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My questions I ask myself, is he respectful of my wishes, does he listen, how do I feel about myself around him, does he make me want to be a better version of myself, do I feel at home with him
Why would any woman be asking herself anything? Seriously and with no disrespect intended but if a woman is thinking things like this when in a relationship with a man then I feel that the answers are right there for her to see……I genuinely can’t see a reason to even have questions. Whenever a High Value Woman is in a relationship she should need nothing from a man that she cannot already provide for herself or do for herself, however……as much as I can and do provide (more than adequately), I have an expectation that my man will be an amazing cook, be extremely thoughtful enough to cook a meal every evening and weekend when not booking a table or cleaning up and doing all the laundry. I’ve only ever had serious relationships and while I know my worth, my ex’s have also felt a deep desire to show me theirs which included not only doing all house work, providing all meals inc breakfast in bed, asking if I would like him to scrub my back or offer to wash my hair for me but also asking if I mind if they can have a cpl of friends over to entertain on whatever the console of choice is but also ask if it’s ok to have a few beers. If you expect certain things you will receive….such as expensive jewellery watches, clothing etc So I do not understand why you would even consider having questions for yourself about a man. I would focus more on the expectation of those things and if they weren’t being displayed constantly and very clearly then I would either outline my own worth and what he could expect from me and was getting from me, just to give him that chance, and then I’d wait for everything to fall perfectly in place. In all honesty I’ve always had Men run around after me and do things for me…..so if anything, I would have a list of expectations, as in what I would naturally expect from him, I most certainly would never even consider having questions for myself! As a High Value Woman you should know your worth, you should also if writing a list about what you expected from a relationship….have a few things, while opposite that list of what you would expect from a Man you should have a very long and constantly evolving list of the things you would NOT expect!
1. How do I feel about her? 2. How do I felt about myself when I'm around her? 3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life? 4. Do I have what it takes to make her happy? 5. Can I see myself with her long-term?
1. How do I feel about him? 2. How do I feel about myself when I'm around him? 3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life? Or am I making excuses for his bad behavior? 4. Do I have what it takes to make him happy? 5. Can I see myself with him long-term? All good questions that will eliminate narcissists. 6. Does he respect me as a whole person apart from his needs or care about my own dreams and wishes? 7. Does he put me first the same way I put him first? 8. Does his word have integrity? Does he follow through on the promises he makes? Does he always tell the truth? 9. Does he like himself? Is he truly confident? Does he take care of himself or expect me to? How is his hygiene? 10. Does he have positive feelings about his mother and father? Was he raised gently with love? Did they model loving behavior towards each other daily? 11. Does he communicate in a direct, kind, emotionally intelligent way? 12. What are his coping behaviors and to what extent can I live with the damage they can cause - drinking, pot, workaholism, addiction to gaming, phone, social attention, porn, drugs, etc. Am I really thinking that I can "help him change?" lol 13. Does he enhance my life or make it more stressful? 14. Does he keep good friendships, family relationships and with his community? 15. Is he on medication for depression, bipolarism or for other mood disorders? How is he managing that? 16. Is his relationship to managing his finances healthy? So many more questions... 17. Is he kind to children and animals and people of lower financial or social status? 18. if he has had a bad day does he take it out on his loved ones, or does he actively try to see things in a positive light? 19. Did he vote for Trump or does he belong to a white supremacist group or does he blame his misfortunes on immigrants? Has he ever used the phrase "pull yourself up by your own bootstraps"? 20. How is his anger management? Is he patient, or is he easily frustrated? 21. Are our libido levels compatible? 22. Are our basic values about what makes life worth living and what are our life-fulfilling goals and are those things compatible? 23. Do we each think the other is sexy on a basic level? Do I feel "wanted" and highly valued? Is there enough there once desire wanes? Is there passion on any level whatsoever? 24. Are our spiritual, political and emotional values even compatible? The fact that I could go on and on and on with this list, knowing that each element is important to me tells me that I might best be alone until certain patterns I have in myself that attract the wrong person every time start to change. In the meantime, I'm not such bad company to spend time with myself for a while 😌
The top questions I ask myself when considering a love partner are: (1) Can I trust him to be there for me no matter what? (2) Is he willing and able to provide for me? (3) Does he make me feel safe? and (4) Am I happy when I am with him?
1. Am I what he needs in his life? 2. Is he what I need in my life? 3. Can I tell him anything/ everything? 4. How does he treat/ talk to others? 5. Does he have any bad/ toxic behaviors? 6. How does he make me feel when we are alone vs. in public? 7. Family, ethical, political and relationship views?
This is so interesting! Thank you for making this video. It's really helped me understand why the guy I'm with is falling so hard and fast. I've been super cautious because although I become infatuated quickly, I actually don't develop real feelings quickly. I ask myself so many questions. I've definitely asked myself most of the ones in the video already. -How does he make me feel? -Do I trust him? Why/why not? -Do I feel safe around him? -Do our values align? (This is one of the most important ones for me) -Do I see a future with him? (A second important question) -Do I fit in his life and does he fit in mine? As in, are our lifestyles similar enough that our lives would blend well together? (Another huge one) -Does he add value to my life as in challenge me to be a better version of myself? -Is he a good enough match that I'm willing to forgo dating others to be with him? Am I going to find someone better matched? -What am I going to have to compromise on to be with him and am I willing to make those sacrifices to make this relationship work? -Where am I in my growth journey? What do *I* bring to this relationship? Have I leveled up enough to be a good match for him? These are the ones that pop up mostly.
For me, (maybe because I'm probably older than most viewers here and a recent widow)- it's about what I can BE with him, rather than what I can have with him. I want to be that happy, flirtatious, positive, loving, sxually alluring woman. If he's making me feel anxious or closed or unsure of myself, then it's a no-go.
The first question I ask is … How is he showing up for me? Is he proactive? Does he take the initiative to plan dates and activities? Is he consistent and punctual? Does he follow through on the above? How he shows up over time tells me A LOT about the kind of man he is and how he will treat me and our relationship. ❤
I have always thought the same thing, and been repeatedly disappointed. The things that make a skilled dater, however, are not the qualities that make a good husband. Users and narcissists are highly skilled at dating. I know nice men who I rejected for dating awkwardness, who are now good husbands. 🙄
1. Am I falling for him or the idea of the potential I am convinced I’m seeing? 2. Do I trust him? / Can I trust myself to be 100% authentic around him 100% of the time? 3. Do we have the same values/ vision of our future? 4. Am I put at ease with his presence or absence? 5. Would I want my future son to be like him/ my future daughter to marry someone like him?
I ask myself: - Do we seem in sync with each other - How do I feel about him - Is he actually worthy of my ❤ - Does he some of the qualities I want in a man ( Communication, Trust)etc. - Do I feel he's the one 4 me Just about the same questions. Thanks alot..!!
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The lady who's man says he loves her within two months and she is still figuring him out is most likely being love bombed. You two should be on the same page. A narc that I was dating claimed he was "in love with me" after 3 weeks. I said,"how can you love someone you don't know?" Narc alert!
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I found my life partner and I an see how he processed through those things quickly. We fell in love fast but it was because it was a definite energetic connection. A few things we dealt with was our past is our past. We both used to be different people and have both done a lot of personal growth. We are continuing on a personal growth journey together now. Also a big one for me is that he must be smart & intuitive. I am now with an alpha male but have dated so many beta males. I am an alpha female and the beta males just weren't a good match for me. I need someone that is as strong as me and then some. I need a man that I can look up to and respect meaning he needs to be my equal or more. I love my boyfriend and he helps me to be a better person and continues to encourage me. Also the openess that we have is amazing. There isn't anything I can't share with him. I can cry in front of him and be vulnerable when I am processing and releasing negative emotions and energy. So vulnerability is key for me too. Thanks for this video. Even though I found my life partner in part because of your videos I continue to watch them to keep my relationship growing. Thank you!!
Oh wow bless you so much. This is beautiful. You are describing my exact story too hahaha I am excited to meet my Alpha male in this new season. I am taking your comment as confirmation for me from the universe that they know what I am ready for and it is coming soon 💜👏🏾 #ReadyToReceive done the work and I have evolved so much. I love it here xx Wishing you a beautiful love journey with your partner. 💜❤️
Your explanations were very easy to understand and relate to! If he's worth it ladies, try treating him like he's worth it, and let him know you genuinely appreciate his efforts! Don't fake it. Some men tend to treat you exactly how they feel about u!
For me, it is very important how a person presents themselves to the world, not just me. I will ask myself "Does he have good relationship with people in his life?". I know a person can't get along with everyone, but if someone has good relationship (for the most part) with family, friends, and coworkers, it's usually a sign they are a decent person and a green flag for me
The questions I ask myself in relationship is 1) does he have empathy 2) can he express love through actions and in words 3) can he express feelings 4) how does he behave when I oppose his decision, his plans 5) how does he react when I say no 6) can he respect me and my decisions even when he disagree with me or is he forceful 7) what kinda wife he is looking for independent wife or house wife 8) where he stands in faith ,what he believes in 9) how many things we have in common 10) does he have stable income job ,if not ,is he ambitious and hardworking to get build his career. 11) fashion sense 12) does he understand humor 13) who r his close friends and how they behave 14) how he treats others who r younger than him or have low status than him 15) is he humble 16) does he have integrity 17) does he keep his words and promises 18) does he value other people's time 19) What was this childhood like and what kind of upbringing he has 20) how does his father treat his mother 21) is his mother happy with his father 22) how many friends,relatives, family members he care for 23) what is his priority pyramid look like after marriage 24) he like to live in nuclear family or joint family after marriage 25) In this culture how they treat females ,wives,daughters,sisters ,mother List goes on and on. It is vigorous testing I do before I decide I want to marry xyz guy .
Some of the questions I asked myself to evaluate what I feel for a man before jumping into relationships are: -Is he capable enough to handle me well emotionally and mentally whenever I wouldn't be emotionally and mentally okay at times? -Is he willing to adjust for me too knowing that I can adjust myself for him and meet him half way. -Will he hold me still when we go through and down that will prove his love for me as I give all my strength to hold him even things are tough for me and through our ups and down...
The main thing I ask myself is do I feel safe with this man? Not just physically but emotionally. Like if we fight, is he gonna run at the first sign or trouble or is he going to wrok it out? Do i feel like I don't have to worry about other women or him lying to me? Security is big for me. If someone can make me feel safe, its huge. Cuz if not, i can go right back to being on my own.
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Matt you are one of the reason why my boyfriend stayed with me by using your advice. My boyfriend and I been together for almost 2 years on February and from that time we are dating im already following you and using your advice. Thank you 🙏.. He was a little bit slow but the end was worth it. He is now super inlove with me. I always appreciate him and complement. Now I’m the luckiest woman I think right now.
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Mat, this is so very true. After 19 years I have finally met the man I want to spend my life with and we are getting engaged. I have listened to your videos and downloaded your free edocs and you are spot on. Thank you! 🥰
For me -- 1) First would be career, I would like an ambitious and driven partner 2) City, place 3) Lifestyle 4) Humorous, outgoing, travel-friendly 4) Caring 5) A family man who loves kids 6) Consistently loves me and I will love him even more
Freedom - in terms of my career choices, support, true partnership and equality. I was always afraid of relationships cause didn’t want any restrictions limitations etc.. but recently realised that when a man is right, he can just jump on a bandwagon, and we can potentially move together in the same direction
Questions-can I trust him? Are we compatible long term? How much chaos is in his life & can I live with it/where is it coming from? What is his family situation/ex/children? There are a few more boxes I look to check but these are the top tier.
1. Same page with values/beliefs 2. Do our purposes align/mesh well 3. Can I fully be myself/comfort levels 4. Household expectations/practical living habits 5. The dynamics with his fam, friends and mother 6. Final gut check with does this line up with what I sense God saying to me about it 7. Does this relationship move me forward spiritually or not 8. Does he really have my back like I’d have his (loyalty check)
Awesome stuff once again Matt. Thank you. The first thing I ask myself about a special man is: is he confident enough to be around me and not ever feel threatened and is completely comfortable being himself, will he always speak his truth, will he be open and willing to try new things with me, does he like me for who I am and does his life align with mine? Beyond that I don’t really know as I haven’t met the second love of my life yet….but you have given me some very good advice for when that time comes. Thank you.
My questions: 1. Do we have the same values & morals? 2.is respect & kindness the foundation of our relationship? 3. Is his commitment level the same as mine? 4. Is there enough live here for lifetime of growth together?
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I just got engaged to this wonderful guy. When we had started dating , I asked myself whether he wanted the same things from life (eg kids) like me, what he wanted for the long term (and whether I fit into it), whether I would be able to gel with his family and he would be able to bond with mine and most inportantly, did our ideologies matched❤
1. Do I feel myself safe/protected beside him? (phisical and emotionally) 2. Do I feel myself listened and understood by him? 3. Does he like/enjoy my lifestyle? (my daughters included) 4. Does he have a health lifestyle? (friends & family included) 5. Is he interested about supporting me solving any issue I could be facing? (not economical facet). If yes, he'd be really interested on me; so I'd be able going on into a deep relationship.
Questions I ask: (1) is he financially stable ( I have no mortgage or loans , but don’t want to be paying for everything just bcs I worked hard to achieve this. (2) do his personal life goals match mine or is there conflict( I love to travel...) (3) how does he treat others, esp those in lower socio economic situations. (4) can he put me first at least 60% of his personal time...? (5) is he reliable and trustworthy, does he keep his word.?
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Thank you very much, Matt. The questions I ask myself are : 1. Is there a big chemistry between us? 2. Can I be myself around him or do I feel like I need to adapt to him? 3. Is he a womanizer ? I never put their family in the equation.
My main questions I ask myself (thanks to having my first girlfriend) are (like you said) is it the right time in my life and am I providing her with love and communication. Usually when one person bends in the right way in a relationship, the other person will be more open to helping it grow. And I intend to be the first person to bend.
Is he that guy i dreamed about? In terms of all angles, such as has he got a masculine energy ? Attentive? Always concerns about me? Am i going to give my love to him? Supportive and others.
Wow! How does your man feel about himself when he is with you ! Does he feel good about himself. That is deep! Does he feel intelligent, spiritual, around you.Does he feel he can provide for you,how does his family see you! On and on.I think the biggest question for him after the chemistry connection is HOW DOES HE FEEL when he is around you? Samson and Delilah are a perfect example to show most any women can lure a man to first base even on false pretenses but to get to 2nd base is a different matter! A man must feel that the women respects him ,she APRECIATE his leadership.Because its important for me to value my thoughts explains why initially men find me attractive but unless they share the same beliefs system they know they could not satisfy me.which is why both husband's were wildly attracted but left.I was attentive responsible kind.never harsh,but had spiritual goals that they never wanted to be apart of so the difference must had made them both feel bad about themselves! I wished I realized that instead I thought I must not be good enough ! To this day even though I know God saids I'm worthy I felt im not good enough to find the right man .The Bible encourages us to find a man that loves to be a spiritual lead! Thankyou for more clarity, I really love all you said.I wished I knew it before I chose my husband's. I believe our differences must have been very painful for them,they did not realize they were good men around me.
Karron Fisher ~ I really enjoyed reading your comment. Please know deep in your soul it wasn't you, I too fell in love and married someone who wasn't a spiritual leader, he was simply a believer. We've been given another chance to get closer in our relationship with God and hopefully one day he will bring that special man to each of us. Prayers for you friend 🙏⚘
@@candidaberweger5722 Thankyou sis. Jehovah God wraps his arms around us! One thing no one can take away from us is peace from God Jer 39:11" ! I'm not looking for a man I stay busy doing satisfying work helping others,to know Gods words.I know what ever you and I are going through our problems are temporary. Thankyou for reaching out you were very encouraging! I think Jehovah just gave me a hug! Thankyou! Stay strong my sister!😇
The connection. Sees u when he's with others. Question where uve been all the while he was growing up. Feels empty when he can reach u. Tell u that u are his divinity, his last bus stop. Wants to love u till 99years
I always think that the answer to the following question is how anyone can know if someone is worthwhile, especially for a lifetime: "If I suddenly became paralyzed, would this person still want to spend their life by my side, always taking care of me?" -& also vice versa: "If this person became paralyzed, would I still want to spend my life by THEIR side, always taking care of them?"
Listening and watching this video made me realize that yes he may be falling in love with me , however I am not ready for his love. I still have a lot of work to do on me before I can let him or any other in.
Men will ask 1. How do I feel about her? 2. How do I feel about myself around her? 3. Is this what I want at this stage in my life? 4. Do I have what it takes to make her happy? 🤔 emotionally, spiritually, financially etc authentically please 5. Can I see myself with her in long term?
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Omg, I met my bf through dating app, and after 3 days suddenly he said, hey I just wanna let you know that I disable myself on the dating app, and I said, why??? He said, bcuz I just wanna focus on you, I think we have something and that's I wanna focus on and other than that, I really really like you... Gosh I love him soooo much 😘
1- Will he change after we marriage? 2-Will this relationship be a happy ever after? I love the way he is now. His loving ways attracted me. Will he ever lose that loving feeling and exciting adventures? 3-Will he take good care of me in good times and bad times in sickness and in health?
I ask myself is he authentic? Am I seeing his true self or are there going to be huge bad surprises in the future? I ask myself will he let me be me? Or will he impose some behaviors on me? I ask myself does he want only security and money( because I can provide that). I ask myself do I like his family or are there some red flags there. I ask myself is he romantic? Or will the initial attraction disappear over time? I ask of course is he deceitful, and will he be faithful?
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I ask myself can I trust him, is he loyal, does he respect my boundaries, do we have the same goals and values. How does he treat others. When all of that lines up I can let my walls down. I fell in love with an amazing man. We are planning our future together and it feels good!
I glad to have found your channel its been very helpful. The first video I ever watched was red flags. This was after an 18ur abusive relationship. For 2.5 years I've been trying to fix myself before I was ready to even try and look for the next man. I left with 3 kids, no job and my best friend gave me her camper for us to live in. I got a job, bought a piece lf land and a bus that we converted to a tiny home. I see bright sun in my future and someone who I'm interested in that treats me the opposite of what I've always had ( I met my soon to be ex husband at 15). Ladies you got this remember you can always change your path no matter how hard it is.
those are good questions to write each time a woman or a man goes on a date - like a journal .. the pattern of phobias if any should surface almost each time
The information you have provided is true. And the only person who can answer the question is ourselves, what men think of us. Your clip gives me a lot of encouragement, thank you for giving me such a good point of view.❤️❤️👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼😊😊😊
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The questions I asked myself when I found my man was: 1. Do I feel safe with him? 2. Is he there for me when I have a tough time and does he let me be there for him during his? 3. Am I enough for him? 4. Am I happy when I am with him? 5. Can I see a future with him? I've had many flings, but this it the only man who I have been able to honestly say yes on all of these questions.
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That’s a great vídeo Matt and it definitely goes both ways for men and women. As a female I do ask myself, does he have a good sense of humor, do we have things in common? I don’t want to be with a guy who spends his weekends in front of the TV watching football because that is his number one priority. That’s gotta be a balance!
Yes I actually ask the same 5 questions to myself when I fall inlove. And I ask these question also according to, "does he feel this way?" Cause if he doesnt feel this way towards me then it does not help that Im inlove with him.
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Do we communicate ….do I feel he is honest. See his kindness, cares about family. Similar sense of humor and values. Is he kind to animals. Does he live his life with integrity.
Can we laugh together? Do we both want to work on this, however each of us approaches it? Can we solve issues as a team? Do we enjoy each others company? How are we when we spend a day together, do we each need to get a way and recoup, or do we part and look forward to each other in the morning? Do we respect each other's requests when they have been made and talked about? Can I correct my mistakes with this person? ( especially important to keeping communication open? Do we make each other feel better? Are we making a choice from strength or from unhealthy dependence?
Do we have a meeting of the minds? Do we have several shared interests? Does he view my body as a beautiful gift? Do we have shared values? Do we have the same love language? Can I see us having a successful future?
First question for me. Is there any red flags. Definitely how do I feel about him. How do I feel when with him. Are we on same page about wants, goals, etc. As middle-aged couple things are very different than when young. We both have histories, and were long distance for awhile. Now we living a few miles from each other but due to an elderly parent aging illness, not living together. But I feel married. We are totally committed. He is my home 🏡 ❤
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The way you brought up focus reminded me of what Antoine de St-Exupéry wrote in the Little Prince : "It is the time you have wasted [spent] for your rose that makes your rose so important." I think what I will ask myself first and foremost is what my gut feeling is about the guy. If the little voice in my head notices red flags, I will walk out. I will ask myself how he treats other people in his life to see if it's compatible with what I want/need. If I can't feel safe and if I don't get the feeling that being vulnerable in his company is an enriching experience, it's just not going to work out. We have to be able to evolve together and grow into this relationship, you know...
These are great questions to ask, but I think that he's confusing falling in love with making a commitment. Of course, you want to commit to somebody that you're in love with. You don't need to be in love to make a commitment. Also, people are much more complex than these five questions suggest. I'd encourage you pay attention nunances and circumstances when asking these questions.
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Dear Matt hi, I'm new to your videos, but let me tell you, you have helped me so much. They help me balance, especially the video about the questions a man asks when he is falling in love. I really would like you to talk about relationships when the woman is much, much older than the man. I'm in something like that, but I do not let it start even though this man has persued me. I guess that because I look so much younger than my years, I get this quite a lot. So I would love to have you post a video about a big age difference between a man and a woman. Thank you very much. Be well and be happy. Maria Giakalis A Greek American from Greece.
Another great video Mat! I ask myself those exact same questions before and during a relationship. And I’ve asked myself, too, how do I think I make him feel when he’s around me? Or, do I think he can even imagine a future with me? Bc if I don’t think he or I can vision those things then obviously something needs to change. My relationship with him is strong and well communicated so there’s really nothing to worry about. And the trust is there! Mat I love how devoted to your work you are! It really shows! Through your communication and body language! Great work!
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Paula has some great thoughts. I might add can he carry on intelligent conversation. Does he show quality in most things he does? Is he moderately hygienic minded in his activities? Does he enjoy people?
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@Ellen…those are good too. I think we could come up with many, and then could miss out on someone! How many boxes do we all check? Somewhere, there is balance….
My questions "Will he accept me and like me for who I am"? Will we be able to talk and share and understand each other"? "Will he feed me"? I think feeding g each other when you are at each others houses is important.
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I look for trust in a relationship and to be faithful to have a honest loveing long term relationship you also have to compromise its got to be give and take be interested in your man's career and likes and dislikes also he has to also be interested in my likes and dislikes if you both have that understanding of each other hopefully you have a good solid happy relationship
Those are the same things that I ask myself. And add in, does he seem like a person that can commit and be faithful. I liked this guy awhile go, he was GREAT on paper. Financially stable, no debt, owned his own business. He is attractive, tall, fit and active. He loves the outdoors, hiking camping and not into sitting and watching sports(same as me. I could picture a very active lifestyle) He seemed helpful and considerate and generous. Paid for meals, thanked me for spending time with him and always texted to make sure that I made it home safely. But-when we were together, he would steer the conversation toward his ex girlfriends and other women, a lot of the time. And he would be very critical and judgemental of those women's lifestyle and choices.(apparently he still keeps track of them?) It always sets my body and gut on edge. It makes me very uncomfortable. I feel that I couldn't be with someone that was critical and judgemental. He would probably be critical and judgemental of me as well. Why not. Right?! I wouldn't be an exception, I am sure. Sad, because he is really great on paper.
These are the same things that mature women evaluate when meeting a good man. AND These are the things that a woman evaluates in a split second as soon as a man approaches her: 1. do I feel SEEN by him (my soul, not just the outer shell or my resources), 2. does he protect my heart, my reputation (=career, social life, origin, family and culture), my mental health, my body - or is he, let's say: toxic in one of these areas 3. do I feel protected, safe and brave enough to exude sexiness around him (AND do I actually feel sexy) - or do I feel pushed, cheap or taken advantage of or even endangered? 4. the social background around him is a big HINT of a future with him. Can I tolerate that? Past is future 5. What if I am financially dependent/stuck on him for the children? - Does it feel light or dark? - Think of a STRONG power imbalance in this constellation. 6. what kind of personality mix is he? is it inherited? Am I actually looking forward to having children with him? What if they are like him? 7. how does he talk about his female exes or female relatives (is he a misogynist?) 8. does he have problems with his father? If so, he is also a troublemaker. Ultimately, our MIND decides - in a split second
Thank you for giving some tips and advices regarding romantic relationship . Most important question I would probably ask for myself " In this stage of my life do I still need a life partner that this man is having this kind of personality? Do I see myself happy growing old together with this guy ? 🙏🙏🙏
Do we get to answer if we are no where near this stage? 🤣 I suppose a proposed que would be: Can he submit himself to the Lord and posture himself to lead? If he can do that, I know his love is governed in Godly principles and I can rest in the alignment of Godly love.
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Does he like me, Does he respect me, Is he consistent with his communication with me, Do our energy mix well together, Can I be myself when I'm with him
My questions are (1) Is going to be there for me? (2) Is he going to be happy with me? (3) Does he want to start a family with me? (4) Can I trust him? (5) Is going to stay with me?
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1. How do I feel about her?: 1:19 2. How do I feel about myself when I'm around her?: 2:15 3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life?: 3:33 4. Do I have what it takes to make her happy?: 5:01 5. Can I see myself with her long-term?: 6:12
I ask myself, is he going to grow with me going forward, we all have our journeys and if one partner is growing and the other is not, the relationship will eventually grow apart. Can I influence him, will he be open to being guided to a place he didn't know he could go. Will he stand and face me when things get tough, or will he run and hide. Will he be able to work out the hard stuff without hitting below the belt. Will he support and listen to me even if he doesn't agree with a differing point of view.
Can they make me laugh everyday? Do they listen to my convoluted stories? Do they not try to change me? Can I make them laugh everyday? Can I make them believe in their abilities? Can I let them be their authentic self without exceptions?
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My questions I ask myself is…. Does he really respect me? Does he really like spending time with me or is it just sex? Does he still feel a connection with me still?
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My questions I ask myself, is he respectful of my wishes, does he listen, how do I feel about myself around him, does he make me want to be a better version of myself, do I feel at home with him
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Why would any woman be asking herself anything? Seriously and with no disrespect intended but if a woman is thinking things like this when in a relationship with a man then I feel that the answers are right there for her to see……I genuinely can’t see a reason to even have questions.
Whenever a High Value Woman is in a relationship she should need nothing from a man that she cannot already provide for herself or do for herself, however……as much as I can and do provide (more than adequately), I have an expectation that my man will be an amazing cook, be extremely thoughtful enough to cook a meal every evening and weekend when not booking a table or cleaning up and doing all the laundry.
I’ve only ever had serious relationships and while I know my worth, my ex’s have also felt a deep desire to show me theirs which included not only doing all house work, providing all meals inc breakfast in bed, asking if I would like him to scrub my back or offer to wash my hair for me but also asking if I mind if they can have a cpl of friends over to entertain on whatever the console of choice is but also ask if it’s ok to have a few beers. If you expect certain things you will receive….such as expensive jewellery watches, clothing etc So I do not understand why you would even consider having questions for yourself about a man. I would focus more on the expectation of those things and if they weren’t being displayed constantly and very clearly then I would either outline my own worth and what he could expect from me and was getting from me, just to give him that chance, and then I’d wait for everything to fall perfectly in place. In all honesty I’ve always had Men run around after me and do things for me…..so if anything, I would have a list of expectations, as in what I would naturally expect from him, I most certainly would never even consider having questions for myself! As a High Value Woman you should know your worth, you should also if writing a list about what you expected from a relationship….have a few things, while opposite that list of what you would expect from a Man you should have a very long and constantly evolving list of the things you would NOT expect!
I love it when I feel feminine around my man- it means that he is naturally protective and loving and masculine.
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1. How do I feel about her?
2. How do I felt about myself when I'm around her?
3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life?
4. Do I have what it takes to make her happy?
5. Can I see myself with her long-term?
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1. How do I feel about him?
2. How do I feel about myself when I'm around him?
3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life? Or am I making excuses for his bad behavior?
4. Do I have what it takes to make him happy?
5. Can I see myself with him long-term?
All good questions that will eliminate narcissists.
6. Does he respect me as a whole person apart from his needs or care about my own dreams and wishes?
7. Does he put me first the same way I put him first?
8. Does his word have integrity? Does he follow through on the promises he makes? Does he always tell the truth?
9. Does he like himself? Is he truly confident? Does he take care of himself or expect me to? How is his hygiene?
10. Does he have positive feelings about his mother and father? Was he raised gently with love? Did they model loving behavior towards each other daily?
11. Does he communicate in a direct, kind, emotionally intelligent way?
12. What are his coping behaviors and to what extent can I live with the damage they can cause - drinking, pot, workaholism, addiction to gaming, phone, social attention, porn, drugs, etc. Am I really thinking that I can "help him change?" lol
13. Does he enhance my life or make it more stressful?
14. Does he keep good friendships, family relationships and with his community?
15. Is he on medication for depression, bipolarism or for other mood disorders? How is he managing that?
16. Is his relationship to managing his finances healthy?
So many more questions...
17. Is he kind to children and animals and people of lower financial or social status?
18. if he has had a bad day does he take it out on his loved ones, or does he actively try to see things in a positive light?
19. Did he vote for Trump or does he belong to a white supremacist group or does he blame his misfortunes on immigrants? Has he ever used the phrase "pull yourself up by your own bootstraps"?
20. How is his anger management? Is he patient, or is he easily frustrated?
21. Are our libido levels compatible?
22. Are our basic values about what makes life worth living and what are our life-fulfilling goals and are those things compatible?
23. Do we each think the other is sexy on a basic level? Do I feel "wanted" and highly valued? Is there enough there once desire wanes? Is there passion on any level whatsoever?
24. Are our spiritual, political and emotional values even compatible?
The fact that I could go on and on and on with this list, knowing that each element is important to me tells me that I might best be alone until certain patterns I have in myself that attract the wrong person every time start to change. In the meantime, I'm not such bad company to spend time with myself for a while 😌
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The top questions I ask myself when considering a love partner are: (1) Can I trust him to be there for me no matter what? (2) Is he willing and able to provide for me? (3) Does he make me feel safe? and (4) Am I happy when I am with him?
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Does he REALLY like me?
Those are very strong questions. Kudos
@@madOHnna That ALL Highvaluewoman should ask.
1. Am I what he needs in his life?
2. Is he what I need in my life?
3. Can I tell him anything/ everything?
4. How does he treat/ talk to others?
5. Does he have any bad/ toxic behaviors?
6. How does he make me feel when we are alone vs. in public?
7. Family, ethical, political and relationship views?
This is so interesting! Thank you for making this video. It's really helped me understand why the guy I'm with is falling so hard and fast. I've been super cautious because although I become infatuated quickly, I actually don't develop real feelings quickly. I ask myself so many questions. I've definitely asked myself most of the ones in the video already.
-How does he make me feel?
-Do I trust him? Why/why not?
-Do I feel safe around him?
-Do our values align? (This is one of the most important ones for me)
-Do I see a future with him? (A second important question)
-Do I fit in his life and does he fit in mine? As in, are our lifestyles similar enough that our lives would blend well together? (Another huge one)
-Does he add value to my life as in challenge me to be a better version of myself?
-Is he a good enough match that I'm willing to forgo dating others to be with him? Am I going to find someone better matched?
-What am I going to have to compromise on to be with him and am I willing to make those sacrifices to make this relationship work?
-Where am I in my growth journey? What do *I* bring to this relationship? Have I leveled up enough to be a good match for him?
These are the ones that pop up mostly.
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For me, (maybe because I'm probably older than most viewers here and a recent widow)- it's about what I can BE with him, rather than what I can have with him. I want to be that happy, flirtatious, positive, loving, sxually alluring woman. If he's making me feel anxious or closed or unsure of myself, then it's a no-go.
The first question I ask is … How is he showing up for me? Is he proactive? Does he take the initiative to plan dates and activities? Is he consistent and punctual? Does he follow through on the above? How he shows up over time tells me A LOT about the kind of man he is and how he will treat me and our relationship. ❤
I have always thought the same thing, and been repeatedly disappointed. The things that make a skilled dater, however, are not the qualities that make a good husband. Users and narcissists are highly skilled at dating. I know nice men who I rejected for dating awkwardness, who are now good husbands. 🙄
1. Am I falling for him or the idea of the potential I am convinced I’m seeing?
2. Do I trust him? / Can I trust myself to be 100% authentic around him 100% of the time?
3. Do we have the same values/ vision of our future?
4. Am I put at ease with his presence or absence?
5. Would I want my future son to be like him/ my future daughter to marry someone like him?
I ask myself:
- Do we seem in sync with each other
- How do I feel about him
- Is he actually worthy of my ❤
- Does he some of the qualities I want in a man ( Communication, Trust)etc.
- Do I feel he's the one 4 me
Just about the same questions.
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The lady who's man says he loves her within two months and she is still figuring him out is most likely being love bombed. You two should be on the same page. A narc that I was dating claimed he was "in love with me" after 3 weeks. I said,"how can you love someone you don't know?" Narc alert!
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Some people date for years or are even married for years and then decide they’re not in love 🤷🏽♀️
I found my life partner and I an see how he processed through those things quickly. We fell in love fast but it was because it was a definite energetic connection. A few things we dealt with was our past is our past. We both used to be different people and have both done a lot of personal growth. We are continuing on a personal growth journey together now. Also a big one for me is that he must be smart & intuitive. I am now with an alpha male but have dated so many beta males. I am an alpha female and the beta males just weren't a good match for me. I need someone that is as strong as me and then some. I need a man that I can look up to and respect meaning he needs to be my equal or more. I love my boyfriend and he helps me to be a better person and continues to encourage me. Also the openess that we have is amazing. There isn't anything I can't share with him. I can cry in front of him and be vulnerable when I am processing and releasing negative emotions and energy. So vulnerability is key for me too. Thanks for this video. Even though I found my life partner in part because of your videos I continue to watch them to keep my relationship growing. Thank you!!
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Oh wow bless you so much. This is beautiful.
You are describing my exact story too hahaha I am excited to meet my Alpha male in this new season. I am taking your comment as confirmation for me from the universe that they know what I am ready for and it is coming soon 💜👏🏾 #ReadyToReceive done the work and I have evolved so much. I love it here xx
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Your explanations were very easy to understand and relate to!
If he's worth it ladies, try treating him like he's worth it, and let him know you genuinely appreciate his efforts! Don't fake it. Some men tend to treat you exactly how they feel about u!
For me, it is very important how a person presents themselves to the world, not just me. I will ask myself "Does he have good relationship with people in his life?". I know a person can't get along with everyone, but if someone has good relationship (for the most part) with family, friends, and coworkers, it's usually a sign they are a decent person and a green flag for me
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The questions I ask myself in relationship is
1) does he have empathy
2) can he express love through actions and in words
3) can he express feelings
4) how does he behave when I oppose his decision, his plans
5) how does he react when I say no
6) can he respect me and my decisions even when he disagree with me or is he forceful
7) what kinda wife he is looking for independent wife or house wife
8) where he stands in faith ,what he believes in
9) how many things we have in common
10) does he have stable income job ,if not ,is he ambitious and hardworking to get build his career.
11) fashion sense
12) does he understand humor
13) who r his close friends and how they behave
14) how he treats others who r younger than him or have low status than him
15) is he humble
16) does he have integrity
17) does he keep his words and promises
18) does he value other people's time
19) What was this childhood like and what kind of upbringing he has
20) how does his father treat his mother
21) is his mother happy with his father
22) how many friends,relatives, family members he care for
23) what is his priority pyramid look like after marriage
24) he like to live in nuclear family or joint family after marriage
25) In this culture how they treat females ,wives,daughters,sisters ,mother
List goes on and on.
It is vigorous testing I do before I decide I want to marry xyz guy .
Ok, a lot of it is good!
I do wonder if it’s too much? who can measure up….
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The 1st question shyd be is he god fearing & godloving. Then most of his values will automatically fall in place..
Honesty, Vices etc
Some of the questions I asked myself to evaluate what I feel for a man before jumping into relationships are:
-Is he capable enough to handle me well emotionally and mentally whenever I wouldn't be emotionally and mentally okay at times?
-Is he willing to adjust for me too knowing that I can adjust myself for him and meet him half way.
-Will he hold me still when we go through and down that will prove his love for me as I give all my strength to hold him even things are tough for me and through our ups and down...
The main thing I ask myself is do I feel safe with this man? Not just physically but emotionally. Like if we fight, is he gonna run at the first sign or trouble or is he going to wrok it out? Do i feel like I don't have to worry about other women or him lying to me? Security is big for me. If someone can make me feel safe, its huge. Cuz if not, i can go right back to being on my own.
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Matt you are one of the reason why my boyfriend stayed with me by using your advice. My boyfriend and I been together for almost 2 years on February and from that time we are dating im already following you and using your advice. Thank you 🙏.. He was a little bit slow but the end was worth it. He is now super inlove with me. I always appreciate him and complement. Now I’m the luckiest woman I think right now.
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Mat, this is so very true. After 19 years I have finally met the man I want to spend my life with and we are getting engaged. I have listened to your videos and downloaded your free edocs and you are spot on. Thank you! 🥰
For me -- 1) First would be career, I would like an ambitious and driven partner 2) City, place 3) Lifestyle 4) Humorous, outgoing, travel-friendly 4) Caring 5) A family man who loves kids 6) Consistently loves me and I will love him even more
Freedom - in terms of my career choices, support, true partnership and equality. I was always afraid of relationships cause didn’t want any restrictions limitations etc.. but recently realised that when a man is right, he can just jump on a bandwagon, and we can potentially move together in the same direction
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I soo relate to this. But yes, but it’s right, there’s no need to fight 🙃 Freedom is a state of being that should be reflected in our ideal partner
Questions-can I trust him? Are we compatible long term? How much chaos is in his life & can I live with it/where is it coming from? What is his family situation/ex/children? There are a few more boxes I look to check but these are the top tier.
1. Same page with values/beliefs
2. Do our purposes align/mesh well
3. Can I fully be myself/comfort levels
4. Household expectations/practical living habits
5. The dynamics with his fam, friends and mother
6. Final gut check with does this line up with what I sense God saying to me about it
7. Does this relationship move me forward spiritually or not
8. Does he really have my back like I’d have his (loyalty check)
Awesome stuff once again Matt. Thank you.
The first thing I ask myself about a special man is: is he confident enough to be around me and not ever feel threatened and is completely comfortable being himself, will he always speak his truth, will he be open and willing to try new things with me, does he like me for who I am and does his life align with mine? Beyond that I don’t really know as I haven’t met the second love of my life yet….but you have given me some very good advice for when that time comes. Thank you.
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My questions:
1. Do we have the same values & morals?
2.is respect & kindness the foundation of our relationship?
3. Is his commitment level the same as mine?
4. Is there enough live here for lifetime of growth together?
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I just got engaged to this wonderful guy. When we had started dating , I asked myself whether he wanted the same things from life (eg kids) like me, what he wanted for the long term (and whether I fit into it), whether I would be able to gel with his family and he would be able to bond with mine and most inportantly, did our ideologies matched❤
1. Do I feel myself safe/protected beside him? (phisical and emotionally)
2. Do I feel myself listened and understood by him?
3. Does he like/enjoy my lifestyle? (my daughters included)
4. Does he have a health lifestyle? (friends & family included)
5. Is he interested about supporting me solving any issue I could be facing? (not economical facet).
If yes, he'd be really interested on me; so I'd be able going on into a deep relationship.
Questions I ask:
(1) is he financially stable ( I have no mortgage or loans , but don’t want to be paying for everything just bcs I worked hard to achieve this.
(2) do his personal life goals match mine or is there conflict( I love to travel...)
(3) how does he treat others, esp those in lower socio economic situations.
(4) can he put me first at least 60% of his personal time...?
(5) is he reliable and trustworthy, does he keep his word.?
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Brilliant questions
Thank you very much, Matt. The questions I ask myself are :
1. Is there a big chemistry between us?
2. Can I be myself around him or do I feel like I need to adapt to him?
3. Is he a womanizer ?
I never put their family in the equation.
My main questions I ask myself (thanks to having my first girlfriend) are (like you said) is it the right time in my life and am I providing her with love and communication. Usually when one person bends in the right way in a relationship, the other person will be more open to helping it grow. And I intend to be the first person to bend.
Is he that guy i dreamed about? In terms of all angles, such as has he got a masculine energy ? Attentive? Always concerns about me? Am i going to give my love to him? Supportive and others.
Wow! How does your man feel about himself when he is with you ! Does he feel good about himself. That is deep! Does he feel intelligent, spiritual, around you.Does he feel he can provide for you,how does his family see you! On and on.I think the biggest question for him after the chemistry connection is HOW DOES HE FEEL when he is around you? Samson and Delilah are a perfect example to show most any women can lure a man to first base even on false pretenses but to get to 2nd base is a different matter! A man must feel that the women respects him ,she APRECIATE his leadership.Because its important for me to value my thoughts explains why initially men find me attractive but unless they share the same beliefs system they know they could not satisfy me.which is why both husband's were wildly attracted but left.I was attentive responsible kind.never harsh,but had spiritual goals that they never wanted to be apart of so the difference must had made them both feel bad about themselves! I wished I realized that instead I thought I must not be good enough ! To this day even though I know God saids I'm worthy I felt im not good enough to find the right man .The Bible encourages us to find a man that loves to be a spiritual lead! Thankyou for more clarity, I really love all you said.I wished I knew it before I chose my husband's. I believe our differences must have been very painful for them,they did not realize they were good men around me.
Karron Fisher ~ I really enjoyed reading your comment. Please know deep in your soul it wasn't you, I too fell in love and married someone who wasn't a spiritual leader, he was simply a believer. We've been given another chance to get closer in our relationship with God and hopefully one day he will bring that special man to each of us. Prayers for you friend 🙏⚘
@@candidaberweger5722 Thankyou sis. Jehovah God wraps his arms around us! One thing no one can take away from us is peace from God Jer 39:11" ! I'm not looking for a man I stay busy doing satisfying work helping others,to know Gods words.I know what ever you and I are going through our problems are temporary. Thankyou for reaching out you were very encouraging! I think Jehovah just gave me a hug! Thankyou! Stay strong my sister!😇
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This is such a beautiful, heartfelt video on so many levels ❤
The connection. Sees u when he's with others. Question where uve been all the while he was growing up. Feels empty when he can reach u. Tell u that u are his divinity, his last bus stop. Wants to love u till 99years
I always think that the answer to the following question is how anyone can know if someone is worthwhile, especially for a lifetime:
"If I suddenly became paralyzed, would this person still want to spend their life by my side, always taking care of me?"
-& also vice versa:
"If this person became paralyzed, would I still want to spend my life by THEIR side, always taking care of them?"
I love the guy as he is, he is shy, not open up easily, i give him space, feel him comfortable arond me.
Listening and watching this video made me realize that yes he may be falling in love with me , however I am not ready for his love. I still have a lot of work to do on me before I can let him or any other in.
Men will ask
1. How do I feel about her?
2. How do I feel about myself around her?
3. Is this what I want at this stage in my life?
4. Do I have what it takes to make her happy? 🤔 emotionally, spiritually, financially etc authentically please
5. Can I see myself with her in long term?
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Omg, I met my bf through dating app, and after 3 days suddenly he said, hey I just wanna let you know that I disable myself on the dating app, and I said, why??? He said, bcuz I just wanna focus on you, I think we have something and that's I wanna focus on and other than that, I really really like you...
Gosh I love him soooo much 😘
1- Will he change after we marriage?
2-Will this relationship be a happy ever after?
I love the way he is now. His loving ways attracted me.
Will he ever lose that loving feeling and exciting adventures?
3-Will he take good care of me in good times and bad times in sickness and in health?
I was thinking that basically these are the questions a woman should also ask.
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I ask myself is he authentic? Am I seeing his true self or are there going to be huge bad surprises in the future? I ask myself will he let me be me? Or will he impose some behaviors on me? I ask myself does he want only security and money( because I can provide that). I ask myself do I like his family or are there some red flags there. I ask myself is he romantic? Or will the initial attraction disappear over time? I ask of course is he deceitful, and will he be faithful?
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I ask myself can I trust him, is he loyal, does he respect my boundaries, do we have the same goals and values. How does he treat others. When all of that lines up I can let my walls down. I fell in love with an amazing man. We are planning our future together and it feels good!
I glad to have found your channel its been very helpful. The first video I ever watched was red flags. This was after an 18ur abusive relationship. For 2.5 years I've been trying to fix myself before I was ready to even try and look for the next man. I left with 3 kids, no job and my best friend gave me her camper for us to live in. I got a job, bought a piece lf land and a bus that we converted to a tiny home. I see bright sun in my future and someone who I'm interested in that treats me the opposite of what I've always had ( I met my soon to be ex husband at 15). Ladies you got this remember you can always change your path no matter how hard it is.
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Dear Mat Boggs I only see how much time he devote for me and maintain continuity of giving time to me .
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those are good questions to write each time a woman or a man goes on a date - like a journal .. the pattern of phobias if any should surface almost each time
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I've had many flings, but this it the only man who I have been able to honestly say yes on all of these questions.
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That’s a great vídeo Matt and it definitely goes both ways for men and women. As a female I do ask myself, does he have a good sense of humor, do we have things in common? I don’t want to be with a guy who spends his weekends in front of the TV watching football because that is his number one priority. That’s gotta be a balance!
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Yes I actually ask the same 5 questions to myself when I fall inlove. And I ask these question also according to, "does he feel this way?" Cause if he doesnt feel this way towards me then it does not help that Im inlove with him.
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Do we communicate ….do I feel he is honest. See his kindness, cares about family. Similar sense of humor and values. Is he kind to animals. Does he live his life with integrity.
Can we laugh together?
Do we both want to work on this, however each of us approaches it?
Can we solve issues as a team?
Do we enjoy each others company?
How are we when we spend a day together, do we each need to get a way and recoup, or do we part and look forward to each other in the morning?
Do we respect each other's requests when they have been made and talked about?
Can I correct my mistakes with this person? ( especially important to keeping communication open?
Do we make each other feel better?
Are we making a choice from strength or from unhealthy dependence?
Do we have a meeting of the minds? Do we have several shared interests? Does he view my body as a beautiful gift? Do we have shared values? Do we have the same love language? Can I see us having a successful future?
First question for me. Is there any red flags. Definitely how do I feel about him. How do I feel when with him. Are we on same page about wants, goals, etc.
As middle-aged couple things are very different than when young. We both have histories, and were long distance for awhile. Now we living a few miles from each other but due to an elderly parent aging illness, not living together. But I feel married. We are totally committed. He is my home 🏡 ❤
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The way you brought up focus reminded me of what Antoine de St-Exupéry wrote in the Little Prince : "It is the time you have wasted [spent] for your rose that makes your rose so important."
I think what I will ask myself first and foremost is what my gut feeling is about the guy. If the little voice in my head notices red flags, I will walk out. I will ask myself how he treats other people in his life to see if it's compatible with what I want/need. If I can't feel safe and if I don't get the feeling that being vulnerable in his company is an enriching experience, it's just not going to work out. We have to be able to evolve together and grow into this relationship, you know...
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These are great questions to ask, but I think that he's confusing falling in love with making a commitment. Of course, you want to commit to somebody that you're in love with. You don't need to be in love to make a commitment. Also, people are much more complex than these five questions suggest. I'd encourage you pay attention nunances and circumstances when asking these questions.
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those are such great insights Mat........you Rock! Thank you so much....peace and blessings in 2022
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Dear Matt hi,
I'm new to your videos, but let me tell you, you have helped me so much. They help me balance, especially the video about the questions a man asks when he is falling in love. I really would like you to talk about relationships when the woman is much, much older than the man. I'm in something like that, but I do not let it start even though this man has persued me. I guess that because I look so much younger than my years, I get this quite a lot. So I would love to have you post a video about a big age difference between a man and a woman. Thank you very much. Be well and be happy.
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I met a really nice guy, and ironically I am asking these questions myself. 😊
Thank You Matt, This open my eyes wider. I thought I was the only one think of those thought.
Another great video Mat! I ask myself those exact same questions before and during a relationship. And I’ve asked myself, too, how do I think I make him feel when he’s around me? Or, do I think he can even imagine a future with me? Bc if I don’t think he or I can vision those things then obviously something needs to change. My relationship with him is strong and well communicated so there’s really nothing to worry about. And the trust is there! Mat I love how devoted to your work you are! It really shows! Through your communication and body language! Great work!
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This was really helpful and opened my eyes. Thank you
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I don't ask myself anything.... I just fall in love. Without any questions
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I hear ya. And there are things I notice, but these are good to add to the mix especially, how does he feel with me (get out of our own perspective!)
Hey Mat, thanks for this video. Yes, it is very true i and him must ask these 5 questions into ourselves to jump into serious relationship.
Paula has some great thoughts. I might add can he carry on intelligent conversation. Does he show quality in most things he does? Is he moderately hygienic minded in his activities? Does he enjoy people?
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@Ellen…those are good too.
I think we could come up with many, and then could miss out on someone! How many boxes do we all check? Somewhere, there is balance….
My questions "Will he accept me and like me for who I am"? Will we be able to talk and share and understand each other"? "Will he feed me"? I think feeding g each other when you are at each others houses is important.
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Always loving the insights you share Matt... For me it's "can we grow together?" 🔥🔥🔥
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The question i ask myself is am i enough for him for the rest of our live , do i have what it takes to make him happy for the rest of our lives.
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I look for trust in a relationship and to be faithful to have a honest loveing long term relationship you also have to compromise its got to be give and take be interested in your man's career and likes and dislikes also he has to also be interested in my likes and dislikes if you both have that understanding of each other hopefully you have a good solid happy relationship
Thanks Matt for this
Thanks for this video. Please share the name of the documentary on love being focus. I've always felt so and would love to see the video.
Thank you
Those are the same things that I ask myself. And add in, does he seem like a person that can commit and be faithful.
I liked this guy awhile go, he was GREAT on paper. Financially stable, no debt, owned his own business. He is attractive, tall, fit and active. He loves the outdoors, hiking camping and not into sitting and watching sports(same as me. I could picture a very active lifestyle) He seemed helpful and considerate and generous. Paid for meals, thanked me for spending time with him and always texted to make sure that I made it home safely.
But-when we were together, he would steer the conversation toward his ex girlfriends and other women, a lot of the time. And he would be very critical and judgemental of those women's lifestyle and choices.(apparently he still keeps track of them?) It always sets my body and gut on edge. It makes me very uncomfortable. I feel that I couldn't be with someone that was critical and judgemental. He would probably be critical and judgemental of me as well. Why not. Right?! I wouldn't be an exception, I am sure.
Sad, because he is really great on paper.
Wow, I get it. Did you ever discuss this with him?
Not letting go, or keeping tabs on people could be a flag….
These are the same things that mature women evaluate when meeting a good man.
AND
These are the things that a woman evaluates in a split second as soon as a man approaches her:
1. do I feel SEEN by him (my soul, not just the outer shell or my resources),
2. does he protect my heart, my reputation (=career, social life, origin, family and culture), my mental health, my body - or is he, let's say: toxic in one of these areas
3. do I feel protected, safe and brave enough to exude sexiness around him (AND do I actually feel sexy) - or do I feel pushed, cheap or taken advantage of or even endangered?
4. the social background around him is a big HINT of a future with him. Can I tolerate that? Past is future
5. What if I am financially dependent/stuck on him for the children? - Does it feel light or dark? - Think of a STRONG power imbalance in this constellation.
6. what kind of personality mix is he? is it inherited? Am I actually looking forward to having children with him? What if they are like him?
7. how does he talk about his female exes or female relatives (is he a misogynist?)
8. does he have problems with his father? If so, he is also a troublemaker.
Ultimately, our MIND decides - in a split second
Thank you for giving some tips and advices regarding romantic relationship .
Most important question I would probably ask for myself " In this stage of my life do I still need a life partner that this man is having this kind of personality?
Do I see myself happy growing old together with this guy ? 🙏🙏🙏
Do we get to answer if we are no where near this stage? 🤣
I suppose a proposed que would be:
Can he submit himself to the Lord and posture himself to lead?
If he can do that, I know his love is governed in Godly principles and I can rest in the alignment of Godly love.
I ask can we be a happy kids together and grow together in life
First and foremost, is he authentically trustworthy, is he dedicated, do our values match - relationships are a team row!
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Men don't fall in love, we elevate in love. And we don't ask questions, we make if-then-else statements. Get it right.
Does he like me, Does he respect me, Is he consistent with his communication with me, Do our energy mix well together, Can I be myself when I'm with him
My questions are (1) Is going to be there for me? (2) Is he going to be happy with me? (3) Does he want to start a family with me? (4) Can I trust him? (5) Is going to stay with me?
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1. How do I feel about her?: 1:19
2. How do I feel about myself when I'm around her?: 2:15
3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life?: 3:33
4. Do I have what it takes to make her happy?: 5:01
5. Can I see myself with her long-term?: 6:12
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I wish I had this when I was young.
I ask myself, is he going to grow with me going forward, we all have our journeys and if one partner is growing and the other is not, the relationship will eventually grow apart. Can I influence him, will he be open to being guided to a place he didn't know he could go. Will he stand and face me when things get tough, or will he run and hide. Will he be able to work out the hard stuff without hitting below the belt.
Will he support and listen to me even if he doesn't agree with a differing point of view.
Can they make me laugh everyday? Do they listen to my convoluted stories? Do they not try to change me? Can I make them laugh everyday? Can I make them believe in their abilities? Can I let them be their authentic self without exceptions?
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My questions I ask myself is….
Does he really respect me?
Does he really like spending time with me or is it just sex?
Does he still feel a connection with me still?