This did not end well at all. Honestly, I should have hung up on her sooner.

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  • @porscheamoon2777
    @porscheamoon2777 2 года назад +2201

    Just because you're"healed" and did the "work" doesn't mean your a therapist. Healing never stops!

  • @sandraa.7794
    @sandraa.7794 2 года назад +485

    Her saying you are watching me because you don’t have anything better to do, reminds me that I actually have better things to do.

  • @lucky-hd1yv
    @lucky-hd1yv Год назад +208

    This woman spokes volumes with regards to mental health and healing 😎👌🏾💯.

    • @NoThankYou-uk4zd
      @NoThankYou-uk4zd 6 месяцев назад

      That's lile saying the moon comes out at night. That has nothing to do with how she labeled people when she aint shit herself.

    • @neosenkge7589
      @neosenkge7589 Месяц назад

      Simp !

  • @Eyeluv2d
    @Eyeluv2d 7 месяцев назад +81

    This interview was wonderful representation for this guest. She handled Kendra's aggression and vitriol SO wonderfully.

    • @latriceh87
      @latriceh87 24 дня назад

      Exactly, because I would have went off the way Kendra spoke to her.

  • @PendletonNorth
    @PendletonNorth 2 года назад +508

    So Because this young lady’s emotional maturity triggered Kendra, now Kendra is gaslighting her and saying that if you’re not in a relationship there’s something wrong with her. This is so toxic.

    • @EmresMommy
      @EmresMommy 2 года назад

      She a Lonely fraud just likeKSamuels

    • @gretchen725
      @gretchen725 2 года назад +30

      That’s exactly what she doing. Smh

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад +30

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @notthefather3919
      @notthefather3919 2 года назад +10

      @@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 doesn't she constantly tell people not to watch her show if they're sensitive?

    • @Michelle-1967
      @Michelle-1967 Год назад +7

      But that's how it is with Aries I go through that where I just don't care how things come out my mouth anymore I know I should but how Kendra is coming out her is because Kendra do not like what she's saying and it's the truth people do be on her show that it's emotionally still hurt and they be looking for relationship instead of healing from the last relationship that we sent me and this girl share the same birthday this is not fiction she talkin about this is 100% real how can you jump into a relationship when you just got over a relationship transforming spirits you have to be healed before you can get involved with anybody

  • @jonesy1221
    @jonesy1221 2 года назад +2056

    Kendra sounds tired af and under the weather, and I know dealing with her DID NOT help. It’s okay to take a break and get some rest

    • @stebbiej
      @stebbiej 2 года назад +26

      Naw that's not no excuse for this girl coming on this show

    • @ennvee1989
      @ennvee1989 2 года назад +14

      I agree, shes been sick for a while now.

    • @jonesy1221
      @jonesy1221 2 года назад +49

      @@stebbiej did you read my comment right? When did I ever give this chick an excuse?

    • @KingNez89
      @KingNez89 2 года назад

      Naw she is just finally heard enough of yalls female bullshit and she knows it's pure bullshit..

    • @loveyou4071
      @loveyou4071 2 года назад +14

      Agree the foolishness does not help you recover from being sick!

  • @that_eczema_girl
    @that_eczema_girl 2 года назад +1001

    Kendra, you shouldn't do a show when you're tired and sick. Take time to recover first. It's ok to cancel a show that you said you would do. We understand. The show will be here when you are better. Self care comes first.

    • @shogun8807
      @shogun8807 2 года назад +33

      I agree 100%. Kendra G should take some time to rest. I wish Kendra G the best.

    • @crookedsmile4886
      @crookedsmile4886 2 года назад +77

      Yes she was going off on her yet, not on one the ones who actually needed it. What Mia said was actually the truth and she knows it since she comes back and address it

    • @johneaston8314
      @johneaston8314 2 года назад +15

      I hope she only does shows when she's sick and tired. This was fantastic 🤣

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 2 года назад +22

      THIS was Pointless 😊‼️

    • @brando36922
      @brando36922 2 года назад +1

      @@crookedsmile4886 like this delusional woman didn't need it wow the delusion never ends lol.

  • @Muunbeau
    @Muunbeau Год назад +124

    As an aries, she really let kendra have it, to say nothin and smile through it. Im not that mature. Her therapy is working

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e Год назад +7

      😊❤

    • @NoThankYou-uk4zd
      @NoThankYou-uk4zd 6 месяцев назад +1

      Nah its like that dog thats in the house with the everything around her burning down. Smiling doesn't change anything when you're dying and not getting any better. 2 lids 2 different dads and bartending.

    • @Rated_Fenty
      @Rated_Fenty 2 месяца назад +1

      @@NoThankYou-uk4zdregardless she’s clearly emotionally stable which says a lot from what I’ve seen with most people on here

  • @DAnthonyBailey
    @DAnthonyBailey 2 года назад +419

    Kendra was NOT in a good mood. She was clearly picking fights with gf who didn’t say anything that others haven’t.

    • @ChialukaGold
      @ChialukaGold 2 года назад +19

      exactly, that was weird

    • @Mrampossible
      @Mrampossible 2 года назад +11

      She was tired and a bit toxic. This girl was sweet and considerate

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад +11

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @nikkigentry3305
      @nikkigentry3305 10 месяцев назад +1

      Obviously…..

    • @demarioross790
      @demarioross790 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@ChialukaGold👋😘😘

  • @Davethemechanic305
    @Davethemechanic305 2 года назад +1524

    Her getting a therapist is how some people act when turning vegan. Suddenly everyone is beneath them if they don't do what they did

  • @Keepitcuteorkeepitmute
    @Keepitcuteorkeepitmute 2 года назад +604

    In my opinion Kendra was the argumentative and combative one , that woman did not say anything that everyone hasn’t said in these comments at one time or another about certain guests . Kendra was tired and agitated and her energy showed that . I’ve seen women and men who have said and did waaay worse and have not gotten half the vitriol this woman received . Kendra needs to rest and rewatch this herself instead of making excuses as to why she’s being rude .

    • @XxCaptNKnucklesxX
      @XxCaptNKnucklesxX 2 года назад +29

      True

    • @MsClarissa2012
      @MsClarissa2012 2 года назад +76

      Kendra stated she rewatched and said she should have went harder 🤦🏾. She’s starting to become delusional 😂😂😂

    • @emerysutton5430
      @emerysutton5430 2 года назад +46

      Kendra needs a break she wanted to argue

    • @evonne437
      @evonne437 2 года назад

      Kendra is just jealous because this broke, uneducated, single mother, will be chosen by men before she will with all her credentials. The men never choose women Kendra's age.

    • @lamarthomas5603
      @lamarthomas5603 2 года назад +18

      Please tell me you understand why KS had the “Dont over talk me” rule. To maintain order while people were watching the show. This was chaotic all around. Not an enjoyable or productive exchange.

  • @TaReneeO
    @TaReneeO 10 месяцев назад +51

    This girl was so mature. Keep being you and keep feeling compassion for people as you do. Nothing you said was wrong. The devil will make you think that. I pray God send you love sweetheart. I pray for alot of people 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕💕

  • @ChialukaGold
    @ChialukaGold 2 года назад +241

    Glad someone in the comment said what I was thinking, Kendra did kinda drag it, and just because it's your show doesn't mean people can't give criticism and stuff, the lady was correct on some aspect and I respect her for how she conducted herself because she does seem like a sweet person. It's true though, lots of people are broken and want relationships and it isn't right, because the girl has a therapist she's values mental health and made her passionate about seeking therapy, that's all it is, it didn't have to be like this.

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад +10

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @lucky-hd1yv
      @lucky-hd1yv Год назад

      Right on 😂😂😂😎👌🏾💯

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife 3 месяца назад

      Exactly she could've easily went off

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife 3 месяца назад +1

      Kendra need therapy

    • @_mswhitney_
      @_mswhitney_ 3 месяца назад

      Exactly in life we all need constructive criticism

  • @simplybeautifuldiva1
    @simplybeautifuldiva1 2 года назад +555

    Kendra needs to actually get her therapist’s info cause she needs to use her for herself!

    • @mzj7246
      @mzj7246 2 года назад +49

      💯 bcuz she goes off and snap on ppl too much

    • @missbae_
      @missbae_ 2 года назад +64

      Anytime someone speaks highly of themselves or has high standards she gets pissed…it’s weird.

    • @kiyakisses8438
      @kiyakisses8438 2 года назад +6

      @@missbae_ exactly

    • @AlexusMusic
      @AlexusMusic 2 года назад

      Facts ! She’s rude asl down to her facial expressions. Her ass a straight up BULLY !

    • @tr3asurem3
      @tr3asurem3 2 года назад +11

      @@missbae_ She obviously has an ego about her job. She's arrogant. And arrogance isnt of God. These therapist can't really help you if there's no balance of spirituality within it. There help will be filled with arrogance and confusion. Just like she said " law of attraction is law attraction". Like lady that has nothing to do with what the girl implied. If you aren't in the areas your soulmate is in wtf does law of attraction have to do with anything, If you aren't in the same areas as them for them to reach you? She was saying a bunch of stuff with no correlation that made no sense. And, she's a therapist! Lord help humanity lol. 🙆🏽‍♀️

  • @robynjohnson8765
    @robynjohnson8765 2 года назад +274

    Kendra I think you may have been tired because it didn’t require this much energy. This could have been handled better.

    • @milesmorales4445
      @milesmorales4445 10 месяцев назад +17

      A great example of leaving your problems at home and not taking them to work. Sick, worry, or stress always effect people around you.

    • @sylviaa4884
      @sylviaa4884 8 месяцев назад +13

      I like Kendra. But she can be really Condescending and Dismissive at time

    • @NoThankYou-uk4zd
      @NoThankYou-uk4zd 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah i would have ended the call after she described people as yellow piss being at the bottom of barrel.

    • @feliciawyman3026
      @feliciawyman3026 6 месяцев назад +2

      Kendra smh

  • @spillthateawithdee429
    @spillthateawithdee429 Год назад +110

    As a therapist, she is so right. Black ppl are the ones who never seek therapy and run from one broken relationship from another. Therapy is important, especially in our community

    • @wanderlustly313
      @wanderlustly313 6 месяцев назад

      THAT's what you took from THIS??? And YOU're a therapist? Yikes!!!

    • @peepinggame6245
      @peepinggame6245 6 месяцев назад

      @@wanderlustly313hush 🤫

  • @cameron8500
    @cameron8500 2 года назад +260

    Kendra was out of line here. The young lady had some points. Kendra was sadly what men don't want loud and obnoxious and only caring about what she wanted to get out. She is right people are freaking damaged a to hell...Kendra you should know that. Seek to understand then seek to be understood. This was hard to watch because as a man this is what we have to face when dealing with women.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 года назад +14

      Yes she was absolutely out of line. Perhaps someone ticked her off that she ant attack, so she took it out on her.

    • @1fattgirlmah1
      @1fattgirlmah1 2 года назад +8

      I like what the young lady said. She is asking for the best thing a person can ask forn to be healed from childhood, past relationships and trauma. Yes like at least be working on yourself.

    • @destinydivine3868
      @destinydivine3868 2 года назад +10

      Profound wisdom “Seek to understand then seek to be understood”! Thanks for that nugget!

    • @crystalfields553
      @crystalfields553 2 года назад +6

      Sounds like she may have gotten offended because she committed on her guest she does have a point ppl are hurting bd they do need to heal first point blank period 😊

    • @1fattgirlmah1
      @1fattgirlmah1 2 года назад +4

      @@crystalfields553 They definitely do. Some hurt so bad they purposely lead connections with the physical and No mind and sound judgment smh

  • @dejajolie2816
    @dejajolie2816 2 года назад +391

    She didn’t say anything wrong, healing is important and so is mental health and therapy. Kendra went from 0 to 100 real quick.

    • @rf4341
      @rf4341 Год назад +28

      No her delivery was wrong. When a person needs healing they should never be described at “mustered colored piss”. Cause that goes from encouragement to judgment in 0 to 100.

    • @saharaloveland
      @saharaloveland Год назад +4

      @@rf4341 agree

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 Год назад +4

      ​@@rf4341 you ain't wrong, I agree 👍

    • @morijin9552
      @morijin9552 Год назад +1

      @@rf4341It’s not her fault she took it a certain way nobody entitled to speak a certain way

    • @diamondsterling3198
      @diamondsterling3198 Год назад +11

      Kendra was wrong and always takes offense. She shouldn’t have done the show being sick and tired

  • @sugarhill02
    @sugarhill02 2 года назад +715

    MY GOD!!!!! Kendra was very combative on this one. YUCK!!! I can agree with this young woman 1000% Self care, mental health and managing abusive tempers are so important. She's speaking truth and from experience.

    • @daylepitts1206
      @daylepitts1206 2 года назад

      I'm glad DeShawn went off on her.

    • @TheSolitary1
      @TheSolitary1 2 года назад +54

      Yea she went in on her for nothing

    • @theoneandonlyK01
      @theoneandonlyK01 2 года назад +40

      Exactly!! She was going in too hard for no reason

    • @NOHSAL
      @NOHSAL 2 года назад +20

      THANK YOU! This is the second video I've watched and I'm like 🥴 -- so we bickering with guest???
      Kendra had a point, but she DID drag it...

    • @christinthemystic
      @christinthemystic 2 года назад +18

      Yes, I think she was tired chile 😩 cause she was really going in

  • @senaturals7223
    @senaturals7223 Год назад +66

    She was actually very well spoken and handled her self well no matter how much Kendra came at her tuff love it

  • @krystinmcadams5326
    @krystinmcadams5326 2 года назад +78

    Kendra, you were straight up rude in this. I do not know this girl but I salute her because I would have hung up. If you did not agree with her, you could have just ended the call instead of berating her. I feel like you are starting to give off female Kevin Samuels energy on some of your calls. Dont sell your soul for a dollar; if you want to help people, be helpful. I just felt like this was an overkill; and i feel it was due to being sick...and i know as women when we arent married we can sometimes be irritable when at weddings. Idk but this was disappointing over all. There are wayyyy worst things that she could have said. The fact is...some of your callers DO NEED THERAPY; when they state their backgrounds / situations it is cringe worthy and you know it, and that's all she was pointing out. You have even TOLD your callers similar things so why is it bad when she says it lol There are a lot of ppl being very toxic in relationships; and she is just stating she does not want to endure that

  • @QueenSugar72
    @QueenSugar72 2 года назад +585

    Kendra, Kendra, Kendra. You can be evil when you're tired. Make sure you have at least 8 hours of sleep before each show!

    • @dimechick
      @dimechick 2 года назад +20

      New to the channel but I agree. Gotta watch a few more shows I guess

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад +39

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @Iknowjasmine
      @Iknowjasmine Год назад +6

      Damn right 😂😂

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 Год назад +1

      @@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 💯

    • @cuttinup97
      @cuttinup97 Год назад +2

      Kendra was right!

  • @ericap4265
    @ericap4265 2 года назад +137

    NO WAY I would have been this patient with Kendra ! No way

  • @A______Y
    @A______Y Год назад +168

    This video validates thoughts that I had about what kind of person Kendra is. Much love boo, but really you are just an Internet personality, get off your high horse ❤

  • @ValiantVisions314
    @ValiantVisions314 2 года назад +410

    Her two kids has nothing to do with what she said about mental health. Her words about mental health in the beginning of the show were absolutely right. In my opinion, Kendra immediately felt the need to go into defensive mode. They actually could have had a much better conversation about that.
    Both of my wives did not take the time to heal. Man let me tell ya, it was hell. Years later they are still the same.

    • @goldendiva1702
      @goldendiva1702 2 года назад +5

      That's a different show... 🤔

    • @sheelahwhite1280
      @sheelahwhite1280 2 года назад +5

      Did Kendra apologize to her

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 года назад +1

      @@sheelahwhite1280 I wanna know too 🤔

    • @AlexusMusic
      @AlexusMusic 2 года назад +10

      @@sheelahwhite1280 of course she didn’t. Kendra has a nasty attitude & is ALWAYS throwing shade at these black women down to her facial expressions. I don’t know WHYYY these folks are even asking her for any type of advice. She’s A Bully !!

    • @blackway643
      @blackway643 Год назад +2

      Both? Hey maybe it was you

  • @LovelyM404
    @LovelyM404 2 года назад +247

    I’ve never seen this side of Kendra. So different than what I thought of her. There has been other people on this show who deserved this type of energy and were clearly lying and Kendra went forward with them noncombatant. Kendra please give this woman a apology for yourself or at least your image.

    • @niad4090
      @niad4090 Год назад +13

      I agree I was thinking the same think I hope this don't be a regular "attitude" cause this was so rude I felt bad watching. Kendra is sick so hopefully that's it.

    • @qianab33
      @qianab33 Год назад +4

      Facts

  • @jordan6073
    @jordan6073 2 года назад +172

    Eh Kendra seemed kinda annoyed and hostile from the jump lol
    Also - the girl was 100% right in what she said…idk why Kendra treated her that way lol

    • @n.1lza
      @n.1lza 2 года назад +36

      I agree and I am surprised that people in the comments didn't catch that Kendra was being hostile from the beginning. What the lady said was kind of true, maybe her delivery was a little bit off

    • @ennvee1989
      @ennvee1989 2 года назад +27

      I agree but her delivery was just wrong. But Kendra def had funky energy from the start.

    • @myabea7553
      @myabea7553 2 года назад +27

      Kendra was mad because she was telling the truth about the guests on HER show

    • @roseclarke-taylor4649
      @roseclarke-taylor4649 2 года назад +3

      That’s exactly the reason

    • @jaskegoffii3968
      @jaskegoffii3968 2 года назад +6

      @@myabea7553 But ole girl was a TWO-TIME guest on her show, tryna talk like she's holier than thou. Like, do you not find it ironic how she's on the show twice but pointing the finger?

  • @Kenyanicole614
    @Kenyanicole614 Год назад +41

    Kendra was wrong for this 🥴 I think she misunderstood. The energy of the girl was changed by Kendra’s combativeness 😳

    • @wanderlustly313
      @wanderlustly313 6 месяцев назад +1

      Totally disagree. Literally first words out of her mouth were negative and unnecessarily combative. She spent the rest of the whole interview defending her poor behavior and pretending to not understand what Kendra was trying to teach her. Kendra is absolutely right - if she really has had therapy (which I doubt) she needs a full refund. Cause she aint learn shit. Very first thing a therapist is going to tell you is that YOU are responsible for your results, not the piss in the dating pool. The irony that SHE is the piss in the pool though makes this episode so very rich.

  • @BD-4life
    @BD-4life 2 года назад +811

    Honestly, Kendra if you are not feeling well you should take time to heal. Let’s not judge anyone, you included!

    • @WWEENETWORK
      @WWEENETWORK 2 года назад +27

      EXACTLY. WELL SAID.

    • @NiceKJ
      @NiceKJ 2 года назад +57

      I came here hoping to find this comment. Kendra came on admitting she was not well enough to host the show. I think she was very combative.

    • @cassiew1734
      @cassiew1734 2 года назад +21

      @@NiceKJ Now this is the comment I was looking for! Combative is the exact word I was thinking.

    • @patriciamwangani3514
      @patriciamwangani3514 2 года назад +7

      You said it all ❤

    • @MzFetteMzemoni
      @MzFetteMzemoni 2 года назад +11

      This was my first time running into this RUclipsr and clearly how she came at this young lady was inappropriate smh there’s only one Kevin Samuels No one can do it like him..

  • @LalaSoTalented
    @LalaSoTalented 2 года назад +598

    This young lady was very well spoken and handled herself well

    • @micflo8811
      @micflo8811 2 года назад +39

      Agreed. Kendra was really setting a negative tone and being unnecessarily combative...

    • @dimechick
      @dimechick 2 года назад +30

      Totally agree. The young lady handled herself exceptionally well. Kendra was combative, argumentative & aggressive. If she wasn’t well she should’ve taken time off. She was very nasty to this young lady and it wasn’t warranted whatsoever.

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад +16

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @nhull55
      @nhull55 2 года назад +3

      I agree. I get what she is saying. Not sure how this call went left. Iv heard much worse on previous lives, that didn't go this way. But Kendra stated she didn't feel well, especially when she started reading the comments. I was like Wow when she started cussing, but like she said it's her show.

    • @PC0411
      @PC0411 Год назад +4

      Being straight forward vs angry never the same.

  • @1906Gonzalez
    @1906Gonzalez 2 года назад +1010

    She's alone because she's a know it all, argumentative and talks entirely too much.

  • @wilonabrown1069
    @wilonabrown1069 Год назад +23

    I hope Kendra watch this again because she took her the wrong way.

  • @SnapszDuhh
    @SnapszDuhh Год назад +81

    She wasn’t wrong about anything she said. People do rush into relationship after relationship without healing. And she didn’t say everybody.

  • @DJ-zd3gj
    @DJ-zd3gj 2 года назад +817

    Nobody is “completely” healed and she’s clearly proof of that.

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 года назад +12

      I agree! A work in progress ❤

    • @rosierose6008
      @rosierose6008 2 года назад +19

      This guest is just rude.

    • @sonjastroud2022
      @sonjastroud2022 2 года назад +21

      She’s looking for perfection. Something she is not. Please do some self evaluation! This convo could have ended after like 5 mins. # negativeenergy

    • @Janettoi
      @Janettoi 2 года назад +3

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @corrineperry5523
      @corrineperry5523 2 года назад +5

      She must have been in therapy or still is if not she needs to be

  • @pinkorganichorse
    @pinkorganichorse 2 года назад +249

    She is right. Past guests often use this show as therapy. They are broken, sad and desperate. Only a few are actually ready for a new relationship.

    • @marimarielove
      @marimarielove 2 года назад +38

      I didn't see anything wrong with what she said. I've seen plenty of people who came on this show very hurt and broken. Maybe she shouldn't have lead with that comment. I see what she's saying, yes, she comes with baggage by way of her children but her baggage is not emotional trauma that causes you not to trust or see value in loyalty

    • @fitnessfreak212
      @fitnessfreak212 2 года назад +26

      Whether she’s right or wrong this isn’t the platform for all that she came on looking for a man but instead spent the majority of her time talking about other people's problems.

    • @KrysBrown89
      @KrysBrown89 2 года назад +10

      Exactly! From the episodes I’ve seen so far she’s spot on.

    • @marimarielove
      @marimarielove 2 года назад

      @@fitnessfreak212 I agree

    • @giannathedford74
      @giannathedford74 2 года назад +8

      And she’s one of them lol

  • @uniquelydifferent7605
    @uniquelydifferent7605 Год назад +30

    The young lady is correct. And she wasn't trying to be disrespectful at all.

    • @wanderlustly313
      @wanderlustly313 6 месяцев назад

      You sound dumb. How is "the dating pool is PISS" not disrespectful?? LMAO!! 🤡

  • @immanueleburne3216
    @immanueleburne3216 2 года назад +280

    If Kendra didn’t get emotional she could have asked the right questions. Kendra transferred her own energy off.

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 2 года назад +17

      Because the woman came off immediately insulting ppl

    • @teachertx
      @teachertx 2 года назад +1

      What were the right questions to ask?

    • @immanueleburne3216
      @immanueleburne3216 2 года назад +30

      @@FaithandNova As humans we will always be hurt if we take all critique as insults. We shouldn’t take things personal if they were not directed towards us

    • @immanueleburne3216
      @immanueleburne3216 2 года назад +24

      @@teachertx More personal questions of the young lady to prove she’s healed or to show if she is as hurt as she is saying others are. They were just a lot of fussing that didn’t make for a good visual entertainment

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 2 года назад +20

      Yes Immanuel I agree! I don't care who is begging her to come on, if she was in such a bad mood she should have done the show another time.

  • @amandasmart123
    @amandasmart123 2 года назад +250

    I thought I was watching Kevin Samuels! Lol there was nothing wrong with what this woman said. The audacity of her to want someone who’s healed and non toxic! 😂

    • @apriljohnson7447
      @apriljohnson7447 Год назад +9

      😂

    • @kingtdog6081
      @kingtdog6081 11 месяцев назад

      Because she ain't healed she has two illegitimate children two

    • @Itzskillz8
      @Itzskillz8 10 месяцев назад +2

      Kevin Samuels isn’t that emotional where he’s attacking from the get. He would have had a solid conversation with this woman.

    • @wanderlustly313
      @wanderlustly313 6 месяцев назад

      Coming from a toxic, non-healed person is the irony Boo Boo. whoosh! Watch it again, it'll make more sense.

  • @kadieshajones8076
    @kadieshajones8076 2 года назад +449

    The girl was actually nice and patient

    • @ronstan3064
      @ronstan3064 Год назад +19

      How? you should never come on the show diagnosing other people. Focus on yourself. She came on complaining with negative energy. I’m glad Kendra checked her and told her to focus on herself.

    • @DMBazile
      @DMBazile Год назад +5

      @@ronstan3064but she asked her about other people…she asked what she is looking for in a man lol.

    • @deprivome938
      @deprivome938 Год назад

      Black women are know for not practicing what they preach

    • @Morrisneuro83
      @Morrisneuro83 9 месяцев назад +4

      Diagnosing people? No she spoke the truth

    • @dwanepeart8456
      @dwanepeart8456 3 месяца назад

      Yea and I'm a bat with wings.

  • @brittanyphillips6950
    @brittanyphillips6950 Год назад +150

    She didn’t want to talk to her even before she accepted her to come. Kendra you do owe this lady an apology for the way you treated her.

  • @m.roberts1120
    @m.roberts1120 2 года назад +292

    If a person feels the need to remind their audience, customers, congregation, etc. that they had a bad or long day or remind them that they don't have to be here, just don't go to work that day. The people will live . . . The viewers who are at home and "have nothing better to do" will find something else to do. And that way, you can avoid being condescending or overreacting to things.

  • @stanleyjean455
    @stanleyjean455 2 года назад +212

    Shorty handle herself very well, Kendra definitely was attacking. Conversation could’ve been much better.

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад +4

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @dwanepeart8456
      @dwanepeart8456 3 месяца назад

      You people are lonely toons.

    • @carolyndaniels386
      @carolyndaniels386 3 месяца назад +2

      Kendra was right. You don’t let someone disrespect your guest regardless! Spend the time on yourself not on others.

  • @shessosierra6852
    @shessosierra6852 2 года назад +440

    Miss Kendra… love you owe her an apology. If you don’t feel good, then you shouldn’t have came on live. A hit dog hollers. She said nothing wrong. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @timlynch6271
      @timlynch6271 2 года назад

      And your delusional for that comment, she said nothing wrong. She said she’s a serious woman. Seriously fucking different dudes with a two year old baby on here looking for a step daddy, she is crazy and so are so many black women just like you. And another thing, black women ain’t fit to be love 💕 coaches, your too damn emotional. R.I.P. Kevin Samuels

    • @keezzygerald2084
      @keezzygerald2084 2 года назад +8

      Wow why would you think Kendra owes her an apology 🤦🏻‍♀️maybe you should apologize for her because Kendra absolutely doesn't owe her a apologize....

    • @amile6
      @amile6 2 года назад +10

      I Agree

    • @derrickmartin8201
      @derrickmartin8201 2 года назад

      You don't think Kendra is old and apology because the female trapped over talk her

    • @cole8love
      @cole8love 2 года назад +4

      She shouldn't apologize to the young lady, because she if a pool is piss, u can't expect to come out clean. Learn to clean off and look again.

  • @kimworrell202
    @kimworrell202 Год назад +24

    Kendra was being extremely aggressive and antagonistic . Kendra seemed to not like the fact that Sis stood her ground! Kendra it's okay to Agree to disagree. You are not perfect and your not always correct. I'm glad Sis stood her ground and went toe to toe with you. It's all good 👍🏾

  • @shaavondadavis5329
    @shaavondadavis5329 2 года назад +156

    The girl was not wrong. People are mentally and emotionally messed up and need to handle that before dating

    • @stephanieagselgado5312
      @stephanieagselgado5312 2 года назад +2

      I agree!

    • @stephanieagselgado5312
      @stephanieagselgado5312 2 года назад +5

      Kendra just really wasn't feeling good!

    • @swallace9958
      @swallace9958 2 года назад +1

      Exactly! She said nothing wrong. She took offense because she said people on her show needed healing. She took it personal.

    • @panserspikes6011
      @panserspikes6011 2 года назад +5

      Well, in some way she is. But this woman better be careful with pointing that finger, I have my doubts it's clean.
      Single mom with 2 kids from 2 different daddy's sitting there judging other people. 🤣

    • @shaavondadavis5329
      @shaavondadavis5329 2 года назад +2

      @panser spikes explain to me how's she judging when all she said is people need to heal before dating? To anyone with sense, that's sound advice, not judgment. Too many people jump into relationships, with unresolved issues, wrecking havoc on their partner. That's not right.

  • @ar8376
    @ar8376 Год назад +188

    I really feel bad that this poor girl had to deal with kendra going so hard on her for stating a simple opinion she had that actually made sense. She didn't deserve that negative energy

    • @PrettyMecca
      @PrettyMecca Месяц назад +1

      Right she mentioned energy being transferable n then went on to say how frustrated she already was and didn’t feel good prior to starting the segment. So it’s very clear that she was the one hosting the negative energy. The other girl just stated that people need to work on themselves before looking for love and she didn’t like the line up for that reason lol.

  • @chooselife8527
    @chooselife8527 2 года назад +271

    Kendra was tripping this episode forreal...... that's why she had to apologize and explain why she was being so aggressive and short tempered. Kendra must be one of those people who need some healing Chile. I think Mia was very classy in how she responded to Kendras abrasive antagonizing and I actually found her compelling and not annoying. I'd say Kendra was the annoying one this episode. Lord have mercy.

    • @reth86
      @reth86 2 года назад +8

      She has a poster board with her own picture behind her and you don't think this girl is a narcissist lol wow 😅

    • @chooselife8527
      @chooselife8527 2 года назад +24

      @@reth86 people who hang images of themselves up aren't inherently narcissistic. nobody even mentioned narcissism but you so I'm not sure how that's even relevant.

    • @battlerudee
      @battlerudee 2 года назад +5

      @@reth86 Trying to get her own lil show started 😩😂

    • @ms.kendra2774
      @ms.kendra2774 2 года назад +27

      @@reth86 you can’t see anything that’s on that poster board Kendra just needed an excuse for how she treated that lady ! She was wrong 😑 on so many levels

    • @truth2powermillions400
      @truth2powermillions400 2 года назад +4

      Kendra was on point

  • @blove2719
    @blove2719 Год назад +13

    Hi Mia, you did not deserve that energy from this woman! You are a beautiful intelligent young women and should not tolerate such aggression and disrespect. You were attracting older men because you are mature and appear to have a good head on your shoulders! You do not need and should not entertain this kind of foolery! I truly hope you find love! Take care!

  • @kane99560
    @kane99560 2 года назад +161

    It's funny no one ever says "I am single because I have 2 kids with 2 BDs" when the reality is that's the #1 reason most and especially productive men look past you.

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 2 года назад +31

      Right lol. She judging everyone else but SHE is still here and a mess herself.

    • @jamesbeebee9970
      @jamesbeebee9970 2 года назад +8

      I see dis comment clearly went over dey heads

    • @jamesbeebee9970
      @jamesbeebee9970 2 года назад +11

      @@perdybirdie facts n had a child n highschool yea Kendra did right...lucky she ain't go in n take dis gurl womanhood all da way!!!

    • @adustygreasyandsweatybonnet
      @adustygreasyandsweatybonnet 2 года назад +15

      @@jamesbeebee9970 facts she was getting way 2 busy as a teenager and then wanne come up in here and get 2 woofin.

    • @johnnipace5619
      @johnnipace5619 2 года назад +14

      I have to agree with this. That's the MAIN reason quality men aren't checking

  • @myabea7553
    @myabea7553 2 года назад +117

    I believe Kendra dislikes the fact that this young lady told the truth about the guests she has on her show. She keeps talking about Law of Attraction but look at the quality of the people she has on her show.

    • @BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS
      @BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS 2 года назад +6

      Do they call in or does she go seeking them out to be on her show?

    • @myabea7553
      @myabea7553 2 года назад +15

      @@BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS does it matter?

    • @jaykool6865
      @jaykool6865 2 года назад +5

      @@myabea7553 yes it does matter she really don't know if some of these ppl hurt or unleal, in reality if this was ur show do know that many of these guys would have issued in there life n why we acting like ppl is perfect because we not....

    • @BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS
      @BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS 2 года назад +3

      @@myabea7553 it matters a lot genius.

    • @myabea7553
      @myabea7553 2 года назад +7

      @@BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS no. It doesn’t matter, she literally said herself you attract what you are. The law doesn’t stop applying just because it’s the other way around. She is literally ATTRACTING broken people.

  • @somemorre
    @somemorre 2 года назад +174

    Kendra snapped on the poor lady lol. Kendra, Sis, get some rest and leave those monster drinks alone!

    • @leadrecruiter
      @leadrecruiter 2 года назад +24

      This is no poor lady she is condescending as hell.

    • @somemorre
      @somemorre 2 года назад +1

      @@leadrecruiter I didn't agree with the Woman's point of view, but she really wasn't that bad. Kendra has had people on waayyyy worse and she let them slide. Kendra was exhausted/sick and that was the problem, she even snapped on the comment section lol. Kendra was acting like the tired Mom running around the house yelling at everyone including the dog, but should be in bed with the door closed and the curtains drawn.

    • @leadrecruiter
      @leadrecruiter 2 года назад +5

      @@somemorre I get that she was tired and sick. Her response is what I expect when someone tries to "attack" your subscribers or your clients.

    • @darrylmitchell4995
      @darrylmitchell4995 2 года назад

      Poor lady? Are you fucking kidding me? 2 kids and 2 baby daddies and she got the nerve to judge other guests on the show like she's not a poor decision maker herself.

    • @evonne437
      @evonne437 2 года назад +11

      @@leadrecruiter Kendra is just jealous of these younger girls. No man on the show ever wanted a woman Kendra's age so Kendra put down young pretty women but men still will choose this woman over Kendra and all her money and credentials.
      Kendra was not nice, her fangs were showing. Being tired doesn't give you the right to act the way she did.

  • @LumixLane
    @LumixLane 7 месяцев назад +14

    Whoah Kendra really butchered this lady for no reason. I hope she apologized.

  • @MikeBeyene
    @MikeBeyene 2 года назад +628

    Mia is the type of person that uses the term "toxic relationship" about her relationships but acts like she wasn't a willing and consenting participant

    • @digi9ten
      @digi9ten 2 года назад +24

      Facts. She's a nonsense person.
      Living in glass house, throwing all of the stones!
      How Sway?!

    • @biblethumper8088
      @biblethumper8088 2 года назад +8

      That doesn't make sense. What toxic behavior did she display about her relationships? Moses is a perfect example of a person who had flaws, and yet he was chosen by God to judge and lead a whole nation.

    • @johneaston8314
      @johneaston8314 2 года назад +7

      She's chaos

    • @RawCultureReport
      @RawCultureReport 2 года назад +8

      Better yet she was the toxic one

    • @springtree2184
      @springtree2184 2 года назад +1

      ......or the source of the toxicity

  • @Mrampossible
    @Mrampossible 2 года назад +268

    She was absolutely right.. she was sweet and kind.. i felt great energy from her. Kendra was tired and a bit toxic

  • @Shaqreacts
    @Shaqreacts 2 года назад +300

    I understand it’s your platform. Come on Kendra can’t people have a opinion even if you don’t agree with people if that’s what she feels. Most of the thing this female say it’s true. She isn’t lying

    • @TheOnenotthe2500
      @TheOnenotthe2500 2 года назад +18

      Agreed

    • @Nik_Key
      @Nik_Key 2 года назад +17

      I agree! I think Kendra wasn’t feeling well and didn’t have a lot of patience this night!

    • @Tyrantoftheworld
      @Tyrantoftheworld 2 года назад +36

      This comment right here shows why so many people are toxic. Kendra was 100% right. She saying everyone is looking like piss and She got her own piss ass life with 2 kids from 2 baby daddies. If you live in a glass house, don't throw rocks. It's like if a person made fun of someone's shoes but they got the same shoes on. The show is to find a date not to talk about how shitty other people are. Some of yall energy is off

    • @Shaqreacts
      @Shaqreacts 2 года назад +15

      @@Tyrantoftheworld bro I don’t agree with her 100% but sum of the things she said it’s true. She isn’t perfect but every one need to heal when they enter a relationship

    • @Tyrantoftheworld
      @Tyrantoftheworld 2 года назад

      @@Shaqreacts If I punch some random girl in the face and say "we need to stop violence" would you say "yea this dude punching a random girl in the face is right?" NO! She's saying the right things but she is CLEARLY not healed. No you should not agree with her at all

  • @Tiffany-un3hw
    @Tiffany-un3hw Год назад +22

    Kendra was tripping and to say she needs a refund from her therapist is offensive. Kendra is projecting by saying Mia was aggressive and “spewing hate”. Life goes on. She doesn’t have to want to be with her child’s father if they aren’t compatible. Unhealed people are the ones that “stay for the kids” instead of choosing themselves.

    • @wanderlustly313
      @wanderlustly313 6 месяцев назад

      It's dumb shit like this why we stay losing. THIS is why 80% of our children are raised by single moms. THIS is why our boys go to prison and our girls are teen moms. THIS is why our sistas are the least married demographic. Lord help us.

    • @Shayrice14
      @Shayrice14 4 месяца назад

      Kendra refuse to get that you dont have to stay with your kids dad !

  • @ms.a806
    @ms.a806 2 года назад +304

    I think the guest was right when she said we are not who we attract, we are who we say yes to and accept into our lives. We cannot control what any given person finds attractive.

    • @hafizstokes
      @hafizstokes 2 года назад +35

      We attract what we are or the energy we put out plus who we decide to give our attention too as well.

    • @wudacudashuda_
      @wudacudashuda_ 2 года назад +8

      I agree with you. Some people are attracted and they competent misread people. However, they like you. I think I agree with the first to. Who you're with is a representation of you. You really are who you say yes to.

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et 2 года назад +2

      @@hafizstokes 🙏🏽👏🏽

    • @combskev
      @combskev 2 года назад +11

      Both things can be true, but what you put out into the world is definitely what you get in return. What humble and kind dude wants to deal with that negative energy?

    • @blahblahblah3722
      @blahblahblah3722 2 года назад +1

      Agreed!!!

  • @destinydivine3868
    @destinydivine3868 2 года назад +281

    I understood exactly what she was saying and she was right. If you are looking for a relationship you should be emotionally healthy. That debate was unnecessary and went on way too long. She wasn’t disrespectful. Spoke her honest opinion and energy did transfer. Kendra’s energy was off before she took the call. I’m so glad the show has moved back into a more positive enlightening and entertaining show. That was the reason I chose to watch the show in-spite of the million things I have to do. 😅

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 года назад +8

      I'm now watching this show since yesterday. I thought everything was great. Good and entertaining minus the extra toxicity that KS gave. But this 1 here seem a little toxic how Kendra was coming at her. Like the lady wasn't saying anything bad. She talked about the nasty dating pool that All Of Us Singles Experienced. Then Kendra tried to turn it back on her like she gotta look down on herself. Yeah, I couldn't finish after that. SMH! 🤦‍♂️

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад +4

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @rickyshaun1601
      @rickyshaun1601 Год назад +1

      Then why was she on the show if she was healed.

    • @alexpiper1115
      @alexpiper1115 Год назад

      give us concrete examples of what being emotionally healthy looks like ....

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 Год назад

      Agreed! 💯

  • @ourtruth216
    @ourtruth216 2 года назад +256

    One week, month, year of therapy doesn’t mean you’re healed. Her adamant mentally of judging other people shows she still has healing to do.

    • @bippityboppityboo2u
      @bippityboppityboo2u 2 года назад

      Exactly, projecting like a mofo

    • @zarinazawa6180
      @zarinazawa6180 2 года назад +14

      I thought the same thing too.

    • @wifeyb.9779
      @wifeyb.9779 2 года назад +7

      I was thinking same.

    • @__kash
      @__kash 2 года назад +13

      I’m so tired of people throwing around these social media buzzwords and don’t know what they’re talking about.

    • @Awnfire4God
      @Awnfire4God 2 года назад +4

      I would like to know how asking for someone who is healed is judge mental? I’m so confused at these comments. Should she be asking for someone who is abusive because she has two kids? WTH

  • @TheQueenOfGreatness
    @TheQueenOfGreatness 3 месяца назад +3

    If Kendra didn't feel well because SHE was at a wedding and under the weather, what do that have to do with us?? We did not tell her to record while she's under the weather.
    Kendra need a reality check

  • @twixx9532
    @twixx9532 2 года назад +157

    I love how she stood her ground!!

    • @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      @meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 2 года назад

      Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮

    • @Big-Kei
      @Big-Kei Год назад +4

      ​@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
      Girlll how many comments are u gonna copy and paste this same comment on? She couldn't come for Kendra "Bag" if she wanted to 😂

  • @georgebalenton1392
    @georgebalenton1392 2 года назад +324

    A big part of healing is accepting the part you played in your own life's problems.

    • @Brownie05191
      @Brownie05191 2 года назад +6

      Stop preaching! Lmao Out here telling the truth!

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 2 года назад +7

      This! I was telling a relative this exact same thing...she takes no accountability with the way her life is turning out

    • @theambitiouschic
      @theambitiouschic 2 года назад +1

      Yes!

    • @kaim1810
      @kaim1810 2 года назад +1

      Right!

    • @tamekaedge9390
      @tamekaedge9390 2 года назад +2

      Amen 🙏🏾 accountability point blank…

  • @user-gt1kd9rv1w
    @user-gt1kd9rv1w 2 года назад +300

    At this point, “co-parent” is code for “broken home” ppl put a cute little label on it to evade these irresponsible decisions of these backward families.
    This lady literally didn’t say anything wrong. Even when she said you attract all types of ppl, it’s who you CHOSE is what matters, which is TRUE. She kept an up beat attitude even after Kendra dragged her. BUT her resume is NOT anything pristine. Literally everything Kendra said was 1,000% right, she held her 100% accountable. But I think since Kendra is tired & sick, she seemed more impatient lol

    • @AB-vb4sv
      @AB-vb4sv 2 года назад +9

      Lmao the code words are amazing.

    • @honeyxcube2394
      @honeyxcube2394 2 года назад +6

      Very well put

    • @BlankestKnight
      @BlankestKnight 2 года назад +34

      @Square Peg Still backwards. "First comes love, then comes marriage, THEN comes the baby in a baby carriage." They taught us the proper way since kindergarten yet we still screw it up.

    • @rickymorty511
      @rickymorty511 2 года назад +18

      Very well put. I’m half way through the video. So far I feel like Kendra was the one that kind of attacked her. She wanted to defend all the people that came on her show. Which I think is fair for her to do but if we’re being honest. Kendra has made tons of faces and said tons of things about those same people. I don’t necessarily see either as being right or wrong. More so a difference of opinion. Also Kendra should have ignored the comment about people being broken and just continued. We live and learn. Nothing to see here.

    • @CocoChanelle-1
      @CocoChanelle-1 2 года назад +1

      Never say “broken home” around your kids.

  • @skyesmith-e4s
    @skyesmith-e4s 10 месяцев назад +32

    The young lady was 100 percent right.. glad she stood her ground.

  • @DefiesAllStereotypes
    @DefiesAllStereotypes 2 года назад +139

    I've yet to see someone exclaim they want to date someone who's "healed", that didn't have major mental health issues themselves.

    • @fangiscool1
      @fangiscool1 2 года назад +3

      That doesnt even occur to people without major issues

    • @chanelagaintv
      @chanelagaintv 2 года назад +10

      Idk cause for me, I’m a really happy person who likes to see the best in everything. I don’t want nobody who’s vibrating low in relationship with me. I’m past that point, it was dangerous.

    • @queenivy8600
      @queenivy8600 2 года назад +6

      @@chanelagaintv Same. I shy away from broken men. It is very dangerous dealing with emotionally unhealthy people period. Also she is correct, sweet and kind will get you walked all over, firm and upfront is the way to go. The book *Why men love b1tches?* woke me up to face reality.

    • @just_shaeee
      @just_shaeee 2 года назад +2

      @@chanelagaintv Same. I do therapy and prescribe psychiatric medication. I can’t fathom having an additional patient to go home to at this stage in my life.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 года назад +2

      the people thta scream healed be some of the most unhealed people..she a red flag

  • @jermaineburgess3767
    @jermaineburgess3767 2 года назад +178

    Imagine a single mother with 2 kids with 2 different men who had a baby in high school telling other they need to heal

  • @antoniotula262
    @antoniotula262 2 года назад +263

    I hope Kendra isn't over-working herself. Between these interviews, training for Marathon & whatever else is going on in her life.

    • @helloify498
      @helloify498 2 года назад +2

      @ Antonio Tula: and she drinks Red Bulls.

    • @krisfirstofhername.8444
      @krisfirstofhername.8444 2 года назад

      No, she knows her limits. She's going to be fit and healthy.

    • @DJKidd301
      @DJKidd301 2 года назад

      @@krisfirstofhername.8444 dumb response

    • @hankzala3838
      @hankzala3838 2 года назад +8

      Nobody tells her to do all of that.

    • @uniqwiab8679
      @uniqwiab8679 2 года назад +4

      @@helloify498 I hate those, they nasty and too much caffeine. Had me feeling like I was about to die.

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e Год назад +12

    Somebody looooves to pick fights and argue. Smh... (she was wrong as two left shoes...) K is tempermental and super fickle.

  • @trenaedavis5221
    @trenaedavis5221 2 года назад +468

    People that take one session of therapy think they're so virtuous and haven't started to tackle their brokenness. Bless you Kendra.

    • @jonesy1221
      @jonesy1221 2 года назад +19

      I said the exact same thing! One session and she feels above everybody

    • @jonesy1221
      @jonesy1221 2 года назад +6

      I said the exact same thing! One session and she feels above everybody

    • @NiyaB81
      @NiyaB81 2 года назад +7

      😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @kayemendi4501
      @kayemendi4501 2 года назад +8

      That’s not true for us that know we have deep issues. I have been in therapy since I was maybe 8 years old. I’m still in therapy on and off at 40 years old. I am a constant work in progress ALL THE TIME!!
      Unfortunately, broken NEVER ends once you become broken, especially if that brokenness came at a young age.
      Just like a drug addict or alcoholic, I must constantly work to be a “normal” and good person.

    • @wudacudashuda_
      @wudacudashuda_ 2 года назад +4

      For real...omg. This is ridiculous.

  • @jackpotjoanna6208
    @jackpotjoanna6208 2 года назад +302

    I think the young lady made perfect sense. Kendra appears argumentative and just not wanting to hear what she has to say. Just because it’s Kendra’s show doesn’t make her right. Not her fault you haven’t had a nap.

    • @TheOnenotthe2500
      @TheOnenotthe2500 2 года назад +26

      Real talk shawty was just tired just regroup and try it tomorrow baby it was taken alllll out of context because I didn't see anything she said was wrong

    • @krystinmcadams5326
      @krystinmcadams5326 2 года назад +37

      i am glad it isnt just me. Kendra was super combative; and i dont understand why....because the girl did not lie....there are a lot of unhealed ppl in the world. money and looks mean nothing if you arent a good person

    • @crookedsmile4886
      @crookedsmile4886 2 года назад +12

      Right I'm confused on how she didn't see that.

    • @iamnicoletaylor
      @iamnicoletaylor 2 года назад +15

      Exactly. People say some pretty horrible things about the guest in the comment section every single show but she’s yet to address her listeners calling people name’s; ie ugly , funny looking and all kinds of things that tear people down but going so hard on this young lady for saying people need to heal. And, yes! She does know what’s being said about her guest while the show is going on because she stays reading the comments. Her attitude was no better and this was hard to watch.

    • @michaelpierce67
      @michaelpierce67 2 года назад +10

      And they say kevin samuels was hard on women😂😂😂

  • @toyadominick2571
    @toyadominick2571 2 года назад +1309

    This girl actually makes sense! I love how she stood her ground.

    • @bigsteppa1928
      @bigsteppa1928 2 года назад +46

      That’s it. People mad oh well get a therapist lol 😂 people don’t want you to call a spade a spade.

    • @philamaphanga7502
      @philamaphanga7502 2 года назад +78

      Just what I was thinking....she just stood her ground calmly inspired of Kendras tantrums....she was not intimidated

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 года назад +19

      Yes ma'am, Exactly!! (We're rare. Most are slow n go with the crowd.)

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 года назад +54

      @@philamaphanga7502 right! Kendra was wrong.

    • @karries6342
      @karries6342 2 года назад +75

      Exactly! the caller didn't say anything wrong! I don't get why Kendra is snapping at her like this

  • @Iamwhoiam993
    @Iamwhoiam993 Год назад +146

    NOBODY who's in therapy needs to be on a show like this looking for ❤️

    • @PPinkzmusic
      @PPinkzmusic Год назад +5

      Wow!!! great point!!!

    • @ncmthasnowman9646
      @ncmthasnowman9646 Год назад +8

      I DON'T LIKE THIS SHOW, I Don't Even LIKE KENDRA G SHE IS RUDE TO THIS YOUNG LADY, I'm DONE WATCHING

    • @KandiceKan
      @KandiceKan Год назад +2

      Exactly!!!

    • @bigstomp120
      @bigstomp120 11 месяцев назад +2

      🗣💯

    • @mekeo5237
      @mekeo5237 10 месяцев назад +2

      All she said was she wants some one healed... That's all.

  • @ManPursueExcellence
    @ManPursueExcellence 2 года назад +204

    Two people took out their frustrations on others. The Mia girl said broken people on the show are turning the dating pool into mustard yellow piss. Kendra took out her tiredness and illness on Mia.

    • @crookedsmile4886
      @crookedsmile4886 2 года назад +25

      Yes, I thought she was coming for her for no reason

    • @vaeyah5354
      @vaeyah5354 2 года назад +6

      💯💯

    • @certified_proffesional
      @certified_proffesional 2 года назад +30

      Naa, she just recognized someone who thinks their shit don’t stink. Called her out and didn’t expect her shitting on the people who come on the show.

    • @PiscesPrincess87
      @PiscesPrincess87 2 года назад +3

      I agree

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL 2 года назад +1

      Agreed

  • @jasmijn4213
    @jasmijn4213 2 года назад +581

    Mia- "I'm just looking for someone that is actually healed, cuz I noticed on your show it is a lot of broken people coming on this show and they really need therapist and they are the reason why it is mustard yellow piss in the dating pool"
    Also Mia- Been trying multiple times to get on a show I feel has mostly broken people to find a potential suitor.
    Me- 🙄🤔😬
    People typically don't search for love in environments they KNOW are unsavory. I feel like Kendra knew what was up because kendra don't pop off for nothing.

    • @Camille4Real
      @Camille4Real 2 года назад +25

      GIRL!! 💯

    • @wudacudashuda_
      @wudacudashuda_ 2 года назад +23

      You said it!

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 2 года назад +45

      An accurate summation. She really liked tooting her own "I'm healed" horn over people.

    • @jujuthaguru
      @jujuthaguru 2 года назад +18

      Nah, Kendra just woke up on the wrong side of the bed. 😩 Lol I had the same question but I’m guessing she thought she could cast a larger net coming on here (which she can) … there’s more people watching the show than coming on. So maybe that’s who she’s hoping to reach … the viewers 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @mzcam76
      @mzcam76 2 года назад

      Unfortunately, this is my sister and the family doesn't even fuck wit her because of her backwards ass attitude!! She is the epitome of psycho! Smh

  • @PendletonNorth
    @PendletonNorth 2 года назад +248

    Kendra is clearly a hurting person who was shown up by this guest. This is so sad. I love that- you’re not who you attract, you’re who you accept into your life. Love this!

    • @Markus..M33
      @Markus..M33 2 года назад

      You sound dumb.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 года назад +4

      👏👏💯

    • @tigerking226
      @tigerking226 2 года назад

      This guest is as delusional and diluted as you 😂

    • @mica8435
      @mica8435 2 года назад +4

      Right.

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Год назад +7

      I agree. The nicest people attract bad , narcissistic people but they don’t have to accept them.

  • @MomaKingOracle
    @MomaKingOracle Год назад +33

    This is the first guest that I’ve seen who has taken her healing seriously ❤good luck to her. She has a light within which will attract both good and bad. She’s good 👍 She’s a star 🌟

  • @michelspencer8782
    @michelspencer8782 2 года назад +69

    She did not come on with a temper! She was so intelligent in her responses with you!!

  • @marieahjones5535
    @marieahjones5535 Год назад +298

    Kendra was the aggressive one in this interview. Mia was being sincere.

    • @alyssaswann9784
      @alyssaswann9784 Год назад +3

      Ain’t nobody got time for that lol

    • @MsAllensharell
      @MsAllensharell Год назад +9

      I agree. She was MAD aggressive. 😂😂 but they both had very valid points the energy was just imbalanced.

    • @Pinktownsend69
      @Pinktownsend69 Год назад +12

      I totally agree with you maybe Kendra was tired but there was still no excuse for her being so aggressive she didn't even take the time to listen

    • @heyheyhey40
      @heyheyhey40 Год назад +5

      Naw. This lady was thinking way too highly of herself. She’s 30 with 2 kids and 2 DIFFERENT baby daddies. She’s never been married. This is the type of woman that my grandma would call “a hussy”.

    • @Nico-vn8uq
      @Nico-vn8uq Год назад

      @@heyheyhey40I lol lol lol hi ok 13:39 klii😮😅i😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅o o 😮😅😅 pop pop😅

  • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
    @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 года назад +188

    Yikes! I understood what Mia means. A lot of people do come on this show with unresolved trauma, and straight up foolish situations like just having an infant, or still being married...

    • @BlaydeAlabama
      @BlaydeAlabama 2 года назад +19

      She didn't lie

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 года назад +19

      @@NyaSekhmet Yep I didnt think she did anything wrong. Most of the people on the show seem to be playing games

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 года назад +2

      @@BlaydeAlabama She sure didn't.

    • @balls_down_ya_throat456
      @balls_down_ya_throat456 2 года назад

      So why did she keep coming back? Clearly she’s the problem you females come up with any excuse to save y’all fellow women bullshit.

    • @tishag216
      @tishag216 2 года назад +7

      I feel wat she sayn kendra b goin over board sometimes

  • @danieller2364
    @danieller2364 Год назад +12

    She expressed her feelings and points of view respectfully! Kendra knew she's not the type to be disrespectful so she ran with it.

  • @imaniakika
    @imaniakika 2 года назад +187

    “You are not what you attract; you’re what you say yes to”… that actually makes a lot of sense. Especially for magnetic people who are likely to attract all types of individuals. It really comes down to discernment.
    Kendra was unnecessarily antagonistic towards the young lady. And the guest was combative. Not a shining moment for either of them.

    • @lamarthomas5603
      @lamarthomas5603 2 года назад

      You gotta be kidding me. She is on the show because she isn’t attracting anyone that she wants to say YES to! She is attracting a bunch of N-Os

    • @GreekYogurtGranola
      @GreekYogurtGranola 2 года назад +14

      True. She was dragging it a bit. Not feeling well is no reason to snap that quickly. She could’ve calmly corrected her and kept it pushing

    • @godsangel67able
      @godsangel67able 2 года назад +4

      You are what you attract!

    • @crookedsmile4886
      @crookedsmile4886 2 года назад +4

      @@godsangel67able being in the city you can attract everyone still doesn't mean you entertain everyone. If what you say is the case we will have mostly one mind trackers and tribes.

    • @dannygatsby3941
      @dannygatsby3941 2 года назад +14

      Disagree. The guest openly criticized other guests on this show. That she shouldn’t even be worried about in the first place. This show is about her receiving help to find someone. And that’s bad for reviews and will only go downhill for her show. She checked her for it and the other people that thinks she’s dragging it.

  • @cassleahg487
    @cassleahg487 2 года назад +600

    No need to justify your response Kendra, you were right!
    A healed person is humble, loving and reflective. They can accept accountability and apologise when they’re wrong.

    • @kenallen8213
      @kenallen8213 2 года назад +26

      Very true. This woman lacked humility and was very combative. "Passionate"?... What she calls passionate I call aggressive. Nope. This is a modem woman.

    • @erikasky1118
      @erikasky1118 2 года назад +5

      hello say it again

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 2 года назад +8

      Her face alone speaks when Kendra speaks says a lot

    • @movies1342
      @movies1342 2 года назад +3

      I understand what she saying

    • @wifeyb.9779
      @wifeyb.9779 2 года назад +17

      She isn't healed

  • @IWantMyVisionBack
    @IWantMyVisionBack 2 года назад +94

    Get some rest Kendra!
    I can hear it in your voice!

  • @MartinMartin-wy2wi
    @MartinMartin-wy2wi 10 месяцев назад +5

    Wishing Mia best! It's her divine human-right to have the life she deserves.

  • @leelee4570
    @leelee4570 2 года назад +167

    She is well spoken and just knows what she wants. I don’t think she Was disrespectful in anyway, just direct. I understood exactly what she was projecting. Maybe you just didn’t like her personality, but she was very upfront and I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. Need more people to know what they want and the world would be a better place. I Wish her well and Hope she finds the kind of love she desires from one sister to the next. God bless

    • @angellicbeautyproducts9479
      @angellicbeautyproducts9479 2 года назад +23

      Kendra was wrong period.

    • @JayBlack41510
      @JayBlack41510 2 года назад +10

      She literally said hurtness yet you think this woman is well spoken lol. Hope all you want but there is a deeper reason why she didn't answer the question about not being with either father. I wouldn't wish this headache onto any man doing well for himself.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 года назад +1

      @@angellicbeautyproducts9479 period! Yep

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 года назад

      👏

    • @childking1712
      @childking1712 2 года назад

      Right👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯💯

  • @nonelikememe
    @nonelikememe 2 года назад +32

    I think Kendra missed her point. People truly do come on the show to vent their problems about the opposite gender. They are trying to feel a void. I don't think she was saying she is perfect just saying people need to heal or attempt to heal before they date. People go on the show to talk mess period.

    • @nowayjose23
      @nowayjose23 2 года назад +2

      Yeah, does the people Kendra are attracting on her show say alot about her? I've watched other dating shows and they don't have these problems and the hosts don't respond like this either. It's part of the ratchet tv movement...it's PRIMARILY for entertainment.

    • @Kam-thefuture
      @Kam-thefuture 2 года назад +2

      Exactly I agree with the girl…

    • @lwiggs9329
      @lwiggs9329 2 года назад +1

      I agree! I think Kendra missed this one. I understood what she was saying.

  • @morganlloyd7323
    @morganlloyd7323 2 года назад +80

    Nah, it's YOU, Kendra. She probably should've hung up on you. Not really sure about what's been going on with you over the last month, but you've been coming off REALLY judgmental of people like they can't have an opinion. YOU'RE NOT A THERAPIST (As you claim). You're the show host. People come to your platform to meet people not to argue with you about their opinions. Think you should take sometime to re-watch some of your videos. We don't need another Kevin Samuels. Still a FAN, BUT GEEZ!!! Stop attacking people. What color is the water when YOU jump in the pool.

    • @TheeDrPrincess
      @TheeDrPrincess 2 года назад +18

      EXACTLY.

    • @kewan2045
      @kewan2045 2 года назад +8

      The caller lacks self awareness. She aggressive and can’t bite her tongue. Quality men not filling with her

    • @morganlloyd7323
      @morganlloyd7323 2 года назад +8

      @@kewan2045 I guess it depends on perspective, and I feel you should comment to yourself. Kendra tried to do a follow-up apology to explain why she was losing her mind. That speaks for itself. Kendra was the one who was visibly needing a therapist. The young lady seemed contained the entire show. Kendra kept hurting insults at her thinking she could belittle her. She snapped on one of the people in the comments. She even tried to critique her therapist. Personally, I’m getting tired of people using the Kevin Samuels tactic to insult in a conversation. “Are you seeing a therapist?” To me, I think it takes a narcissistic person to ask a question like that. Just because they won’t agree with your point of view. Which Sammy did, and now Kendra is trying to do it.

    • @kewan2045
      @kewan2045 2 года назад

      @@morganlloyd7323 It is a matter of perspective. It doesn’t matter what apology or explanation she gave. This is entertainment not your life. I’m pointing out this lady thinks she’s the ish because she’s going to therapy. That’s good for her but it doesn’t make her better then anyone else. Comes off condescending and her “speak my mind” attitude she’s the type to try to embarrass her man in public. Can’t take her a.z.z nowhere. And men making over 80k not settling for a 2x baby mama with a toddler. But you know women can have it all so they tell each other 🤷‍♂️

    • @johncampbell5929
      @johncampbell5929 2 года назад +2

      Nah SHE was rude. Kevin sameuls was nothing like her

  • @NicoleDavis-k5p
    @NicoleDavis-k5p 5 месяцев назад +4

    Kendra's sttitude was very ugly!! She could have done a better job. If you wasn't feeling well then dont do the show. This young lady was on point and accurate.

  • @DFashion3
    @DFashion3 2 года назад +71

    This girl is not angry. Kendra misunderstood her and came off wrong. This girl is speaking FACT..

  • @apersonaladventure8707
    @apersonaladventure8707 2 года назад +162

    Wow, this was disturbing on so many levels, you were combative from start to finish. You attacked a person in the comments. I get that its your show and you have the right to remove people that violate the guidelines that you set but to act like you are doing this show out of the kindness of your heart that you are not benefiting in someways is a little insulting. And to say to a person that their life is so empty that they are sitting watching your show is cruel. Congratulation, you are fortunate to have a National platform but it because people like the one that you were so disrespectful to that you are afforded these opportunities. Does that mean you have to be insulted? No, but it doesn’t give you license to disparage someone either.
    I enjoy your show and I find you to be entertaining and insightful, so I was little taken aback with your respond. I think the young lady was a little immature and is still growing and if we are honest we have all generalized and made comments about people that were not deserved. But you are the host and that requires you to go above, it your job to correct and encourage better dialogue. We have too much of this type of interaction already and one of the things that I enjoyed about you was that you found a way to correct a person in love maybe this was one off. Anyway, I hope you feel better and take care of yourself. Peace

    • @criticalthinking6929
      @criticalthinking6929 2 года назад +29

      Exactly sir well stated!

    • @everydayfefe
      @everydayfefe 2 года назад

      This is the person that tried to grab attention by trying to “rescue” some girls from R Kelly’s house. It was completely stupid and attention seeking. Then she abandoned the mission and we never heard anything else about it. Dumb.

    • @DrHen-xd3rv
      @DrHen-xd3rv 2 года назад +19

      My thoughts exactly. Well said

    • @ellepatrice
      @ellepatrice 2 года назад +7

      ‼️‼️‼️

    • @lo7749
      @lo7749 2 года назад +10

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @Mrkck913
    @Mrkck913 2 года назад +82

    This lady is very humble in my eyes. She is making sense to me.

  • @sharonj3492
    @sharonj3492 Год назад +10

    Wow Kendra, I might get blocked. This comes with love from one of your mama guest. I love your show. However please cancel next time when you are extremely tired or feeling under the weather. And to keep reminding people this is your show. Everyone definitely knows that but keep in mind, you wouldn’t have a show if it wasn’t for all your viewers and your guest. Stay humble.
    We love you❤

    • @Changesarenecessary24
      @Changesarenecessary24 3 месяца назад

      Everybody in these comments might block.. It’s the truth Kendra should have taken a rest day.

  • @n.c.4829
    @n.c.4829 2 года назад +580

    I think it's awesome how Kendra stood up for the guests that come on her show. They don't sign up to be ridiculed (although it's a risk they take) they come on because they are wanting to find someone and they're putting their trust in Kendra's platform to help them. When you disrespect the guests, you're also disrespecting the host. Kendra takes a lot of pride in what she does, and while some people may call in with issues, she still requests respect on their behalf. That's wonderful.

    • @jamesbeebee9970
      @jamesbeebee9970 2 года назад +12

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @eugenecaldwell9619
      @eugenecaldwell9619 2 года назад +59

      You must don't watch this show a lot. There's been a lot of past guest on this show that were trash and I'm sure you laughed and talked about them. So there's no need to try and act like what this guest said wasn't true. She was right. The pool is filled with piss!

    • @DarkAngel-im5bh
      @DarkAngel-im5bh 2 года назад +7

      I feel you but the women that come on are really bad with attitudes and just to many red flags so the girl is right but I understand what you mean but she was all that herself u can tell and Kendra made a point for a change

    • @DarkAngel-im5bh
      @DarkAngel-im5bh 2 года назад +9

      @Mimi I agree, she was doing way to much and kept on with that healing b.s. when she probably need it the most on top with her kids and baby daddy’s she has herself like she a prize now of something, to most men she just a hit and quit and that’s the truth not a let me get a valued man now…just delusional!

    • @CjMAZ3D
      @CjMAZ3D 2 года назад +11

      @@DarkAngel-im5bh You also forgot to mention, she has never been married, which clearly explains why. As I said before she lacks introspection. Notice how she did not mention being a man's peace! That's number 1 for us. Second is being supportive. Mia actually seems combative since she's obviously confrontational and what man wants to come home to a woman with 2 kids that aren't his. Plus, have to tolerate her attitude? That already appears to be chaotic. 🚩🚩🚩

  • @eugenecaldwell9619
    @eugenecaldwell9619 2 года назад +74

    Kendra got upset and took it personal because she's going through therapy herself. She also admitted that she didn't get any sleep and was in a bad mood. In my opinion she owes this guest an appologly. There was no need to talk about her kids and pick a fight with her. This is why you should try and get enough rest before work and not bring your personal problems with you.

    • @Anthony-uc1
      @Anthony-uc1 2 года назад +6

      That's why it's her show she can do as she pleases don't like it hang up.

    • @jonathanbashirproductionsl2226
      @jonathanbashirproductionsl2226 2 года назад +1

      This is why you and everyone else watch the show. You and most people who come on here are here because of the confrontations. So stop trying to judge and sound like you discovered water.

    • @angellicbeautyproducts9479
      @angellicbeautyproducts9479 2 года назад +5

      Kendra definitely owes Mia an apology, a public one.

  • @OhhYouu..MICHELLE
    @OhhYouu..MICHELLE 2 года назад +33

    Call a spade a spade..Kendra definitely was sleepy and not feeling her best..and took it out on this girl bc I’ve seen and heard some bs on here and she wouldn’t dare to respond like this

  • @Whistlesonthewind
    @Whistlesonthewind Год назад +10

    The only people who think Mia is condescending are the people she’s talking about. No one can make you feel that way unless they have a point.

  • @sauceboss354
    @sauceboss354 2 года назад +242

    That woman is very combative and argumentative. Trying judge past guest on the show when she is a baby mama with 2 baby father.

    • @Risha-Rene
      @Risha-Rene 2 года назад +20

      Right smh I see why she’s single

    • @kenallen8213
      @kenallen8213 2 года назад +23

      This is a modern woman. A modern woman with 2 baby daddies. A modern woman with a 2 year old thinking she's some sort of prize. What high quality man of substance wants to come home after a hard day's work to this combative she-male?

    • @thisrabbitwholedeep
      @thisrabbitwholedeep 2 года назад +16

      I think she was trying to avoid hurt ppl from being in her dms

    • @godsfavor6939
      @godsfavor6939 2 года назад +1

      @Sauce Boss EXACTLY!!!!!

    • @killaseason82
      @killaseason82 2 года назад +13

      @@thisrabbitwholedeep yet shes the hurt people shes avoiding lol

  • @seandon7022
    @seandon7022 2 года назад +61

    I think Kendra took it a lil personal when she attacked the guest. She felt like she was attacking her show. Mercy and grace goes a long way. Shortys a Narc.

    • @KeliH_
      @KeliH_ 2 года назад +5

      Yup. I think kendra heard " you have a show that caters to desperate, broken, hurt people"

    • @trackgrad08
      @trackgrad08 2 года назад +1

      @@KeliH_ bingo! That’s exactly what happened

    • @trackgrad08
      @trackgrad08 2 года назад

      I agree with everything except that last sentence. That’s a clinical term being used too loosely. A narc is Ted Bundy…this woman is clearly not that.

    • @seandon7022
      @seandon7022 2 года назад +2

      @@trackgrad08 all Narcissists don’t have to be Ted Bundy lol

    • @KeliH_
      @KeliH_ 2 года назад +1

      @@seandon7022 that's a fact. Most are wolves in sheep's clothing. Act nasty in private and a stand up person in public & no one ever suspects them because we're too busy looking at the Ted Bundy's

  • @Kcamp38
    @Kcamp38 2 года назад +115

    Kendra was definitely having a bad day that day. It was very clear. Straight up. This lady didn't do shit wrong. Kendra was out of pocket.

    • @jaijai5250
      @jaijai5250 2 года назад +12

      Absolutely. I’ve seen judgemental, angry, hateful people on her show, and she laughs with them and smiles. This woman did nothing wrong.
      That’s why people need to ring in sick when they’re not able to perform their duties appropriately.

    • @jchaunte450
      @jchaunte450 2 года назад +15

      Exactly, it was really ridiculous the way Kendra treated this young lady for telling the truth.

    • @bobbymarie8002
      @bobbymarie8002 2 года назад +9

      Kenda made me side eye her. I'm like "Oookaay Kendra...dam"

    • @nyemacarroll7712
      @nyemacarroll7712 2 года назад

      Agreed

  • @DeserieJaxn
    @DeserieJaxn 10 месяцев назад +5

    When people are tired, they get cranky. 😂😂😂😂 Im glad this woman held her own.