's efforts of going through Chilton and Yale resulted in nothing... but my husband's unpopular opinion😅 is that this outcome is super realistic. As in real life, putting in the work doesn't always result in success and a lot of talented people with good education don't end up with successful or fulfilling careers.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +2

      That’s very true!! It is a good point that the ending was realistic for sure!! I think for the viewers it was probably just underwhelming after all those years of watching Rory studying / putting in all that work 😅😫❤️🫶

  • @MoonOfVelaris
    @MoonOfVelaris 10 месяцев назад +37

    I don't agree with Richard being sweet and unproblematic. There were a few moments where Lorelai told them about her achievements and he ignores it and talks about Christopher and how successful he is. And don't forget his absolutely manipulative and evil way of treating Jason who was his partner. He ruined his whole reputation and Jason lost all his clients. He had to move and start anew only because of Richard. And at that time it did affect Lorelai as well because she was in a relationship with Jason. I think this is pretty problematic. Also the way both Richard and Emely made sure every time that they prefer Rory over Lorelai at all times - it was heartbreaking because Lorelei tried so hard to be accepted by both of them. And they still couldn't show Lorelei their love besides just a few small moments.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +3

      That’s very true !!🫶

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets 10 месяцев назад +6

      He has outright yelled at Lorelai more than once.

    • @OldTownSkater88
      @OldTownSkater88 6 месяцев назад +4

      Also Richard could be very classist jerk. He thought Logan was so perfect for Rory just because he was from a rich family, and was very rude to Dean just because he felt he was too blue collar to be dating Rory.

    • @xxxmanson6803
      @xxxmanson6803 6 месяцев назад +2

      Or his gaslighting EVERY time he was called out. After doing anything wrong he'd turn it around on Lorelai or start that woah is me bs and make her feel bad

  • @happytofu5
    @happytofu5 10 месяцев назад +25

    To me, it felt quite realistic and sadly also relatable how the story with Dean and Jess went. I think it is likely that Rory did not really notice, or maybe tried to suppress her attraction to Jess. I interpret it that she loved Dean, but was more attracted to Jess and had to figure out everything around it. Definetly not meant as an excuse, but on the other hand she was a teenager, figuring out her first relationship. She was an asshole, but which teenager isn't.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +5

      Very good points !!

  • @alecbona4549
    @alecbona4549 11 месяцев назад +33

    In the dozen times I've watched the show all the way through I've never really thought about the fact that they never say "I love you" to each other. 😅

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  11 месяцев назад +5

      Right!! It did always seem to me like the show didn’t emphasise enough of a step up from friends to being in a relationship for them!! I wish they had because I was rooting for them the whole time 😫🫶x

  • @ruthiephelan8506
    @ruthiephelan8506 10 месяцев назад +12

    The only thing dean and Rory had in common was that they thought they were cute. Not a relationship built on anything that can withstand storms, as we can see.

  • @ThelouwseFD
    @ThelouwseFD 11 месяцев назад +65

    First thing I heard was "I like Dean" so I'mma click out of that video because I can't handle that kind of wrong opinion but I'm still leaving a comment so you can get that engagement !

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  11 месяцев назад +9

      Hahahah thank you anyway 😄😭🫶

    • @cinnymoongirl
      @cinnymoongirl 10 месяцев назад +14

      Hahahaha we love a disagreeing but supportive comment. Civilized and kind ♥

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +5

      @@cinnymoongirl FACTS💗💗

    • @ThelouwseFD
      @ThelouwseFD 10 месяцев назад +11

      @@sophiaizzy I may hate Dean but I love real people and I'm not about attacking others over fictional characters 😌💕

  • @soggyfroggy22
    @soggyfroggy22 10 месяцев назад +27

    I actually did not like Dean or Jess. Dean too clingy and Jess standoffish, and picked fights. I actually felt Logan was a better boyfriend. He had his faults though, but learned from them.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +6

      Logan was definitely my fave boyfriend of the 3!! I wish they had stayed together 🥹🥹

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 9 месяцев назад

      I really don't think Logan learned from his mistakes.

  • @yubbadubbadubba
    @yubbadubbadubba 9 месяцев назад +3

    I disagree about Richard. He was really not very present beyond the financial in Lorelei’s life. He allowed his mother to insult his wife. And his initial positive reaction to Rory was because she expressed an interest in books. It’s also implied that he looked down on Emily as he didn’t want Rory engaging in the same life and activities Emily had when she stayed with them. His concern wasn’t that he didn’t think Rory didn’t really want to do it, but that he viewed what Emily was doing as frivolous.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  9 месяцев назад +2

      Very good points!!

  • @soggyfroggy22
    @soggyfroggy22 10 месяцев назад +9

    If I had to pick between the two it would be Dean. He was Rory’s first boyfriend, and that’s why we was clingy. Yes Dean did annoyed me, but not as much as Jess did. Dean built her a car, and I liked that about Dean. Jess knew what he was doing by taking the car trying to piss off Dean, so the car got wreaked. That made me so mad.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +2

      FACTS!! So so true!!!

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 9 месяцев назад

      dean as long broke up with her cause she didn't say I love you back. dean can Bukit lots of cars does that mean Rory should stay with him.

  • @user-dv7lr5zr5o
    @user-dv7lr5zr5o 10 месяцев назад +20

    im soso glad that i am not the only onw that thinks that rory and jess had like no chemistry and that they should've just been friends. tbh i don't think that jess ever respected rory until like towards the end of the show

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +3

      Facts!! He realised what he had when it was too late !!

    • @sofiabrekhova1551
      @sofiabrekhova1551 10 месяцев назад +1

      Actors dated in real life, and the chemistry is there

  • @T_Cup
    @T_Cup 10 месяцев назад +17

    I think Richard’s absence in Lorelei’s life contributed greatly to her flakiness with men, and that then had a ripple effect on Rory’s relationships with men. But other than that, I completely agree with you. Gilmore Girls creator Amy Sherman-Palladino made it clear from the beginning that she wanted to show how Rory was destined to repeat Lorelei’s mistakes, so she constantly forced Rory to act out of character to ensure she turned into Lorelei 2.0, and I hated that. Even if Rory did fail to launch in the end, her coming home and working for the Stars Hollow paper should’ve been portrayed as a positive, like she realized all along that home is where the heart is and that her big time aspirations were never necessary because she’s where she was always meant to be. It didn’t have to be so bitter, but the revival was a mess so I’m not counting it as canon anyway

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +4

      I completely agree!! Rory working in stars hollow didn’t need to be seen as a bad thing at all and she constantly had this pressure that basically made her feel like she constantly had to be doing MORE!!😫🫶x

  • @fifi3649
    @fifi3649 10 месяцев назад +9

    I absolutely hated the whole vasectomy storyline. Jackson not telling Sookie he hasn't had it and getting her pregnant was awful, but no one talks about how Sookie arranged for him to have surgery on HIS body and basically forced him into it. I found both instances to be very disrespectful.
    Instead, if they had developed that storyline with Sookie and Jackson communicating about it like normal adults, it could've been a nice and interesting starting point for the viewers to address those topics.
    I agree on abortion not even being mentioned as an option, but I guess it was still a big taboo when the show came out

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +2

      I completely agree!! The vasectomy storyline was really handled badly and definitely could have been made into a better storyline than it was😫🫶

  • @ellier2018
    @ellier2018 11 месяцев назад +13

    I liked Richard too, way more than Emily, but he was definitely an enabler when Emily would billy Lorelei

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  11 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah I’ve recently realised that too, but I agree he was definitely better than Emily 🫶

  • @nataliekoop3098
    @nataliekoop3098 10 месяцев назад +14

    Im one of those girls that loved Jess but only liked Dean. Jess, imo, had some of the best character development. At first, Rory was too good for Jess, but by the end of the show, Jess was too good for Rory. I think they had amazing chemistry (they were together irl during the show) thats why I loved them together bc it felt real. I really think they are soul mates but met at the wrong time. It would be different if they met as adults. Rory should have said yes to Logan. As for Dean, I hated him when he treated Lindsey really bad about her finding his phone it was so toxic and mean. Justice for Lindsey.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +2

      Justice for Lindsey for sure!!!!🫶🫶

  • @wynterblackwell3640
    @wynterblackwell3640 8 месяцев назад +3

    Mrs Kim DID NOT ALLOW anything to Lane. In fact she threw her out. Lane was an adult and made her choices. Band, living with the guys, getting married, having a great wedding. She lost all the power and at that point she had two choices: never have contact with her only daughter or accept who she is and have a relationship with her. Yes Lane wanted her approval which explains her nail biting over the wedding dress, over her pregnancy etc. but at the end of the day she no longer needed her to allow her to do anything.

  • @krystanoelll
    @krystanoelll 10 месяцев назад +3

    One moment that always sticks out to me is when Mrs. Kim helps Zach write a song. That was so cute to me.

  • @terribletimesone8702
    @terribletimesone8702 10 месяцев назад +6

    I’ve seen the show twice and totally forgot lane had twins

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +1

      It was barely talked about wasn’t it!!!

  • @UmNo-vj3ku
    @UmNo-vj3ku 10 месяцев назад +4

    Ok here it is: I really liked dean at first and I preferred him to Jess at first - but after the whole Lindsay thing I felt like I couldn’t really be team dean anymore - I dislike Jess though and I don’t like Logan either. When it comes to Rory’s opinions though I think that she and Jess probably had the best chemistry ( even though Jess is an ick )
    I probably aged about 20 years before Lorelai and Luke got together 😂
    Logan is annoying though - mainly because even though Rory’s downfall is totally her fault but I’m just saying it all started with him and their relationship.
    When I watch the early seasons back I’m like - I was too harsh on Rory she’s actually not that bad - but then I watch the later seasons I’m like oh yeah that’s why.
    Also sookie is the best character xx

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +1

      Such good points !! 🫶😀

  • @Lilycosygames
    @Lilycosygames 10 месяцев назад +5

    My biggest problem with Dean was him getting angry about Harvard, I don't think they had enough in common. Jess and Rory were better before they started dating it was right person wrong time, in the beginning Rory was too good for Jess, in the end Jess was too good for Rory. But Jess reminded Rory of what was most important in her life.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +1

      Very true!!🫶

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 9 месяцев назад +1

      He also got angry when she didn't say I love you back. And he wouldn't let her explain things without blowing up at her

  • @melissakanina5842
    @melissakanina5842 8 месяцев назад +2

    No Lorerai did made so many comments in every season about Luke being attractive, and she was jealous about every single one if his girlfriends

  • @HuntingViolets
    @HuntingViolets 10 месяцев назад +4

    Oh, I really liked Jason. I just watched a really great video on him too.
    I agree on Jess, though.

  • @Ineffable_Twilight
    @Ineffable_Twilight 9 месяцев назад +3

    I loved jason!!! I feel like they worked great together but i could tell luke would be the end game

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  9 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah for sure!! Jason was definitely added to delay luke and lorelai getting together !! Xx

  • @katea6305
    @katea6305 10 месяцев назад +3

    So I know I'm 7 months late to this video, but I smiled that you said rory and Jess had no chemistry. The actors in real life dated for several years.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +2

      I just felt they were more like friends in the show if ygm 😅🫶

    • @katea6305
      @katea6305 10 месяцев назад +4

      @sophiaizzy Ya I get you. I actually felt they had strong physical chemistry but neither one of them truly loved the other character. To me it was more they wanted what the other person had. Rory had money, prestige, love and admiration, her future was bright and stable. While Jess had defiance against societal pressures, he was an adventurer he would just go and do whatever he felt like and he probably wanted a brighter future and more stability like rori. Also to be respected. I think also while Luke may have provided some of that, I think sometimes in jess's mind is was just another adult forced to take care of him who didn't really want him and who he would ultimately fail.

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@katea6305 I completely agree with you that’s so true!! I’ve never thought about it like that before!! Xx

  • @netaniamullings
    @netaniamullings 7 месяцев назад +2

    I don't like Dean, but I don't see a problem with him wanting a traditional woman.

  • @meghansullivan6812
    @meghansullivan6812 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’m currently on my umpteenth rewatch and WOOF the older I get the more i recognize comments made by characters on the show that don’t sit right w me. Ugh. It’d be one thing if they were all just a sign of the times, but then , for example, the fat shaming continued in that god awful Netflix revival 😩 I’m on season 6 rn and an just oof the later seasons deffo dont hit quite like the early ones but i continue watching nonetheless. Love how we can all be critical of this show yet love it so deeply at the same time. Duality baby seeing grays!

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +1

      So true 🫶🫶

  • @zarouliaall5390
    @zarouliaall5390 11 месяцев назад +7

    I agree with a lot of these points!
    I disagree about Richard not being so bad. In my opinion he's almost worse than Emily, he's so calculated. I didn't particularly like digger, but the way he turned on and sabotaged diggers entire career was the point that I could not forgive him, and I don't think lorelai should have either. It was weird the way she took Richard's side when what he did was so awful. Like he didn't just betray him in one deal or something, he literally ruined his reputation and attempted to ruin his entire career. It was vile.
    I have such a love hate relationship with the revival. I absolutely love Emily's character development, but she's literally the only one that develops at all(maybe jess?). I also think people don't discuss how much they ruined Logans character. He had some of the best development of any character throughout the main series, and then they just like, took it all back and had him in an unhappy engagement, cheating on his fiance, and working for his father? They literally like disregarded every single thing he learned and grew from in the main series?? Logan and rory had such great chemistry and balanced each other so well. I will die on that hill. I grew to like Jess more as the series went on, I hated him at first, but I also don't think it was fair that you hardly got to see his development at all since going to California, or new york, or philly. Like come on he can't just leave and then come back a few seasons later like he's all better now he's a good guy. I wanted to see them give him the same development we got to see from Logan. My final point is that they made both rory and lorelai like, so much meaner in the revival and it was just really off putting to me. Like I get that their bitter or whatever, and had the capacity to be judgemental in the original show, but it was so blatant and frankly cringe and unnecessary. I get that they're flawed characters but why would you want to make your main characters so outwardly awful and unlikable? It was such a weird choice.
    I could keep going but this is already way too long so I'll stop here lol

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  11 месяцев назад +2

      Completely agree with everything you’ve said!! So true about the viewers not getting to see any of Jess’ character development!! And I loved Rory & Logan together so hated their ending 😫 their breakup in the last season was so quick? It was like well if you don’t want to marry me then we’re over, so unrealistic !! Xx🫶

  • @HuntingViolets
    @HuntingViolets 10 месяцев назад +3

    I think Sookie got pregnant because the actress was pregnant.

  • @joana.a4981
    @joana.a4981 Год назад +2

    thank you for this video! i agree with lots of your opinions and was happy to hear a diffent perspective than it's usually spoken aboout

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  Год назад +1

      Aw I’m so so happy to hear you enjoyed the video it means so much to me 🥰💕

  • @user-ib1is7ny7r
    @user-ib1is7ny7r 11 месяцев назад +5

    dean ❤

  • @pinkpuffunicorn
    @pinkpuffunicorn 9 месяцев назад +1

    I mean she did steal the corn starch from a grocery store

  • @julienne152
    @julienne152 9 месяцев назад +3

    "zach isn't perfect but who is" Dave was perfect :( honestly I wouldn't have much of a problem with zach it's just really difficult not to compare him to Dave when Lane and Dave were so perfect for each other

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  9 месяцев назад +1

      So true😭😭💗

  • @serenaoakley4864
    @serenaoakley4864 18 дней назад

    Finally someone who shares my same thoughts! lol.

  • @Shaylovespopeye
    @Shaylovespopeye 3 месяца назад

    I disagree I love Jess or Logan I think you’re wrong either one of them is good match I don’t think dean is good boyfriend he constantly yells her he always make her doubt her self into the relationship he always jealous starts fighting’s and makes her go crazy over losing her bracelet he breaks up with her because she not ready for I love you I really don’t like I think Jess or Lagan have lot more in common with Rory or dean he cheater’s on his wife with her he can disagree but i don’t like dean at all

  • @dajmishibe
    @dajmishibe 10 месяцев назад

    LET'S GO GIRL, TEAM DEAN

  • @Alice-yu7pe
    @Alice-yu7pe 10 месяцев назад +3

    I was always team Dean. Jess sucked

    • @sophiaizzy
      @sophiaizzy  10 месяцев назад +3

      Facts!!🫶 Jess really didn’t treat Rory well at all!!

  • @melissakanina5842
    @melissakanina5842 8 месяцев назад +2

    Dean was NOT a good boyfriend. He was OBSESSED. He called her 20 times in a day… he washed her car while waiting for her… he’s toxic.

  • @eleonorareiss
    @eleonorareiss 10 месяцев назад +2

    we literally have polar opposite opinions lol

  • @artman2oo3
    @artman2oo3 23 дня назад

    21:22 Who did or didn't cheat on who??? You just use pronouns here and I do not know who you're talking about.

  • @Odd_Designz
    @Odd_Designz 6 месяцев назад

    I've never met someone I've disagreed with more