In my opinion the moment you choose one child over the other you end up loosing all of them.That’s the lesson that all the golden child Reddit stories have taught me 😢
The mother is a fool and will one day realize the error of her ways and what she has callously thrown away. The father saw what he was about to lose and jumped into action to salvage what he could and now he has a stronger bond with the majority of his children. The father has all his children in his life while the mother only has two ( Lexie is too young to decide to go NC).
Tbh the mother sounds like narc. There is no way in hell that she admits her wrongdoings (unless she is forced to do it). Erin is just carbon copy narc. Both women found enabling partners. Good for OP's dad that he finally got rid of the mist that clouded his eyes and that he even grew some spine.
@@royal-wolf exactly this. My late MIL was a classic Narc. She died alone, still blaming my husband and daughter why she couldn't be in contact with my stepson, aka, her golden grandchild
Nah you can get married as many times as you want, you can have 3 weddings to the same person every 10 years, divorce and marry someone else, become a widow and remarry. You only get ONE high school graduation.
The mom: I love you all equally. OP: Really? You love us as much as Erin? Mom: I didn't say _that._ I love all of YOU equally. Obviously, I love Erin more.
I envy the relationship these siblings have. My own relationships with my siblings are severely strained (from both sides, I really didn't help the outcome unfortunately) and i have 0 idea how to even begin repairing after so many years of strained encounters.
You're a great brother, you should be proud that you helped your sister. You stepped up and showed her that you loved and valued her, and for that, she will always be grateful to you.
I’m so glad their dad actually listened to them and used his brain to see the truth. I think part of why OP’s mom is so adamant on villanizing her other children is that she refuses to admit that she was wrong. If she had half a brain and actually did love her children even just a little bit, she’d know, deep down, that what she did was wrong. Unfortunately, she decided to act like a bratty 5 y.o. instead of an adult.
Dad went home and pondered the family history. He realized he had been ignorant to the fact Erin kept being a common denominator with each event and understood his mistakes. Mom didnt have a reason to reflect, she hadnt made any mistakes.
I have 8 siblings (6 brothers and im the youngest and a female). This is a Disney show in comparison to the hell I grew up in lol Honestly this man is SO LUCKY I'm No contact with my entire family. Main reason is because they bullied my sister into her own self-unaliving. Literally egging her on to and then kicking her out of the family home when she had nowhere to go and was struggling mentally. Telling your own sister to stop existing and that you wouldn't miss her. They've said the same to me. I still struggle to come to terms with the fact that an arsenal of people let her and i down growing up. Makes it hard to trust anyone.
And as soon as a “miracle” child comes in they don’t care about the others and push them aside and give the world to the “miracle child”. And just throw insults and call the other children selfish for wanting at least 1 moment of attention from their parents. It’s sickening… Hey I was a premature child too and shit happened- but my mom didn’t spoil me or anything just treated me like a regular child- Really hate on how when stuff like this happens the siblings are always the ones that suffer the most cuz their parents don’t want to take responsibility for their actions and blame them for it. It’s sad..
This reminds me of two stories where the parents kept letting the golden sibling steal OP's birthdays... parents who choose favorites are the worst. Kudos to that dad for realizing how wrong he was and trying to make things right while he still can. As for the mother and Erin, they can be alone in their narcissistic bubble for the rest of their lives.
I think I remember that one is it the one where the family finally stood up for OP and the sister went to boarding school, was kicked out then all put in a ward or a different one?
@@itsjustmaddisen One of them was that one. The other was about OP's parents letting his younger brother blow out his candles up and showing extreme favoritism until OP's 13th birthday, when he put his foot down and an aunt supported him. The brother threw a tantrum and almost ruined the party. Then, the following, year, the parents canceled OP's birthday party to prevent the brother from having another tantrum, and grounded him when he complained about it at school. OP then complained online and the entire neighborhood shunned the parents, to the point that they made a last-minute surprise party for OP the following day to save face. The mother even have to take the brother away to prevent him from having a tantrum. When OP moved out at 18, the parents finally had to deal with the monster they created: the brother, now 14, destroyed the house in a fit of rage when he was denied a PS5. The parents now want to send him to military school, but don't have the money to do so. There's even a sequel story to that one, about how the brother ruined two birthday parties of other kids, resulting in him and the parents being banned from birthday parties all over the neighborhood.
I calling it now, the mother is a lost cause. She will still prioritize her golden child over her other kids and in the end, will have no relationship anyone them. All the while thinking she did nothing wrong.
@@Lonardeath I want whatever you’re smoking. Saying first is just unnecessary. No one’s gonna be all excited for you when I and so so so many others find it annoying
This is such a great story. OP doesn't back down but isn't a doormat anymore. Erin is shown her place and everyone except mean people are happy. This is what real life is.
There’s been an update: everyone (including the golden child) cut off the mom. Golden child got an ultimatum from her husband: cut contact or get divorced. She chose the first option. The parents are officially divorced, and the siblings only see their youngest sister when dad has her for the week. OP got engaged, mom found out, and tried to force her way back in. The official position of the siblings is that she has to admit that she is a bad parent and go to therapy for a while before they agree to even consider talking to her.
Erin is mom's favourite daughter and if truly, but I mean taking her to breaking point, and confront her, she will scream that yes Erin is more important than all of them
My problem is that the dad still went to the wedding. I think that is worse than the mom going. Having fully admitted that Erin did this crappy thing, he still rewarded Erin and punished Nadia.
Chances are the end result of this is semi permanent estrangement and divorce. Even the GC is getting concerned with the mothers delusions, and if she does change that change is likely to unravel the moment she gets what she wants. That's an unfortunate aspect in relationships [ like any, not just love ] , that change is motivated by the lack of something and very little commit to change if they get the desire back and feel comfortable again. The moment the mother made the claim that Erin was a miracle baby, was the true moment the deal was sealed. It demonstrated that in her mind the child deserves to always be on a pedestal because of that sole event. That's at 20+ years of cementing in this mental state, and its unlikely its going to break in the following years. Judging by the updates OP Gave, its more likely that it may never break until she has nothing left, but by that point, the damage is done to those around her.
You can have 4 weddings but you only 1 to 3 Graduations and that's all there is (I say 1 to 3 graduations because sure most of us are pursuing Bachelor's degree but some are pursuing masters and even doctorate) unless you're in HS where you only have 1
I would have already put daughter in her place and when she scheduled stuff during other people's events wouldn't have shown up , told her to move it or no family the parents should have stepped up and told her to stop and that they would be having a party for daughter leaving high school like all the other kids got
Lol the girl in the story acted like “it’s” life was worthless so everyone else acted like hers was too…..never mind the lol it’s rlly sad. I think I’ve been desensitized tho from all of those true crime documentary’s
@@stevenmanson6720 Well where I live it does have to be that way. Or at least people get married before/ right after the delivery. Sorry if this sounded dumb but that's what I'm used to. To be clear, it is not illegal to do so but dating/live-in culture is not morally accepted here and the society won't treat an illegitimate child the same as a legitimate one, and the couple will be shunned by society
It never fails: when one kid is a narcissist, it’s because they’re a carbon copy of one of the parents.
That is the "Moooootheeeeerrrr" haha
True, but I was impressed when even Erin, the carbon copy, told their mother to reconsider.
i suspect the golden child is an affair child
@@oteckieooh that'd be juicy
In my opinion the moment you choose one child over the other you end up loosing all of them.That’s the lesson that all the golden child Reddit stories have taught me 😢
The mother is a fool and will one day realize the error of her ways and what she has callously thrown away. The father saw what he was about to lose and jumped into action to salvage what he could and now he has a stronger bond with the majority of his children. The father has all his children in his life while the mother only has two ( Lexie is too young to decide to go NC).
Tbh the mother sounds like narc. There is no way in hell that she admits her wrongdoings (unless she is forced to do it). Erin is just carbon copy narc. Both women found enabling partners. Good for OP's dad that he finally got rid of the mist that clouded his eyes and that he even grew some spine.
She already knows, but she will stay 10 toes down until Erin tells her that she won't look after her in her old age.
She won't realize. She'll be alone, seething with anger and blaming her entire family for her misery
The sad part is one day the mother will wonder why nobody visits her in the nursing home. She'll likely die alone
@@royal-wolf exactly this. My late MIL was a classic Narc. She died alone, still blaming my husband and daughter why she couldn't be in contact with my stepson, aka, her golden grandchild
Nah you can get married as many times as you want, you can have 3 weddings to the same person every 10 years, divorce and marry someone else, become a widow and remarry. You only get ONE high school graduation.
unless your an immortal vampire
@@kingthe13 this is the high school diploma of a killer, bella
@@kingthe13 😂😂😂
So TRUE lol especially in western countries
Jep in my case only when you finish high school. I know in America they basically do it for every class or when the kid goes to the next step. 😅
I don't care how many siblings you've got, no way you are getting lost in the crowd with 20 meters or more my dude.
Only unless everyone else is above 20m
This comment made me belly laugh. Thank you.
As a blind person I have to put up with this all the time 😂 also with ST, FT and TLDR amongst others.
Nadia! Baby girl graduating high school is a huge accomplishment and we’re all so very proud of you! Continue to shine!
What a twist that the golden child got tired of the mess.
I was about to say this. Even she told the mother to just take the L and apologize lmfao. That's how you know the mother was always the issue lmfao.
I'm glad they at least have 1 sensible parent.
Slightly he did admit to the favouritism
The mom: I love you all equally.
OP: Really? You love us as much as Erin?
Mom: I didn't say _that._ I love all of YOU equally. Obviously, I love Erin more.
Lmao 😂 😂😂
Truly a "no, not like that" moment
I envy the relationship these siblings have. My own relationships with my siblings are severely strained (from both sides, I really didn't help the outcome unfortunately) and i have 0 idea how to even begin repairing after so many years of strained encounters.
Ah yes the 23 meters person
AI lol 😆 😂
The delivery must have been hell
Dont forget the 28 meters brother
@@iisquiddiesquidwhat about the 49 meters person with a 51 fahrenheit partner
@@f687sNFMyou're right we cant forget them either
OP is a good brother.
An amazing one.
You're a great brother, you should be proud that you helped your sister. You stepped up and showed her that you loved and valued her, and for that, she will always be grateful to you.
Mom needs to go to therapy ASAP. Even a narcissist PoS like Erin is telling her that she is in the wrong.
I’m so glad their dad actually listened to them and used his brain to see the truth. I think part of why OP’s mom is so adamant on villanizing her other children is that she refuses to admit that she was wrong. If she had half a brain and actually did love her children even just a little bit, she’d know, deep down, that what she did was wrong. Unfortunately, she decided to act like a bratty 5 y.o. instead of an adult.
I bet her 4yo acts more mature than her
Dad went home and pondered the family history. He realized he had been ignorant to the fact Erin kept being a common denominator with each event and understood his mistakes. Mom didnt have a reason to reflect, she hadnt made any mistakes.
I have 8 siblings (6 brothers and im the youngest and a female). This is a Disney show in comparison to the hell I grew up in lol
Honestly this man is SO LUCKY
I'm No contact with my entire family.
Main reason is because they bullied my sister into her own self-unaliving. Literally egging her on to and then kicking her out of the family home when she had nowhere to go and was struggling mentally.
Telling your own sister to stop existing and that you wouldn't miss her. They've said the same to me. I still struggle to come to terms with the fact that an arsenal of people let her and i down growing up. Makes it hard to trust anyone.
Parents are irresponsible for having so many unplanned children and not learning from that mistake. And then treating them differently based on it
And as soon as a “miracle” child comes in they don’t care about the others and push them aside and give the world to the “miracle child”. And just throw insults and call the other children selfish for wanting at least 1 moment of attention from their parents. It’s sickening…
Hey I was a premature child too and shit happened- but my mom didn’t spoil me or anything just treated me like a regular child-
Really hate on how when stuff like this happens the siblings are always the ones that suffer the most cuz their parents don’t want to take responsibility for their actions and blame them for it. It’s sad..
This reminds me of two stories where the parents kept letting the golden sibling steal OP's birthdays... parents who choose favorites are the worst.
Kudos to that dad for realizing how wrong he was and trying to make things right while he still can. As for the mother and Erin, they can be alone in their narcissistic bubble for the rest of their lives.
I think I remember that one is it the one where the family finally stood up for OP and the sister went to boarding school, was kicked out then all put in a ward or a different one?
@@itsjustmaddisen One of them was that one.
The other was about OP's parents letting his younger brother blow out his candles up and showing extreme favoritism until OP's 13th birthday, when he put his foot down and an aunt supported him. The brother threw a tantrum and almost ruined the party.
Then, the following, year, the parents canceled OP's birthday party to prevent the brother from having another tantrum, and grounded him when he complained about it at school. OP then complained online and the entire neighborhood shunned the parents, to the point that they made a last-minute surprise party for OP the following day to save face. The mother even have to take the brother away to prevent him from having a tantrum.
When OP moved out at 18, the parents finally had to deal with the monster they created: the brother, now 14, destroyed the house in a fit of rage when he was denied a PS5. The parents now want to send him to military school, but don't have the money to do so.
There's even a sequel story to that one, about how the brother ruined two birthday parties of other kids, resulting in him and the parents being banned from birthday parties all over the neighborhood.
@DarkEinherjar do you know where I can look up that story either on RUclips or the original reddit link? I kinda want to hear it now lol.
@@itsjustmaddisen It's on rSlash. The video title is "r/Entitledparents GIVE MY SON YOUR BIRTHDAY PARTY!"
@DarkEinherjar thank you! I haven't seen rslash in ages so I'll have a look.
What is this a family of giants?
Lmaooooo
Well yeah, they had their dad around to bring milk. That's why they grew up so much,
I calling it now, the mother is a lost cause. She will still prioritize her golden child over her other kids and in the end, will have no relationship anyone them.
All the while thinking she did nothing wrong.
Here to stop kids from saying first
5th
The hero we needed
👑 you dropped this
1st and 2ed u need to stop spoiling everyone's fun
3rd u said first in yr comment
4th yr r the kid now
@@Lonardeath I want whatever you’re smoking. Saying first is just unnecessary. No one’s gonna be all excited for you when I and so so so many others find it annoying
This is such a great story. OP doesn't back down but isn't a doormat anymore. Erin is shown her place and everyone except mean people are happy. This is what real life is.
That’s a good big brother 😭😭
Why the hell do parents have the need to have a favorite child and just spoil them? Hell sakes.
It's very clear that Nadia absolutely loves her brother and is grateful for what he did for her ❤ W brother
12:10 “And that she loved us all equally” lmao
This is messed up
Bro how you watch in 1 sec?
@@Thecherryblossomki he just built different
@@Thecherryblossomki you don’t wanna know
@@Thecherryblossomki idk
@@Thecherryblossomki idk
Yohhh 23meters my guy, new wirld record, ladies must love you
oh it gets worse
If i had a sister this is the kind of brother i would aspire to be
Congratulations on your graduation and your accomplishments in school and choosing your future for yourself is amazing wish you luck in life
There’s been an update: everyone (including the golden child) cut off the mom. Golden child got an ultimatum from her husband: cut contact or get divorced. She chose the first option. The parents are officially divorced, and the siblings only see their youngest sister when dad has her for the week. OP got engaged, mom found out, and tried to force her way back in. The official position of the siblings is that she has to admit that she is a bad parent and go to therapy for a while before they agree to even consider talking to her.
ahh yes i also know a 28 meters person
hope he updates, either a seething Erin or an happy ending idc I'm too invested lol
the golden child is the most tacky person ever.
cmon. announcing anything at a party you didnt set up is shitty.
The fact that the golden child sister told the mom to cool off... Wow
Erin may be a spoiled brat, but she's not an idiot. Even she realized things were serious when the dad left.
OP is a true sibling.
Lmfao!! Even the golden child eventually told mom to just take the L and apologize. Thats how you know it was always the mother that was the problem
I'd tell Erin not to worry, I'll go to her next wedding.
No way my mans are all 20+ meters tall☠️
Finally a story where the father found out he had a spine
I love these really tall people, they give us such interesting stories
Reddit stories from Jotunheim with love
Erin is mom's favourite daughter and if truly, but I mean taking her to breaking point, and confront her, she will scream that yes Erin is more important than all of them
giant people's drama, I can't empathise
The giants have access to reddit now? 😂😂
Bro when I started watching this channel I was like” how can a human be so tall
Who let giants use reddit ?
Giants are REALL
“Loved us all equally” my ass
Shit theyre a family of giants😅
Is it really that hard to fix the voice ai from reading out metres
No, but these channels don't care.
Why does it matter?
Oh no it said meters instead of m the story is ruined 😢
What can i say. They are kinda tall family... OP is 23 meters...
Repost?
My problem is that the dad still went to the wedding. I think that is worse than the mom going. Having fully admitted that Erin did this crappy thing, he still rewarded Erin and punished Nadia.
What kind of people are this, 23 meters???
I am the youngest of 5 and I am a premature baby but my parents didn't treat me any different
What a mom danm
Chances are the end result of this is semi permanent estrangement and divorce. Even the GC is getting concerned with the mothers delusions, and if she does change that change is likely to unravel the moment she gets what she wants. That's an unfortunate aspect in relationships [ like any, not just love ] , that change is motivated by the lack of something and very little commit to change if they get the desire back and feel comfortable again.
The moment the mother made the claim that Erin was a miracle baby, was the true moment the deal was sealed. It demonstrated that in her mind the child deserves to always be on a pedestal because of that sole event. That's at 20+ years of cementing in this mental state, and its unlikely its going to break in the following years. Judging by the updates OP Gave, its more likely that it may never break until she has nothing left, but by that point, the damage is done to those around her.
Bruhhhhh golden child content 😉☝️
you know, I could have sworn there was another update to this story
It would seem that mom just chose her caretaker for old age.
Also, little Lexie will def kick her to the curve once she gets upstaged by Erin
You better not plan on going to the golden child’s funeral. Or the mother’s
You can have 4 weddings but you only 1 to 3 Graduations and that's all there is (I say 1 to 3 graduations because sure most of us are pursuing Bachelor's degree but some are pursuing masters and even doctorate) unless you're in HS where you only have 1
George ¡GET OUT OF THERE!
Damn tall kids. Lol
I would have already put daughter in her place and when she scheduled stuff during other people's events wouldn't have shown up , told her to move it or no family the parents should have stepped up and told her to stop and that they would be having a party for daughter leaving high school like all the other kids got
23 meters what!?😭😭😭
Holy f*ck they're tall, 23 metres?!
Baby-sitter? Baby shower?
Lol the girl in the story acted like “it’s” life was worthless so everyone else acted like hers was too…..never mind the lol it’s rlly sad. I think I’ve been desensitized tho from all of those true crime documentary’s
Was this a report or an update?
Congrats on the wedding!
Is there a more recent update?
fix the auto meters, then I'll actually comment on the video and think of liking it.
Good man.
Those are some big kids.
Bots are crap! For 30meters and further.
Wonder if Erin is an affair baby
The father asked his wife to take accountability, let's say it again, a woman taking accountability. That's the best joke I've heard in a while
😂😂😂
I, 23 meters,
Stick to your guns Erin is awful
What does aita, d day, op mean? Guys help me im new here!
Am I the asshole D Day idk 🤷♂️and op is original poster
10:48 OP has a child but is unmarried? AI story or is it intentional?
Edit: Nvm im dumb
You have a fundamental misunderstanding of how reproduction works
Please think before commenting 😭
Didn't know u had to get married to make babys
Omg people can have children before marriage?! Incredible... /sar
@@stevenmanson6720 Well where I live it does have to be that way. Or at least people get married before/ right after the delivery. Sorry if this sounded dumb but that's what I'm used to.
To be clear, it is not illegal to do so but dating/live-in culture is not morally accepted here and the society won't treat an illegitimate child the same as a legitimate one, and the couple will be shunned by society
I, 23 meters,