Disabled and Abandoned at Birth (Now He's a Father of 5)

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @LimitlessElevation
    @LimitlessElevation Год назад +6323

    Thanks so much for everything man it really means a lot to me. Im hoping to inspire people out there that are facing hard times. Wether they look like me or not. Its been hard as a kid growing up but I always knew I had a purpose. Its like I felt my kids presence even before they even existed. I hope my story can one day help me help my kids live in a better life where we don't need help with the government anymore. Thanks again for bringing awareness to those that struggle in many ways. Without you we wouldn't be seen out there. I've followed you for many years and it took me 8 years to contact you! It took a lot of courage to come forward especially with such a big audience but ut does feel like i lifted a bug weight off my shoulders and i know i hope others can relate and seek an interview with you! Much love to you and your family Chris 🙏🏼❤️

    • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
      @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  Год назад +771

      You are a great role model for your kids, but also many others. Thanks for being such a positive influence on this world. I loved meeting you and your family!

    • @maggiebrooks2550
      @maggiebrooks2550 Год назад +140

      God bless you, sweetheart😊

    • @OctagonCookies
      @OctagonCookies Год назад +162

      You’re awesome man

    • @zn3483
      @zn3483 Год назад +136

      You are amazing, Ariel. A true inspiration and a hero in so many ways. ❤Much love from Germany!

    • @Chynawhite31
      @Chynawhite31 Год назад +76

      Blessings, Ariel ❤

  • @Rosa-kf6yy
    @Rosa-kf6yy Год назад +2241

    Brought me to tears ..."I'd go through it all over again to have this family and be where I am today". You are breaking the chain of neglect Ariel. You are a rock star!!! God bless you.

  • @sarahmelody9366
    @sarahmelody9366 Год назад +1783

    Your mom was the only broken person in this story. You sir, are perfect.

    • @Sarlat7
      @Sarlat7 Год назад +238

      ...and his dad, who was apparently out partying and ignoring his existence too. It always kinda shocks me how little people blame fathers when the moms are being abusive - that's his kid too, why is it more acceptable that he never came in to raise his son? When you have an abusive dad, people instantly go "Where was his/her mom?!?!". The truth is, both parents were shit and both responsible for the abuse. He shouldn't have fathered a child if he was going to neglect them. This double standard needs to die.

    • @jeremiahallyn4603
      @jeremiahallyn4603 Год назад +27

      Very well said! I truly hope Ariel sees this comment and it makes him a little happier 😊

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Год назад +26

      ​@@Sarlat7To be fair, I see far more comments assuming the negative about fathers while excusing mothers. The mother was mentioned because Ariel only talked about his mother, so we don't know anything about his father...besides that he didn't grow up with him.

    • @sarahmelody9366
      @sarahmelody9366 Год назад

      @@jeremiahallyn4603 That would be awesome. I'd be happy for sure lol!

    • @sarahmelody9366
      @sarahmelody9366 Год назад +15

      @@Sarlat7 Agreed. I honestly thought it was insinuated by not mentioning him that he was without worth in this. Kind of not even worth mentioning. The mom I'm holding maybe MORE accountable because she should have already had 9 months to build the bond with the child. It seems in this case mom and dad were both respectively incubator and sperm donation cup.

  • @vickyoli
    @vickyoli Год назад +861

    I love when toxic circles are broken. He learned not to be like his parents and doing more than anyone would do. He is an amazing example to MANY.

    • @MyFirstHandle
      @MyFirstHandle Год назад +2

      He's a lucky man. His kids appears to be normal, he's going to be safe.

    • @armoredp
      @armoredp Год назад +5

      Sometimes you gain a deeper understanding by having experienced what not to do, than experiencing exactly how to do things.

    • @julieann1870
      @julieann1870 Год назад

    • @stevescott3735
      @stevescott3735 Год назад

      Well said

  • @paulineb66
    @paulineb66 Год назад +394

    Thank God for his grandmother. At least one family member stood by him. What a great role model he is for overcoming adversity.

  • @JayJay32186
    @JayJay32186 Год назад +843

    And how painful must it have been for the grandmother to see her own child fail at being a parent, while raising an incredibly medically complex child. That must have been very heart-breaking and she is also the hero of this story.

    • @saraheart2804
      @saraheart2804 Год назад +31

      Well said.

    • @joro241
      @joro241 Год назад +16

      @jacquelinejanas1187 EXTREMELY WELL SAID!❤

    • @chontang7562
      @chontang7562 Год назад +26

      I was thinking that too and couldn't help feeling sorry for the devoted grandma to have a daughter who strayed into becoming a drug addict.

    • @gsp3428
      @gsp3428 Год назад +11

      they didnt fail at being a parent, they failed at being a human being.

  • @classicalroach
    @classicalroach Год назад +2324

    This guy defines manhood and fatherhood. Look and learn boys.

  • @samwardcares
    @samwardcares Год назад +365

    It really hit me when his daughter said one of her favorite memories is swimming together (after hearing earlier in the video that he missed out on that as a kid himself). Beautiful example of generational healing 💛

    • @adeleennis2255
      @adeleennis2255 Год назад +30

      It also shows it’s the simple things that kids remember. Ariel’s kids are going to remember all the simple things their dad does to show his love each day.

    • @heart_towards_home
      @heart_towards_home Год назад +4

      ❤😊

  • @akwaabab8504
    @akwaabab8504 Год назад +987

    This man is amazing. He was rejected by his parents and raised by his grandparents, and they did a wonderful job. He has a loving relationship and beautiful children. He is more grounded and solid than most people I know!

    • @winonarogers9194
      @winonarogers9194 Год назад +20

      You are a wonderful person and a beautiful inspiration to us all.God bless you and your family. Your grandmother is a great example of what a real mother is and I am so glad you have her. God has blessed you with a lovely wife and children.

    • @kimberlyhobson8391
      @kimberlyhobson8391 Год назад

      ​@ImAKangwithnokingdomI

    • @emiliejose9877
      @emiliejose9877 Год назад +1

      Good testimony

    • @ripbeni6198
      @ripbeni6198 10 месяцев назад

      TRUE THAT! Amen! God bless the grandmother, this man, and his family!

  • @DJayAce4
    @DJayAce4 Год назад +556

    This guy embodies what a man is and should be, and it isn't surprising one bit that he ended up with a beautiful loving wife and family. Mad respect, hope the younger generation takes notes and learns from this man. This is super motivational. He lets nothing hold him back from achieving what he wants and deserves in life. If you two read this, thank you for spending the time to share your story. I'm incredibly thankful for it! Much love

    • @angelasteele7705
      @angelasteele7705 Год назад +12

      An examp!e of a real man!

    • @7somekindofsomething
      @7somekindofsomething Год назад +4

      Facts

    • @comoelitamelendez8467
      @comoelitamelendez8467 Год назад +6

      Exactly! I am so thankful to God for this channel highlighting incredible people who may not have been interviewed to hear their perspectives! ❤

  • @robertamitrano1432
    @robertamitrano1432 Год назад +673

    Now this is a real man! A man of intellect, courage, and abounding love. Superman is alive and well on SBSK. God bless you and your family, and abundant blessings on your grandmother.

    • @jeremiahallyn4603
      @jeremiahallyn4603 Год назад +25

      Absolutely! He is awesome, wish I could call him a friend.

  • @sarahvegangarden4822
    @sarahvegangarden4822 Год назад +460

    I'm impressed by Ariel's wife as well. A very loving and caring person. Hard work raising five young children!

    • @mda1218
      @mda1218 Год назад +2

      she didn’t marry him for his looks : all man there

    • @abjectmadness1111
      @abjectmadness1111 Год назад +10

      @@mda1218As it should be. I’m so done with people saying physically attraction is super important in a relationship. Absolute BS. Love is blind

  • @thamaraamarogarcia8160
    @thamaraamarogarcia8160 Год назад +448

    That grandmother is an angel for raising such a beautiful man! Dude is a blessing!😊

    • @b.gauthier8610
      @b.gauthier8610 Год назад +30

      I was thinking somewhat the same. I am sure she had her shortcomings - as for all of us. But her dedication to him while raising him left a legacy he can now give his own children, which he never got from his own parents.

    • @Thrivinglife3835
      @Thrivinglife3835 Год назад +9

      Yes! The grandma’s love sustained him and made him a fine young man.

  • @InvaderofSpace
    @InvaderofSpace Год назад +643

    Man what an amazing dude. Not bitter, not wallowing in self-pity, he persevered where others would have surely turned to drugs and alcohol to deal with the pain. He's a stronger man than probably most people I know, a real inspiration. I love this video.

    • @heart_towards_home
      @heart_towards_home Год назад +6

      For sure!! 👍

    • @echofoxtrot2.051
      @echofoxtrot2.051 Год назад +3

      Well said!! I third that!

    • @melr6235
      @melr6235 Год назад +5

      Truly an amazing man! You can’t even see his looks when you hear how he talks, it fades away. He has a beautiful soul. His wife is blessed.

    • @futurefunk88eddins96
      @futurefunk88eddins96 Год назад

      True true.

  • @LoveMyBoys3
    @LoveMyBoys3 10 месяцев назад +11

    I never pay attention to faces. I pay attention to souls. This man has a golden soul!

  • @alejandrawalker5045
    @alejandrawalker5045 Год назад +698

    Ariel
    If more sons, more husbands, more fathers were like you
    This world will be much, much better!
    You are admirable in every way

    • @Elanor4510
      @Elanor4510 Год назад +6

      Agreed!!

    • @ygpwnxd_xd752
      @ygpwnxd_xd752 Год назад

      @@Elanor4510👈 Sad story but a strong man with positive attitude and confident outcome. Only thing that bothers me is having 5 kids with the eldest being 10 yrs.
      It’s a handful but hope they have no more kids as they are not young anymore.
      Cost of living and raising so many kids is very difficult since he’s the only one who’s working since his wife has to take care of 5 kids .

    • @donniecatalano
      @donniecatalano Год назад +8

      I sure wish my father had been a decent one... sometimes I'm a bit jealous

    • @joanncoopertroupe3506
      @joanncoopertroupe3506 Год назад

      your Such and inspiring father and Husband..To bad more young men don't take your Story to Heart.. God bless you.. Jo Ann age 65 North Florida.. Lake City,fla

    • @zaiokari1698
      @zaiokari1698 Год назад +1

      These days I blame women more for failed families women on the loose!!

  • @Iloveyusomuch
    @Iloveyusomuch Год назад +855

    Those people didn't deserved a kid as strong as you man. You won over terrible odds, you won over neglect, you won over the violence of life. Stand proud, you deserve it.

    • @e.w3935
      @e.w3935 Год назад +9

      And won life by having the love and acceptance of his wife and kids.

    • @lavernevictoriacarol4531
      @lavernevictoriacarol4531 Год назад +10

      Sad to say, but Ariel's parents seriously missed out on knowing their amazing son. They needed prayers and so much themselves - sadly unable to give what they don't have give:(

    • @blueskies386
      @blueskies386 Год назад +14

      The name Ariel is from the Holy Bible, it means, "lion of God!" Yes, God made him courageous and strong!

    • @blueskies386
      @blueskies386 Год назад

      @@lavernevictoriacarol4531 I agree. Alcohol and drugs de-sensitize a person: that's a medical fact.
      They cannot empathize with anyone.
      As a former alcoholic/addict of about 6 or 7 years, (free now for about 24 years, by the Lord Jesus;) I can truly testify that it's so. The demonic influence of drugs and that of alcohol, robs a person of their ability t9 "feel." It's a rotten life. They need Jesus. But we ALL do. Ariel is loved by the Lord, but unless he turns to Him, he is lost too. "All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God." Romans 3:23 ALL.
      The really good news is this: God in his foreknowledge of us all, placed all our sins on Jesus at the Cross, and He has paid the price for them all. We only need believe on Him and accept His free gift with thanks and invite him int9 our hearts to be our Lord and Saviour. It works! I've had many miraculous answers to prayer over my decades of following Him.
      It's a joy and honor knowing Jesus personally.
      For He reveals Himself to all who call on Him sincerely.

    • @lavernevictoriacarol4531
      @lavernevictoriacarol4531 Год назад

      @@blueskies386 Beautiful! Ariel 'fits' his name to a 'T' and one day he will surely see The Lion of Judah face to face in his glorified and perfected body!

  • @enoch4499
    @enoch4499 Год назад +181

    His kids look alert and curious. That's one cute family.

  • @blufox7760
    @blufox7760 Год назад +358

    This man should be someone everyone should strive to be. He has so many reasons to be a bad person but instead he put his childhood behind him and chose to grow and have a family. That’s awesome.

  • @ManicMama.
    @ManicMama. Год назад +271

    "There are people worse than me, some people aren't able to see at all.. I don't let it keep me down" I applaud this man for keeping such a positive outlook on life! He seems like a wonderful dad, you can tell he's determined to give his kids the love and care his parents failed to give him. Such a beautiful family ❤

  • @bittertoothig
    @bittertoothig Год назад +246

    him saying he would relive his childhood again if it guaranteed him to be with his wife shows how much he really cares for her. i wish him and his family the best 💖

  • @jaroneller1525
    @jaroneller1525 Год назад +280

    i nearly teared up when Chris asked if there's anything unique about Ariel and the first thing his son said is that he's a good dad. i cant believe how affirming it must be to get to raise your kids with such love and devotion you wished you had and hear them talk about you like this. all the best, man ❤

  • @KindMeg
    @KindMeg Год назад +456

    What a cool dude who’s been through a lot. Thank God for his grandparents! 💜🙏🏼💜

    • @openminds8765
      @openminds8765 Год назад +9

      He is Sooooo brave and strong to be able to relate his story to us all to grow and learn. Ariel and is family are living the Fullness of Humanity 💫 Keep being You Dude✅ the world is a better place with you🌏

    • @btbb3726
      @btbb3726 Год назад +9

      Interesting. . . “Cool Dude” was exactly what came into my mind too!

    • @erikak8187
      @erikak8187 Год назад

      @@btbb3726 yes. His enigma is very captivating. Stand up man. I my self have overcome with adversity. I have Williams syndrome. And I’ve been through so much.. it hasn’t been tough. My parents have been there for me every step of the way. I miss them. My parents gave me a life that I am thankfull for. In my early twenty’s I was in an agency that gave me support . I saw a lot of things that I can’t unsee. I saw a lot of parents not involved in their sons nor daughters life. It breaks my heart. So the agency I’m with now is very family oriented. The parents are very involved.

  • @carolinagurl22
    @carolinagurl22 Год назад +119

    “We all have a purpose” is exactly right. Kudos to this man for not giving up on life; a true inspiration.

  • @praisegod7608
    @praisegod7608 Год назад +3

    Thanks!

  • @TheChroniclesOfYarnia
    @TheChroniclesOfYarnia Год назад +198

    This is what a REAL man looks like. Genuine human, Loving husband, dedicated father. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ci6742
    @ci6742 Год назад +162

    If people focused less on physical appearances and more on the person on the inside there would be a lot less discrimination against people with disabilities and facial differences. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so happy to hear that you have taken those painful experiences from your childhood to become the best version of yourself that you could be. ❤

  • @jerrylaninolan923
    @jerrylaninolan923 Год назад +97

    God bless his grandmother! and the doctors and nurses who took care of him. And his very wise wife who is a good judge of character. This is an uplifting story. Thank you, Ariel, for being so strong. You deserve this loving family.

  • @sunbirdsc
    @sunbirdsc Год назад +84

    I wish I could like this 1000 times. What an amazing story! From being unloved by his own parents to being a loving, honorable husband and father to many children. He’s changing his family tree by choosing love and responsibility and joy.

  • @brooklyn7216
    @brooklyn7216 Год назад +64

    Ugh the way he holds his daughter’s hand ( 10:37 ) and looks at her…just so heartwarming. You can SEE the love he has for his children beaming through him

  • @cindysemblante4411
    @cindysemblante4411 Год назад +180

    Im honored to watch this. This man’s Grandparents showed up for him and taught him about love and being accepted. Fast forward and his children are blessed to have a dad that truly loves them and is hands on with them, teaching them and enjoying making memories they will always have to cherish and look back on.

  • @JayJay32186
    @JayJay32186 Год назад +174

    It’s so beautiful that his daughter’s favorite thing to do with him is swimming, which he wasn’t able to do when he was a kid. ❤

    • @pmc2999
      @pmc2999 Год назад +19

      Yes, that's what I thought something he couldn't do as a child he now shares with his daughter. Perfect.

    • @TrueDesta
      @TrueDesta Год назад +5

      This was the most poignant moment for me, too!

    • @Skr8955-f3c
      @Skr8955-f3c Год назад

    • @alicerodriguez3724
      @alicerodriguez3724 Год назад +2

      That literally made me bawl healing his inner child with his children 😭🫶🏼

  • @DanSedaPhD
    @DanSedaPhD Год назад +77

    What horrific treatment of this kind man by his biological mother. Thank God for his grandmother. So proud of this father for so many reasons. Love, Dr. Dan

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 Год назад +10

    I really hope the Grandmother has lived to see these beautiful great grandbabies that thanks to her caring, loving heart and hard work are in this world.

  • @y.s.a743
    @y.s.a743 Год назад +91

    Wow! Many people would only wish for a father like this guy! In the long run, no one will care about the way you look, but they will remember how you made them feel. Despite all of his obstacles, he's pushed through and become an example to his heartless "parents". Keeping doing what you do! Your children won the lottery with you! ❤

  • @Profumoditoti
    @Profumoditoti Год назад +139

    Dude is a stud! Beautiful family! Love this guy! Thanks for sharing your story!

    • @prettygirlzful
      @prettygirlzful Год назад +6

      First thing I thought when I started watching! Handsome! Wish I was like, 40 years younger!!❤

    • @RecoveringChristian
      @RecoveringChristian Год назад +7

      Plus the tattoos!

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 Год назад +7

      @@RecoveringChristian
      Lol, love your user name!
      I'm one too!

    • @maxwhite8616
      @maxwhite8616 Год назад +2

      He is better looking than me and I'm slightly under average

    • @Jaizizzizi
      @Jaizizzizi Год назад +2

      @@maxwhite8616it’s not about a rating for being handsome it is about how others perceive you. Someon might think that you are way above average

  • @lt8901
    @lt8901 Год назад +80

    This is the epitome of the healthy and empowered masculine man. What a truly beautiful interview. I'm incredibly happy for this man and his family, sothankful he got a chance at life and is raising children. Someone with such a pure heart as him (and his wife) need to be the kind of people bringing children into this world.

  • @jwalt8019
    @jwalt8019 Год назад +154

    Ariel, you are THE true definition of what it means to be a high valued man. In spite of ALL of your struggles, you made a decision to be the absolute best husband and the best father that you can be. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family.🙏🏾💜

  • @KimmyH34
    @KimmyH34 6 дней назад +1

    His wife is an absolute blessing to the world. She is so accepting and completed this mans life fully. I am so impressed.❤❤❤

  • @belleame1064
    @belleame1064 Год назад +70

    Love the fact that he took the time to thank his grandmother by discussing her. That's an honor!

  • @jeremiahallyn4603
    @jeremiahallyn4603 Год назад +89

    Unbelievable that Ariel was abandoned by his "parents." That poor guy, I'm sorry he had to go through that. However, I bet he was better off in the long run. What a great man, I hope he has a long and happy life 🫶🙏

  • @BNHAalltheway
    @BNHAalltheway Год назад +72

    What a wonderful person how great for his Grandma for raising him

    • @peterpatton2867
      @peterpatton2867 Год назад +1

      Yes, Thank GOD! I am so glad that his grandmother didn't give up on him!
      Thank you and I pray you are a blessed grandma!

  • @lindyloohoo
    @lindyloohoo Год назад +58

    Lots of love for his grandmother

  • @kimberlyr.7199
    @kimberlyr.7199 Год назад +190

    I was without a dad growing up, I would have been so proud to have this man as my father! You are truly a real man! 🤗🌈

  • @melissareynolds1230
    @melissareynolds1230 Год назад +40

    What a wonderful man and father, and a terrific partner (his wife). The love and respect are obvious.

  • @maggiepanning356
    @maggiepanning356 Год назад +180

    I cried through this whole interview. My constant wish is for all children to feel as loved as my son does, so first I cried tears of sadness for Ariel, that he did not feel this love and security as a child. And then I cried tears of joy because Ariel is righting the wrongs done to him by giving his children all of the love and security that were never given to him. His children are so lucky to have him as his dad. And I’m so happy that Ariel has all of them and his wife to be loved by in return. A beautiful interview. Thank you SBSK.

  • @lindamarie6574
    @lindamarie6574 Год назад +90

    God bless him and his grandmother!

  • @InazumaDash
    @InazumaDash Год назад +111

    Awesome dad and family. I don't think they could've scored a better dad than you in a million years. :)

  • @mariakatechis7072
    @mariakatechis7072 Год назад +33

    I wish there were more husbands ,dads ,persons out there like you ! God bless you and your beautiful family ! Thank you to your grandma for being there for you for raising you what a special person she is !!!!!!!!

  • @にゃんぱす-c1m
    @にゃんぱす-c1m 10 месяцев назад +5

    “i would relive to childhood to have what i have now” man, he suffered SO MUCH yet he’s thankful of the present and he’d do it again. i’m so happy for him

  • @mollyfinn1010
    @mollyfinn1010 Год назад +31

    This man has integrity galore, and he's gorgeous inside and out.

  • @sajhaeden8021
    @sajhaeden8021 Год назад +62

    Bless his heart and his grandparents. You can hear the intelligence in his voice

  • @susansollee1839
    @susansollee1839 Год назад +40

    I’m thankful your grandmother was always in your corner ❤️
    Congratulations on you wonderful wife and children.🌻👍🏻❤️

  • @lisapavlica5634
    @lisapavlica5634 Год назад +17

    Truly, your parents loss. You seem like an amazing man and a wonderful husband and father. Your kids are so lucky to have you. I wish you all nothing but happiness.

  • @sadie4538
    @sadie4538 Год назад +13

    This man is a class act! To say he would relive his childhood again - wow! God bless you Ariel and your lovely family.

  • @lindyloohoo
    @lindyloohoo Год назад +54

    Oh my god he’s a beautiful man. And his family is just as beautiful 🥰 him saying he’d relive his childhood again if he was guaranteed this family makes me so happy to hear. I love that he’s finally happy

  • @zachbonney7372
    @zachbonney7372 Год назад +44

    What an amazing man, father and person!! He and his wife are raising 5 great little kids!!
    His tattoos are awesome too!

  • @libbyjune2336
    @libbyjune2336 Год назад +54

    There’s something really special about this family. You can tell how close they are. That’s the power of strong fatherly love.

  • @Djrob515
    @Djrob515 Год назад +27

    Their kids are gorgeous. I’m glad he found someone to love him and build a family with.

  • @kathyw3466
    @kathyw3466 Год назад +17

    Bless Grandma. What a wonderful family. They have something that many people don't have -Love . This man shows the clear difference of being a victim and being a survivor. God bless from Australia.

  • @gavinmcktrenna1351
    @gavinmcktrenna1351 Год назад +43

    God bless this man. Another example of a mother being a terrible mother. Did that stop him? Hell no. He’s a tank. 3 or 4 surgery’s a year? That’s insane. His endurance is unmatched. And it’s awesome to see him with a loving family. Absolutely astounding. Inspiring.

  • @erinchillmusic8930
    @erinchillmusic8930 Год назад +36

    My mother had BPD and abandoned me when I was 1 year old. I have been trying to learn self worth most of my life. It is hard and a life long battle many cannot understand unless you’ve lived it. I feel like I was raised by my grandparents too. My sister committed suicide a few years back….after trying to confront her. Thank you for sharing your story and giving strength to the rest of us. You are AMAZING

    • @isabellrc
      @isabellrc Год назад +5

      I’m sending you love, compassion and understanding. BPD is not an easy diagnosis. I’m very sorry you went through this, and lost your sister by suicide; I lost my brother as well. Seek out people who care for you. Yet, take care of you first. Blessings to your Grandparents too!

    • @sunshine9122
      @sunshine9122 Год назад +7

      I'm so sorry, Erin. Sending lots of love and big hugs your way.❤

  • @sarahschrak8364
    @sarahschrak8364 Год назад +20

    When he said he was left out of swimming and then his oldest daughters favorite memory is swimming with her dad… that got me.

  • @aartadventure
    @aartadventure Год назад +18

    This guy is the best qualities of humanity, and birthed from the worst, which makes him simply incredible.

  • @lmorter7867
    @lmorter7867 Год назад +47

    I love how he uses his difficult past to rise high and use it to be a loving and nurturing parent. This tells me that no matter what we are dealt with in life we can choose to use it as a stepping stone or a weight. Keep stepping up bro!

  • @BeautyMonster1000
    @BeautyMonster1000 Год назад +71

    This man is amazing for being a real man and a real father. Some people don't deserve to have children but I'm glad Ariel exists to be there for his own children, despite the fact that his "parents" abandoned him. If you do that, you don't deserve children. I don't care what's different about your kid, if you can't handle that, don't have them in the first place. That's not something I feel is difficult to understand. As someone with special needs myself, that's something I wish possible future parents would consider. Don't just assume your kid will be born problem free. You have to be realistic. If you don't have it in you to deal with possible problems that may come up, don't have children because you aren't meant to if that's something you can't handle to the point that you abandon your own kids. That part really enraged me. However, Ariel's whole family is beautiful and I'm glad he's there for them.

  • @MamaStyles
    @MamaStyles Год назад +37

    As someone who was raised by her grandmother when her mom didn’t want to be a parent..I too couldn’t wait to have a family!I’m a single mom of four teens…One of whom I just adopted when his parents tossed him out ❤Ita hard being a single mom and putting food on the table but like Ariel, it’s what I was born to do. Ariel you inspire me so much…. Know there are many of us lost children out there who are changing it for the next generation. The love you showed for your family brought me to tears ❤❤❤ and you and your wife are awesome parents to some pretty awesome kids ! Best of luck and keep being you!

  • @toadman5184
    @toadman5184 Год назад +23

    Amazing man, lovely wife, adorable kids. Great tattoos!

  • @frosthoe
    @frosthoe Год назад +33

    I salute you sir. I may have grown up rough , but you weathered a hurricane and survived!
    I want you to know that so many people would have loved you and cared just like your Gramma, and bless her too.
    After all your troubles it sounds like you both deserve a lottery day. I am so glad you found someone to love and share your life with.
    Best wishes Ariel ! I really mean that , best wishes friend! You made it!😋🥲😍

  • @markenstravels9403
    @markenstravels9403 Год назад +7

    God bless his grandparents who raised him into the good man he is. I'm sure his grandparents are so proud and happy for him and have no regrets about raising him. He turned into a good man.

  • @meursaultscourtroom8886
    @meursaultscourtroom8886 Год назад +33

    What a resilient person you are Ariel. Your Grandma sounds like a lovely lady and I'm glad she was able to be supportive while you went through your childhood and on your medical journey. It's great to see someone succeed against such tough odds and thriving with your family. Your children are lucky to have such a strong and loving Dad

  • @eileenbodington5646
    @eileenbodington5646 Год назад +35

    What a great guy. So intelligent and well spoken. Beautiful family! Inspiring.

  • @judyg2889
    @judyg2889 Год назад +17

    Despite the trials and terrible parents. He has turned out to be a wonderful man and Father . Ariel deserves an award for becoming such a Amazing human being, having such Love and compassion. Thank you for his Grandma being there and a pillar for him.

  • @synalodoko4008
    @synalodoko4008 10 месяцев назад +2

    ''No matter how we look we all have purpose '' such caring and loving father with beautiful children 🥺❤️💯

  • @katietsykal4053
    @katietsykal4053 Год назад +6

    Even if mom wasn't there , love came from grandma. It propelled him forward.

  • @GA-hu6qm
    @GA-hu6qm Год назад +35

    Your grandmother's love for and commitment to you created a safe environment for you to grow into the man you are today. Your love and commitment to your family will pass on to your children. You were created for a purpose, and you are fulfilling it.

  • @BaileyB1011
    @BaileyB1011 Год назад +12

    So thankful he now has the loving family he deserved all along 🩵

  • @angeladomer4813
    @angeladomer4813 Год назад +18

    Super cute kids. Good to meet your beautiful family.

  • @radmum6493
    @radmum6493 11 месяцев назад +3

    Wow such amazing person. With lovey wife and children. Respect 🫡 to you atrial. 😊🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @jodyariewitz7349
    @jodyariewitz7349 Год назад +1

    What a truly beautiful human being he turned out to be, despite having such a tough first act!!❤👏👍🏻👌✊

  • @judgejenny2251
    @judgejenny2251 Год назад +7

    WOW! What an amazing father and husband! He deserves the world!❤

  • @davidcopperfield-DickensBook
    @davidcopperfield-DickensBook Год назад +5

    Good grandmothers rock! I am glad you are showing what can happen to the precious baby when the pregnant mother does drugs. Sickening behavior! Thank you for sharing your life with us!

    • @isabellrc
      @isabellrc Год назад +1

      Yes, we as Grandmother’s can be a blessing.

  • @canditate740
    @canditate740 Год назад +8

    I almost cried. I’m so happy he has a loving family in his adult life. His grandma was a God sent. May he live long and strong ❤

  • @barbaricbri
    @barbaricbri Год назад +1

    God bless his grandmother for taking him in

  • @MsKatana1973
    @MsKatana1973 Год назад +47

    How can a mother abandon her baby just cause of the way they are born? You sir are strong and achieved alot in life, im glad your grandparents raised you. What a beautiful family you have ❤

    • @darleneengebretsen1468
      @darleneengebretsen1468 Год назад +14

      It's more likely that Ariel was abandoned not because of his deformities, but because of his parents' drug addiction - which probably caused the deformities in the first place. I notice that there is no mention of his grandfather being in the picture .So grandmother was probably dealing with all of his special needs and operations on her own. Anyway, Ariel is indeed an inspiration and a hero. It also takes a good heart for his wife to have seen the value of his heart despite his appearance. I will share this story online. The world needs more folks like this man and his beautiful loving family.

    • @omgwhythough
      @omgwhythough 9 месяцев назад +2

      Not only was she presumably more concerned with drugs, but she also probably felt shame on some level for potentially causing his condition, and may have acted her negative feelings out against him. People tend to scapegoat those they've hurt in order to feel better about themselves. It's super toxic but it's common.

  • @tommy7fun
    @tommy7fun Год назад +7

    God bless his wonderful Grandmother. He's a special man and I'm so glad he has a good loving wife and adorable kids. They're blessed to have such a great Dad.

  • @skylarsky3173
    @skylarsky3173 Год назад +13

    Ariel, you are a wonderful gentleman!

  • @Anetata.
    @Anetata. Год назад +21

    Very moving story, your grandma did a great job raising such a beautiful human being. Great to see you happy and surrounded by people who love you. Greets and hugs to you and all your family.

  • @DebbieSeitler-wo2po
    @DebbieSeitler-wo2po Год назад +2

    God be with you and your kids well my mother gave me up when I was three days old and didn't want anything to do with me my grandma and grandpa rest me up ❤

  • @caroleroseburgh1344
    @caroleroseburgh1344 Год назад +1

    This is the beautiful story ‼️ with beautiful kids and wife ‼️

  • @theinvertebratequeen
    @theinvertebratequeen Год назад +29

    This man has been through some crap in his life, I'm so glad that he is still here to be a brilliant father to his five children. Full respect to Ariel. Life is never easy but it dealt him one hell of a hand considering how crappy his parents were to him. It's good to see that he hasn't fallen into the ways of his parents as many do when they have childhood trauma. Seems like he uses that pain as a motivator which is very inspiring as it is SO easy to let it get on top of you and envelope you completely.

  • @twistedcryptid
    @twistedcryptid Год назад +10

    He’s a good looking guy, pretty wife, and is nice he’s finally able to be happy and normal. So happy for them! And so happy his grandma stepped up and took care of him.

  • @dundeeecroc
    @dundeeecroc Год назад +2

    You are a GREAT man Ariel!! Amen Brother!

  • @wowzatrishiebunz
    @wowzatrishiebunz Год назад +17

    This man is incredible and I love how strong he is. I like that he is being the best parent to his kids. Talk about breaking the cycle of abuse. This young man should be so proud.

  • @koguma8823
    @koguma8823 Год назад +18

    what a sad story. i know this word is overused but his strength is genuinely inspiring. i'm wishing the very best for ariel and his family

  • @Drana
    @Drana Год назад +15

    Hey buddy, you are normal. Don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise. Thanks for sharing your story, Ariel. I wish you and your family well.

  • @thedarkside7508
    @thedarkside7508 Год назад +18

    You are the perfect example for how even with a bad start a life can turn into something so important and amazing. The seed of love you plant in your kids will continue on long after you're gone. Well done! All the best to you, man.

  • @leopereirafilho1456
    @leopereirafilho1456 Год назад +22

    My family and I loved this video! You are such a wonderful dad, man! I wish you had a dad like yourself and I wish my boy will be exactly like you!

  • @joymontague251
    @joymontague251 Год назад +10

    Glad you had a wonderful Grandma and if you had a wonderful Grandpa too. Glad the doctors gave you surgeries and your Grandma was there for you to advocate for you. Glad you have a wonderful life with your wife and family and they have you.

  • @francinelimon379
    @francinelimon379 Год назад +15

    Amazing man.