I think she wants to be a wife…but i can see how breaking off with a long term boyfriend to get a brand new boyfriend may not yield anything different.
@@deioneyma3913 if he works hard and provides, let him have a few drinks. He probably wasn't an alcoholic, she just wanted herself to look better. I bet that she regrets leaving him now 😂
Insecure man is code for "someone who has boundaries and won't let me do anything I want. He should just go along with it, finance it, and ask no questions"
@@Tonia_tips girl hush. the girl kept talking in circles who tf gonna keep up with the nonsense she’s saying. But of course you’ll jump in to defend this confusion, single mom’s stick together.
So, in conclusion: She left her BF because he was a provider, but she wants a provider. She also left the BF because she wanted to be a lawyer, but for the new guy she will shelve her plans. She wants to be a housewife, but also a lawyer. Her money will be for the family, but she is interested in charity/free work. She quotes haram, but is not a Muslim. She will look after the money, but is not good at budgeting. She wants a man in shape, but she is not. Did I miss anything??
What’s interesting is she’s quoting Islamic rules and traditions, where she don’t follow Islam. She’s like then typical person who only follow the things that benefit them
You do know there is more you can do than making 100k??? That’s bare minimum. There’s 21 years old college grads I’m working with right now doing that.
@@love_reka_8877did you not listen, she clearly is the problem why he didn’t marry her. Her attitude of using a man and saving her income for herself for an exist plan is the problem. A fee of my white friends fell for this and paid dearly in divorce left with almost nothing
And she’s in law school and don’t have time to nurture a relationship. So that leaves me at home taking care of her damn kids while she out making her own money to keep and have when she get enough to leave.
Kendra tried but at this point even Kendra is defeated. I’m shocked this woman came on with as much nerve. Is it possible she doesn’t actually watch this show like that. That was a new level of delusion, her belief was scary.
Isn't tattoos, sex out of wedlock, and obesity haram also? I guess we only mention the things that benefit women as bad/forbidden, but not all the other things.
SMH when she said haram I KNEW she wasn't practicing the Islamic faith just from looking at her with her chest all out. Picking and choosing what to believe and what to ignore from a religion you don't even practice will always be weird.
These women really be picking and choosing what part of religious text they support. She done had kids out of wedlock and got rid of her child’s father over total nonsense but on here quoting a religious text that she doesn’t adhere to. “You can’t make this ish up!” 🤣🤣🤣😂
In a nutshell, she wants you to spend all your money taking care of her and Pookie's kids while she gets to spend her money how she sees fit. Sounds like the ideal situation.
@@Fabrizio7171yea. It does. Women use to be delusional, but nowadays they are well aware of what they are saying so the delusion has evolved into arrogance.
Well, her ex wasn't really a Pookie. Her problem is wanting her cake and eating it too. She wants a traditional provider, but she wants to be a modern, independent woman.
Sorry, you've disqualified yourself. No man is going to want to sacrifice his resources for you and the family that you come with. Especially when you aren't going to pull your weight. If you wanted a provider, then you should've stayed with your children's father. Otherwise, you want a sponsor.
@Tonia_tips Easy. I see women do this all the time, no matter if the man in question has children with her or not. It's also in a male's nature. That "generalization" has a basis. Like a male lion killing off the young after he takes over the pride. What man wants to provide for a future that is not of his creation? A better question is why should any man want to provide for a family he didn't help create?
@@Tonia_tipsbecause it wasn't the man she wants which is the point, yes a simp would accept this fool but she's not interested in that type of man the man she wants doesn't even see her.
And she doesn’t want to work. Shits too funny. My money is on that she will spend her days home looking up ways to spend your money instead of helping you multiply it.
Y'all give pookies the best years of your life and when you get used, abused, and ran through you want to find a good man to save the day. Nah, stay over there with Pookie and nem.
Doesn’t seem like she was with Pookie for her case, I think she just was only being stuck up and selfish for her own well being. She was disillusioned thinking she had options instead of raising her children in a nuclear family.
@@Covet-to2wcJudge: I'm give you 3 life sentence for Triple ☠️..... Defendant: But judge I'm here for J-Walking. Judge: Sir, your attorney said you did it!! Tieanna: I told you I "act" like I went to "law school" but I'm really an "old fashion traditional wife" who you have to "provide" 100k for taking this case! Defendant:🤦🏾♂️
This lady is krazy as hell if she thinks ima provide for her and her 2 rugrats while she banks all her money. She got that attitude what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine. Ain't no man in they right mind signing up for that
@@TonyMac1they always say I know plenty women getting beta Brad to pay that’s a lie and beta Brad had no other choice that’s why he choose that fate real men that other women want don’t do that only men women don’t want do that 🤷🏿♂️
Guys, if a woman says she wants a provider, tell her you provide leadership and direction for the relationship. Better yet, look for a woman who does not mention "provider."
@@kruzinkruzin140actually provider is more than moneys you provide all that and protection. You clearly are very unlearned. When a man provides, its income, protections, leadership, etc. Yet women like you don’t want the leadership because it comes with boundaries and those boundaries are meant to protect you but as a modern woman, you will say a man is insecure lol. The biggest threat a man has to protect you from is YOU!
Her children’s father made her quit acting at 19 yet she still went on to have two kids with him. Now she expects a man to come in and take on all financial responsibility while she gets to do whatever she wants.
Single mothers, please realize that your days of being provided for were ruined when you left your BD. If you bring extra bodies, you gotta pick up the extra costs.
I just got married and moved in with my new husband. We’ve decided that he’s going to pay the house bills and I’m going to continue paying for my expenses such as my car note, my car insurance, and the groceries in the house. with this gift he has given me I feel I must save as much money as possible for a rainy day. I love that man so much if I need to start paying anything for the house or every bll, I will do it.
At least you’re contributing SOMETHING. Groceries are hella expensive now. These delulu chicks just want to come in and pay zero bills and get a monthly allowance on top of that 😂
She sounds CRAZY. You gave him 2 kids. BUT left him because you didn't want to be a stay at home mom and NOW you want another man to come in and pay for everything! This is a FOOL!
So she wants to put the man in hundreds of thousands in school debt and take care of someone else’s kids while she works for free and the little money she makes is for herself. Sign me up!!!!
I can hear it already. She’s a student , she’s a mom, she has a thousand things on her plate so she can’t help in the house I.e clean cook or help with bills because she straight up refuses to. What a deal.
She is controlling. A man will have no choice but to work and provide for her and her kids, while she screams controlling because she's not free to do whatever she wants. SMH...
I pay all my own bills and never expect a man to give me anything , the guy I’m seeing have bought me things and I’ve bought him things but in the end I try to regulate my emotions and not get to caught up in things , I guess I’m just not used to a support system so if anything I can come off as needy and clingy but in the end I’m really just a scared person who had no guidance , I try to make up for it by buying him things and tryna make him feel special just cuz I love feeling warmed and protected by him , I wish that people held them black daughters closer so we wouldn’t feel so displaced and confused as adults .
Same here regarding how I may come across in relationships but from what I’ve seen no matter what you give these guys, he has to want to be in a healthy relationship. Reciprocity is great so that’s a good start.
I keep my black daughter covered, loved and protected even hundreds of miles away. Always have and always will until she gets married. I wish you all the best.
Some of these women keep saying "I can teach a man" or "build him up". But oblivious to any flaws or mistakes they've made and continue to do so. You're too broken to fix anything, and no foundation to build anything.
And that's why they keep getting pookies lol. No grown gentleman is gonna be taught by his woman. I've been at the top of my industry game for 20 of 30 years in it. I teach and coach executives. I just expect traditional woman mindset from women.
This woman is literally a walking contradiction. My wife is an attorney and law school is 3 years of hell. You have to pass the bar as well. It also costs $100k + to attend. I’m a high earner and there is no way in the world my colleagues would take this deal. This would be a true liability. I would advise this sister to try and work it out with her ex.
SO correct if I'm wrong. She wants YOU (man) to come in a pay all the bills for her and her 2 kids, while she stacks her money (just in case it doesn't work out for her and her kids) and then she'll get rid of you because she's good? I think she would be doing well getting her a migrant, and exchange this deal for a green card
This show is about women hiring a male assistant to help them pay off their bills. It's important to understand your worth in the dating world. I have no intention of applying to be with a woman who has two kids and expects me to support her family while she's still figuring out her own life. Men, if she only cares about finding a "provider" and doesn't care about the person you are, then kindly walk the opposite way for obvious reasons that trickle down from her shallowness.
There is too much on the internet for her not to know that she doesn't meet the qualifications of the man she's looking for. But they all think that they are different and special. Here's a tip learn to cook and buy a dog/cat.
All for an a salary of $40k but over $100k in debt lol. She is better off letting him have the kids and get a feee cdl training for being a trucker and can make double being home daily or weekends at least lol
Let me get this straight...😂 2 kids, wants you pay for everything while she saves all her money. And she's need to work on budgeting, agreeableness, and patience! She sounds like a great catch!😂 Go get em fellas!
Classic case of wanting all the benefits of having a traditional man, but doesn't want to be a traditional woman. You must make 100k for a big gut and two kids and pay for everything, while she stacks the money she collects from the kid's father(s).
5:55 Textbook shaming language. RIP to the Godfather. If I’m not a real man because I don’t want to spend all of my time, energy, and resources providing for a delusional, modern woman and her two children by another man, then I guess I’ll just never be a real man. 😢
That was a slight look into the future with her. I bet you can’t say nothing to convince her to work out but she will be telling you all day about what a real man does based on what she wants at any given moment.
Idk any man making 100kand above does NOT need to be TAUGHT how to make more money. He worked himself to that point, he knows wtf he’s doing. Before talk start, Im not talking about the hustlers with 55 jobs, Im talking about Directors, VP of departments, businesses owners with legitimate locations, etc. Stop saying that nonsense. Y'all do learn from each other but those are not seeking you for your business knowledge.
Especially from a wannabe holier than thou, passive aggressive chick with no humility who self admittedly can't perform a basic budget. They actually think they sound attractive. Social Media really has these women brain dead. I require you to provide everything, but you better be ok with me trying to emasculate you with my main character energy. like WTF
How can they build one up and all they want to do is go on vacations and get $1000+ wigs like Kendra but she gets them much cheaper or free as she has stated on here before
Yes we were and still are. Classy ladies still exist. However, young or old we will never appear on this show or app. I wish you blessings on your journey. Everyone deserves joy, love, peace, and respect.
I am not a man, but I believe “I will reach you to make money” has got to be the worst statement by a woman for a man. The man you want won’t stick around and the man who comes to you will allow you to build then leave. This has got to be insane that anyone who will question the insanity you find normal is considered ‘weird’ what you said makes no sense at all? I wish my brother would say he has got with a woman with two kids he will provide for who contradicts herself by calling herself a housewife but wants to be a lawyer that is not a housewife or traditional. Just say you are modern, it’s fine.
She said she didn't like the dynamics of being a house wife because she had to put her stuff on hold... The very next minute she says she has no problem putting her career on hold to help her new husband...
She will manage money, save money, and teach a man to grow but she’s not good at budgeting. “Does that make sense”. Essentially what she wants is a man that allows her to do whatever she wants. She doesn’t like order from a man and will make excuses not to marry an “insecure”, “alcoholic” “controlling” man etc. but doesn’t mind sleeping with them. Typical scenario over and over again.
Kendra, occasionally you go in, holding women accountable for the words that come out of their mouths, and you did not disappoint on this interview. Thanks.
So there's no man you can name in your family who acted as a step father or father figure to any of your relatives? Because statistically someone in your family is a single mother, probably even your mother. Your comments speaks volumes of the lack of "real men" in your life.
@@PsychMajor-tc5tjfalse! Taking care of another man’s child doesn’t make one a real man! You see generations ago, it was a honor of a man taking care of another man’s kids. Those kids were born in WEDLOCK and the step father in most cases was deceased and the mother allowed that man to discipline those kids. Modern women today want all that but you can’t discipline the kids. It’s no benefit so a REAL MAN avoids being a STEP BABY CRASH DADDY
Girl i didnt think the women could get any more audacious 😅 I really do feel for the fellas. Because simpin aint easy. And im a baby mama who has seen the error of my ways. But oooh child. Its rough out here for everyone
It sounds like this chick only wants a man to help her to provide for her and another man’s children because she doesn’t want to have to do it by herself. And to add insult to injury, she gets to keep ALL her money!!!!!!
Soooo… she is not good at budgeting (according to her own flaws) but wants to be the one who manages the savings for the families future 🤔. Get out of here 😂😂😂
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So you left your provider to seek another provider who will provide for you and his two children???
She’s probably trying to prove a point lol.
All while she fake "goes to law school" lol 😂
While her money will be used to invest into HER kids... d.a.b.😂
The baby daddy wouldn’t let her boss him around so it wouldn’t work. Now she wants a “provider” who’ll let her decide everything
She backwards........and an obvious Con Artist.
She broke it off with the type of man she is asking for…
I think she wants to be a wife…but i can see how breaking off with a long term boyfriend to get a brand new boyfriend may not yield anything different.
But… he was an alcoholic 😂😂
@@deioneyma3913 if he works hard and provides, let him have a few drinks. He probably wasn't an alcoholic, she just wanted herself to look better. I bet that she regrets leaving him now 😂
Twice. She thinks she has a million options out there
Her: I want a man who provides for my kids
Me: skips to Kendra cam
Sees a fat single mom and came to the comments
Insecure man is code for "someone who has boundaries and won't let me do anything I want. He should just go along with it, finance it, and ask no questions"
lol who’s running the relationship?
Pretty much
🎯
Order 66
It's equivalent to "I want a submissive woman."
So she left the father of her two kids to go to law school and chose a career over a family, and still isn’t a lawyer ?
Nothing she said made sense lol
I doubt she ever started law school
She’s looking for a simp to fund her through school and take care of her kids then take half of everything Mr. Simp owns once she graduates 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
@@beaniemacshe didn’t. She left that man two years ago and hasn’t did a damn thing since.
@@TheeMrsChampion😂😂
She lying, she ain’t in no damn law school. She’s just trying not to look like the average baby mama that she is.
😂
Major facts
She didn’t say that. She said she wants to go to law school. Listening is fundamental.
@@Tonia_tips girl hush. the girl kept talking in circles who tf gonna keep up with the nonsense she’s saying. But of course you’ll jump in to defend this confusion, single mom’s stick together.
😂yep
I was floored when she said she didn't want an alcoholic. A mf would need to drink to put up with her. lol
😂😂😂😂😂facts
I had a scotch watching her!
He needs a lot more than a drink.
Right?! I need a drink after this, and I don't drink. Need a strong apple juice or something because whew.
@@andyetshestillwasntenough5strong apple juice 😂😂😂 gimme a strong Pepsi 😂😂
So, in conclusion:
She left her BF because he was a provider, but she wants a provider.
She also left the BF because she wanted to be a lawyer, but for the new guy she will shelve her plans.
She wants to be a housewife, but also a lawyer.
Her money will be for the family, but she is interested in charity/free work.
She quotes haram, but is not a Muslim.
She will look after the money, but is not good at budgeting.
She wants a man in shape, but she is not.
Did I miss anything??
@abehampster.. Umm.. Just don't forget.. the Name is TEE-ANNA ("T" as in "Tom"). ROTFL!! I think Kendra was THRU w her at THAT point..
What’s interesting is she’s quoting Islamic rules and traditions, where she don’t follow Islam. She’s like then typical person who only follow the things that benefit them
this. and in her mind, she's highly intelligent and not crazy.
With all due respect, Y’all gotta stop coming on here saying you were raised to be “traditional” but have kids out of wedlock
Facts ! He was too immature for her marry but cool enough to have 2 babies with
Facts
@@rogers5622 right and the other one was an alcoholic but she was with him long enough for him to feel comfortable proposing
All of these people were born no earlier than the 70s. A tradition woman hasn’t stayed at home since the 50s. Black women actually never stayed home
@@ericterry6042 Exactly...who do they think was the "help" "cook" "maid" "mammie/nanny" "laundry" "
She’s not good at budgeting but wants to keep her own money for her “family’s future “. lol
Right 😂
Right... Now she spend her money investing in her kids... d.a.b.😂
Great catch!! 😂
She is a Scam Artist.
The delusion is real! 😂😂😂
I can't name 3 flaws....major RED flag
Ma’am a man who makes 100k a year has already built himself up. 😂
It really is crazy how women say this. That man built himself and doesn't need you. You need him
She would never think of that!
Lol shhhh. Don't spoil the bliss of her ignorance.
You do know there is more you can do than making 100k??? That’s bare minimum. There’s 21 years old college grads I’m working with right now doing that.
@@Tonia_tips I guess 90% of America isn't doing the bare minimum then
I literally feel exhausted watching the women that come on this show. So tiring it’s not even a joke anymore. Where are the good women at?!
In other countries it seems
We out here ❤❤
Taken...or at home enjoying their peace...lol
At home getting fat ignoring there husbands.
Quiet. At home in happy relationships/marriages and off social media.
She’s wants to live for free while building her escape fund
Well glad you can see past her bs
The Kendra cam said no
@@GETBIG4WARDshe was blowd out, im sure she was bad like 15 plus yrs ago, she probably still sees herself in that body
Bingo!! 🥳
She is the prime example of “women are never happy.”
Yeah, I was thinking of that _husband in the department store_ parable.
Are y’all not listening?! HE KEPT HER UNMARRIED for 7years. She had to go. He was never gonna marry her
@@love_reka_8877did you not listen, she clearly is the problem why he didn’t marry her. Her attitude of using a man and saving her income for herself for an exist plan is the problem. A fee of my white friends fell for this and paid dearly in divorce left with almost nothing
@@love_reka_8877he was a good provider and never abused or cheated on her... Marriage wasn't needed
@@love_reka_8877he gave her 7 years to get herself together but couldn't pull the trigger bc she wouldn't get right
Had kids unmarried talking about HARAM
@@8th_Sage she’s not even muslim and using islam to her benefit lol talk about manipulative
Fire fi dat 💀
She dumb asf , shit triggered tf outta me 😂
_Like you all on your dean and I ain’t on mine._
- Beanie Sigel
LOL
😂😂😂 Harama mama of two kids and a baby daddy
In today’s episode of “I see why you’re single”…..
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That should be KENDRAS NEXT SHOW🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
The vast majority of lawyers do not make the big big money you think they do. This isn’t TV.
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And she’s in law school and don’t have time to nurture a relationship. So that leaves me at home taking care of her damn kids while she out making her own money to keep and have when she get enough to leave.
And they have a LOT of debt from law school
@@iamme7664 right. So she’s about to go make 100k worth of debt and no time spent because of the demand of school and then the demand of the career.
“Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved”…Project Pat
"I want him to be in shape". Meanwhile, she's COMPLETELY out of shape!! Amazing!!🤫
Surprised when she stood up😮
Im in tears!
I'm in the mood for a bag of Doritos
From the chest up I thought she was gonna be a baddie.
Then I saw the gut.😂
Yikes.
Then she turned around and I was devastated.
@@blackmancool9983 🤣
A baby momma telling the audience what a real man is 😂😂😂
These jokes keep writing themselves 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
A baby momma who gave a man two kids outta wedlock that refused to marry her
Kendra tried but at this point even Kendra is defeated. I’m shocked this woman came on with as much nerve. Is it possible she doesn’t actually watch this show like that. That was a new level of delusion, her belief was scary.
@@beaniemac she still should have stayed with him.
We should start naming these women. She’s Cute Big Chested Bad Body Delusional Baby Mama #1
You can’t make this shit up 😂😂
"You need to be in shape because my kids play sports". Is this camera on me!!?
🤣😂🤣... she a d.a.b.
😂😂😂😂😂 why did I hear that in R Kelly’s voice!
*Throws hands up like Gavin X*
😭😭
I dnt get it. What’s wrong with that statement/request? Sounds reasonable
@@love_reka_8877of course it does sound reasonable to a leech
She wants a Sponsor
Majority of these women seeking sponsors. They have no clue of a wife role, nor the authority of a husband.
BULLSEYE!
Thats why the tatas are hanging out.....
Exactly
Exactly!!! She wants to save her money but can’t manage/budget money 😂
This girl is exhausting to ME. I can't imagine how she makes a guy feel.
She sounds like a headache
@@geronimo1595most definitely
She made no sense at all 🤦🏿♂️
Any smart, attractive man would never sign up for this
In her mind she's the perfect woman
Isn't tattoos, sex out of wedlock, and obesity haram also? I guess we only mention the things that benefit women as bad/forbidden, but not all the other things.
Bingo
SMH when she said haram I KNEW she wasn't practicing the Islamic faith just from looking at her with her chest all out. Picking and choosing what to believe and what to ignore from a religion you don't even practice will always be weird.
I agree
Being fat is haram!? Lol 😂 I did not know that
She was NOT obese. Just bcuz someone isn’t a size 7 doesn’t mean they’re obese
These women really be picking and choosing what part of religious text they support. She done had kids out of wedlock and got rid of her child’s father over total nonsense but on here quoting a religious text that she doesn’t adhere to. “You can’t make this ish up!” 🤣🤣🤣😂
Lol basically, no matter what major religion these modern women claim to follow, their true religion is "far eastern hippie zodiac psychobabble" 👀
In a nutshell, she wants you to spend all your money taking care of her and Pookie's kids while she gets to spend her money how she sees fit. Sounds like the ideal situation.
It always makes sense to them
@@Fabrizio7171yea. It does. Women use to be delusional, but nowadays they are well aware of what they are saying so the delusion has evolved into arrogance.
@@Go-Getter Bro you nailed it!!!
They're no longer pretending or hiding it.
Guess what simps love her
Well, her ex wasn't really a Pookie. Her problem is wanting her cake and eating it too. She wants a traditional provider, but she wants to be a modern, independent woman.
I'm crying at the Kendra cam😂😂😂😂
She wants to bare more kids..she has the body for it😂😂😂
She's a whole Telletubbie and lumpier than a bowl of oatmeal!
I haven’t gotten to it yet, but I’m have thoughts. I’ll come back once I’ve seen that part.
I just saw it and wow. The nerve the gaul….the unmitigated delusion.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@@Roccofan
Sorry, you've disqualified yourself. No man is going to want to sacrifice his resources for you and the family that you come with. Especially when you aren't going to pull your weight. If you wanted a provider, then you should've stayed with your children's father. Otherwise, you want a sponsor.
How can you say that, if a man was about to do it back in nov? Speak for yourself and not generalize because you don’t know all men.
@Tonia_tips Easy. I see women do this all the time, no matter if the man in question has children with her or not. It's also in a male's nature. That "generalization" has a basis. Like a male lion killing off the young after he takes over the pride. What man wants to provide for a future that is not of his creation? A better question is why should any man want to provide for a family he didn't help create?
Facts!!
@@Tonia_tipsbecause it wasn't the man she wants which is the point, yes a simp would accept this fool but she's not interested in that type of man the man she wants doesn't even see her.
@@pimphandstrong6620strong men don’t want women that simps want and only simps want her now she can’t offer anything really that’s why she single
Bring back arranged marriages. We need guidance. Her logic literally makes no sense
Facts
!!!!!!
The world was a much better place when marriages were arranged.
Black Americans never had arranged marriages . What y’all be talking about
@DISH2IMPRESS maybe it's time to start 🤷🏽♂️
Old fashioned wives come with kids already
😂😂😂😂
Right! 😂🤣🤣
Dude......😂
It's the convenience package. Someone already made the family for you
talkin abt she is 1 in a million🤣🤣.... ma'am you're a single mother in America who had ya kids out of wedlock foh
😂😂😂😂😂
She literally just told you her answer she wants you to provide for her while letting her do what she wants to do! Have at it fellas 🙃
I mean the women in the comments were definitely telling men they weren't real men if they weren't okay with this arrangement 😂
If im making 100k or more, why would I need a broke chick with financial liabilities to help me come up?
Lol. She can mold you.
And she doesn’t want to work. Shits too funny. My money is on that she will spend her days home looking up ways to spend your money instead of helping you multiply it.
Quit asking logical questions 😂
😂 she could mold you to be broke
Because kids the will help you at work 😂😂😂
Y'all give pookies the best years of your life and when you get used, abused, and ran through you want to find a good man to save the day. Nah, stay over there with Pookie and nem.
Why do black men call other black men "Pookie." That's still your brother. There's enough judgment coming from the outside
What do you consider Pookie and nem?
Crazy part is she claims to have been with a provider, not a Pookiez and left him
Doesn’t seem like she was with Pookie for her case, I think she just was only being stuck up and selfish for her own well being. She was disillusioned thinking she had options instead of raising her children in a nuclear family.
@@joshuaguerrier7392 A man who puts 2 kids in a woman and drags her along with a 7 year engagement is a Pookie.
Alright fellas, let’s all get in line to compete for the opportunity to take care of this woman and her kids. 😂
😂😂😂😂right ✅️
Shhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitttttttttt. Everyone can skip ahead of me, i'm cool.
@@HJW018nah bro... you gotta fight me for the back of the line. On everything I love. 😂😂😂
Shiiiiiiid
"It's Really THAT BAD"!
Why is she using islamic wording with her whole chest out??
She did say she appreciates “some” of their culture. 🤷♀️
@@mw7033 respect outweighs appreciate 🤷🏾♀️
@@mw7033only aspects of the culture that benefits her, i love aspects of other peoples culture, its what helps me be a better person to myself
Its the audacity to be out here talking about what a real man is supposed to do.😂😂😂
Lol ... whenever a woman says "real man"....
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That is never who got them pregnant
Facts and talking about haram being a single mother of 2 out of wedlock
😂😂😂😂
This is what most modern women are, especially our women
Came here to say the same thing, she sounds unappreciative and alone! Baby Trina run off on the plug twice...
Nothing that comes out of her mouth makes any sense
Now, imagine her as your attorney 😂😂😂.
@@Covet-to2wc Yikes! That part lol
@@Covet-to2wcJudge: I'm give you 3 life sentence for Triple ☠️.....
Defendant: But judge I'm here for J-Walking.
Judge: Sir, your attorney said you did it!!
Tieanna: I told you I "act" like I went to "law school" but I'm really an "old fashion traditional wife" who you have to "provide" 100k for taking this case!
Defendant:🤦🏾♂️
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️yes
Thank you
This lady is krazy as hell if she thinks ima provide for her and her 2 rugrats while she banks all her money. She got that attitude what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine. Ain't no man in they right mind signing up for that
😂😂😂😂sure ain't
She thinks cause she light skin she can get away with it, NOT !! 😅😅
Too many beta brads sign up for this and are torn apart in family court. Sistas want brothers to fall for that scam lol
@@TonyMac1they always say I know plenty women getting beta Brad to pay that’s a lie and beta Brad had no other choice that’s why he choose that fate real men that other women want don’t do that only men women don’t want do that 🤷🏿♂️
She’s not in shape tho
No she's not.
Imagine taking her hiking . Lol
Isn't OBLONG a SHAPE??
At this point the jokes writes itself 😂😂😂..
😂
When Kendra explained the true definition of a housewife, the blank look on her face told me everything!
Most likely she had another version in mind.
She is confusing as hell😂😂
She’s just trying not to say exactly what she wants because she knows that we ain’t going for it.
She not confusing!! Me and all my imaginary friends understood her!!
No she's not. She's just FOS
Now you see why men bash so many of these women, it’s pure nonsense
Guys, if a woman says she wants a provider, tell her you provide leadership and direction for the relationship. Better yet, look for a woman who does not mention "provider."
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😝
Provider is money not leadership and direction
@@kruzinkruzin140actually provider is more than moneys you provide all that and protection. You clearly are very unlearned. When a man provides, its income, protections, leadership, etc. Yet women like you don’t want the leadership because it comes with boundaries and those boundaries are meant to protect you but as a modern woman, you will say a man is insecure lol. The biggest threat a man has to protect you from is YOU!
You’re just a guy who can’t provide! Thats why you have an issue with “ provider”
@@kruzinkruzin140 no ma’am a provider is more than moneys you modern women are so unlearned. It’s about income protection and leadership
You're not good at budgeting, but you want this man to spend all his money and trust you to save "rainy day and investment money"? 🤔
I caught that too
and her other flaws was impatient and not compromising 😂
Investment she said would used for her kids... 😂 her d.a.b.
@@ToriUptown Right! 🤦🏾♀️
Right! I said, "what in the scamming stay-at-home, lawyer, baby momma is going on here"?
While she be with some broke dude on the side. 😂 Pass
A man is only obligated to provide for his wife... Not a two-time baby mama who's never been married who's BROKE
Dear Kendra,
There is NO reason to get this girl's contact info. Quality men will NOT be interested.
Sincerely The World.
DAT WAY
Her children’s father made her quit acting at 19 yet she still went on to have two kids with him.
Now she expects a man to come in and take on all financial responsibility while she gets to do whatever she wants.
Bad deal for anyone
So the usual on here where the Step Dad has to pay a far higher price than the actual father
She needs to start looking at Sugar Daddys 55+ years old.
She’s looking for the clean up man with a cape to come in and save the day
And she probably was pregnant anyway when he told her to quit..like ya b, it's called taking care of the baby lol
Didn't want him to provide, but want a provider. He was a momma's boy, her son's are momma's boys. The hypocrisy 😂
I found that to be incredible that she missed that irony. She’s literally raising men that she doesn’t like.
Single mothers, please realize that your days of being provided for were ruined when you left your BD. If you bring extra bodies, you gotta pick up the extra costs.
Well said 🎯
Not true, many women I know have children by other men and are being provided for.
You don’t know that… women with 6 kids getting provided for that are not their child’s father. Don’t speak for everyone
@@Tonia_tipsstop trying to act like the exception disproves the rule
@@tonyalston4838doesn’t matter op original comment stated sm as a whole can get this and that which isn’t true. Just pointing out the dishonesty.
I just got married and moved in with my new husband. We’ve decided that he’s going to pay the house bills and I’m going to continue paying for my expenses such as my car note, my car insurance, and the groceries in the house. with this gift he has given me I feel I must save as much money as possible for a rainy day. I love that man so much if I need to start paying anything for the house or every bll, I will do it.
You sound appreciative. This chick is not
Congratulations Queen 🎉🎊🥳
At least you’re contributing SOMETHING. Groceries are hella expensive now. These delulu chicks just want to come in and pay zero bills and get a monthly allowance on top of that 😂
You're a keeper... the rest of these women are useless.
@@indo3052why do you say appreciative? That’s a men’s job….. what else would he be doing? A man who can’t afford a family or wife shouldn’t have one.
If someone that meets all of her requirements, chooses to settle down with her. They more than likely have low self esteem.
Overweight BM of 2 wants a man to make $100K 😂
Hey don't forget you have to pay all of her bills while she keeps all of her money to herself😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@brandonleemoss ikr
Return to your baby daddy!!!!!!!!
She wants a man that's in shape but she is built like Pacman make it make sense?
😂😂😂😂
@@tasharenee4835 she got that bootydoo stomach stick out further than her booty do.
@@tasharenee4835 She got that bootydoo her stomach stick out further than her booty do.
Diabolical 😅
Left her man for the streets...🐦 leave her there.
AYO Q 😂
@@bryantrice803
Gotta let the 🐦 fly high 🤣😂🤣🤣
She's dead serious 😂
And I am f-ing confused. Every statement she made was contradictory.
She sounds CRAZY. You gave him 2 kids. BUT left him because you didn't want to be a stay at home mom and NOW you want another man to come in and pay for everything! This is a FOOL!
Yes crazy! Besides most lawyers average $70K and most female lawyers quit after 5 years because of work load/hours/stress
So she wants to put the man in hundreds of thousands in school debt and take care of someone else’s kids while she works for free and the little money she makes is for herself. Sign me up!!!!
I can hear it already. She’s a student , she’s a mom, she has a thousand things on her plate so she can’t help in the house I.e clean cook or help with bills because she straight up refuses to. What a deal.
Sorry.....NOT Sorry!
The guys who make 100K are going overseas because they're tired of running into single mothers,
Factual
I am a testimony for that. 🇧🇷 and 🇨🇴
Same here and I found me a beautiful kidless, feminine Colombian mami 🇨🇴
Yep, this show is proving passport gentlemen correct every day
Exactly
She is controlling. A man will have no choice but to work and provide for her and her kids, while she screams controlling because she's not free to do whatever she wants. SMH...
I pay all my own bills and never expect a man to give me anything , the guy I’m seeing have bought me things and I’ve bought him things but in the end I try to regulate my emotions and not get to caught up in things , I guess I’m just not used to a support system so if anything I can come off as needy and clingy but in the end I’m really just a scared person who had no guidance , I try to make up for it by buying him things and tryna make him feel special just cuz I love feeling warmed and protected by him , I wish that people held them black daughters closer so we wouldn’t feel so displaced and confused as adults .
Respect
Same here regarding how I may come across in relationships but from what I’ve seen no matter what you give these guys, he has to want to be in a healthy relationship. Reciprocity is great so that’s a good start.
I keep my black daughter covered, loved and protected even hundreds of miles away. Always have and always will until she gets married. I wish you all the best.
Now thats grown women talk. Respect!!
Some of these women keep saying "I can teach a man" or "build him up". But oblivious to any flaws or mistakes they've made and continue to do so. You're too broken to fix anything, and no foundation to build anything.
If I already make six figures, how is she building me up? I don't need her resources and her kids are not an asset to me
And that's why they keep getting pookies lol. No grown gentleman is gonna be taught by his woman. I've been at the top of my industry game for 20 of 30 years in it. I teach and coach executives. I just expect traditional woman mindset from women.
@@beaniemacshe’s gonna flip that 100k to 200k 😅😂🤣🤣
I bet after she hung up, she said to herself, “yea I ate”
Lol
Neva heard a shorty say she open to negotiation when it comes to how much bread “he” makes lol
...like she got some kind of Bargaining 'Edge'.. FOH!!
Overweight woman saying the man must be in shape ...
Her baby daddy needs to come and get his kids. If he loves them, he can’t have her raising them.
This woman is literally a walking contradiction. My wife is an attorney and law school is 3 years of hell. You have to pass the bar as well. It also costs $100k + to attend. I’m a high earner and there is no way in the world my colleagues would take this deal. This would be a true liability. I would advise this sister to try and work it out with her ex.
SO correct if I'm wrong. She wants YOU (man) to come in a pay all the bills for her and her 2 kids, while she stacks her money (just in case it doesn't work out for her and her kids) and then she'll get rid of you because she's good?
I think she would be doing well getting her a migrant, and exchange this deal for a green card
😂
...and she's a big GURL!!!! FOH
“Do you want my IG?” Kendra: I don’t……..😂😂😂
Tianna: “do you need my ig?”
Kendra: “I don’t. Bye.”
😂😂😂
The Kendra kam was exactly what I thought it was gonna be…
This show is about women hiring a male assistant to help them pay off their bills. It's important to understand your worth in the dating world. I have no intention of applying to be with a woman who has two kids and expects me to support her family while she's still figuring out her own life. Men, if she only cares about finding a "provider" and doesn't care about the person you are, then kindly walk the opposite way for obvious reasons that trickle down from her shallowness.
There is too much on the internet for her not to know that she doesn't meet the qualifications of the man she's looking for. But they all think that they are different and special. Here's a tip learn to cook and buy a dog/cat.
She’s going to work a demanding career as a public defender, then cook and clean when she gets home? Yeah, I believe this 100%…
All for an a salary of $40k but over $100k in debt lol. She is better off letting him have the kids and get a feee cdl training for being a trucker and can make double being home daily or weekends at least lol
Let me get this straight...😂 2 kids, wants you pay for everything while she saves all her money. And she's need to work on budgeting, agreeableness, and patience! She sounds like a great catch!😂 Go get em fellas!
😂😂😂😂😂exactly 💯
Great catch... this should be easy!
Its amazing to me how many people lack self-awareness in the sense of how society is receiving them, when it comes to expectations from a partner.
Classic case of wanting all the benefits of having a traditional man, but doesn't want to be a traditional woman. You must make 100k for a big gut and two kids and pay for everything, while she stacks the money she collects from the kid's father(s).
This is most women today, especially our sistas
She must have fell & bumped her head.
Her fiance left her because he knew after she finished Law school she was not going to help with nothing! Selfish heffa! 🤷🏾♀️
5:55 Textbook shaming language. RIP to the Godfather. If I’m not a real man because I don’t want to spend all of my time, energy, and resources providing for a delusional, modern woman and her two children by another man, then I guess I’ll just never be a real man. 😢
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@@emg.9246 That's some first rate t rolling
That was a slight look into the future with her. I bet you can’t say nothing to convince her to work out but she will be telling you all day about what a real man does based on what she wants at any given moment.
D.A.B thinks she slick😂... His money for your family your money for your family...F.O.H🤬
Idk any man making 100kand above does NOT need to be TAUGHT how to make more money. He worked himself to that point, he knows wtf he’s doing. Before talk start, Im not talking about the hustlers with 55 jobs, Im talking about Directors, VP of departments, businesses owners with legitimate locations, etc. Stop saying that nonsense. Y'all do learn from each other but those are not seeking you for your business knowledge.
Especially from a wannabe holier than thou, passive aggressive chick with no humility who self admittedly can't perform a basic budget. They actually think they sound attractive. Social Media really has these women brain dead. I require you to provide everything, but you better be ok with me trying to emasculate you with my main character energy. like WTF
Something is off about her!
Why the ad at the end so loud.
lol every time i hear it i think the same thing. Kendra only did 1 take and let it fly.
Why does every woman on here think they can build a man up🙄
How can they build one up and all they want to do is go on vacations and get $1000+ wigs like Kendra but she gets them much cheaper or free as she has stated on here before
They think they can build up a man but cannot build up a workout regiment for themselves.
The more I watch your show and witness these women mindset. The more I realize how great women were in the past.
Yes we were and still are.
Classy ladies still exist.
However, young or old we will never appear on this show or app.
I wish you blessings on your journey. Everyone deserves joy, love, peace, and respect.
I am not a man, but I believe “I will reach you to make money” has got to be the worst statement by a woman for a man. The man you want won’t stick around and the man who comes to you will allow you to build then leave.
This has got to be insane that anyone who will question the insanity you find normal is considered ‘weird’ what you said makes no sense at all? I wish my brother would say he has got with a woman with two kids he will provide for who contradicts herself by calling herself a housewife but wants to be a lawyer that is not a housewife or traditional. Just say you are modern, it’s fine.
so… it’s haram to ask for money from your wife but not have children out of wedlock.and dressing immodestly.
Her: I am old-fashioned
Also her: I have not one but TWO children out of wedlock
Any man with an ounce of commonsense:
Smash and dash 🏃🏾♂️➡️
She said she didn't like the dynamics of being a house wife because she had to put her stuff on hold... The very next minute she says she has no problem putting her career on hold to help her new husband...
She will manage money, save money, and teach a man to grow but she’s not good at budgeting. “Does that make sense”. Essentially what she wants is a man that allows her to do whatever she wants. She doesn’t like order from a man and will make excuses not to marry an “insecure”, “alcoholic” “controlling” man etc. but doesn’t mind sleeping with them. Typical scenario over and over again.
I see why she didn't get married. She's a modern women, with a backup plan. 2 kids, keep her money, want a career. No thx!!!
Kendra, occasionally you go in, holding women accountable for the words that come out of their mouths, and you did not disappoint on this interview. Thanks.
Real men don’t take care of other men’s children
Say it louder for the MFs in the back. 🫡
So there's no man you can name in your family who acted as a step father or father figure to any of your relatives? Because statistically someone in your family is a single mother, probably even your mother. Your comments speaks volumes of the lack of "real men" in your life.
@@PsychMajor-tc5tj nope.
True Facts Brother
@@PsychMajor-tc5tjfalse! Taking care of another man’s child doesn’t make one a real man! You see generations ago, it was a honor of a man taking care of another man’s kids. Those kids were born in WEDLOCK and the step father in most cases was deceased and the mother allowed that man to discipline those kids. Modern women today want all that but you can’t discipline the kids. It’s no benefit so a REAL MAN avoids being a STEP BABY CRASH DADDY
Lmao girl bye. "I can't name 3 flaws" let's start with your weight ma'am. I helped you out with one.
Girl i didnt think the women could get any more audacious 😅
I really do feel for the fellas. Because simpin aint easy.
And im a baby mama who has seen the error of my ways. But oooh child. Its rough out here for everyone
😂😂😂😂😂sure is
It sounds like this chick only wants a man to help her to provide for her and another man’s children because she doesn’t want to have to do it by herself. And to add insult to injury, she gets to keep ALL her money!!!!!!
This is the generation of "we can have sex but God forbid we get married".... fellas, it's our time to shine!!
Soooo… she is not good at budgeting (according to her own flaws) but wants to be the one who manages the savings for the families future 🤔. Get out of here 😂😂😂