Ep 27: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

Комментарии • 23 тыс.

  • @InfocoAdmin
    @InfocoAdmin 2 месяца назад +21407

    'I popped because he is content creator...I'm very private...social media is not my thing'
    A private person will come on a RUclips dating show?

    • @2Black4yall
      @2Black4yall 2 месяца назад +1463

      These women these days 😂😂

    • @grownupcaillou2685
      @grownupcaillou2685 2 месяца назад +1397

      That’s actually funny. You’re a private person but coming on a RUclips dating show, then denying somebody for being a content creator.

    • @Donoloui
      @Donoloui 2 месяца назад +335

      lmfaooo i said the exact same thing

    • @rsarahi14
      @rsarahi14 2 месяца назад +412

      This was like a WTF moment lmao

    • @theprettyone9474
      @theprettyone9474 2 месяца назад +114

      Chiiiillleeeeeeee😂😂😂

  • @Lovemyfav
    @Lovemyfav 2 месяца назад +10161

    The brother who gave out flowers to everyone was sweet. He’s a girldad with custody of his child. It’s in his nature to show love. The fact that the ladies found an issue with him giving out flowers is wild.

    • @thebigsankofa
      @thebigsankofa 2 месяца назад +2302

      She's the type to be jealous of his relationship with his daughter. She did him a favour

    • @celinebanks5876
      @celinebanks5876 2 месяца назад +514

      Imo the window to pass out the flowers was over , he should’ve been focused on matching with his last option . Chile I would’ve popped too

    • @MsJunana
      @MsJunana 2 месяца назад +834

      That was so childish of her. She seems like a very jealous type, i was even ashame of her reaction.

    • @saginevital-herne3750
      @saginevital-herne3750 2 месяца назад +734

      And that’s what killed the vibe of it too! Because he was initially planning to give everyone a flower…until she ruined the flow with her stank attitude!

    • @MuslimahBuilder
      @MuslimahBuilder 2 месяца назад +1161

      @@celinebanks5876no sis, the window was actually at the end since he couldn’t hold the flowers during the process. Want for your sister the same love you desire. He just wanted every woman to know they were worthy of appreciation but got the bouquet 💐 for his potential match

  • @Juliaa__T
    @Juliaa__T 2 месяца назад +1786

    The nurse guy is so polite. I like how he asks the girl's names and addresses them. That shows a lot of confidence and communication skills. I hope he does well in life

    • @sigmasiren7
      @sigmasiren7 2 месяца назад +33

      I thought the same thing. He has a great attitude.

    • @_educatedgenius
      @_educatedgenius 2 месяца назад +38

      Yeah, he was definitely a gentleman. Those women pop for the strangest things..

    • @marhki
      @marhki 2 месяца назад +18

      Yep!! I’m convinced this go-round of women want to remain single 😂

    • @RechadTheArtist365
      @RechadTheArtist365 2 месяца назад +3

      Happy Saturday....😂

    • @lamrof
      @lamrof Месяц назад +3

      "Polite" that was his problem. He didn't have an edge about him. He can't score with black women like that, he will be a king with them immigrant women from Asia though.

  • @NinaL
    @NinaL Месяц назад +460

    The nursing professor is absolutely handsome, and seems very down to earth. I hope hes blessed with an equally wonderful woman.

    • @CassiusKonway
      @CassiusKonway Месяц назад +2

      Your terrifying the children

    • @VEAWAY
      @VEAWAY 29 дней назад +1

      @@CassiusKonway😂😂😂😂

    • @jeromepeterson7150
      @jeromepeterson7150 2 дня назад +1

      Yeah... these women just proved that they are TOTALLY SILLY!

  • @dawnmiller6899
    @dawnmiller6899 2 месяца назад +8181

    PLEASE BRING ALL THESE MEN BACK. They deserve better.

  • @nononodine3296
    @nononodine3296 2 месяца назад +9790

    Can we bring the nurse back. He definitely deserves a match seems like a great guy.

    • @stanleypierre5042
      @stanleypierre5042 2 месяца назад +420

      Yeah kinda felt like he got popped for petty reasons (besides the ones who popped because they had kids)

    • @jesuisleconqueror
      @jesuisleconqueror 2 месяца назад +260

      Yes I definitely feels he needs to be back on a blind date or something cause he’s a catch

    • @ReihannahHerring
      @ReihannahHerring 2 месяца назад +88

      He for sure matched with the other nurse lady, they had basically the same fit on lol when he came out I'm thinking he gon match with her but his preference got in the way

    • @aleksandrac9335
      @aleksandrac9335 2 месяца назад +7

      Nah

    • @stacya1094
      @stacya1094 2 месяца назад +54

      He should go on Arlettes other show, blind date love

  • @PURPO5EMEDIA
    @PURPO5EMEDIA 2 месяца назад +11742

    32, Fit, Doctorate Degree, No kids, College Professor, 6 Ft, created/sells a hair brush- what more do y’all want from the man 😂

    • @MalcolmWimbley
      @MalcolmWimbley 2 месяца назад +1004

      Men can’t win anymore

    • @marcusconner5288
      @marcusconner5288 2 месяца назад +652

      Bc they all want a ball player…..the wives are overseas

    • @anthonyt425
      @anthonyt425 2 месяца назад +504

      Dating is a bad joke. Feels like you can do everything right and still not be successful with dating. It’s bizarre.

    • @SDz98
      @SDz98 2 месяца назад +223

      😂it’s ridiculous, idk what more they want at this point

    • @eddedream8586
      @eddedream8586 2 месяца назад

      He was a cornball and I don't know why but it looked like he had bronzer on his face. He needed to explain why he was wearing makeup 🤔🧐🕵🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @MichaelWebster-n1e
    @MichaelWebster-n1e Месяц назад +324

    The girl in the sky blue dress cracks me up everything 😂 popping your ballon because the dude said he likes getting money for fun is wild😂

    • @ralphpinkins5619
      @ralphpinkins5619 27 дней назад

      Nah, it makes sense. What do you like to do for fun? "Get money" ..... Its some hood sh*t, ignant response. She read him right.

    • @RadiantKeto
      @RadiantKeto 27 дней назад +43

      Right! All her responses sucked. I wanted her to be quiet 🙄

    • @victoriya33
      @victoriya33 21 день назад +20

      I didn't see her smile once

    • @OkwuruPatrick
      @OkwuruPatrick 17 дней назад +4

      @victoriya33 she's a saddest...😢

    • @tamarabascom8509
      @tamarabascom8509 13 дней назад

      She's so dumb lmao

  • @christophercatchings162
    @christophercatchings162 2 месяца назад +1031

    This show truly displays that people aren't taught what qualities to value in a partner. They disqualify people for the most shallow reasons.

    • @feliciap.2336
      @feliciap.2336 Месяц назад +20

      Exactly looking how most of them be looking.

    • @giftamaka66
      @giftamaka66 Месяц назад

      Seriously, I want actually mad at most of them.

    • @apeiceofmoldedclay
      @apeiceofmoldedclay Месяц назад +11

      Sometimes, a reason might seem shallow but is not actually shallow. Man #2 for example...was disliked by most of them because of his clothes. But there is a personality behind who would actually put clothes on like that. He might be immature, obnoxious, and difficult to respect based on the clothes he decided to wear. He also wasn't very articulate.

    • @apeiceofmoldedclay
      @apeiceofmoldedclay Месяц назад +3

      Just like if a woman decided to wear ripped fishnet stockings and a mini skirt. It doesn't give off vibes of a responsible mother.

    • @trayvonmuir8602
      @trayvonmuir8602 Месяц назад +4

      These are men that deserve better than this show anyways bro

  • @jokurino
    @jokurino 2 месяца назад +14523

    The girl with the light blue dress is kinda annoying.

    • @jesuisleconqueror
      @jesuisleconqueror 2 месяца назад +1279

      They can never bring her back please

    • @user-vj1rx8kn5f
      @user-vj1rx8kn5f 2 месяца назад +506

      ​@@jesuisleconqueror save your breath. Arlette doesn't listen to us. Lol

    • @1Sakks0
      @1Sakks0 2 месяца назад

      She's a simpleton & She's dressed like 14-year-old going to their first dance.

    • @rileysfreeman
      @rileysfreeman 2 месяца назад

      Not kinda. Super. She has silly reasons to pop. It’s very clear she’s headed towards cat lady life

    • @sheebah17
      @sheebah17 2 месяца назад +749

      She be talking toooo much

  • @johannees622
    @johannees622 2 месяца назад +2760

    One flower for each girl, a bouquet for the woman picked😍❤️ that was so beautiful and generous. The gesture went over her head because she’s cold and jealous. She’s not the kind woman he is looking for. I hope he finds himself a kind, confident and generous woman to be his wife and a step mom to his daughter.

    • @madslasher18
      @madslasher18 2 месяца назад +189

      I am so glad a woman notices this …

    • @bxbeautynyc
      @bxbeautynyc 2 месяца назад +132

      Way over her head… Chile 😒

    • @kerronkelly-simmons5073
      @kerronkelly-simmons5073 2 месяца назад +233

      I was thinking the same thing, but he told her she was a penny wise and a dollar foolish and he's right

    • @hazeljust7001
      @hazeljust7001 2 месяца назад +127

      That blew me. How did she not catch that’s what he was going to do when he first came out? She sucks lol her and the girl in the short blue dress

    • @toyaevette3155
      @toyaevette3155 2 месяца назад +178

      That was a red flag on her part. I want a man that is kind to everyone. She already trippin 🚩

  • @Neothechozen
    @Neothechozen Месяц назад +99

    The prom dress. Mermaid cut and the colour and fabric was killing me 👗 😂

    • @leesh2885
      @leesh2885 22 дня назад +3

      Yooooo thought i was the s only one😭😭😭

    • @deeangi4489
      @deeangi4489 11 дней назад +2

      She gonna get mad because the other girl got two flowers. 🌸
      Maybe he wanted to get rid of all the flowers in that pack. Then she got a whole bouquet. 💐

    • @jy5334
      @jy5334 6 дней назад

      She should know better coming from DC

    • @leikahroach8398
      @leikahroach8398 День назад +1

      And she had the nerve to comment on the guy wearing the stuff from Amazon. Her dress looks like it’s from Amazon.

  • @nicoleharris6488
    @nicoleharris6488 2 месяца назад +1777

    All of these men were SOILD! Especially the man with the flowers. HIS ACTIONS went over their head. He LISTENED and DID every suggestion they asked him to do. He did it… pulled up the pants, took off the glasses, etc. afterwards gave each one a flower. A bouquet to the one he wanted… speaks volumes about the type of man he is coupled with the fact that he raises a daughter speaks volumes about his character. We all are a work in progress.

    • @grammyslim5766
      @grammyslim5766 2 месяца назад +52

      I loved his approach

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@grammyslim5766it was IGHT! I actually thought he had a plan to execute with confidence. It's like he became nervous and gassed out by one of the girls and lost his blueprint. He followed through but not premeditated. I knew that random question was a trick question! By him losing his blueprint mad him look off to the girls especially when he asked it! All in all he's a winner 🏆

    • @yvenstsimonis
      @yvenstsimonis 2 месяца назад +25

      Exactly... thus... he deserves an international woman.

    • @handsomeblack5234
      @handsomeblack5234 2 месяца назад +37

      If Arlette could stop bringing on rappers that none has ever heard of.

    • @handsomeblack5234
      @handsomeblack5234 2 месяца назад +4

      The guy with the flowers was doing too much...and the guy after him sounded slow

  • @nasagrace
    @nasagrace 2 месяца назад +3975

    Blue dress acts like she's gonna say something intelligible but ends up saying nothing

    • @kingjayse1775
      @kingjayse1775 2 месяца назад +65

      On God

    • @creativechristiancontent
      @creativechristiancontent 2 месяца назад +279

      And she has the look of disgust on her face all the time

    • @bluestilling101
      @bluestilling101 2 месяца назад +138

      @@creativechristiancontent She comes off as very judgemental without getting to know someone. I don't think she meant to have that look on her face. It is just there because it is a part of her personality. What a pity.

    • @MsExit_
      @MsExit_ 2 месяца назад +6

      I knoooooooow😮😮😮😮

    • @deanbrealexander3824
      @deanbrealexander3824 2 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂

  • @TalkswithMellow
    @TalkswithMellow 2 месяца назад +1651

    Blue dress talks in circles. She starts off each statement like she’s about to say something really deep then takes us absolutely no where.

    • @mashbuie
      @mashbuie 2 месяца назад

      ABSOLUTELY NOWHERE!!!!!!!!!!!! She really thought she was hot shit 😴

    • @bernadette7009
      @bernadette7009 2 месяца назад +75

      She was so annoying...

    • @sweet49101
      @sweet49101 2 месяца назад

      she was horrible to listen to. no wonder she's single

    • @WhoiwunaB
      @WhoiwunaB 2 месяца назад +14

      @@bernadette7009Very!

    • @prettycandid_
      @prettycandid_ 2 месяца назад +8

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yayasland8374
    @yayasland8374 Месяц назад +39

    Bring the nurse , the guy who brought out flowers and the last guy back! They definitely deserve a match.

  • @perspe_tive
    @perspe_tive 2 месяца назад +3304

    That man with the flowers was a SMART man. He walked away grinning, happy he didn’t match with her- that was a test, and she failed

    • @adams8830
      @adams8830 2 месяца назад +263

      I knew she was going to pop. These people pop for literally anything and any second.

    • @hanikaborneo9046
      @hanikaborneo9046 2 месяца назад +118

      Yes I didn't even see the problem

    • @desperateguy01ify
      @desperateguy01ify 2 месяца назад +286

      "How dare you think of anyone else, but me", said the human red flag

    • @4edeleyes
      @4edeleyes 2 месяца назад +78

      I agree!!! On top of that, she lacked more social class in the entire group. 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @resyted1519
      @resyted1519 2 месяца назад +90

      I can't lie i think he was doing the most. I wasn't mad at her for popping and the way he reacted kinda felt off too.

  • @chicparlor7590
    @chicparlor7590 2 месяца назад +3742

    The first girl has THE NERVE to be dishing out fashion advice. That quincinera dress with the mix-and-match accessories and chest tattoo. I canNOT.

    • @bellab320
      @bellab320 2 месяца назад +214

      😂😂😂😂I was wondering wtf she had on !!!

    • @emanualcarr7408
      @emanualcarr7408 2 месяца назад +275

      And she's a Rapper. Not a career but a hobby for work. Tells you everything right there.

    • @Quianawilson8
      @Quianawilson8 2 месяца назад +209

      Looked like old ppl curtains 😂

    • @lizzy5121
      @lizzy5121 2 месяца назад

      @@emanualcarr7408she has 40k followers on instagram and clearly makes a living off it so not a hobby

    • @Same_ol_jee
      @Same_ol_jee 2 месяца назад +235

      a Quincinera dress is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @alexiscaldwell4133
    @alexiscaldwell4133 2 месяца назад +956

    The second guy (the nurse) was everything! His energy, his ambition, his demeanor, his communication! He was so polite! I hope he finds a lady to match him well!

    • @nelithamcwabeni6373
      @nelithamcwabeni6373 2 месяца назад +19

      Beautiful smile and teeth as well. They aren't worthy, they don't deserve him.

    • @heathermaldonado4049
      @heathermaldonado4049 2 месяца назад +27

      He is a catch for real! They should bring him back.

    • @shanafredlake312
      @shanafredlake312 2 месяца назад +10

      Agreed! Good looking gentlemen with ambition and smarts. What is wrong with these ladies?

    • @andraea_346
      @andraea_346 2 месяца назад +12

      He literally gave all of them a positive comment. He’s a catch

    • @flaminak7894
      @flaminak7894 2 месяца назад +11

      @@shanafredlake312They had kids. That’s why they all popped

  • @elhamramzi875
    @elhamramzi875 Месяц назад +51

    Can we pls take a moment to appreciate Arlette for hosting this show? She is very thoughtful and observant

    • @DCBikerR1
      @DCBikerR1 12 дней назад

      ONLY wife material woman I’ve seen on the show.

  • @rikied7200
    @rikied7200 2 месяца назад +2184

    No. If he wore a white shirt, jeans and loafers, they would have ALL POPPED and said, "because he didn't make an effort." Such hypocrites!

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 месяца назад +97

      Plus what they described was a basic, boring fit!

    • @brianwilliams7811
      @brianwilliams7811 2 месяца назад +22

      @@rikied7200 which guy are you talking about? The guy with the black leather pants?

    • @Jessfit_lyfe
      @Jessfit_lyfe 2 месяца назад +40

      This was the comment I was looking for 😂

    • @cbow5582
      @cbow5582 2 месяца назад +23

      Yup. He's speaking of the guy with the leather pants. But they kept the guy with the hat and glasses the longest because he had token gifts😒That was crazy!

    • @shortcut2gamepart-timegame878
      @shortcut2gamepart-timegame878 2 месяца назад +23

      you can't please them. no matter how perfect you are, they will reduce you to the lowest common denominator

  • @ChampTalkReactions
    @ChampTalkReactions 2 месяца назад +8019

    5’5” woman telling a 6ft man he almost the same height because you want to wear 7in heels is insane 😂. Happens every show 😂

    • @Christian900
      @Christian900 2 месяца назад

      Fuck wrong w these women?

    • @irGuilty
      @irGuilty 2 месяца назад +506

      And they weren’t even eye to eye 😂😂

    • @LLKK4EVER
      @LLKK4EVER 2 месяца назад

      And he was still few inches taller lol jus delusional

    • @adams8830
      @adams8830 2 месяца назад +619

      I swear these women are slow. Put on a pair of heels and forget their real height.

    • @visionarybrushstroker7694
      @visionarybrushstroker7694 2 месяца назад +207

      She didn’t say that about the first dude and he was every bit of 5’9

  • @itaekumba33
    @itaekumba33 2 месяца назад +3812

    This show shows how many eligible "black" bachelors out here doing they thing..lokey, killing the negative stereotype.. no cap 🧢👏🏾✊🏾

    • @stanleypierre5042
      @stanleypierre5042 2 месяца назад +75

      100%

    • @81easton
      @81easton 2 месяца назад +31

      No doubt

    • @pinkpanther5200
      @pinkpanther5200 2 месяца назад +73

      That’s the biggest takeaway

    • @Dexx1s
      @Dexx1s 2 месяца назад +56

      Most definitely.
      Kinda sad that the women here are definitely not helping to ease their own stereotypes.

    • @TheCloveart
      @TheCloveart 2 месяца назад +30

      Amazing representation.

  • @christianbrown390
    @christianbrown390 Месяц назад +59

    Penny wise and dollar foolish! Words spoken from a wise man! Kings Raising Queens is a rare find! Keep going King! 🙌🏾

  • @SheenDaDream
    @SheenDaDream 2 месяца назад +6001

    Popping on the young professor because he said “I like getting money” is diabolical .. it’s dehydrated piss in the dating pool 😂

    • @shortyduwhop319
      @shortyduwhop319 2 месяца назад +134

      Money is not everything. You don’t lead with that. He is the type to lead with money then get mad he attracts a gold digger

    • @THE-BASEMENT
      @THE-BASEMENT 2 месяца назад +587

      @@shortyduwhop319 Hey doofus, he did not lead with money. He listed his degrees, profession and then when asked what he likes to do for fun, then he said getting money. If Drake was on the show and said the same sht, it would not have been a problem.

    • @Dexx1s
      @Dexx1s 2 месяца назад +129

      She either wasn't listening when he said what he does for work or she did him an incredibly huge favor by taking herself out. Nobody goes and gets PhDs for the money. I was asking myself why he likes to waste money when I heard him going over that.

    • @claudeclaude9991
      @claudeclaude9991 2 месяца назад +93

      Man, you did not get that. She popped the balloon because she wouldn't know how to deal with an intelligent person. Dating or marrying a teacher requires that the person be at least intelligent, which they are not. They are two completely different worlds.

    • @BizQAC
      @BizQAC 2 месяца назад +70

      That’s why they’re single

  • @therealbigfine
    @therealbigfine 2 месяца назад +1114

    Please bring all these guys back. They definitely deserve a second chance. This was a really good lineup.

    • @CDrake-ki6fj
      @CDrake-ki6fj 2 месяца назад +67

      Good lineup of men, not women.

    • @therealbigfine
      @therealbigfine 2 месяца назад +19

      @@CDrake-ki6fj I agree, i definitely was referring to the men!

    • @shaquillesunflower824
      @shaquillesunflower824 2 месяца назад +11

      Yes I think all the guys were vetted very well. The last guy was my favorite, very kind for bringing flowers for everyone (I love flowers), great energy, well spoken and very attractive 👏🏾🤎🥰 I’ll take him! 😂

    • @Mona_Lisa8181
      @Mona_Lisa8181 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes very nice guys

    • @fanny2fr3sh
      @fanny2fr3sh 2 месяца назад

      Great lineup. These women clearly want to be single.

  • @ynot8379
    @ynot8379 2 месяца назад +1896

    PLEASE DONT BRING THE GIRL IN THE BLUE DRESS BACK!!!!! She was so unserious and wasting these guys time.

    • @jewelsbaby2449
      @jewelsbaby2449 2 месяца назад +133

      Don’t bring any back🙄

    • @4edeleyes
      @4edeleyes 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@jewelsbaby2449😂😂😂😂

    • @user-vj1rx8kn5f
      @user-vj1rx8kn5f 2 месяца назад +28

      Arlette will most definitely bring her back, because she never, ever listens when viewers say not to bring someone back. Arlette is not a little baby who gon listen. Lol

    • @katkhronicles6376
      @katkhronicles6376 2 месяца назад +1

      Facts

    • @big662
      @big662 2 месяца назад +11

      You mean the one from Mississippi? I think this is her second time on the show

  • @TheGabztron
    @TheGabztron 16 дней назад +11

    Love how many people love God and aren’t ashamed to talk about him. Beautiful to see ❤

  • @sonnetsforher
    @sonnetsforher 2 месяца назад +1292

    simple outfit: “not trying”
    putting effort in your appearance: “too flashy”

    • @pauldareason
      @pauldareason 2 месяца назад +79

      Yes it's so annoying damned if you do damned if you don't

    • @johnmivule-novabow8143
      @johnmivule-novabow8143 2 месяца назад

      Right, they cant be this delusional

    • @loverofhumanity
      @loverofhumanity 2 месяца назад +34

      Loooooool these women were awful...however there is something known as classy. You're dressed up with a nice dress shirt pants maybe a nice watch but not all the Accessories.
      I am not defending these women. They're awful though. Especially blue dress.

    • @d.mackfocused
      @d.mackfocused 2 месяца назад +6

      Damned if I do, damned if I don’t. 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @TamishaHerd
      @TamishaHerd 2 месяца назад

      Yes!!!

  • @naomibostonredd7695
    @naomibostonredd7695 2 месяца назад +870

    This was the BEST group of men I have seen. The gentleman with the flowers dodged a bullet.

    • @chattinwlexii7563
      @chattinwlexii7563 2 месяца назад +7

      For sure

    • @oge82
      @oge82 2 месяца назад +4

      That girl is crazy and selfish. He did his best.

    • @SAma-qp1xf
      @SAma-qp1xf 2 месяца назад +3

      minus the michael kors man

    • @angiebarnaby2103
      @angiebarnaby2103 2 месяца назад +1

      I agree

    • @simplyMe-ho2xr
      @simplyMe-ho2xr 2 месяца назад +2

      Sure did she was jealous/crazy much

  • @kay1433
    @kay1433 2 месяца назад +726

    these entrepreneurs being entrepreneurs with actual businesses and other things going on is so refreshing lol

    • @NiceGuySimmons
      @NiceGuySimmons 2 месяца назад +4

      because society or women has shamed the hard working man. If you not making 200K + you aint gonna get nothing out here. See how they did the last dude loll

    • @briansanchez9663
      @briansanchez9663 2 месяца назад

      @@NiceGuySimmonsnigga stop yappin in the last episode the first girl claimed to be an entrepreneur and when she asked what was her business she said shes not doing anyone right now, it’s just guys and girls too

    • @4TripleAA
      @4TripleAA 2 месяца назад +4

      Yesss, I'm so tired of hearing "I'm an entrepreneur" as if that is the job title/profession 😂😂

    • @Essays4College
      @Essays4College 2 месяца назад +6

      LOL ok......some people say they're "entrepreneurs" because they can't get a job.

    • @Chloeeezyyy
      @Chloeeezyyy Месяц назад

      @@NiceGuySimmonsshe said that bc people come on here with that title but aren’t actually owning businesses. Both the men and women

  • @ivoryv143
    @ivoryv143 Месяц назад +50

    So you're telling me I watched this whole video just for nobody to find a match💀😭

    • @blackdiamond202
      @blackdiamond202 Месяц назад +5

      I read this and still wasted my time

    • @melissaquaye6714
      @melissaquaye6714 15 дней назад +2

      Spoiler alert!

    • @ameekahj2918
      @ameekahj2918 12 дней назад +1

      I was annoyed 😂 I’m like okay match ? And each time no match ….

  • @chantellejordaan6224
    @chantellejordaan6224 2 месяца назад +777

    the last lady is so beautiful, soft spoken and you can tell she's kind

    • @mkawa1566
      @mkawa1566 2 месяца назад +51

      True but she was popping on nonsense too

    • @miciahfit
      @miciahfit 2 месяца назад +6

      Gorgeous

    • @skyehendon
      @skyehendon 2 месяца назад +16

      She was my fav!!!!!

    • @thomastaylor1217
      @thomastaylor1217 2 месяца назад

      And CAKED up

    • @VendieSolde
      @VendieSolde 2 месяца назад +9

      I wouldve picked her if I were a guy

  • @mamipnd
    @mamipnd 2 месяца назад +500

    I LOVED how that one guy brought flowers and gave each lady one. Then the bouquet for his pick!
    That was such a sweet gesture and the girl getting that upset about it showed the type of person she is.

    • @edynelorsky3734
      @edynelorsky3734 2 месяца назад +71

      Glad he gave her a piece of his mind that was childish of her

    • @raldastrewart7809
      @raldastrewart7809 2 месяца назад

      So he couldn't take out someone like that she would embarrassed him if he give something to someone. And he would have to be careful she wouldn't want him to take his daughter out and put her in his car front seat . So I'm glad she mess up . Stupid girl jealous a kill her and she she no get the man yet .

    • @BJMolette
      @BJMolette 2 месяца назад +8

      she popped because of his comment when he gave the other girl two flowers. the mic cut out a little

    • @littlePINKpanther01
      @littlePINKpanther01 Месяц назад +66

      @@BJMolettehe accidentally gave her two and was trying to hurry up and move on. He didn’t want to take it from her so he said “it must have been meant to be”…to get two. She was the one that tried to be shady about him giving out the flowers to begin with so I think it he was being shady back. Chest tat def got in her own way and showed she is not what he was looking for… “kind”

    • @ym-vl5ck
      @ym-vl5ck Месяц назад

      ​@@littlePINKpanther01 💯

  • @n_duke
    @n_duke 2 месяца назад +2446

    How is him giving flowers to the other ladies flirtatious? You got the bouquet which makes sense. It shows he’s romantic and caring😂 Looks like he dodged a bullet so good on his end

    • @candyxox
      @candyxox 2 месяца назад +129

      I think she thought he ran out of flowers which is why she popped. He probably shoulda let her know he had a bouquet for her before she popped

    • @pencil6965
      @pencil6965 2 месяца назад +178

      he told the girl with 2 flowers, "maybe it was meant to be." yall criticizing her but guarantee if you saw a man do that right after matching with you, it would be weird

    • @imagegotbeats
      @imagegotbeats 2 месяца назад

      Naw that shit was extra nigga trying to prove his self and earn brownie points for no reason!! Bring every girl a flower was extra

    • @lovenikcamille
      @lovenikcamille 2 месяца назад +64

      Exactly insecure and possessive like he said
      Crazy

    • @lovenikcamille
      @lovenikcamille 2 месяца назад +39

      @@candyxoxwhy tho
      Her true intentions came out in time

  • @darkgate33
    @darkgate33 Месяц назад +69

    those ladies are staying single forever

  • @jonesing225
    @jonesing225 2 месяца назад +3417

    This is why people are single because they’re picky and immature. All these dudes seem great. They deserve a chance.
    edited: good amount of replies saying no one’s entitled to anything lol. So no one’s entitled to happiness? Right. Yeah sometimes we feel “entitled” to have joy and happiness in the “normal sense” such as dating cause who doesn’t want to have a person? Dating can be hard and brutal. But we try to put ourselves out there and go look for it. The guys (who seemingly seem to be decent) put themselves out there and got the boot for small reasons it seemed like. We’ve all seen the show and this episode was just lacking on the maturity. I would say the same if a girls episode was like this. And since some people wanna look at my personal singular comment in a bad light, I’ll say this instead: It’s GREAT the dudes didn’t get a match so they can put their energy elsewhere to find someone right for them! Same with the ladies. I hope everyone meets a great person they DESERVE 🥰😇

    • @freejdc1
      @freejdc1 2 месяца назад +90

      No one deserves anything

    • @leelehboo
      @leelehboo 2 месяца назад +68

      Glad I'm not the only one who feels like this! They are being so unrealistic with the pickiness

    • @masterj4249
      @masterj4249 2 месяца назад +42

      facts..not 1 guy got picked..incredible

    • @user-lp2he1md6i
      @user-lp2he1md6i 2 месяца назад +44

      If I were to give every guy that deserves a chance I’d be ran through. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being picky.

    • @jonesing225
      @jonesing225 2 месяца назад +13

      @@freejdc1 oh brother here we go

  • @fashionablechoices6937
    @fashionablechoices6937 2 месяца назад +1753

    The girl in the light blue dress criticizes EVERYTHING. She’s overthinking alot of things and holds people to unrealistic expectations

    • @mariusw.553
      @mariusw.553 2 месяца назад +41

      facts! had my blood boiling

    • @deborahiyllise8283
      @deborahiyllise8283 2 месяца назад +51

      It just seemed like she had a monologue to read from every time for simple things, I get it some women are really certified yappers 😂 but it definitely had a bit of a long winded negative vibe to it most of the time...

    • @imdva
      @imdva 2 месяца назад

      not to mention her chest is spilling out of her dress that looks like its from shein and tries to criticize everyone like girl look in the mirror for one second.

    • @mochaMillz
      @mochaMillz 2 месяца назад +28

      Mann she’s so annoying

    • @selfcarewithG
      @selfcarewithG 2 месяца назад +2

      💯 agree

  • @msnangiej
    @msnangiej 2 месяца назад +2452

    She got JEALOUS of him giving the other ladies a single flower and she getting a bouquet??? She is already acting crazy??? 💀💀💀 Run Fellas!

    • @hkt4505
      @hkt4505 2 месяца назад +179

      He saved himself

    • @YUMYUM.EATEMUP
      @YUMYUM.EATEMUP 2 месяца назад +12

      @@msnangiej Thank you 😂

    • @tyannajones3265
      @tyannajones3265 2 месяца назад +159

      Yes, she got jealous. A single flower compared to a bouquet. She has some growing up to do.

    • @MainpisBae1017
      @MainpisBae1017 2 месяца назад +38

      At the end, he said, it must be meant to be he handed the last girl two flowers lol

    • @raquelr87
      @raquelr87 2 месяца назад +130

      @@MainpisBae1017 they were stuck together, so he said it was meant to be for her to have both, smh

  • @likataomia3533
    @likataomia3533 20 дней назад +22

    the multiple kids things 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😂 as if that lady could control having twins 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @SweetiePieLuvU312
      @SweetiePieLuvU312 20 дней назад +2

      Right😂😂😂

    • @KwetsimaChauke-bo8ww
      @KwetsimaChauke-bo8ww 18 дней назад +1

      broooooo

    • @KwetsimaChauke-bo8ww
      @KwetsimaChauke-bo8ww 18 дней назад +3

      i asked myself the same thing. That was so inconsiderate wth.

    • @scarlettekatherine951
      @scarlettekatherine951 6 дней назад +4

      You can control your preference, and that was his.

    • @jazz6711
      @jazz6711 6 дней назад +6

      He missed out on a beautiful woman who was willing to take care of him. Could have done some family content for his podcast🤣🤣

  • @afrolatina1010
    @afrolatina1010 2 месяца назад +834

    The girl with the chest tat is weird! Ma’am he came to give everyone a flower before he even knew you existed! Very possessive/ jealous energy! She’s the type to snap on her man because he held the door open for another woman at the store.

    • @jermainewalter764
      @jermainewalter764 2 месяца назад +73

      Exactly! And how can you get jealous over a man that doesn't even know you?! He came to be a gentleman to everyone

    • @maloriegibson1517
      @maloriegibson1517 2 месяца назад +69

      Standing there with an entire bouquet of flowers and upset 🤯

    • @kemeiawhite1906
      @kemeiawhite1906 2 месяца назад +24

      Exactly!!! The guy was kind ti give out flowers to the ladies. Very thoughtful

    • @mandegdjama7448
      @mandegdjama7448 2 месяца назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @DBLACK71811216
      @DBLACK71811216 2 месяца назад +12

      🤣🤣😂😂 snapping for holding the door for another woman is crazy work!

  • @Lovemyfav
    @Lovemyfav 2 месяца назад +1114

    This proves that some of us will find an issue with anything. Chivalry is not dead. Big ups to the gentleman who gave out flowers.

    • @weusi669
      @weusi669 2 месяца назад +24

      They say bring my flowers but when it’s given the don’t want it😂

    • @lilavslola
      @lilavslola 2 месяца назад +11

      nobody wants a overly friendly boyfriend it’s a dating show that’s inappropriate.

    • @crystallf26
      @crystallf26 2 месяца назад +63

      @@lilavslolathat’s not her boyfriend tho. 🫤

    • @weusi669
      @weusi669 2 месяца назад +3

      @@lilavslola He was too kind I guess . I thought the flowers were for his match initially.

    • @July-ola
      @July-ola 2 месяца назад +6

      It gave player vibes.

  • @PurpleKayz83
    @PurpleKayz83 2 месяца назад +900

    A lot of men on her platform have real careers! So refreshing to see. ❤

    • @Yomommahouse
      @Yomommahouse 2 месяца назад +26

      Just a FYI I know they push these rappers and thugs on to us but I’d say a majority us do have careers especially in our 30s

    • @TA-ht4jo
      @TA-ht4jo 2 месяца назад +14

      And yet, many of the women on the show pass them over. 😂

    • @deanod8303
      @deanod8303 2 месяца назад +8

      ​@@TA-ht4joAnd they will say there are no good men. And the dating pool has pee in it 😂

    • @stephenxadonai
      @stephenxadonai 2 месяца назад +6

      But the girls be rappers, models, and “entrepreneurs” 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 2 месяца назад

      I don't know...i heard a lot "entrepreneur"

  • @MissChloeRSA
    @MissChloeRSA 14 дней назад +3

    Giving out flowers was such a cute gesture. Personally I'd be happy having a man who knows and acknowledges beautiful women but makes it known that he thinks I'm the most beautiful to him. I hate guys who are only kind to women they find attractive. This man was so sweet to all these women and I just love that. It's not flirtatious it's kindness. All these beautiful black women indeed deserved flowers just for existing despite the fact that they just pop for the ceaziest reasons. Absolutely charming. He's a keeper in my opinion. A true girl dad.

  • @stef8709
    @stef8709 2 месяца назад +921

    Is it just me or is Arlette getting more annoyed and impatient with peoples responses....

    • @kelleme
      @kelleme 2 месяца назад +146

      I would be too, why are they even there?

    • @jasmineyoungblood
      @jasmineyoungblood 2 месяца назад +89

      Yes, I noticed it, too. They make up silly or dishonest reasons. She said it in a “BM Talks To Them” episode a while ago.

    • @morks4716
      @morks4716 2 месяца назад +18

      Women☕️

    • @1980tiffani
      @1980tiffani 2 месяца назад +62

      Yes… she’s so upbeat. I’m glad she’s showing some other emotions at these annoying people 😂 . I could not be her.. my face would be like 🙄😕😧🤔

    • @Machndrixx
      @Machndrixx 2 месяца назад +5

      Yes because I'm am

  • @JustCoraSharice
    @JustCoraSharice 2 месяца назад +1905

    That flower argument was just a preview of what the "Catch Up" would've looked like. Thanks for saving us the disappointment.

    • @TheLadyj8402
      @TheLadyj8402 2 месяца назад +26

      😂😂😂

    • @rhiannal.7913
      @rhiannal.7913 2 месяца назад +235

      Shes very toxic and it shows by her getting upset that he was a gentleman.

    • @WrighteousBrand
      @WrighteousBrand 2 месяца назад +150

      I’m so glad he saw her true colors before wasting his time.

    • @Blackhomeking12
      @Blackhomeking12 2 месяца назад +167

      For real he said he got flowers for everyone earlier, and soon as he started giving them out she got mad and popped. Then she had a whole boquet lined up she can't stand not being the center of attention. He tested how she reacts early and saved himself. Probably the type who would get mad if he bought something for his mom but didn't get her anything.

    • @Lovemyfav
      @Lovemyfav 2 месяца назад +10

      Bingo

  • @sb3417
    @sb3417 2 месяца назад +6356

    The 3rd girl is so annoying.

  • @dawan101
    @dawan101 Месяц назад +12

    They sum fools passing up the 3rd guy Daniel 😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤 loved that he complimented each lady can tell he's a gentleman. Educated and handsome

  • @Allieredeemed
    @Allieredeemed 2 месяца назад +895

    Light blue dress got on my nerves. Girl I don’t want to hear one more word from you.

    • @MommyOfFour94
      @MommyOfFour94 2 месяца назад +71

      She got me when she said it was 360 days in a year 😩😭

    • @adventureofacollegestudent219
      @adventureofacollegestudent219 2 месяца назад

      🤣with her unshave thighs 😂picky and can’t even shave her damn legs 🦵 😂

    • @UnknownUserCommented
      @UnknownUserCommented 2 месяца назад +7

      Mine too

    • @UnknownUserCommented
      @UnknownUserCommented 2 месяца назад +23

      @@MommyOfFour94I hollered! And the nerve to be an Accountant

    • @MommyOfFour94
      @MommyOfFour94 2 месяца назад +4

      @@UnknownUserCommented right if I was him I would have said ion need you anyways hell lmaooo

  • @ekayhd4072
    @ekayhd4072 2 месяца назад +11354

    Arlette is pushing out videos like how Lil Wayne was pushing out mixtapes 😭😭🔥🔥🔥

  • @lili_bloom
    @lili_bloom 2 месяца назад +695

    Arlette made the right call by asking the second guy about his business. This is a question that should be asked for all "entrepreneurs"

    • @MahliA-m3o
      @MahliA-m3o 2 месяца назад +14

      😂😂😂😂agreed

    • @lschild222
      @lschild222 2 месяца назад +5

      PREACH 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @adams8830
      @adams8830 2 месяца назад +54

      Okay this. She needs to be exposing these "entrepreneurs" especially since that one episode when the "entrepreneur" was asked what she does and she said "nothing right now.
      🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @lili_bloom
      @lili_bloom 2 месяца назад +2

      @@adams8830 that’s exactly what I was thinking when I wrote the comment

    • @dereck4187
      @dereck4187 2 месяца назад +2

      @@lili_bloom the last entrepreneur ain't had a business lol

  • @raquellewis7294
    @raquellewis7294 2 дня назад +1

    The man who brought flowers was so fine and sweet, like the ladies were tripping

  • @norffstar
    @norffstar 2 месяца назад +1658

    The first girl (rapper) telling the guy his job has no stability is super ironic

    • @30jersey478
      @30jersey478 2 месяца назад +176

      Both of them can't be struggling and scraping to get by 😂

    • @uzomanwachukwu333
      @uzomanwachukwu333 2 месяца назад

      @@30jersey478😂😂😂

    • @uzomanwachukwu333
      @uzomanwachukwu333 2 месяца назад +7

      😂😂😂

    • @Mintjulep3
      @Mintjulep3 2 месяца назад +6

      @@norffstar That part! 😂😂😂

    • @supreemcourt9181
      @supreemcourt9181 2 месяца назад

      She’s a fvckin rapper?????? A rapper, at 26. Lookin for stability in a man, and she’s a RAPPER!

  • @eddiecampbell9663
    @eddiecampbell9663 2 месяца назад +3683

    We got to invite the FLOWER MAN back for a reunion🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @theprettyone9474
      @theprettyone9474 2 месяца назад +115

      Yes i would love for him to get a match.

    • @eddiecampbell9663
      @eddiecampbell9663 2 месяца назад +123

      @@theprettyone9474 facts that first girl who is a rapper was tripping.....

    • @LeticiaFerreira-oe2hp
      @LeticiaFerreira-oe2hp 2 месяца назад +148

      They should. So rude of her to pop just because he gave the other girl flowers, like girl he got u a whole bouquet be fr 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @dazzypeters6793
      @dazzypeters6793 2 месяца назад +29

      All that to get popped

    • @eddiecampbell9663
      @eddiecampbell9663 2 месяца назад +93

      @@LeticiaFerreira-oe2hp facts he dodged a bullet because she seem like the insecure type

  • @anonymousanonymous4868
    @anonymousanonymous4868 2 месяца назад +3056

    The nursing professor guy know dang well he could get anybody outside of pop the balloon 😂 he is a unicorn, no kids, good vibes, ambition. He was on there to promote

    • @Tiaxxxxxooooo
      @Tiaxxxxxooooo 2 месяца назад +159

      Agreed 😂😂

    • @Mike_1nce_More
      @Mike_1nce_More 2 месяца назад +86

      Sounds like y'all should sign up for the show & possibly be on his return episode ladies.

    • @ChiKa-j3n
      @ChiKa-j3n 2 месяца назад +30

      He was coolbut my sister is a nurse practitioner
      If I met a black dude and he told me that
      I'll be like dude go be a doctor already
      I was pushing my sis to j7st go to med school
      Cant imagine me dating a male nurse...
      Something effeminate about that, for me

    • @tonettewormley4455
      @tonettewormley4455 2 месяца назад +38

      He didn't seem that sure of himself though. He was easily swayed when the ladies stated their opinions. However, he's definitely not the average man.

    • @anonymousanonymous4868
      @anonymousanonymous4868 2 месяца назад

      @@ChiKa-j3nthat might be something within you that makes you feel that way. He is also a professor not just a RN and becoming a nurse practitioner which is amazing, that means he’s able to get his own clients, practice, and injections. He’s doing something good with great pay and multiple streams of income on the side and you’re worried about his title? You’re a joke

  • @Ohole
    @Ohole 28 дней назад +4

    The second guy was so sweet and he is a hard worker, these ladies don't know what a good man is.

  • @veronicadavis3570
    @veronicadavis3570 2 месяца назад +3681

    I popped because you said I like to get money….. girl be quiet 🤫 😂😂.

    • @kvonbruce2911
      @kvonbruce2911 2 месяца назад +73

      I can understand her perspective, though

    • @stanleypierre5042
      @stanleypierre5042 2 месяца назад +231

      @@kvonbruce2911I can’t. How do u make as large of an assumption as she did based on one statement. No emotional intelligence

    • @jayleedew
      @jayleedew 2 месяца назад

      I guess you’re as dumb as she is then. Good for y’all

    • @servantofthelord25
      @servantofthelord25 2 месяца назад +5

      😂😂

    • @candyliverpool3260
      @candyliverpool3260 2 месяца назад +5

      😅😅😅😅

  • @jpny.7961
    @jpny.7961 Месяц назад +366

    This show is low-key exposing the lack of discernment that ppl have in choosing dating partners

    • @alltheworldsastage8597
      @alltheworldsastage8597 Месяц назад +7

      You mean females

    • @jpny.7961
      @jpny.7961 Месяц назад

      @@alltheworldsastage8597 overwhelmingly yeah but some men do pick the wrong woman too.

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 Месяц назад +23

      They just silly, they count people out by the clothes they wore that day

    • @unabashed
      @unabashed Месяц назад +19

      ​@@ariamason9324 good example: "what is that belt? Versace?"
      "No, I got this from Amazon."
      "Exactly...it looks like it's from Amazon." 🤔🤔🤔 I'm really sick of the outfit judgments. It's corny.

    • @AlmiraOnwukeme-ie4km
      @AlmiraOnwukeme-ie4km Месяц назад

      First impression really matters though ​@@ariamason9324

  • @Mintjulep3
    @Mintjulep3 2 месяца назад +892

    A nursing professor, no kids, handsome, family oriented, and calm and not too flashy.. how was he not at least worth a conversation?? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Void0420
      @Void0420 2 месяца назад +36

      Omg i know!! I just don’t get these girls

    • @geneticprogramming4020
      @geneticprogramming4020 2 месяца назад +82

      Unfortunately he has not had any jail time which is a big requirement for these girls.

    • @DjCotesMusik
      @DjCotesMusik 2 месяца назад +22

      @@geneticprogramming4020
      Facts...
      I've realized that too.
      If he had came out with an ankle braclet, he definitely would've gotten a match.

    • @product_of_august
      @product_of_august 2 месяца назад +33

      @@geneticprogramming4020 His deal breaker was kids are we watching the same video??

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 2 месяца назад

      I swear!

  • @Red-lu3ku
    @Red-lu3ku Месяц назад +21

    The host and the show is great! This show shows why 1 in 4 of my sisters will ever marry. The majority of the ladies are looking for the perfect man, when they aren’t perfect. I’m even more thankful for my beautiful wife of many years ❤.

    • @lachell257
      @lachell257 Месяц назад

      No it is because man aren't proposing. They rather create baby mamas.

  • @SayLesNyC
    @SayLesNyC 2 месяца назад +288

    A woman that turns every disagreement into an argument. Is a super underrated comment.

  • @mg679mirth9
    @mg679mirth9 2 месяца назад +665

    The gentleman who gave out roses was a sweet man. He’s thoughtful and obviously knows how to prioritize; hence, adorning “chest tattoo” with a bouquet of flowers. He was simply displaying respect and honor for the ladies he didn’t match with by gifting “a” rose. It was a kind gesture.

    • @The_Game_Is_The_Game
      @The_Game_Is_The_Game 2 месяца назад +31

      Thank you. Someone finally said it.

    • @69ThugPassion69
      @69ThugPassion69 2 месяца назад

      That shit hurt me down to the bone. She popped because she thought she wasn’t getting a flower until he came out with the bouquet.

    • @fisephalnoxt
      @fisephalnoxt 2 месяца назад

      That was stupid, so unneccessary

    • @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty
      @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty 2 месяца назад +50

      That girl was a bird for popping on him when his goal was to give her the bouquet

    • @Baldheadv510
      @Baldheadv510 2 месяца назад +28

      I definitely sensed his nervousness when he came out. It was really considerate of him to show understanding. I've only witnessed one other guy bring flowers on the show, and he didn’t end up connecting with anyone, so the bouquet went unclaimed. The fact that he gave a flower to each lady highlights his sweetness; he was so anxious that he forgot to give the others theirs.

  • @islandboyptv3351
    @islandboyptv3351 2 месяца назад +6038

    Blue dress a bird brain 😂😂she says a whole bunch of nthin

    • @Athini_Myataza
      @Athini_Myataza 2 месяца назад +68

      😂😂😂 right?

    • @IsThisAPodcastYet
      @IsThisAPodcastYet 2 месяца назад +90

      What blue dress light blue dark blue ?

    • @TheeGirlKB
      @TheeGirlKB 2 месяца назад +10

      Yeahhhhh

    • @iyahnuh3101
      @iyahnuh3101 2 месяца назад +33

      😂😂😂😂😂like girl bye

    • @Natty.Cee_3
      @Natty.Cee_3 2 месяца назад +243

      She was so annoying. I don't want to see her on any other episode.

  • @Ajim234
    @Ajim234 29 дней назад +8

    Not a single lady found a match because they just pop for the craziest reasons, it’s like they wanna be single for the rest of their lives 🤣🤣

  • @charliearriaza8235
    @charliearriaza8235 2 месяца назад +1195

    Can we just talk about Arlette’s dress, like it’s so beautiful with the colors and design!! Perfect for October!

    • @jesuisleconqueror
      @jesuisleconqueror 2 месяца назад +23

      Gorgeous and amazing color on her

    • @uchennanwosu2488
      @uchennanwosu2488 2 месяца назад +17

      She is in her god-given element😂😂😂😂😊​@@jesuisleconqueror

    • @iamnicesea
      @iamnicesea 2 месяца назад +3

      Bro I bought her that dresser just for you to talk about it thank you

    • @biga101290
      @biga101290 2 месяца назад +4

      And the yams poking poking 😊

    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 2 месяца назад +8

      Girlll....... it instantly caught my eye! Beautiful! I told Arlette I want all her clothes but she's ignoring me 😅

  • @sharonkeys2839
    @sharonkeys2839 2 месяца назад +254

    I think it was very thoughtful for him to give everyone a flower, and to give the one he chose a bouquet. It’s giving very thoughtful and kindhearted!!!

    • @NiceGuySimmons
      @NiceGuySimmons 2 месяца назад +17

      And her selfish and insecure ahh messed it up. You can tell she been cheated on before and aint heal

    • @kno3730
      @kno3730 2 месяца назад +7

      I already knew what was up when he walked in with two bouquets.

    • @jamardyson4330
      @jamardyson4330 2 месяца назад +8

      Right it's a dating show so basically hes saying that all the other women are pretty but you're the one I choose and the most beautiful!! CRAZY!!

    • @tiffanyd8595
      @tiffanyd8595 2 месяца назад +3

      Exactly what he is asking of his partner. I loved it.

    • @TrunxKraft3000
      @TrunxKraft3000 2 месяца назад +5

      For her to pop because of that was MAD egotistical and petty.

  • @rubenlouis5364
    @rubenlouis5364 2 месяца назад +658

    The girl in the blue dress is trying TOO MUCH with her analysis !! It would be annoying to talk to her on a date because she'd be trying to make a thesis out of everything they'd say!

    • @anor.reklaw
      @anor.reklaw 2 месяца назад +36

      Hook her up with the dentist that is always on the show...Equally annoying.

    • @seismic6435
      @seismic6435 2 месяца назад

      Nah, she my type 1000% we think similarly

    • @Yomommahouse
      @Yomommahouse 2 месяца назад +15

      @@seismic6435Sorry to hear that. Hope you can learn comprehension skills.

    • @seismic6435
      @seismic6435 2 месяца назад

      @@Yomommahouse now that's projecting, mah boi.

    • @Yomommahouse
      @Yomommahouse 2 месяца назад +6

      @@seismic6435 Bruh you literally just said your comprehension skills trash by comparing yourself to her. How am I projecting lol y’all would be a perfect match. Both on the spectrum.

  • @RadiantKeto
    @RadiantKeto 27 дней назад +1

    The flowers were a kind gesture and he had a plan for the girl he chose to have a full bouquet; very thoughtful, very gentleman like. Y’all not used to men being kind just because. I love it!

  • @Bibi.K
    @Bibi.K 2 месяца назад +1001

    The girl in the blue dress doesnt even know what she's talking about, she's just embarrassing herself on a public platform😂

    • @etruscancivilization
      @etruscancivilization 2 месяца назад +4

      Short blue dress girl was my type of woman, and had the most class.

    • @seismic6435
      @seismic6435 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@etruscancivilizationright, I have yet to hear anything that's a red flag

    • @Bibi.K
      @Bibi.K 2 месяца назад

      @@etruscancivilization ​ @seismic6435 well to each their own.

    • @mzbrown6969
      @mzbrown6969 2 месяца назад +2

      I noticed that too

    • @jaydenvaughn6976
      @jaydenvaughn6976 2 месяца назад +24

      Is she on earth or a different planet......space cadet 😮

  • @chrisbreaktherules
    @chrisbreaktherules Месяц назад +228

    Bring these men back, these women pop for the silliest and most outrageous reasons ever.

    • @r3allyr3agan
      @r3allyr3agan Месяц назад +3

      Especially the guy with the flowers and the doctor

    • @ijeomaobielo
      @ijeomaobielo 26 дней назад +2

      You can say that again!

    • @dayanaquesada463
      @dayanaquesada463 23 дня назад +1

      @@r3allyr3aganI love how with the doctor the one girl popped bc she said she needed someone tall not the same height & when he asked how tall she is she said 5’5 and he like “im 6” LMAO she stood there looking stupid as hell bc girl what? Just looking for any excuse. At this point why are you even there that man was such a gentleman and professional at that. AND TALL.

    • @tottryship5608
      @tottryship5608 5 дней назад

      No most of them popped because the guys had an issue with a child.

  • @halftimehomes
    @halftimehomes 2 месяца назад +835

    Arlette is the content queen of 2024 hands down

    • @truckHERKay
      @truckHERKay 2 месяца назад +22

      She got her a King over there. God's correct order.

    • @exxoticempire_9100
      @exxoticempire_9100 2 месяца назад +8

      If there is a Award she should get it👑❤❤ best host

    • @stephenxadonai
      @stephenxadonai 2 месяца назад +2

      @@truckHERKay👏🏽👏🏽 say it again. And they both stay in they lane getting busy.

    • @creativechristiancontent
      @creativechristiancontent 2 месяца назад

      She needs to engage more with the viewers

    • @victorialucy868
      @victorialucy868 Месяц назад

      She an ultimate it girl

  • @dymnd_
    @dymnd_ Месяц назад +12

    "you got a lot of things on too" period. wearing a whole bridesmaid dress trynna diss him. he looks clean and well put together.

  • @aijhaGIRL
    @aijhaGIRL 2 месяца назад +394

    Oh the Michael Kors guy humbled the girl in the blue dress so quick! I GAGGED!! and she deserved it

  • @toyaevette3155
    @toyaevette3155 2 месяца назад +626

    The first guy did all that talking and left out the fact that he had a child, was married, and is divorced. But a woman having twins is too much for him????Tuhhhhhhhh! 😒🫸🏾

    • @em.8888
      @em.8888 2 месяца назад +39

      Exactly! Like boy BYE

    • @CallmeachildofGod
      @CallmeachildofGod 2 месяца назад +42

      Had me clutch my invisible pearls the audacity!!

    • @BriannaPost-Sanon
      @BriannaPost-Sanon 2 месяца назад +7

      Righttttt! That was wild

    • @baddie_bree1439
      @baddie_bree1439 2 месяца назад +47

      Seriously like she can’t help she got pregnant with twins

    • @Mariluv2314
      @Mariluv2314 2 месяца назад +19

      These men wanna have all these standards guess it’s time to up our standards too 😂

  • @MissJazzy_
    @MissJazzy_ 2 месяца назад +559

    Damn this the first episode we didn’t hear Arlette say “we got a maaaaaaatchuh!”

    • @lejamesbron5880
      @lejamesbron5880 2 месяца назад +34

      With a chuckle right after lol

    • @shandelbrown4335
      @shandelbrown4335 2 месяца назад +17

      Facts and I look for it just to say it with her😂

    • @kaylathomas4542
      @kaylathomas4542 2 месяца назад +14

      lmaooo she be so happy

    • @Essays4College
      @Essays4College 2 месяца назад +6

      Almost all the women are single moms. Seems like they had the kids when they were real young too. Can't really blame the guy.

    • @Ittakesfinesse
      @Ittakesfinesse 2 месяца назад +7

      And yall can go on awwwfffff

  • @Stroproducedit
    @Stroproducedit 12 дней назад +1

    I can’t believe all the ladies popped the first guy. He is a KEEPER! Amazing energy.

    • @leahbrown2029
      @leahbrown2029 11 дней назад

      Exactly I was like wth 😂😂 Amongst all the guys he's my favorite.

  • @jermainearthurton3391
    @jermainearthurton3391 2 месяца назад +761

    The girl wearing the light blue dress, Shay, is quite irritating...

    • @thedreadedvegan4700
      @thedreadedvegan4700 2 месяца назад +9

      Very! 😂

    • @sunnygibbs925
      @sunnygibbs925 2 месяца назад +3

      YAS!!!!!!!!!!!!😂

    • @Majinchip87
      @Majinchip87 2 месяца назад

      Whyyyyy

    • @ReelToLife
      @ReelToLife 2 месяца назад +4

      She seemed so scared when the guy came out with flowers 😮

    • @ReelToLife
      @ReelToLife 2 месяца назад +2

      Apparently this is not the flower generation...😮😮

  • @eltonlocklear7659
    @eltonlocklear7659 2 месяца назад +491

    Crazy how they popped on second dude and gave him a hard time but bro seem like good ppl. Work with kids, likes to give back, showed good character etc. You really got to be perfect as a man in every way

    • @shakeraxdien
      @shakeraxdien 2 месяца назад +40

      I agree, I definitely would’ve given him a chance. He didn’t say anything wrong.

    • @eltonlocklear7659
      @eltonlocklear7659 2 месяца назад +58

      @@shakeraxdien what blew my mind even more grown women with kids didn’t even seem to factor any of those things in the equation. All about what they want not thinking if that man is good with kids and good role model. I don’t know what women are expecting

    • @Nae991
      @Nae991 2 месяца назад +12

      I liked number 2

    • @prettybrittany_
      @prettybrittany_ 2 месяца назад +4

      Maybe it’s the shoes

    • @danib808
      @danib808 2 месяца назад +40

      He actually lives with his BM and went on Kendra G dating show right after leaving this show..people lie and portray themselves to be one way all the time

  • @iamdasiaa
    @iamdasiaa 2 месяца назад +935

    Shay ( blue dress) responses is getting on my nerves !

    • @autumnsummers6599
      @autumnsummers6599 2 месяца назад +21

      You have no standards and is mad at someone who has

    • @iamdasiaa
      @iamdasiaa 2 месяца назад +38

      @@autumnsummers6599 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @blackpearl9747
      @blackpearl9747 2 месяца назад +18

      yeah, she petty

    • @PatientInAffliction
      @PatientInAffliction 2 месяца назад +72

      @@autumnsummers6599are you light blue dress? Cos she was annoying as hell

    • @iamdasiaa
      @iamdasiaa 2 месяца назад +42

      @@PatientInAffliction right 😂 . cos she in these comments defending ole girl lmaaaoo

  • @aminar9421
    @aminar9421 14 дней назад +1

    I don’t think I’ve seen an episode before without a single match 😮 these guys were so great too!

  • @thtkidalwow8491
    @thtkidalwow8491 2 месяца назад +311

    I’m only 19 but the guy giving out the flowers made me really appreciate men like him, he’s gonna be a great husband , he’s a girl dad and seems really genuine and kind to all women, hope he gets someone he can spoil.

    • @ra-neter6662
      @ra-neter6662 2 месяца назад

      darling im older than you . i know im a stranger . This man screams fuck nigga . He came in with flowers (ALWAYS A FINESSE, sad to say but its another version of love bombing as innocent as it may seem), liqor bottle with EXTRA cups, shades, and had to be told to pull his pants off. also had a "plan" to take off his hat. its sad how a few gestures can make you look viable.

    • @nakiabrandon5487
      @nakiabrandon5487 2 месяца назад +9

      You’re going to make some man very happy 😊 for now, focus on you until you graduate

    • @ethan0262
      @ethan0262 2 месяца назад +5

      *hopefully he finds someone who’ll appreciate him.

    • @thtkidalwow8491
      @thtkidalwow8491 2 месяца назад

      @@ethan0262 same same

    • @zainabmutangiri9770
      @zainabmutangiri9770 2 месяца назад +1

      🤣🤣

  • @iStayLOkey89
    @iStayLOkey89 2 месяца назад +423

    Every week we get these women in sky high heels telling men they’re the same height and popping their balloons 🥴🤦🏽‍♀️….what’s hard to comprehend…heel height is not your true height lol

    • @sweetnurnot10
      @sweetnurnot10 2 месяца назад +9

      They just taking into consideration of when they step out wearing heels they want their man to be much taller than them smh . As if their always wearing heels every day 🙄

    • @janae4815
      @janae4815 2 месяца назад

      But u watch it right.

    • @martineboucicault3961
      @martineboucicault3961 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂 4real

    • @martineboucicault3961
      @martineboucicault3961 2 месяца назад

      Just don’t wear heels right, dating is scary nowadays

  • @BigHeavyGyalDem
    @BigHeavyGyalDem 2 месяца назад +300

    The one girl dressed like Princess Jasmine accusing someone of wearing too much. Oh, sister…😔

    • @estellabautista1280
      @estellabautista1280 Месяц назад +26

      Princess Jasmine 😂😂😂😂

    • @jacintagamble-brunson1483
      @jacintagamble-brunson1483 Месяц назад +18

      She came with a prom dress 😂😂

    • @AnimeW
      @AnimeW Месяц назад

      Princess hoe-mine 😂😂😂😂

    • @shemjb
      @shemjb Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @thegemini609
      @thegemini609 Месяц назад +7

      The same with the chick flashing her chest down to dang near her belly button calling the second gentleman flashy. These broads are annoying!

  • @abundantlife1111
    @abundantlife1111 Месяц назад +397

    It warmed my heart to see the guy give the ladies flowers. 💝 I thought it was a nice gesture for the setting. He definitely dodged a bullet with her. He seems like a cool guy & a gentleman I hope this experience doesn't change him.

    • @debragales
      @debragales Месяц назад +20

      He should have chose the other one...she was more interested than the one who he gave the bouquet to...

    • @tylerneale8577
      @tylerneale8577 Месяц назад +10

      If it was me I would have took the bouquet of flowers back.

    • @parknlotp.i.m.p
      @parknlotp.i.m.p Месяц назад +7

      As a guy…. I agreed with her ultimately. It was a “nice” gesture but she’s right, he was doing too much. It comes off as being corny af, and I am speaking from experience because I used to be THAT guy. One thing I wish the guys would do is just keep it simple. Keep it simple with their choice of attire, stop talking too much, and don’t bring props.

    • @kingsleyuliene6505
      @kingsleyuliene6505 Месяц назад +7

      The very last event annoyed me, .. I mean he gave everyone one a single flower which was a kind gesture and and was planning to give give u a bouquet 🎉..and u popped before he even did that.. Like wtf.. Very selfish lady

    • @RedKissesBoutique
      @RedKissesBoutique Месяц назад +9

      Absolutely he gave the girl 2 so it wouldn’t go to waste. She is definitely giving weird and possessive. That is not your man yet sis.

  • @babybresolovely
    @babybresolovely Месяц назад +92

    That girl that popped the balloon because that man was kind enough to give everybody flowers was ridiculous. That was such a sweet thing to do. She definitely showed her red flag 🚩

  • @mrsrichard7835
    @mrsrichard7835 2 месяца назад +706

    The girl getting jealous about the other ladies getting a flower is immature in my opinion.

    • @kallahari7542
      @kallahari7542 2 месяца назад +28

      And scarry

    • @throughsilviaseyes
      @throughsilviaseyes 2 месяца назад +21

      literally insane i jumped from my chair

    • @JustCoraSharice
      @JustCoraSharice 2 месяца назад

      I agree! So stupid!

    • @MellyMellow911
      @MellyMellow911 2 месяца назад +44

      My jaw dropped, she is just really ridiculous. RED FLAG!! Goo's for him she popped 🙄

    • @sheldonmckenzieel2552
      @sheldonmckenzieel2552 2 месяца назад +54

      She is getting a full bouquet, yet she is concerned about other women getting 1 flower???

  • @wanderinggypsy3203
    @wanderinggypsy3203 8 дней назад +1

    Omg I wish I was in Arlette’s mind when she giggles!!

  • @LadeOla
    @LadeOla 2 месяца назад +690

    Bring back the Nurse professor and the flower guy

    • @notyourbusiness5488
      @notyourbusiness5488 2 месяца назад +4

      Nurse professor?

    • @MO-rl9gl
      @MO-rl9gl 2 месяца назад +11

      @@notyourbusiness5488 Yes. Nurse professor

    • @CapriThermilus
      @CapriThermilus 2 месяца назад +4

      Both good choices

    • @blessedbygod9248
      @blessedbygod9248 2 месяца назад +1

      I agree 😂

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 2 месяца назад +3

      @@MO-rl9gl I'm sure it was 'Nurse Practitioner' or am I tripping?

  • @AkilMcLeod
    @AkilMcLeod 2 месяца назад +212

    “Not a judgement of you or your character, just a preference” - that’s a great line right there!

  • @tiffanyd8595
    @tiffanyd8595 2 месяца назад +233

    The guy who gave the single flower to the ladies was thoughtful. Chivalry is not dead. ❤

    • @shandelbrown4335
      @shandelbrown4335 2 месяца назад +8

      They wouldn’t know chivalry even if it hit them in the face. She was definitely ungrateful.

    • @eastexotic
      @eastexotic 2 месяца назад +2

      Why would you wear sunglasses, indoors, when meeting someone for the first time? That is not respectful and strange.

    • @m.a.1874
      @m.a.1874 2 месяца назад

      @@eastexotic he was for sure anxious at first, he had good intentions but maybe tryed to hide himself behind the sunglasses. is a psyhologycal thing. my english is not good lol

  • @universallyauthentic9562
    @universallyauthentic9562 23 дня назад +1

    “The person you’re looking for is you”.
    Many spend a lifetime looking for love when the most purest and realest love comes from within. No one will…nor can they love you like you can. This is because no one knows you like you know you…”The good the bad and the ugly”.
    Society manipulates people into believing that a relationship, marriage, and children represents the highest vibration of love…when in fact, self love represents the highest vibration of love because most people DON’T EVEN LIKE THEMSELVES.
    We sacrifice our time, emotions, and energy for someone who may leave us when we “think we need” them the most.

  • @tipsyparadise
    @tipsyparadise 2 месяца назад +287

    WTF is the point in coming on the show if you’re going to be picky about everything… smh the fact that they did not match with NOT ONE MAN really says a lot these women on the show are silly AF

    • @Bkbeautydiys
      @Bkbeautydiys 2 месяца назад +4

      Facts!!

    • @x-el8186
      @x-el8186 2 месяца назад +6

      These are strange times fellas.....strange times indeed...😐🧐

    • @Essays4College
      @Essays4College 2 месяца назад +8

      ....and they're single moms too?! Crazy.

    • @jamdimon
      @jamdimon 2 месяца назад

      Been saying this for weeks! They dont care though, they'll still get exposure and men will flock to their IG's so they still get the pick of the litter.

    • @andreab7805
      @andreab7805 2 месяца назад

      Facts bruh 😒🙄

  • @CriticalTimez
    @CriticalTimez 2 месяца назад +346

    He gave her a bouquet of flowers, and she popped because he shared ONE with each lady whom he didn't choose or chose him. But he's the selfish one??? WOOOOW!!! SMDH!!

    • @ladygamer6969
      @ladygamer6969 2 месяца назад +34

      Possessive like he said. That was weird af

    • @ohhxsoxcynthia
      @ohhxsoxcynthia 2 месяца назад +13

      Like!!! And if you paid attention she grabbed 2 by accident. Her loss

    • @MD_715
      @MD_715 2 месяца назад +14

      Exactly he was being nice but it showed her true colors 🥱🥱🥱

    • @sugarcube2081
      @sugarcube2081 2 месяца назад +16

      I dont think she liked him at all, and she used the flowers thing as an excuse to pop her balloon.

    • @shantaagee8824
      @shantaagee8824 2 месяца назад +7

      He can call me.. they clueless

  • @awarem8739
    @awarem8739 2 месяца назад +373

    First girl in the blue has zero right telling others she’s not feeling their fit when she’s dressed in a Halloween costume and her chest is falling out

    • @arl4790
      @arl4790 2 месяца назад +36

      Exactly! And the gaudy mismatched jewelry talking about his is too much 😂

    • @indea7
      @indea7 2 месяца назад +43

      Definitely was giving princess jasmine costume 🤣🤣

    • @reencarter3888
      @reencarter3888 2 месяца назад +16

      Halloween costume 100 percent accurate

    • @dopeahhdani
      @dopeahhdani 2 месяца назад +7

      Period!😂

    • @indea7
      @indea7 2 месяца назад +17

      @@awarem8739 it was definitely showing too much. Very distasteful dress and attitude.

  • @janellegoolsby1583
    @janellegoolsby1583 Месяц назад +2

    1st guy is clean and everybody has a problem. NO one is looking for love!

  • @IamEvelynEvette
    @IamEvelynEvette 2 месяца назад +329

    The girl in the Aladdin costume is crazy for tripping over the flowers.

    • @Anewdayisdawningfosho
      @Anewdayisdawningfosho 2 месяца назад +14

      HAHAHAAAAAA. She-Ra.

    • @Amandaronell
      @Amandaronell 2 месяца назад +62

      Aladdin costume took me out🤣🤣🤣 I think she was upset because she didn’t get one and felt dumb after getting the bouquet.🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gboii08
      @gboii08 2 месяца назад +6

      She really annoyed me 😂😂

    • @cheries2002
      @cheries2002 2 месяца назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @TiffanyAndrea
      @TiffanyAndrea 2 месяца назад +1

      @@IamEvelynEvette lmao !!!

  • @shannaeeson8704
    @shannaeeson8704 2 месяца назад +304

    The lady in the red is stunning ❤ her energy, her looks, the way she carries herself x

    • @originalloverman
      @originalloverman Месяц назад +24

      There’s 3 lady in red ma’am be specific, are you the lady in red ?

    • @Dawgyjoe
      @Dawgyjoe Месяц назад +4

      @@originalloverman😂

    • @antioneholmes4590
      @antioneholmes4590 Месяц назад +11

      The Haitian woman with twins

    • @gudbyeblues
      @gudbyeblues Месяц назад +6

      @@originallovermanwe all know which lady in red he was talking about of course

    • @pscih7149
      @pscih7149 Месяц назад +4

      I liked Dina and the last girl at the end in red. Both extremely pretty women.

  • @4the1hood0
    @4the1hood0 2 месяца назад +408

    A unknown rapper saying
    You don’t have stability is insane

    • @misskaniyah
      @misskaniyah 2 месяца назад +3

      but I have stability, so this take is actually INSANE lmaoooooo

    • @adventureofacollegestudent219
      @adventureofacollegestudent219 2 месяца назад +2

      😂with her jealousy… no wonder he’s single 🤣… she wishes she could get the balloon back

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 месяца назад +25

      A rapper telling a non rapper they're too flashy is even more insane!😂

    • @oginoraha9994
      @oginoraha9994 2 месяца назад +22

      @@misskaniyah unemployment is stability?.. because you didnt mention a job

    • @PacoSmith
      @PacoSmith 2 месяца назад

      No doubt! 💯%

  • @Useronyt-k5u
    @Useronyt-k5u Месяц назад +2

    Arlette is everything!! Greetings from Bosnia 🇧🇦

  • @danafustos1914
    @danafustos1914 2 месяца назад +179

    Sometimes when men say “these women have crazy standards” I’m like 😒 “we just want someone to be respectful and considerate” but then I see things like this episode and I’m like “they’re right 🤣🤣🤣 you want a man that’s taller than you while you’re wearing 5inch heels and you’re 5’5” but a 6’ guy is not it” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Dawgyjoe
      @Dawgyjoe Месяц назад +3

      Even without seeing shows like this you should still believe it when men say it because every woman is not like you or have the same mindset with you.

    • @intentionalparenting2605
      @intentionalparenting2605 Месяц назад +4

      Exactly! Some of them are ridiculous.

    • @zandikhetwayo7444
      @zandikhetwayo7444 Месяц назад +1

      Bro as a girl who is actually 5’11, all I do is laugh at these videos😭🙏🏾

    • @11lululuv
      @11lululuv 6 дней назад

      i think this show isn’t an accurate representation because honestly i think most of the people who come on here aren’t actually serious about wanting to find love they just wanna be on a popular show