Inner Coach vs Inner Critic

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @BarbaraHeffernan
    @BarbaraHeffernan  3 года назад +5

    How is _your_ inner coach?

  • @tessellatiaartilery8197
    @tessellatiaartilery8197 Год назад +2

    Great video. This had so many concrete ideas. And yes, me too: definitely want my inner coach to sound like you. I could happily listen to you all day! But I won't forget that doing the work oneself is most important. And your channel is a great motivation and conduit for personal growth and change.

  • @edwinicq
    @edwinicq 3 месяца назад

    wow, very clear, easy to understand, and practical. good job!

  • @devibaebie8860
    @devibaebie8860 3 года назад +3

    Ooh, whoa. I design characters for written stories and my mind is blown by the idea of using that skill to create an inner coach. Thanks so much for just putting that idea out here for people 😊

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 года назад +1

      How terrific! I love that you design characters - and now would love to see your coach!

    • @devibaebie8860
      @devibaebie8860 3 года назад

      @@BarbaraHeffernan Im thinking carefully on it and will share it some time once finished.

  • @darrenfreeman4936
    @darrenfreeman4936 3 года назад +5

    Your videos are great! I like the idea of personalising the characters of inner critic and inner coach. Reminds me of transactional analysis with regards to the critical and nurturing parent.

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 года назад +1

      Yes, similar ideas! So glad you like the videos - thanks for letting me know!

  • @jonwebb6644
    @jonwebb6644 3 года назад +2

    The Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh has helped me out tremendously in this area.

  • @michelepattison9241
    @michelepattison9241 3 года назад +3

    My inner coach is Fred Rogers !

  • @holleywhittemore267
    @holleywhittemore267 3 года назад +1

    Thank you! So helpful and encouraging.💖

  • @ghadakadhum3095
    @ghadakadhum3095 2 месяца назад

    Afriend i knew in college
    The way she was amazed me and i didnot met anyone like her ever •

  • @2theja1
    @2theja1 3 года назад

    Thanks lots of learning

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen8036 2 года назад

    I'm ok.i sometimes find myself talking as if I gave myself advice . As if I spoke to mum. My physical bodily status could be better. I hold good views . TY.

  • @seleva_
    @seleva_ 4 месяца назад +1

    I call my inner coach "big sister". I communicate with her by writting a dialogue, just she and me. I keep a secret word file for our meetings. 😉

  • @spirited6
    @spirited6 3 года назад +2

    Hey, Ive benn dealing with derealization for a while. Is there any ways to help ?

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 года назад +1

      Therapists trained in dissociation can often help considerably with this.

  • @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc
    @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc Год назад

    The critic does not say YOU are..., I become the critic.
    There isn't really an "I", there is a throne and whichever complex (personality) sits in the throne becomes "I". So I tell myself I am negative things.

  • @mohdibrahim6313
    @mohdibrahim6313 3 года назад

    Hello Doctor. Got a question and need ur answer please. what an organic mental disorder means?

  • @mariahkim5404
    @mariahkim5404 Год назад

    Mam I need your help

  • @malemaline
    @malemaline 2 года назад

    How to know if therapy is effective?

  • @kattentissari3247
    @kattentissari3247 3 года назад

    My inner coach is like coach Hines of Mad tv

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 года назад

      lol - had to look him up - but -oops! we want an inner POSITIVE coach! Perhaps he is more like an inner critic?

  • @natasaprot1811
    @natasaprot1811 3 года назад

    My inner coach is coached by Iyanla Vanzant 😁

  • @phillyfan-182
    @phillyfan-182 3 года назад

    Like a professional athlete or a coach. Someone like Drew Brees or Sean Payton.