Hello Sir! I loved this video extremely and subscribed to your channel. I noticed that you mentioned the term "Evolutionary psychology" a lot of times here. Can you please suggest me some books related to it?
I was waiting to hear why your friend is always late. Your first instinct was lazy, but what other thoughts did you come up with, that made sense to you?
everyone is commenting about you becoming big someday and it's kinda entertaining (in a positive manner/with playfulness) to see, because it's true :D. i also think this is the case, but that is because it makes sense to me logically - given the information i currently have, it seems only rational that it _will_ happen, assuming consistency remains :)
I’m confused: between your explanations between objectives and subjective and your example of this. (Regarding David sleeping in all the time) I would of thought seeing David objectively, would mean, being more open to other explanations as to why he is always late and seeing David subjectively would mean seeing him through our own eyes and mind, and opinions, and so therefore, I believe David is always late; because he is just lazy, ((because whenever I am late, I too just don’t really want to go to work, because I prefer to be lazy than go to work))
Fantastic Video! But I am still wondering: How would fun and leisure connect to the six areas of resource allocation, or why aren't they of importance? Would really be interested in knowing the answer to this.
Be patient with others and strict with yourself. Looking at the actions of others instead of their words will show you what they value and what their true motivations are.
this is one of the best guides on the subject of life in General and how to balance your life so you can be the most emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually etc, optimized at the same time, at first i started to watch this video because i wanted to improve my social skills but it helped more than i could ever imagine. really from the root. and the questions in general are so helpful and well asked keep up the good work my brother love and support
@@kyrilldijkstra3341 im planning on that asap, as of this moment im stuck on a tree and there's 15 alligators down there but as soon as im able to I'll leave and touch some grass
Just found your channel, wow! I'm only on your second vid but it appears you're taking a look at some common ideas and topics, that we can all relate to and that we've all heard much and many advices and approaches to. I like your angle, I like the refreshing and informative way you talk about these important topics and I like that you actually narrate your videos! And you do it well! Great find, keep it up! Like'd and Sub'd for sure!
First of all, what an amazing channel! I’ve been reading about feeling and needs in Robert Marshall’s Non Violent Communication recently. I find there is a significant overlap between needs and the 6-component model for goals. Marshall also talks describes emotions (feelings) being pleasant when our needs are satisfied or met and unpleasant when a need is unmet or ignored. It is interesting this has some parallels with how evolutionary psychology describes connections between two.
Hi Lewis, It's a really interesting topic. Becoming aware of the fundamental attribution error was so helpful in understanding how I viewed others and why others failed to understand me in most situations. Take a step back. Put your feelings to one side. Don't make assumptions. Seek to understand instead. I don't know about you, but when people talk about who they are I recognise for most people this is how they want me to think of them. I then observe their actions and in doing so I see who they truly are. I think a goal in life should be to ensure our words match our actions. In essence we seek to discover our core values and let them guide us in what we say and do. I think this is a route to remove much internal conflict and gain peace with our self.
The distinction between nomothetic and idiographic analysis is fascinating and critical for understanding human behavior on both general and personal levels. Embracing subjectivity in our approach to others while maintaining objectivity about ourselves allows for a richer, more nuanced understanding of human motivations. 🧠
Nice, I subscribed after just this video. For the lists (resource types , patterns like party animal etc, emotion versus goals), do these come from a book or other source? Alternatively a downlodable handout might be good. I've tried to scribble a few notes down anyway, it's useful stuff. Cheers!
Hi mate, thanks for letting me know. If you try again in a few hours or when the next video drops, then let me know if it still isn't working. I'll look out for your comment.
3:20 isn't it the other way around in that example? Look, You have the objective fact, that the other person is late It is an objective fact, that you do not have the information, why he is late That he is lazy, is an SUBJECTIVE Interpretation, since it is influenced by personal feeling / opinions Objectivly the only option would be to say "I do not know why he is late" Great video beside that tho, keep up the great work. You have the potential to become a large RUclipsr, the quality is definitely there ❤
I'm blown away by your content! Your ability to transfer so much brilliant information in such a short amount of time is simply magnificent. Not only that but you have a unique charm, watching your videos could easily make anyone feel like a philosopher. Cheers from Turkey!
Keep up the good contend, your growing fast brother!! God Bless you and the words you spread! Your humor is amazing, makes understanding easy for those who need. !
There is so much in this video ! Thanks for the knowledge. This helped a ton ! Keep going and I'm sure you will be among the top channels. Have a wonderful and beautiful day !
I have yet to find a channel as helpful as this one, this guy is sincere and ive been trying to get my friends to watch this Keep it up, you are making a diffrence in lives and in the world!
Really interesting topics AND not just your standard 9 min BS from some Influencer trying to sell you a scheme, self improvement book or nutrition stuff. Keep going! Any way to support the channel other than NL subscription, Like, Follow & Comment? 😅
Thank you :) glad you liked it. And I'm going to be releasing a skool community soon, so that will be the best way to support & get value ;) stay tuned!
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I call it “looking for people’s active debuffs”
You've just cooked with that one
Good quality and well researched videos. Well done mate! Feel like I'm actually learning something on this platform.
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Hello Sir! I loved this video extremely and subscribed to your channel. I noticed that you mentioned the term "Evolutionary psychology" a lot of times here. Can you please suggest me some books related to it?
Good stuff
bro you gained 2000 subscribers in one day, i'm proud of you, keep going, soon you'll be next to the big channels!!!
Glad to have you here Dairis :)
I love your light-hearted and easy to digest content :) we'll be here to see you grow
It's great to have you here :)
I was waiting to hear why your friend is always late. Your first instinct was lazy, but what other thoughts did you come up with, that made sense to you?
Can't wait for you to blow up, awesome content brother !!
everyone is commenting about you becoming big someday and it's kinda entertaining (in a positive manner/with playfulness) to see, because it's true :D. i also think this is the case, but that is because it makes sense to me logically - given the information i currently have, it seems only rational that it _will_ happen, assuming consistency remains :)
Thank you for your confidence :) It means a lot. Have a great week comrade!
I’m confused: between your explanations between objectives and subjective and your example of this. (Regarding David sleeping in all the time)
I would of thought seeing David objectively, would mean, being more open to other explanations as to why he is always late and seeing David subjectively would mean seeing him through our own eyes and mind, and opinions, and so therefore, I believe David is always late; because he is just lazy, ((because whenever I am late, I too just don’t really want to go to work, because I prefer to be lazy than go to work))
More sociology about human interaction and how to meet new people. Thanks !!🎉
Why read people like a book when people cant even open up and see what's in their own book?
I couldn’t focus on this video will watch later
::: Likes how you explain things :::
Fantastic Video! But I am still wondering: How would fun and leisure connect to the six areas of resource allocation, or why aren't they of importance? Would really be interested in knowing the answer to this.
Ooooo, great point. Didn't even think of that. The 6 areas were from a book, so how about we write the follow up together & include the 7th ;)
Can you make a video of books that are a must read?
Great video, mate! 10/10.
I did not get the message of this video. Anyone care to summarize it?
Be patient with others and strict with yourself. Looking at the actions of others instead of their words will show you what they value and what their true motivations are.
this is one of the best guides on the subject of life in General and how to balance your life so you can be the most emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually etc, optimized at the same time,
at first i started to watch this video because i wanted to improve my social skills but it helped more than i could ever imagine.
really from the root.
and the questions in general are so helpful and well asked
keep up the good work my brother
love and support
Glad you got extra/unexpected value brother. Thank you for commenting :) Have a great week.
Touch grass bro
@@kyrilldijkstra3341 im planning on that asap, as of this moment im stuck on a tree and there's 15 alligators down there but as soon as im able to I'll leave and touch some grass
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I clicked on this because I want to improve my relationships with people and general people skills which..... to put it bluntly... suck.
Just found your channel, wow! I'm only on your second vid but it appears you're taking a look at some common ideas and topics, that we can all relate to and that we've all heard much and many advices and approaches to. I like your angle, I like the refreshing and informative way you talk about these important topics and I like that you actually narrate your videos! And you do it well! Great find, keep it up! Like'd and Sub'd for sure!
First of all, what an amazing channel!
I’ve been reading about feeling and needs in Robert Marshall’s Non Violent Communication recently. I find there is a significant overlap between needs and the 6-component model for goals. Marshall also talks describes emotions (feelings) being pleasant when our needs are satisfied or met and unpleasant when a need is unmet or ignored. It is interesting this has some parallels with how evolutionary psychology describes connections between two.
Hi Lewis,
It's a really interesting topic. Becoming aware of the fundamental attribution error was so helpful in understanding how I viewed others and why others failed to understand me in most situations.
Take a step back. Put your feelings to one side. Don't make assumptions. Seek to understand instead.
I don't know about you, but when people talk about who they are I recognise for most people this is how they want me to think of them. I then observe their actions and in doing so I see who they truly are. I think a goal in life should be to ensure our words match our actions. In essence we seek to discover our core values and let them guide us in what we say and do. I think this is a route to remove much internal conflict and gain peace with our self.
brilliant
The distinction between nomothetic and idiographic analysis is fascinating and critical for understanding human behavior on both general and personal levels. Embracing subjectivity in our approach to others while maintaining objectivity about ourselves allows for a richer, more nuanced understanding of human motivations. 🧠
Love this, I have learnt alot from this video, thank you! 😃
Im proud of you if you managed to watch the video until the end with your undivided attention ❤
Seksh
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Nice, I subscribed after just this video.
For the lists (resource types , patterns like party animal etc, emotion versus goals), do these come from a book or other source? Alternatively a downlodable handout might be good. I've tried to scribble a few notes down anyway, it's useful stuff. Cheers!
Welcome to the community! And they're from a book called 'Good reasons for bad feelings' By Randolph Nesse :)
2:24 the og looks maxxer love that 😅😂
There's something wrong with the newsletter subscription side I've tried to subscribe 4 times without success
Hi mate, thanks for letting me know. If you try again in a few hours or when the next video drops, then let me know if it still isn't working. I'll look out for your comment.
Loving your videos and channel so far, man.
Another amazing Video. I love that u explain the things with examples so everyone understands.
Thanks brother :)
3:20 isn't it the other way around in that example?
Look,
You have the objective fact, that the other person is late
It is an objective fact, that you do not have the information, why he is late
That he is lazy, is an SUBJECTIVE Interpretation, since it is influenced by personal feeling / opinions
Objectivly the only option would be to say "I do not know why he is late"
Great video beside that tho, keep up the great work.
You have the potential to become a large RUclipsr, the quality is definitely there ❤
I think the concept you meant was "benefit of the doubt"
This would require an in-depth whiteboard session. Hahaha. Thanks for the comment!
I really appreciate finding your channel and for this great video, very useful to learn
Welcome to the community! :)
It makes so much sense!
I'm blown away by your content! Your ability to transfer so much brilliant information in such a short amount of time is simply magnificent. Not only that but you have a unique charm, watching your videos could easily make anyone feel like a philosopher.
Cheers from Turkey!
You've succeeded by putting a smile on my face sir! Welcome to the community :)
@@NewelOfKnowledge Lol, I should be the one calling you sir since I am only 17. I'll take that as a compliment :)
Keep up the good contend, your growing fast brother!! God Bless you and the words you spread! Your humor is amazing, makes understanding easy for those who need. !
Thank you sir!
There is so much in this video ! Thanks for the knowledge. This helped a ton ! Keep going and I'm sure you will be among the top channels. Have a wonderful and beautiful day !
Thank you :) have a great weekend brother.
@@NewelOfKnowledge :)
M so glad i stumbled upon this channel!! Love the content
Keep it up captain :3
Mission accomplished. Let's carry this into the next mission. (*Price's voice)
@@NewelOfKnowledge aight I was suspecting u to be his voice actor
Nvm it's confirmed now 💀
I have yet to find a channel as helpful as this one, this guy is sincere and ive been trying to get my friends to watch this
Keep it up, you are making a diffrence in lives and in the world!
Thank you for your confidence! I appreciate you :)
so happy to see a new video from you man)
I'm glad to have you here brother.
Really interesting topics AND not just your standard 9 min BS from some Influencer trying to sell you a scheme, self improvement book or nutrition stuff.
Keep going!
Any way to support the channel other than NL subscription, Like, Follow & Comment? 😅
Thank you :) glad you liked it. And I'm going to be releasing a skool community soon, so that will be the best way to support & get value ;) stay tuned!
@@NewelOfKnowledge looking forward!