Thanks for watching friends! Here’s a link to Top 5 Signs She Likes You - ruclips.net/video/K1M_hoP_qSA/видео.html Here’s a link to 17 Traits Women Want MOST in a Man - coachmelannie.com/free-guide-how-to-find-and-attract-your-dream-girl-5-steps-to-success/ Random Question of the Day: I honestly don’t know that I can pick just one! I play the flute and the piano and I sing… So those are all my favorites. I also LOVE the guitar and the violin 🎶
Coach Melannie I play drums at my local church, guitar in my spare time, sing in choirs, and am picking up piano and keyboard. I can’t pick a favourite between them! I enjoy them all for different reasons. Fun fact, I used to be in concert band in high school! 😊
Hey Coach - this great stuff. You are not only answering questions with great content, but with a style men can hear, absorb and draw on. Truly a blessing. Also, favorite instrument: the harp, but only when performed well. Thanks so much, Amazing Coach!
I'm crushing on a shy girl ( translation - I'm in LOVE with my dream woman lol ) She's hot cold hot cold hot cold hot cold with her letting me know she likes me in return. Driving me crazy about knowing what to do. I don't want to take a chance on ruining what IS going to be a beautiful life together ! I'm trying to up my skills, she's a keeper ! God has blessed me with the most perfect woman in the world but I've never formally courted a woman before, this is all new to me let alone dealing with a shy girl. Thanks for sharing all your hard work Melannie, you are truly a blessing and I sincerely appreciate you !
I had a "shy" girl show a lot of signs! Touch, smiles, laugh at any and all jokes and even carry on a conversation just to keep talking. But when I approached her she told me she just wants to be friends! The friendzone was not for me so I just backed away. Was it the right choice?
I think that is a wise choice! You certainly don't have to be in the friend zone if you don't want to. Personally I usually take that same stance. Thanks for watching!
Random question answer: I play trumpet and sing. Favorite instrument is the piano or violin. Tried to play piano, but brain just was not willing. More videos on shy girls. This was super interesting and helpful. Thank you for your video’s!
That does make it a bit tricky. You can also notice if she notices when you walk in the room too. It takes a bit of practice but it totally works once you get it 👍
@@CoachMelannie I have always seen you as a shy girl, who would want to get to know me, as I like wearing similar jackets to the one you are wearing in this video, and I would not only enjoy a trip to the zoo with you, but also doing a puzzle upside down. Could you do a video on what sort of man would your sister, or your mum whom you say, is single, like to meet please? Your starting to agree with me on your tips. Thank you.
I havend found my dream girl yet, and I'm also a really shy person. it's just I'm most likely shy to every girl I start a conversation with, but If I wanna talk to a girl that I'm crushing on I'm so nervous I know the signs but it's still really hard, But still, thank you for the amazing content. it really helps me out, keep up the good word you're doing great.
It's very normal to feel shy around girls you think are attractive! The way to fix this is to have solid dating and relationship skills. This makes talking to gorgeous woman easy. Have you seen this videos yet? It will help! ruclips.net/video/Zp76VUko7N8/видео.html Thanks for watching!
Random Question of the Day: _"Favorite musical instrument?"_ I can only narrow it down to two: _Piano_ and _Guitar._ I took piano lessons when I was a kid, although that was DECADES ago, and I haven't tried doing it since. Most of my teenage years were during the 1970s, so I grew up listening to _classic rock._ So *guitar.*
Excellent observations. Gym crush doing exactly this. However it makes it more awkward to approach her because of the energy. Bass guitar. Yes I stayed until the end.
So this girl keeps staring at me multiple times a day,but whenever I speak during a group conversation she goes all shy and quiet but will stare at me straight faced.What does this mean?
It can certainly be a sign that she likes you! It's best to be aware of several body language signs that she likes you. The more you can spot the more confident you can feel that she likes you. Here are some other videos I've done on this ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN You've got this 💪
Also take note when women use their peripheral vision to look at you - they are experts at this! I highly suggest you learn how to do it yourself so you understand what I'm talking about. If there's no interest, they don't generally turn slightly toward (to where if she looked out of the corner of her eye, she'd be staring straight at you). However, if every time you pass her and she somehow keeps her vision within yours (especially while wearing a barely detectable smile), she's taking notice of you. The most important thing to learn with women is body language. Spend time observing people and try observing yourself in how you react.
Hey, Coach Melannie! I'm that shy guy crushing on a special shy girl at the moment. I found this video very useful, but what do you think of the following? Catching her looking at me in a group of co-workers every so often; Listens and takes interest in personal conversations; Sticks around my area before I get the courage to break awkward silence.
Those are some really good signs! Continue to see if she sends those signs frequently over a couple of weeks. That will help confirm that they are signs. It's also a good idea to try to chat with her as much as you can.
Would a shy girl try to avoid their crush or if they see them try to get out quickly or if passing by try to walk weird by not having their face be seen by their crush like facing the opposite direction of their crush or cover their side of the face with their hand when passing by? Also with the smiling looking away sign you mentioned, how would you know if they are doing it as being shy and liking you vs being shy/anxious while being polite but not liking you?
It can be hard to tell with signs that subtle. This is why it's so helpful to look for as many signs as you can. The more signs you see the more likely it is that she likes you. I would suggest watching all me videos on this topic, I'll include a link here, and then pay attention for several days to a week and see how many signs you can find. Also, if she repeats the signs over and over that is really good. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN Best of luck!
@@CoachMelannie Yeah my problem is I rarely see this person, there were weeks at work they would be in my area everyday for few mins or more-ish, but they would do a lot of weird stuff and thought their smiles were for me now idk if they are just being polite due to other coworkers saying they smile to them too.
With all the years of practice I put into it, the bass is my favorite instrument. I'm so terrible at picking up cues, for example, my ex wife had to, at a college party, walk right up and make out with me. I'm oblivious. She would always get mad and say girls were flirting with me, I never noticed until she busted out the play by play action of what occurred. That coupled with the fact that I'm now a single father with 3 boys, who are my world, it's hard seeing beyond that world.
That is actually pretty common. These videos will be a big help to you. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN Sorry if I already sent them to you. Have a happy day! 😀
@@CoachMelannie although this isn't related to this video, I know you're good at getting back, and being a Christian dating coach, I'm hoping this doesn't get brushed off as too far out there. I'm considering taking advantage of my celibacy and perhaps use it as a calling to serve my church? Do to health issues, I had to think about this, I don't want to go to a nursing home for my final years, I want to go to a monastery, it's a very comforting place for me.
I'm majorly an Introvert and minorly an Extrovert. I'm shy by nature, but most folks don't suspect that when they didn't see me grow up as Kid. I'm not shy anymore, but I'm not shocked hearing about you. You mentioned your blushing. Your nervous laugh is a good sign. I wasn't exactly sure if you were the Shy type or not, but you have a quieter Voice and seem more Introverted, although you're quite bubbly as well. You remind me of some Friends growin' up, Ms. Melanie.
@@dougyoungs2599 She is not going to want to make it too obvious with her attachment. So it will be expected that she chose to sit close to you only 1 time due to her liking you but she also don't want to give an impression of showing attachment. So of course, if you don't confess to her, she will think you are not interested and find somewhere else to sit. When you don't even confess to liking her, she will think she must move on. So can't hold her responsible on playing hard to get. Never know til you give it a try. If she rejects you, then you may say she is not interest in you. If you don't come out of your comfort zone, there is no proof that she lost interest. Interest might be there but if you don't reach out, she will only think you are not interested in her.
Apologies for the upcoming essay Went for a planned workout with a friend who’s trying to get into lifting (says she has no experience). She initially asked me about tips so I suggested a meetup so I could teach her. Last night the workout/hangout was a lot of fun, we were both laughing and smiling throughout. Plus some threats she’d swing on me/beat me up after some back and forth teasing. During a cool down at the end it was a little odd she started talking about what she likes to eat/where she likes to go out of nowhere. She’s a little thing who’s not really an athlete so she was having some difficulties after the workout. Had some trouble with some stairs at the very end so I offered my arm and she took it. Hugged goodbye and said it was fun and we should do it again sometime. Thoughts por favor?
It sounds to me that she is very interested! Mentioning where she likes to eat was most likely her way of letting you know that she wants to spend more time with you. If you are interested in her too it sounds like it's safe to ask her out 👍
I have been talking and texting a woman for the last few months and we have become good friends.She knows I like her and how I feel but isn't ready for a relationship.But a couple of weeks ago we were hugging good bye and she kissed me on the cheek out of no where.She has kept doing this most times when we hug good bye.The last time the kiss on the cheek was very firm and lingered.And I'm trying to figure out what she is saying to me?
Work colleague she always looks for me when I am near we always connect with eyes when talking with others she will look for me her smile is different to others but because both of us wants to get to know each other first most people have noticed she always shines around me but others she just being polite so it may take time but all signs are there eye contact playing with hair feets always remember what i say and all
A girl I know does all these signs. However, Everytime I try to talk to her I don’t feel very funny or myself. It’s because I have a crush on her too. I get angry with myself because to others I’m the most fun filled guy but for some reason talking to this girl is like pulling teeth. The pressure of being at work is getting to me. Is there a subtle way for me to show her I’m interested? I end up getting making awkward small talk then leaving.
If she's single just ask to speak to her privately and tell her how you feel. Even if she's not interested it will make you feel better getting it off your chest. I've stressed myself out alot by not saying anything when I should have. Goodluck !
Melannie ... in your video you said that you would include letting us know what is your favorite musical instrument but I can't see anywhere that you may have mentioned it. So .... May I ask what is your fave musical instrument ?
(At the gym scenario) If a girl sees me coming close to her proximity and she all of a sudden she looks down her phone? It feels like she’s pretending using her phone as a object to fidget with etc. Need advice plz
I'm a Ambivert and finally starting to figure out why I act the way I do. Was married 23 yrs and ended in divorce about 2 yrs ago. Being 52 and starting over has been challenging. Always end up meeting women with issues. Ofcoirse it never works out guess I'm the guy on the white horse. Want something real just been out of it too long. Any advice for someone my age ?
@@CoachMelannie Thank you for your response. I haven't been able to stop watching your videos they are just that good. Your personality and smile just would make any man want to listen. I have anxiety and ADHD which can something else my brain races. I am a guy that likes to be open about my feelings. Most guys don't. I was in ministry for about 20 yrs preached and taught and learned to be a peoples person but as you know its a challenge for me. I'm very passionate and romantic. Its just difficult at my age especially being married for so many yrs. Its a struggle each day but I don't quit just keep moving forward.
I don't know if my mind is playing tricks on me or this shy girl in our office likes me. I entered the elevator first and held the elevator door for two other male co-workers. The elevator was about to close when she enters the elevator and smiles at me. Maybe she was happy she just made it before waiting for the next elevator. She stands next to me and after the elevator door opens I wave her to go first. I am walking behind her when I notice she glances to look which direction I am going to get to my cubicle. I know she usually goes the right direction to get to her cubicle but I usually go left because I usually wash my hands before eating my breakfast I carry with me. I can also go left direction to get to my cubicle. Well she stops going the right directions like she hesitated and goes left after she see me going left and then she says I don't know which way to get to my cubicle and laughs. I laugh with her and tell her I usually go left to wash my hands at the break room. I have also caught her looking at me in meeting and has sat next to me. When she passes by my cubicle she turns around just a bit to look if I am in my cubicle. She also plays with her hair every time I pass next to her in a hallway. I have already sent her an e-mail if I can join her for lunch sometime but she never responded. I let a week go by and sent her a text message to her if she ever needs my help that I would help her but no response. I know she read my text because the text message changed from delivered to read but still no response. I think I will give up on her. I don't get girl/woman if someone would see a suit case full of money by itself no one will hesitate to pick it up and take it but when woman see a person who can potential make her the happiest in her life she plays mind games and risk losing that someone special.
I'm sorry that has happened to you! It sounds to me like she is certainly sending the signs. She may just be nervous to date a coworker. No matter her reason you deserve to spend time with someone who is respectful of you. There is certainly a good woman out there who will want to treat you right!
I'm new to ur channel . But I like ur video's. Thank u so much for ur info Melannie. U got a beautiful smile that Enlighten my spirit by the way. 😊I like the guitar I'm not great at playing 1. But I love the sound a 🎸 makes.
It really depends on the couple. Some people aren't bothered by it while others are. You could always ask her how she feels about it and then you'd just know. Best of luck!
Have a 21 yr old female (apparent virgin) co worker who everytime I advise or speak to her about work breaks out into a big smile :) Happened at least 5 times now. Think she's shy & trying to hide?
Yup, it's Official, no one likes me but that's okay, I need to focus more on myself and do things I like, oh and by the way, I used to have guitar lessons 20 years ago but I had to give up because Theory was too hard for me and I was having problems in School, that's a shame because I always wanted to play Bass.
Don't give up! As you apply what you are learning there will be an amazing girl who really likes you. This is actually why I created my online course How to Get a Girlfriend. It teaches what you need to know to become the dream guy of the type of woman you want. Here's a link so you can check it out coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/ You've got this my friend!
Melannie I would put you in the introvert/extrovert category. Your personality is soft kind and meek but I can imagine loud and boisterous with family and close friends. Do you ever do podcast interviews? Christian dating coach is a specific niche and if you’re interested I’d like to have you on my podcast Conversations Over Coffee via Skype.
You are so right! I lean a bit more towards extrovert but in a crowd I'm more introvert lol I've never been on a podcast but I'm certainly interested! Would you email me with more info? My email is melannie@coachmelannie.com. Thanks!
Melanie you are fantastic,your vidz are mega. Your a brill lady and i love you mel very much.you dress very well. Im david from scotland uk.your smile and teeth are fantastic.this is very honest comments,from me.David xxxxx
Plz help me so there is this girl i really like and i want to talk to her so bad but im shy and don't know if she likes me too cause she is shy too she looks at me a lot in my spanish class with one hand holding her face my friend once at lunch caught her staring at me and smiling for 3 mins but in my english class it seems like she ignores me she doesn't even turn behind to see me she usually just talks to her two friends but when i walk past her she looks like she has straight face and stiffens up but she can't date but then again she could have been staring at something else
It's difficult for me to know without knowing her but here is a list of videos on the signs a girl likes you ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN The more familiar you are with the signs the easier it will be to tell. Best of luck!
@@CoachMelannie thank you for making these videos! I love them, and your style is refreshing in a dating world full of lust and sin. This Friday I'll tell my crush I like her (we've been sorta dating, but all under the guise of having fun together). Your videos are helpful!
Cant be 100% sure. Next time ill let her look at me first then ill catch her eyes and when she looks away ill ask her why shes looking at me so much. xD cant go wrong. Signs i got are the scannong the place where im usually at work but i wasnt there when she was passing by and i saw her from far looking if i was there, as soon as she saw me noticing her doing it she looked away so to make it seem she wasnt looking for me. Anyway i wanted to ask you, what does it mean when i say hi to her and she just looks down and smiles. Im not sure if she is just shy at this point. I understand i could be intimidating as im on a higher position at work. In conclusion i have no idea.
That is certainly difficult! You could always try learning Chinese if you like. It would mean a lot to her that you are respectful of her culture. Duolingo is a free app that I personally use and it's AMAZING!
@@CoachMelannie yes it is very difficult for me because sometimes she wants to talk wih me but we are using translator in the phone and it is wasting time because we have only 10 minutes short break.. on the first week of january she assign at the other department and we're seldom seen each other since she left in our department... so sad😪😪😪
So, back to my previous comment, she has been going through some difficulties with a sick father for quite a while. Her and I were chatting last week and I asked if she was available and she said she wasn't. Since last friday she hasn't responded to my last two texts and idk what's going on. She said things don't seem to be going well with her dad in her last text. I'm thinking it's best to give her space since she hasn't responded and I don't want to bug her since I do know she has a lot going on, plus it's not my business. However, I do also know that no response is a response. I texted her today saying I heard some rumors about a show she may interested in and that I know she has a lot going on and hope she's doing well.
I think you are right to give her some space. And yes, no response is a response. I'm sorry this is happening to you! She now knows you are interested and whether she is just struggling right now or is not interested it's really in her ball park now. If she wants to get to know you better it's her job to let you know. Even if she isn't interested there is a really good gal out there who will be!
Coach Melannie She actually responded late last night Told her I’m interested and that when things calm down for her I’d like to go on an actual date if she’s interested Thank you!
I had crush on a girl but she always look away when he sees me... And sometimes she walk away... But i always caught her eyes glimpse on me... What is that???
That often happens when a girl likes you! Sometimes she's too afraid to look you in the eye. It's best not to count on just one sign though. The more you know the more sure you can be that she likes you. Here are some other videos that will help you a lot ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN
Mellanni,thank u for giving fruitful tips, further you re also so beautiful that I crushed on you totally ,your talks as well as your beauty mesmerised me and made me your lover. Please help me out in reaching close to you u re so sweet so fascinating and loveable.
@@CoachMelannie Thanks, in my youth I played clarinet and percussion instruments. "Music is My Passion". Do you play or what is your favorite instrument? Thanks for your insight.
Thanks for watching friends! Here’s a link to Top 5 Signs She Likes You - ruclips.net/video/K1M_hoP_qSA/видео.html
Here’s a link to 17 Traits Women Want MOST in a Man - coachmelannie.com/free-guide-how-to-find-and-attract-your-dream-girl-5-steps-to-success/
Random Question of the Day: I honestly don’t know that I can pick just one! I play the flute and the piano and I sing… So those are all my favorites. I also LOVE the guitar and the violin 🎶
I try to not look up when talking
Coach Melannie I play drums at my local church, guitar in my spare time, sing in choirs, and am picking up piano and keyboard. I can’t pick a favourite between them! I enjoy them all for different reasons. Fun fact, I used to be in concert band in high school! 😊
I love your videos and they are a big help
Could you do more of these?
Hey Coach - this great stuff. You are not only answering questions with great content, but with a style men can hear, absorb and draw on. Truly a blessing.
Also, favorite instrument: the harp, but only when performed well. Thanks so much, Amazing Coach!
I actually find shy girls so cute and very attractive. Just like the one ive been chatting to for 6 months through long distance.
Today I learned that my crush may like me after all! This is encouraging!!
She doesnt... She told me she likes me Grant
I'm crushing on a shy girl
( translation - I'm in LOVE with my dream woman lol )
She's hot cold hot cold hot cold hot cold with her letting me know she likes me in return.
Driving me crazy about knowing what to do. I don't want to take a chance on ruining what IS going to be a beautiful life together ! I'm trying to up my skills, she's a keeper ! God has blessed me with the most perfect woman in the world but I've never formally courted a woman before, this is all new to me let alone dealing with a shy girl.
Thanks for sharing all your hard work Melannie, you are truly a blessing and I sincerely appreciate you !
I'm so happy things are going well!
your smile is .. no words for it
I had a "shy" girl show a lot of signs! Touch, smiles, laugh at any and all jokes and even carry on a conversation just to keep talking. But when I approached her she told me she just wants to be friends! The friendzone was not for me so I just backed away. Was it the right choice?
I think that is a wise choice! You certainly don't have to be in the friend zone if you don't want to. Personally I usually take that same stance. Thanks for watching!
@@matthewholmes7597 Fool concentrate on the content not what she's wearing you simp!
@@CoachMelannie ooo I thought its better to continue?
Random question answer: I play trumpet and sing. Favorite instrument is the piano or violin. Tried to play piano, but brain just was not willing.
More videos on shy girls. This was super interesting and helpful. Thank you for your video’s!
I was totally unaware of the shy girl who scans the room... This one is tricky because the guy has to see her enter the room .
That does make it a bit tricky. You can also notice if she notices when you walk in the room too. It takes a bit of practice but it totally works once you get it 👍
@@CoachMelannie I have always seen you as a shy girl, who would want to get to know me, as I like wearing similar jackets to the one you are wearing in this video, and I would not only enjoy a trip to the zoo with you, but also doing a puzzle upside down. Could you do a video on what sort of man would your sister, or your mum whom you say, is single, like to meet please? Your starting to agree with me on your tips.
Thank you.
Sometimes shy girls are mysterious and frustrating af she gives u the giveaway but ignores u
I love how you are real Miss Melannie.
You remind me so much of the California girls of yesteryears, now I get to see your type in Idaho and Utah
Bass guitar, yes I play it
My favorite musical instrument is the guitar. I took some lessons so I could express myself through music. I love the guitar so much.
I havend found my dream girl yet, and I'm also a really shy person. it's just I'm most likely shy to every girl I start a conversation with, but If I wanna talk to a girl that I'm crushing on I'm so nervous I know the signs but it's still really hard,
But still, thank you for the amazing content. it really helps me out, keep up the good word you're doing great.
It's very normal to feel shy around girls you think are attractive! The way to fix this is to have solid dating and relationship skills. This makes talking to gorgeous woman easy. Have you seen this videos yet? It will help! ruclips.net/video/Zp76VUko7N8/видео.html Thanks for watching!
Bass guitar, yes I playit
Random Question of the Day: _"Favorite musical instrument?"_
I can only narrow it down to two: _Piano_ and _Guitar._
I took piano lessons when I was a kid, although that was DECADES ago, and I haven't tried doing it since.
Most of my teenage years were during the 1970s, so I grew up listening to _classic rock._ So *guitar.*
I love how realistic you are. You are a good example of women. Got that baseline attractiveness of a quality women. That great example or beacon
Excellent observations. Gym crush doing exactly this. However it makes it more awkward to approach her because of the energy. Bass guitar. Yes I stayed until the end.
This is important because you do not want the ones who are not shy...
I like the electric mandolin!
I like the bass and drums, unfortunately I have never played this instruments.
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Thanks for your helpful tips.
You look like one of my childhood friends who is one of the greatest friends people can count on.
So this girl keeps staring at me multiple times a day,but whenever I speak during a group conversation she goes all shy and quiet but will stare at me straight faced.What does this mean?
It can certainly be a sign that she likes you! It's best to be aware of several body language signs that she likes you. The more you can spot the more confident you can feel that she likes you. Here are some other videos I've done on this ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN You've got this 💪
My favorite instrument is more like a category. I love stringed instruments. I play guitar and a little bit of piano and bass.
Strings are absolutely beautiful! Thanks for your comment!
Thank you I really enjoy your videos you are absolutely amazing young lady.
Also take note when women use their peripheral vision to look at you - they are experts at this! I highly suggest you learn how to do it yourself so you understand what I'm talking about. If there's no interest, they don't generally turn slightly toward (to where if she looked out of the corner of her eye, she'd be staring straight at you). However, if every time you pass her and she somehow keeps her vision within yours (especially while wearing a barely detectable smile), she's taking notice of you.
The most important thing to learn with women is body language. Spend time observing people and try observing yourself in how you react.
I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching 😀
The More you talk the More attracted I am to you. I'm crushing on you!
I'm so glad you are enjoying my videos! Have a great day!
Thanks Matt I try to stay in shape.
My favourite musical instrument is the trombone and and I've been playing trombone for 5 years
The trombone is super cool! Good for you! Thanks for watching and for your comment 😀
I'm introvert I'm not shy but I'm overwhelmed it makes me looks shy. but actually I'm happy inside.
You’re not the only one
My favorite instrument is 4 string electric bass wich im learning recently.
That sounds fun!
Keep it funky
Hey, Coach Melannie! I'm that shy guy crushing on a special shy girl at the moment. I found this video very useful, but what do you think of the following?
Catching her looking at me in a group of co-workers every so often;
Listens and takes interest in personal conversations;
Sticks around my area before I get the courage to break awkward silence.
Those are some really good signs! Continue to see if she sends those signs frequently over a couple of weeks. That will help confirm that they are signs. It's also a good idea to try to chat with her as much as you can.
@@CoachMelannie Thanks.
My favour in music is voice and the meaning of words in music
Violin 🎻. I’ve been playing since 2011.
This was really helpful! I play piano, guitar, and sing a little bit so those are my favorite
I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for commenting and watching!
@@CoachMelannie I am a rusty pianist and a tin whistle player. So what instrument or two do you p!ay please? Thank you.
Would a shy girl try to avoid their crush or if they see them try to get out quickly or if passing by try to walk weird by not having their face be seen by their crush like facing the opposite direction of their crush or cover their side of the face with their hand when passing by? Also with the smiling looking away sign you mentioned, how would you know if they are doing it as being shy and liking you vs being shy/anxious while being polite but not liking you?
It can be hard to tell with signs that subtle. This is why it's so helpful to look for as many signs as you can. The more signs you see the more likely it is that she likes you. I would suggest watching all me videos on this topic, I'll include a link here, and then pay attention for several days to a week and see how many signs you can find. Also, if she repeats the signs over and over that is really good. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN Best of luck!
@@CoachMelannie Yeah my problem is I rarely see this person, there were weeks at work they would be in my area everyday for few mins or more-ish, but they would do a lot of weird stuff and thought their smiles were for me now idk if they are just being polite due to other coworkers saying they smile to them too.
@@dano_leno she likes you. Trust me
With all the years of practice I put into it, the bass is my favorite instrument.
I'm so terrible at picking up cues, for example, my ex wife had to, at a college party, walk right up and make out with me. I'm oblivious. She would always get mad and say girls were flirting with me, I never noticed until she busted out the play by play action of what occurred. That coupled with the fact that I'm now a single father with 3 boys, who are my world, it's hard seeing beyond that world.
And with custody of 2 out of 3, the third is now 18 anyway, but he's just as important.
That is actually pretty common. These videos will be a big help to you. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN Sorry if I already sent them to you. Have a happy day! 😀
@@CoachMelannie although this isn't related to this video, I know you're good at getting back, and being a Christian dating coach, I'm hoping this doesn't get brushed off as too far out there. I'm considering taking advantage of my celibacy and perhaps use it as a calling to serve my church? Do to health issues, I had to think about this, I don't want to go to a nursing home for my final years, I want to go to a monastery, it's a very comforting place for me.
The "woe" face. She is literally thinking, "woe!", "wow!", "omg!" It's a such a rush when that happens.
lol I'm glad you enjoyed the video!
I did, and you're spot on!
I Like Airplanes Thanks for that Background Noise🛩🛩✈️✈️
“Surprised” 🥰
Shy one please have no fear
I'm majorly an Introvert and minorly an Extrovert. I'm shy by nature, but most folks don't suspect that when they didn't see me grow up as Kid. I'm not shy anymore, but I'm not shocked hearing about you. You mentioned your blushing. Your nervous laugh is a good sign. I wasn't exactly sure if you were the Shy type or not, but you have a quieter Voice and seem more Introverted, although you're quite bubbly as well. You remind me of some Friends growin' up, Ms. Melanie.
Thank you for your kind words! I'm happy you found this video enjoyable 😀
@@CoachMelannie De nada. No problemo. 😊😊😁😁🤗🤗
Something in common, I'm shy too (but I wasn't always until it came when I was a then 12 year old and I hit puberty).
Will a shy girl sit close to you in church when there are other place available to sit? When she is interested.
Yes...
@@CoachMelannie well the last few weeks she hasn't so she probably lost interest or play hard to get.
@@dougyoungs2599 She is not going to want to make it too obvious with her attachment. So it will be expected that she chose to sit close to you only 1 time due to her liking you but she also don't want to give an impression of showing attachment. So of course, if you don't confess to her, she will think you are not interested and find somewhere else to sit. When you don't even confess to liking her, she will think she must move on. So can't hold her responsible on playing hard to get. Never know til you give it a try. If she rejects you, then you may say she is not interest in you. If you don't come out of your comfort zone, there is no proof that she lost interest. Interest might be there but if you don't reach out, she will only think you are not interested in her.
Apologies for the upcoming essay
Went for a planned workout with a friend who’s trying to get into lifting (says she has no experience). She initially asked me about tips so I suggested a meetup so I could teach her.
Last night the workout/hangout was a lot of fun, we were both laughing and smiling throughout. Plus some threats she’d swing on me/beat me up after some back and forth teasing.
During a cool down at the end it was a little odd she started talking about what she likes to eat/where she likes to go out of nowhere.
She’s a little thing who’s not really an athlete so she was having some difficulties after the workout. Had some trouble with some stairs at the very end so I offered my arm and she took it. Hugged goodbye and said it was fun and we should do it again sometime.
Thoughts por favor?
It sounds to me that she is very interested! Mentioning where she likes to eat was most likely her way of letting you know that she wants to spend more time with you. If you are interested in her too it sounds like it's safe to ask her out 👍
Coach Melannie
Thank you for the help Coach! Have a great rest of your day!
@@CoachMelannie
I love music so it's hard to pick just one. Maybe either piano or guitar.
Those are both great! Have a happy day! 😀
I love your voice.
Thank you so much! I'm so glad you liked the video 😀
I have been talking and texting a woman for the last few months and we have become good friends.She knows I like her and how I feel but isn't ready for a relationship.But a couple of weeks ago we were hugging good bye and she kissed me on the cheek out of no where.She has kept doing this most times when we hug good bye.The last time the kiss on the cheek was very firm and lingered.And I'm trying to figure out what she is saying to me?
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
@@CoachMelannie I just emailed you
No I am not surprised
Work colleague she always looks for me when I am near we always connect with eyes when talking with others she will look for me her smile is different to others but because both of us wants to get to know each other first most people have noticed she always shines around me but others she just being polite so it may take time but all signs are there eye contact playing with hair feets always remember what i say and all
I like both Piano and Guitar
Those both beautiful instruments! Thanks for watching! 🙏
Yeah women or a woman is harder to read. It is the truth for sure
Yes v music of so good, I play bass and guitar and done let’s
A girl I know does all these signs. However, Everytime I try to talk to her I don’t feel very funny or myself. It’s because I have a crush on her too. I get angry with myself because to others I’m the most fun filled guy but for some reason talking to this girl is like pulling teeth. The pressure of being at work is getting to me. Is there a subtle way for me to show her I’m interested? I end up getting making awkward small talk then leaving.
If she's single just ask to speak to her privately and tell her how you feel. Even if she's not interested it will make you feel better getting it off your chest. I've stressed myself out alot by not saying anything when I should have. Goodluck !
Melannie ... in your video you said that you would include letting us know what is your favorite musical instrument but I can't see anywhere that you may have mentioned it. So .... May I ask what is your fave musical instrument ?
It's the piano, but the flute is a very close second! Have a fantastic day! 😊
my favorite instroment is acustic guitar ,
That's a good one!
favourite intrument is the violin and piano, but I don't play
Those are beautiful instruments! 😀
@@CoachMelannie they're just so relaxing to listen to
(At the gym scenario)
If a girl sees me coming close to her proximity and she all of a sudden she looks down her phone?
It feels like she’s pretending using her phone as a object to fidget with etc.
Need advice plz
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
I'm a Ambivert and finally starting to figure out why I act the way I do. Was married 23 yrs and ended in divorce about 2 yrs ago. Being 52 and starting over has been challenging. Always end up meeting women with issues. Ofcoirse it never works out guess I'm the guy on the white horse. Want something real just been out of it too long. Any advice for someone my age ?
If you'd like to email or DM me it will be easier for me to help you. melannie@coachmelannie.com instagram.com/coachmelannie/ Take care!
@@CoachMelannie Thank you for your response. I haven't been able to stop watching your videos they are just that good. Your personality and smile just would make any man want to listen. I have anxiety and ADHD which can something else my brain races. I am a guy that likes to be open about my feelings. Most guys don't. I was in ministry for about 20 yrs preached and taught and learned to be a peoples person but as you know its a challenge for me. I'm very passionate and romantic. Its just difficult at my age especially being married for so many yrs. Its a struggle each day but I don't quit just keep moving forward.
I don't know if my mind is playing tricks on me or this shy girl in our office likes me. I entered the elevator first and held the elevator door for two other male co-workers. The elevator was about to close when she enters the elevator and smiles at me. Maybe she was happy she just made it before waiting for the next elevator. She stands next to me and after the elevator door opens I wave her to go first. I am walking behind her when I notice she glances to look which direction I am going to get to my cubicle. I know she usually goes the right direction to get to her cubicle but I usually go left because I usually wash my hands before eating my breakfast I carry with me. I can also go left direction to get to my cubicle. Well she stops going the right directions like she hesitated and goes left after she see me going left and then she says I don't know which way to get to my cubicle and laughs. I laugh with her and tell her I usually go left to wash my hands at the break room. I have also caught her looking at me in meeting and has sat next to me. When she passes by my cubicle she turns around just a bit to look if I am in my cubicle. She also plays with her hair every time I pass next to her in a hallway. I have already sent her an e-mail if I can join her for lunch sometime but she never responded. I let a week go by and sent her a text message to her if she ever needs my help that I would help her but no response. I know she read my text because the text message changed from delivered to read but still no response. I think I will give up on her. I don't get girl/woman if someone would see a suit case full of money by itself no one will hesitate to pick it up and take it but when woman see a person who can potential make her the happiest in her life she plays mind games and risk losing that someone special.
I'm sorry that has happened to you! It sounds to me like she is certainly sending the signs. She may just be nervous to date a coworker. No matter her reason you deserve to spend time with someone who is respectful of you. There is certainly a good woman out there who will want to treat you right!
I'm new to ur channel . But I like ur video's. Thank u so much for ur info Melannie. U got a beautiful smile that Enlighten my spirit by the way. 😊I like the guitar I'm not great at playing 1. But I love the sound a 🎸 makes.
Thank you so much watching! I'm so glad you are enjoying my videos 🙏 The guitar is GORGEOUS!
*I met this beautiful lady and she gave me her number, but im upset cause the number rubbed off and all i could make out was 911?*
Melannie you are Beautiful!
😊
Thank you so much! 🙏
@@CoachMelannie you're welcome
🙂
Thanks, Michael, but my name's not Melannie!!
Don’t want to be too inquisitive, but what state are you from? That could answer a lot
I am shy around my crush at the gym
A shy girl almost needs to tell me!) 😉
Preach
What about older men and younger women
It really depends on the couple. Some people aren't bothered by it while others are. You could always ask her how she feels about it and then you'd just know. Best of luck!
Have a 21 yr old female (apparent virgin) co worker who everytime I advise or speak to her about work breaks out into a big smile :) Happened at least 5 times now. Think she's shy & trying to hide?
There was a girl at my job that had a big crush on me but she had a boyfriend
Yup, it's Official, no one likes me but that's okay, I need to focus more on myself and do things I like, oh and by the way, I used to have guitar lessons 20 years ago but I had to give up because Theory was too hard for me and I was having problems in School, that's a shame because I always wanted to play Bass.
Don't give up! As you apply what you are learning there will be an amazing girl who really likes you. This is actually why I created my online course How to Get a Girlfriend. It teaches what you need to know to become the dream guy of the type of woman you want. Here's a link so you can check it out coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/ You've got this my friend!
@@CoachMelannie Most girls I know are single mothers but some of them are single and they don't want to talk to me.
U owns a innocent face
Respect from india
Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀
Does this count High school as well
Each girl is a bit different but I believe it applies to all ages 💯
Where did you get your education from
But intentionally didn't know
what to say to a girl to like you?
Thanks for watching and for your comment! Here are some videos on this you will really enjoy 😀 ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XsyVNxjH6S9-iRe-S5q4rO
The Flute :-)
Thanks for the Airplane Flying over your House✈️✈️✈️✈️
Heared by the Noise
I Like Them👍👍👍✈️✈️✈️✈️
She can't even talk when she sees me and can see she find it difficult to breathe whenever I ask how she's doing but talks to other guys
Those are good signs. These videos will help even more! ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN
@@CoachMelannie okay thank you
I'm Aged 24 & Still Single
Let me know if you'd like help to change that!
@@CoachMelannie Thanks Allot
@@CoachMelannie I'd Like to Change it
But it's Tricky
I really like you melannie
Preach! Girl
I'm so happy you liked it! Thank you for watching 🙏
Melannie I would put you in the introvert/extrovert category. Your personality is soft kind and meek but I can imagine loud and boisterous with family and close friends. Do you ever do podcast interviews? Christian dating coach is a specific niche and if you’re interested I’d like to have you on my podcast Conversations Over Coffee via Skype.
You are so right! I lean a bit more towards extrovert but in a crowd I'm more introvert lol I've never been on a podcast but I'm certainly interested! Would you email me with more info? My email is melannie@coachmelannie.com. Thanks!
Melanie you are fantastic,your vidz are mega. Your a brill lady and i love you mel very much.you dress very well. Im david from scotland uk.your smile and teeth are fantastic.this is very honest comments,from me.David xxxxx
Plz help me so there is this girl i really like and i want to talk to her so bad but im shy and don't know if she likes me too cause she is shy too she looks at me a lot in my spanish class with one hand holding her face my friend once at lunch caught her staring at me and smiling for 3 mins but in my english class it seems like she ignores me she doesn't even turn behind to see me she usually just talks to her two friends but when i walk past her she looks like she has straight face and stiffens up but she can't date but then again she could have been staring at something else
It's difficult for me to know without knowing her but here is a list of videos on the signs a girl likes you ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN The more familiar you are with the signs the easier it will be to tell. Best of luck!
I play the piano!
Good for you! It's one of my favorites 😀 Thanks for watching!
@@CoachMelannie thank you for making these videos! I love them, and your style is refreshing in a dating world full of lust and sin. This Friday I'll tell my crush I like her (we've been sorta dating, but all under the guise of having fun together). Your videos are helpful!
am surprised
Cant be 100% sure. Next time ill let her look at me first then ill catch her eyes and when she looks away ill ask her why shes looking at me so much. xD cant go wrong. Signs i got are the scannong the place where im usually at work but i wasnt there when she was passing by and i saw her from far looking if i was there, as soon as she saw me noticing her doing it she looked away so to make it seem she wasnt looking for me.
Anyway i wanted to ask you, what does it mean when i say hi to her and she just looks down and smiles. Im not sure if she is just shy at this point. I understand i could be intimidating as im on a higher position at work. In conclusion i have no idea.
Hi coach Melanie, i like my co-worker girl but the problem is laguage barrier because she is chinese😪
That is certainly difficult! You could always try learning Chinese if you like. It would mean a lot to her that you are respectful of her culture. Duolingo is a free app that I personally use and it's AMAZING!
@@CoachMelannie yes it is very difficult for me because sometimes she wants to talk wih me but we are using translator in the phone and it is wasting time because we have only 10 minutes short break.. on the first week of january she assign at the other department and we're seldom seen each other since she left in our department... so sad😪😪😪
I like you ✨🥰✨
What to do if your audience likes you?🙄
So, back to my previous comment, she has been going through some difficulties with a sick father for quite a while.
Her and I were chatting last week and I asked if she was available and she said she wasn't. Since last friday she hasn't responded to my last two texts and idk what's going on. She said things don't seem to be going well with her dad in her last text.
I'm thinking it's best to give her space since she hasn't responded and I don't want to bug her since I do know she has a lot going on, plus it's not my business. However, I do also know that no response is a response. I texted her today saying I heard some rumors about a show she may interested in and that I know she has a lot going on and hope she's doing well.
I think you are right to give her some space. And yes, no response is a response. I'm sorry this is happening to you! She now knows you are interested and whether she is just struggling right now or is not interested it's really in her ball park now. If she wants to get to know you better it's her job to let you know. Even if she isn't interested there is a really good gal out there who will be!
Coach Melannie
She actually responded late last night
Told her I’m interested and that when things calm down for her I’d like to go on an actual date if she’s interested
Thank you!
But I like you melannie
Guitar!
The guitar is amazing! That's really neat 😀
You are so intoxicatingly attractive that you could just mumble meaningless stuff, and I could watch you for hours.
I had crush on a girl but she always look away when he sees me... And sometimes she walk away... But i always caught her eyes glimpse on me... What is that???
That often happens when a girl likes you! Sometimes she's too afraid to look you in the eye. It's best not to count on just one sign though. The more you know the more sure you can be that she likes you. Here are some other videos that will help you a lot ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN
Drums 😎
Thanks for telling me! 👍
Piano
The piano is the BEST!
I am number 666 person who liked this video. What a bad luck haha
Wow! We'll just say it's triple digits so it's good luck! Thanks for watching! 😀
Mellanni,thank u for giving fruitful tips, further you re also so beautiful that I crushed on you totally ,your talks as well as your beauty mesmerised me and made me your lover. Please help me out in reaching close to you u re so sweet so fascinating and loveable.
Saxophone.
That's a good one!
@@CoachMelannie Thanks, in my youth I played clarinet and percussion instruments. "Music is My Passion". Do you play or what is your favorite instrument? Thanks for your insight.
Drums
I am surprised you can be shy.