@@MichaelVaim hey I think there is genuine care for you ,people don't like seeing Men being out through the EX wife mincer to be spat out the other end ,take care of number one yourself.
Mike, har följt dig i flera år och du måste sluta göra henne tjänster bara för att. Om hon inte kan umgås utan att du gör något åt henne så move on my friend. Du förtjänar så mycket bättre och för ditt eget mående så dela upp hundarna och blicka framåt! Du är inte ensam homie!
@@MichaelVaim Don’t care about others, lots of people get back with there X’s sometimes time apart makes the heart grow fonder, sometimes get back into shape makes a huge difference. Do what you gotta do Mike if you really wanna win her back.
I am dealing with the same situation now. After 7 months I finally cut her off. Mike is a great guy, met him a few times in Pitt. I feel this mans pain.
Mike buddy , we’ve all been here before , stick around, help out all the time with the thoughts maybe one day we’ll be back together, here is the awakening, if she finds someone new , and she will. Buddy you will be devastated twice, Move on , let her miss you , start a new chapter in your life. Peace brother ☝️👍
Many of us have been in painful situations, and yes - we can talk reason and give advice that seems sound. But noone knows what’s exactly in the heart and mind of someone. When a dear friend of mine had a similar situation i said to him “this is what is right, this is what you should do. But whatever you decide to do, im here”. And this is what our guy needs to know from us.
She’s allowing him to be around so she can slowly emotionally let him go forever, while he has his hopes up, only to get crushed again. This is a textbook crazy ex situation. I feel so bad for him man. This is going to end so awful for him.
@@sk8hillzz exactly why would you watch those dogs? They’re not married that’s not his kid move the fuck on bro. Mike, you’re a good guy. We love you. You’re doing bad to yourself.
My guy doesn’t even Know it , he can find someone better than his ex but he’s still hoping meanwhile she’s donig monkey double back flips on some other dude while she’s using him !!!
Mike divorced woman are the smartest, specially with child.. don’t let yourself used by them, if you stay locked in same position, you keeping closed doors for new beautiful stuff. Good luck buddy and all
Mike, love your memories and just move forward. Remember, she is actively choosing somebody else, and you don't matter anymore. You have to set your boundaries and start living your life. Peace.
@@MichaelVaim Then get a new dog, Mike. Three months before she kicked me out, I paid the mortgage off with one check (times were good) as a gift to her. The kids were 7 and 11. Destroyed me to the core when the new stepdad moved into a free house less than a year later ... I knew then that my identity as a genuine father was done. And it was. Panic attacks, 220 BPM - prescribed Paxil and have taken it every day since 1994. As soon as I hear the prefix 'Step', I know that the man in the relationship is in for one hell of a shit show that he won't be able to handle, and which will cut his testosterone levels by half. Mike, what you are doing is dead wrong. Please don't make any contact again you fool. Because you will get crushed again. As an early subscriber, I've learned that you still can't pronounce "Z" properly and are genuine, like me. Since we're both fans of authenticity, I strongly recommend you cut all f*cking ties now!
@@MichaelVaimI want to do cocaine. It's a pleasure for me. And I don't doit... Becauee I know the consequences. Jesus dude, we want you to win. When you gonna want to win for yourself....
@@TheTussman, so wait..... And your ex, is she still married to that same guy, or did she divorce again? ( I am sorry for what happened. just got curious and asked ) Anf yeah you're right, he should definitely move on
These comments are so brain dead😂😂😂...everyone who is complaining like he's back with his EX,MOVE ON,SHE USING HIM,IT WILL NOT END WEL ETC are so ignorant to the fact he literally says he is not moving back in and its jus for a few days to babysit the animals 🤦🏽♂️
You know what I respect? Any man that's willing to be candid during both the ups and downs in their life. Glad to see you happy bro, sharing your journey. Real shit
You are a good dude Mike. I cannot speak for everyone or even you but no matter what the circumstances are it certainly feels as if she takes advantage of you being a good dude. She should not expect you to take care of the pups no matter what.
He definitely shouldn't! Sweden is a shitty country. Trust me, I live here. It was way better 15-20 yrs ago, but now it's mostly shit. The nature's great, but ppl are shit. @@Christoph-sd3zi
The dogs were sure happy to see you. Obviously you were just as happy to see them. I hope you still are able to spend some time with your step daughter. In the old vids when she was little, it was clear she felt a connection to you.
She’s allowing him to be around so she can slowly emotionally let him go forever, while he has his hopes up, only to get crushed again. This is a textbook crazy ex situation. I feel so bad for him man. This is going to end so awful for him.
I haven’t watched any of your videos for a while but when I did watch, I always had the feeling she wasn’t that into you the way you were into her. Not surprised at all, please move on.
You gotta get out of there and do a no contact rule if you want to ever get her back. You being there at a moments notice to help out, is allowing her to slowly let go of you, while you gain hope that it will work again, only to be crushed again. She left you, don’t fall for this man. You have to move on.
Dude, you gotta move to a different state. This is honestly NOT good for your mental health going back to that house and all. You're never going to mentally heal yourself if you continue to be in that environment. Time to move on my friend.
Here’s the thing, everyone is jumping on Mike for being a simp, but if you think about it, Heather is not even there, and he has lived with those dogs for a long time, and he loves them, the only reason he is there is to be with the dogs. So if you want to tell me he is a simp for the dogs, sure, I can buy that, but I don’t think he is a simp for Heather.
@@TheLivedeath I've never heard of split custody for dogs, and I think it would be incredibly mean to the dogs to do that, his "custody time" with the dogs is when he visits them (at their house) while Heather is not able to care for them.
I think you shoud move back permanently and make a work you are a Man and do the right thing its alway better then other folks keep telling you to live her don’t listen to them and go with youre hart. Make it work and move back home where you belong sir
Feelso sorry for you brother, you shouldn't have got back, she couldn't successfully monkey branch to her alpha now she got back to her safe guaranteed branch, but the thing is she'll keep mentally longing and hooked up to the guy she couldn't get hold of and she'll outpour that frustration into you. I deeply don't want you to be in this situation.
The amount of people who missed the fact he said it was FOR A FEW DAYS is astounding!! Yes, clickbait title, but I'm always watching Mike's (and the Autovlog) videos all the way through because they're awesome and have such a normal life feel to it!
So why didn't she take the dogs to an animal shelter or have her friends watch them for a few dsys and Sydney is not even his child and she kicked him out that's why nice guys end up the looser, it's been 8 months and i'm sure he hasn't had sex since then and hoping when his ex wife comes back things would start working out
Mate you need to stand your ground and respect YOURSELF FIRST before you respect anyone else because if you dont respect yourtself nobody will respect you
Hey mike, im driving there now! ill take care of the Dogs while you get out of there and have some fun with someone else, girls will walk over you, over and over if you let it happen man!
Rip to your view time, you can tell people don’t watch the entire video to understand the title 😂. And love how everyone needs to give their two cents and become a therapist on your relationship and situation. God forbid you still wanna see your dogs and be a part of Sydney’s life still. Glad to see the dogs are doing great and loved the change of scenery for the walk. Great video as always Mike!
Aye man...... as a guy, a man, you gotta do ya own thing brother, going back ain't the one, can't tell another grown man what to do but yh doesn't feel right
I feel for Mike, as I've been there. People are calling him a simp and all, but I know it's hard. Here's how it should go. If Sidney was is biological daughter, he should keep in contact for visitation rights. I'm not sure if he legally adopted her or not, but that would be the only reason for contact. Dogs are another thing. Give one to her, and take one for yourself, or walk away and get his own. Men need to totally cut off a woman, if the relationship doesn't work. She'll respect you more if you do that. Staying friends is silly. No reason.
damn I feel bad for Mike, dude wants to be back with his X so bad and just can't let go. His X is out getting plugged right now and this dude is just dying inside wanting her back.
The comments are hilarious 😂 please watch the full video before you judge me, love you guys!
@@MichaelVaim hey I think there is genuine care for you ,people don't like seeing Men being out through the EX wife mincer to be spat out the other end ,take care of number one yourself.
Mike, har följt dig i flera år och du måste sluta göra henne tjänster bara för att. Om hon inte kan umgås utan att du gör något åt henne så move on my friend.
Du förtjänar så mycket bättre och för ditt eget mående så dela upp hundarna och blicka framåt!
Du är inte ensam homie!
@@brunothefudge and he should move back to Sweden. A million times more beautiful country with a strong tradition.
@@MichaelVaim Don’t care about others, lots of people get back with there X’s sometimes time apart makes the heart grow fonder, sometimes get back into shape makes a huge difference. Do what you gotta do Mike if you really wanna win her back.
@@emircosic7860 also Sweden women are much better looking than US
Cut ties and live for your self. Don’t be anyone’s puppet. You’re too good of a dude.
Yeah, that old woman would respect him more also if he wouldn’t be such a desperate puppy.
He has no right being there because Sydney is not his biological daughter
I am dealing with the same situation now. After 7 months I finally cut her off. Mike is a great guy, met him a few times in Pitt. I feel this mans pain.
Honestly I feel like the apartment is nicer
it is for sure
I like the house better the car Audi better plus I like to see the dogs the condo boring
would have kept it tbh over the house even tho parking sucks over there
Without a doubt ❕❕ I've always said that to myself but never said it in the comments 😂
That's his bachelor krib.
Yeah this isn’t going to end well
Mike buddy , we’ve all been here before , stick around, help out all the time with the thoughts maybe one day we’ll be back together, here is the awakening, if she finds someone new , and she will. Buddy you will be devastated twice,
Move on , let her miss you , start a new chapter in your life. Peace brother ☝️👍
He's gonna walk in with her getting her cheeks clapped one of these days💀
Don't go there.... just don't.... MOVE ON 😢
WOW man… let him do what he’s gunna do..
@@DefinitelyNotYouThankGod I am nobody, but somebody for advice
Many of us have been in painful situations, and yes - we can talk reason and give advice that seems sound. But noone knows what’s exactly in the heart and mind of someone. When a dear friend of mine had a similar situation i said to him “this is what is right, this is what you should do. But whatever you decide to do, im here”. And this is what our guy needs to know from us.
Agree.
Absolutely right.ive been in the same place.
Why!!!!! Mike, we care for you, don’t be a simp!!!! We hate to see you being taken advantage of. Find a new girl and move on friend
His first mistake was marrying a single mom...
@@hivoltagefx4 well the dog are his dog too I rather have the house the. The lame apartment car sound better and love see in the house
Watch the video you troll
@@DemEazy facts 😂😂
Be different if he got to come back over to have some friends with benefits but getting nothing is awful
Dogs are the best. I'm glad that you're spending time with the dogs.
I'm 4 years divorced after 23 years married. Leave it all behind. Disconnect from them and enjoy the ride of self discovery!
My ex wife is so gone, she is persona non grata now, she can never come to the usa again😂😂😂
@@Smarterthanyou-mthrfkr Thankfully.
Guys take this as a lesson don’t be a simp like mike
Lowkey
I actually laughed out loud when i read this 😭😭
@@pinedeez I laughed to because people are gonna be like him lol 😂
Y'all making fun of a good man....ya...don't be a good man....idiots
Every guy ends up being one at some point. Especially as you get older.
Will be interesting to see how this plays out but in my experience, this will end in tears for Mike. I just feel like he's still clinging on.
She’s allowing him to be around so she can slowly emotionally let him go forever, while he has his hopes up, only to get crushed again. This is a textbook crazy ex situation. I feel so bad for him man. This is going to end so awful for him.
They only call you, when they need you.
Should move back to Sweden Mike and make content there! So many better cars, atmosphere, etc!
Better cars? Atmosphere? Dunno about that dude. As a swede, i dont agree at all. Have you even seen the U.S?
Better cars? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bro nooooo. She’s ended things with you twice
Aw dude, don’t be doing her favours. She’s playing with your heart strings. Not cool of her
@@AL-31she dumped him TWICE?? I didn’t know that. Damn
Dude said the third time is a charm 🥲🥹
Bro is a certified cuck at this point
Mike, get outta there dude!!!
How many times is he gonna be tricked? She’s gonna do the same thing another year or so what an idiot he’s such a nice guy too.
@@sk8hillzz exactly why would you watch those dogs? They’re not married that’s not his kid move the fuck on bro. Mike, you’re a good guy. We love you. You’re doing bad to yourself.
😂 come on guys. People can break up and still be friends…
@@tl7538💯
@@claudiobarbosa3111 yeah ok
My guy doesn’t even Know it , he can find someone better than his ex but he’s still hoping meanwhile she’s donig monkey double back flips on some other dude while she’s using him !!!
He's probably still on her health insurance.
Yup..:
Y'all just don't understand! As someone who has a couple of pets. He's just doing it for the dogs. He's just doing it for the dogs! Remember that! 😉😉😉
Mike, you're a good man, it's tough to go through a separation, but yet you're getting through it with confidence and strength. Prayers
Mannnnnn oh no sir!!!!! Don’t go backwards. No one would use me like a backup
Mike divorced woman are the smartest, specially with child.. don’t let yourself used by them, if you stay locked in same position, you keeping closed doors for new beautiful stuff. Good luck buddy and all
Mike, love your memories and just move forward. Remember, she is actively choosing somebody else, and you don't matter anymore. You have to set your boundaries and start living your life. Peace.
I’d just tell the X to pay a dog sitter.
I WANT to see the dogs lol, it’s a pleasure for me
@@MichaelVaim OK now THAT I totally understand.
@@MichaelVaim Then get a new dog, Mike. Three months before she kicked me out, I paid the mortgage off with one check (times were good) as a gift to her. The kids were 7 and 11. Destroyed me to the core when the new stepdad moved into a free house less than a year later ... I knew then that my identity as a genuine father was done. And it was. Panic attacks, 220 BPM - prescribed Paxil and have taken it every day since 1994. As soon as I hear the prefix 'Step', I know that the man in the relationship is in for one hell of a shit show that he won't be able to handle, and which will cut his testosterone levels by half.
Mike, what you are doing is dead wrong. Please don't make any contact again you fool. Because you will get crushed again.
As an early subscriber, I've learned that you still can't pronounce "Z" properly and are genuine, like me. Since we're both fans of authenticity, I strongly recommend you cut all f*cking ties now!
@@MichaelVaimI want to do cocaine. It's a pleasure for me. And I don't doit... Becauee I know the consequences. Jesus dude, we want you to win. When you gonna want to win for yourself....
@@TheTussman, so wait..... And your ex, is she still married to that same guy, or did she divorce again? ( I am sorry for what happened. just got curious and asked )
Anf yeah you're right, he should definitely move on
I’m happy just to see you there!! My wife and kids left around the same time you left there. So I feel that pain
Yup, you start working out and living the best life, and she saw you moving on; and guess what? She calls you back! Take care of yourself first!
Spends a decade in Pittsburgh and he's trapped. Welcome home 🤝
My family grew up on Hallock.
Don’t know the details, but I do know this situation is not healthy. Glad the internet is thinking clearly.
These comments are so brain dead😂😂😂...everyone who is complaining like he's back with his EX,MOVE ON,SHE USING HIM,IT WILL NOT END WEL ETC are so ignorant to the fact he literally says he is not moving back in and its jus for a few days to babysit the animals 🤦🏽♂️
You know what I respect? Any man that's willing to be candid during both the ups and downs in their life. Glad to see you happy bro, sharing your journey. Real shit
Go get yourself another babe, it's been 7 months, don't allow your emotions control you!
Mike’s wife treats him worse than the cops when he gets pulled over 😂😂😂. Both hit him over the head and take his money.
She's a nurse practioner - she makes way more money than him.
@@Christoph-sd3zi that means nothing, women always get something and Mike does make money
@@Christoph-sd3zinurses are sluts!
You are a good dude Mike. I cannot speak for everyone or even you but no matter what the circumstances are it certainly feels as if she takes advantage of you being a good dude. She should not expect you to take care of the pups no matter what.
The dogs are probably more loyal than her. How convenient to have a built in dog sitter, while possibly sitting on someone.
Hmmmmmm…..
👀
Damn People are so quick to draw conclusions without watching the video first
She prolly went on vaca with her daughter and her new man
Seriously, what are you doing?
He should just go back to Sweden. He has absolutely nothing tieing him to the US.
@@Christoph-sd3zichill brah
He's dog sitting because he's attached to the dogs, that's all.
He definitely shouldn't! Sweden is a shitty country. Trust me, I live here. It was way better 15-20 yrs ago, but now it's mostly shit. The nature's great, but ppl are shit. @@Christoph-sd3zi
Come back to Sweden man, so beautiful women, best of the best
Mike Vaim Great Video I think it's awesome that you moved back into your old house for a few days to take care Gucci and Lambo
Proud of you brother lol. Clearly some ppl didn’t watch the whole video. Stay on your path.
Never date single moms who wear high heels doing daily stuff. That, my men of culture, you can bank on.
The dogs were sure happy to see you. Obviously you were just as happy to see them. I hope you still are able to spend some time with your step daughter. In the old vids when she was little, it was clear she felt a connection to you.
Its your life Mike do what you want👍
She’s allowing him to be around so she can slowly emotionally let him go forever, while he has his hopes up, only to get crushed again. This is a textbook crazy ex situation. I feel so bad for him man. This is going to end so awful for him.
Never go back to an ex. They are an ex for a reason
You’re a good man Mike. But personally I’d of cut ties with everything and moved on!
Nice to see your back with the dogs you. Know they Love you
swedish michellin man gave me chuckles, good one brotha
I haven’t watched any of your videos for a while but when I did watch, I always had the feeling she wasn’t that into you the way you were into her. Not surprised at all, please move on.
I anticipated. Figured it was house sitting. I hope life treats you well dude. 🙏💪💪👍
sad video watching a fellow man getting used up
"This video was a little clickbaitey but i think you guys knew that" You'd be surprised Mike 😂
You gotta get out of there and do a no contact rule if you want to ever get her back. You being there at a moments notice to help out, is allowing her to slowly let go of you, while you gain hope that it will work again, only to be crushed again. She left you, don’t fall for this man. You have to move on.
"You need another garage to be pulling into regularly" without that attachment of the cost that comes along with this "garage".
Mike: riles up the doggos
Also Mike: “don’t jump”
Dude, you gotta move to a different state. This is honestly NOT good for your mental health going back to that house and all. You're never going to mentally heal yourself if you continue to be in that environment. Time to move on my friend.
I have two male dogs & one runs through his food the other takes his time. The male dog is sure liking you!
Here’s the thing, everyone is jumping on Mike for being a simp, but if you think about it, Heather is not even there, and he has lived with those dogs for a long time, and he loves them, the only reason he is there is to be with the dogs. So if you want to tell me he is a simp for the dogs, sure, I can buy that, but I don’t think he is a simp for Heather.
I agree!
He can coordinate split custody for the dogs. If she wants him to take care of the dogs when it's not his turn. She needs to pay him.
@@TheLivedeath I've never heard of split custody for dogs, and I think it would be incredibly mean to the dogs to do that, his "custody time" with the dogs is when he visits them (at their house) while Heather is not able to care for them.
Take care I’m watching no matter what happens in your life.
He's watching the dogs and he's better off at the house then his apartment . In life, you choose your battles.
Never go backs if she made the decision to leave
I think you shoud move back permanently and make a work you are a Man and do the right thing its alway better then other folks keep telling you to live her don’t listen to them and go with youre hart. Make it work and move back home where you belong sir
Dude don’t do it, your apartment is way better and you have been way happier, move on all ready
Watch the video ;)
Hey you sounded like AutoVlog. He has a C63s since I am still OG from his Ford Focus days. 😂
People always want to tell other people how to live, just do whatever makes you happy. LOL
Feelso sorry for you brother, you shouldn't have got back, she couldn't successfully monkey branch to her alpha now she got back to her safe guaranteed branch, but the thing is she'll keep mentally longing and hooked up to the guy she couldn't get hold of and she'll outpour that frustration into you. I deeply don't want you to be in this situation.
You are a good guy, Mike Vaim
No mike we liked the apartment
Mike , you are too good of a guy , she’s using u , stop and move move on .
Maturity takes time and that is reflected in the immature comments. Mike is a real one. Being cordial and great clickbait 😂😂😂
The amount of people who missed the fact he said it was FOR A FEW DAYS is astounding!! Yes, clickbait title, but I'm always watching Mike's (and the Autovlog) videos all the way through because they're awesome and have such a normal life feel to it!
So why didn't she take the dogs to an animal shelter or have her friends watch them for a few dsys and Sydney is not even his child and she kicked him out that's why nice guys end up the looser, it's been 8 months and i'm sure he hasn't had sex since then and hoping when his ex wife comes back things would start working out
Mate you need to stand your ground and respect YOURSELF FIRST before you respect anyone else because if you dont respect yourtself nobody will respect you
Hey mike, im driving there now! ill take care of the Dogs while you get out of there and have some fun with someone else, girls will walk over you, over and over if you let it happen man!
Dog sitting is my favorite side gig
Based Mike. A loyal man to his girl. Keep it real man, love your content.
Except shes not loyal to him though. It is kind of cuck behavior. She’s just going to continually break his heart. He needs to move on.
You can you find someone younger, prietier eithout kids. Wake up
Petco Park is the best baseball stadium hands down!
Delusional
Rip to your view time, you can tell people don’t watch the entire video to understand the title 😂. And love how everyone needs to give their two cents and become a therapist on your relationship and situation. God forbid you still wanna see your dogs and be a part of Sydney’s life still. Glad to see the dogs are doing great and loved the change of scenery for the walk. Great video as always Mike!
Dude she sold your Raptor ! Move on Bud, she will and it will hurt u more!
Ah yes, I miss walking along the Allegheny. The fountain smells like poo, though.
Your puppies are absolutely adorable!!!
Yeah Mike, I figured that you were looking after the dogs while the girls where out of town. It's all good bro.
Man i haven't kept up with Mike in a several months. What happened dude is divorced now?? Someone fill me in
I'm here for the unique Pittsburgh content. Don't pull a Tavarish and move to Florida.
You clearly love these two they are gorgeous
Clickbait... you got me.
someone needs a bysitter and a house maid ,good luck bro
Aye man...... as a guy, a man, you gotta do ya own thing brother, going back ain't the one, can't tell another grown man what to do but yh doesn't feel right
Bad choice brother
I feel for Mike, as I've been there. People are calling him a simp and all, but I know it's hard.
Here's how it should go.
If Sidney was is biological daughter, he should keep in contact for visitation rights. I'm not sure if he legally adopted her or not, but that would be the only reason for contact. Dogs are another thing. Give one to her, and take one for yourself, or walk away and get his own. Men need to totally cut off a woman, if the relationship doesn't work. She'll respect you more if you do that. Staying friends is silly. No reason.
comeon Mike！Why do you give her chances to hurt you again and again
lol what? Watch the video, it’s all good 😂
@MichaelVaim you're still a simp even if you aren't moving back in with her
Dogs are soooo happy to see you 😍😄
Why are you watching her dogs? Treat yourself like you treat your cars. No compromise!
damn I feel bad for Mike, dude wants to be back with his X so bad and just can't let go. His X is out getting plugged right now and this dude is just dying inside wanting her back.
100%
He seems awesome guy... He probably could benefit from watching some of the "red pill" youtube channels
As we say in Spain for such situations… Hit the gym and zero contact
Tyrone: "she busy dude"
wife hawk tuing a bbc in Florida
Figured that was the situation.... A Swedish Michelin Man - that was great! LOL!
What are you doing bro
You got us....or at least me, for a second because I figured that it was dogsitting or you were Sydneysitting
Just love how everyone thinks they are smarter then mike, its his life... i would have done the same even if it might be wrong.
Ohhh boy I hope if not back to the old house . I just started watching the vid
I feel you Mike, been there done that 😃👍
Hope all is well, brotha 🍻
let her go dude....nothing ties you to them...move on...