Love-Fueled Prison Escape? | Casey White and Vicky White Case Analysis

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Комментарии • 2,1 тыс.

  • @madcapper6
    @madcapper6 2 года назад +76

    Someone once said "Love sharpens all senses but the common."

  • @Charles_Odom17
    @Charles_Odom17 2 года назад +6

    I have to admit. The “Ford Escape” joke had me rollin’.

  • @bohemianscrapgirl
    @bohemianscrapgirl 2 года назад +359

    I am a nurse and worked for a couple of years in a county jail that housed federal inmates. There were many times that the federal inmates would make such unbelievable promises and riches beyond my dreams if I would just leave an exit open. Now, the men were not stupid and thought they were telling me what I wanted to hear about my beauty, my wonderful personality, on and on. I never once considered any of their bs...as soon as they realized that I knew who I was and was not going to do some dumbass shit like what this woman did they moved on to other women. I laughed to myself and thought...yeah thats the difference between us buddy. I am not a criminal but I know you are!

    • @chrispennington6890
      @chrispennington6890 2 года назад +12

      She's not even going to get a lot of time the maximum sentence show get for the charge is 10 years no criminal history drops that she'll be out in 5 years she won't get much time she can make it out

    • @maxalberts2003
      @maxalberts2003 2 года назад +46

      @@chrispennington6890 I expect she won't get ANY time because she's probably dead and buried.

    • @carolv8450
      @carolv8450 2 года назад +9

      @@maxalberts2003 i agree

    • @lisam2496
      @lisam2496 2 года назад +14

      I recently read a comment from another nurse who said she worked in a correctional facility. She said that she was always their "favorite nurse". All nurses were.lol

    • @sirennoir258
      @sirennoir258 2 года назад +41

      I know a nurse that works in a prison and she says they try her all the time. They can be quite charming, and every single one didn't do the crimes they were accused of. There seems to be in issue in the maximum security prison she works in were they lock up innocent men for murder and robbery.

  • @dolorestroeller4734
    @dolorestroeller4734 2 года назад +52

    These women who are infatuated with men in prison never fails to amaze me. It's either their self esteem is in the gutter or they think they are unique enough to rehabilitate a psycho. Either way it's disturbing and dangerous 🙉🙉

    • @angelacalifornia7756
      @angelacalifornia7756 2 года назад +3

      Heck, thanks for making me re think my previous life choices, I married my pen pal ( prison/ Level 4 ) & my blind date ...?.... can doctor grande tell me what's wrong with me? lol crazy, but true enough indeed.

    • @steelhurricane4041
      @steelhurricane4041 2 года назад +2

      Maybe since she's been in a position of authority for so long she wants to be in the submissive position with him in authority, maybe he dressed up like an under cover police officer and used her handcuffs. People are strange with their sexual fantasies.

    • @isabellalora6533
      @isabellalora6533 2 года назад

      @@steelhurricane4041 🤣

    • @Rnjeepshoelver
      @Rnjeepshoelver 2 года назад

      Agree!!

  • @janmarchand7294
    @janmarchand7294 2 года назад +598

    I'm trying hard to sympathize with this obviously lonely woman but she has let a very dangerous criminal escape, letting him loose on the public. Does she naively think she can change him? She'll be lucky not to be his next victim.

    • @therealz360z7
      @therealz360z7 2 года назад +17

      This happens more often then you think, she'll get a year in prison then get parole due to temporary insanity. I remember reading about case like this a year or two ago.

    • @MIKECNW
      @MIKECNW 2 года назад +28

      She's not worth any sympathy!

    • @Schiffon
      @Schiffon 2 года назад +3

      Can’t think how she won’t.

    • @maxalberts2003
      @maxalberts2003 2 года назад +12

      I'm almost certain she WAS his next victim. Talk about "ripped from the headlines."

    • @oliverguenther9243
      @oliverguenther9243 2 года назад

      He was beyond change, why didn't she try to be with someone with a job and some kind of future? I guess she thought since he's 6'9"" ,she found a white guy with a big tool!!! Instead of throwing her life away she should got a toy from the sex shop!🤨🤭😆🥳🤣🤣🤣

  • @areciajones7332
    @areciajones7332 2 года назад +577

    She doesn't seem to realize that she's disposable to him. It's terrifying and I hope she'll turn herself in before he doesn't need her anymore. He is a monster.

    • @sarahglenn298
      @sarahglenn298 2 года назад +59

      She probably believes that they have a bond and trust that he wouldn't break. I wouldn't want to be her when she wakes up and smells the coffee.

    • @andrewstoll4548
      @andrewstoll4548 2 года назад

      She is probably already dead.

    • @mysteryjunkie9808
      @mysteryjunkie9808 2 года назад +44

      She’s dead weight at this point

    • @PB-dq9gi
      @PB-dq9gi 2 года назад +13

      @@mysteryjunkie9808 I'm afraid so.

    • @lisetteeliseparis7070
      @lisetteeliseparis7070 2 года назад +13

      This situation is horrible.

  • @LadyOfMaine
    @LadyOfMaine 2 года назад +55

    The lack of oversight at this prison is astounding.
    A friend had elderly serial killer Blanche Taylor Moore, come into the hospital where she worked. Despite being a frail old lady, she was accompanied by two armed guards.

    • @paulabrown5243
      @paulabrown5243 2 года назад +2

      He was about to go back to prison, this was a correctional facility.

    • @LadyOfMaine
      @LadyOfMaine 2 года назад

      Okay, it was a correctional facility, not a prison.
      Happy now?

  • @carolbrown7234
    @carolbrown7234 2 года назад +40

    "Waddling gait," poor Vicki, this gets sadder every day. She must have been the loneliest person with very low self worth. She gave up everything, 56 years old and her life is over.

    • @fabemgtw
      @fabemgtw 2 года назад

      Yep,probably dead

    • @amuddymoose
      @amuddymoose 2 года назад +5

      What is everything though? Life isn’t worth living if you have to go through it alone without anyone to love you or for you to love.

    • @catsberry4858
      @catsberry4858 2 года назад +3

      @@amuddymoose yes, so many people who haven’t gone through it have no idea how debilitating loneliness can be…..

    • @kevinmalone3210
      @kevinmalone3210 2 года назад +2

      I wouldn't feel sorry for her, she betrayed the public's trust as an authority figure by letting loose a dangerous criminal out on the streets. She knew exactly what she was doing.

    • @catsberry4858
      @catsberry4858 2 года назад

      @@kevinmalone3210 agreed, but people are feeling compassion for her if she was conned into all of this. Manipulative lying cons are good at brainwashing folks. And Casey was that type. It's just confusing cuz she messed up so badly after having a stellar record for so long? People feel sorry for her mom who is like 80 and not long for this world.

  • @tjschoenlein5189
    @tjschoenlein5189 2 года назад +120

    Having spent 47 years in law enforcement you are spot on. I have seen this scenario played out numerous times on various scales of stupidity.

    • @Cec9e13
      @Cec9e13 2 года назад +6

      Okay, maybe you can tell me - is it seriously that easy as an officer in a jail to sign someone out? My dad worked for IL DOC for years, so I know nothing about jails, but in a prison you just can't do that, that doesn't WORK. Just on her say-so?

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад +2

      Ikr!

    • @theabrescia1955
      @theabrescia1955 2 года назад +13

      @@Cec9e13 You are right! Normally it is not easy at all to sign a prisoner out. But this is a small jail, not a prison, and they were short staffed. She violated the rules by not having a second officer with her. But the small staff respected and loved Vicky, who was a supervisor, and went along with her request. Too bad the other staff didn't question Vicky's decision.

    • @WILTALK
      @WILTALK 2 года назад +5

      @@theabrescia1955 They should have been able to tell by the video of them leaving, because she walked in front of him with her back to him as they exited the door. You do not do that with a prisoner. She obviously was not treating him like a prisoner that she was transporting.

    • @theabrescia1955
      @theabrescia1955 2 года назад +2

      @@WILTALK - Good point! The way Vicky behaved was not normal.

  • @pamelamorgan7354
    @pamelamorgan7354 2 года назад +117

    Please consider doing a video on why women get lured into relationships with convicted felons who are in prison for their crimes! Thank you!

    • @MNcoquicoqui
      @MNcoquicoqui 2 года назад +9

      YESSSS 🎯💯👏👏👏👏

    • @ceciliajohnson8812
      @ceciliajohnson8812 2 года назад +8

      Yes! I second that request!

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 2 года назад +3

      There is a book the guys pass around about manipulating women but I can’t remember the name of it.

    • @lisetteeliseparis7070
      @lisetteeliseparis7070 2 года назад +5

      I would never ever do this. I knew someone who went out of their way to make friends with people in jail, thought it very strange.

    • @pamelamorgan7354
      @pamelamorgan7354 2 года назад +6

      @@tinawindham6958 I think it’s called “The Art of Seduction” by Robert Greene. It refers to women as victims. It gives detailed instructions on how to get a woman in bed then how to discard them. I’m sure there are others. It’s really disgusting. I used the book for a workshop I was doing.

  • @shadowlouise
    @shadowlouise 2 года назад +5

    I wasn't surprised that Vicky did not survive this escapade. I think she made one last desperate grab at happiness, but had already decided there would be no going back. I think the one I am most sorry for is Vicky's mother.

  • @matthewh4747
    @matthewh4747 2 года назад +13

    Dr Gramde really said “waddling gait” without even a glimmer of a smile. I hope everyone can appreciate this man. Top notch

    • @Cec9e13
      @Cec9e13 2 года назад

      trying to picture my weight with the luxury of four more inches, and I'm having a hard time coming up with a non-hip related reason for it.

    • @mattp4007
      @mattp4007 2 месяца назад

      Waddling gait is actually medical terminology. Why would it be amusing? Grow up

  • @kayladugger7042
    @kayladugger7042 2 года назад +346

    She has been described by everyone who knows her as kind, a model employee, etc. Hell, even her ex-mother-in-law loves her. I think Casey scratches an itch, so to speak--she hasn't had romantic companionship in a long time, and there's an added thrill of the relationship being morally wrong. I don't think Casey has a genuine romantic attachment to her; he simply wanted to escape prison, and conning her was the easiest way to do that. Your analysis was very well done, Dr. Grande.

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 2 года назад +38

      Once a con …. always a con.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад +20

      Surely a cautionary tale!

    • @MrRyan-wu4jx
      @MrRyan-wu4jx 2 года назад

      Her stupidity is almost incomprehensible. I’m sure her and her waddle thought they’d live happily ever after together.

    • @animalmagic5575
      @animalmagic5575 2 года назад +22

      He didn't fall in love.

    • @debbiepowers4743
      @debbiepowers4743 2 года назад +43

      Psychopaths don’t form romantic attachments. She is in grave danger.

  • @crystalpowell8619
    @crystalpowell8619 2 года назад +58

    People do not realize that prisoners have the time to build the con.
    When I clicked on the video. I said that Dr. Grande would have joke regarding this case. And then I heard the Ford Escape comment. Well done, Dr.Grande.

    • @rocketrider1405
      @rocketrider1405 2 года назад +4

      And, don’t forget the unpopular model - rethink your life choices!

    • @jakeackermann9059
      @jakeackermann9059 2 года назад

      Who doesn't realize that?

  • @kathleenrose4820
    @kathleenrose4820 2 года назад +56

    Excellent analysis. Some of the comments describe Vicky as elderly. I don't think 56 is at all elderly. She potentially had several decades left to live a wonderful life after early retirement and threw it away for a real stinker. If she is described as having a waddling gait, I wonder if she has knee or hip problems. Regardless, this is a sad and terrifying situation. Prayers for a safe outcome for all involved.

    • @MellowLady222
      @MellowLady222 2 года назад +12

      56 is nowhere near being elderly. That must have been some young-buck reporter with little professional experience.

    • @theabrescia1955
      @theabrescia1955 2 года назад +15

      @@bodhimom1- She looked slightly chubby, but she's not very overweight. At 5' 5" , her 146 lbs is medically considered a normal healthy weight.

    • @Puglover130
      @Puglover130 2 года назад +9

      Not very over weight- 5’5 and 150 is only like 5lb over weight. And normal sized considering the rate of obesity.
      Also no 56 isn’t elderly but her ex coworker said she was a tanning bed lover and probably had a face like an old leather shoe. It’s amazing how much sun damage can ravage you. I had a coworker, lovely and cute, 42 but looked at least 50 because of her skin texture and wrinkles.
      That’s why I think that man made a good point that none of the photos resemble her- they’re airbrushed and lightened, if she looks 20 years older and a lot darker, throw on a wig or hat and no one will give her a second glance. Unfortunately for her she does have kind of distinctive teeth and asymmetrical eyes. And a 9 foot tall Bf

    • @chrissyellem7397
      @chrissyellem7397 2 года назад

      @@bodhimom1 She's dead so she'll weigh less than that pretty quick.

    • @theabrescia1955
      @theabrescia1955 2 года назад +6

      @@bodhimom1 Acording to whose standards?

  • @maddieb5787
    @maddieb5787 2 года назад +6

    Well I just saw on this news the inmate Casey has been captured but the corrections officer Vicky has died. I think they're saying she died while they were in a vehicle being pursued by law enforcement. There's an interview out where the sheriff talks about knowing her for 17 years she worked there and how much they trusted her. He also mentioned he thinks Casey put the "jail house moves" on her. And that when Casey inevitably winds up back at their facility they will be sure to make room for him to have his own cell even if that means overcrowding other cells just so that he can be alone and shackled 24 hours a day. He said that he knows that he'll probably have civil rights activists coming out saying that that's a problem but that he doesn't care he's going to make sure that Casey never gets away from this facility ever again.

  • @niccolleholder
    @niccolleholder 2 года назад +84

    So hard to fathom why she would do such a thing like this. Threw her whole life away.

    • @schawnettarobinson8584
      @schawnettarobinson8584 2 года назад +11

      Loneliness is real.

    • @patriciaaznavourian3014
      @patriciaaznavourian3014 2 года назад +4

      I was thinking the same thing, ruined her life and endangers herself and the community while doing it.

    • @niccolleholder
      @niccolleholder 2 года назад +10

      @@patriciaaznavourian3014 I hadn't even thought of that! With him being free everyone is in danger! It's like she completely forgot all her training and why she became an officer in the first place smh

    • @worldwidestuff5567
      @worldwidestuff5567 2 года назад +2

      Two words: Prison D. Question: Is D a word? Answer: Yes, yes it is.

    • @marquamfurniture
      @marquamfurniture 2 года назад +7

      "Threw her whole life away." May prove to be quite literally true.

  • @evanjames8075
    @evanjames8075 2 года назад +321

    Congrats on 1.1M Dr.Todd. Keep up the great work.

    • @majortom8990
      @majortom8990 2 года назад +17

      He’s great, right? Love his take on these stories and the dry wit, of course. Glad to have found this channel. Cheers.

    • @Valen_Wolf
      @Valen_Wolf 2 года назад +5

      Cool Dr Grande.. I didn't even notice the 1.1. That's amazing! 👍🏼
      Ford Escape.. 🤣 Lolol!!

    • @Sunset-chaser777
      @Sunset-chaser777 2 года назад +1

      I didn’t notice the 1.1M- I was too anxious to hear his analysis of what could be happening, in a situation like this!
      🤣😂🤣

  • @gypsysoul5172
    @gypsysoul5172 2 года назад +15

    I've witnessed these types of "relationships". I served time in prison years ago. There was an obvious relationship occurring between this man that was the Prison Kitchen Supervisor and another female Prisoner.
    We'd walk on the walkway and spot them talking with each other on the side of the Chow Hall. Body language told it all.
    No, she didn't break out. She was released a few months later and they were married. He, of course, retired from his job and they lived happily ever after. I'm kidding about the last part.
    She ended up coming back for something. Idk. It never works out

  • @leylamoody3177
    @leylamoody3177 2 года назад +7

    How in the world does this sort of thing still happen? Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande! ❤️

  • @justhere4697
    @justhere4697 2 года назад +122

    This is crazy, love is not what's wrong with her, trusting anything from a inmate as a correctional officer will get you killed. I was in correction's for 12 long years, too much liability, you absolutely never do what she's done.

    • @AbbyL0VE
      @AbbyL0VE 2 года назад +10

      Right, she seems way too gullible to be in corrections. Just coming from someone who is super gullible and on the spectrum, I’d guess there’s something going on like that with her. She seems very naive and that is scary!! I got involved with some shady people because of my naivety, and you can bet they can pick up on that

    • @Bella.216
      @Bella.216 2 года назад +10

      I worked at a state prison mental health hospital. I was a Forensic Rehabilitation Specialist and believe me my coworkers have been caught having sexual relationships with our clients. We have murderers and rapist in there. I was attacked and almost sexual assaulted and he beat the crap out of me. Broke my back and broke my elbow. He picked me up and threw me across the room on concrete. My keys and panic button fell out of my pocket and it took forever for help. My voice was gone for some reason I was fighting for my life. Finally I was able to scream for help. I now am terrified of being attacked. I'm only 5'1 and weigh 110 pounds. I'm in good physical shape but damn I couldn't get away. I just keep thinking about if this had been out of the hospital he would have killed me and raped me. He was in for murder and sexton assault. So my point is even though I was doing my job and I wasn't in any relationship with any of these inmates look what happened to me. This guy will kill her, he's not attracted to her. According to coworkers Vicky was order looking she had a lot of wrinkles and looked much older due to using tanning beds regularly 🙄 so he is using this lady. She will see, her life is ruined now.

    • @regenerist315
      @regenerist315 2 года назад +8

      @@Bella.216 So sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your perspective based on your experiences. May you stay safe and continue to heal.

    • @WILTALK
      @WILTALK 2 года назад +3

      @@AbbyL0VE I don't think she was that gullible. I think she knew exactly what she as doing nor did she think she would actually not get caught in time. If she had wanted to really get away they would not have stayed in that one hotel for so long. They could have gone to Mexico and disappeared. She was focused on having a good time while it lasted and then offing herself.

    • @pacorondon3680
      @pacorondon3680 2 года назад +2

      @@Bella.216 wow !!! Incredible what happened to you, I feel good you are alive... saludos.

  • @aaliahmonteiro
    @aaliahmonteiro 2 года назад +267

    He’s now also been tied to the 2008 death of another girlfriend! She was found dead with a shotgun wound to the chest. At the time it was ruled a suicide.
    This case is now re-opened since he was the last person in the house with her.
    Most likely this woman is running around with a possible serial killer. She better sleep with both eyes opened. One for the law enforcement and the other for her so called boy toy. What a crazy story. 😱😫

    • @cherylsmith4102
      @cherylsmith4102 2 года назад

      UH yea,,we watch the news also.

    • @ScreamingEagleFTW
      @ScreamingEagleFTW 2 года назад +2

      is that the girl he confessed to killing?

    • @sherry8894
      @sherry8894 2 года назад +6

      @@ScreamingEagleFTW no the one that he confessed to killing he did at random. The one that they claim died by suicide was his ex girlfriend. They now believe that Casey possibly killed her .

    • @Valen_Wolf
      @Valen_Wolf 2 года назад +3

      😮 I hadn't heard about the ex girlfriend, yikes!!

    • @greensoda9548
      @greensoda9548 2 года назад

      @@cherylsmith4102 we do?

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette 2 года назад +10

    Thank you, Dr. Grande. I've heard of these sorts of cases before, and they never end well. It's not a dream getaway if you're always looking over your shoulder, guys.

  • @carolbenson6524
    @carolbenson6524 2 года назад +10

    Just now heard she shot herself and died. Very very sad. Maybe Dr. Grande you can help all of us understand what might have been going through her mind right before she decided to shoot herself. I'm thinking she just didnt want to face the authorities, coworkers and her mom. Very sad.

    • @catsberry4858
      @catsberry4858 2 года назад +2

      People have said that but methinks their plan all along was to take their own lives if they ever got caught. Casey show himself in the head as well - he only sustained minor injuries. Grazed his head, the bullet.
      I’m curious to know how he really feels about any of this. One of the cops or the sheriff said they don’t believe he’s a true sociopath albeit obviously he’s very sick.

    • @jamesjustice8711
      @jamesjustice8711 2 года назад

      @@catsberry4858 Casey didn't shoot himself.

    • @catsberry4858
      @catsberry4858 2 года назад

      @@jamesjustice8711 that's not what was reported by the authorities. He shot himself in the head also, but it only grazed him, so he sustained minor injury. I had guessed that that's why not much mention is made of it.

    • @jamesjustice8711
      @jamesjustice8711 2 года назад

      @@catsberry4858 That is just simply not true.

  • @lildee2626
    @lildee2626 2 года назад +141

    Hopefully this woman wakes up soon and gets rid of this guy but her life is already in shambles. I was married to a Corrections Officer for 33 years and guess what he did, yep, he found himself a convict. And lo and behold I find myself free and for the last 15 years I’ve realized that was the best decision I made was to get rid of him. I do hope Ms. White is found alive because that guy has nothing to lose and she doesn’t even realize that she’s disposable to him.

    • @ScreamingEagleFTW
      @ScreamingEagleFTW 2 года назад +4

      wow. He wanted to save her. He wanted to feel needed and important. People are funny animals. Funny we are.

    • @brianfitch5469
      @brianfitch5469 2 года назад

      If she wasn't a convict would it make you feel any better? She must have been more attentive to his needs. With that attitude it's no reason he did. Probably worked his 12 hours shifts and came home you nagging about this or that. How we need this or we need that and you need to get this done or that done. Taking no interest in how his day had gone. Probably stopped wanting to have sex. For men it's the same as pissing it's a bodily function that needs to happen. It takes a lot for a man to stray especially as we get older. So it says more about you then it does him. Men can take complaining as long as there is lots of sex. You stop having sex all the time and continue the complaining you now offering no reason to put up it vagina is standard issue on every woman men arnt going to go without sex for long it's just the truth. A blow job a day keeps a side bish away. Also he left you, you didn't leave him according to your comment. He found a convict, means you were replaced. Not that you left him. Seems like you want to portray that you were in control of the marriage ending. The marriage was over when he replaced you. Men are simple it doesn't take much to make us happy. Sex, sandwich, silence.

    • @lildee2626
      @lildee2626 2 года назад +1

      @@brianfitch5469 Your a jerk!

    • @buschovski1
      @buschovski1 2 года назад +3

      she wont be wakin up now

    • @lildee2626
      @lildee2626 2 года назад +2

      @@buschovski1 That’s pretty wild. Threw her life away for someone that was never going to be free. It’s really sad that she probably thought they could be together if she helped him escape and ruined her life in the process. Prayers for her family.

  • @Well_Ill_Be_GodDangled
    @Well_Ill_Be_GodDangled 2 года назад +67

    Poor Vicki has run off with a younger man who was in the slammer for murdering a woman almost her exact age. Oh geez.

    • @jonturtle590
      @jonturtle590 2 года назад +5

      Poor Vicki has to *waddle* off

    • @lindakienle531
      @lindakienle531 2 года назад +4

      Poor Vicki? I find this appalling. Her actions no matter for why have put potentially millions of lives on hold. No knowledge as to where they are, will they kill an innocent person? 25 years of lies and deception, she is imo as evil in heart as the man she helped escape.

    • @MsAmique
      @MsAmique 2 года назад

      She’s being sarcastic. No pity for her and her murderous bf.

    • @krazyk8592
      @krazyk8592 2 года назад +2

      @@lindakienle531 C'mon, now. "Millions of lives on hold". LOLOL Dramatic much? Literally NO ONE's lives are "on hold". Stop with the hyperbole, please.

    • @GlennaVan
      @GlennaVan 2 года назад

      @@krazyk8592 While I would not have said "millions," there are many, many people with very real concerns. He is a violent and unpredictable person who has killed before and apparently, has a rage problem. People should be concerned - awareness can save lives.
      AND L.E. is concerned enough that his ex-girl friend is being protected by the Feds.

  • @greenswift4123
    @greenswift4123 2 года назад +7

    Dr Grande, you always make me chuckle but this one has me laughing loudly twice. “Needs to polish his parole board speech” and “exciting prison escape love” got me good 😁

  • @MakerInMotion
    @MakerInMotion 2 года назад +5

    Male only guards in male prisons and female only guards in female prisons. It would greatly reduce the potential for corrections officer corruption.

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva 2 года назад +247

    There was a tweet about a news article saying Vicky White has a “waddling gait” with the caption “If I ever go missing and one of y'all describes me as having "a waddling gait," so help me.” and now that’s what I think about every time this case is talked about 🤣

    • @dougankrum3328
      @dougankrum3328 2 года назад +18

      not nice to mention a ladies weight, but 5'5' and 'over' 150..and there's short video from when they dumped the Sheriffs car, and yes, she's uhm...waddling, maybe the weight of that 9mm is heavy.

    • @chloedamone3014
      @chloedamone3014 2 года назад +34

      I always think about what awful photos my family will offer up...

    • @magmasunburst9331
      @magmasunburst9331 2 года назад +3

      I think you just made that up.

    • @penelopelopez8296
      @penelopelopez8296 2 года назад

      She looks like a troll with no neck.

    • @oldhick9047
      @oldhick9047 2 года назад +3

      Big boned lady

  • @gram5963
    @gram5963 2 года назад +206

    I haven’t listened to anyone else’s analysis of this case because I was waiting for you! Another great video, Doctor. Thank you! 💜

    • @watereddowntea7513
      @watereddowntea7513 2 года назад

      #loyal

    • @Don.Challenger
      @Don.Challenger 2 года назад +3

      Hmm, (imagine this said dryly) Your one true case analyst.

    • @gram5963
      @gram5963 2 года назад +6

      @@Don.Challenger hmmm (imagine this said quizzically) WHAT?!

    • @nostro1940
      @nostro1940 2 года назад

      @@gram5963 do you like @n@L?

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад

      The comment section of these videos are literally priceless! Love the in parentheses adjjectival additives!

  • @Angela-xo5kh
    @Angela-xo5kh 2 года назад +3

    "Who gets devalued faster is the one in danger." Interesting and well said, Dr. G. You're on a roll with these latest videos.

  • @yourenough3
    @yourenough3 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for your analysis on this case . Congrats on your thriving channel. Hope you have a great weekend Dr. Grande

  • @georgeoy932
    @georgeoy932 2 года назад +96

    Protect this man at all costs ( Dr. Grande ) he continues to drop gems 💎 on a daily basis!!! Thank you sir!!!

    • @bethanyjoy9344
      @bethanyjoy9344 2 года назад +4

      A valuable voice, indeed.

    • @mariee.5912
      @mariee.5912 2 года назад +6

      😁I thought you were referring to Mr White.

    • @georgeoy932
      @georgeoy932 2 года назад +3

      @@mariee.5912 🤣🤣

    • @taunteratwill1787
      @taunteratwill1787 2 года назад +1

      Protect him? From what? 😃

    • @georgeoy932
      @georgeoy932 2 года назад +2

      @@taunteratwill1787 from injury or from disappearing…

  • @celticfreckles1635
    @celticfreckles1635 2 года назад +96

    For being someone who worked in a maximum security prison for past 8 1/2 years I can't tell you how many stories I've heard of prison staff quiting their jobs at the prison to marry a lifer and would later be seen coming to have conjigal visits with him every few months, which is what Vicky could have chosen and which would have saved her from going to prison herself along with her whole life savings and her retirement.

    • @xeno4746
      @xeno4746 2 года назад +19

      How desperate must these women be to do something like this. Both ways are unhealthy and stupid.

    • @hotsoup1001
      @hotsoup1001 2 года назад +23

      At least the women you described didn't break the law or endanger other people. Not to say it was good or healthy decision making, but it was their choice.

    • @YaakovEzraAmiChi
      @YaakovEzraAmiChi 2 года назад +4

      @@xeno4746 unfortunately there are many lonely and desperate people.
      Many find ways to cope. Find someone to marry. Pay for pleasure. Porn, focusing on career and life. Etc etc.
      Seems some will even cope by settling for a prisoner. Can't be too hard I guess but I still imagine that bed at night will still be pretty empty

    • @perpetualmotion357
      @perpetualmotion357 2 года назад +11

      Vicky couldn't have chosen such a thing. I don't think Casey would have been content with marrying Vicky behind bars and getting conjugal visits every month. I don't think love was the attraction he had for her, freedom was the attraction, and she was the only person who could give it to him. Vicky did her part and if he has access to her money she's only a hinderance at this point. It's hard enough lying low from being wanted without being plastered on all the news stations and papers 24/7. It's at the point now where even if they fled to another country they are going to be recognized.

    • @ScreamingEagleFTW
      @ScreamingEagleFTW 2 года назад

      he may not have agreed to that. if you love me, you will get me out of here. im not your fook boi.

  • @christieb.763
    @christieb.763 2 года назад

    Oh! I've been waiting for this! Thank you!

  • @nataliedelagrandiere4022
    @nataliedelagrandiere4022 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Dr Grande. I was thrilled to read your remarks.

  • @jthommusic
    @jthommusic 2 года назад +20

    "He would laugh at all of Vicky's prison guard jokes."
    To be fair, Vicky's prison guard jokes are really funny!

    • @sharonhoyt2133
      @sharonhoyt2133 2 года назад +2

      Do you actually know Vicky's prison guard jokes...or was that statement also a joke

    • @jthommusic
      @jthommusic 2 года назад +1

      @@sharonhoyt2133 Was meant to be a joke at Dr Grande's joke. Or, maybe he's heard Vicky do standup?

    • @GlennaVan
      @GlennaVan 2 года назад

      @@jthommusic Or maybe he was simply being sarcastic - that dry humor of his.

  • @witheredserenity3183
    @witheredserenity3183 2 года назад +200

    She got manipulated. This happens a lot in corrections. She’s likely dead, he got what he wanted out of her and probably had no romantic attachment to her in the first place.

    • @penelopelopez8296
      @penelopelopez8296 2 года назад +32

      He was attracted to what she could do for him. He sweet talked her and told her all the things she wanted to hear. It’s too bad that she was able to fool so many people the way that prisoner fooled her.

    • @pattil7947
      @pattil7947 2 года назад +22

      Agree, she’s dead weight at this point, no pun intended. Tragic.

    • @bunnybgood411
      @bunnybgood411 2 года назад

      I hope she's still alive. Once the adrenaline of being in "love" wanes, I hope she's able to turn herself in.

    • @tinydancer867
      @tinydancer867 2 года назад

      EXACTLY! This is the reason why I’ve always believed that only Women CO’s should work in Women’s prisons, and only Male CO’s should work in Male Prisons! That would actually solve a lot of these issues that keep happening. But no….. the feminists want to put us all in danger under the guise of “equality”!!! INSANE

    • @HayleysComet3
      @HayleysComet3 2 года назад +15

      I have a hard time pitying human weakness. I feel bad that I don’t feel bad about that. I wish I was a kinder person that way. I always feel it’s Darwin’s theory at work. And she just endangered a lot of other people with her stupidity.

  • @bendyrland7213
    @bendyrland7213 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Dr. G. When I saw the news break, I was looking forward to your thoughts on this.

  • @Pete2635
    @Pete2635 2 года назад +4

    Falling in love with a bad boy results in ‘bad’ outcomes. Thanks Dr Grande I love your clever insights and dark humour. Addictive viewing and I have learned so much about myself and others. Thanks for all your hard work.

  • @440jasmine
    @440jasmine 2 года назад +73

    I have been waiting for you to do a video on this case! I live an hour from Florence Alabama and I've been following the story this week. Vicky White reminds me of that song about the woman who brings an injured snake home with her to nurse him back to health and is surprised when he bites her, doing exactly what snakes do. I hope she lives through this mistake. Thank you Dr. Grande!!

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 2 года назад +1

      Yup. She ran off with a certified snake. 🐍

    • @lisetteeliseparis7070
      @lisetteeliseparis7070 2 года назад +2

      Funny, been thinking about that snake for two days now, can't help it.

    • @WILTALK
      @WILTALK 2 года назад

      You are referring to the Al Wilson song with the lyric's I saved you cried that woman and you bit me I don't know why. And you know your bite is poison's and now I'm going to die. Oh shut up stupid woman, said that reptile with a grin. You knew due well I was a snake before you took me in. Frankly I do not think she was a typical victim. I think there was far more involved that appearances indicated. She was smarter than him.

    • @440jasmine
      @440jasmine 2 года назад +2

      I'm so disappointed now. It's completely selfish, but I wanted her to live to tell her story. What was going on with her that she would throw away her life for an obvious problem child? What tactics did he use on her to draw her in? It would have been so interesting to hear her perspective.

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 2 года назад

      @@440jasmine
      She was overwhelmed with selfishness and shame so unfortunately she fatally self-harmed.

  • @BlessYourHeart254
    @BlessYourHeart254 2 года назад +7

    The Ford model jokes were on your game 😂😂

    • @stefandieter4044
      @stefandieter4044 2 года назад +1

      Hello Cindy how's it going with you over there?

  • @grandma4557
    @grandma4557 2 года назад

    I really appreciate your channel Dr. Grande, this channel is my go to👍🏾

  • @rosannacellini2158
    @rosannacellini2158 2 года назад +20

    Talk about crazy love. That man looks like he's out to hurt someone, just by his gate, he's scary. That woman must be out of her mind. He can snap in a minute on her or someone else, and God knows. I don't believe that killer loves anybody or anything. Thanks Dr. Grande for your insight. 👍👍

    • @GlennaVan
      @GlennaVan 2 года назад

      Not only can snap but apparently has on many occasions.

  • @Missliz441
    @Missliz441 2 года назад +110

    Thank you for the new video! I often see other channels using true crime for entertainment and I like that you are one of the few who take a respectful educational approach.

    • @veronicacornavaca9613
      @veronicacornavaca9613 2 года назад +3

      Did you not get his jokes? Hehe. Jk

    • @michaeldetroit.8125
      @michaeldetroit.8125 2 года назад

      Lize, please tell us your comments were tongue in cheek sarcasm, right?
      This guys a pure hack. She should have gotten a Ford Escape car instead?! Actually a funny comment, but his serious credibility goes out the window with that one

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад +1

      So! You are here for a "pure hack!". Don't think so! Just scroll through his hundreds of purely educational and scholarly videos! This good doctor is the real deal!

    • @GlennaVan
      @GlennaVan 2 года назад

      @@michaeldetroit.8125 One of the reasons most of us adore him is his "off the wall" sarcastic comments. Dry humor is very much appreciated here.

  • @vodnurse5702
    @vodnurse5702 2 года назад +42

    She has to know these things never succeed. 🤦‍♀️

    • @stefandieter4044
      @stefandieter4044 2 года назад

      Hello vodnurse how's it going with you over there?

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад +1

      Maybe not cool.🔥

    • @WILTALK
      @WILTALK 2 года назад

      Exactly! She knew and expected to go out the way she did.

  • @skyhawk_4526
    @skyhawk_4526 2 года назад

    This is a fascinating story and I've been patiently waiting for Dr. Grande's take on it.

  • @jackienagy5250
    @jackienagy5250 2 года назад

    You are very exact, we love listening to your knowledge.

  • @skreemqueen7520
    @skreemqueen7520 2 года назад +86

    I’m a long time subscriber from Huntsville, Alabama so this one is close to home. Absolute Love Insanity! Thanks for covering it. Excellent analysis as always!

    • @sarahjane9512
      @sarahjane9512 2 года назад +3

      Me too.

    • @ReSearcherSusie
      @ReSearcherSusie 2 года назад +6

      Amber Heard would be a good choice for Casey White.

    • @NewWorldBuddha
      @NewWorldBuddha 2 года назад +3

      @@ReSearcherSusie He would need to save a few hundred dollar$ more. 💰

    • @chg1264
      @chg1264 2 года назад

      @@sarahjane9512 me too!

    • @bri9734
      @bri9734 2 года назад +1

      Also a fellow neighbor from Havest!!!! Hello! 👋🏼 💁🏻‍♀️😀

  • @jackburnell3209
    @jackburnell3209 2 года назад +21

    If this corrections guard was stupid enough to bring the cash with her that she made from the sale of her home, she's already dead.

    • @sharonhoyt2133
      @sharonhoyt2133 2 года назад +3

      That is what I fear...something about him made her totally lose her mind.

    • @MC-342
      @MC-342 2 года назад +2

      I'm sure she did. She had already taken it out of the bank. She most probably has it with her. I think he's killed her. She's just baggage to him now.

  • @miraclenichols4332
    @miraclenichols4332 2 года назад

    Ahhhhhhh I’m so excited for your opinion on this situation- fascinating

  • @vinceangelo8184
    @vinceangelo8184 2 года назад

    Can’t wait for the next analysis and follow up video. Great job Dr. Grande! Love 💕 has no greater power nor weakness

  • @dontdiscriminatehateeveryo9263
    @dontdiscriminatehateeveryo9263 2 года назад +101

    He's 6'9" and she's got a very distinct face so they would be easy to identify. I'm really interested to see how this goes and if they both survive it or get away with it.

    • @Kimikosnoh
      @Kimikosnoh 2 года назад +44

      "Very distinct" is the most diplomatic description i have read. Lol

    • @dougankrum3328
      @dougankrum3328 2 года назад +18

      If he was just a couple inches shorter, no one would notice. There was a short clip of surveillance video of them walking through a parking lot, where they left the Sheriffs car, he's so tall you could not see his head...

    • @Hollylivengood
      @Hollylivengood 2 года назад +8

      If he shaves, he would look like anybody in Alabama. She looks pretty average too, if she is out of uniform. I think it's going to be their actions that give them away before anything else. If they come to Tennessee, every third guy is 6'9". We aren't that far. It's kind of scary.

    • @maryaswell9943
      @maryaswell9943 2 года назад +23

      I doubt she’s going to survive it. She’s no longer useful to him

    • @tylerm7300
      @tylerm7300 2 года назад +33

      @@Hollylivengood nah bruh im 6'3 and I rarely come across people taller then me besides basketball lol. Once you hit 6'5+ you stick out. At 6'9 you are taller than 99.9% of men. He will be easily recognized

  • @Suffragium.
    @Suffragium. 2 года назад +36

    You NEVER disappoint, your a great storyteller, and I enjoy you sense of humor

  • @susancurtis3331
    @susancurtis3331 2 года назад

    Excellent analysis as always! Thank you

  • @jaxbutterfly9186
    @jaxbutterfly9186 2 года назад

    Love the shirt today. Looks like I'm going to be binge watching indefinitely. I truly love your videos.

  • @evelynwaugh4053
    @evelynwaugh4053 2 года назад +26

    There's an old guide for custodial staff, Games Criminals Play (1981) by Bud Allen and Diana Bosta. Lack of training and awareness is disastrous in a custodial setting. Hard to imagine someone reaching 56 and not comprehending how ephemeral `love' generally is.

    • @888ixv4
      @888ixv4 2 года назад +10

      I read this!!! I worked at a county jail as a civilian and our boss made us read it. I brought this up when I heard of this. All about them testing her boundaries. Starts slow, let them keep a pen, extra phone call, a little at a time to see how far they can get. They have all the time in the world to analyze you. Know your shifts, know you have a dog (see dog hair on you), know what car you drive, maybe which direction you go home, overhead you talking about personal things with another CO. We never talked about personal things within ear shot of inmates and this was only a county jail.

    • @gabbiehernandez7390
      @gabbiehernandez7390 2 года назад +4

      Hmm, ephemeral… I didn’t recognize that word so I looked it up. Learned a new word today, thanks!!

    • @user-eu3qy8uf7f
      @user-eu3qy8uf7f 2 года назад +1

      Exact. On both counts. At around 56 or so a lot of people see through the world's 💩 including that favorite human pastime-LOVE.
      If anyone wants to really get over it I recommend watching those ridiculous bachelor/bachelorette shows. I watched it once and thought -what the hell was I thinking in young days?

  • @lizsays3324
    @lizsays3324 2 года назад +77

    No one knew they were missing for 5 HOURS??! Scary. I wouldn't want to live anywhere near that jail if it takes FIVE HOURS for them to notice an escaped prisoner. Also, she probably had all kinds of supplies in the 'getaway' vehicle, plus all that cash, it's going to be hard to find them, especially after he gets rid of her, sad to say.

    • @mysteryjunkie9808
      @mysteryjunkie9808 2 года назад +12

      Yeah they could’ve went to Florida in that time and buy a boat and be drinking margaritas in Cuba by now.

    • @CJ-rx5fi
      @CJ-rx5fi 2 года назад +14

      It can’t be that hard to find a 6’9” dude. That’s a huge dude.

    • @marquamfurniture
      @marquamfurniture 2 года назад +6

      Why split 95K in cash when he can take it all. If not found soon, she is a goner.

    • @Cec9e13
      @Cec9e13 2 года назад +5

      There are so many levels of wrongness with that escape it's honestly terrifying. My dad worked for DOC for years, and granted he worked in prisons not jails, but I'm still hung up on them just signing him out on her say-so. That's insane.

    • @lisasaims3007
      @lisasaims3007 2 года назад +2

      It is Alabama, I lived there, just sayin’

  • @out_running_erins9118
    @out_running_erins9118 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for your keeping up with current events! I love your analysis and HUMOR ❤️🍿😎

  • @elliebellie7816
    @elliebellie7816 2 года назад +2

    I worked as a prison librarian back in the mid-90's when I was single and approximately the same age as most of the inmates. It took everything, and I mean everything, not to get on friendly terms with the inmates. You absolutely could not ever reveal even the tiniest personal thing about your life or this would be used to manipulate you. This was back before you could look up their crimes on the internet and it just seemed like most of them were regular guys. After about one year, I started having nightmares about helping all those inmates escape and found myself rationalizing a lot of stuff about them so I had to quit. If I hadn't, I could have found myself in the same shoes as Vicky White.

  • @elizabethhamm5320
    @elizabethhamm5320 2 года назад +113

    I hope that he doesn't hurt her. I also hope that he doesn't hurt anyone else. She will be criminally and morally liable. I love the video and agree with your predictions. Fingers crossed that this ends quickly and safely

    • @stefandieter4044
      @stefandieter4044 2 года назад

      Hello Elizabeth how's it going with you over there?

    • @nicholasforrester8587
      @nicholasforrester8587 2 года назад +2

      Agreed 👍🏻

    • @andrewstoll4548
      @andrewstoll4548 2 года назад +10

      Her chances of survival are slim and none. Slim just left town.

    • @karenmilligan5597
      @karenmilligan5597 2 года назад +2

      🤞🏻

    • @pricklypear7516
      @pricklypear7516 2 года назад +12

      He is violent, he is unstable, he is desperate. It seems likely that somebody is going to get hurt. And if he hurts ANYONE, whether innocent citizen or law enforcement, it's entirely on HER.

  • @Kimbers58
    @Kimbers58 2 года назад +10

    I'm glad you're covering this Dr Grande 🥰 love your humor

  • @rbffbvs
    @rbffbvs 2 года назад +10

    This case interests me. Where can this guy hide out, or go unnoticed? The N.B.A.? I would love to hear their "plan". I hope you can update us soon. Dr. Grande.

  • @Sndyj457
    @Sndyj457 2 года назад +3

    I was a female CO for 5 yrs at a male facility and I saw this happen 4 times. Once a inmate escaped and ran straight to his woman, one of my co-workers. I knew her well, and I was so devastated. After that time it never surprised me again.

  • @Contessa6363
    @Contessa6363 2 года назад +26

    Good analysis Dr Grande. I hope for her sake she is able to keep herself safe. She has entered a very dangerous situation with a proven dangerous person.

    • @angelacalifornia7756
      @angelacalifornia7756 2 года назад

      This wont end well, corner a dangerous animal and they come out with claws....Then again Love's a strange thing ain't it, keep me posted, who knew she'd end up being a drama queen, and when the deputys eventually find her, and they will, she'll be a homecoming queen. lol

  • @nievea827
    @nievea827 2 года назад +14

    Excellent analysis. I couldn't even fathom the mindset of the women in these types of cases until watching this.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад

      Clarity of exposition is a hallmark.

  • @misanthropicmusings4596
    @misanthropicmusings4596 2 года назад

    Love getting the Dr. Grande take -- always unique.

  • @careywhite2976
    @careywhite2976 2 года назад +1

    Enjoyed your video

  • @Lilieveny
    @Lilieveny 2 года назад +15

    Thank you ! I was waiting to hear your analysis of the situation.

  • @sharont9720
    @sharont9720 2 года назад +23

    Dr Grande, I love your sense of humor. I was a psychiatric nurse and worked for a very short time in a prison. I was told this kind of thing happened often and that most of the nurses or correction officers had said it could never happen to them. Yet, it did. So sad

    • @peggypasson8794
      @peggypasson8794 2 года назад

      I worked in psych it happens why I don't know

  • @dardar267
    @dardar267 2 года назад +3

    Dr. Grande wins gold again, “…..the dealership didn’t have a Ford ‘Escape’ available…..” 😂😂😂 Always a comprehensive overview, analysis and humour!!🏆

  • @ryanpurpura80
    @ryanpurpura80 2 года назад

    BRILLIANT!
    Simply BRILLIANT Dr. Grande!

  • @sarahspencer1010
    @sarahspencer1010 2 года назад +4

    I'm glad you decided to feature this one. I've been following it in the news.

  • @francescawilliams8177
    @francescawilliams8177 2 года назад +30

    Is there really no other photo of her? That being said, human beings will never cease to disappoint me. Vicky thinks he can murder someone else except her ?

    • @mysteryjunkie9808
      @mysteryjunkie9808 2 года назад +11

      She can fix him

    • @sharonhoyt2133
      @sharonhoyt2133 2 года назад +5

      @@mysteryjunkie9808 That is what too many women think before they find themselves in a horrible situation.

    • @chrissyellem7397
      @chrissyellem7397 2 года назад +1

      Her husband died earlier this year. Don't think she's been taking any photos of them or herself for awhile.

    • @catsberry4858
      @catsberry4858 2 года назад

      I wonder if she didn’t have ANY social media whatsoever to not have ANY other pics of her. So odd. She was only 57 so she was in her 30s when the internet became a mainstay.

  • @lifeisshort..1685
    @lifeisshort..1685 2 года назад

    Thanks for covering these two.

  • @traildoggy
    @traildoggy 2 года назад +6

    Honestly, I'm more concerned with what went on at that jail that things became so lax and normalized that she could walk him out without following basic procedures like two or more guards, verifying appointments, etc.

  • @telinhajp
    @telinhajp 2 года назад +7

    I saw this on the news. Thanks for covering it, Dr. Grande! ❤️

  • @cloudlillie9391
    @cloudlillie9391 2 года назад +22

    Dr. Grande, have you ever considered running for public office?
    You would be fantastic. We need level headed people such as yourself in charge.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад +3

      I second.

    • @ajithfernando1702
      @ajithfernando1702 2 года назад +2

      I agree. He would be great in public office, but once you get there, there are certain rules you have to follow if you want to hold onto your position. The temptations are too great to give up your spot and in the end you become a loathsom person. So it's better to have the doc just where he is, because we can get to see him almost daily 😁😂🤣😋🤗🤗👍👍

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад +3

      Often twice daily!🌵🌵

    • @bennettpeterson5992
      @bennettpeterson5992 2 года назад

      No....we need him to dissect the weirdos in DC....insurrectionists, Grifters,American and Russian Oligarchs..

  • @Vaultgirl27
    @Vaultgirl27 2 года назад +1

    Just found out they got caught!! I haven't heard of anyone analyzing this case yet, so thanks for filling me in. You've got a new subscriber today!

  • @cynthia90robinson
    @cynthia90robinson 2 года назад

    Spot-on analysis Dr. Grande.

  • @mrich9654
    @mrich9654 2 года назад +96

    I fear for this woman’s life! So many women are vulnerable because they can’t recognize a psychopath. She was conned and the sad part is- she thinks she’s found love.

    • @LisatheGreatest
      @LisatheGreatest 2 года назад +11

      I only fear for others lives. She dug her grave, don’t feel sorry for her

    • @penelopelopez8296
      @penelopelopez8296 2 года назад +22

      You should fear for the lives of the general public and the dangerous criminal that Vicky unleashed on us all. Vicky gets what she deserves. If he kills her, it’s her own fault and I won’t shes a tear for her. I’m 57 and single but I’m not desperate, and lonely. You’re as happy as you make your life. Having a partner or lover is not all it’s cracked up to be and if you’re not happy with yourself….you won’t be happy with anyone else. She’s on her own.

    • @oluwadamilola6233
      @oluwadamilola6233 2 года назад +7

      She need love too i guess, she's no Kim Kardashian I'm sure she doesn't get approached by males often

    • @charliec1968
      @charliec1968 2 года назад +13

      She wasn't conned because he was the one that was behind bars. She was free with a beautiful retirement future ahead of her . All that hard work and good reputation has all been thrown away. I agree she is definitely in danger because once the novelty wears off and they start disagreeing , and reality kicks in of what she has really done, it's not good.

    • @X56th_SFS
      @X56th_SFS 2 года назад +6

      So many woman are vulnerable, because they are desperate and lonely..........

  • @riogrande5761
    @riogrande5761 2 года назад +56

    She bought a Ford Edge; I"m guessing the dealership didn't have a Ford Escape available. If she had only purchased a Ford - Rethinkyourlifechoices, maybe this story would have turned out differently! Such deadpan humor and never cracks a smile! Vicky had a "waddling gate" XD

    • @xinfuxia3809
      @xinfuxia3809 2 года назад +1

      Ford also made Expedition and Excursion, all are appropriate names.

    • @abbynormal206
      @abbynormal206 2 года назад +2

      @@xinfuxia3809 may be they left the Ford Probe at the jail!

    • @jimc6687
      @jimc6687 2 года назад +3

      I thought an old Plymouth Roadrunner would serve her even better!! :>) Jim C.

    • @perpetualmotion357
      @perpetualmotion357 2 года назад +2

      A Dodge Vibrator would have been her best bet.

    • @melanieskeldon6289
      @melanieskeldon6289 2 года назад +1

      That was laugh out loud funny.

  • @francescaharvey2400
    @francescaharvey2400 2 года назад

    Great insight!!

  • @jessicaschubach4174
    @jessicaschubach4174 2 года назад

    Your analysis is spot on in my opinion.

  • @gregkamer3754
    @gregkamer3754 2 года назад +93

    In todays world, with all the technology available, its hard for me to figure out how she could have thrown her life away and expected to ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after. But I think Dr. Grande hit the nail on the head when he said eventually she will come to realize she made a huge mistake and hopefully be able to extricate herself and surrender to authorities. But I suspect Casey White would have no trouble killing her if he decides she presents a threat to his continued "freedom".

    • @darcyjohnson6771
      @darcyjohnson6771 2 года назад +7

      My thoughts, too. Great job articulating this.

    • @worldwidestuff5567
      @worldwidestuff5567 2 года назад

      She is what's known in the psychiatric field as a "Big Dummy."

    • @sharonhoyt2133
      @sharonhoyt2133 2 года назад +14

      Vicky White's only hope is if she can be as secretive and conniving with Casey White as she was with her entire family and all of the people she worked with...if she is still alive she will have to think up a plan, hide it from Casey and sneak away from him without him picking up on her change in behavior around him. I don't know if she could pull it off but it is her only chance.

    • @Propfaqs
      @Propfaqs 2 года назад +10

      The only thing standing between him and all the money and the car is her. A waddle is certain to slow things down and someone on the run knows that. What was she thinking?!!

    • @leonardd6122
      @leonardd6122 2 года назад +3

      They might have gone their separate ways.

  • @carolbenson6524
    @carolbenson6524 2 года назад +35

    Was waiting for your review and analysis...thanks so much!! This girl has got to be in so much danger...she knows the outcomes of these types of escapes...hard for everyone to comprehend why she did this. I agree with what you think happened.

    • @suzannegarrison5944
      @suzannegarrison5944 2 года назад +4

      He made her feel important and loved even if short lived. I find contentment in romance novels and its safe. Prayers she realizes what she did and gets away in time.

    • @brencozinie2645
      @brencozinie2645 2 года назад

      @@suzannegarrison5944 Hope she realize he’s not wrapped to tight and sneak away I would

    • @lilyblossom1240
      @lilyblossom1240 2 года назад +1

      Lonely.
      Being overweight and homely.
      Easy prey for some devious soul.

  • @brencozinie2645
    @brencozinie2645 2 года назад +1

    I like how you break it down into a story time my first time here

  • @nathangrandmasterk9760
    @nathangrandmasterk9760 2 года назад +8

    Great work on this. I worked in Law Enforcement and have some experience in similar cases like this. The part I feel is missing from the assessment, is "Endgame". In other words there is no actual future for them as a couple. Like the Sheriff said, Vicki has seen how these things play out and should know she would not be free forever. It's not hard to "Get Gone", but it is hard to stay gone. No matter where she goes, she will be found. I say that, but there is one exception. It's a long shot that is easier on the "Get Gone" side. That exception is MEXICO. They could possibly get there. The question is would Mexico give them back if they were found? By the way, Vicki is the real story here because she has everything that will be lost. Casey's life was already over. If Vicki lives through this, she will go to prison, but will have TV and Movie deals offered to her for her story. WE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT THIS FOR MANY YEARS TO COME. This is just the beginning.

  • @sammyday3341
    @sammyday3341 2 года назад +14

    You outdid yourself this time, Dr. Grande!

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад

      He is his own gold standard.🏆

  • @Ruby0465
    @Ruby0465 2 года назад +10

    Yes I was waiting for this one! very scary.

  • @miraclenichols7591
    @miraclenichols7591 2 года назад

    Awesome Dr G I’m crazy interested in this story-

  • @lindakienle531
    @lindakienle531 2 года назад

    Thank you very interesting.

  • @caroletorres1487
    @caroletorres1487 2 года назад +3

    I count on you to decipher people and you haven't failed me yet. Keep up the good work.

  • @stephenwereta7822
    @stephenwereta7822 2 года назад +7

    thank you, what a tragic situation

  • @awesomeastrid
    @awesomeastrid 2 года назад

    I love your humor in this . We need it!

  • @kellygee6976
    @kellygee6976 2 года назад +7

    you cannot call into a prison inmate. all calls are only outgoing. he had to be calling her

  • @ninacantu2019
    @ninacantu2019 2 года назад +13

    oh, my goodness, I said today, I need Dr. Grande to speak the facts on this one. Thank you!! You are the best!

    • @stefandieter4044
      @stefandieter4044 2 года назад

      Hello Nina how's it going with you over there?

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 года назад +1

      SD - A bit of a pattern here? Maybe not the most original idea?

    • @angelacalifornia7756
      @angelacalifornia7756 2 года назад

      @@stefandieter4044 like I said. just sayin lol

  • @b.r2715
    @b.r2715 2 года назад +8

    I think that's another great analysis Dr Grande, I'm actually surprised they haven't been caught yet!

  • @karenwatt9573
    @karenwatt9573 2 года назад

    I love your dry humor Dr. Grande!!!

  • @renafielding945
    @renafielding945 2 года назад +8

    Some years ago I worked with a very personable young man with a strong addiction and no impulse control whatsoever. I was in my fifties at the time and he was maybe 23 or so. His parents had run themselves almost bankrupt trying to get him straightened out. One day after producing a positive drug screen, he got down on one knee and proposed marriage to me if I would not submit the screen.
    He went through several more episodes. He was once being sought by officers with long guns and bulletproof vests in a field. He is dead now from an overdose.