Jen absolutely spot on about not feeling safe in a relationship when sick or not making enough money etc. Ty Jen for talking about this. I thought it was just me❤❤❤👏👏👏
True. I was living w my future husband, came home exhausted from a brand new job and feeling overstimulated and just wanted to BE and have a hug from him. He freaked out, in a subtle but obvious way. Unfortunately I ignored that sign lol
This is my new favourite podcast, not only is it educational but so entertaining and heart warming! Gives me hope in my own journey of finding the one :)
We are all taught that crying is "bad" and to stop it. However, crying is just one of the expressions the feminine needs to express "true feelings" and release "feelings and heal"
This is something I realized recently. Before when I would cry, I would try to stop myself from feeling the sadness. To stop feeling bad. Something that I was brought up for me, is to cry just for a release. Just to let go of that limiting thought I have in my subconscious.
I'd agree that Jen spoke for most of women in the world about not feeling self when she's sick or feeling down or just tired and not performing, shout out to you guys, thank you for what you're bring to the world
I absolutely agree with you and Jen. Never felt 100% safe in a relationship. Actually up until 8 months ago I couldn't even define what a healed relationship could be
Curious about this to because he’s not reserved about communicating he was never in love w/ his ex wife. Has to be challenging for his ex if only because their kids have to unpack that.
The part about a woman not being able to feel safe around others to just be, when they don't feel well or are sick or have enough money, is SO SPOT ON. I think it's rare to feel truly safe and relaxed around others when we are in a vulnerable state. Most people just ignore it and carry on as if it's normal to have a nervous system always in fight/ flight mode even around those that you live with in close quarters. Thank you for verbalising it Jen because while I have always been aware of it you articulated it beautifully.
As a "twin flame" myself, I think y'all are definitely twin flames & is such a blessing to me in my journey! I'm so grateful I was led here. The personal stories are sooo healing & helpful!!
I continue to face my fears and overcome them in each segment. There is always something useful for me to sit with and sort out. The realness of these talks is such a soothing confirmation. And for Jen, I don't ever let children win either ... It builds character. 😅😂😂🤣💜💜💜
Yes, I agree. I have never felt safe with a relationship when I was feeling low and even sick. I have felt better on my own which is why I am still doing my own growth work and my bar for a relationship is high. Thank you for bringing this into a conversation.
Great video. I think the healed feminine has learned to allow herself enough love, space, and respect to take care of herself when she is sick and the healed masculine supports her to help her as well. An UNHEALED feminine is looking for approval from others to be able to take care of herself but healed feminine nurtures others including herself
These episodes made me go deeper in myself, which feels strange and confusing sometimes. But I know for certain that’s the route I want to take. These episodes is a for play to Awaken for me. I thank you Danny and Jen so much for sharing and being transparent with all of us. Jen opened a window in me when I used to fake I was sick when my stepdad use to fight my mom. With what you shared and the questions Danny made, I can go deep and heal myself. Thank you so much ☺️ ❤
I love how authentic you are! ❤ I could listen to the two of you all day long! Two beautiful souls, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!!! ❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️
Yes Danny sadly Jen is correct, in my experience, i married at 34 now going 3yrs married and even thought im comfortable with my voice my husband never lets me feel safe to express my Low emotions so i have to tone it down a bit or go to a friends/family or therapist to vent this emotions. But the odd thing is that when his mother acts negative he accepts her and defends her so that Leaves me feeling like “who the heck am I to him , does he even love me”🤔🤷♀️
Love the warm humor and easy going energy coupled with deep talk and serious life lessons. Jen is so down to earth and relatable and Danny is so direct and eloquent in expressing his thoughts. This podcast is such a treat. Keep 'em coming you guys!
❤❤❤❤ I LOVE the podcast and I am hooked on it … you are JUST CONFIRMING all what I have realized in my spiritual journey … I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability… sending you lots of love and light ❤❤❤
I think Dany is an empathy and probably in his childhood he was the one who had to calm everybody down from family fight , so he never learned to take care of his own security because he had to do it for his family so today he doesn't know how to secure himself other than take care of others, and the reason that he needs to be alone is to recenter himself , because us empath feel everybody's energy and feelings so we do need time alone to recenter on ourself
My ex-husband was exactly what you’re describing in the beginning of the video, he would only “allow me“ to be sick for a short period of time then he was starting nagging me about. When are you getting better? What the hell is wrong with you let’s get going let’s do something and when I would tell him to do it himself because I didn’t feel well. He just didn’t care. He was extremely selfish. Why we are divorced among many other reasons and I will never let anyone treat me like that again.
On the topic of feeling sick on a relationship or by themselves. We are still thinking that we have to have everything settled in the house or kids or whatever it is. Even though we are not feeling well. Because in our mind ,we have to do it, if we don't do it no one else will.... And this is mostly cultural and how a lot of us were raised or the example we saw in our mother's or mother figure...
Danny and Jen I love your genuinity and deep love for each other.I think you two represents the divine masculine and divine feminine energies. Your show is very enjoyable to watch and highly informative. I was hoping to attend awaken in London but couldn't due to financial and health issues. I hope to meet you two one day.
I find that men often time have trouble admitting their weaknesses, and to hear Danny say that he was not operating from his masculine energy, and that this brought out the masculine energy in Jen, such responsibility and maturity; beautiful and very masculine indeed.
I watched all of your episodes on one breath 😊 it's so inspiring on so many levels ❤thank you for sharing it publicly! You, guys, are truly amazing individuals ❤❤❤
You guys should start a dating app for the people who follow you and your students so that we can meet like-minded people that are on the same page with your teachings. This would save us soooo much time😅
Like this message if you have followed this podcast from episode 1 and cant wait for the next like your favorite show. Danny and Jen, I can't wait each week for this and great conversation and alignment with me and my love Thank you ❤.
You both are my favorite people on earth thank you for being so real and amazing loooved your shared stories it is such an eye opening and inspiring thank youuuu🫶🏻🫶🏻😍😍
Exactly @Danny, we need to be chosen , Man now does not have that courage, but that how does that mirror us as women, What are we not decive about ? What are you guys showing us ?
No way most relationships are not like this. Most give safe haven space w them. I must be super blessed cuz mine been amazing masculine men who truly took care of me completely and yes when sick
I did not felt safe in my other relationships also,when I felt vulnerable the masculine said often ,you are to sensitive, you overreact,,you will get past it (not judging but i think they applied what they heard in the family or parents said to them to get past it are mens or heard from father say to mother get over it , you complain alot or get past it and do the work at home or take care of the children...just being in survival mode and is sad) I never felt accepted by a man when I was sick , vulnerable ore sad..and many went on gaslighting and made me feel bad to feel normal in that second and feel that feelings or simtomp!now hearing you two i acknowledge this past reality I every time lived.....so sad to accept that and acknowledge that as being true!! I aspire to have a partner who is an empath and accept me in every mood and think is normal to be or feel that❣️
I feel mirrored in many ways to your story. I think I am also in a journey with my special partner, but I keep asking myself what is our separation stage. We live in very far apart countries, completely different. We met almos one year ago and have only been together twice, but each day we talk, write and try to see us facetime. I don't know if this is our separation phase... Can you talk about yours? Maybe there are different types of separation?
Interestingly I feel that most of my partners have preferred and enjoyed when I have been sick as I appeared more vulnerable and easier to control and manipulate …
I can relate to Jen as I am with a person that I truly feel is the one for me but has a crazy ex wife and 4 children. I feel like he doesn’t set boundaries and his ex has been trying for a year to break us up by creating drama and conflict. So many times I have wanted to throw in the towel, but I haven’t because I feel like this relationship is worth it and also because I am not going to allow his ex to dictate and control my life. I have only met the youngest. I am still nervous to meet the older 3 because of things that his ex tells them about me. I would like to know how Danny’s ex is towards Jen and how the children are towards her.
If there was so much discomfort, how did that not make you feel like it’s not the right thing for you? Did it “feel right” the whole time despite the discomfort?
Danny you come from a feminine energy and Jen from the masculine, so you are still providing feminine qualities that most men simply don't have. They cannot create a safe space for us to be vulnerable. Even my ex who was only raised by his mum could zero show up for me. He was used women to take care of him but could not give the same in return, hiding behind ego and a hard shell.
I agreeI agree with Jen at 18 minutes that whether on your own and particularly relationships, and speaking for myself at one time, you do NOT feel safe to be in your 💩 to feel safe to grow wvn in a good relationship...theres a stopping point and resentment and added stress. Because of my journey of healing I have connected woth another being who just allows me to be and the connection is the most healthiest and beautiful I have ever been in that I just thought would never happen to or for me but always wanted. And here we are...it's happening 🥰🌸🫂.
very good podcast- you can feel how real it is- love that
💯 the feminine wants to be chosen and pursued and this is really lacking today …
Jen absolutely spot on about not feeling safe in a relationship when sick or not making enough money etc. Ty Jen for talking about this. I thought it was just me❤❤❤👏👏👏
True. I was living w my future husband, came home exhausted from a brand new job and feeling overstimulated and just wanted to BE and have a hug from him. He freaked out, in a subtle but obvious way. Unfortunately I ignored that sign lol
This is my new favourite podcast, not only is it educational but so entertaining and heart warming! Gives me hope in my own journey of finding the one :)
I’m 67 and I’m for the first time feeling safe in My relationship. Healing journey is so important for both.
You two guys are amazing ! God Bless you & Thank you so much for this priceless knowledge & experience shared❤❤❤❤❤
We are all taught that crying is "bad" and to stop it. However, crying is just one of the expressions the feminine needs to express "true feelings" and release "feelings and heal"
This is something I realized recently. Before when I would cry, I would try to stop myself from feeling the sadness. To stop feeling bad. Something that I was brought up for me, is to cry just for a release. Just to let go of that limiting thought I have in my subconscious.
I'd agree that Jen spoke for most of women in the world about not feeling self when she's sick or feeling down or just tired and not performing, shout out to you guys, thank you for what you're bring to the world
I would have to agree with Jen. I have never felt security in any of my relationships. Must keep going .
I absolutely agree with you and Jen. Never felt 100% safe in a relationship. Actually up until 8 months ago I couldn't even define what a healed relationship could be
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I’d love to hear about how Danny’s relationship is with his ex wife …also Jen with the ex? Perhaps in a future podcast. Thanks
Curious about this to because he’s not reserved about communicating he was never in love w/ his ex wife. Has to be challenging for his ex if only because their kids have to unpack that.
I agree with Danny. From time memorial, the feminine wants to be chosen at every level. And yes i wanna be seen and be chosen at all times.
The part about a woman not being able to feel safe around others to just be, when they don't feel well or are sick or have enough money, is SO SPOT ON. I think it's rare to feel truly safe and relaxed around others when we are in a vulnerable state. Most people just ignore it and carry on as if it's normal to have a nervous system always in fight/ flight mode even around those that you live with in close quarters. Thank you for verbalising it Jen because while I have always been aware of it you articulated it beautifully.
As a "twin flame" myself, I think y'all are definitely twin flames & is such a blessing to me in my journey! I'm so grateful I was led here. The personal stories are sooo healing & helpful!!
That was so good. So on point. And yes… jen is correct, it is usually not safe for a woman to be sick or feel sick with an unhealed man 💯💙🙏🏻
I continue to face my fears and overcome them in each segment. There is always something useful for me to sit with and sort out. The realness of these talks is such a soothing confirmation. And for Jen, I don't ever let children win either ... It builds character. 😅😂😂🤣💜💜💜
Yes, I agree. I have never felt safe with a relationship when I was feeling low and even sick. I have felt better on my own which is why I am still doing my own growth work and my bar for a relationship is high. Thank you for bringing this into a conversation.
Jen is 100% accurate about women in today’s society not feeling safe to “just be” when in a relationship. It’s unfortunate 😢
I agree. So many things she stated....I felt seen and understood like wow!
Great video. I think the healed feminine has learned to allow herself enough love, space, and respect to take care of herself when she is sick and the healed masculine supports her to help her as well. An UNHEALED feminine is looking for approval from others to be able to take care of herself but healed feminine nurtures others including herself
These episodes made me go deeper in myself, which feels strange and confusing sometimes. But I know for certain that’s the route I want to take. These episodes is a for play to Awaken for me. I thank you Danny and Jen so much for sharing and being transparent with all of us. Jen opened a window in me when I used to fake I was sick when my stepdad use to fight my mom. With what you shared and the questions Danny made, I can go deep and heal myself. Thank you so much ☺️ ❤
I love how authentic you are! ❤
I could listen to the two of you all day long! Two beautiful souls, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!!! ❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️
19:45 when Jen described healed relationships. I want to have that.
Yes Danny sadly Jen is correct, in my experience, i married at 34 now going 3yrs married and even thought im comfortable with my voice my husband never lets me feel safe to express my Low emotions so i have to tone it down a bit or go to a friends/family or therapist to vent this emotions. But the odd thing is that when his mother acts negative he accepts her and defends her so that Leaves me feeling like “who the heck am I to him , does he even love me”🤔🤷♀️
Danny that’s so powerful! Noticing what was coming up for you and in you with the situation of wanting to make everyone happy. I’ve done this
Wow. Every episode gets me. At this point, I’m going to start journaling and reflecting with your words. Thank you both!!
I look forward to the podcast every monday ❤
Love the warm humor and easy going energy coupled with deep talk and serious life lessons. Jen is so down to earth and relatable and Danny is so direct and eloquent in expressing his thoughts. This podcast is such a treat. Keep 'em coming you guys!
This podcast is amazing.You're amazing danny and jen❤❤❤
18:00 minutes, yes Jen you are spot on!
❤❤❤❤ I LOVE the podcast and I am hooked on it … you are JUST CONFIRMING all what I have realized in my spiritual journey … I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability… sending you lots of love and light ❤❤❤
I think Dany is an empathy and probably in his childhood he was the one who had to calm everybody down from family fight , so he never learned to take care of his own security because he had to do it for his family so today he doesn't know how to secure himself other than take care of others, and the reason that he needs to be alone is to recenter himself , because us empath feel everybody's energy and feelings so we do need time alone to recenter on ourself
My ex-husband was exactly what you’re describing in the beginning of the video, he would only “allow me“ to be sick for a short period of time then he was starting nagging me about. When are you getting better? What the hell is wrong with you let’s get going let’s do something and when I would tell him to do it himself because I didn’t feel well. He just didn’t care. He was extremely selfish. Why we are divorced among many other reasons and I will never let anyone treat me like that again.
I am LOVING this show! It is SO helpful!
INCREDIBLE!!!! You guys are just incredible! Had so many revelations whilst watching this 😊
I agree with Jen about the part of women not feeling safe to just be… sadly it is most common
I'm enjoying your podcast so much! I've been binge-listening for the past couple of days :) thank you for sharing your story and your wisdom!
Absolutely loving evening minute of this podcast! ❤
This is so relatable Jen - thank you!❤
I absolutely love the authentic way both speak.
On the topic of feeling sick on a relationship or by themselves. We are still thinking that we have to have everything settled in the house or kids or whatever it is. Even though we are not feeling well. Because in our mind ,we have to do it, if we don't do it no one else will.... And this is mostly cultural and how a lot of us were raised or the example we saw in our mother's or mother figure...
One of my fav episodes so far! Thank you.
17:45....I feel her so much! Thank you for speaking about that.
Danny and Jen I love your genuinity and deep love for each other.I think you two represents the divine masculine and divine feminine energies. Your show is very enjoyable to watch and highly informative.
I was hoping to attend awaken in London but couldn't due to financial and health issues. I hope to meet you two one day.
I find that men often time have trouble admitting their weaknesses, and to hear Danny say that he was not operating from his masculine energy, and that this brought out the masculine energy in Jen, such responsibility and maturity; beautiful and very masculine indeed.
Absolutely amazing ❤️❤️
Yes, absolutely. She is correct. It is not generally a safe experience for women to let their guard down in relationships.
I just keep noticing Jens muscles & how fit she is 💪🏽 very motivating 🤍
Danny is so lovely towards Jen 😊
I watched all of your episodes on one breath 😊 it's so inspiring on so many levels ❤thank you for sharing it publicly! You, guys, are truly amazing individuals ❤❤❤
Jen is right I’ve been in a relationship for 14years and I have been able to feel safe or like I can rely on him
Thank you both for Being super honest about everything ❤
I welcome all the e motions like guests in my house.❤❤❤
Thank you guys! You are amazing ❤
You guys should start a dating app for the people who follow you and your students so that we can meet like-minded people that are on the same page with your teachings. This would save us soooo much time😅
Like this message if you have followed this podcast from episode 1 and cant wait for the next like your favorite show.
Danny and Jen, I can't wait each week for this and great conversation and alignment with me and my love
Thank you ❤.
You both are my favorite people on earth thank you for being so real and amazing
loooved your shared stories it is such an eye opening and inspiring thank youuuu🫶🏻🫶🏻😍😍
“Don’t get your knickers in a twist”… Noted. 😅
I love this today
And talk more about long distant relationships
I'm enjoying your podcasts a lot. ❤
So inspiring thank you guys
Exactly @Danny, we need to be chosen , Man now does not have that courage, but that how does that mirror us as women, What are we not decive about ? What are you guys showing us ?
Oh... good point
17.55 mins - I agree with Jen!
I agree the feminine wants to be chosen.
Danny 23:11 - that is so me, people pleaser 🙈 that is so hard...
No way most relationships are not like this. Most give safe haven space w them. I must be super blessed cuz mine been amazing masculine men who truly took care of me completely and yes when sick
Love yall!
I did not felt safe in my other relationships also,when I felt vulnerable the masculine said often ,you are to sensitive, you overreact,,you will get past it (not judging but i think they applied what they heard in the family or parents said to them to get past it are mens or heard from father say to mother get over it , you complain alot or get past it and do the work at home or take care of the children...just being in survival mode and is sad) I never felt accepted by a man when I was sick , vulnerable ore sad..and many went on gaslighting and made me feel bad to feel normal in that second and feel that feelings or simtomp!now hearing you two i acknowledge this past reality I every time lived.....so sad to accept that and acknowledge that as being true!! I aspire to have a partner who is an empath and accept me in every mood and think is normal to be or feel that❣️
The next one is going to be juicy! Yeah!
love love love it. you two are so adorable and funny :)
I feel mirrored in many ways to your story. I think I am also in a journey with my special partner, but I keep asking myself what is our separation stage. We live in very far apart countries, completely different. We met almos one year ago and have only been together twice, but each day we talk, write and try to see us facetime. I don't know if this is our separation phase...
Can you talk about yours? Maybe there are different types of separation?
I'm not following either of you but this podcast is fucking gold! 😁
I just LOVE Danny’s laugh. He laughs like a billionaire 😂
Damn that’s a wild cliff hanger 😂😩
Interestingly I feel that most of my partners have preferred and enjoyed when I have been sick as I appeared more vulnerable and easier to control and manipulate …
I love that jen has a lively English accent..its like the ying and yang .. and danny has American accent you do male me chuckle 😅
I can relate to Jen as I am with a person that I truly feel is the one for me but has a crazy ex wife and 4 children. I feel like he doesn’t set boundaries and his ex has been trying for a year to break us up by creating drama and conflict. So many times I have wanted to throw in the towel, but I haven’t because I feel like this relationship is worth it and also because I am not going to allow his ex to dictate and control my life. I have only met the youngest. I am still nervous to meet the older 3 because of things that his ex tells them about me. I would like to know how Danny’s ex is towards Jen and how the children are towards her.
If there was so much discomfort, how did that not make you feel like it’s not the right thing for you? Did it “feel right” the whole time despite the discomfort?
I think men are pursuers, and women are the ones who choose
Jane is right. Generally speaking, women don’t feel safe to just be while in relationship…
Home my safe place.....that's so like me. That I will even run out of hospital to be treated from my house.
Yeeeeeeeeeahhh! ❤🎉
But where is episode 4?? 😢
Wish this was two hours 😂
Danny you come from a feminine energy and Jen from the masculine, so you are still providing feminine qualities that most men simply don't have. They cannot create a safe space for us to be vulnerable. Even my ex who was only raised by his mum could zero show up for me. He was used women to take care of him but could not give the same in return, hiding behind ego and a hard shell.
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Yes … on the end we are just human beeings
so cute
100%
Hopefully you are not Shallow Hal...lol😊😊😊😊
Nope on the cheating. I would not be able to recover from something that intimate. Hard pass, walking away
I agreeI agree with Jen at 18 minutes that whether on your own and particularly relationships, and speaking for myself at one time, you do NOT feel safe to be in your 💩 to feel safe to grow wvn in a good relationship...theres a stopping point and resentment and added stress.
Because of my journey of healing I have connected woth another being who just allows me to be and the connection is the most healthiest and beautiful I have ever been in that I just thought would never happen to or for me but always wanted. And here we are...it's happening 🥰🌸🫂.
Keep doing.
This amazing episodes🫂🩷🩷