My Father was the owner if his own barbershop for about 35yrs. He always held down his family. He never let my mom or myself and my brother go without anything. He was there at night when I went to sleep and there in the morning when I woke up. He worked 7 days a week and always supported my Mom with her goals. That is the definition of a real MAN!!! A real MAN is secure in HIMSELF and is the HEAD of his family. I lost my DADDY 22yrs ago.... I miss him and thank him for showing me what a REAL MAN is supposed to be!!!
I have to give this woman her props 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 she’s a strong one and very beautiful. She had depression, developed an addiction, clawed her way out on her own because it’s sounds like this brother was doing his own thing, lost weight. She went to school and worked hard, got her real estate license. Does Uber, Lyft, worked on her listings, supported him at the barbershop at least 3 times a week, and nursed him back from constant hangovers yet he wanted MORE! 😡😡 This dude is crazy I’m surprised the judge didn’t mention anything about him drinking around his wife who used to be an alcoholic. I’m glad they split up he was holding her back and she deserves a better man hopefully they can co parent their children.
JXENVYX I wish they could have worked it out.He needed to support her and assist her with chores.He wanted her to make money keep house and also tend to his physical and emotional needs.She was working just as hard as he was or more because he had to look after 5 kids.He was all about "I work hard and when I come home" BS.He was pleasant in court but selfish.
@@bubujooestes1499 Mom taught me if it's not where it is supposed to be put it there,how long will it take .I even do this in stores.A grown man can't come in and clean up and work.foh
Four minutes in , and she's fly af . Real estate agent hustling out here , making women proud ! Looking good and doing good , she needs to leave that shell of a man
Tony Bee How so? I thought a marriage was supposed to be a partnership. He's clearly not pulling any weight and only wants a toy to control. Wasn't he hollering about the financial situation? She's out there doing what she needs to do to better their situation and herself.
@@fredericknichols5655 boy stop your lying on the bible. It says nothing like that. Read proverbs 31:10-31. You need not come on here and miss quote the Bible.
He's not serious about shit he smiled ths whole time. Everything is a joke to him. He's trying to bring her self worth and confidence down to his level.
Christopher Pate So you so deep in psychology and human behavior that you KNOW this guy isnt serious solely based on him smiling? The judge didnt think so and she said he is a good man with problems like many men. Thats why she is the judge and you sir are not. Smiling is sometimes a mask for how you really feel, definitely doesnt always mean you are joking or having a good time. This guy makes NO look or moves to suggest he is not taking this matter serious. Listen to his words and stop being judgemental.
soulsearch1234 You are telling me that because the judge never spoke on him smiling too much then I don't have a right to or that im automatically wrong? I noticed it so I spoke on.
soulsearch1234 Going around youtube and trolling peoples comments tells me a lot about you, And to put words in people's mouths that you don't even know lets me know that im replying to a person with loose screws.
He sounds extremely controlling and because he couldn't get 100% of all her time he had a fit... and now they are seperated.. sad. Ego's screw everything up!
Maintaining a marriage with 5 kids on TOP of dealing with depression and a drinking problem and one day she took notice and accountability and made a move for the BETTER and she hasn’t looked back since!! This WOMAN IS SOOOO AMAZING 😉 And such an awesome role model!!! She’s a reminder that it’s never too late to make a change to better you life and circumstances and grow!! She had the strength to push through and persevere through trying times!! Uuugghh!! 😍😍 she is my new woman crush and I don’t know her!! Then to learn they broke up and he says she was USING HIM FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT/SECURITY!! How does a woman that works 50 hours a week, went back to school for her realtor license, doing Uber as a side hustle while she’s building clientele...need to use ANYONE financially!?!? 🤔 this was the same man that would’ve preferred her to be home and at his beck and call.. this proves that he wasn’t secure with himself and seeing all that growth she was making made him scared and question his manhood rather than realize “WHAT HE HAD” in his wife/partner... 🔑 word being PARTNER!! Her growing, building and moving up business wise meant HE was growing as well!
He wants a wife who does household duties PLUS work outside the home. If he doesn't mind sharing the financial responsibilities of the home, why doesn't he share household duties as well?
I'm not even 20 seconds in and I'm already rooting for this woman to give her husband the boot. He lost me with the first thing he said, "what man doesn't want his wife to be superwoman?" He's got the bald, bearded look I despise and where are his front teeth? Three strikes? You're out.
Why would you call your wife from her job to come to your job, that's just plain silly. Why can't the husband put some meals together. Why is it necessary for sex 3-4 times a day... He ran her away with that nonsense.
I know this dude didn't say in the end that she was using him to be financially secure. They been together for 13 years and she had three jobs trying to make it work. This dude just insecure n trying to be in control all the time but he goin to learn he not going to find no one better then that.
Men like him are so annoying to me. They have these double standards of men and women thinking women are supposed to be super heroes and save the day in every area of life. Cooking, cleaning, making money, taking care of the kids all while still making sure his sexual needs are met daily. He's clueless and immature and I don't see how she did it bc I couldn't. She's really trying to make something of herself and clearly does not APPRECIATE it! Tbh, I think he is intimidated by her. Sn: I'm happy she left his confused ass!
She Be He wants a house wife, she wants a career. Many women love to be a house wife and then there are many who just want a career. Then there are women who love to be a house wife but also love having a career (like my wife). My wife loves taking care of the home and she is very ambitious in her career but she balances the two. There needs to be balance, I think that is part of what he was asking. If you dont want family responsibilities, then dont have a family and find someone who agrees with you on what those family responsibilities should be. There is no right or wrong when it comes to what a man or woman should and shouldnt do with their relationship as it relates to man and woman responsibilities. It is what makes the couple happy. Balance and compatibility is the key.
Then if he wants a house wife, he should be able to provide for his family and not complain or cause them to get behind on bills......can't have it both ways!!!
She's such a beautiful spirit. She realized her health was at risk her mind was at risk And she pulled herself out of despite of having a toxic husband. I can relate to her 100%.
He's a weak man. If I was his Mother I would be ashamed of him. I just bet his so-called boys are waiting in the wind for that marriage to break up. They're going to run him over trying to get to w woman like that.
Oh hell nah! Girl you waaaayyy too fly for that fool! Run Mama, run! U can do better all by yourself until you find the one who WILL respect your grind.
hfb yea u can take care of her 3 previous kids too a slamming body don't constitute ignorance and maybe from three babies daddies if you Simps and thirsty brothers can't see beyond the physical and can't see she is ghetto you all are fools
.... "wat have I got??? Wat have I got?!?! Wat have I got!!!!" .... that's real talk. So sad they couldn't make it work though but the judge definitely told it like it needed to be said
I agree that most people do not take the time to appreciate what they have, but the Judge could have told her the same thing. Look at what you got. The man not only works but owns his own business, and appeared to want the best for his family. Just saying, in the real world, everything is a two way street.
He doesn't respect women. He's selfish and insensitive. he's a jealous spirit. These males these days are weakening. if she's ubering who's worrying about her pants she's sitting. smh... He had something else going on and was looking for an easy way out. he'll want to come back when he sees that it's nothing out here. them females that come after her will use him and keep it moving....
KiddRogers well un-fortunately for whatever lil pennies he makes. He'll realize roo late that it's nothing out here and that good woman are a rare commodity.
Thats what happens when a man with missin teeth is tone deaf and doesnt appreciate what he has...very self absorbed and selfish period good for her find better do better
How is it always that the low down foolish men be capturing these beautiful successful gazelle type women? He's takes everything as a joke and wants her to be subservient to him. He's trying to bring her achievement and self esteem down to his. Why can't these good ass women find good ass men. How? Hoooooooowww????!!
*My Thoughts* I am glad she let him go, he was hindering her from reaching her full potential. Go to his shop, nurse him back to health when he wants, pick out her clothes, and be a stay at home wife. This dude is wack, insecure, immature, and jealous little boy. He doesn't want his wife to shine, he wants her to need him. That's issssh weak man do, but I wish her the best she seems like a good woman and a cutie. She'll find better and he will be wishing he did not let her!
I feel I need to comment from a stay-at-home mom/wife pov. Most people believe that our roles are not stressful and that we don't appreciate our spouse. That is not true. When my husband is stressed about bills I am too because we are partners in this marriage. I want to help financially but I can't because any money I make will go to daycare and not the household. My husband doesn't have to do anything but work. I clean the house only to have my family come in and destroy it. There is no time off, no sick days. I make all appointments, volunteer at schools, extra curricular activities make lunches everyday. I'm a hair stylist for my daughter and a barber for my son. I am a tutor for both my children. I said all that to say this the difference between my husband and some men is that he appreciates everything I am for him and I love and appreciate him in return.
Danielle Thomas that’s all I was asking for 💯 I felt it wasn’t necessary to sacrifice the family for money that was really only going to be wasted on nonsense But still wanted to be supportive of her individual ambition but within reason
I don't really know your story only what I saw in the 19 minutes but it didn't come across that way. Don't get wrong, I'm not downing your efforts she could have worked on herself more and communicated what she needed from you better. I know nerves kick in when your on tv. Just keep being a good dude and example for your kids.
I stayed at home for the same reasons and I don't regret giving my kids attention and love and cook a nice meal for the hardworking man. Men like to relax after a hard day... We are on 24/7 and even on after we retire. Women never retire.
My late wife made a lot of sacrifices for me. It just fair that I did the same for her. Our common ground was our children. Make a future for them. We did make time for each other. Even when I was in the other side of the world for a month. We make it work. Its all about love. And to know what love really is.
I love this judge her common sense is always on point. He's been too scared she might leave him once she gets on her feet he eventually chased her. He should of just give her the time to give him returns. Insecurity puts you out.
she had four years without kids to get her life together she fails to tell anyone that she has been in and out these kids life and only been back around for 8 months to now want to start a hustle ... miss me with that bullshit
Judge spit cat and the hat bars at the end that rhyme tho 😂🤣😆😁... these two are in two different worlds unfortunately... Relationships are like shopping you can't go to baby gap and demand they sell adult sizes 🤓
Don’t care how “good” this dude is she should run. She has goals and ambitions he is holding back and trying to control. GTFOH, who are you to control somebody wit your alcoholic ass. Ugh Glad they spilt, she deserves to be free.
All this man needed to do is love, respect and support his wife. He dead wrong and he's always justifying everything. I couldn't deal with him for 13 years.
In this generation men want women to do their expected duties, which was cooking, and cleaning and taking care of their every needs. While at the same time covering their duties which was making money. However, men that have that mentality always end up divorcing. If you provided all the money, I'm sure she would stay at home, but you give nothing in return. Which is why the divorce rate increased.
I was paying all the bills she really wasn’t making much money other than for her gas money for her Uber We were separated for four years while I raised our two sons Then we tried to reconcile but it didn’t work because of her entitlement If y’all notice I never tried to make her look bad as a person on National tv so y’all couldn’t see the whole truth Y’all only saw 19 mins of 13 off and on years and y’all judge me But I’ll take the cruxifixction 👌🏾 Just remember somebody somewhere on the outside looking in judging y’all 💯
She’s a strong woman who knows what she wants. I really like this couple and I think they’re good together. They could make things work if they compromise with each other. You can tell he loves her.
I don't like the husband he treats his wife as if she is a sex object and it makes me sick. He does not appreciate her nor does he respect her she needs to divorce him ASAP!!!!!
They broke up. This fool made a mistake. It's cheaper to keep her. Plus she was all in.. That's why he fighting for custody. if he lose, it's child support, alimony, the house, etc.. he assed out. Not to mention, she is fine as fuck.. This nigga gone be sleeping in the barber shop
That butt head certainly has some unreasonable standards! So, it was okay for HER to go to work and then come home to deal with him and the kids, and work some more around the house- but it wasn't okay for him to help out? That jackass was unreasonable with his archaic demands. I'm glad she doesn't have to stick it out with someone as rigid as he. I think she deserves better.
Wow, I am so impressed with this young woman. She is beautiful, she is self-motivated, has a business, and 5 beautiful children. He better try and hold on to this beautiful woman. He has a Proverbs 31 woman. She is a treasure!
and woooooow what happened to them was left field... Maybe he really figured out he wanted a housewife or maybe he was trying to find excuses not to be with her or maybe it was more going on than divorce court could reveal in 20 minutes...
hfb he a bum point blank period Nd u can’t want a housewife when u can’t support a housewife. She said they were months behind on bills. She put in her superwoman cape Nd did her job Nd he mad asf
He say's," I know I could be doing better". He just answered his own question as to why she works so much. And might I add she looks absolutely luscious in her court clothes.
He need to take some of that Barber money an get those teeth fixed! Mr.Javon is insure. Get it together bruh. SMDH. I salute this Queen losing weight, getting her Real estate license you go girl! Your her husband not her dam daddy.
When she said that he can’t have her working and not working at the same time he showed his true colors. I don’t know where he will find his superwoman but I’m glad she left him.
I've been with my husband for 18 years and he treats me just like this he doesn't want me to work he just wants me to cook clean and stay home and take care of the kids while he stays gone 19 hours a day 6 days a week went through the same things when I was pregnant with our kids and now I'm working 3 jobs and all he does is tell me what I don't have to do he wants to keep me stagnant and depending on him
She needs to kick him to the curb.And this is coming from a black man. Its a shame of what he tried to do that woman.She need to drop his trifling ass.
When you Starr putting your foot down. And get a job, looking after yourself. And they can no longer control what you do. They feel like they have to bring you down, so you feel they need to do what they want you to do. I love my partner but I've told him. He can not control me, I don't mind changing a few things, so suit us both. But I can't jump and won't jump when you tell me to. I'm my own person, if my mum doesn't tell me what to do at my age (20). Then you can't either. Thing is I'm so quite and sensitive. And I don't like to have people mad at me. But like my ex told me, you gotta put your foot down and be selfish sometimes in order to do what makes you happy. We just had a baby boy, he's a great dad. We just had a baby boy, and I'm lucky I'm not experiencing depression. I did in the beginning of my pregnancy. But I said nah, I'm happy so ima be happy and enjoy this experience. If you don't wanna show me you're excited. Shoot, I don't care lol. But when you start getting it in. See how dey switch up. I got my own place, me and baby doing good heheeeeed😄😄😄
Dian Celestine I could of swore he said he paid for her to get her real estate license. Yet y’all say he don’t want her the work. Make that make sense. But okay.ya’ll heard what ya’ll wanted.
@@robertbruce4054 he said he doesn't want her to work. He wanted her to stay at home. But he wasn't making enough money to afford that. He said that also. We're not "hearing what we wanna hear". He actually said these things....so I don't know where you're getting that from.
He is a fool. He does not want her to move pass him, so he puts obstacles in her way. Dr. Amos Wilson talks about this in a lecture called Black Male Female Relationships. I hope she is doing well. I can see he stressed the hell out of her life. This fool drinks so much he can't even get up in the morning. He is a drunk and needy.
Seriously idk what you think but I just wanna say that judge Lynn is such a gem 💎 I feel like she is one of the greatest educators that I got to hear in my life time , besides being on point she is just so mothering in her all essence. Love watching this❤️
She needs to move on because he is a creep, controlling, and insecure. She has too much going for her. Hes not supportive but wants her to be up his ass 100% of the day. Shes strong, smart, and has goals . He want her to put her life aside and be at home while controlling every aspect of her life.
My Father was the owner if his own barbershop for about 35yrs. He always held down his family. He never let my mom or myself and my brother go without anything. He was there at night when I went to sleep and there in the morning when I woke up. He worked 7 days a week and always supported my Mom with her goals. That is the definition of a real MAN!!! A real MAN is secure in HIMSELF and is the HEAD of his family. I lost my DADDY 22yrs ago.... I miss him and thank him for showing me what a REAL MAN is supposed to be!!!
Teresa J. Amen to that
u are blessed Teresa
Amen!!!!!!🙏🙋🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏👋
Teresa J. That’s absolutely beautiful 💯🎶
amen
So at the end he claims "she was using me to get financially secure". But you were the one begging her to be a housewife??? What a fool
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❗❗❗
They always feel used when they have nothing lmao 🤣
For real, always calling people gold diggers when they don't even own silver.
I have to give this woman her props 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 she’s a strong one and very beautiful. She had depression, developed an addiction, clawed her way out on her own because it’s sounds like this brother was doing his own thing, lost weight. She went to school and worked hard, got her real estate license. Does Uber, Lyft, worked on her listings, supported him at the barbershop at least 3 times a week, and nursed him back from constant hangovers yet he wanted MORE! 😡😡
This dude is crazy I’m surprised the judge didn’t mention anything about him drinking around his wife who used to be an alcoholic. I’m glad they split up he was holding her back and she deserves a better man hopefully they can co parent their children.
U go girl
JXENVYX I wish they could have worked it out.He needed to support her and assist her with chores.He wanted her to make money keep house and also tend to his physical and emotional needs.She was working just as hard as he was or more because he had to look after 5 kids.He was all about "I work hard and when I come home" BS.He was pleasant in court but selfish.
It's like all the extra things you do for people just make them wanna see what else they can get. I feel that.
That is so TRUE!
@@bubujooestes1499 Mom taught me if it's not where it is supposed to be put it there,how long will it take .I even do this in stores.A grown man can't come in and clean up and work.foh
5 kids and this body... Damn girl 👏👏👏. I have no children and her body is hotter than mine
Halima Diarra I'll help you with that..
Halima Diarra I need her secret. My son was 10 pounds when he was born and I can't seem to get rid of the baby fat. Lol.
Preach! LOL I'm also not in my 30's but still.
Kristen Holland workout... Add more green to your diet and stop the red meat...
Kristen Holland damn you're baby was 10 pounds?? Whoa😱😫
when a selfless person loves a selfish person 😩
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Courtney Bailey gels tell me about !
Facts!
How is a woman that have 4 children 3 of which she solely is taking care. A mother has to do what a mother has to do.
I think he is threatened by her ambition. She's making moves while he feels stagnant.
Kiyoko 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Yes! 🙌🏾
Kiyoko yep! that also
Kiyoko I agree
Kiyoko 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
Four minutes in , and she's fly af . Real estate agent hustling out here , making women proud ! Looking good and doing good , she needs to leave that shell of a man
Aniko D She want to be man in the relationship
Tony Bee if he was a MAN....she would've have to be!!!
Tony Bee How so? I thought a marriage was supposed to be a partnership. He's clearly not pulling any weight and only wants a toy to control. Wasn't he hollering about the financial situation? She's out there doing what she needs to do to better their situation and herself.
what does the bible say, about a woman being out there with the wolves at some point in time your going to get a bite,
@@fredericknichols5655 boy stop your lying on the bible. It says nothing like that. Read proverbs 31:10-31. You need not come on here and miss quote the Bible.
Goodness she’s beautiful and that dress is so nice with her complexion
S Evans Agree 100 with you. Absolutely beautiful. :)
Looking like the sunset on an African plain🙌🏽🙌🏽 😂
Who else is procrastinating their homework right now..
Mr.Nobody Mr.Nobody Team Procrastination! Yaayyy 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Me ✋🏾😂
Me OMG My last paper before I graduate college is due in 2 hours UGGGGGHHHHHH
hfb ayyye !!! Me too !! My final paper for graduation is due next week. 2017 graduates!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Ayye
Trying to study for my accounting exam 😣
He really needs to hold a dental appointment down. It alarms me how SOME men place demands on women and they can't reciprocate.
ABSOLUTELY FACTS !!!
That is truth. They have zero introspect.
sadly all men are like that
Smh 🤦♀️ you know it
Hahaha 🤣 🤣😂 ok
Though they had their issues, It was a breath of fresh air that for once cheating wasn't one of them...
Howania Thompson Exactly .I was listening out for that but thank God that was never the case.That man just needs to grow up.
Yep yep...one positive thang. I noticed that too. Im hoping they get through this
Amen
And that's where he's more of a fool. No cheating she loyal but you want to make problems outta other things.
He's not serious about shit he smiled ths whole time. Everything is a joke to him.
He's trying to bring her self worth and confidence down to his level.
Christopher Pate I noticed that too
Christopher Pate So you so deep in psychology and human behavior that you KNOW this guy isnt serious solely based on him smiling? The judge didnt think so and she said he is a good man with problems like many men. Thats why she is the judge and you sir are not. Smiling is sometimes a mask for how you really feel, definitely doesnt always mean you are joking or having a good time. This guy makes NO look or moves to suggest he is not taking this matter serious. Listen to his words and stop being judgemental.
soulsearch1234
You are telling me that because the judge never spoke on him smiling too much then I don't have a right to or that im automatically wrong?
I noticed it so I spoke on.
soulsearch1234
Going around youtube and trolling peoples comments tells me a lot about you, And to put words in people's mouths that you don't even know lets me know that im replying to a person with loose screws.
Christopher Pate Change your tampon
He is way too insecure. Some women Don't even want to work.
What? This woman is working hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Many women work very hard!!!!!
The ones who work wish they was at home . The ones at home wanna work .
Facts Zanetta
He sounds extremely controlling and because he couldn't get 100% of all her time he had a fit... and now they are seperated.. sad. Ego's screw everything up!
Maintaining a marriage with 5 kids on TOP of dealing with depression and a drinking problem and one day she took notice and accountability and made a move for the BETTER and she hasn’t looked back since!! This WOMAN IS SOOOO AMAZING 😉 And such an awesome role model!!! She’s a reminder that it’s never too late to make a change to better you life and circumstances and grow!! She had the strength to push through and persevere through trying times!! Uuugghh!! 😍😍 she is my new woman crush and I don’t know her!! Then to learn they broke up and he says she was USING HIM FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT/SECURITY!! How does a woman that works 50 hours a week, went back to school for her realtor license, doing Uber as a side hustle while she’s building clientele...need to use ANYONE financially!?!? 🤔 this was the same man that would’ve preferred her to be home and at his beck and call.. this proves that he wasn’t secure with himself and seeing all that growth she was making made him scared and question his manhood rather than realize “WHAT HE HAD” in his wife/partner... 🔑 word being PARTNER!! Her growing, building and moving up business wise meant HE was growing as well!
Mr. Brown:
I ain’t know nothing about Post Madison Distress ?!?!!! 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ ... WTH 🤷🏽♀️😂😂😂
LOL!!! I couldn’t wait until that part came up in the video at 11:30 cause I so needed to hear it myself! Hilarious 😂
@@EbbinAndItFlows You had me watching it again lol! Thanks for the time stamp!! 😂😂❤️
@@Singlehood2Marriage And he was so confident with it lolol Anytime, sis! ❤️
11 years of marriage though... These men I tell ya, barely have a pot to piss in but think someone is using them.
Lee Flemister. ha!😂 Truth
Lee Flemister Tell it sis.
Lee Flemister 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Space1TV .!. That's True
you sound bitter!!!
He wants a wife who does household duties PLUS work outside the home. If he doesn't mind sharing the financial responsibilities of the home, why doesn't he share household duties as well?
This man...is a fool. Who raised him?
@mralexander he was raised by wolves 😅😅😅😅😅😅
A pack of wolves😂
@@islammirghani4785 tiny thing😂
Thank you a least somebody got some common sense.
He is going to miss her!!! Everyday. I'm almost sad for him. ALMOST
Kimberly#idontplay heck. I miss her. 😂😂
You reallly think that?
😂😂 Almost
She remarried in Feb 2020..lol
@@5822huron I’m happy for her!
if ain't got the money to get your front teeth fixed, you can't afford a stay at home wife.
Hahahaahahahahh
J. Jnz damn right!😂😂😂😂😂
LOL
The whole video I’m looking for his teeth
😂😂😂
I'm not even 20 seconds in and I'm already rooting for this woman to give her husband the boot. He lost me with the first thing he said, "what man doesn't want his wife to be superwoman?" He's got the bald, bearded look I despise and where are his front teeth? Three strikes? You're out.
Erulastiel hahahaha that was funny
Erulastiel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Erulastiel kml
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Erulastiel and an inarticulate, stammering idiot.
Why would you call your wife from her job to come to your job, that's just plain silly.
Why can't the husband put some meals together.
Why is it necessary for sex 3-4 times a day...
He ran her away with that nonsense.
I know this dude didn't say in the end that she was using him to be financially secure. They been together for 13 years and she had three jobs trying to make it work. This dude just insecure n trying to be in control all the time but he goin to learn he not going to find no one better then that.
He's an idiot for pushing her away.
He is threatened by her. Yup... Girls power 👏👏👏 nice dress too.
Men like him are so annoying to me. They have these double standards of men and women thinking women are supposed to be super heroes and save the day in every area of life. Cooking, cleaning, making money, taking care of the kids all while still making sure his sexual needs are met daily. He's clueless and immature and I don't see how she did it bc I couldn't. She's really trying to make something of herself and clearly does not APPRECIATE it! Tbh, I think he is intimidated by her.
Sn: I'm happy she left his confused ass!
In this case, it is more likely dude is manic depressive. needs medicine.
johanne bernier I worked in long-term psyche for 4 years, I assure you he is not "manic depressive"
She Be He wants a house wife, she wants a career. Many women love to be a house wife and then there are many who just want a career. Then there are women who love to be a house wife but also love having a career (like my wife). My wife loves taking care of the home and she is very ambitious in her career but she balances the two. There needs to be balance, I think that is part of what he was asking. If you dont want family responsibilities, then dont have a family and find someone who agrees with you on what those family responsibilities should be. There is no right or wrong when it comes to what a man or woman should and shouldnt do with their relationship as it relates to man and woman responsibilities. It is what makes the couple happy. Balance and compatibility is the key.
soulsearch1234 he can’t afford a housewife tho
Then if he wants a house wife, he should be able to provide for his family and not complain or cause them to get behind on bills......can't have it both ways!!!
he didnt listen to one word and broke up with her...good he was nothing but negativity and stress
Saki Yumura she will make much more money and find a secure man to grow with.
Smh, She is a good woman. He is a fool.
Good woman lol y’all don’t even know her smh
Okie dokie then
The Best u mad asf u lost the best female in ya life. Get a grip it was your fault.
She's such a beautiful spirit. She realized her health was at risk her mind was at risk And she pulled herself out of despite of having a toxic husband. I can relate to her 100%.
He sounds like a high maintenance woman.
Terrence The Dowser Barnes agreed
He's a weak man. If I was his Mother I would be ashamed of him. I just bet his so-called boys are waiting in the wind for that marriage to break up. They're going to run him over trying to get to w woman like that.
The Healer University 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He sounds like a typical pain in the ass MAN.
My exact thoughts 😂
But I gotta give her props for losing weight tho. Good for you ma
This phenomenal woman deserves all the props! She is a go-getter!
OK, pa.
A perfect figure for a mother of 5. Waoooh!!!
I LOVE this Woman, she is soooooooooo Brutally honest and Transparent - that is so Freeing! Love IT!
Seems he’s jealous of her success, she’s too good for him!!
Oh hell nah! Girl you waaaayyy too fly for that fool! Run Mama, run! U can do better all by yourself until you find the one who WILL respect your grind.
..... with 5 kids though, you probably right, these american simps will snatch her up in no time.
Mizz Dee .....why would you want to break up an beautiful family, just because you're lonely and single.......100 SALUTE
Chick got 5 kids 2 by this dude....foh
???? Why would I want to break up a family? Lonely and single? Idk What u on or talkin about????
Mizz Dee u black women crack me up, that's why y'all losing!
This guy is so ignorant...my goodness. He's looking for a live in care giver and a submissive 1950s wife.
Right.
True
Wrong
Post Madison distress? That’s a new one.
Grovel007 😂😂😂😂
Grovel007 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You jus made my day!!
Lol
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For Real Tho. 🤣🤣🤣
I hollered😂😂
Mrs. Brown is fiiiiiine!
hfb yea u can take care of her 3 previous kids too a slamming body don't constitute ignorance and maybe from three babies daddies if you Simps and thirsty brothers can't see beyond the physical and can't see she is ghetto you all are fools
LMAO Im a BLACK WOMAN complementing another BLACK WOMAN on her physical. You, sir, are the fool. Goodbye lol
hfb give me a normal woman with no body that knows how to treat her man The big titty hoes with the bug asses can kiss my ass
LOL NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU WANT
hfb and nobody gives a shit what you think put that shit out there and expect a response for your dumb superficial comnent
Dude!!! You threw away a damn good woman!
SweetTea742 on top of that she’s a beautiful woman too.
She is a amazing woman! and its men like him
make me never want to marry!
.... "wat have I got??? Wat have I got?!?! Wat have I got!!!!" .... that's real talk. So sad they couldn't make it work though but the judge definitely told it like it needed to be said
nothing sad about it.. losing a dude that dumb and self-centered is no loss at all. She can find another dude in a minute!
I agree that most people do not take the time to appreciate what they have, but the Judge could have told her the same thing. Look at what you got. The man not only works but owns his own business, and appeared to want the best for his family. Just saying, in the real world, everything is a two way street.
LaTrese LuvsEarl Its sad that people divorce on trivial issues...come on..grow up people
1mike100 Eeewww... I would never settle for a dude like him. I'd rather be single
Mike thats the bear minimum. A woman willing to do as much as she does deserves way more than than the minimum. I hope you don't roll like that.
He doesn't respect women. He's selfish and insensitive. he's a jealous spirit. These males these days are weakening. if she's ubering who's worrying about her pants she's sitting. smh... He had something else going on and was looking for an easy way out. he'll want to come back when he sees that it's nothing out here. them females that come after her will use him and keep it moving....
KiddRogers well un-fortunately for whatever lil pennies he makes. He'll realize roo late that it's nothing out here and that good woman are a rare commodity.
@@flyman9251 Yes
Thats what happens when a man with missin teeth is tone deaf and doesnt appreciate what he has...very self absorbed and selfish period good for her find better do better
Dorien Wharton Lol. I didn't realize he missing teeth.
LOL!
You're wrong man😂😂😂😂
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The woman is beautiful virtuous and well spoken.
How is it always that the low down foolish men be capturing these beautiful successful gazelle type women? He's takes everything as a joke and wants her to be subservient to him. He's trying to bring her achievement and self esteem down to his. Why can't these good ass women find good ass men. How? Hoooooooowww????!!
amy d Life ain't fair.
amy d That is truly the MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION!! We need to start knowing our worth as women....and leaving these losers alone.
amy d Where are they?
amy d you have to look hard to find them
We accept the love we think we deserve
she is so pretty, too bad he couldn't appreciate her right smh
greenytaddict cause she’s pretty??
5 kids???? Her body 🙌🙌🙌
*My Thoughts* I am glad she let him go, he was hindering her from reaching her full potential. Go to his shop, nurse him back to health when he wants, pick out her clothes, and be a stay at home wife. This dude is wack, insecure, immature, and jealous little boy. He doesn't want his wife to shine, he wants her to need him. That's issssh weak man do, but I wish her the best she seems like a good woman and a cutie. She'll find better and he will be wishing he did not let her!
Malaina Johnson, I just being for real I don't get how these bum azz dudes end up with good women like this!
She deserves better!! Never dim your light to accommodate another person’s insecurities!!!!
U understand she wants to make her own money but youre insecure.
I feel I need to comment from a stay-at-home mom/wife pov. Most people believe that our roles are not stressful and that we don't appreciate our spouse. That is not true. When my husband is stressed about bills I am too because we are partners in this marriage. I want to help financially but I can't because any money I make will go to daycare and not the household. My husband doesn't have to do anything but work. I clean the house only to have my family come in and destroy it. There is no time off, no sick days. I make all appointments, volunteer at schools, extra curricular activities make lunches everyday. I'm a hair stylist for my daughter and a barber for my son. I am a tutor for both my children. I said all that to say this the difference between my husband and some men is that he appreciates everything I am for him and I love and appreciate him in return.
Danielle Thomas that’s all I was asking for 💯 I felt it wasn’t necessary to sacrifice the family for money that was really only going to be wasted on nonsense
But still wanted to be supportive of her individual ambition but within reason
I don't really know your story only what I saw in the 19 minutes but it didn't come across that way. Don't get wrong, I'm not downing your efforts she could have worked on herself more and communicated what she needed from you better. I know nerves kick in when your on tv. Just keep being a good dude and example for your kids.
B.S.
@@thebest4390 nah you was a jerk
I stayed at home for the same reasons and I don't regret
giving my kids attention and love and cook a nice meal for
the hardworking man. Men like to relax after a hard day...
We are on 24/7 and even on after we retire. Women never retire.
her dress cute
yes it is. I love the color..
thebeauty00 Not on her tho #justsaying
I kept trying to decide if I liked it.
No its gross
yes I like it too...these other people replying have no style. She has the body for it too.
he is very threatened by his own wife.... it’s like he’s intimidated by her. 😞
Wrong
@@damienkirksey7026 prove me wrong sure looks like it and people agreed. plus this 2 years ago if you don’t gtf.
@@taoroahgah I give a damn whether the people agree with you and he's the one payed for her real estate school and her final test...He supported her
@@damienkirksey7026 sounds like I truly don’t care. I said what I said and don’t care what you think about what I said.
@@taoroahgah Because you're goofy
My late wife made a lot of sacrifices for me.
It just fair that I did the same for her.
Our common ground was our children.
Make a future for them.
We did make time for each other.
Even when I was in the other side of the world for a month.
We make it work.
Its all about love.
And to know what love really is.
So sorry for your loss
I love this judge her common sense is always on point. He's been too scared she might leave him once she gets on her feet he eventually chased her. He should of just give her the time to give him returns. Insecurity puts you out.
she had four years without kids to get her life together she fails to tell anyone that she has been in and out these kids life and only been back around for 8 months to now want to start a hustle ... miss me with that bullshit
He wants to control her progress ,"So he can say her success is because of him". He wants her to be co dependent on him.
She has to be so proud of herself and the woman I’m sure she has become after these years!! She is literally a queen - God bless her and her family.
He still didn't get it and lost his wife because of it...sad
👍 Agree!🥂
Judge spit cat and the hat bars at the end that rhyme tho 😂🤣😆😁... these two are in two different worlds unfortunately...
Relationships are like shopping you can't go to baby gap and demand they sell adult sizes 🤓
RancisGamer Wow!!! I love that one!!! I swear it should be on a T-SHIRT!!! 😂😂
Rofl
Bruh 💀💀😂😂😂😂
Don’t care how “good” this dude is she should run. She has goals and ambitions he is holding back and trying to control. GTFOH, who are you to control somebody wit your alcoholic ass. Ugh
Glad they spilt, she deserves to be free.
All this man needed to do is love, respect and support his wife. He dead wrong and he's always justifying everything. I couldn't deal with him for 13 years.
He is going to put her through hell with this divorce bcuz he's selfish.
Her dress is FABULOUS!!
He picked it for her!!!
In this generation men want women to do their expected duties, which was cooking, and cleaning and taking care of their every needs. While at the same time covering their duties which was making money. However, men that have that mentality always end up divorcing. If you provided all the money, I'm sure she would stay at home, but you give nothing in return. Which is why the divorce rate increased.
aicha Daillo. We're far from Cleverland here ! This girl is just as dumb as he is. Made 2 more kids ...with a manic-depressive. dude needs medicine.
What's wrong with her cooking and cleaning?... I actually like him... They're just not meant for each other.
I was paying all the bills she really wasn’t making much money other than for her gas money for her Uber
We were separated for four years while I raised our two sons
Then we tried to reconcile but it didn’t work because of her entitlement
If y’all notice I never tried to make her look bad as a person on National tv so y’all couldn’t see the whole truth
Y’all only saw 19 mins of 13 off and on years and y’all judge me
But I’ll take the cruxifixction 👌🏾
Just remember somebody somewhere on the outside looking in judging y’all 💯
@@thebest4390 you are the entitled one wanting a house slave and not appreciating a amazing woman.
She’s a strong woman who knows what she wants. I really like this couple and I think they’re good together. They could make things work if they compromise with each other. You can tell he loves her.
I don't like the husband he treats his wife as if she is a sex object and it makes me sick. He does not appreciate her nor does he respect her she needs to divorce him ASAP!!!!!
isn't a wife a husbands personal sex object?
Mrs. Brown doesn't look like she have five children.
Carene Sutton She has a brick house body.
trust me she does im one of them
He so busy controlling her he lost control of his teeth 😂😂
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She's way out of his league. She's beautiful and smart. I hope she divorces him.
Her body is everything🙌🏾
They broke up. This fool made a mistake. It's cheaper to keep her. Plus she was all in.. That's why he fighting for custody. if he lose, it's child support, alimony, the house, etc.. he assed out. Not to mention, she is fine as fuck.. This nigga gone be sleeping in the barber shop
lol 11:28 "I ain't know notihn' bout post madness distress"
Jay Lawson 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Watching this show makes me want to be single 4 ever!
That butt head certainly has some unreasonable standards! So, it was okay for HER to go to work and then come home to deal with him and the kids, and work some more around the house- but it wasn't okay for him to help out?
That jackass was unreasonable with his archaic demands. I'm glad she doesn't have to stick it out with someone as rigid as he. I think she deserves better.
I just wanna help him find his teeth..
BERK ! looks like a light bulb ! 4 times a day OMG ! How lucky she was ! lol !
Shalom Robertson
haahaaaaaahaaa
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Shalom Robertson lol
WELL DAMN LOOK AT HER 😍😋
T.E.D. tech I know right she is beautiful and an intellectual woman
That body is banging!!!
No matter what she does, it doesn't seem to be enough for him. I couldn't deal with him
This man makes me appreciate my husband so much more. Man I have an amazing man. He is super clueless about how to be a husband to a good woman.
She is such a beautiful women. But she can do better....she needs a man!
I'm glad they broke up. He was holding her back.
That post maddison distress was too cute and funny. At least he tried.
Wow, I am so impressed with this young woman. She is beautiful, she is self-motivated, has a business, and 5 beautiful children. He better try and hold on to this beautiful woman. He has a Proverbs 31 woman. She is a treasure!
and woooooow what happened to them was left field... Maybe he really figured out he wanted a housewife or maybe he was trying to find excuses not to be with her or maybe it was more going on than divorce court could reveal in 20 minutes...
hfb he a bum point blank period Nd u can’t want a housewife when u can’t support a housewife. She said they were months behind on bills. She put in her superwoman cape Nd did her job Nd he mad asf
He say's," I know I could be doing better". He just answered his own question as to why she works so much. And might I add she looks absolutely luscious in her court clothes.
He's afraid of her success he thinks she going to leave him . He's also jealous of her .
He need to take some of that Barber money an get those teeth fixed! Mr.Javon is insure. Get it together bruh. SMDH. I salute this Queen losing weight, getting her Real estate license you go girl! Your her husband not her dam daddy.
I totally agree with you. It's just sad to see men treat woman in this manner. Like were is your home training, an who raised You seriously.
pocahontas7727 treat women like what?
The Best like shit
18:35: "You're driving her crazy -
and, by extension, me!"
Now when Judge Lynn says THAT...shape up or ship out!!!
When she said that he can’t have her working and not working at the same time he showed his true colors. I don’t know where he will find his superwoman but I’m glad she left him.
I've been with my husband for 18 years and he treats me just like this he doesn't want me to work he just wants me to cook clean and stay home and take care of the kids while he stays gone 19 hours a day 6 days a week went through the same things when I was pregnant with our kids and now I'm working 3 jobs and all he does is tell me what I don't have to do he wants to keep me stagnant and depending on him
She needs to kick him to the curb.And this is coming from a black man. Its a shame of what he tried to do that woman.She need to drop
his trifling ass.
Dude lost a super star because he was so focus on himself smh
Whats with these some of the men in ATL, SMDH ridiculous
Donald Neil shallow ass men
lol house in Virginia?
She said you lying lol 😂
She’s outgrown him. It’s time for her to move on or he needs to step up and put his ego aside and be the man the a woman like her
needs
When you Starr putting your foot down. And get a job, looking after yourself. And they can no longer control what you do. They feel like they have to bring you down, so you feel they need to do what they want you to do. I love my partner but I've told him. He can not control me, I don't mind changing a few things, so suit us both. But I can't jump and won't jump when you tell me to. I'm my own person, if my mum doesn't tell me what to do at my age (20). Then you can't either. Thing is I'm so quite and sensitive. And I don't like to have people mad at me. But like my ex told me, you gotta put your foot down and be selfish sometimes in order to do what makes you happy. We just had a baby boy, he's a great dad. We just had a baby boy, and I'm lucky I'm not experiencing depression. I did in the beginning of my pregnancy. But I said nah, I'm happy so ima be happy and enjoy this experience. If you don't wanna show me you're excited. Shoot, I don't care lol. But when you start getting it in. See how dey switch up. I got my own place, me and baby doing good heheeeeed😄😄😄
Dian Celestine I could of swore he said he paid for her to get her real estate license. Yet y’all say he don’t want her the work. Make that make sense. But okay.ya’ll heard what ya’ll wanted.
@@robertbruce4054 he said he doesn't want her to work. He wanted her to stay at home. But he wasn't making enough money to afford that. He said that also. We're not "hearing what we wanna hear". He actually said these things....so I don't know where you're getting that from.
Girl I admire your strength. Show en how it’s done boo
This woman looks just like Michael Jackson in his "Remember The Time" video the resemblance is frightening!
Dwahn Denson hahahahaha
Dwahn Denson she truly does look like him. I was wondering where did I see her before. Lol
😂😂😂😂😂
He is a fool. He does not want her to move pass him, so he puts obstacles in her way. Dr. Amos Wilson talks about this in a lecture called Black Male Female Relationships.
I hope she is doing well. I can see he stressed the hell out of her life.
This fool drinks so much he can't even get up in the morning. He is a drunk and needy.
Seriously idk what you think but I just wanna say that judge Lynn is such a gem 💎 I feel like she is one of the greatest educators that I got to hear in my life time , besides being on point she is just so mothering in her all essence.
Love watching this❤️
I feel like he wants to put limits on her. He don’t want her to grow beyond him.
She needs to move on because he is a creep, controlling, and insecure. She has too much going for her. Hes not supportive but wants her to be up his ass 100% of the day.
Shes strong, smart, and has goals
. He want her to put her life aside and be at home while controlling every aspect of her life.