Men who are disrespectful to women and respectful to you are a red flag. Watch the way a person treats someone they don’t like or care for, is a true indication of their character.
@lindywheeler4192 you know a lot about how men feel. When I'm a man and I know a whole lot more about that than you do. Are you sure you have a husband because that's who you should be talking to. The black woman has destroyed the whole family structure because she's sleeping with too many different men like it or not. They voted for Kamala Harris and she's a as 🕳️ now go talk this over with your husband before you get on the internet talking to a man you don't know because I will embarrass your as.
@@quavajam depend on your age you are not settling for anything most men in America only make 40 to 50,000 a year so what are you selling for maybe he's selling for you since women are like cars and you are a used one. That man shouldn't settle for you with those kids you already have by some other man your greatest gift why would he want you selling for a family that he can have his own instead of yours another nutcase lol
She ended up not being as nice as she came across during this episode. The follow up video of them was actually sad because the guy was really all into developing a genuine relationship with her but she basically played him.
@@bonniecody160 They always have a follow-up videos most of the couples don't last. One guy talked about how after the date in the end him and the women didn't work out, and he said he came looking for a wife. Is he crazy lol
The guy talking about gardening is still running game. 🙄 Talking about how she will watch "their love grow" when he doesn't even know her is childish and a form of love bombing. Maybe not in the strictest sense of the term, because "bombing" implies doing it often. But he's trying to win her over with superficial BS that appeals to her romantic side. Classic case of saying what he thinks a woman wants to hear. And I didn't see the episode where he supposedly disrespected a woman for having kids. But showing respect to others is about your character NOT the other person. So if he has it in him to disrespect a woman then it's not because "she didn't carry herself properly" it's because HE has a poor character. And based on how he is talking to this woman with that dumb gardening comment I can TOTALLY believe that he disrespected another woman. And if he were to date this woman it would only be a matter of time before he finds something about her to "bring her down" a peg or two. Also, how did she not pop his balloon? He looks shorter than the guy on the end. Edit: So glad she saw through gardening guy's fame and popped his balloon. Lol
Yes , she is beautiful but only God knows what is inside. She said no to the last black guy because he isn’t tall .However, the third guy is also small but he is lighter skin and she kept him. 😪Doesn’t make any sense to me.
congrats. yes thank you for saying this because so many women miss out on real love because they aren't willing to see that a man being shorter shouldn't be a deal breaker
@@deborahjohnson2736 is funny how you pointed out his size and height. How much do you weigh but at least you do have a husband 😂 better than 90% of most black women
@@garyrichardson7592 his height was likely pointed out because in the video the host mentioned that women should give short guys a chance and not be so rigid on other superficial dealbreakers (which the host reaffirms in her response to this comment above yours). Clearly this woman was just giving her testimonial in response that she did just that and it worked out well for her. Her husband’s height is relevant in this context-it’s not like she’s bringing it up for no reason. You sound so bitter and alone to try and attack someone leaving a positive comment loving on her husband. 😂
@nikkiq5124 I'm 5'9 and and I guess I'm considered as being short but I'm not short with my bank account. So that means I do what the hell I want and talk to all the young women that I don't want isn't that the way it's supposed to go why would I buy a used one and I can have a new one 😄
I mean, it's only a lot of work if you agree to do that work to begin with. He should know you're not going to so he can either move on making room for the next one, or make arrangements
I would most definitely date a guy with multiple children. However, I will not date a guy with numerous children and various women. I'm not sure if that's what you meant or not; I'm just sharing my opinion.
I enjoyed her, dressed nice, hair loose and pretty and hardly any makeup so the men could see her naturally(fyi: I am not against makeup) just complimenting her.❤
He seem well raised and learned a lot from his father. He's into engineering. She can see a future with him. She knows he will respect her because of his culture. Everyone else want to get in her panties. Great choice. Because I would have chosen him too
Ladies watch out for slick talking guys. The guy in the royal blue shirt is just too much. She chose the right guy. However the guy in the purple shirt should have made it further.
I think that popping 3 balloons from the jump is too much. Why not just one? Dont like that. She looks very clean and pretty. Love to see my black sisters representing us in such ways💁🏽♀️🥰
I fell in love with a girl with a kid, the bond with the child was so strong I cared for the child like she was my own, sacrificed like she was my own cause I'm my mind and heart she was my child. The day we broke up against my wishes the mother just move without me getting an opportunity to say goodbye to the child. Till this day I'm hart broken. I cn just imagine what that little heart was thinking. Maybe she feeling I rejected her. It's not like I hv not forgiven the mother for cheating. I did forgive her Some days i pass the school she used to attend and whn I see her mates I feel the pain over again It's was to much for me,for this reason I would not prefer a woman with a child, cause whn she decided to walk away you are leaft with 2 holes in your heart.
@ in life we live and we learn. I’ve been roaming the earth for quite some time now to know the outcome of many situations I tell all my nephews and nieces to never involve themselves with people who have kids. PERIOD !! listen to auntie. And may I say tho it may hurt you dodged a bullet go be free heal in peace so when you meet a good single childless soul like you everything will fall into place and you won’t have to worry
You can tell he's very immature too, if you noticed at the very end , he was visibly shocked at who she picked like , "She picked him over me, really", he seems very highschooler. Idk he may just be blunt. But I smell bully energy from him.
I'm so glad she chose the first guy. He was respectful, soft spoken, he seemed reserved and not too much all together and they seem to match one another energy. I hope the match goes well!
They stay around for the next lady. And hearing why they were rejected and what the women are looking for can help them better present themselves for dates next time. I think it's a good thing.
That's an interesting observation! Attraction definitely plays a role in how people interact with each other. It's important to understand the dynamics at play.
She is beautiful, but wearing a slip is not classy. I'm glad she picked a good man; good judgment there! I believe that he will COVER her well and make her a real queen. She has great potential. ❤
I wanted the first one for her from the begining😂...then when he shared his experience about what she is connected to in engineering he won her already...she is a very respectful young lady shout out to both of them.🎉
This was the best one I’ve seen. She is clearly a well educated young woman who knows how to speak and carry herself. She has class! You either have it or you don’t, money can’t buy it!! ⭐️
Not the gardening comment 😂😂 @11:35 not the “love we share” .. sir you’re on a dating show. You don’t know her to love her and Vice versa. That was a weird statement lol
What a Lady!🥰 🔥🔥🔥She picked the BEST ONE THERE FOR HER🔥🔥🔥 Her “guy” sounded spiritual 🙏🏾intelligent 📖and likable… ✌🏾which I am sure she felt. Have a nice time, you, too👍🏾. P.S. That shorter guy of the last three tried way tooooooo hard for her. She felt that, too.🤣. The other guy was dizzy 😵💫🥴and unsure!!!
He seems too agressive AND awkward. I love his and the first guy's fit but I'm disappointed of his choice of questions and the way he reacted. Maybe he was too nervous but he sounded like a controlling wifebeater when he kept asking personal questions but not reacting positively or at least smile. I am not saying that he is an agressive person or a wifebeater, im just saying that he gave off such impressions by acting like that.
@@eujihan3455 Queen you are 1000%correct! You may not say that he's a wifebeater, but I will because from all of his actions it shows that he is an abuser, whether it be physical or emotional. Glad that you were able to see through the ignorance
Damn, all hands on deck🤣🤣.. I feel he is socially ackward, he is probably shy so all those cues are his coping mechanism. But of course with that personality he wouldn't be getting good relationships and that might make him a bit aggressive or a control freak that some suggested.
I married a man shorter than me. His personality and character won me over. Fast forward to now and our daughter is a great athlete at school. She actually got that from her father and the height from me.
I'm glad she was being honest and said she just wasn't physically attracted to him. We can't always assume that somebody's personality is going to overshadow their looks. You got to think about your kids as well. If I don't find somebody attractive I'm not going to want to be intimate with them and I'm damn sure not going to want my kids to look like them.
Also we need to stop expecting women to ignore that they have eyeballs when we don't make those demands of men. Men get to choose what their physically attracted to and nobody says anything but the moment a woman does it people want a low-key say she's shallow and that she's missing out on a so-called perfect gentleman.
This was a nice one. Dude in the cream sweater got real weird. Kind of seemed like he was trying to play games or get some drama stirred up with the way his body language was to her answers. She knows her worth and knew she did not need to entertain his foolishness.
To me it looked as if he wanted his balloon popped after getting an answer from her he didn't like. His body language was like..."Man, pop my balloon. Will one of y'all pop my balloon so I can get up out of here...😄" For a hot minute the way he was swaying side to side, I thought he was going to drop the balloon, and walk out bc he wanted his balloon popped☺!
She's very intelligent and well spoken but most importantly her speech was on point and I totally agree as it's something I not only believe in but often share with others 👏🏾❤️🇯🇲👏🏾
Baby mothers and the children are always going to be first priority with men. A wise woman does not choose a man who already has children. He comes with too much drama.
May be the case but it same for men in women shoes. Like a woman had different fathers of her children or from previous marriage or relationship. I agree it drama and a lot of work but what really matter is have u fallen for baby mama/daddy and their children or not. If u have u will have the commitment ready to take on as role of step parent and partner.
The way she popped that balloon because he had multiple kids 😩😭🤣 I feel you! I don’t have any kids either lol 😂 but I feel for the men though but that was savage lol 😂
I loved all the men in this one. You can tell they are all secure in themselves and very respectful men. Not the type to get mad cause you dont like them and start bashing you.
I initially didn’t like this show at all, and to some extent I still don’t because it seems a bit degrading. However, I watched a couple of the ones that you shared here and they displayed individuals who were more mature and respectful.
I think her names Arleen(the presenter), hers is the best version, the rest are like something you would find on worldstar hip hop. Very dysfunctional 🥲.
Same here. The other shows have been a bit rachet and low quality. But starting with the host; she brings that classy energy, therefore, the room receives her frequency and delivery. I will watch again.
@@TheChitChatCorner I’ve met men who have multiple children with multiple women…. Like 6 kids 3 mom or 5 kids 5 moms. I wanted to give one guy chance, two kids two moms… he didn’t want anymore. So for a lot of men who have that many, don’t want more kids. Additionally, managing that many households is going to be a challenge. A guy I dated recently had 3 kids two mothers. He didn’t want more kids. I’m not saying all men with multiple children don’t want more kids but someone who wants children (lady in the video said she wanted 3), it’s going to be difficult to find a man that had that many children already to be open to having 3 more. So I respect her popping the guy that had two already.
@@TheChitChatCorner when I was her age, men with kids was a dealbreaker. Having gone through a divorce and being older, I am open to men with children but not multiple by multiple women
The guy in the beige sweater ain't ready. He also has low self-esteem because like he said he felt like he couldn't afford one of the other contestants.
“Men” carry themselves with respect regardless of how a woman carries herself. A man that carries himself with respect would not disrespect a woman because of his respect for himself! Men hold themselves accountable at all times.
Absolutely! Self-respect is the foundation of how we interact with others. It's essential for everyone to uphold their values, no matter the circumstances.
I was like Pleeeeease don’t fall for that guy’s love bombing BS!!! Choose the first young man…..And she did! Smart young lady. I can tell her parents did a great job raising her….they gave her confidence and a healthy sense of self worth.
This lady is so wholesome n pretty ....young ladies when you commit to a man with children, think about the $ coming out of your household for child support
She gives me so much hope and inspiration. I feel like today many women feel like we have to fit a certain mold, the modern woman type of look. Please don’t take this as shade, but often now that looks like lots of tattoos, piercings, different colored hair, plastic surgery, maybe louder or more outspoken. Because I myself am not any of these things, it can be so isolating and make you want to sacrifice your standards. Seeing her being confident, simply dressed but beautiful, is such an inspiration to me and shows me to keep being smart, low key and modest.
This was fun! I've never seen this before. I enjoyed your comments and I appreciated how respectful this young woman was to each man even as she eliminated them.
Absolutely not, no man should be randomly disrespecting anyone. The same way he disrespected her is the same way he’ll disrespect you the moment you do something he doesn’t like.
Ladies if you don't have kids NEVER date a man with kids. Run for your life or they will try to make you a baby mother like they've done to their previous gfs/wives.
You don't have to settle, ladies. You don't have to date short men to be happy, there are good men out there who are tall, you can have the attraction and love. Looks and attraction matters to me, I can't do it, no matter how cool you are. Some women will settle, but not me. I can have it all and happily married with someone I love on the inside and out.
Most men are 5’9 and below. Most women will die single if they think they’ll get the 6 foot man. Thats trash advice and that’s why man are single in their 40s
I don’t believe she ever said to settle. Rather, not to miss out on a potential opportunity/love interest! Tall men make up a low percentage, compared to the average height male. Also, if that man IS tall, 9/10 he will desire a woman who is very attractive, and not the typical beauty standard, because he knows he has options, since women like you say looks matter.
@@TheChitChatCorner Actually, it is not trash advice. If looks and attraction matter, don't settle for a man you're not attracted to. That is how sexless marriages come about. And you shouldn't encourage women to date single fathers. These men are more likely to trap more women with babies, more likely to get another women to take care of his kids, more likely to still have sex with their baby mamas etc. These men need to go and fix things with their baby mamas instead of looking for the next incubator. See how the 2nd gentleman in the line up was disappointed when she said she wanted kids after marriage.
@@TheChitChatCorner The guy in purple looked great 👌 for her ... In my opinion. Reserved Descent Calm and gentle Well I like the lady she is beautiful 😍 in and out .. and deserved some decent guy But that's her choice not mine 👏👏🔥😍😍🥰
First time visiting your channel and I like it here❤. Please do more of this with well put together women and men. It’s educational as some of us who want self improvement can see good examples.
Good choice.❤ I like this style of pop the balloon with sophisticated, educated people. The other shows I've seen display us blacks as fools, lacking tact. This was refreshing. She chose who I thought was a good person for her.
She sounds like me lol. Same turn off cigarette smokers . I love gardening as well and she has my name 😂🫶🏽. I agree with everything you’re saying in your video. This is my 1st time on your channel. Kudos to you 🎉! The guy with brown and army fatigue is married now ❤
We need to treat others fairly, and try to move on when it is a petty issue money of us is perfect and we are all still learning. They all did well and understand that we are all different which is why if one is not too confident and the other is their will be some personal challenges in the way of misunderstanding body language. It is essential they feel comfortable with each other.
Men who are disrespectful to women and respectful to you are a red flag. Watch the way a person treats someone they don’t like or care for, is a true indication of their character.
Absolutely! How someone treats others really reveals their true character. It's essential to pay attention to those red flags!
Women disrespect themselves look how they dress in all the fake hair and eyelashes.😅
@@garyrichardson7592That's how you feel, all men don't feel that way!
@@garyrichardson7592tf? What’s wrong w your brain. You can’t disrespect someone because they have lashes in.
@lindywheeler4192 you know a lot about how men feel. When I'm a man and I know a whole lot more about that than you do. Are you sure you have a husband because that's who you should be talking to. The black woman has destroyed the whole family structure because she's sleeping with too many different men like it or not. They voted for Kamala Harris and she's a as 🕳️ now go talk this over with your husband before you get on the internet talking to a man you don't know because I will embarrass your as.
I will never settle. Being alone is not a hardship, being with someone that disturbs my peace is.
Absolutely! It's important to prioritize your peace and happiness over being in a relationship that doesn’t bring you joy.
Absolutely
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@@quavajam depend on your age you are not settling for anything most men in America only make 40 to 50,000 a year so what are you selling for maybe he's selling for you since women are like cars and you are a used one. That man shouldn't settle for you with those kids you already have by some other man your greatest gift why would he want you selling for a family that he can have his own instead of yours another nutcase lol
Whew this spoke to me!!!!
11:05 Did this man say 'damn' because she wants to have kids after marriage?! And he is a baby daddy? He was going to baby trap her for sure !😂
I think he was surprised she has standards and that he really got to leave the game
%100 WAS! 😆he was mosdef giving F-boy energy, and his demeanor was just off , he seems VERY immature and highschooler lol
Exactly!
What a Lady! She was respectful and complimenting to the men. A welcome candidate. And a breath of fresh air.
She ended up not being as nice as she came across during this episode. The follow up video of them was actually sad because the guy was really all into developing a genuine relationship with her but she basically played him.
Really. She acts very mature , responsible , straight forward and down to earth. This your comment on her got me wondering.@@divinedianec3170
😵💫What??
@@bonniecody160 They always have a follow-up videos most of the couples don't last. One guy talked about how after the date in the end him and the women didn't work out, and he said he came looking for a wife. Is he crazy lol
The guy talking about gardening is still running game. 🙄 Talking about how she will watch "their love grow" when he doesn't even know her is childish and a form of love bombing. Maybe not in the strictest sense of the term, because "bombing" implies doing it often. But he's trying to win her over with superficial BS that appeals to her romantic side. Classic case of saying what he thinks a woman wants to hear. And I didn't see the episode where he supposedly disrespected a woman for having kids. But showing respect to others is about your character NOT the other person. So if he has it in him to disrespect a woman then it's not because "she didn't carry herself properly" it's because HE has a poor character. And based on how he is talking to this woman with that dumb gardening comment I can TOTALLY believe that he disrespected another woman. And if he were to date this woman it would only be a matter of time before he finds something about her to "bring her down" a peg or two.
Also, how did she not pop his balloon? He looks shorter than the guy on the end.
Edit: So glad she saw through gardening guy's fame and popped his balloon. Lol
The woman in the video was fit and slim, with no visible tattoos, and wore a great minimal makeup look.
I'm glad you noticed! She really does embody that natural and graceful look.
@ She reminded of black women we saw on tv in the 1990s. They were so simple and feminine and always slim or fit.
And No BBL 👍👍👍👍👍
Yes , she is beautiful but only God knows what is inside. She said no to the last black guy because he isn’t tall .However, the third guy is also small but he is lighter skin and she kept him. 😪Doesn’t make any sense to me.
even if she had tattoos they can be small and not messy, like most on social media.
My husband is shorter than I am and he is truly an amazing gift from God. We have been married for 20 years now.❤
congrats. yes thank you for saying this because so many women miss out on real love because they aren't willing to see that a man being shorter shouldn't be a deal breaker
@@deborahjohnson2736 is funny how you pointed out his size and height. How much do you weigh but at least you do have a husband 😂 better than 90% of most black women
@@garyrichardson7592 do you have autism by any chance? Girly said she's married and you're asking her if she has a husband? What are you on?
@@garyrichardson7592 his height was likely pointed out because in the video the host mentioned that women should give short guys a chance and not be so rigid on other superficial dealbreakers (which the host reaffirms in her response to this comment above yours). Clearly this woman was just giving her testimonial in response that she did just that and it worked out well for her. Her husband’s height is relevant in this context-it’s not like she’s bringing it up for no reason. You sound so bitter and alone to try and attack someone leaving a positive comment loving on her husband. 😂
@nikkiq5124 I'm 5'9 and and I guess I'm considered as being short but I'm not short with my bank account. So that means I do what the hell I want and talk to all the young women that I don't want isn't that the way it's supposed to go why would I buy a used one and I can have a new one 😄
Never date a man with multiple children! That is a lot of work. People don't know what they are signing up for.
I mean, it's only a lot of work if you agree to do that work to begin with. He should know you're not going to so he can either move on making room for the next one, or make arrangements
It definitely requires a lot of consideration and commitment but it's not always a bad thing
I would most definitely date a guy with multiple children. However, I will not date a guy with numerous children and various women. I'm not sure if that's what you meant or not; I'm just sharing my opinion.
Because the children are teenagers and almost grown it shouldn't be bad. The deal breaker is the number of mothers.
@@dejamesola no I agree with you !!!
I enjoyed her, dressed nice, hair loose and pretty and hardly any makeup so the men could see her naturally(fyi: I am not against makeup) just complimenting her.❤
Yes she was a great contestant
She carried herself well….hopefully it will become a norm for modern women
Yup. She dressed simple but classy.no stupid nails or ghetto tattoos. Very classy.
They were mesmerized by her. I liked her a lot, very feminine and respectful.
Yes she’s a really pretty person and hope it works out for her
@@TheChitChatCorner she seems beautiful on the inside as well as the outside, which is very important.
@@justsaying5633 yes I agree with you
She seemed unpleasant with her catch up with the man she matched with.
He seem well raised and learned a lot from his father. He's into engineering. She can see a future with him. She knows he will respect her because of his culture. Everyone else want to get in her panties. Great choice. Because I would have chosen him too
Ladies watch out for slick talking guys. The guy in the royal blue shirt is just too much. She chose the right guy. However the guy in the purple shirt should have made it further.
Great analysis
She wasn't attracted to the guy in the purple shirt.
The guy in the royal blue shirt is a no-no.
You got it right, his ritz was too much, you can tell he's just a smooth talker and does this often.
He's a red flag
He was on another episode and was SUPER TOXIC!
I think that popping 3 balloons from the jump is too much. Why not just one? Dont like that. She looks very clean and pretty. Love to see my black sisters representing us in such ways💁🏽♀️🥰
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate your support and love for representation. It means a lot to see our community uplifted!
@@TheChitChatCorner so sweet of you 🩷🥹 and yes love my black sisters all over the world🥰
TOTALLY agree!
Speaking from being on the show ..they can't allow you to have more than because each person gets 15 minutes urng elimination.
Agree. There were not so many guys at first so 3 is way too much for this group
Do not waste your time with ppl with kids if you have 0 kids Keep it moving
100%
I fell in love with a girl with a kid, the bond with the child was so strong I cared for the child like she was my own, sacrificed like she was my own cause I'm my mind and heart she was my child. The day we broke up against my wishes the mother just move without me getting an opportunity to say goodbye to the child. Till this day I'm hart broken. I cn just imagine what that little heart was thinking. Maybe she feeling I rejected her. It's not like I hv not forgiven the mother for cheating. I did forgive her Some days i pass the school she used to attend and whn I see her mates I feel the pain over again It's was to much for me,for this reason I would not prefer a woman with a child, cause whn she decided to walk away you are leaft with 2 holes in your heart.
@ in life we live and we learn. I’ve been roaming the earth for quite some time now to know the outcome of many situations I tell all my nephews and nieces to never involve themselves with people who have kids. PERIOD !! listen to auntie. And may I say tho it may hurt you dodged a bullet go be free heal in peace so when you meet a good single childless soul like you everything will fall into place and you won’t have to worry
This show is foolishness all about good looks, money, and lust its sad.
@@divinedianec3170 I feel like everything on social media is exactly that
Guy number 2 was giving weird!😅
It’s interesting how different personalities shine through in videos! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Very much so because why did he act that way after she said "Maryland"......
You can tell he's very immature too, if you noticed at the very end , he was visibly shocked at who she picked like , "She picked him over me, really", he seems very highschooler. Idk he may just be blunt. But I smell bully energy from him.
@@OfficielAmberI was wondering if he was just shy
Shy? It's giving serial k.ller@@sharlaihendrickson
This young lady is an absolute doll!!! So pretty!
I can barely see her face
Thank you so much for your kind words! She really is a gem!
Pretty and classy
I'm so glad she chose the first guy. He was respectful, soft spoken, he seemed reserved and not too much all together and they seem to match one another energy. I hope the match goes well!
Why not have the men leave the room once their balloon is popped.
Some versions actually do that ‼️
Right‼️
They stay around for the next lady. And hearing why they were rejected and what the women are looking for can help them better present themselves for dates next time. I think it's a good thing.
Sometimes they get their balloons back. It happens sometimes.
Good idea
She's tall, slim, pretty, fit, softly-spoken, doesn't act crude or entitled. What's not to like?
I totally agree! She embodies so many qualities that are truly admirable.
Men treat women according to their attraction to them
That's an interesting observation! Attraction definitely plays a role in how people interact with each other. It's important to understand the dynamics at play.
THAT
True
THANK GOD, I was praying she made that selection and NOT the "BAD boy" choice......😂😂😅
Right!! ❤ he was spitting game left and right lol smart and beautiful!! ❤
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Who was a bad boy choice?
@@uwanaibanga9488 The gentleman in blue.
She’s the classiest and lady like I’ve seen. She’s amazing.
Most tall women are slim and classy. Models.
She is beautiful, but wearing a slip is not classy. I'm glad she picked a good man; good judgment there! I believe that he will COVER her well and make her a real queen. She has great potential. ❤
@@jenn6638it’s called a SLIP DRESS for a reason. She has the body type for it. She doesn’t look crass or skanky.
@@Amariz-ATL Modesty, that's all. He will cover her. He looks like a man of God. Romans 12:1-3
I wanted the first one for her from the begining😂...then when he shared his experience about what she is connected to in engineering he won her already...she is a very respectful young lady shout out to both of them.🎉
This was the best one I’ve seen. She is clearly a well educated young woman who knows how to speak and carry herself. She has class! You either have it or you don’t, money can’t buy it!! ⭐️
Don't carry urself like you demand respect; carry urself like you know people will respect you.
Absolutely! Confidence is key, and when you carry yourself with self-assurance, respect naturally follows.
It don’t make sense. We see people who are triggered by other peoples confidence
@faithyande6702 and those are the ones we treat as if they don't exist.... simple.
I haven’t watch that many episodes, but what I must acknowledge is that this woman is probably the only “true lady” I’ve seen on this show!
She was one of my favorites too. The second guy in the lineup seems so unserious to me.
It's always great to hear that we share favorites! The second guy definitely has a unique vibe that can be a bit hard to read!
I was going to say weird but unserious will work too lolll
2nd guy was definitely shifty. He would have tried to baby trap her. He seemed disappointed when she said she wanted kids after marriage.
@ yeah like he was disappointed she had some sense to her.
He definitely made me cringe. The third guy did as well
Not the gardening comment 😂😂 @11:35 not the “love we share” .. sir you’re on a dating show. You don’t know her to love her and Vice versa. That was a weird statement lol
You make a great point! Sometimes the words people use on dating shows can be quite puzzling. It's all part of the entertainment, I guess!
This is a textbook definition of Love-bombing. Classic technique used by narcissists sadly. But good on her for not falling for it.
Slim Lori Harvey vibes. Definitely a type. It's a fresh vibe.
I totally see what you mean! Lori Harvey definitely has that unique style and confidence that’s hard to ignore.
I kept wondering who she looks like. Spot on! Lori
Multiple baby mamas is a no!
Yeah , I think just as men say it I would say that. If a man has one I can be understanding
Understood!
What a Lady!🥰
🔥🔥🔥She picked the BEST ONE THERE FOR HER🔥🔥🔥
Her “guy” sounded spiritual 🙏🏾intelligent 📖and likable…
✌🏾which I am sure she felt.
Have a nice time, you, too👍🏾.
P.S. That shorter guy of the last three tried way tooooooo hard for her. She felt that, too.🤣. The other guy was dizzy 😵💫🥴and unsure!!!
Absolutely! It’s great to see when someone makes a choice that truly resonates with them. Cheers to finding the right match!
Natural beauty. Minimum makeup, looking Natural.
Absolutely! Embracing natural beauty is all about highlighting what makes you unique and feeling comfortable in your own skin.
James do not change for nobody sir!
Right bring him on blind date
Absolutely. He’s gonna find his queen!
This show is foolishness all about good looks, money, and lust its sad.
That guy was so corny, I was so glad she didn’t fall for it
Two of them scared me just a little. lol
It’s always fun to get a little spooked! Glad you enjoyed the video!
Number 1!! Yay!!!! He's the Dog trainer. Sooooo damn sweet in his videos.
Omg I thought he looked familiar lol
THE SECOND PERSON IS A GOOFBALL, HE SEEMS TOO AGRESSIVE FOR HER
He seems too agressive AND awkward. I love his and the first guy's fit but I'm disappointed of his choice of questions and the way he reacted. Maybe he was too nervous but he sounded like a controlling wifebeater when he kept asking personal questions but not reacting positively or at least smile. I am not saying that he is an agressive person or a wifebeater, im just saying that he gave off such impressions by acting like that.
@@eujihan3455 Queen you are 1000%correct! You may not say that he's a wifebeater, but I will because from all of his actions it shows that he is an abuser, whether it be physical or emotional. Glad that you were able to see through the ignorance
Passive aggressive. Something seemed off.
Yes. He’s touched.
Damn, all hands on deck🤣🤣..
I feel he is socially ackward, he is probably shy so all those cues are his coping mechanism.
But of course with that personality he wouldn't be getting good relationships and that might make him a bit aggressive or a control freak that some suggested.
I married a man shorter than me. His personality and character won me over. Fast forward to now and our daughter is a great athlete at school. She actually got that from her father and the height from me.
see the perfect match ! I keep trying to tell these women that so thank you for sharing
I’ve always turned away men under 6 feet. Starting to think I should reconsider.
yeah girly you should
I prefer to see how a person treats someone they have zero interest in. That's your true character
Absolutely! How we treat others when there's nothing to gain really reveals our true selves. It's a great measure of character!
I feel like she discounted the 4th contestant (in the purple shirt) based off his looks, when he could be the perfect gentleman.
That’s a fair assessment
I'm glad she was being honest and said she just wasn't physically attracted to him. We can't always assume that somebody's personality is going to overshadow their looks. You got to think about your kids as well. If I don't find somebody attractive I'm not going to want to be intimate with them and I'm damn sure not going to want my kids to look like them.
Also we need to stop expecting women to ignore that they have eyeballs when we don't make those demands of men. Men get to choose what their physically attracted to and nobody says anything but the moment a woman does it people want a low-key say she's shallow and that she's missing out on a so-called perfect gentleman.
@@royaltyinsidemydna True...At least she was honest from the get-go.
@@royaltyinsidemydna100% with you. We have eyes and we gotta look at the man too.
This was a nice one. Dude in the cream sweater got real weird. Kind of seemed like he was trying to play games or get some drama stirred up with the way his body language was to her answers. She knows her worth and knew she did not need to entertain his foolishness.
I appreciate your insights! It’s definitely interesting to see how body language can reveal so much about a conversation. She handled it like a pro!
To me it looked as if he wanted his balloon popped after getting an answer from her he didn't like. His body language was like..."Man, pop my balloon. Will one of y'all pop my balloon so I can get up out of here...😄" For a hot minute the way he was swaying side to side, I thought he was going to drop the balloon, and walk out bc he wanted his balloon popped☺!
She's very intelligent and well spoken but most importantly her speech was on point and I totally agree as it's something I not only believe in but often share with others 👏🏾❤️🇯🇲👏🏾
I'm glad to hear you resonated with her message! It's fantastic when someone can articulate our beliefs so well.
@TheChitChatCorner good morning and thank you... have a superb day 🙏🏾
Baby mothers and the children are always going to be first priority with men. A wise woman does not choose a man who already has children.
He comes with too much drama.
Thanks for that view
I agree.
May be the case but it same for men in women shoes. Like a woman had different fathers of her children or from previous marriage or relationship. I agree it drama and a lot of work but what really matter is have u fallen for baby mama/daddy and their children or not. If u have u will have the commitment ready to take on as role of step parent and partner.
Not mine because he talks to his children not me you would think I don’t exist.
I don’t get involved in their relationship. Their relationship is separate from ours.
The way she popped that balloon because he had multiple kids 😩😭🤣 I feel you! I don’t have any kids either lol 😂 but I feel for the men though but that was savage lol 😂
It was definitely a bold move! The drama of that moment was on another level. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Super happy she choose who she choose!
It's always great to see someone make a choice that makes them happy! Cheers to that!
I loved all the men in this one. You can tell they are all secure in themselves and very respectful men. Not the type to get mad cause you dont like them and start bashing you.
I’m glad you noticed! It’s so important to showcase men who embody respect and confidence. They really set a great example!
Agree with analysis of this episode. How you carry yourself is so important. Guys pick up on this immediately and give your same energy back.
Absolutely! The way we present ourselves really sets the tone for how others respond to us. It's all about that energy exchange! thank you
I initially didn’t like this show at all, and to some extent I still don’t because it seems a bit degrading. However, I watched a couple of the ones that you shared here and they displayed individuals who were more mature and respectful.
Yes , sometimes it can be a lot but every once in a while you find a gem
I think her names Arleen(the presenter), hers is the best version, the rest are like something you would find on worldstar hip hop. Very dysfunctional 🥲.
@@neoloanderson6676Arlette, I think
Same here. The other shows have been a bit rachet and low quality. But starting with the host; she brings that classy energy, therefore, the room receives her frequency and delivery. I will watch again.
Does anyone else notice how all the men sway at the same time 😂
It's such a synchronized moment, isn't it? It really adds to the vibe of the video!
Short men usually have a complex, so I can understand why women don’t want to deal with them
Thats harsh, but i get your point
She popped the last guy's balloon because of his height, from my view, he appeared to be the same height as the 3rd guy, if not an inch taller.
Worst date I went on ... short king with a chip on his shoulder.
Multiple children is one thing but multiple children by multiple women for someone with none is another thing.
That's an interesting perspective! It definitely raises questions about responsibility and relationships in parenting.
@@TheChitChatCorner I’ve met men who have multiple children with multiple women…. Like 6 kids 3 mom or 5 kids 5 moms. I wanted to give one guy chance, two kids two moms… he didn’t want anymore. So for a lot of men who have that many, don’t want more kids. Additionally, managing that many households is going to be a challenge. A guy I dated recently had 3 kids two mothers. He didn’t want more kids. I’m not saying all men with multiple children don’t want more kids but someone who wants children (lady in the video said she wanted 3), it’s going to be difficult to find a man that had that many children already to be open to having 3 more. So I respect her popping the guy that had two already.
@@TheChitChatCorner when I was her age, men with kids was a dealbreaker. Having gone through a divorce and being older, I am open to men with children but not multiple by multiple women
No that’s too many because it shows he doesn’t commit
@ exactly! So for me it’s like when you had 2 baby moms, it’s one too many, personally
Some peoples commentary is a bit annoying but you speak calmly and it really doesnt ruin the video. Again another good one to watch.
thank you so much !!!
The guy in the beige sweater ain't ready. He also has low self-esteem because like he said he felt like he couldn't afford one of the other contestants.
It's interesting to see how confidence can really impact performance. Hopefully, he finds the strength to shine in his own way!
Love your commentary. This show is interesting on its own but you add another layer that makes it more engaging. Good job. 👏🏼
that means a lot to me
“Men” carry themselves with respect regardless of how a woman carries herself. A man that carries himself with respect would not disrespect a woman because of his respect for himself! Men hold themselves accountable at all times.
Absolutely! Self-respect is the foundation of how we interact with others. It's essential for everyone to uphold their values, no matter the circumstances.
Now Thiss is Howw You Speak to ppll 👏🏼👏🏼😌
And Get Respect 💯
Absolutely! Communication is key to building respect and understanding between people.
She picked the right one. He was fortunate. She's such a classy young woman. I know her parents must be proud.
Thank you for your kind words! It's always heartwarming to see such positivity about her choices and character.
This was nice. And yes, I like your commentary and your content.
I appreciate your comment so much
Sis definitely ❤️ your content and commentary because it's always so balanced, considerate of all sides and spot on
I really appreciate that
Dudes were mad af at the end!!! lol 😮
Arlette stays snatched, she's always on point.
she really is
I’ve never watched your videos before, but I love this
She is way better than our "He is too African girl" coming from a kenyan Ghanaian a fellow African 😂😂😂
lol wait what video is that ?
That young lady was crazy.
I was like Pleeeeease don’t fall for that guy’s love bombing BS!!! Choose the first young man…..And she did! Smart young lady. I can tell her parents did a great job raising her….they gave her confidence and a healthy sense of self worth.
It's so true! Confidence and self-worth are crucial, and it’s great to see young people making smart choices in relationships.
@@TheChitChatCorner I know!!
This lady is so wholesome n pretty ....young ladies when you commit to a man with children, think about the $ coming out of your household for child support
That's a great point! It's important to consider all aspects of a relationship, especially when kids are involved.
She gives me so much hope and inspiration. I feel like today many women feel like we have to fit a certain mold, the modern woman type of look. Please don’t take this as shade, but often now that looks like lots of tattoos, piercings, different colored hair, plastic surgery, maybe louder or more outspoken. Because I myself am not any of these things, it can be so isolating and make you want to sacrifice your standards. Seeing her being confident, simply dressed but beautiful, is such an inspiration to me and shows me to keep being smart, low key and modest.
I’m drawn to the guy in purple for her. He definitely should have gotten a chance to go further
It's interesting how different characters resonate with us! The guy in purple definitely had a unique vibe that stood out.
This was fun! I've never seen this before. I enjoyed your comments and I appreciated how respectful this young woman was to each man even as she eliminated them.
Glad you enjoyed it! Yes she was a gem to see
I enjoy listening to you talk through the videos❤🇿🇦
Thank you so much
Absolutely not, no man should be randomly disrespecting anyone. The same way he disrespected her is the same way he’ll disrespect you the moment you do something he doesn’t like.
Ladies if you don't have kids NEVER date a man with kids. Run for your life or they will try to make you a baby mother like they've done to their previous gfs/wives.
not always true.
Yep, her style, personality and looks brought out the Chit Chatter from the brother.
This episode was enjoyable and entertaining.
I'm glad you enjoyed the episode! Her charisma really does have a way of sparking great conversations.
#2 was definitely weird
I totally agree! #2 really took things to a whole new level of weirdness.
She is top tier for sure. Going to make someone very fortunate
Absolutely! Her charisma really lights up the room, and anyone would be lucky to have her in their life.
She was well raised and a lady of class fo-sho.
Absolutely! It's clear she has a strong foundation and carries herself with grace.
The guy in black with a cap 🧢 is fire
Absolutely! He definitely brought a unique vibe to the room and added to the charm!
The last girl chose the cute shortie and they were a great match. Hope they made a real connection, post show.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I really hope they found something special together too!
She picked a good choice that man seem more gentle and respectable towards her n he seems to have patience too
I don’t want a man with multiple children or young children.
That's completely understandable! Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to relationships, and it's important to find what works for you.
You don't have to settle, ladies. You don't have to date short men to be happy, there are good men out there who are tall, you can have the attraction and love. Looks and attraction matters to me, I can't do it, no matter how cool you are. Some women will settle, but not me. I can have it all and happily married with someone I love on the inside and out.
Most men are 5’9 and below. Most women will die single if they think they’ll get the 6 foot man. Thats trash advice and that’s why man are single in their 40s
I don’t believe she ever said to settle. Rather, not to miss out on a potential opportunity/love interest! Tall men make up a low percentage, compared to the average height male. Also, if that man IS tall, 9/10 he will desire a woman who is very attractive, and not the typical beauty standard, because he knows he has options, since women like you say looks matter.
@ exactly glad you understand
@@TheChitChatCorner Actually, it is not trash advice. If looks and attraction matter, don't settle for a man you're not attracted to. That is how sexless marriages come about.
And you shouldn't encourage women to date single fathers. These men are more likely to trap more women with babies, more likely to get another women to take care of his kids, more likely to still have sex with their baby mamas etc. These men need to go and fix things with their baby mamas instead of looking for the next incubator. See how the 2nd gentleman in the line up was disappointed when she said she wanted kids after marriage.
@@alexf9447exactly ❤
I enjoyed your commentary and this episode.
I appreciate that
She chose very well. 👏🏽
I think they were an great match! Great commentary as well!
Glad you enjoyed! Thank you so much
She is a breath of fresh air ❤❤❤
Absolutely! Her energy is truly contagious and lights up the whole room.
Wrong guys for her 😢😢😢
It seems like you’re not a fan of her choices! What do you think she should look for instead?
Yes she’s tall in shape. She could get a top tier men easily. Shes not in the right places.
@@TheChitChatCorner
The guy in purple looked great 👌 for her ... In my opinion.
Reserved
Descent
Calm and gentle
Well I like the lady she is beautiful 😍 in and out .. and deserved some decent guy
But that's her choice not mine 👏👏🔥😍😍🥰
I appreciate your thoughts! It's great to see you recognize the beauty and qualities in both of them. Everyone deserves someone special!
First time visiting your channel and I like it here❤. Please do more of this with well put together women and men. It’s educational as some of us who want self improvement can see good examples.
Good choice.❤ I like this style of pop the balloon with sophisticated, educated people. The other shows I've seen display us blacks as fools, lacking tact.
This was refreshing. She chose who I thought was a good person for her.
yes i agree with you
Whaaaaaat I for sure thought she was going to choose blue shirts they were vibinggggg
i hope she didn't lol
She sounds like me lol. Same turn off cigarette smokers . I love gardening as well and she has my name 😂🫶🏽. I agree with everything you’re saying in your video. This is my 1st time on your channel. Kudos to you 🎉!
The guy with brown and army fatigue is married now ❤
For your answer yes the one with the scarf on his head he’s a little off putting 😅
I'm glad you enjoyed the video! It's always nice to connect with someone who shares similar interests. Welcome to the channel!
Outstanding! Thank you for this episode.
Glad you enjoyed it!
We need to treat others fairly, and try to move on when it is a petty issue money of us is perfect and we are all still learning. They all did well and understand that we are all different which is why if one is not too confident and the other is their will be some personal challenges in the way of misunderstanding body language. It is essential they feel comfortable with each other.
Bridgestone and Avitar……. I’m sold!
That's awesome to hear! Bridgestone and Avitar really do make a great combination. What aspect of them sold you the most?
I believe she said Bridgerton
THE GUY IN THE LONG DRESS THINKS HE IS SLICK BY INCREASING HIS CHANCES BY LOW KEY MENTIONING HIS DAD WAS IN HIS LIFE SLICKSTER 😂
It seems like you have some strong feelings about the situation! It's interesting how personal stories can influence perceptions, isn't it?
This would be one of the best I have watched.
I'm glad you enjoyed it! There’s always something new to learn from each video.
Yes she is top tier! She made the right choice.
Damn they had kids young. I’m 38 and two under 6. Then again I started at 31.
It's interesting to see how different everyone's journey is when it comes to starting a family. Thanks for sharing your experience!
@@TheChitChatCorner yeah I’m a “geriatric mom” lol
Yes keep finding great videos like this you doing great & talking about great topics
This proves that all men don’t want women with BBLs 🤷🏾♀️
It's definitely interesting to see the diverse preferences out there! Everyone has their own taste, and that's what makes us unique.
😂😂 it ain't his height. Its because he is labeled a simple 😂😂
It's interesting how labels can shape perceptions! Sometimes it's not about the height but how we view someone's character.
It's the most beautiful match I have ever seen in this show 😍
I totally agree! The intensity and skill on display were just breathtaking. It’s moments like these that make the show so special!
Mr Blue shirt sounds like he sees what he wants and it's her. Let's see this
Okay...
Mr. Blue Shirt should just wear a neon sign that says “I want her!” at this point! 😂
I am afraid of him 10:43 Something is off! He doesn't seem okay in the head.
It's definitely concerning when someone gives off those vibes. It's important to trust your instincts and stay safe!
New to your channel. I like your commentary over the videos and the way you encourage women to be open to challenge their bias.