I’m 29. I have men trying to tell me, I am old. That I’m not young anymore, it’s wrong how society try to make women feel horrible about themselves. 40 is not old. I can’t wait to be in my 30s, I see my 20s for myself as a baby still becoming an adult. I felt like a kid up until my late 20s. I feel like I a grown ass woman with some sense of the world now. Before I didn’t know myself and my worth. Now I know everything I need is within me. The only opinion I need about myself comes from me. Every else opinion about me doesn’t matter. The only other person who knows my heart, mind and spirt is god. Every woman out there don’t ever let a man put you down or family members. You’re a queen regardless of your past and if you don’t feel like you’re in the right place. You are in the right place. Trust in god and trust in yourself. This world can be ugly but there’s alot of beauty. It’s a balacne. Don’t give up on yourself. You deserve to be happy and to feel loved.
Tell them Sis!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That’s INSANE that a man would even have the thought to say that 29 years old is old?!!! 🤯 The levels of ignorance is incomprehensible. Smh I’m so happy that God has given you great wisdom and common sense to know that those men are ignorant! I remember being your age like it was yesterday. It’s a great age! I started standing up for myself and stop being a pushover with fake friends and toxic family members. Thank you so much for watching and commenting on my little video. I appreciate it so greatly!! 🤗🫶🏽
Yes I’m an 87 baby and I’m scared lol but now that I’ve gotten older, I realize that we can still look and feel young. But it is an interesting space, because it isn’t young but it isn’t old. I’m a very youthful person at heart & ppl often think I’m in my 20s. I’m glad that I don’t have any grey hair yet lol I guess all I can do is age gracefully and do my best. It just gets annoying hearing people on the internet say that late 30s and 40s are old and washed up, especially when single and childless. I guess I can just tune that out and enjoy my grown womanhood. Thanks for this video sis 🩷
@@AmberBrooklyn24 Gurlll, I remember when I turned 37 and how I felt. I was freaking all the way out. 🤣🤣 Now I look back, and I’m like, why? Lol But I get it, Sis! It definitely hits different when you’re single and childless, but when I think about it, I’m so grateful that God didn’t allow me to settle for any and anyone because I needed to tick a box. Also, the growth and maturity that I have experienced since then I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Nothing before God‘s timing. One more thing!! (😂) when I look at all of the beautiful, GORGEOUS women in their 40’s and 50’s, looking like they’re in their 20’s and 30’s I breathed a sigh of relief!!! 🤣🤣🤣Thank you SO much for watching and commenting. I feel so blessed my little video is blessing so many women.
Thank you for these words of encouragement. I'm in my mid 30s and I've got to say so far 30s is way more fun than my 20s. I've gotten a lot done in my 20s. However my 30s is when im really starting to enjoy the fruits of my labor. People still mistake me for a 20 something and my weight is on a healthy decline. I feel good, look good, happily married (no kids), and am in a decent financial situation. I think men and businesses try to trick us into moving too quickly in our youth. That way we don't have as much time to think important decisions through and many of us wind up wasting a lot of time on toxic people and jobs. Worst still many children are brought into this world, not as gifts, but as an unwanted pregnancies or simply boxes to be ticked off sucess bucket lists. No shame in living your best life at any age. I always thought it was a stupid concept to only enjoy the first 25 years of your life while the other 50+ is just boredom and stress. No thanks. Society can miss me with that bs
@@veedem2506 Wowowowowowow!!! Girl!!! You dropped SO many bars!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 You’re so right about people (especially women) rushing into things to tick the box off on the list. 💯👏🏽 I agree your 30’s are a great time! You learn how to start standing up for yourself, saying no, I can’t do this or make it to your event, grow in wisdom and all the tingz. Hahaha That you so much for sharing and watching! I was hoping that women in their mid-30’s would also watch this video. This is so encouraging. May God continue to bless you! 🫶🏽
You have so much patience for the b*tt hurt men in your comments. Lol. That's right. People need to mind their business!!!!! Women just need to live their lives as they see fit whatever their age.
@@zeewann 🤣🤣🤣 I laugh because they’re clearly average, run of the mill, Joe Shmoe’s throwing shade because they could only “dream” of having a beautiful high value woman without being super rich. I don’t see them! 😂😂 I thank them for watching my video, and for bringing attention to it and my channel! I WON!! 🙌🏽😂🤣 Enough about them, THANK YOU SO MUCH for your support, your kind comment, and for watching!! 🤗🙏🏽🫶🏽
This came across my feed. The host is attractive. Strictly based on looks, I'd date her. But like any woman or man in their 40s who are trying to get the best partner, best anything, it starts with trying to be the best version of you. And it also is being honest about yourself. I am harder on myself than others are. Brothers celebrate sisters who have done great things be it Simone Biles, or being the first black woman in excel in any field. That said, when it comes to relationships, its a mine field out there for both genders. I tend to see both genders generalize about the other gender. There are over 40 million of us in all socio economic groups, all over the country, and generalizing is both wrong but inaccurate. I don't blame anyone for my bad relationships but myself as it was my choice and I didn't spot red flags enough, when I was younger I was wrong at times and had to make changes. Good luck to us all....we need it.
Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and your compliment. I’m curious, do you think I was generalizing or dissing men in this video? Because that was certainly not my intent.
People offer reasonable advice about having children at an older age, but this irrational woman dismisses it with 'shut up.' Some women think it's cool to rebel against good advice, but such behavior can be foolish and self-destructive.
@@flauze This woman? Irrational for who? My name is the name of my channel and repeated in this video. Secondly, everyone has a right to their own opinion and beliefs. Anywho, thank you for watching and commenting on my video. It brings engagement and attention to my channel. 😁
@@thefifthdon1lol actually I’m not even 40. & you ASSumed that I’m single, wrongly at that 😂 Funny you want to cry about being rude yet you came into this woman’s comment section & called her old. I was asking a simple question, but you got offended lol I’m guessing you are 40 & over, or the hair just ran away early, idk lol Women don’t find that attractive 😊
@@thefifthdon1 you know what’s so funny, people assume that you’re single because you can’t find someone. Anyone can pick up a man and make them their baby father or settle for someone that they’re not in love with or attracted to and make them their husband. There are a lot of us out here that are not willing to compromise and that’s why we are single. Boy bye! 👋🏽 You tried it!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m 29. I have men trying to tell me, I am old. That I’m not young anymore, it’s wrong how society try to make women feel horrible about themselves. 40 is not old. I can’t wait to be in my 30s, I see my 20s for myself as a baby still becoming an adult. I felt like a kid up until my late 20s. I feel like I a grown ass woman with some sense of the world now. Before I didn’t know myself and my worth. Now I know everything I need is within me. The only opinion I need about myself comes from me. Every else opinion about me doesn’t matter. The only other person who knows my heart, mind and spirt is god. Every woman out there don’t ever let a man put you down or family members. You’re a queen regardless of your past and if you don’t feel like you’re in the right place. You are in the right place. Trust in god and trust in yourself. This world can be ugly but there’s alot of beauty. It’s a balacne. Don’t give up on yourself. You deserve to be happy and to feel loved.
Tell them Sis!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That’s INSANE that a man would even have the thought to say that 29 years old is old?!!! 🤯 The levels of ignorance is incomprehensible. Smh I’m so happy that God has given you great wisdom and common sense to know that those men are ignorant! I remember being your age like it was yesterday. It’s a great age! I started standing up for myself and stop being a pushover with fake friends and toxic family members. Thank you so much for watching and commenting on my little video. I appreciate it so greatly!! 🤗🫶🏽
Yes I’m an 87 baby and I’m scared lol but now that I’ve gotten older, I realize that we can still look and feel young. But it is an interesting space, because it isn’t young but it isn’t old. I’m a very youthful person at heart & ppl often think I’m in my 20s. I’m glad that I don’t have any grey hair yet lol I guess all I can do is age gracefully and do my best. It just gets annoying hearing people on the internet say that late 30s and 40s are old and washed up, especially when single and childless. I guess I can just tune that out and enjoy my grown womanhood. Thanks for this video sis 🩷
@@AmberBrooklyn24 Gurlll, I remember when I turned 37 and how I felt. I was freaking all the way out. 🤣🤣 Now I look back, and I’m like, why? Lol But I get it, Sis! It definitely hits different when you’re single and childless, but when I think about it, I’m so grateful that God didn’t allow me to settle for any and anyone because I needed to tick a box. Also, the growth and maturity that I have experienced since then I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Nothing before God‘s timing. One more thing!! (😂) when I look at all of the beautiful, GORGEOUS women in their 40’s and 50’s, looking like they’re in their 20’s and 30’s I breathed a sigh of relief!!! 🤣🤣🤣Thank you SO much for watching and commenting. I feel so blessed my little video is blessing so many women.
Thank you for these words of encouragement. I'm in my mid 30s and I've got to say so far 30s is way more fun than my 20s. I've gotten a lot done in my 20s. However my 30s is when im really starting to enjoy the fruits of my labor. People still mistake me for a 20 something and my weight is on a healthy decline. I feel good, look good, happily married (no kids), and am in a decent financial situation. I think men and businesses try to trick us into moving too quickly in our youth. That way we don't have as much time to think important decisions through and many of us wind up wasting a lot of time on toxic people and jobs. Worst still many children are brought into this world, not as gifts, but as an unwanted pregnancies or simply boxes to be ticked off sucess bucket lists. No shame in living your best life at any age. I always thought it was a stupid concept to only enjoy the first 25 years of your life while the other 50+ is just boredom and stress. No thanks. Society can miss me with that bs
@@veedem2506 Wowowowowowow!!! Girl!!! You dropped SO many bars!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 You’re so right about people (especially women) rushing into things to tick the box off on the list. 💯👏🏽 I agree your 30’s are a great time! You learn how to start standing up for yourself, saying no, I can’t do this or make it to your event, grow in wisdom and all the tingz. Hahaha That you so much for sharing and watching! I was hoping that women in their mid-30’s would also watch this video. This is so encouraging. May God continue to bless you! 🫶🏽
Tisha, this is exactly what i needed to hear!! Thanks for this video, will look back on this often.❤❤
@@nickieh.2838 Awww… blessings Sis!! I’m so glad!! To God be the Glory!! It’s nice over here!! 🫶🏽
i finally thought I was grown. when i turned 40
@@RenneaAvery-graham yasssss!!! 💯💯💯😂
@@tishainnisyou ever go on podcast ? Like on panels too talk about topics?
@ Hi!!👋🏽 No, not yet. I plan on starting one though. 😊
Thank you Thank you Thank you! Preach! I needed to hear this ❤
Awww… thank you so much for commenting and watching!! To God be the Glory! 🫶🏽❤️
The truth is you give zero F. You want to protect your peace above everything
@@moniquejones379 There’s Jesus first, then my peace! 💯🤣 Thank you so much for commenting!! God bless you Sis.🫶🏽🙏🏽
Ok but you have an amazing skin
@@olgaabuz6276 Awww… thank you. 😊 🫶🏽
I joke with my mom that I’m gonna be fine..forrrevaah. Eartha kit, Tina Turner, Angela Bassett fine
@@learningearning8385 Purrrrrr Poo!!! 💯💯💯💯😂🙌🏽🫶🏽
You have so much patience for the b*tt hurt men in your comments. Lol. That's right. People need to mind their business!!!!! Women just need to live their lives as they see fit whatever their age.
@@zeewann 🤣🤣🤣 I laugh because they’re clearly average, run of the mill, Joe Shmoe’s throwing shade because they could only “dream” of having a beautiful high value woman without being super rich. I don’t see them! 😂😂 I thank them for watching my video, and for bringing attention to it and my channel! I WON!! 🙌🏽😂🤣 Enough about them, THANK YOU SO MUCH for your support, your kind comment, and for watching!! 🤗🙏🏽🫶🏽
This came across my feed. The host is attractive. Strictly based on looks, I'd date her. But like any woman or man in their 40s who are trying to get the best partner, best anything, it starts with trying to be the best version of you. And it also is being honest about yourself. I am harder on myself than others are. Brothers celebrate sisters who have done great things be it Simone Biles, or being the first black woman in excel in any field. That said, when it comes to relationships, its a mine field out there for both genders. I tend to see both genders generalize about the other gender. There are over 40 million of us in all socio economic groups, all over the country, and generalizing is both wrong but inaccurate. I don't blame anyone for my bad relationships but myself as it was my choice and I didn't spot red flags enough, when I was younger I was wrong at times and had to make changes. Good luck to us all....we need it.
Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and your compliment. I’m curious, do you think I was generalizing or dissing men in this video? Because that was certainly not my intent.
This is so wise🎉
This is a word, wow.
@@imjoceagirl Thank you so much!! 🥹 To God be the glory hun. ❤️
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I would’ve thought you were in your 30s!
@@abena8339 I get that a lot! Those who don’t know me personally never think I’m in my 40’s. Lol Thank you! 😊
You still on time to delete this bs
Yet I won’t! Thank you for watching! 🙂
People offer reasonable advice about having children at an older age, but this irrational woman dismisses it with 'shut up.' Some women think it's cool to rebel against good advice, but such behavior can be foolish and self-destructive.
@@flauze This woman? Irrational for who? My name is the name of my channel and repeated in this video. Secondly, everyone has a right to their own opinion and beliefs. Anywho, thank you for watching and commenting on my video. It brings engagement and attention to my channel. 😁
@@tishainnis ok...🤷♂
40 is half way or two-thirds of your life 😢. Yeah it’s old
Did you reach your 40s yet? Hairline says you did 🤷🏾♀️
@ I can see why you’re 40 and single. No manners, men don’t find that attractive at all.
@@thefifthdon1lol actually I’m not even 40. & you ASSumed that I’m single, wrongly at that 😂 Funny you want to cry about being rude yet you came into this woman’s comment section & called her old. I was asking a simple question, but you got offended lol I’m guessing you are 40 & over, or the hair just ran away early, idk lol Women don’t find that attractive 😊
@@AmberBrooklyn24 Lol!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@thefifthdon1 you know what’s so funny, people assume that you’re single because you can’t find someone. Anyone can pick up a man and make them their baby father or settle for someone that they’re not in love with or attracted to and make them their husband. There are a lot of us out here that are not willing to compromise and that’s why we are single. Boy bye! 👋🏽 You tried it!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If God does not intervene it's too late
Too late for what? 🙂
@tishainnis if you got to ask then it's definitely too late
@ Please miss me with the negativity. Anywho, thanks for watching and commenting. 😂😂