Come back to yourself. Process the emotions. Recharge your emotional energy. Because narcissists are emotional vampires. They will drain you emotionally and energetically. You will feel irritable, anxious, frustrated and even depressed. That’s how they feel everyday. And it’s why they depend on you to supply them with your energy and emotions.
Narcissists are not always broken people. It’s genetic devilry. Dark triad traits in general are heritable. But afflicted narcissists (compared to a neurotypical) have had their personal, physical, sexual, emotional, and even spiritual boundaries completely dismissed. Imagine how painful that experience was as a child. And yes, that trauma stays with them their whole life. They can get therapy and build better boundaries between them and others, but the neurological wiring of a narcissist stays the same all throughout their life.
Lost 10 years to a narcissist, Wish I could’ve found this type of content during my discard I lost so much time in limbo . got into alcohol & drugs and just couldn’t make no progress . I couldn’t understand the betrayal from everyone around me . I recommend stay sober Stay busy learn new skills get fit learn how to cook elevate yourself for the real thing for when it does come .
They steal your light,and fill you with their emptiness.And then you're zomified AF Trying to find yourself.Worst nightmare of my life.I wouldn't wish one of those things on my worst enemy!
My discard was BRUTAL. Things were going great, we even had a trip planned and paid for (I paid of course). Woke up one day and was blocked everywhere. No argument, never told me we were breaking up, I got straight ghosted after 7 months together. Found out that same week she got on dating apps. That one stung like hell. That was 8 months ago and I'm still not 100% as I have trust issues now, but I'm doing a hell of alot better compared to then. I'm in much better shape, crushing it in the gym, joined martial arts classes, and generally finding peace with myself. If I can get through that experience, you guys can too. Put the work in on yourself and focus on the future.
I’m sorry to hear that Lee!! I been so hurt I’m afraid to let people in.. I stick to myself anymore.. You think you finally found the one or vise versa like a friendship you get close then boom they disappear.. It happened to me.. I been wanting to find a boxing gym or something I work at crappy shift hopefully I can find something to get into.. I’m depressed!!
I lost my house, my job, my car and my pup in one fell swoop overnight to a narcissistic demon. I couldn't function for months. Its been 3 years since he left me and im closing on a new house next week. Im still no right in the head, im a 60 year old woman who works out, takes supplements and i look around 40's. But inside i feel broken because its hard to be this age and not only find a good man, but trust another man is very difficult. Its funny because i remember when i met him he kept telling me what a good woman i was. I didn't realize at that time that it was code for what a good woman i was to use, discard and abuse. Surreal. 😮
God gives the hardest battles to his toughest warriors tough💪 narcissistic abuse is not a regular break up it’s like sleeping with the devil himself in a smile mask. It made me question me as a person, it changed me now I’ve quit drink, smoking, socialising with the old and I’m now at church 3-4 times a week plus the gym ❤ it awakens you to being your best self 🎉 I give thanks for the test it challenged me to be better not bitter 🎉 it can drain you but that’s when you go hard for life and live each day to the max 😊
Be careful folks of the evil narcs and the devil on this earth, he ain’t happy as his day is coming and if he and his demons in human form (narcs toxic people) see you and you have light and god is with you then they gonna come for you to take and extinguish that light. Know the signs and actions and behaviour of these creatures first and protect yourself. Gods day is coming soon. Good video TJ.
The empath is like the eagle not the narc 👉 phenomenom occurs when the crow(narc) lands on the eagles back and harrasses and rides on the eagle, the eagle cannont get the crow off of it easily. The way it gets it off is flying higher and higher into the sky to a height where there is less oxygen and the crow falls off👈👌 continue to elevate to a level where oxygen is cut off to the narc
"It's up for you to cope with what has gone on, to recover from that and, to make sure that 'you are you' again. You are exactly what God has made you to be once again " Great video!
Hey, to the creator of the video, you're really on point with this I've been through the hell and the dark night of the soul and all of it. You're really on top of this situation and know what to do and understand it. This is one of the best videos on the topic. Really good job bro
The discard from these people is brutal, the love bombing (idealisation) followed by the devaluation and then discard is horrendous, I felt mine put me back on the shelf when they found a new supply like I was some child’s toy for her to later to try and hoover me (where they come back), they can even reverse hoover or reverse discard you where you go back to them or let them go because they have a new form of supply that they have got bored with.
Mine hid her real self for so long. Then we had a kid together, and I went into dad mode and started to draw harder boundaries with the stakes now increased. That's when the gremlin came out and she changed nearly overnight. This is what men have to deal with and it doesn't shock me that they are walking away from relationahips en masse.
I deserve better than this. I handled the covert narcissist way differently, re: a woman a dated last year. I am in court dealing with the matter. I have called her our publicly regarding who and what she really is. I refuse to back down from her. I recently told her in court on the record to her face that she is a social predator and a sociopath.
Thank you, Had one about 10 years ago... Gave her my all... Everything... Just to become one of them. 😂I'm awake now though. Never again. Never again. Mental health is no joke. Love to you all. ❤Be true, be good, be genuine. Know you deserve reciprocated Love to the Love you give. ❤
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
THIS! Is all absolutely true and accurate, unfortunately I experienced it myself. Anyone who experiences anything like this - the experiences are different from relationship to relationship but also exactly the same if you follow me. I was discarded 3 weeks after our 9 year anniversary and she even hid the cats when I had to get my stuff in the coming weeks. God bless everyone.
You stay no contact until you start to hate them and then that hate slowly turns into indifference over a long period of time You don’t have to do anything extraordinary to get over them, it’s literally just time and no contact :)
Hi Joel. Thanks for expressing your feelings and thoughts. I appreciate you. It does not take too long to know if there is potential for a good relationship. Those 'early' red flags say a lot about the other person, but we still try because that is not all there is about that person ...and there is always a possibility, even if remote. The relationship does not depend only on us or them. We can't totally predict how it will turn out. So, the upset about the breakup is more about the loss of 'something that could have been.' It is a momentary nostalgia for some of the goodness that did not last. However, when people say that we should act as if we don't care even if we do, it's the opposite - we don't care and act as if we did. Why? Because we attempt to cultivate something we know has little chance of working out long-term. Still, we do the best we can by doing our part.
good work. my conbtribution is that it helped me very much to research the science about this pathological disorder. at some point i realized all the toxic and inexplicable behaviour didn´t have anything to do with me (despite my own mistakes). whilst in it the my selfworth was consequently damaged and ended in cognitive dissonance. today i feel that i´ve got a certain power now because i could reveal what really is behind that mask. and the mask is what they do EVERYTHING for. imho. regards from germany.
Hebrews 11:27 Faith led Moses to leave Egypt without being afraid of the king’s anger. Moses didn’t give up but continued as if he could actually see the invisible God... 29 Faith caused the people to go through the Red Sea as if it were dry land. The Egyptians also tried this, but they drowned. 30 Faith caused the walls of Jericho to fall after the Israelites marched around them for seven days.
She used me as her doormat, i thought were develloping a solid connection, even moved to her town, then saw her jumping from d to d, following week saw her in church but at this point i didnt even looked at her, i was disgusted, 2 weeks later she hopped on another d again.
Nah, in fairness until i paved my way out of where i was and i only talked about the methods of the narc and descriptions of patterns of behaviour. The truth about what youre saying on the post narc consumption the post zombification is cptsd and/or depression. Which i wasnt gonna cough up especially where i lived at the time and under these specific circumstances. After they have destroyed all of your internal landmarks, gaslit you into a corner, conned your family and friends, threatened you to the cops/had you falsly arrested, turned up at your work drunk and slandered, gangstalked you etc. etc etc. the level of psychological warfare and emotional destabalisation they leave you with leaves you with cptsd and unless youve walked yourself out of it before you should 100% see a professional for advice, because itll deatroy your life permanently, youll be susseptable to so many dangers of society and whatever their predominant sstrategy was is what youll ve susseptable tp the most (probably gaslighting because youve already been so dramatically corenerd and drained of all resources emotional, psycholgical, physical, and financial) which means unless you are an absolute psychological wizard youre very vulnerable. Get professional help, for real.
Your Words are so right Your images are so relevant I loved an image an illusion It is a cross of hell I loved him so much I feel m’y body is sexually dépendent again I Want to feel definitively free of this dépendance
Maybe if men weren't so selfish, and brought more to the table, women would feel less stressed. We need safety given to us by real men who were allowed to hold down a real job without some type of blackmail situation. We don't need your bosses or workmates trying to seduce us or give us more money, to leave you or inform on you. We need real men.
@ryank6322 true but it gives your more flexibility it'd believe. Like more freedom. Its easier being submissive than dominant in thsi world tbh unless your on the top top
Terry was it with your voice? A little groggy now dearie 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣, please try the avocado scrub cream, it works WONDERS for your skin, it’s very UN-PLE-SANT to see in its current condition 😁😁
You always associate narcissists with relationship partners, but you should speak on them in general. As “partners” you get the picture, it’s all just shit. As people ie; colleagues friends enemies teachers etc, similar story, but more to go over.
Come back to yourself. Process the emotions. Recharge your emotional energy. Because narcissists are emotional vampires. They will drain you emotionally and energetically. You will feel irritable, anxious, frustrated and even depressed. That’s how they feel everyday. And it’s why they depend on you to supply them with your energy and emotions.
Can you do more videos on GANGSTALKING?
I'm convinced there DEMONIC 😈 there ALL the same act the same move the same. Attack there so called ❤ the same.
💯 thanks for this clarity or the way you summed it up
@@NarcSurvivor but you will find yourself in the process & never let anyone ever again come before you ❤️
Set standards and wash and pray best advice
Narcissists are not always broken people. It’s genetic devilry. Dark triad traits in general are heritable. But afflicted narcissists (compared to a neurotypical) have had their personal, physical, sexual, emotional, and even spiritual boundaries completely dismissed. Imagine how painful that experience was as a child. And yes, that trauma stays with them their whole life. They can get therapy and build better boundaries between them and others, but the neurological wiring of a narcissist stays the same all throughout their life.
Lost 10 years to a narcissist, Wish I could’ve found this type of content during my discard I lost so much time in limbo . got into alcohol & drugs and just couldn’t make no progress . I couldn’t understand the betrayal from everyone around me .
I recommend stay sober Stay busy learn new skills get fit learn how to cook elevate yourself for the real thing for when it does come .
They steal your light,and fill you with their emptiness.And then you're zomified AF Trying to find yourself.Worst nightmare of my life.I wouldn't wish one of those things on my worst enemy!
My discard was BRUTAL. Things were going great, we even had a trip planned and paid for (I paid of course). Woke up one day and was blocked everywhere. No argument, never told me we were breaking up, I got straight ghosted after 7 months together. Found out that same week she got on dating apps.
That one stung like hell. That was 8 months ago and I'm still not 100% as I have trust issues now, but I'm doing a hell of alot better compared to then. I'm in much better shape, crushing it in the gym, joined martial arts classes, and generally finding peace with myself.
If I can get through that experience, you guys can too. Put the work in on yourself and focus on the future.
Yea that’s brutal sheesh keep going man 💪
Brutal, but try this but having kids with. Then they come after you for the kids. NON STOP while VERBALLY ABUSING YOU NONE STOP.
Keep it up bro 💪🏽
We are all going through this brother, but there is no future, women are all like this.
I’m sorry to hear that Lee!! I been so hurt I’m afraid to let people in.. I stick to myself anymore.. You think you finally found the one or vise versa like a friendship you get close then boom they disappear.. It happened to me.. I been wanting to find a boxing gym or something I work at crappy shift hopefully I can find something to get into.. I’m depressed!!
Know your WORTH and NEVER forget it
I lost my house, my job, my car and my pup in one fell swoop overnight to a narcissistic demon. I couldn't function for months. Its been 3 years since he left me and im closing on a new house next week.
Im still no right in the head, im a 60 year old woman who works out, takes supplements and i look around 40's. But inside i feel broken because its hard to be this age and not only find a good man, but trust another man is very difficult.
Its funny because i remember when i met him he kept telling me what a good woman i was. I didn't realize at that time that it was code for what a good woman i was to use, discard and abuse. Surreal. 😮
God gives the hardest battles to his toughest warriors tough💪 narcissistic abuse is not a regular break up it’s like sleeping with the devil himself in a smile mask.
It made me question me as a person, it changed me now I’ve quit drink, smoking, socialising with the old and I’m now at church 3-4 times a week plus the gym ❤ it awakens you to being your best self 🎉 I give thanks for the test it challenged me to be better not bitter 🎉 it can drain you but that’s when you go hard for life and live each day to the max 😊
Narcissists don’t love anyone..!!
That’s one thing I learnt ☝🏼
Be careful folks of the evil narcs and the devil on this earth, he ain’t happy as his day is coming and if he and his demons in human form (narcs toxic people) see you and you have light and god is with you then they gonna come for you to take and extinguish that light. Know the signs and actions and behaviour of these creatures first and protect yourself. Gods day is coming soon. Good video TJ.
The empath is like the eagle not the narc 👉 phenomenom occurs when the crow(narc) lands on the eagles back and harrasses and rides on the eagle, the eagle cannont get the crow off of it easily. The way it gets it off is flying higher and higher into the sky to a height where there is less oxygen and the crow falls off👈👌 continue to elevate to a level where oxygen is cut off to the narc
I say this with tears....he was in my church, close with my parents,father of kids, h3 changed overnight. GOD give us mercy😢
"It's up for you to cope with what has gone on, to recover from that and, to make sure that 'you are you' again. You are exactly what God has made you to be once again " Great video!
Hey, to the creator of the video, you're really on point with this I've been through the hell and the dark night of the soul and all of it. You're really on top of this situation and know what to do and understand it. This is one of the best videos on the topic. Really good job bro
The discard from these people is brutal, the love bombing (idealisation) followed by the devaluation and then discard is horrendous, I felt mine put me back on the shelf when they found a new supply like I was some child’s toy for her to later to try and hoover me (where they come back), they can even reverse hoover or reverse discard you where you go back to them or let them go because they have a new form of supply that they have got bored with.
Mine hid her real self for so long. Then we had a kid together, and I went into dad mode and started to draw harder boundaries with the stakes now increased. That's when the gremlin came out and she changed nearly overnight. This is what men have to deal with and it doesn't shock me that they are walking away from relationahips en masse.
I deserve better than this. I handled the covert narcissist way differently, re: a woman a dated last year. I am in court dealing with the matter. I have called her our publicly regarding who and what she really is. I refuse to back down from her. I recently told her in court on the record to her face that she is a social predator and a sociopath.
One day at a time is all we can do.
LOVE yourself unconditionally 💙
Thank you, Had one about 10 years ago... Gave her my all... Everything... Just to become one of them. 😂I'm awake now though. Never again. Never again. Mental health is no joke. Love to you all. ❤Be true, be good, be genuine. Know you deserve reciprocated Love to the Love you give. ❤
Great video bro. I’m literally going through this right now. A little over three months of no contact now and slowly but surely finding myself again.
Set standards and wash and pray best advice
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
This video spoke to me. Came just at the right time. Thank you.
THIS! Is all absolutely true and accurate, unfortunately I experienced it myself. Anyone who experiences anything like this - the experiences are different from relationship to relationship but also exactly the same if you follow me. I was discarded 3 weeks after our 9 year anniversary and she even hid the cats when I had to get my stuff in the coming weeks. God bless everyone.
16:25 I dont drink period while having a storage of wine behind him 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Let them learn the hard way that they’ll never find you in another person. Or anyone that’s helped them as much as you did.
Try this but having kids with. Then they come after you for the kids. NON STOP while VERBALLY ABUSING YOU NONE STOP.
Already there left 2 months ago and i have a baby hes trying to currently steal
They will continuously create Drama when kids are involved
I have one 20 knows what's what now add handicapped child 27 years now nonverbal has to be carved for life !!! Help God 😮
@@jayhadcock8767 we learn to create BOUNDARIES
" GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER!!!".... YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT!!!.... AMEN 🙏
3:41 It's perplexing to me, as someone who feels deeply, to comprehend how others can be completely without emotions.
soulless, dead eyes perplex and concern me.
I’m 18 months post break up with a covert narc and I’m still feeling the effects occasionally. That was no normal breakup.
Truth and others don’t understand so it’s lonely healing
I just simply decided to move on with my life.they didn't.i cope with things quite well.
You stay no contact until you start to hate them and then that hate slowly turns into indifference over a long period of time
You don’t have to do anything extraordinary to get over them, it’s literally just time and no contact :)
But when kids are involved you can't but low contact and then the same formula happens 😊
Hi Joel. Thanks for expressing your feelings and thoughts. I appreciate you. It does not take too long to know if there is potential for a good relationship. Those 'early' red flags say a lot about the other person, but we still try because that is not all there is about that person ...and there is always a possibility, even if remote. The relationship does not depend only on us or them. We can't totally predict how it will turn out. So, the upset about the breakup is more about the loss of 'something that could have been.' It is a momentary nostalgia for some of the goodness that did not last. However, when people say that we should act as if we don't care even if we do, it's the opposite - we don't care and act as if we did. Why? Because we attempt to cultivate something we know has little chance of working out long-term. Still, we do the best we can by doing our part.
good work. my conbtribution is that it helped me very much to research the science about this pathological disorder. at some point i realized all the toxic and inexplicable behaviour didn´t have anything to do with me (despite my own mistakes). whilst in it the my selfworth was consequently damaged and ended in cognitive dissonance. today i feel that i´ve got a certain power now because i could reveal what really is behind that mask. and the mask is what they do EVERYTHING for. imho. regards from germany.
Thanks for sharing, really needs this , you are a blessing so much info and encouragement
Hebrews 11:27 Faith led Moses to leave Egypt without being afraid of the king’s anger. Moses didn’t give up but continued as if he could actually see the invisible God...
29 Faith caused the people to go through the Red Sea as if it were dry land. The Egyptians also tried this, but they drowned.
30 Faith caused the walls of Jericho to fall after the Israelites marched around them for seven days.
Thank you! This is valuable for many including me!
This video helps, got to say best video
That's what I'm talking about Terry💪🏾😎🔥
Going through this after a two year relationship.
This message really hit today!!!! It’s time to start anew!!!! Thank You!
Wine bottles in the back for aesthetics
Keep grinding boys
It's not easy. But everything you heard here is gold❤
She used me as her doormat, i thought were develloping a solid connection, even moved to her town, then saw her jumping from d to d, following week saw her in church but at this point i didnt even looked at her, i was disgusted, 2 weeks later she hopped on another d again.
I’m lost for words when it comes to women
@ same, bro
Bless you. Thank-you.
God Bless u Bro !!
You are Absolutely right 😩😭💔
Nah, in fairness until i paved my way out of where i was and i only talked about the methods of the narc and descriptions of patterns of behaviour.
The truth about what youre saying on the post narc consumption the post zombification is cptsd and/or depression. Which i wasnt gonna cough up especially where i lived at the time and under these specific circumstances.
After they have destroyed all of your internal landmarks, gaslit you into a corner, conned your family and friends, threatened you to the cops/had you falsly arrested, turned up at your work drunk and slandered, gangstalked you etc. etc etc. the level of psychological warfare and emotional destabalisation they leave you with leaves you with cptsd and unless youve walked yourself out of it before you should 100% see a professional for advice, because itll deatroy your life permanently, youll be susseptable to so many dangers of society and whatever their predominant sstrategy was is what youll ve susseptable tp the most (probably gaslighting because youve already been so dramatically corenerd and drained of all resources emotional, psycholgical, physical, and financial) which means unless you are an absolute psychological wizard youre very vulnerable. Get professional help, for real.
Your Words are so right
Your images are so relevant
I loved an image an illusion
It is a cross of hell
I loved him so much
I feel m’y body is sexually dépendent again
I Want to feel definitively free of this dépendance
Thanks bud
Thank you ❤
Terry👍🏾📈❤
Had a Silver Altima pull up next to anyone’s building lately, Joel? Tell your American friends I said, “Happy Thanksgiving.”
Yes 👍..i can relate
Viper is correct
Two words; Who cares. Two more words; So what.
You definitely have a lot of knowledge though
You're all up in Iowa
Why does god let these things happen to us? I just wanted a special connection and to feel loved
I dont care for him hes a looser and so fake he will only continue to loose
Pop pop pop.
❤
Bro where did you get your psychology degree you should run anger management classes
Maybe if men weren't so selfish, and brought more to the table, women would feel less stressed. We need safety given to us by real men who were allowed to hold down a real job without some type of blackmail situation. We don't need your bosses or workmates trying to seduce us or give us more money, to leave you or inform on you. We need real men.
Not the right place for this comment lol
This is like a muscle power type of person oersoective. What about the skiny more delicate person type 🤔.
You still need to take good care of your body and eat right, light exercise, sunlight, do things you enjoy, etc.
@ryank6322 true but it gives your more flexibility it'd believe. Like more freedom. Its easier being submissive than dominant in thsi world tbh unless your on the top top
Terry was it with your voice? A little groggy now dearie 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣, please try the avocado scrub cream, it works WONDERS for your skin, it’s very UN-PLE-SANT to see in its current condition 😁😁
You always associate narcissists with relationship partners, but you should speak on them in general. As “partners” you get the picture, it’s all just shit. As people ie; colleagues friends enemies teachers etc, similar story, but more to go over.
You crazy for posting that thumbnail. The internet is dangerous dude.