@07_R1and the worst part is cant fullfill family expectation nd other r perfect in life i m not jealous bt they insults bcs i dont fit in society standard i m different
@@iintrovertty’all just cuz someone says “that’s my life” doesn’t mean they’re self diagnosing. Someone can say they have many symptoms but not be self diagnosing. If someone self diagnoses, they have to have done plenty of research, and know diagnostic requirements, aong with telling people they self diagnosed. My friend self diagnosed with autism because their dad wouldn’t let them go get a diagnosis. He did tons of research though.
My grandpa told me that once and never looked at me either 1 month later after i moved out he commited so i realized that he did notice and i was the one that didnt notice now i pay attention to every detail of someone i meet even if i dont know them
I wish my mom can see how sad i am always and how much the things they say hustet me I wish my parents can understand that I’m young and I’m Huma of course I make mistakes I would have never had any mistakes in my life of they taught me not to do the stuff I do but they don’t know whats happening in my life and my brain and how pressured I am and how mad I am at myself I regret doing everything I did wrong in my life I just wish someone could be by my side telling me that it’s ok to make mistakes rather than hating me for it they won’t even see my explanation of why I did what I did I wish someone was by my side
I'm 50 and me and mommy havnt talked in almost a year...she knows I suffer from depression but all I did was demand respect from her as an adult...too much to ask. I knew deep down that she didnt love me unconditionally.
yeah, my dad was depressed back a few years ago. he used to be a brilliant person, but he seemed like a kid. he fidgeted, moved around like one, and when you would ask him a question he would just go confused. with his mouth watering. it made me feel kind of empty tbh
Some symptoms of depression: Feeling hopeless No energy To much sleep Not falling or staying asleep Not wanting to do things you used to like Irritable SH or SH thoughts You may not even know you have depression
Not always tho. It might just be your depression making you frame things like this. At least it was like that for me. I would actively choose to stay in a depressive state bc I was terrified of getting better and falling back again (as it happened before). So it was easier to not even try and stay down rather than run the risk of getting up just to fall again and go through all those terrible feelings of loss one more time. Until I eventually got better (took many ups and downs) when I realized I could trust myself to get up again and not fear the future bc the objective reality was always going to be the same: I would get up again, no matter what.
Thanks for adding the one when you get happy you are really happy. I’ve never seen it anywhere else but it happens to me I get really really happy and then suddenly crash.
You need Jesus man. He huggs you if you want it. He is there quite litterally you just have to accept the truth. I am in a bad place too and he helped me. I am the evidence that he helps because if he woundt have helped me, you would not see my comment.
For me it's emotional numbing, detachment from things and people around me, not being able to cry or feel happy, not being able to understand anyone or anything + rumination
Me who just realized I have all these happening to me: *goshdamnit* EDIT: Y’all ik I shouldn’t self diagnose but legit my doctor said I have anxiety and depression soooo 💀💀💀
Unlike me I’m just bullied and is called ugly even tho I think I am, sometimes I just ask myself why was I born into this world if I’m just gonna suffer not being able to make freinds and everyone just pushes me away and acts like I don’t exist so I just want to know why it’s always me suffering and it means alot more than suffering I’m being ignored everyday by everyone because I’m ugly😢so I’m sorry if you read all this and I just want you to know I believe in You❤
the last one was SO ACCURATE omg. Sometimes I feel so happy like I’m on top of the world and conquered all my problems and it confuses me because I’m also depressed
I used to have depression and I would push my family away, not want to get out of bed until like 11 am, no eat at all maybe just breakfast and a bit of lunch but i started to realise that those symptoms are coming back but this time I have people who can help me get past depression like my friends and family To those who are going through a rough time, keep pushing on because God made you for a reason, he looked down on Earth and decided it was missing a one of you. You are special and unique and whatever is pushing you down is the devil trying to ruin your amazing future. I know it must be really hard but trust me talking to someone helps and I hope you start to progress out of stress and depression and anything thats making you feel low. ily and have an amazing day p.s- don’t forget that you are loved by me and many more people! ❤
I finally sent this to my mom, she told me she had no idea i was depressed since Oct 2023, it’s already May 2024 and my depression is getting worse. I just spoke to my mum if she didn’t notice why I was sleeping so much and skipping meals, pushing all my friends away, she said she didn’t know😭. All these whole time she said I was lazy but I’ve been depressed and crying skipping meals and pushing everyone away and reuse to leave the house I wanted her to comfort me 😔. I just wanted her to be a caregiver for me until I feel comfortable to do things myself. I just wanted someone to drag me out of bed, someone to drag me to the table to eat but I really no appetite, I just want a hug tell me it’s okay.
At least you can share that with your mom .. unlike me , who is suffering from depression since 2021 because of my entire narcissistic family, my mom, sister and dad too...
the worst part when having parents is that when your in front of them and they are yelling at you so loud that you couldn't handle it and you start to cry and when to your parents start to feel guilty for yelling at you and give you a big hug and a kiss on the forehead....❤️
When I get happy, I randomly go up to people and make them laugh with some random joke. But when I get down the deep hole of tears, it’s uncontrollable.
Hey, I just wanted to let you know I'm sure the smiles and laughs you've got out of those people those times.. I'm sure they all needed it and personally I'd never be able to forget an occurance like that, hehe. Hope things get easier for you or you get tougher to face them💙💙💪🏼 more power n light to you💖
Yk I tried to do the same but when no matter what I did I was still made fun of for who I was or what my body looked like it got rid of that chance and has put me in a hole of that depression for well over 2 years but I’m approaching my 13th birthday and soon will be at 3. It hasn’t gotten better ever and idk what to do.
@@I_Play_Airsoft_OFFICIALSeek professional help. If you don't want to tell your parents, tell your counselor, a safe teacher/family member or just an adult you trust and they will help you. It's also helpful to have someone to talk/vent to because it can with the feeling of being alone. Ik how it feels. I'm turning 16 this year and I noticed it when I was 11. But it depends on the severity of it. Like if you are su!c!d@l or not. Like off*ng yourself. I've been since I was 11 and the depression probably started before that. Just so you know, I went to the mental hospital, it didn't help and actually made things worse. It was just my experience though, so it's different for everyone. It depends on where you go though anyway. Mine was just not good Ig or something. Know that God loves you and even though Idk you, I love you too. Hope all will be well. Idk if you're are Christian, but praying can help. Stay safe. You Are Loved and You Are Enough.
I am not diagnosed with depression, and probably never will be for personal reasons, but damn I relate to all of these. This is just an average week for me-
Do something like do well in something anything that'll make u feel better.... I have been depressed for quite some time but it's not a permanent thing just try to not think about it at all. Be near babies or animals. Talk to ur Creator or urself or to animals. Don't be around people that drain u at all or for maximum 10 minutes. Don't let them drain ur energy. And if u r depressed bcz of ur appearance then improve urself
To whoever needs this yes I'm a stranger and you might never ever see me but I truly and either cheering you one to get through this or I am proud of you even getting through its, I'm someone who struggled for 2 years with depression anxiety stress but knowing these words might change someone's life Trust in yourself trust your gut maybe gods telling you just to talk or cry it better than waiting for your heart to be hurt Be grateful don't want to have what someone else has, it makes it worst Never in zero place compare yourself God made you in your own image don't try to change it Last one trust in yourself and him
@@user-mr2ky8vm3g how does being depressed equal being a victim? I am a productive nurse with a great life yet I still have bipolar… does that mean I like to be a victim? Grow up.
I think one of the things people don't understand about depression the most is that even when you're medicated, and in therapy and have improved so much, you can still have random days where it hits you again for no reason. People always ask me whats wrong but a lot of the time there isn't an exact answer, and they don't understand that. A lot of the time they think i'm lying and just not telling them whats wrong.
I was diagnosed with depression and I always still put a smile up my friends still think nothing is wrong the only time they thought it was wrong was when I started to Jude’s curse a lot out of no where but that quickly disappeared if someone is depressed it is extremely hard to notice most of the time because they hide it behind a fake smile to seem okay to not want people to worry or for my case to seek tough
please don't self diagnose yourself with depression from seeing these faint symptoms of it on tiktok, these symptoms can also be like it if you're a moody person or overly sensitive or you feel highs and lows pretty quick, just consult a professional.
Depression is something you can heal you can work out and you can associate your self with better people some people won’t face facts that’s why they are depressed
I'd personally describe it as this inner black hole in your chest that your whole existence is endlessly falling into and any energy created by you is getting sucked into it. That anxiety and not being able to visualize any form of relief in the future...
I’m crying rn this helped a lot by this person knowing what depression looks like and how I feel TY everyone pls don’t cry like me I’m cry a lot so don’t ur really special so be kind and be brave bye ❤
“when you’re happy you’re REALLY happy” real. I had such an amazing happy day on Wednesday. I was so excited, I thought my depression had just disappeared (haha…) I was so content with my classes my friends and just life, but as soon as it was Thursday it was over, I was sad again… I felt this part so much.:(
Damn I know that feeling. When your really happy the other day and the next day boom, you go back to the same old shit, it's really disappointing man..
i remember when i was going through that. i am so much better, i trusted that it would get better for me then it did. it’s possible guys, don’t give up.
It’s so hard not too, like I literally need a job so I can have cheaper benefits and insurance, but no one wants to hire me. My mental health makes it so hard for me to keep a job as well, I just feel scared, like I’m stuck in this sinking hole.
I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder and the whole not leaving your bed is my biggest symptom. When my depression is at its worst it’s sometimes hard to get up to go to the bathroom. It’s hard to put any willpower into anything when I’m using every ounce of it to keep living everyday
When I’m sad usually I feel like my family doesn’t love me they always are sweet and nice but they don’t show it. I feel like they aren’t supportive. My family doesn’t understand the pain I’m going through right now. I’m young I have feelings. I’m still 22 years old and I can’t deal with this anymore. I wish that my family can listen to what I’m going through right now. They always be making me feel like I’m not a good person. That is hurtful.
me: random crying, random anger moments, when happy then really happy also me: but i don't feel like having depression, it's more like being exhausted from everything and everyone-
I never thought that I was depressed because I was so good at hiding it that I just never notice myself that I was going through it a lot of things cause it for me but there’s only so many things that make me happy when we feeling sad.
Sometimes the happiest you can be, is realizing no one cares about you or what happens to you and that only you should! Depression is also a symptom of knowing you’re worth a better life but not knowing how to get there, or that maybe the tribe you’re involved with are nice and all but for some reason doesn’t align with the imaginary picture you painted in your head, and until you do the groundwork, the foundational work.. you won’t see that picture come true. A lot of times if you want to change your life it takes lots of planning and charting a course of action and making adjustments as you go. Also a source of depression could be your body reacting to those junk pringles your feeding it. Try a diet with lots of fruit and berries, some veggies and your blood types taste of meat, mines chicken and fish, although everyone’s source of depression can vary and most times it’s a root of sadness that even the individual experiencing depression cannot exactly pin down, sometimes it can be beneficial to do some reflective work by meditation or see a therapist or someone you see regularly to find a deeper source of your inner resentment, maybe you work too much and don’t enjoy life enough, or maybe you enjoy life too much and when it’s time to do responsibility you start crumpling, I see too many people say you have to work hard when what you really should be doing is find how to make your work fun, im a landscaper and although I occasionally work with people I don’t like I enjoy wielding a weapon of grass destruction and it can be fun to ride on a mower and sing goofy songs while I’m doing it, that’s just an example of how you can turn something you would normally hate into something you love, or have a side home project like an aquarium or terrarium. Build a garden, play Rock Paper Scissor shoot. Scratch a 1$ lotto ticket, or try riding a horse. There’s too much stuff to try… you just gotta pick what you wanna do next and then figure out what you gotta sacrifice through discipline to experience whatever it is you want
Im haven’t been feeling as happy and excited and everything as often anymore. I can’t let out my emotions. They’re all bottled up. You just explained everything I do
@@ceterisparibus8966because it’s something that comes naturally when you do soemthing you enjoy. My mom has depression and I’m undiagnosed but could possibly have that, anxiety, and/or adhd/add, but we can both be happy, mainly really happy even after a depressing/sad episode. Depression does affect a lot of someone’s life and varies for people, but it doesn’t affect ur entire life.
Happiness can be found in nature true joy is found in Jesus, clean up your diet if you can and spend more time outside and less on your phone it helped me personally.
@@samueljanssen62 Uhm..it may have worked for you but sorry, not everyone. Sometimes it’s not diet and phone that are the problem. Depression and other sad emotions can be the cause of u healthy eating and people can’t control it.
when my depression kicks back in, I push everyone away including my family members, and I end up getting scolded at. but when I see my dog I randomly cuddle with him and be the nicest I’ve ever been to him
past two days i’ve binge ate at night .. been pushing people away for two years & just have random anger coming out random sadness. i decided to delete my social media’s because i’m so tired of comparing my life. i’m so tired of not being happy with myself but looking happy for the media. i just want to be happy but it’s like i’m finding comfort in my depression.
Turn your eyes upon Jesus Look full in His wonderful face And the things of earth will go strangely dim in the light of his glory and Grace Darla Baltazar version
You search me and know me You know when I sit, when I rise So You must know the choices I've made And the pain that I hide But what if I saw me, the way that You see me? What if I believed it was true? What if I traded, this shame and self-hatred? For a chance at believing You 'Cause You knit me together In my mother's womb And You say that I've never been Hidden from You And You say that I'm wonderfully Wonderfully made And Your eyes, they have seen me Before I was born And You know all the good things That You made me for And I'm wonderfully I'm wonderfully made
@@favikat7388 alr now hear these feeling describing rap skill My portrait is lame. The proche is of wayne. im a geek who calims. to be in a dream yuh. dummies and mummies are rotting out with scurvys. strange things and claimed things are chasing my abibilities. i dont like to talk a lot cuz no one has intrest in it yuh. believeing im corpse makes me feel a little stranded. i have lost all of my hopes they were robbed from me with voilence. im seeking just a ark to get to live up more in silence. The love is fucking fake, but the hate is pure desprate. i am drowning pretty insane i gotta speak no words i gotta seek no hearts i desire no comforts im just leaving these in rush. im talking in the dark. crawling on the floor. cuz im slit abroad. they call me free but dont lemme be free ,n, they think im troll.
@@vahepoghosyan9466she never said ?? that you have depression ?? she simply listed common effects/manifestations of depression if she said "if you do these things then YOURE depressed" then thatd be another case
@@Ionlydrinktoiletwater1234that is a symptom but is not everybody’s experience. Some people feel TOO much and it becomes distressing to try to control such vivid emotions daily.
Guys please don’t self diagnose because of a video. This girl isn’t wrong but she’s not a phycologist. Just because you felt sad and hungry today doesn’t mean you have depression.
People who willingly choose to run with their own self diagnosis are weirdos. Majority of the things she said in this video are regular behaviours in teenagers and young adults from time to time so a lot of people are gonna have these signs
Seeing pushing people away hit differently. Exactly what I am doing right now. Even though everyone in my life wants to support me. I feel because of my criminal actions I don’t deserve to be helped. It’s really sad.
@@unendingpinelate940 hey thanks for checking in. I am currently speaking to a therapist to manage the mental strain. Despite everything I do have a lot to live for.
❗️PLEASE DO NOT SELF DIAGNOSE❗️ There are a lot of people who suffer from depression really badly and for somebody to go around saying they have depression because of a video is not okay. This is not towards anybody and if you do say you do these things it’s something that a lot of people do. I know people who have depression and let’s say they do things that aren’t good and don’t have a positive mindset. So I pray for everyone of you guys and that you guys may find peace in your heart ❤️ ❗️if you do not have anything nice to say please don’t say it in don’t want to be fighting with people because of my opinion❗️
No, having emotions is not a deppersion. I am also angry sometimes am also sad most of the time. But this is what makes us humans. We should be robots without feelings. Is totally normal to be emotional and be sad sometimes.
Depression is waking up and asking yourself is this worth it? Is that voice in your head that says you’re not good enough for this person, you’re not good enough to move up in your job, you’re not interesting enough to make friends. Is that voice that tells you to just fucking do it and end the suffering. This video shows some symptoms but in the end is all in the brain. it can be very dark and alone, been depressed since October last year and there’s no hope. There’s no light at the end of tunnel and whenever you think you’re close to the end, is just a train coming your way. That’s depression a dark soulless tunnel with no hope in sight. If you feel sad and angry then you’re just sad/angry, and you can still be happy and be depressed. But depression isn’t an emotional. Is a physiological problem. You can get it from a close one dying to you, to losing a lot of money, etc. is complicated and unfortunately no cure.
I was diagnosed with depression about a month or two ago and I’m only 11 and this is how I feel I’m acting. I just want it all to end but I can’t leave the people I love…
The world needs sensitive people; if you’re sensitive it’s likely that it’s because you care. I haven’t professionally been diagnosed with depression, but I do know I’ve felt it before. I got out of it because of my caring friends, so if you ever feel this way try and reach out to someone close. It can be family, friend(s), and or other trusted adults.
@@Kateeee1230mate, know stuff can be challenging at times, because I’ve experienced the stuff Divorce, isolation which everyone experienced, basically my whole life getting disassembled etc I stood strong, I found ways to keep myself happy, and when you feel down, just know that everyone loves you So here’s a thing that someone asked me before: “here’s 10 million dollars but if you take it you won’t live tomorrow” would you take it? Probably no right? So from now on, say to yourself that your value is higher than 10 million bucks Have a happy life mate 💪🏻
You're entire life is not described by what TikTok describes as symptoms of depression. Your life has had much more in it than stress eating, crying, and being angry. You talk to people. You make friends. You have academic responsibilities. You can be good or bad at things. You can have skills. Maybe you can do a trick with your hands. This is not a personality or a description of someone's entire life.
The worst part is whenever you start thinking about really random situations about you losing someone you love and then you realize that’s actually a real possibility
TW Whats horrible and I just came to the realization of is that I only start feeling depressed once school starts. The happiest ive ever been in a while is today. During this past school year I thought abt attempting so many times, got close to trying 3 times, and tried once. But even then nobody noticed. Lowkey its just the pressure of school and my parents but for whoevers out there reading this, It. Gets. Better. Im so much better now that its summer and finally enjoying my childhood. Its okay not to be okay, but it will get better. Before it gets better it will always get worse, but youve got this. ❤
Depression gets everyone sometime in life .... its just so difficult to try to be happy .... and be distracted from it .... especially as you can be in a crowded place ..... and feel so lonely!1😪😪😪😪😪
And the worst part is whenever you see someone you love so much then just start crying because you see how much they do for you
yep I just did that today on thanksgiving2023
That's so true it's probably me 😢
@07_R1and the worst part is cant fullfill family expectation nd other r perfect in life i m not jealous bt they insults bcs i dont fit in society standard i m different
Yes amd still you don't have the guts to confront them 🙃
...I thought I was the only one
*she just explained my life tho-*
Rlly😑
Don’t self diagnose please 🙏 if you relate to these, see a doctor ❤
She explained mine too…..
Same…
@@iintrovertty’all just cuz someone says “that’s my life” doesn’t mean they’re self diagnosing. Someone can say they have many symptoms but not be self diagnosing. If someone self diagnoses, they have to have done plenty of research, and know diagnostic requirements, aong with telling people they self diagnosed.
My friend self diagnosed with autism because their dad wouldn’t let them go get a diagnosis. He did tons of research though.
"Most times, the happiest people are depressed and just hide it."
My mom said that, and yet she can't see her own child...
My grandpa told me that once and never looked at me either 1 month later after i moved out he commited so i realized that he did notice and i was the one that didnt notice now i pay attention to every detail of someone i meet even if i dont know them
I wish my mom can see how sad i am always and how much the things they say hustet me I wish my parents can understand that I’m young and I’m Huma of course I make mistakes I would have never had any mistakes in my life of they taught me not to do the stuff I do but they don’t know whats happening in my life and my brain and how pressured I am and how mad I am at myself I regret doing everything I did wrong in my life I just wish someone could be by my side telling me that it’s ok to make mistakes rather than hating me for it they won’t even see my explanation of why I did what I did I wish someone was by my side
i hope you're alright
@@friesrule my dad isn’t taking to me idk what to do and if I try to apologize I’ll say something wrong
I'm 50 and me and mommy havnt talked in almost a year...she knows I suffer from depression but all I did was demand respect from her as an adult...too much to ask. I knew deep down that she didnt love me unconditionally.
The worse part is when you see other people you love is depressed and it makes you depressed.
yeah, my dad was depressed back a few years ago. he used to be a brilliant person, but he seemed like a kid. he fidgeted, moved around like one, and when you would ask him a question he would just go confused. with his mouth watering. it made me feel kind of empty tbh
You know there’s a problem when Happiness starts feeling *rare.*
And when a happy day becomes gold ,🥲
Or when a sad day leads to peace
I was like, "doctor, am I bipolar? cause sometimes I feel like... so happy, this is abnormal right?"
happiness is rare for me
Yeah it's happening I was acting mad by myself why I'm happy how things are good after these much suffering like is this happiness..
The last one actually hits hard. When you’re always so sad you tend to be REALLY happy when something good happens or smth
@@dot347 It could be lol
Used to be the opposite for me, you get so indifferent to the point of really just not caring.
I can't be happy.
Not feeling anything other than wanting to kill myself or others.
Yea and then something causes you to emotionally crash really low really fast...
Or is that more bipolar? Genuinely curious as I’m no psychologist
Some symptoms of depression:
Feeling hopeless
No energy
To much sleep
Not falling or staying asleep
Not wanting to do things you used to like
Irritable
SH or SH thoughts
You may not even know you have depression
I have anger issues
no why is this me and the video facts
well i just found out that i have d3pre$$I0n
@@Sky-eo7dzapparently I do to
Well shit, I’ve got depression then 🫤 (Not self diagnosis, just me saying my mental health is shit. 😋🙂)
"When you're happy you're really happy" I never realized how true this is
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The worst thing is when you're getting happier and about to get out of ur depression a worse thing happends and doubles ur depression..
‼️ yess I feel this way too
Yes what you said is really true😞
Yep, especially when people bring you down and all that confidence just goes out the window.
Not always tho. It might just be your depression making you frame things like this. At least it was like that for me. I would actively choose to stay in a depressive state bc I was terrified of getting better and falling back again (as it happened before). So it was easier to not even try and stay down rather than run the risk of getting up just to fall again and go through all those terrible feelings of loss one more time. Until I eventually got better (took many ups and downs) when I realized I could trust myself to get up again and not fear the future bc the objective reality was always going to be the same: I would get up again, no matter what.
Right now that's happening 😭
Thanks for adding the one when you get happy you are really happy. I’ve never seen it anywhere else but it happens to me I get really really happy and then suddenly crash.
Exactly
its called bipolar disorder
@@itsquinn5 no not always
I have that too! Then it crashes so bad you wish you weren't that happy because it doubles the sadness
@@asbjelasulejmani8585 yeah then you just remember how happy you were and it makes you sad that you aren’t happy and it’s just a big cycle
a depressed man hides his pain with a smile...
This made me feel really comforted. ❤ To know there are other people out there going through the same thing.
Idk why im getting emotional watching this. I really need a hug from someone
🤗
Me too... Giving you a virtual hug! 🤗 Things are definitely going to get better. ❤️
You need Jesus man. He huggs you if you want it. He is there quite litterally you just have to accept the truth. I am in a bad place too and he helped me. I am the evidence that he helps because if he woundt have helped me, you would not see my comment.
I too need a hug :( but I'll hug the air around me
@@just_a_noob_1102 my love i'm here for you, i wish i could hug you, :(
"Even unhappy people can have happy moments" -NF
Happy moments? Yes but happy days or even times? Defently not.
Aw hell naw not the NF quote
👍
@@fymbra360🤣🤣
Thats because they loved others but never lived themselves, others make them feel happy, kinda like self care neglect
Why is this so relatable tho- like this is me everyday
Same
For me it's emotional numbing, detachment from things and people around me, not being able to cry or feel happy, not being able to understand anyone or anything + rumination
Me who just realized I have all these happening to me: *goshdamnit*
EDIT: Y’all ik I shouldn’t self diagnose but legit my doctor said I have anxiety and depression soooo 💀💀💀
Istg same with me ...but I'm not depressed or sad bro
Same bruh
But it doesn't always have to be depression
Oh so it’s not ONLY happening to me……that’s good 👍🏻
Same
Respect to her for saying "What depression CAN look like" and not "What depression looks like"
Yeah
I think that was the point of the video to show one of its possible forms
I do all that,.... and more. I am so mentally paralyzed, to enjoy anything,.. and with no desires.
@jdaluvsjesusgohdam why you so aggressive about it tho 💀
@jdaluvsjesus Jesus died on the cross, not God.
Unlike me I’m just bullied and is called ugly even tho I think I am, sometimes I just ask myself why was I born into this world if I’m just gonna suffer not being able to make freinds and everyone just pushes me away and acts like I don’t exist so I just want to know why it’s always me suffering and it means alot more than suffering I’m being ignored everyday by everyone because I’m ugly😢so I’m sorry if you read all this and I just want you to know I believe in You❤
There is only one type of ugliness and it comes from the inside. So unless you're evil, I assure you you're not ugly.
the last one was SO ACCURATE omg. Sometimes I feel so happy like I’m on top of the world and conquered all my problems and it confuses me because I’m also depressed
The worst part about my depression is it's really hard to say "I'm not okay"
Yeah that's really hard to say
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Teenage lots of hormonal changes
I say it to myself I know im not okay
But a couple days ago I broke down I front of my mom
@@Castiels_friend I hide it like my life depends on it
I used to have depression and I would push my family away, not want to get out of bed until like 11 am, no eat at all maybe just breakfast and a bit of lunch but i started to realise that those symptoms are coming back but this time I have people who can help me get past depression like my friends and family
To those who are going through a rough time, keep pushing on because God made you for a reason, he looked down on Earth and decided it was missing a one of you. You are special and unique and whatever is pushing you down is the devil trying to ruin your amazing future. I know it must be really hard but trust me talking to someone helps and I hope you start to progress out of stress and depression and anything thats making you feel low. ily and have an amazing day
p.s- don’t forget that you are loved by me and many more people! ❤
Thank you ❤️
U deserve infinity likes
@@scos131 tysm ❤️
Thank you so much..the comforting words of a stranger really make a difference ❤️I really needed tht..❤️
Thank u so much it helped I’m so depressed rn I hope I get better:(
I finally sent this to my mom, she told me she had no idea i was depressed since Oct 2023, it’s already May 2024 and my depression is getting worse. I just spoke to my mum if she didn’t notice why I was sleeping so much and skipping meals, pushing all my friends away, she said she didn’t know😭. All these whole time she said I was lazy but I’ve been depressed and crying skipping meals and pushing everyone away and reuse to leave the house I wanted her to comfort me 😔. I just wanted her to be a caregiver for me until I feel comfortable to do things myself. I just wanted someone to drag me out of bed, someone to drag me to the table to eat but I really no appetite, I just want a hug tell me it’s okay.
At least you can share that with your mom .. unlike me , who is suffering from depression since 2021 because of my entire narcissistic family, my mom, sister and dad too...
the worst part when having parents is that when your in front of them and they are yelling at you so loud that you couldn't handle it and you start to cry and when to your parents start to feel guilty for yelling at you and give you a big hug and a kiss on the forehead....❤️
man i wish i could relate to the last part
When I get happy, I randomly go up to people and make them laugh with some random joke. But when I get down the deep hole of tears, it’s uncontrollable.
Hey, I just wanted to let you know I'm sure the smiles and laughs you've got out of those people those times.. I'm sure they all needed it and personally I'd never be able to forget an occurance like that, hehe. Hope things get easier for you or you get tougher to face them💙💙💪🏼 more power n light to you💖
@@rashakhan7693I have the same problem and the same people I make laugh are the ones who hurt me
Yk I tried to do the same but when no matter what I did I was still made fun of for who I was or what my body looked like it got rid of that chance and has put me in a hole of that depression for well over 2 years but I’m approaching my 13th birthday and soon will be at 3. It hasn’t gotten better ever and idk what to do.
Same
@@I_Play_Airsoft_OFFICIALSeek professional help. If you don't want to tell your parents, tell your counselor, a safe teacher/family member or just an adult you trust and they will help you. It's also helpful to have someone to talk/vent to because it can with the feeling of being alone. Ik how it feels. I'm turning 16 this year and I noticed it when I was 11. But it depends on the severity of it. Like if you are su!c!d@l or not. Like off*ng yourself. I've been since I was 11 and the depression probably started before that. Just so you know, I went to the mental hospital, it didn't help and actually made things worse. It was just my experience though, so it's different for everyone. It depends on where you go though anyway. Mine was just not good Ig or something. Know that God loves you and even though Idk you, I love you too. Hope all will be well. Idk if you're are Christian, but praying can help. Stay safe. You Are Loved and You Are Enough.
Girl described my life better than I could 💀
She really did🥲
@@maric2771yeah
Yep! My life too👍🏻
Hahaha like j was just thinking: oh I will now commemt:looks like i have depression💀💀
👀🤝
POV: It’s 10:11 PM and your watching this video right before bed until you realize that this is a little too familiar.
They think you are being lazy but really it hurts you more....
I am not diagnosed with depression, and probably never will be for personal reasons, but damn I relate to all of these. This is just an average week for me-
you dont need to get diagnosed to know that you have something
Same
Me too i’m struggling so much 😭
@@RYCH3frl
Do something like do well in something anything that'll make u feel better.... I have been depressed for quite some time but it's not a permanent thing just try to not think about it at all. Be near babies or animals. Talk to ur Creator or urself or to animals.
Don't be around people that drain u at all or for maximum 10 minutes. Don't let them drain ur energy. And if u r depressed bcz of ur appearance then improve urself
i didn’t realize how relatable this was gonna be..
Right
fr…
Same 👀
Me niether..
Agreed
Why is this so relatable 😢❤ it sucks
To whoever needs this
yes I'm a stranger and you might never ever see me but I truly and either cheering you one to get through this or I am proud of you even getting through its, I'm someone who struggled for 2 years with depression anxiety stress but knowing these words might change someone's life
Trust in yourself trust your gut maybe gods telling you just to talk or cry it better than waiting for your heart to be hurt
Be grateful don't want to have what someone else has, it makes it worst
Never in zero place compare yourself God made you in your own image don't try to change it
Last one trust in yourself and him
I feel you. I have clinical depression. You got this. Do not give up
Why do u have clinical depression?
@user-mr2ky8vm3g I been sexual abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse, sexual harassed.
@@user-mr2ky8vm3gwhy do you care?
@@FoodIsOverrated just to help people out of the victim mindset
@@user-mr2ky8vm3g how does being depressed equal being a victim? I am a productive nurse with a great life yet I still have bipolar… does that mean I like to be a victim? Grow up.
I think one of the things people don't understand about depression the most is that even when you're medicated, and in therapy and have improved so much, you can still have random days where it hits you again for no reason. People always ask me whats wrong but a lot of the time there isn't an exact answer, and they don't understand that. A lot of the time they think i'm lying and just not telling them whats wrong.
I just think its bad disciplin, but thats life grow over it
I REALLY DO FEEL THE SAME. And sometimes I keep wondering if that feeling will ever end..
You are living wrong my friend. Find your way.
Same
Why don't you just simply be happy, clown person
My depression hits in waves
I'd be chilling then BAM cry for half an hour then I'm back to normal
I was diagnosed with depression and I always still put a smile up my friends still think nothing is wrong the only time they thought it was wrong was when I started to Jude’s curse a lot out of no where but that quickly disappeared if someone is depressed it is extremely hard to notice most of the time because they hide it behind a fake smile to seem okay to not want people to worry or for my case to seek tough
me “i’m not depressed”
also me “holly doja cat”
💀 "holy doja cat"
BRO HAHAHHAHAHAH HOLLY DOJA CAT HAHAHAHAHHA
please don't self diagnose yourself with depression from seeing these faint symptoms of it on tiktok, these symptoms can also be like it if you're a moody person or overly sensitive or you feel highs and lows pretty quick, just consult a professional.
exactly
Depression is something you can heal you can work out and you can associate your self with better people some people won’t face facts that’s why they are depressed
!!!!!
thank you for being someone that actually is sane
@@helenaduarte60 she said this is what it *can* look like not what it is
Just realized I had depression now. Watching this in bed after like 2 hours after my sleep. I also have anxiety, and it makes it way worse.
I am a child..
AND THAT IS LITERALLY ME 😭😭
She just described me in every way possible 💀💀💀💀
Same here
She just described my whole world in few seconds🙃🙃
Fr-
Same here
Same🧍♀️
Same 🥲
Girl just described me😢
same
Fr same
Same..
Same
Same but it kinda makes sense for me 😢
The crying one especially when u see someone u love
I have depression, I hide it from my parents bc they will just say I’m being dramatic
When everyone told you that "you don’t have depression it’s just a phase that kids your age have" :)
And it can be that! Go to doctor not to tiktok doctors;)
@@seafretx1437 I don't think that it is that easy to make our parents understand that
@@seafretx1437 we can't just go to doctors when we live with out parents, not every parent is understanding
It is a phase happened to me for like an entire year don't take advice form tiktok doctors actually seek professional help
@@redribbon2 True
Depression’s worst enemy; gratitude 🙏
Best comment❤
I have applied this in my life and yes this is true ...once you start feeling gratitude depression becomes manageable
Thank u❤
Weakest enemy 😂
in some cases gratitude is its best friend tho just sayin🤷♂️
Bro the not hungry and hungry thing is me on a regular basis😂😂😂
no cuz why is this getting relatable.
as someone who has been professionally diagnosed with depression i can agree with all of these.
depression is not real it’s all bs
I can agree with all aswell tbh yet im not diagnosed
Stop coping,depression isnt real,its just i tak your mind,control your emotions damn
@@cmirso2510 yes thankyou my friend
Samee
I'd personally describe it as this inner black hole in your chest that your whole existence is endlessly falling into and any energy created by you is getting sucked into it. That anxiety and not being able to visualize any form of relief in the future...
Perfect description
That last part is the worst, not seeing yourself be able to get away from it
@@nataliaandrews1659 yep if we knew it would end
It feels like falling, falling endlessly into a dark hole. Dark except for the flames that burn you alive at the same time.
Depression makes me want to kill myself but not having the energy to care and dp so.
there explains it
I’m crying rn this helped a lot by this person knowing what depression looks like and how I feel TY everyone pls don’t cry like me I’m cry a lot so don’t ur really special so be kind and be brave bye ❤
That’s what I did today. I skipped school because I didn’t want to get out of bed and I’m not hungry. And I cry five times already.
Not me thinking all these things I did were normal
Fr 🫤
same 😭
Same
Same
Fr
“when you’re happy you’re REALLY happy”
real. I had such an amazing happy day on Wednesday. I was so excited, I thought my depression had just disappeared (haha…)
I was so content with my classes my friends and just life, but as soon as it was Thursday it was over, I was sad again… I felt this part so much.:(
Me. Thursdays are the hardest for me ngl
Same thing happens to me
Damn I know that feeling. When your really happy the other day and the next day boom, you go back to the same old shit, it's really disappointing man..
This is how I’ve been feeling and I hate it so much
Imagine being bipolar it’s the everytime I get mania I think I’m “cured” for me 💀💀
"Randomly crying?" "Um yeah that...that happened tonight"
I swear I feel every single symptom
i remember when i was going through that. i am so much better, i trusted that it would get better for me then it did. it’s possible guys, don’t give up.
ty😔❤
I almost gave up but God saved me.
It’s so hard not too, like I literally need a job so I can have cheaper benefits and insurance, but no one wants to hire me. My mental health makes it so hard for me to keep a job as well, I just feel scared, like I’m stuck in this sinking hole.
Same @@Lea-hl8md
I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder and the whole not leaving your bed is my biggest symptom. When my depression is at its worst it’s sometimes hard to get up to go to the bathroom. It’s hard to put any willpower into anything when I’m using every ounce of it to keep living everyday
Being happy at random moments then being unhappy the next second..
When I’m sad usually I feel like my family doesn’t love me they always are sweet and nice but they don’t show it. I feel like they aren’t supportive. My family doesn’t understand the pain I’m going through right now. I’m young I have feelings. I’m still 22 years old and I can’t deal with this anymore. I wish that my family can listen to what I’m going through right now. They always be making me feel like I’m not a good person. That is hurtful.
me: random crying, random anger moments, when happy then really happy
also me: but i don't feel like having depression, it's more like being exhausted from everything and everyone-
I have all these symptoms but the sad thing is, i have no friends to support me during these times.
You got us here
i’m here for u ❤
We love you! So much girl 🥺
Thank you so much guys! ❤️❤️❤️
You’ll be okay much love ❤
As a depressed person myself one of the saddest parts is trying to act happy like everything is okay,
My depression looks like staring at a wall for 5 minutes and an hour passes. Mind becomes clay. Literally feel yourself fading
I'm a kid, but I still feel these daily. It's really sad. Love you all
That makes both of us
How old are you?
I like to see that there are peoples who are larrie. I am a larrie too. Btw don't worry, everything going to be fine! Trust me.
@K 11...
@@szakacsemoke5115
When you are happy you are really happy! I can definitely relate.
It’s the randomly crying and not feeling hungry one is me
I never thought that I was depressed because I was so good at hiding it that I just never notice myself that I was going through it a lot of things cause it for me but there’s only so many things that make me happy when we feeling sad.
Sometimes the happiest you can be, is realizing no one cares about you or what happens to you and that only you should! Depression is also a symptom of knowing you’re worth a better life but not knowing how to get there, or that maybe the tribe you’re involved with are nice and all but for some reason doesn’t align with the imaginary picture you painted in your head, and until you do the groundwork, the foundational work.. you won’t see that picture come true. A lot of times if you want to change your life it takes lots of planning and charting a course of action and making adjustments as you go. Also a source of depression could be your body reacting to those junk pringles your feeding it. Try a diet with lots of fruit and berries, some veggies and your blood types taste of meat, mines chicken and fish, although everyone’s source of depression can vary and most times it’s a root of sadness that even the individual experiencing depression cannot exactly pin down, sometimes it can be beneficial to do some reflective work by meditation or see a therapist or someone you see regularly to find a deeper source of your inner resentment, maybe you work too much and don’t enjoy life enough, or maybe you enjoy life too much and when it’s time to do responsibility you start crumpling, I see too many people say you have to work hard when what you really should be doing is find how to make your work fun, im a landscaper and although I occasionally work with people I don’t like I enjoy wielding a weapon of grass destruction and it can be fun to ride on a mower and sing goofy songs while I’m doing it, that’s just an example of how you can turn something you would normally hate into something you love, or have a side home project like an aquarium or terrarium. Build a garden, play Rock Paper Scissor shoot. Scratch a 1$ lotto ticket, or try riding a horse. There’s too much stuff to try… you just gotta pick what you wanna do next and then figure out what you gotta sacrifice through discipline to experience whatever it is you want
ily thanks ❤
I felt alone for the last few hours until I saw this. Thank you for sharing. ❤
She just explained my whole life in 20 seconds 😢
Im haven’t been feeling as happy and excited and everything as often anymore. I can’t let out my emotions. They’re all bottled up. You just explained everything I do
ruclips.net/video/p9PjrtcHJPo/видео.html prayng for joy and unbottled emotions to be free and return where it came from in Jesus name
I push people away , I ignore their calls and I don’t make the effect with them even though I love them 💔
You get calls & people text you??
Omg you're soo lucky!! :)
"When ur happy ur REALLY happy"
My brain trying to process what happiness even feels like: I request elaboration.
How can you be happy while you are depressed?
Yeah!😢we cannot be truly happy
like ever when we're depressed!
me too. But when we're better,we can
Hope you guys are speedy recovery soon
@@ceterisparibus8966because it’s something that comes naturally when you do soemthing you enjoy. My mom has depression and I’m undiagnosed but could possibly have that, anxiety, and/or adhd/add, but we can both be happy, mainly really happy even after a depressing/sad episode. Depression does affect a lot of someone’s life and varies for people, but it doesn’t affect ur entire life.
Happiness can be found in nature true joy is found in Jesus, clean up your diet if you can and spend more time outside and less on your phone it helped me personally.
@@samueljanssen62 Uhm..it may have worked for you but sorry, not everyone. Sometimes it’s not diet and phone that are the problem. Depression and other sad emotions can be the cause of u healthy eating and people can’t control it.
randomly crying is so relatable
that’s literally me- 😭
when my depression kicks back in, I push everyone away including my family members, and I end up getting scolded at. but when I see my dog I randomly cuddle with him and be the nicest I’ve ever been to him
past two days i’ve binge ate at night .. been pushing people away for two years & just have random anger coming out random sadness. i decided to delete my social media’s because i’m so tired of comparing my life. i’m so tired of not being happy with myself but looking happy for the media. i just want to be happy but it’s like i’m finding comfort in my depression.
thats what i feel there is no one closer to me than my depression
fr tho..
Turn your eyes upon Jesus
Look full in His wonderful face
And the things of earth will go strangely dim
in the light of his glory and Grace
Darla Baltazar version
You search me and know me You know when I sit, when I rise
So You must know the choices I've made
And the pain that I hide
But what if I saw me, the way that You see me?
What if I believed it was true?
What if I traded, this shame and self-hatred?
For a chance at believing You
'Cause You knit me together
In my mother's womb
And You say that I've never been
Hidden from You
And You say that I'm wonderfully
Wonderfully made
And Your eyes, they have seen me Before I was born
And You know all the good things That You made me for
And I'm wonderfully I'm wonderfully made
@@favikat7388 alr now hear these feeling describing rap skill
My portrait is lame.
The proche is of wayne.
im a geek who calims.
to be in a dream yuh.
dummies and mummies are rotting out with scurvys.
strange things and claimed things are chasing my abibilities.
i dont like to talk a lot cuz no one has intrest in it yuh.
believeing im corpse makes me feel a little stranded.
i have lost all of my hopes they were robbed from me with voilence.
im seeking just a ark to get to live up more in silence.
The love is fucking fake, but the hate is pure desprate.
i am drowning pretty insane
i gotta speak no words i gotta seek no hearts i desire no comforts im just leaving these in rush.
im talking in the dark.
crawling on the floor.
cuz im slit abroad.
they call me free but dont lemme be free ,n, they think im troll.
You just explained what my life feels like rn.
Thanks for the help. Im subscribing. I think i just gained anxiety and depression
Damn, you really do know me better than my parents.
She said you have depression, when you're happy, angry, crying. She just described every person on the earth.
@@vahepoghosyan9466 thats not true. there are specific symptoms and u can see if u have depression by getting a diagnosis.
@@vahepoghosyan9466she never said ?? that you have depression ?? she simply listed common effects/manifestations of depression
if she said "if you do these things then YOURE depressed" then thatd be another case
that breaks my heart
Early, some people don’t understand how depression works, like it’s not only feeling sad all the time..
Fr
Fr they don’t even wanna learn what it is
From what I knew depression is like a form of apathy, so technically you shouldn't feel sadness or joy, correct me if I'm wrong.
@@Ionlydrinktoiletwater1234that is a symptom but is not everybody’s experience. Some people feel TOO much and it becomes distressing to try to control such vivid emotions daily.
although it can manifest itself as that tbf
Me: Nahhh I'm not depressed
Also me: *Saying yes to most of these*
Bro just explains my whole life
Guys please don’t self diagnose because of a video. This girl isn’t wrong but she’s not a phycologist. Just because you felt sad and hungry today doesn’t mean you have depression.
She said can look like
Agree with you!
@@yasmineguerin2852🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
People who willingly choose to run with their own self diagnosis are weirdos. Majority of the things she said in this video are regular behaviours in teenagers and young adults from time to time so a lot of people are gonna have these signs
Like psychiatrists arent lieing crooks pretending to be doctors
Seeing pushing people away hit differently. Exactly what I am doing right now. Even though everyone in my life wants to support me. I feel because of my criminal actions I don’t deserve to be helped. It’s really sad.
m.ruclips.net/video/p9PjrtcHJPo/видео.html
Teenage lots of hormonal changes
bro just randomly spat out some sad ahh shit thinking we wouldnt notice⁉️ you gotta talk abt this
@@unendingpinelate940 hey thanks for checking in. I am currently speaking to a therapist to manage the mental strain. Despite everything I do have a lot to live for.
This hits hard
❗️PLEASE DO NOT SELF DIAGNOSE❗️
There are a lot of people who suffer from depression really badly and for somebody to go around saying they have depression because of a video is not okay. This is not towards anybody and if you do say you do these things it’s something that a lot of people do. I know people who have depression and let’s say they do things that aren’t good and don’t have a positive mindset. So I pray for everyone of you guys and that you guys may find peace in your heart ❤️
❗️if you do not have anything nice to say please don’t say it in don’t want to be fighting with people because of my opinion❗️
100% agree❤
I kinda think I am depressed
@@Hi32rgo see a professional please
Even though I may have all those, I think I'm not in depression, I just need to push and move forward to show everyone Im not at my full potential yet
Facts its all in the mind, at the end of the day its you that can get out of your horrible situations
No, having emotions is not a deppersion. I am also angry sometimes am also sad most of the time. But this is what makes us humans. We should be robots without feelings. Is totally normal to be emotional and be sad sometimes.
Depression is waking up and asking yourself is this worth it? Is that voice in your head that says you’re not good enough for this person, you’re not good enough to move up in your job, you’re not interesting enough to make friends. Is that voice that tells you to just fucking do it and end the suffering.
This video shows some symptoms but in the end is all in the brain. it can be very dark and alone, been depressed since October last year and there’s no hope. There’s no light at the end of tunnel and whenever you think you’re close to the end, is just a train coming your way. That’s depression a dark soulless tunnel with no hope in sight.
If you feel sad and angry then you’re just sad/angry, and you can still be happy and be depressed. But depression isn’t an emotional. Is a physiological problem. You can get it from a close one dying to you, to losing a lot of money, etc. is complicated and unfortunately no cure.
When I was depressed feeling happy felt like it wasn't a real thing. like i was more that just happy, it felt so weird i couldn't enjoy it
This fits me perfectly
911 what's your emergency
Me: someone is spying on me
I was diagnosed with depression about a month or two ago and I’m only 11 and this is how I feel I’m acting. I just want it all to end but I can’t leave the people I love…
The world needs sensitive souls like yours to soften its edges with your gentleness and compassion
@@heavenlee4117 thank you🫶
Here’s a quote for you ❤’ everything will be alright in the end and if it’s not alright it’s not the end..
The world needs sensitive people; if you’re sensitive it’s likely that it’s because you care. I haven’t professionally been diagnosed with depression, but I do know I’ve felt it before. I got out of it because of my caring friends, so if you ever feel this way try and reach out to someone close. It can be family, friend(s), and or other trusted adults.
@@Kateeee1230mate, know stuff can be challenging at times, because I’ve experienced the stuff
Divorce, isolation which everyone experienced, basically my whole life getting disassembled etc
I stood strong, I found ways to keep myself happy, and when you feel down, just know that everyone loves you
So here’s a thing that someone asked me before: “here’s 10 million dollars but if you take it you won’t live tomorrow” would you take it? Probably no right? So from now on, say to yourself that your value is higher than 10 million bucks
Have a happy life mate 💪🏻
Explained my entire life especially today in this video..
I didn’t even know i had depression until i saw this and realized it explained my whole teenage life.. 😭
Lord, you just explained my entire day. I've been SO depressed I just can't deal with it anymore
Me too😢 I hope you get better ❤️🩹
You're entire life is not described by what TikTok describes as symptoms of depression. Your life has had much more in it than stress eating, crying, and being angry. You talk to people. You make friends. You have academic responsibilities. You can be good or bad at things. You can have skills. Maybe you can do a trick with your hands. This is not a personality or a description of someone's entire life.
Those drone shots are fcking beautiful ,Keep moving forward✨
The worst part is whenever you start thinking about really random situations about you losing someone you love and then you realize that’s actually a real possibility
TW
Whats horrible and I just came to the realization of is that I only start feeling depressed once school starts. The happiest ive ever been in a while is today. During this past school year I thought abt attempting so many times, got close to trying 3 times, and tried once. But even then nobody noticed. Lowkey its just the pressure of school and my parents but for whoevers out there reading this, It. Gets. Better. Im so much better now that its summer and finally enjoying my childhood. Its okay not to be okay, but it will get better. Before it gets better it will always get worse, but youve got this. ❤
Depression gets everyone sometime in life .... its just so difficult to try to be happy .... and be distracted from it .... especially as you can be in a crowded place ..... and feel so lonely!1😪😪😪😪😪
Feeling sad and depression is 2 different things. Some people don’t have depression
True ... but when I'm depressed I'm usually quite sad!!! I doubt if was always happy I would be sad .... or depressed!