So being a guy on the victim side were the wife cheated. Most people don't know the other person that the spouse cheats with. I grew up with the guy that the wife fucked. Now that's heart ach and the ultimate stabbed betrayal. But I got revenge on the ex and the guy. He was military got him dishonorable discharged and divorced. The military don't look kindly to adulterers acts on base, which they were caught on security vids. The ex-wife lives in a homeless shelter with nobody would take her in. Both kids don't want nothing to do with her by there choice. She made those choices so now she is taking the consequences for her actions. I even got all of my friends to never talk to him again too. Most people all you have to do is give people a nudge to take your side and destroy somebodies life. Deep down being the victim there are very few people I will ever trust. She kept saying you heal but that's a lie. You never heal being a victim. I have nightmares from the crap and its been 15 years already. I would rather be single the rest of my life. I got my 2 kids, 2 uncle's still alive that raised me and I'm good.
She sucked as a wife, and the husband decided to UPGRADE. Looks like she was a toxic selfish woman, and the ex-husband made the correct decision. If all these guys ditch you, maybe it's not them, but it's YOU.
As a human being having to deal with infidelity is the worst. I was told my child was mine only to find out years after she left my daughter and I she showed up with a dna test proving ,y daughter was not my child. It sucked and it still does but gotta take it day by day
She left you alone to care for your daughter. While lack of genetic connection is incredibly painful for you, don’t put that on the innocent little girl. You raised her, she sees you as “Dad” - she is your daughter. If mother abandoned her with you, she has no right to then claim girl as her own. If you can, keep full custody.
She "showed up" with DNA evidence? I would definitely get my own test. After that, it's obviously up to you how you feel about your child. I have seen women pull some tricks that you wouldn't think a person would have the gall to even try. Some of them have no shame, and are capable of anything. I was worried that my daughter from my second marriage wasn't mine, because after I got married, my wife just couldn't seem to tell the truth about anything. Thankfully, she is mine, but I would probably still love her just as much if she wasn't biologically mine. It is, however, perfectly natural for man to not want to use resources on another man's kids.
No man is faithful? I never cheated on none of my past partners but they all cheated on me, one of them even cheated on me with her boss. Infidelity has no gender, if you think otherwise, you’re ignorant and childish
I love that all I have to do is tune to your podcasts and thr universe starts revealing my truth to me. You interview people that have experienced what I'm going through in my life at the current moment. It's so helpful to my healing. Thank you
Men like/desire multiple women. It's nature. Immsicknof hearing like men just do it because they are bored...too many women look through their lens and act as if men are built the same way. Men are extremely hard wired for multiple women and woman are not for multiple men..women seem to win here so maybe understand this or step up your bedroom game a lot more as a woman that is your main duty in a maiiriage/relationship then maybe the man won't cheat
When you have been married over twenty years and you are fighting to deal with breast and come home to find out that your husband has moved out and is with another woman, that is painful! But as stated by an amazing young woman who was unable to beat her cancer, “You cannot wait until life isn’t hard anymore to decide to be happy” I wouldn’t buy your book as you have very little experience and though I have traveled the would on my own, most women, especially single Mom’s can’t afford to take a trip to heal. Sometimes you have to get therapy and pull yourself up by your boot straps. A vacation to heal, seems rather entitled.
You lost me when you said she was an actress. (Narcissistic psychopath) The title on the book is idiotic. The fact that she can leave life for a month shows that she has none. The whole thing stinks like a festering half consumed warthog on the Serengeti. Wouldn’t take any advice from either of you and wouldn’t use the book for toilet paper. Hard pass on the channel, the channel producer and the “actress” .
It happened because the guy didn't want to spend a month with this lady. Jesus after 6 minutes I had to turn off the channel because the bullshit got too deep. BLA BLA BLA
Wow so you even put pink dye in your hair like a 19 year old. You acted like a 19 year old and he still cheated with a real 19 year old. The real thing is always better than the generic fake.
If your husband can get a 19 year old, step up your game ladies. Stop feeling sorry for yourselves and smother your guy with love. No argument or rationalization can substitute for your feckless behavior. Win him over everyday and drop the selfishness.
A positive mindset is always the key to moving on. You can hurt, but dwelling on the negative will always bring negative influence into your life. Refusing to let negativity produces better paths for us in the nowcand moving forward. If you watch those who allow negativity to be a constant in their day to day life, negativity always finds them easy.
Ladies, don’t put all your eggs in one basket, have a career, girl friends, family, and your partner. You must maintain a support network. Have a career to support yourself. Diversification!
Prioritize being a mother, a wife and a homemaker over your desire for a career and that will drastically reduce the chances of infidelity. Men want available feminine women, not career women.
WOW, this reminded me of many males friends and co-workers complaining about their wives, who stopped performing. So they chase after girls who can perform.
She has great European DNA, perhaps Nordic. I would stay faithful. But why the need to be married. Faithfulness is more about a persons character, not a ring and ceremony at a church
You know 6 mos. In Europe consisted of her getting her back blown out by every European stud she found attractive. Good for her. I can’t imagine being cheated on. Been married 39 years and both of us had plenty of chances to cheat but I know I haven’t cheated and believe my wife hasn’t either. Hope she’s with a good partner she deserves.Hard to find but if you find your partner well worth it,
it goes back to you can’t be in a good relationship untill you have a good one about you before the others then a great relationship /Partner will find. you Unfortunately those of us that fight with that for years don’t see it untill way after the fact or realization i Agree with this Woman her trip happened at the right time in her Life she was ready to be on her Own it was time to figure her Out on her Own and like Who she is in bad times we fool ourselves with jumping into relationships we probably would avoid when we are healthy mentally i’m glad she got it me getting it took Horrible Divorcethat fored me to. be on my own
Omg it makes sense I cried and healed the very moment you guys spoke about that type of fear . ❤ speechless now I’m just wondering how much i have tortured myself 😮😅
Sounds like you weren’t taking care of them in the morning and in the evening every day
Let her speak, this is about her not about you
Go for the nerds.
The problem is her.
So being a guy on the victim side were the wife cheated. Most people don't know the other person that the spouse cheats with. I grew up with the guy that the wife fucked. Now that's heart ach and the ultimate stabbed betrayal. But I got revenge on the ex and the guy. He was military got him dishonorable discharged and divorced. The military don't look kindly to adulterers acts on base, which they were caught on security vids. The ex-wife lives in a homeless shelter with nobody would take her in. Both kids don't want nothing to do with her by there choice. She made those choices so now she is taking the consequences for her actions. I even got all of my friends to never talk to him again too. Most people all you have to do is give people a nudge to take your side and destroy somebodies life. Deep down being the victim there are very few people I will ever trust. She kept saying you heal but that's a lie. You never heal being a victim. I have nightmares from the crap and its been 15 years already. I would rather be single the rest of my life. I got my 2 kids, 2 uncle's still alive that raised me and I'm good.
Seems like she was more bothered by the fact that other other woman was 19. Her age is irrelevant. It's the cheating that is the issue.
This is what happens when you lust over someone rather getting together over love
I would encourage you to become a Christian and follow Jesus. There is no "universe"
She sucked as a wife, and the husband decided to UPGRADE. Looks like she was a toxic selfish woman, and the ex-husband made the correct decision. If all these guys ditch you, maybe it's not them, but it's YOU.
Must be a reason both the guys abandoned her. I’m unhappy so you will be unhappy.
So are you attracting theses men or are you choosing theses men?
As a human being having to deal with infidelity is the worst. I was told my child was mine only to find out years after she left my daughter and I she showed up with a dna test proving ,y daughter was not my child. It sucked and it still does but gotta take it day by day
She left you alone to care for your daughter. While lack of genetic connection is incredibly painful for you, don’t put that on the innocent little girl. You raised her, she sees you as “Dad” - she is your daughter. If mother abandoned her with you, she has no right to then claim girl as her own. If you can, keep full custody.
She "showed up" with DNA evidence? I would definitely get my own test. After that, it's obviously up to you how you feel about your child.
I have seen women pull some tricks that you wouldn't think a person would have the gall to even try. Some of them have no shame, and are capable of anything.
I was worried that my daughter from my second marriage wasn't mine, because after I got married, my wife just couldn't seem to tell the truth about anything.
Thankfully, she is mine, but I would probably still love her just as much if she wasn't biologically mine.
It is, however, perfectly natural for man to not want to use resources on another man's kids.
Sorry brother
Why did your husband feel the need to find affirmation elsewhere?
No man is faithful. So if you think your husband is going to be faithful you are going to be heartbroken.
No man is faithful? I never cheated on none of my past partners but they all cheated on me, one of them even cheated on me with her boss. Infidelity has no gender, if you think otherwise, you’re ignorant and childish
This is dumb
I love that all I have to do is tune to your podcasts and thr universe starts revealing my truth to me. You interview people that have experienced what I'm going through in my life at the current moment. It's so helpful to my healing. Thank you
You need to learn more than heal
Biggest mistake a person can do take back someone who cheats . If you weren’t good enough the first time, what changed
Men like/desire multiple women. It's nature. Immsicknof hearing like men just do it because they are bored...too many women look through their lens and act as if men are built the same way. Men are extremely hard wired for multiple women and woman are not for multiple men..women seem to win here so maybe understand this or step up your bedroom game a lot more as a woman that is your main duty in a maiiriage/relationship then maybe the man won't cheat
I’ll never be abandoned because I’ll never abandon myself… wow… that resonated deeply with me. Home is where I am, wow..
No it didn’t
When you have been married over twenty years and you are fighting to deal with breast and come home to find out that your husband has moved out and is with another woman, that is painful! But as stated by an amazing young woman who was unable to beat her cancer, “You cannot wait until life isn’t hard anymore to decide to be happy” I wouldn’t buy your book as you have very little experience and though I have traveled the would on my own, most women, especially single Mom’s can’t afford to take a trip to heal. Sometimes you have to get therapy and pull yourself up by your boot straps. A vacation to heal, seems rather entitled.
You lost me when you said she was an actress. (Narcissistic psychopath) The title on the book is idiotic. The fact that she can leave life for a month shows that she has none. The whole thing stinks like a festering half consumed warthog on the Serengeti. Wouldn’t take any advice from either of you and wouldn’t use the book for toilet paper. Hard pass on the channel, the channel producer and the “actress” .
It happened because the guy didn't want to spend a month with this lady. Jesus after 6 minutes I had to turn off the channel because the bullshit got too deep. BLA BLA BLA
Wow so you even put pink dye in your hair like a 19 year old. You acted like a 19 year old and he still cheated with a real 19 year old. The real thing is always better than the generic fake.
Women expect a traditional man but refuse to act traditional themselves.
Who is the common denominator in these failed relationships?
Such a downer, this woman sounds cursed.
Heyyy my mom cheated on my dad with my 18 yo boyfriend. He forgave her, too!
If your husband can get a 19 year old, step up your game ladies. Stop feeling sorry for yourselves and smother your guy with love. No argument or rationalization can substitute for your feckless behavior. Win him over everyday and drop the selfishness.
No, this podcast is dumb. It’s about God not what you people want.
Poor Lady she didn’t heal from the firts relationship.
I wish he just said "FML." Podcasters always want to cuss.
A positive mindset is always the key to moving on. You can hurt, but dwelling on the negative will always bring negative influence into your life. Refusing to let negativity produces better paths for us in the nowcand moving forward. If you watch those who allow negativity to be a constant in their day to day life, negativity always finds them easy.
Ladies, don’t put all your eggs in one basket, have a career, girl friends, family, and your partner. You must maintain a support network. Have a career to support yourself. Diversification!
Damn the Ladies!!! Men don’t go through the same issues??? Men have it wwwwaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy worse. Remember.
Says the single lady
Join the movement boycott McDonald's
B105hes be getting married then acting reserved
Prioritize being a mother, a wife and a homemaker over your desire for a career and that will drastically reduce the chances of infidelity. Men want available feminine women, not career women.
Yes. I left my last boyfriend because he had the expectation that I would be 100% career driven which I am not.
Is it not that when we betrayed or aboundent ourselves, that when we attract ppl who just reflect this to us ?
Saw the black nails and stoped watching.
😂it was the pink in her hair for me
😆😅🤣🤣🤣🙄🙄🙄🙄-F'n chooch,,,-Gab,yer gettin desperate,,,,
How crazy is that? I had my son the same age my brother passed, which in turn I named my son after..
Is this Marc Anthony?
Another great conversation & realizations! Thank you 🎉🎉🎉
Young smells better
WOW, this reminded me of many males friends and co-workers complaining about their wives, who stopped performing. So they chase after girls who can perform.
She has great European DNA, perhaps Nordic. I would stay faithful. But why the need to be married. Faithfulness is more about a persons character, not a ring and ceremony at a church
She seems to like the "F" word.
You know 6 mos. In Europe consisted of her getting her back blown out by every European stud she found attractive. Good for her. I can’t imagine being cheated on. Been married 39 years and both of us had plenty of chances to cheat but I know I haven’t cheated and believe my wife hasn’t either. Hope she’s with a good partner she deserves.Hard to find but if you find your partner well worth it,
My Man
What about God you guys didn’t mention him
it goes back to you can’t be in a good relationship untill you have a good one about you before the others then a great relationship /Partner will find. you Unfortunately those of us that fight with that for years don’t see it untill way after the fact or realization i Agree with this Woman her trip happened at the right time in her Life she was ready to be on her Own it was time to figure her Out on her Own and like Who she is in bad times we fool ourselves with jumping into relationships we probably would avoid when we are healthy mentally i’m glad she got it me getting it took Horrible Divorcethat fored me to. be on my own
Omg it makes sense I cried and healed the very moment you guys spoke about that type of fear . ❤ speechless now I’m just wondering how much i have tortured myself 😮😅
I have followed your You Tube too Brother
OMH GABBY!!!!!! SOO HAPPY FOR THIS EPISODE ❤❤❤❤❤
It seems like she wasn’t keeping her man “happy”……That’ll destroy any marriage….fast!
Exactly
she wasn't a good wife. That's why he cheated
This women has yet to figure out why this keeps happening and it is her 1000 percent
Did you even watch the video? She took full responsibility for what was happening to her. She had her “aha moment.”
😂🎉🎉🎉
😢😢😢❤
Wow this lady truly is nuts........
Get you a 19 year old dude! That'll learn em! You're welcome!😊🤗